Let’s Talk About Sex with

[@stephenfowler4115]

My dad hadn't finished high school when he got married. He got his GED and finished his master's degree in education and worked full time while going to college. He graduated with no debt. Good luck doing that today.

[@tinadaniels1112]

Good for him. I also graduated with no debt with my Masters degree! It definitely could happen. 🙌🏽

[@Turshin]

You can. Just have to get a job with tuition reimbursement. They're still out here.

[@seekeroftruth45]

@@tinadaniels1112 He said today because it was a lot less doable.

[@TreyDZd]

Your dad lived in a whole different economics era too of course

[@tinadaniels1112]

@@seekeroftruth45 I get that... we are apart of " today's women". Thank you but what I said stands.

[@kuunami]

She's like Derek Jaxn in a way. She's found a niche market for people who want to be lied to that being promiscuous has no consequences. No matter how much you try to normalize female promiscuity it's always going to be a natural turn off to most men.

[@severussin]

📠

[@kitcowool]

Right… ppl completely forget about biology.

[@switz4165]

I think you miss the point. She is trying to normalize the understanding about sex and biology (mostly for women - which help men too), and lift up the taboo around it so people can know the truth. Now, whatever you do afterwards is on you.

[@TrillBill]

@@stoneysamone518 I hate to admit it, but I kinda agreed when she said alot of guys are worried that they might not 'measure up' to a woman's promiscuity. A woman who they desire especially.

[@jamessmith8049]

@@stoneysamone518 You are wrong Lady Stoney! No man of worth wants to see her lady run through, how did we even get here?

[@Creditkae]

She was so disingenuous in the interview. Never holding women accountable. And did not want to believe the stat that men out earn women.

[@Tential1]

I'm so mad... Gender pay gap? Or women out earn Men. WHICH IS IT? this is why I'm done with side of the aisle.... 0 consistency

[@Flameofblaze7]

We saw that with her video with black woman

[@hawkkingboxing1521]

I agree with you 100%! Low key put everything on a man, “reading sex books on a train, your penis can cure cancer and most men don’t make woman orgasm!” Most woman just lay there and take the “D,” and have limited to no skills! What are woman suppose to do?

[@OwnGrid]

Not only that she doesn’t even know her sexology field because when asked about the body count she was clueless what a joke.

[@Creditkae]

@@OwnGrid completely useless in the own field.

[@vortigan9068]

Idk, something about a society being overly focused on sex rubs me the wrong way.

[@Wrestle_Kingdom]

Because it wrong and not right

[@taegotkash]

Sex is literally how we all got here. All 7 billion people on this earth came from having sex.

[@vortigan9068]

@@taegotkash yeah i dont agree with mr moore calling it "wrong" but focusing on it to such a large degree instead of just seeing it as a way to have children seems decadent.

[@marvinm4676]

@@vortigan9068 people don’t have sex to have babies. You can see that the birth rates are declining every year. We over whelming have sex for pleasure and pleasure only.

[@vortigan9068]

@@marvinm4676 yeah thats a problem

[@chi3812]

Kevin is a g, but us men aren't going to ever get on board with the high body count thing. Even Kevin knows how detrimental it is, that's why he has told many wmn who have called into his show to not let it get out of hand.

[@user-bm8fx9zs1r]

Appreciate your time, he'll share a beneficial knowledge ✒️☁️±𝟏𝟕𝟕𝟑𝟗𝟏𝟑𝟗𝟏𝟖𝟎

[@dacommish23]

Wore out p#$$y benefits no one!

[@cyn7993]

Just say it better . Men are never going to let go of the self hate and disgust they feel towards other men. Body count significance is totally predicated on how men feel about other men. Do you see a woman whose had sex with 10 women any differently then 10 men? The common denominator is the same what is the difference? Your problem isn’t the vessel it’s the passengers!!!

[@transcendentmuzic1398]

You misunderstood what Kevin said about that issue. He didn't say it didn't matter. He said why are you anxious about something it's nearly IMPOSSIBLE for you to verify. There's almost no way to know if a woman is telling you the truth about it, so why care? For MOST average dudes it just boils down to insecurity, and being afraid that you don't measure up to her previous partners

[@cyn7993]

@@transcendentmuzic1398 it’s their biggest fear in life . I can’t imagine having so much disgust towards other people of the same sex that I’d be preoccupied with anywhere they’ve touched. Tell me you have low self esteem and insecurity without telling me ……. When you bring up body counts

[@jermaineburgess3767]

She doesn't get it when she said their audience should mix I can guarantee that her audience is some of these women that call in to his show with the delusional 🙄

[@derrickmason7457]

That’s what I thought we would be hearing in their ideology indifference not these regular talking points

[@Flameofblaze7]

It would give him more calls so she isn’t wrong

[@jermaineburgess3767]

@@Flameofblaze7 we want quality not quantity

[@kathryneprickett2083]

Facts. And she marketed them off like men. Heffer said they are educated, college degreed women of color. Ummmm, are they pretty? Are they feminine? Do they cook?

[@sweet2sourr]

You could be right. I’ve listened to her for years and I also do find the women who call in are delusional.

[@kontranorth6159]

She’s saying the same talking points we always hear. 1. Men need to step up. 2. Lots of black men are locked up. 3. Women should be educated and career driven.

[@21nitsua]

She articulates it better but still ssdd

[@greatness2work818]

Which is a lie

[@leeolie3728]

Yes indeed. Same fish new day

[@diligentsun1154]

'these' are the only ones, who will be allowed to speak. this is the 'fruit', of The Agenda. the Good Ones are browbeaten into agreement, with these hooahs. the Best Ones Are NOT Available, to the general public. they're well raised, well bred and spoken for. the common Man will not EVER get his hands on the Official Tissue.

[@Darkness-ie2yl]

shes a 1 trick p. but a fine one

[@GiganticSky]

24:30 she says women are more sexually liberated & men aren’t rising to the occasion but instead ask women to scale back sexually. I think that stance sounds good in theory but in reality women w more sexual partners tend to come w more baggage & self described ‘trauma’ from past relationships. She speaks as if sexual liberation is an absolute positive but the reality is women who’ve explored a lot of sexual desires tend to bring baggage of all kinds with it to the next man.

[@suleiman1520]

Good point. Sex can be used like food or drugs to soothe underlying unresolved pain. Can’t say it’s causation but if the count is high you should be curious why.. and this can apply even to men

[@kimkitty3914]

That’s no true

[@blackfish4674]

"Men aren't rising to the occasion"?? She's speaking whorebonics🤣 Makes no sense...

[@Youinnerstandme]

She failed to acknowledge the detriments it has on women 😂 with that authority along came responsibility but women aren’t worried about that. They’ll think because they have lots of access to sex so does men, but it isn’t the case & women are also affected much differently from many sexual partners. This side of the convo has to be applied

[@Ceeboyforlife]

Maybe they should sleep around on their husbands like her

[@perfectp2342]

In terms of body count it didn't feel like we got an answer from her, but Kevin's question about what you want from a woman was saying body count depends on what you want as an outcome.

[@Reezy12333]

Tbh what women refuse to understand is that the men don’t know he’s the father. If a women is promiscuous there’s chance that child isn’t yours.

[@thewld2]

Yea I don’t think she understood what he was asking or she unintentionally avoided. Cause I was waiting for that answer

[@NOCDIB]

That's how you can tell she's the type to justify sleeping around for women to learn about themselves. She strikes me as the type who did that herself.

[@NikeMann126]

I was thinking the same thing. Like she went off on a tangent exiting the highway. It’s hard for most women to have that real conversation.

[@lefty577]

@@NOCDIB Absolutely. Glad a few of us noticed that.

