I know you reserve the greater part of your channel for lovely makeup and skincare, but these kinds of videos really show what a lovely person you are, Becky. I sometimes worry that if I comment lovely things on every one of your videos, I might come across as an OTT obsessive stalker hahaha, but videos like this make me think that those kinds of comments are much-needed because we never know if someone's struggling with self doubt of feelings of worthlessness on the other side of the screen. I suffer with bouts of short-lasting depression and have always suffered with my sense of self-worth and so I really enjoyed hearing your thoughts on such an important point of discussion xx
@Rougepout7 жыл бұрын
Jess, so lovely to hear from you and thank you so much for commenting on this video. You are welcome to comment on every video if you wish, many do and it is lovely for me to read the comments and stay in touch with the people I make the videos for. You are spot on when you mention that we don't know the struggles of others and it is often, sadly, the case that it is after the event people realise the fight someone has been through. I have been so touched by the comments after this video and the willingness of so many lovely people to share their story and struggles. I will be filming more of these, in the hope we can all support each other and maybe help in some small way. Lucy Rayner and her family have been and are going through so much, but, thanks to them I made this video and we have people talking, in the name of Lucy that makes me so proud of everyone. You take care lovely and I am always here for you x
@BeautyByJenny7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this xx
@Rougepout7 жыл бұрын
x, Jenny, thank you for watching my lovely x
@lovinglife65267 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I too live with depression. First time after my son was born but then again when I hit the menopause. Hormone triggered? Who knows. I lived in a bubble, as you say detached. The tears and blackness are overwhelming. Yes I needed my friends but dared not speak. Ultimately I lost my closest friend because of my distance. Very sad times. I'm good now, but can sure empathise with anyone who suffers. Take care of yourself xoxo
@Rougepout7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience and I can relate to so much you say, the blackness, tears - interesting your query on the hormones, I often wonder at this. I am so pleased you are in a good place now, it's good to hear and see the comments for this video, thank you for taking the time, it is so appreciated. Hugs x
@Dominiquetd7 жыл бұрын
As a fellow depression sufferer, I salute you for this video. Not to go too much into detail but depression is and will always be there for me. I feel for Lucy's family especially as they didn't see it coming as I told no one about what I was going through either. I'm glad you managed to get well and hopefully people will see this get the help they need. Thank you. XX
@Rougepout7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts my lovely x
@gailhenderson71967 жыл бұрын
I think this is a great video. Such a massive problem nowadays, and as you say, people still don't talk enough about mental health issues. I suffered from depression and took anti-depressants for several months, which really helped me. This was during the breakup of my marriage and having an early menopause. Last year, the sister of a close friend ended her life and she had struggled with severe depression for years and was in her 30s. SO very sad and heartbreaking for those left behind. I think life is tough nowadays, with people feeling more isolated - a massive problem. THank you for bringing this subject up and having courage to discuss such personal issues with us. Xxxx
@Rougepout7 жыл бұрын
Gail, thank you for sharing your story, I have been so overwhelmed by the generosity of people talking openly about their own experiences, it's heartbreaking to read but, wonderful that people are talking about it. I will film further videos on this topic, certainly from my own experience as I took medication and received counselling. Thank you for watching and taking the time to comment, I will be showing this to the family of Lucy and the foundation in her name, I know they will feel such compassion but also that, in Lucy's name, so many people have spoken freely from watching this video. x
@WhotKnot7 жыл бұрын
A compassionate and well presented video on a topic that needs to be better understood and discussed😘
@Rougepout7 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Kathy x I truly appreciate your comment, x
@kar.ensplace7 жыл бұрын
Hi Becky this is an amazing video hun, and so agree, its good that it's being talked about a lot more, and thank you for sharing your story too. I've been through depression too on|off over the years and at one point was extremely poorly too, i remember just curling up in a little ball in the corner of the room and just crying, it was an horrendous time in my life but i too was blessed with an amazing mum and doctor, i had counselling too hun as i was very withdrawn. I'm so saddened to hear of Jenny's daughter Lucy, and my heart goes out to her family, i think its a positive thing the more its open and more discussed i feel its positive as the one thing i felt in those dark days, was extremely alone, great video Becky, you truly are a wonderful lady, much love❤️ xxxx
@Rougepout7 жыл бұрын
Kaz, I can't express how moved I have been by the sheer wonderful amount of people feeling able to share their experiences after watching the video. Lucy's Foundation works so hard to raise awareness and I am sure that people opening up will certainly help others to understand and also not feel so alone. There are so many aspects of the illness that I feel I want to discuss from my own experience, if it helps one person then I can ask for no more. Thank you for your story, thank you for taking the time to share it and for watching x x x hugs
@notabeautyqueen067 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to this family Becky ❤️ mental health is a very individual battle and I fight every day. I stand in front of the mirror and literally beg myself to stop crying. I'm lucky as I also have great support and I think social media is a great way to help people but it can also be used the other way and I find that absolutely terrifying. I'd hate to be a young person now, they have way more to deal with than I did at that age :( xx
@Rougepout7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so so much for taking the time to watch and also for commenting and sharing your experience. I have days, where the tears flow and flow, but, I have more good days and those I embrace. Always here for you and I will film more relating to this topic x x x hugs
@51beverley7 жыл бұрын
Such a sad but very much needed video! I too live with depression & anxiety & will be on medication for the rest of my life! I don't talk about the subject very often at all because when I "had" friends & they invited me to talk about it I stupidly did & they all everyone of them ran for the hills! So now I'm very much on my own with my husband & two girls. So yes I feel there needs to be much more understanding on this subject & less stigma! Thank you Becki for speaking out it is an horrendous condition & unless you have been there then you have no idea! My heart goes out to this beautiful family! Sorry for the ramble xxxx
@Rougepout7 жыл бұрын
Bev, there will be more on this topic and I can't thank you enough for sharing your experience. I have heard from several people who sadly have experienced 'friends' running out on them, it's a terrible thing and you certainly learn who your friends are. As you will read, there are many in the lovely Rougepout family who suffer and have suffered, so, you always have friends here for you, Bev. Lucy's family are incredible, and I am so proud that their work and the name of Lucy has given a forum for people to be open about their experiences. Thank you again, Bev, many hugs x x x
@51beverley7 жыл бұрын
Rouge pout your so welcome lovely lady! & thank you xxxx
@MISSLEONAJB7 жыл бұрын
Hey Becks, such a sad situation for Jenny. Thank you for sharing her story about beautiful Lucy and for sharing yours. I think it would good to share things you did that helped you. I suffer with Emetophobia which in my mind led to anxiety which causes bouts of depression. I'm so much better than I was when it all started 25 years ago which I am thankful for but it still affects aspects of my life day to day. Mental health issues are more talked about now but I think there's still loads that can be done. Thanks so much Becks 😘 xx
@Rougepout7 жыл бұрын
Leona, thank you for commenting and sharing, we don't always know what others have been through or are going through. Hugs x
@rachelbenson31897 жыл бұрын
This has really struck a cord with me I have had depression since I was pregnant with my first son 7 years ago I have two boys and suffer from anxiety too it is so hard at times especially getting up of a morning I work as well it makes my life unbearable at times it's horrible living with it as like you say it's not a visible illness people don't understand why/how I feel the way I do especially when I'm having one of my bad days having an anxiety attack for example
@Rougepout7 жыл бұрын
Rachel, I totally understand, I have anxiety issues and often just dread leaving the house, sometimes I only manage to take the dog for a walk and then I am home and don't go out again, it's terrible. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experience, I will be filming more about this in the future x