[@jayheha0053]

Rewatching your old videos and still learning. RIP Kevin!!

[@severussin]

I don’t think anyone is truly having a good faith discussion about relationships where each other’s basic needs are actually met. This conversation was no exception; KS out here advocating for the guys who want relationships and this girl on here talking about female orgasms. Speaking past each other honestly because KS’s underlying point is ‘How do dudes even get to the point of satisfying a women without the sexual access’ which she ignored with her typical modern talking points of how men are incarcerated or in some way not stepping up. This was not a constructive conversation despite how respectful the discourse was. I’ve had many ‘great’ conversations at work in a meeting which was wholly useless, this resembled one of those.

[@DemonSlayer_ISTJ]

Yea it's definitely pointless. It helps some Beta's realize how the snake modern woman thinks tho. Like Future said "a b**** gon be a b****, a 304 gon be a 304, ain't no way around it".

[@quietecstasy8054]

she also talks about dating/relationships and she's in one. A woman understanding themselves sexually is key to having a successful relationship and being open in general.

[@sayeed7255]

They were both talking about sex. Look at the title.

[@knowledgegad1294]

@@quietecstasy8054 she’s the man in her relationship. Her boyfriend say he’s ok with his woman going out there doing her thing

[@severussin]

@@sayeed7255 In the context of one night stands on in the wider context of relationships?

[@Ben-Ken]

She wouldn't come right out and say it but she has a problem with KS telling women to lower their standards. Most women actually want the highest value men to lower THEIR standards and be with an uncooperative, non-feminine boss chick because she makes money too.

[@Sheed96]

Preposterous thinking they have

[@malibu3602]

EXACTLY

[@Dimllll773]

Ye cuz they right...! 🤦🏽

[@clarkkent52]

she's just talking jazz...a woman who has multiple sexual partners will def affect both her mind and body

[@PeacocknRose]

Or man... remember soul exchanges happen to all parties involved

[@harvest2630]

Incorrect. Far less of an affect on men vs. women. We will never be the same or measured by the same metrics. Simps be damned!!!

[@whatever7588]

@@PeacocknRose facts

[@bigwalt3898]

The least married women.... And they wonder why....

[@whatever7588]

@@bigwalt3898 white woman aren’t any less sexually liberated than black woman

[@davidx5828]

Men don’t want to walk around with the town’s “person”. I would liken it to a man being bullied and beat up for most of their life. Both have sketchy past. Women would not want to walk around with the man who the whole town thinks is a punk. History most definitely matters, it’s the best predictor of future performance.

[@user-bm8fx9zs1r]

ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ sʜᴀʀɪɴɢ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴛʜᴏᴜɢʜᴛs,ғᴏʀ ᴍᴏʀᴇ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʀᴀᴅɪɴɢ ɪᴅᴇᴀs,ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ʟʏɴɴ ɢʀᴀʏ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs........... 𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ±𝟏𝟔𝟎𝟔𝟑𝟓𝟐𝟑𝟗𝟏𝟕 ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇꜰᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ.......

[@marte1376]

Exactly, but you fellas need to understand it goes BOTH WAYS, BOTH GENDERS, NOT JUST WOMEN. and seriously, you all men, need to make peace with it, women are not going backwards, reached this point of freedom is great that now everyone can share their time with whoever they want, that's great. Dudes, the problem is not body count, it's about habits. I can tell you my body count is 3 and i made a threesome last week. Another woman can tell you she has had +10 but maybe was just one man in a year. You as dudes need to be honest about the same, what is your past fellas? How did you treat women over the past? All can have a sexual past and it's ok, what matters are if you're loyal, if you have indifelity past, etc. But if a person has worked on herself, that's what matters, because her past made her evolve, and same goes to men. You will see if a person has worked on itself, but body count shouldn't be what determines that evolution

[@davidx5828]

Unfortunately, the body count thing seems to be ingrained into us from evolution. Men are going to want what they want, like women are going to want what they want. I cannot tell women to appreciate a guy that simps for them because he actually likes you vs the guy that is there to run through them; and understand these are two different types of men with different mindsets. Women don’t understand that they’ve caused an increase in the later. Similarly, I cannot tell women to concentrate more on the intangible things that men bring to the table; their focus will remain on what evolution has made the “feel”🤣(pun intended) is important. Which by anyone who is looking objectively can see is “shallow”. I have been both men in my past because I didn’t understand; with a greater understanding, now I play chess while they play checkers.

[@Dimllll773]

Ye... imagine how sx differwnces are gonna manifest mostly trhough sx behavior U want a mf who got to top 0.1% who doesnt indulge 🤦🏽 Right.....

[@lkendrix7782]

I so enjoyed listening to this woman talk! Her conversation is clear. Subject is presented well. No long rambling paragraphs that have a lot of words but have very little meaning! No mouth smacking sounds! She is well informed on the subject at hand. No trying to deflect or change the subject. No asking of unrelated questions or bringing up unrelated topics.

[@playamusa]

I'm not sure we watched the same interview 😂

[@lkendrix7782]

@@playamusa Well, when your mouth is open your ears tend to close and block out the message.

[@playamusa]

@@lkendrix7782 Oh no, someone didn't agree with you so they must be stupid right. It's impossible for you to be incorrect after all 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@lkendrix7782]

@@playamusa Did you close your mouth then open your ears so that you could receive the message? When you look for the bad you’ll never find the good!

[@WazirinJosnEnvirons]

Trial and learning 'on the job' is naturally the best way to learn, (women do it quite a bit in western society), however it's actually dangerous with severe consequences for trial and error for men-up to and including jail. So it doesnt happen.

[@freespeechchampsusanwojcic2528]

FAX: She's treating it as if we're equal, well the woman has had X amount of partners and now the guy feels insecure because he can't get on her level. How is that supposed to happen, Shan? Men approach women on a daily basis for sex and get it depending on all the gifts and prizes he gives her. Not only are women getting a lot of sex, but also resources along the way. On the other hand, men have to approach, get rejected, or if they ARE accepted, unload resources and time to get sex with her. This is nowhere near an equivalent exchange.

[@Rome__king]

@@freespeechchampsusanwojcic2528 preachhhhhh

[@willhickman92]

@@freespeechchampsusanwojcic2528 please create a podcast for this or find a way on Kevin’s show 😂

[@reese85]

@@freespeechchampsusanwojcic2528 it’s 2022! Not goin to say most men but some get sex just as easy as women without all the extra stuff you mentioned like gifts and prizes

[@BigSleeveLess]

@@reese85 true but that is 10 to 20 percent of men the vast majority are working there ass off for sex or not getting it at all

[@808estate2]

One day, i hope, Men and Women wont have to jump on platforms just to enjoy a constructive, deep conversation amongst each other. This sets a precedence.

[@sharthun2009]

Social media ruined that. Unfortunately!

[@whatever7588]

They don’t

[@keenansmith7176]

Never going to happen, simply because of their difference in nature. That level of depth is reserved for men, unfortunately.

[@EricWeston]

Sounds like you have a dream!

[@dacommish23]

AMEN

[@johncampbell383]

Understanding yourself and knowing what you want and enjoy it period !

[@the2ndcoming135]

☝🏽

[@kiriende3691]

She came with the same rhetoric that we hear all the time. It boils down to "it's black men fault" and we need to "level up."

[@Turshin]

Yep she sure did

[@kiriende3691]

@@kimkitty3914 They are. They're choosing to deal with fit, feminine,and cooperative women regardless of nationality.

[@lnb252]

@@kimkitty3914 the ironic thing is that women overvalue themselves almost like a classism thing

[@BruBoyz]

Exactly

[@diligentsun1154]

mean ARE 'leveling up'. as we do, the women will no longer be able to stand upon us. THEN, well see what's what and who's whom.

[@Tential1]

Women "we are gonna level up our body count" Dudee "good luck with that......"

[@tedlessor3887]

🤣🤣🤣 they need to start buying cats now then. Its how brainwashed people have become through what we see.

[@Dynasty19]

If you look what type of relationship she’s in and she totally controls that idiot it’s no surprise

[@aubreyjames8795]

Dude’s body counts already leveled up except for incels

[@FazeParticles]

@@aubreyjames8795 so 0? LOL.

[@MinecraftKid120]

Whats funny is women don’t even get real fulfillment from casually having sex. They’re always gonna want you to lock em down and throw a shit fit when you don’t want to cause they’re not that kind of woman.

[@dandaman2407]

One thing ive noticed about KS, he drank ALOT OF REDBULL. Be careful drinking that stuff can lead to severe hypertension.

[@JosephChandler-vd1cs]

As a man with a cardiovascular situation, when I found out about "energy drinks" I was like WTF? This $$!+ will kill you dead. I stopped on a dime.

[@paulbuckle8459]

Sadly Mr Samuels a big supporter of the clot shot too , one of the few things I disaywith him about 😢

[@Coldwallbar]

Glad u said this, I’m 24, and only mess with the small Red Bulls once a month max. He used to chug the 12+ oz ones on stream.. often.. Being a cancer survivor + his age I’m surprised no doctor told him to slow down.

[@smhunney8266]

that may have been a major cause of his heart condition. Early in his more developed pod i noticed it and would make a point of it it to at least pour it out in a glass, as redbull is not a healthy drink, and if he insist on drinking it, Redbull aint paying him to advertise nor does it help the brand he is trying to create. Shortly after he started using a glass.

[@smhunney8266]

@@Coldwallbar ALLL energy drinks. Monster included. Even them lil shots they sell at the gas station. I got a friend with high blood pressure obese and he stay drinking Monster and Coke. I stopped giving that mofo ANY health advise anymore. Who cannot hear will feel i say.

[@lakenda1]

I screamed when she made the suggestion to mix the audiences. Bad idea. There would be absolutely no compatibility!

[@emilecarrington7317]

Yeah, her audience is probably looking for wives... We're tryna be husbands over here

[@Flameofblaze7]

Yeah her video about dating as black woman would have her audience shell shocked .

[@poeticlovee]

@@emilecarrington7317 an audience looking for wives and men tryna be husbands is the exact same thing.

[@loopymomy2532]

Nah I think it would be good. Women and men need to understand each other and stop hating each other

[@lakenda1]

@@loopymomy2532 The very first comment I received under this thread was laced with an insult (not surprisingly). As confirmed by the above comment, there would be a bunch of arguing and bickering, only adding to this messy ahhh 'war'.

[@OUigot]

"Partner?" That perked my ears. After listening to more, she's revealing she's a modern feminist.

[@TheUzamaki1234]

Just assume black women and feminist as the same at this point.

[@donquixote3292]

@@TheUzamaki1234 Facts

[@skidaddledo6919]

@@TheUzamaki1234 she doesn’t identify as a Black woman.

[@TheUzamaki1234]

@@skidaddledo6919 I don't care what people don't identify as. People don't identify as their own gender nowadays, not a good enough argument in today's society.

[@FazeParticles]

@@TheUzamaki1234 both getting their ideas from the same camp. sad. there must be a way to counter this. i hope so.

[@moshediquel]

Funny how she assumes women are all sex goddesses and men are just fumbling around. Most women I’d say don’t even know how to please themselves

[@okaySam]

underrated comment!

[@malibu3602]

Underrated comment!!

[@marte1376]

Exactly, that's why women need to explore but all of you have this stupid fixation on low body count. How the f are they gonna know if they never try or get seasoned? This is an argument valid for men, but why not to women? Get your point together And women are goddesses, but a lot of you don't know how to celebrate what womanhood is, your stupid ego just makes you believe women are objects for your satisfaction, which is infinitely wrong.

[@marte1376]

@Ayanna Sabrina women need to celebrate their womanhood and calling women goddesses is on point. Men are just envious because they're not the center of the discussion as it is been for centuries. Everything is changing and I'm glad women are getting the recognition they deserve. You are correct too, but these fellas don't want to hear, they want tk keep reproducing the same sexist, misogynistic discourse which is done

[@michaelrunnels7660]

Shan seems to concentrate on sex and physical techniques. Her message is 100% about what women want & need. I don't think she's ever given much thought about what men want or need, sexual or otherwise. Keven concentrates his message on relationships. They are, of course, two entirely different things.

[@LucyFloresYo]

Her message is towards both sexes. Clearly you haven’t seen any of her content. Her and her husband make podcasts together discussing for both sexes experiences. And honestly, for centuries it’s always been about male pleasure, disregarding female sexuality. Only in recent years have women been more open to talk about their desires and wants with their sex lives. I do agree that their content is completely different. Kevin just wanted to start a conversation about this topic, that’s why he invited Shan.

[@kaaiwilliams3629]

That’s an inaccurate statement, she’s a sexologist . She’s studied both sides thoroughly

[@UrbanDecayLova247]

She talks to married couples on her podcast all the time, single people dating, people in relationships..

[@justinmathis8078]

@@LucyFloresYo her content is absolutely geared towards women as they are the ones watching even she admits this

[@Jazzmynnnn]

Well, to be fair. Women’s wants and needs in the bedroom were not considered for a long time. A lot of us are just figuring out our pleasures because we have not been considered in the conversation historically.

[@imani_malik_L7777]

She exemplifies modern women. She brilliantly articulates all the misandrist, 5luT enabling taliking points

[@raymeester7883]

That's the point.

[@jackdawson7838]

Lol trying to convince men to take easy, ran through women as wives. NOT going to happen

[@imani_malik_L7777]

@@raymeester7883 it’s a bit of a pivot from “your orgasms don’t matter” to qualifying your sexual prowess to a loose sounding woman.

[@raymeester7883]

@@imani_malik_L7777 That's her message.

[@imani_malik_L7777]

@@raymeester7883 not sure what you’re saying there but she’s got Kevin jumping through hoops. “Men aren’t good in bed” “oh well im good because I read the Kama sutra etc” he’s qualifying to her, she is holding the frame. Must be a PR move

[@jaytouch]

This is a excellent conversation overall! 💯

[@marcuswilliams7512]

It's really not

[@eval7952]

What use is it to “all men” that we are allowed to be sexual or have many partners,(as she says) when only 10% of men are able to get sex?? Even in sex she compares “all women” to the 10% of top men. Now that I think about it, last thing any society needs is to incentivize women into being sexual, cause most women will find easy access to sex, On the other hand, doesn’t matter how much sexual freedom we allow men, only the top candidates will find easy access.

[@robertsbarvedis2566]

yeah, I was disappointed with Kevin not asking that. In 2022 here is enormous difference how it to get sex for men and woman. With dating app same level lookalikes, women will end with at least 10x times more options (which actually is quite conservative amount, you could argue 15x and 20x with rise of dating apps). And that ofc directly impacts how much and most importantly how accessible is the ''sexual learning'' for men. Furthermore this girl managed to lock down a younger Chad after years of open relationships. After locking him down she has become monogamous and use him very extensively for her content thus giving her female subscribers how would ideal relationship not only feel like but also creating perception of how it would ''look like''. Would she do that with average or below average man looks wise? Just my 2 cents.

[@FazeParticles]

i don't think the west gives a shit about the bottom percent of men rising up and staging a coup, rebellion or revolution. the corporations and government will see to it that feminism sticks around because Women's sexuality and promiscuity is a massive market and a linchpin to the economy. it's been that way for about a century but the effects are being Realized now.

[@RockyMaiviaMiami]

Soo, genuine question. What are women being sexually liberated from in the past 20 years ?

[@jghifiversveiws8729]

Accountability

[@jambajoby32]

@@jghifiversveiws8729 lmao 💯

[@LeePyke]

@@jghifiversveiws8729 got em

[@kadoman0]

@@jghifiversveiws8729 this person gets it...

[@TheWildManEnkidu]

@@jghifiversveiws8729 Sheesh you didn't have to go straight for the jugular like that lmao.

[@Tential1]

21:30 it goes both ways. You can be as experimental as you want as a dude, a lot of women are extremely uncomfortable with their body. Half the women I've been with only do 1-2 positions because they too afraid to try anything else and "make a mistake".

[@cinquentakhamseen3124]

Women are definitely self conscious, especially with their body - Hence the surgeries with enhancements etc… I’m the most confident person, I never get complaints about my body, my weight, not my body 🙄With that being said, turn those lights out and you better have eclipse curtains 🤦🏽‍♀️ I breast fed and i find myself blaming that - I will never be comfortable with gravity humbling me 😩

[@freeman8759]

That's exactly what I said. It's like, "Wait, girl you want to keep your shirt on, all the lights off aaaand you afraid to make a sound?" 🤔She need to stop acting like women are pros waiting for men to catch up.

[@nicolesawyer7117]

Yet men want an inexperienced woman, I find that ironic.

[@thechosenone2786]

@@nicolesawyer7117 yet women want an experienced man and don’t bite their tongue about what they expect in the bedroom. Oh indeed I find it real ironic as well.

[@thechosenone2786]

@@nicolesawyer7117 yet women want an experienced man and don’t bite their tongue about what they expect in the bedroom. Oh indeed I find it real ironic as well.

[@RushingWindMedia]

Good interview. The bridge is being built to finally understand and learn from both sides.

[@severussin]

What was the main point that stood out to you?

[@thvtsydneylyf3th077]

@@severussin hahaha this will be good...

[@PaulClipMaster]

The problem is sex used to be for men and romance was for women. Now everything is for women and the women's pleasure and women's happiness and nothing is for men.

[@FazeParticles]

but there's growing resistance to feminism from gen z IDK if the gen z blacks are ready for that but the (gen z) whites are radical af when it comes to pushing back against feminism among the dissidents and resistance people. obviously the normies are still in love with feminism but even that will change once they face the growing radicals. we may appear tame but in our hearts we are radical af.

[@MrBigtodd]

Couldn’t have said it any better

[@elijahwise3060]

Exactly, you have to approach the girl, take her out on a date, entertain her, pay the bill to maybe get to hit one day and when you do you have to please her first. Where's the equality here ?

[@FazeParticles]

@@elijahwise3060 some people are more Equal than others. that's their motto.

[@aliiiiiiiful]

Maybe you’d prefer to be with men if pleasure & happiness isn’t something you want to provide for women

[@Khurr]

Having sex is not an act, it’s an experience! Most ppl (men and women) don’t understand that! Among those ppl, lots are also inept to understand because their psychological profile has difficult managing the basic characteristics of a patient lover: easing into the experience, build it up, read the mood as you go, sensuality and finesse. Culture does have something to with it also. Above all, it is very important to be comfortable in ur own skin

[@otrebla8944]

Very insightful and well stated comment 👏🏽

[@ThePlaybookUSA]

Sex is sex nobody thinking of it from a philosophaphical standpoint as long as attraction standards are met it's a Go.

[@grimreeper7225]

Well said 👏🏾 👌🏾 👍🏾

[@machtnichtsseimann]

I've found discussions about sex often come to a cold stop whenever anything truly honest comes up when someone is into anything that is not so much about finesse and "easing into the experience". Not that I am against that at all, rather those are good things and personally embraced, but I've had conversations and experiences with some women who pretty much only wanted that and judged other forms of sex as "dirty" or "not loving". Fortunately, I've met other women who convinced me that they are JUST as into the visual or erotica/porn or hard and aggressive sex and fetishes / BDSM. And they were not ashamed, sick nor "Un-Christian". Such is the quandary that there are still shaming tactics employed or inferred upon a good segment of the population, men AND women. FYI: Part of the problem is simplistically dividing "Lust" from "Love". IMHO, lust can and ought to be included with love.

[@Omnipotent556]

@@ThePlaybookUSA Exactly.

[@nii22b93]

If there is one thing, I hate about Kevin is the fact that once he meets these women, he does not call out their fallacies as straightforward as he does with the average woman. He argued with other women that what do they gain by sleeping around. This woman calls it liberation and he says nothing.

[@inoclasism]

She came respectful and has a large following.

[@nii22b93]

@@inoclasism Nobody is saying he must disrespect her. He can point out how he thinks she is wrong and they can agree to disagree. But at least stand firm on your ideals. You dnt change just because she is “respectful and has a large following”. That means he lacks integrity and will do what will benefit him the most. I choose to believe he means it when he says he stands for a course.

[@FireAngelChris]

@@nii22b93 Factual

[@severussin]

Same as Nikki Minaj

[@reese85]

@@severussin and same lame ass excuses!

[@UltimaterializerX]

“Cis heterosexual” Nope. Automatic dealbreaker.

[@redpillsocietyapparel5193]

Facts 😂

[@Logan.invictus]

🍻

[@breelonbryant7472]

I dont trust ANYBODY who refers to anyone as “Cis”

[@TheUzamaki1234]

The moment I hear that word, I walk away from any woman. And if it's a man he will never garnish respect for me.

[@mackhook]

Big Facts 😂😂😂

[@MichaelBuck]

She didn't say anything of significance. She basically perpetuated the same things we all already understand and know. She is supposed to be the sex expert, but from what I heard she is NOT aware of what women are doing in today's culture. She ignored the BODY COUNT issue and did not answer Kevin's inquiry. It was funny that Kevin knew MORE about the sexual trends than she did, that said a lot.

[@DontaviaM]

What is the body count issue?

[@m.danielmills7091]

@@DontaviaM As Kevin alluded to, it's something that men that tend to be VERY successful with women tend not to worry as much about, but men that generally don't have a lot of success with women worry excessively about.

[@OwnGrid]

no what he is saying that she skipped over or even worse unaware of the science because women with over 5 body counts have less ability to pare bond thus making them bad choice for anything serious, yet they could still be recreational use basically for the streets no shame in that you do you. You can’t change biology

[@severussin]

Facts, she just parroted typical modern womanese which went mostly unchallenged. KS seems to find it easier to call it out when it’s attached to a distasteful attitude.

[@OwnGrid]

@@severussin And that’s how you know KS is full of shit and fake as hell

[@AceeSoul]

Excellent! Whether y'all like it or not, Kevin is leading the charge for change in our community.. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@kevinwilliams1986]

He sure is

[@316rayan]

Useless conversation. To think there is some magic to be achieved with genitals is the concept of fantasy. Created by the west to keep selling their 30$ shit books on Amazon.

[@skinfanjay]

💯

[@otrebla8944]

He should have challenged her, though.

[@jalenad11]

@@316rayan Tell me you've never pleased a woman without telling me you've never pleased a woman...

[@kemicraig9660]

The amusing thing of this conversation is that if birth control pills, condoms as well as the myriad of other contraceptives were not invented, the supreme importance given to sexual intercourse in all its lustfully hedonistic perversion inspired by pornography, would naturally rest in the responsibility of rearing posterity for furtherance of legacy and betterment of society, any of this talk to rationalize sexual degeneracy can afford audience due to modern contraceptive technology, as well as medical abortion that have diminished and misled the moral values of procreation and undermined the familiar institution, other than that these discussions would not be as elaborate for an act constituting a primordial means to an end rather than an end to a recreational means.

[@giveme24hrs72]

Sometimes it does feel to me that the modern world is drowning in too much of everything

[@thegenzcompass2526]

I'm really impressed by this comment and I couldn't agree more.

[@TonyMontana-hf3gt]

Try going straight to the point.

[@GGWP-nx3kn]

In short, since women have stopped being what they used to, relationships are null and void. They men with more holes, in essence.

[@TheOlzee]

Some fancy words but yeah.

[@ericacosta5709]

I'm so happy you two were able to record this for us. It's valuable information.

[@arnoldwatkins805]

The young lady is very articulate but she definitely has a slant that for her explains everything as it relates to women and men. I would love to be able to ask her questions to put her fundamental beliefs to the test because she has a lot of "sacred cows" as it relates to men. Which comes off as her being bitter but she's able to mask it through her selective use of words but I hear the subtle misandry.. To summarize her point of view would be to sat she believes that all men are just insecure with weak egos who need to be more like women basically. When you boil down what she had to say it amounts to women strong men, weak and or defective. The reason people of her elk annoy me is because they speak with such certainty and they leave no room that they could be totally wrong. She's trying to explain the male /female dynamic through a modern lense but it was only 70 years ago that my grandmother didn't even have a refrigerator they had ice box and ice was delivered the entire today is foreign to what the human species is use to living in.

[@MrBenji1059]

I think women have an inherent bias when it comes to other women. Whereas with us guys it's "every man for himself" lol :D

[@meditation4632]

I think you heard what you wanted to hear

[@FireAngelChris]

You see

[@JRed41]

Great response. You described this woman and style and views perfectly. We don't talk enough about the presence of misandry in our current state of relationships. Also, real men don't care that much about a woman's higher education or material possessions. When we are attracted to a woman we simply want to know if she's feminine, cooperative, and "trustworthy ". Again, Great job!

[@karithema9ician657]

@@meditation4632 nah. We heard all the “word salads” she was trying to force upon us. “L” now hold this

[@lareh5501]

32:30 hard to argue with *RESULTS* 33:27 she was even trying to get in on it, and despite her "talking about" relationships and people getting together for a longer period of time on YT than KS, yet likely doesn't have a fraction of the results that group has.

[@NBWDOUGHBOY]

What Kevin did was kind of genius man. He baited us in with the Average at best and You built like a Runningback to ultimately give us great content.

[@thrilla72]

He simply spoke his mind.

[@aaaaaa2206]

He baited YOU with the _"Average at best."_ line. His content is much deeper than that video.

[@NBWDOUGHBOY]

@@aaaaaa2206 No Doubt. That's a Fact.

[@twintyro]

He was around way before that clip went viral.

[@premiereelementmanufacturing]

Talk about women wanting to ask men to be monogamous, even though men have drastically less sexual fun and experiences, between the ages of 18 to 40

[@charlyb9194]

It’s all about security, resources and not wanting to share it with other women.

[@johnsilva6917]

Such hypocrisy

[@gregroberts4910]

24:50 “Meet women where they are” is just womanese for “now that I’ve been ran through, fund my lifestyle and pay off my student loans”

[@severussin]

📠

[@severussin]

@NO NAME GAME FAME DAME hahah you came in with the “Who’s mans is this? Oh you, take you boy witcha on your way out” 😂😂😂

[@TheUzamaki1234]

*And this is why men need to use the word "NO!"*

[@hhhoneycomb]

🤣🤣🤣 stop it

[@gregroberts4910]

@NO NAME GAME FAME DAME he didn’t say that, she did. Stop embarrassing yourself, my dude.

[@ashley_sprinkles]

As a woman, as much as it's natural for us as human to have sex I'm getting so annoyed with all this discussion about sex. Sex isn't everything but it seems these days thats all people talk about. Takes the specialness away from it. I don't calle ol fashion but I'm just sick of this crap. What happened to being conservative? Women need to stop blaming men and start looking at themselves for being promiscuous and wondering why no one takes them seriously.

[@NicoliePollieOllie]

This just wasn't the convo for you. Somebody found this enlightening.

[@Majinnightwalker]

Eeh you say it’s natural but I think its only natural to women and men other humans say its a go. micro dicks get slim love it’s probably more they do that bully stuff you would not know cause you are girl guys dont know because world says their ok

[@Majinnightwalker]

And also Bro YOU ARE A WOMEN sex is a non issue you dont have to do bullstuff to get action but hygiene and work out you can’t work out you dic to get bigger it matters to psychologically

[@Rosalyn3211]

@Ayanna Sabrina that’s facts. I’m tired of this narrative that we should be concerned w what others/men might judge us as. If we are still mentioning body count when we meet someone I’d call that immature af.

[@marcuswilliams7512]

@Ayanna Sabrina get a clue & come back to reality. fyi being promiscuity is about self. it is self destructive behavior that has a significant negative impact on the psychology of the individual

[@vincentanderson5794]

women always make things more complicated then it needs to be, just for some mental feelings that only she feels.. and how can a man become all the different fantasies she got bouncing around in her mind? he can't.. so it just shows that no 1 man can satisfy a woman.. a woman wants everything and since nature will not give a woman everything then she will always be unsatisfied.. so men should not waste their time and efforts on a woman's desires, because a man can never give her everything..

[@cnotefrank43]

@ vincent read the KARMA SUTRA & [ MGTOW QUOTES VOLUME-1 ]

[@JRed41]

Vincent your take on women is like well timed medicine. That's why the guys that "don't care" have the most success and peace when dealing with women.

[@xEMOANHATARON]

@@JRed41 Dang. It’s true.

[@malibu3602]

@@JRed41 Hol up, explain this more 🤔

[@VCashForever]

I think men care about women's "body count" because we know that it matters and shows aspects of her character. Women don't have to work for sex. They can just get it whenever they want to with absolutely no effort. A woman who has had alot of sex hasn't done anything special or proved anything to the world. I watch the show "600 Pound Life" and some of those women have babies and husband's. I wouldn't want to be married to a woman who has had sex with tons of different men because there wouldn't be anything special about her. It's the same in terms of me not wanting a woman who has kids by other men. Same concept to me. If everyone has had you, I can't claim you in public. That's my personal feeling about it. That doesn't mean we can't be friends or even have sex but I won't be in a relationship with you.

[@charlesr.dearsjr.3027]

💯💯💯

[@flowstateentertainment8395]

Bingo. Kevin is cool with it because he’s probably banging all kinds of clout chasing women at this point.

[@MBanks30]

On point w this perspective. 💯💪🏾

[@THEMAJORLEVEL]

@@flowstateentertainment8395 And men🤷🏿‍♂️

[@TheOlzee]

Spot on

[@maqnthreez]

Her slick politician style double talk questioning

[@shadbakht]

This is the most uncomfortable and nervous I've seen Kevin. I don't know why he let so much of her nonsense theories slide.

[@nattieestimable7985]

True, it's like he was holding back big time

[@Idontknowhoiamanymore]

I learned today I’m not interested in hearing about others peoples sex lives

[@user-bm8fx9zs1r]

Appreciate your time, he'll share a beneficial knowledge ✒️☁️±𝟏𝟕𝟕𝟑𝟗𝟏𝟑𝟗𝟏𝟖𝟎

[@rachela4071]

👏🏼

[@LetsTalkAboutItSeries]

We love interviews/crossovers like this! Both of you are "controversial" in your own way on your own channels, but you both are so wise and articulate!

[@marcuswilliams7512]

It's just a bunch of one sided lies. i see why you love it so much. it panders to you. btw i love how she completely ignored the body count question. no i haven't watched the entire video

[@philliplockhart5853]

29:55 - 30:00 This part right here. Very quick, very subtle, but very important. The ATTITUDE. The cavalier ATTITUDE towards responsibility. Not talking life as seriously as it should be. Men do not have this luxury. Women in first world countries don’t have to take life seriously. No real or harsh consequences.

[@ramalellison9205]

What? She just mentioned debt? Iunno maybe i dont understand your point.

[@licclodagreat]

The godfather had to check her about that female income shit real quick like....all they doing is going to college and getting degrees in retail and collecting debt

[@REM977]

I'm a man and sex is something I can only truly enjoy in a loving relationship.

[@user-xo3zp9gz8t]

◾ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ʟʏɴɴ ɢʀᴀʏ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs...........

[@br3wskee]

I'm the opposite. No relationship needed. But at the same time, I'd never pay for it. I like the "hunt". Its like tournament fishing.

[@FazeParticles]

@@br3wskee dang i hate the hunt. tho i'm lazy like that.

[@malibu3602]

@@FazeParticles Same here lmfao. Most ain't worth chasing and wasting time and energy. Sometimes to get what you want, you pay for it without playing the games. Especially if you want the hot women, that's where men with money will always have the upper hand, because those types of women, most men can't attain. So when it comes to paying for it, if she's considered really attractive, I'm not against it 🤷‍♂️

[@AMM3.]

Once you have experienced great sex and communication with someone you love.. one night stands or flings just don't cut it 😐

[@callumcrow7830]

At 8:15 minutes: "Men that say they don't care about body count tend to be married or in long term relationships, where as men that care about body count tend to be single" The data is crystal clear. The likelihood of a marriage lasting if a woman has had 0 prior partners is 80%+. The likelihood of a marriage lasting if a woman has had 15+ partners is around 20% at best.

[@okaySam]

There is some truth to her statement, but I'd say it's the other way around: Men who are in a relationship already have a partner (vetted & chosen), so they don't need to worry about body count, whereas single men do. It's like rich people saying they don't worry about money.

[@calikeisha365]

Where is this data?

[@callumcrow7830]

@@calikeisha365 The ISF "Institute of Family Studies" cohort studies. It also directly affects happiness within marriage

[@LboroWick]

Always nice to see Kevin in a well lit environment 😄

[@SaniBravo]

I like this convo/format a lot more of these would be dope

[@KingKan]

@MTN (Manosphere Thug News) MTN merde

[@jugular911]

wots dope mean??

[@babsjob8729]

@@KingKan Tu es ivoirien ?

[@trevonw67]

@MTN (Manosphere Thug News) MTN why not?

[@jddiggy2343]

Perfect example of how it is always one step forward, two steps back.

[@myaccountability3080]

More conversations between the two of you and other level headed individuals please. This is what we need. Dialogue where no one is trying to out shout one another. Bravo.

[@gw6496]

The 5 star General Kevin Samuel into another level of the battle of the sexes👍🏾👍🏾

[@doubledollarman2727]

Biology is biology. Dudes don’t want a woman who’s been ran through. The huge problem is most women that enter into relationships lie about their past sexual activity and guys find out about it down the road when he’s already attached and fallen for her. Ladies if you want to be in the streets, no one is trying to stop you. In fact we applaud 👏 you. But stop trying to reformat yourselves into relationship material and lying to men and yourselves. No man wants to deal with that trauma.

[@yepyep6916]

Facts! There is a lot of Trauma with high body counts…most of these 40+ ladies walking around burned out from their careers, 100’s of hookups, many serial short-term relationships and break ups, bottles of wine, and Prescriptions of antidepressants….We have ladies telling other ladies that they can find happiness and fulfillment through sexual freedom..the free sex moment was in the 70’s. It’s 2022 and they are still clueless.

[@rachela4071]

Women don't want a man that has been in every woman then 😂

[@white645]

@@rachela4071 stop lying…

[@doubledollarman2727]

@@rachela4071 you’re mixed up sweetie. They just don’t want one that is doing that while with them. They definitely want the guy that has ran through the city and they fool themselves into thinking they can settle down with that guy. That or you got mad masculine energy and like to be on top the entire time.

[@marte1376]

@@rachela4071 it goes the same for men, basically all these men are telling us to be free, they don't want us prude, they want us bad, men don't deserve fidelity because they never belive in it. Never believe the bs of this losers. Live and enjoy your body and your life with responsibility.

[@Siacourage]

4:30 "What are the misses of body count?" Doesn't answer the question. Starts talking about how women's sexual desire is greater than a man. Classic feminist deflection. Facts: The higher the female body count the less likely she is to pair bond and have a meaningful relationship with a man. I think this is what Kevin wanted her to refute but like all feminists she expertly avoided the topic of body count and went on an unrelated rant.

[@OwnGrid]

Not only that but it’s factually wrong a man has 10 to 17 higher testosterone basically higher sex drive by that much

[@mimi2613]

And Kevin's interview skills suck

[@OwnGrid]

​@@mimi2613 it’s like he is trying to befriend her, but all that showed he is double faced and frankly full of shit especially when you dig deeper into his history versus how he presented himself. Think about it he is an image consultant a job that needs no degree and only concern is with the Image

[@thvtsydneylyf3th077]

classic woman technique. all women.

[@kennyhardy1884]

She pretty much said was a lot of KZbin videos are putting out now about how a lot of women are freaks for sex and can't get enough! For a lot of them variety is the key turn on wanting to see what kind of tools other people come with and how they use them, whereas a lot of women are simply turned on by the fact they think they have the bombest piece of ass or head on the planet and get a kick out of making a guy blow his load quickly as possible, as it makes them feel a sense of power! I've been told this buy females in general conversation as well as being in dorm rooms with groups of females having drinks and letting it all go and sort of a teller even asking my opinion 1 things as sometimes I would be the only male in the room! As well as just chilling on a night out with a group of friends and they all get into a conversation on sex from what their Personal preferences are, what they like to do and have done and so on whereas some of them are a little more explicitly descriptive and straight to the point especially the single ones letting the rest of the group in conversation know that they love variety what they do and do not like and what they will and will not settle for although some are wide open and Say Anything Goes

[@donb9748]

As a man successful with women, reading a book called “how to please a woman” on the subway is a great F-ing idea. Great conversation starter.

[@TheSunkissedmein2000]

Too noisy and kinda awkward lol.

[@Turshin]

I see where you going with that. It's all about breaking the ice.

[@DeanRegy]

Yeah but you would end up on Tiktok in a second

[@LearnandLive97]

Can get creepy real quick

[@danawhiteprivelage7277]

How to ruin your reputation, classy image and come off as an incel*

[@kingtut1735]

1. Sex is NOT a need! The only need you have is air, water, food, using the bathroom and sleep. 2. Sex for men is different because from what I know amongst my peers. A woman who has a lot of body counts is a turn off to most men just like if a bum sticks his finger in your favorite food once that happened you no longer really want it. 3. When women have a lot of men, no way they can settle down with one men because logically it doesn't make sense that they will be okay especially if his is average. Women that did gang bangs, 3somes, had all types of sizes. They will fantasize about their encounters and most likely tempted to do it again. I had a lot of female friends and if you hear them talk, they will never admit it but you can hear them say things that let you put it together. 4. Women absorb the mens sperm and juice internally. Men it's not different than you sticking your finger in something. You can debate but I know quite a few men that feel that way, regardless of what women think or say about it. Men, may resent their women if they know they had a lot of partners even if they decide to be with them which makes it a case for them to cheat because they may feel that it's not worth it to be "monogamous" because of her past and they justify because of it.

[@FireAngelChris]

This is true

[@boxerboy860]

You nailed this and I would add you also feel that down the line they will easily get bored and waste your time and energy ✌️

[@REM977]

Very thoughtful comment: I agree with each of your points. I suppose we can conclude that we'd be far better off exercising sexual restraint and keeping our fat mouths shut! LOL

[@sanman173]

Sooo wrong check out Maslow's Hierarchy of needs......

[@ronswanson1410]

What makes sense to someone on paper doesn't always translate to real life. Sure... Body count has no set number, it's relative to the comfort level of the other person. Still, you can't deny the reaction it creates in the pit of your stomach. You might not think it makes sense to care about body count on paper for it's sheer relativity, but the reality of the situation is we are hardwired to be nauseated by the thought of whatever we consider high to be.

[@solimine1007]

Your right about this. When i here men brag about being with 100 bitches all o think about is, STD risk. Or for me when guys say "ill just pull out." It Disgusts me so badly that i lose all drive.

[@ronswanson1410]

@@solimine1007 tell ‘em

[@BushyRoyal]

"cis heterosexual" 😑 even the seemingly calm black woman is corrupted

[@the2ndcoming135]

Welp, y’all might wanna swoop on a wifey real quick then🙆🏽‍♂️🍿

[@Gisaeng]

Thank you for all the information, but I think it boils down to the fact that most people are looking for "evenly yoked" instead of who will be with them long term. It's good that both have money but does that mean that they shall make it together when the money does not matter or when one no longer has said money? My point is do any of us really need the big house, fancy car or the many accessories that we deam top stuff? Well I see the world differently then most but I think these are the true questions that we as a people should ask ourselves.

[@Ceeboyforlife]

Luxury cars are made for women, men buy clothes, cologne, things for women. Sex sells for a reason.

[@Gisaeng]

@@Ceeboyforlife I do not disagree with you on the sales points, but I am asking. Should a choice of a life partner be about money more then anything else?

[@MyMelanin]

@@Gisaeng …sadly, these days…yes.

[@inoclasism]

@@Gisaeng in today's world money can buy you almost anything. Sex workers are a prime example.

[@1mic513]

I’m in a million dollars in debt- I own a home- um the bank owns the home- “educated” no- indoctrinated. Went to college to be a KZbinr😂

[@jermaineburgess3767]

I tell you just let these women talk long enough everything comes to the light

[@larosa26]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@theincog-negro7091]

She plays the game better than you and has the prizes to show for it ... You're here on KZbin to criticize a successful KZbinr about indoctrination ... Get a grip thugsauce ... Chase excellence, not your own tail doggie !!!

[@Tential1]

That's a poor person mindset. As long as the asset is priced correctly asset-backed debt is amazing. You would have to have General brain damage to not take advantage of it.

[@FazeParticles]

women in the west are heavily indoctrinated and as you say in debt but that means like you say the banks own the home, lol. these women are renters. perpetually. impressive system the oligarchs have set up IMHO.

[@EmpireRamzes]

Kevin is all about facts and studies but when the research on pair bonding is available he punts

[@RockyMaiviaMiami]

Doesn’t matter to him he’s had his fun. Problem is for the guys that haven’t that end up with a lady that has had a lot of partners.

[@seekeroftruth45]

@@RockyMaiviaMiami Even the guys that have "had their fun do too".

[@RockyMaiviaMiami]

@@seekeroftruth45 completely correct but you will find more from the have had fun group to not care than the ones that do. Especially publicly.

[@EmpireRamzes]

@@RockyMaiviaMiami thats true

[@seekeroftruth45]

@@RockyMaiviaMiami true. Those guys are grateful for the sexual behavior of women in their younger years so it would be hypocritical to say otherwise.

[@MrHav1k]

This was fine up until the 24:00 mark. Shan doesn't understand that women will never seek a man on their own level. They're hard wired to want to date up and get the BEST man they can get. A woman making 100K isn't going to want a man making 100K, that woman will want a man making 158K minimum in order for that man to be seen as "economically attractive." Hypergamy never seeks it's own level. "Golden penis syndrome" is simply an offshoot of women only seeing the top 5-10% of men as viable partners, thus giving those men all the leverage. 90% of men are struggling out here and it's unlikely that's going to change any time soon. If you don't fix THAT, relationship and family formation is going to continue to decline and we'll have all the societal problems that come with that. Women don't need to dumb themselves down, but they need to realize that earning 100K a year doesn't magically increase the population of men that make 150K a year, nor does it make you any more desirable to those men. These women live in fantasy land where they want "equality" by closing the "wage gap," but still expect to date up with a man who makes more than them. That's mathematically impossible.

[@Tom6567my]

The best thing an average man can do is to not focus on women. Let them come to you meanwhile focus on personal development in your craft and physically for your health. Be open to dating all women no matter the race. All women are not focused on just money like bkack women are.

[@Ceeboyforlife]

Every advantage men give women the more independent of men she becomes, the more her expectations increase, thus separation and as a result less families grow. When it blows up in her face she blames men and demand more, cycle continues.

[@casket8530]

@@Ceeboyforlife Whether women want to realize it or not, feminism, all of it is a giant shit test. Because in the end, if they gain total power and society goes to shit, guess who they're going to blame? Men for being weak and letting them obtain said power. They'll always blame men for everything.

[@Tential1]

That's the point where I lost it

[@jayclearmen411]

these femxles just wanna be viewed at in the same light as guys sexually. Which I get why they would feel like that. But at the same time, I think it’s just an emotional response. I don’t think they actually want that. Gals want to be able to say whatever and do whatever they want and not be judged for it like they *think* guys can, but that comes with a lot of things that I don’t think about when they say that. It’s not the benefits of being a woman combined with the benefits of being a man. It comes with the negatives of being a man and none of the positives of being a woman. That means when a full grown man slaps you around in a fight, nobody’s gunna feel any special type of way about it. That means your kids in a divorce will be sent to live with their dad instead of you more often than not. That means as soon as most guys hear you’re not dtf, they drop you Unceremoniously and non-politely (which some guys do, but not nearly to the degree and severity as it’d be if women were seen as just another guy sexually). I think until most women are able to fully internalize what real gender equality, or not putting femxle sexuality on a pedestal, would mean, they should slow down on these types of issues. Because real fast the social norm is going to go from “i would never date a girl who’s slept with 4 guys at the same time” to “I would never date a girl who isn’t comfortable having a foursome with 2 other chicks”.

[@sebastianmichaelis497]

I guess it doesn't matter what a man wants as long as the woman is pleased. Got it.

[@TheOlzee]

Exactly. The narrative is all wrong. Only in the west

[@severussin]

📠This is all I hear when she spoke

[@malibu3602]

@@TheOlzee Exactly!

[@TheOlzee]

@Ayanna Sabrina tell me how do those women get into relationships with men they KNEW were not pleasing them in bed?

[@sebastianmichaelis497]

@Ayanna Sabrina So paying 100% of the bills, protecting you with our life, taking care of the house hold and spending endless amount of money and effort to keep you happy isn't enough. Copy.

[@otrebla8944]

Did she say something to the effect that men should rise to the same level as 304s, thus accepting their high body counts and marrying them? Ma'am, no respectable man wants any woman with a high body count for a wife.

[@EmpireRamzes]

big facts, studies show the lower the body count the more successful the marriage

[@jowill3508]

True but you know it’s slim pickings finding a chick who’s below 10 these days…..

[@kimkitty3914]

I didn’t hear Kevin saying that, and his the professional, not you 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@otrebla8944]

@@kimkitty3914 Lol. I don't have to be a professional; I'm a man, and I know what I (and men in general) want.

[@michaeldavis2135]

@@EmpireRamzes thats only because woman with lower body counts are less willing to leave when the relationship gets toxic ,because they have never been with someone else

[@ObsidianPill]

im so sick of all sexual talk revolving around how men need to be better at pleasing women

[@derrickmason7457]

Agreed we got fires in our community and we’re just talking about sex . We gotta build and get back to the black community as a whole

[@whatever7588]

They do though. Woman care more about pleasing men sexually than men care about pleasing woman sexually, & most woman have to take their orgasms

[@Wrestle_Kingdom]

@@whatever7588 is it that they care more or is it that they can do it at a easier rate because we not as complicated let be real also lot of woman are very passive when it comes to Men they complain about not being satisfied but never say anything and just fake Orgasm but when it comes to school best believe they asking questions showing up on time taking notes etc

[@HXCORNERSTONE]

Because that’s all women care about…her vanity, can she get her nut, women are consumers, they generally don’t build. They move in.

[@ObsidianPill]

@@whatever7588 cap. if there's one thing this platform has proved it's that women do not care about what men want. also, they don't "have to" do anything. you are responsible for your own orgasm.

[@AndreMonthy]

She had all debunked feminist ideological talking points on deck that fly in the face of all the facts, data and logic. She just said it in a softer tone. Still a good conversation. Hopefully a middle ground can be reached.

[@seanwright8786]

It's good to see that I'm not the only one who caught it. Yeah she was smooth with it plus she's very eloquent and attractive. To her credit, she listens

[@ericjames7819]

Like when Kevin asked her about body count, and she deflects without answering the question. It's unfortunate that he let's them get away with this in face to face interviews.

[@ss-em2xj]

📞ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍*𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ♱𝟏𝟓𝟎𝟐𝟑𝟐𝟑𝟐𝟎𝟏𝟐༻ ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ·····.....

[@robertsbarvedis2566]

@@seanwright8786 She is deffo very good speaker and listener (nice change from usual female screaming and point proving), but aesthetically she is 5, maybe 6. Weak eye area, facial ratios between lips and eyes are of, skull shape/facial shape is a bit masculine. Body wise doesnt have great natural booty or boobs. Or hour glass figure. I am only saying that because we as a men tend to vastly overrate modern females with their makeup and frauding of lights, angles and sometimes - filters of apps.

[@seanwright8786]

@@robertsbarvedis2566 😄 dammit brother. I would never have wanted to be in front of u on The Gong Show😆

[@carl3063]

1. If you only want short term fun with a woman BC should not matter at all 2. However, for marriage/LT relationship, sex is a lesser priority. A low bc today usually means a woman has higher standards and greater ability to be in a LT committed relationship. KS is a 50 something year old divorced man, I’m not surprised he doesn’t think about this.

[@meditation4632]

I don’t know anyone who wants to be in a sexless marriage…. A lesser priority for who? Maybe for you. But if I’m monagamous the sex better be good or else what is a person signing up for if you have a high drive?!

[@carl3063]

@@meditation4632 Everyone’s different holmes. But, unless you’re an idiot, you would realize you don’t need marriage for sex.

[@Rome__king]

@@meditation4632 he said sex isnt in the top 5 priorities if you looking for marriage. If it is then that will always end in divorce. Sex gets old no matter who you are lmao. Especially with the same person for years of years of years. If sex is in that top 5 priorities you will ALWAYS divorce. Sex isnt made to be a concern for marriage for a reason. Does that mean its on the top 25 list not i will say for majority of marriage minded men its top 10 . If a man or woman has it in their top 3 and 5 trust me that will not be a marriage lasting more than 5 years. Statistics and studies show this hugely. Putting to much weight into a activity over the character traits needed in a wife or husband it will always end. Divorce rates are where they are for a reason lol

[@kevinm.3506]

Whether long term or short term, body county always matters because the higher amount of partners, the greater the chance she has had or will have an STD or AIDS. Why do people always forget the physical/biological consequences on top of emotional?! Do you really think young women with high body counts will ALWAYS be 100% clean, wash properly or make the guy use protection 100% of the time?!

[@mikeruck2888]

@@Rome__king Yea but divorce rates aren't where they are because of sex though 🤣 And sex never gets old...you just can't perform as well lol Scientifically proven 😭

[@bosun720]

This women got away with murder in this interview, gotta keep the same energy Kevin

[@severussin]

📠

[@loopymomy2532]

Keep the same energy?

[@Dynasty19]

So glad somebody said it I get that Kevin is politically appeasing his peers in this space but at a very high price of mixed messaging

[@brothaonanadventure3573]

@@Dynasty19 I saw it too, he tends to do this with attractive light skin women. I think they might be his kyrptonite.

[@entertainmentvidz]

She's a guess ,it wouldn't look good if he rubs it in her face.he did the right thing by cutting her argument with facts and statistics then move on.

[@DeeboX-vv8ji]

I'm 47 years old, and I've never cared nor asked a woman's body count. One reason is that I know the kind of women I go for.

[@dutchy213]

🎯🎯🎯

[@olskool719]

And you'll never get the truth anyway. So it's a waste of conversation.

[@Kenkichi24]

@@olskool719 FACTS!

[@tinadaniels1112]

💯🙌🏽

[@blackfish4674]

Never cared?? BWAHAHAHA what a fool

[@cevr7847]

A sex therapist who does NOT know what a passion party was.. How knowledgeable

[@leeolie3728]

Boody talk after dark

[@kimkitty3914]

She’s sex therapist not a promiscuous woman. Kevin is from the streets

[@tinadaniels1112]

I think she thought it was a different term.

[@BeeKay2715]

@@kimkitty3914 knowing something relevant to your job doesn’t make you from the streets. Stop being bitter

[@nisuperman]

Does passion party exist anymore?

[@ronmexico5908]

Women remain stagnant because all of their choices, thoughts and options are controlled by someone or something else. Powerless and waiting to be rescued is how they endure life

[@shepardabraham2574]

She is saying men need to be taught how to please women. I disagree 100%. Women are to provide serenity at home, so they can reduce the stress of the man and show him love that will keep him working. If he is the pleasurer then she needs to woman up and be the provider

[@meditation4632]

So how does she get an orgasm if he doesn’t know how to give her one?

[@giveme24hrs72]

@Meditation in the words of KS "ur climax is your responsibility" lol

[@smithdavid9283]

@@meditation4632 only one person orgasm is responsible to child bearing

[@meditation4632]

@@giveme24hrs72 you do not get and retain girls with that mindset

[@Soneelicious]

@@smithdavid9283 so what woman would like to be in that situation ?

[@djflashback8343]

First is attraction and for most BW, if the man is below 5'10, he's already behind the curve ball regardless of income....

[@mbp333]

The Blueprint to the puppy & the vibrator speaketh........😂🤦🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️

[@TmcJordan]

Kevin playing it too safe and soft tbh conversation was kind of just beating around the bush he’s not saying what he truly wants to lmao

[@the2ndcoming135]

I mean, I only started hearing about the CiS thing within the last year or so. Don’t know why we doin that. But, I also don’t hear any married women using such a term. That’s how I know I’m not doing this with y’all bruh😏

[@jeffreykelley1491]

This is different. He's having an intelligent conversation with an intelligent woman. One without an agenda who speaks eloquently and is able to reach her points without rambling. Refreshing.

[@crow2swann5]

My early knowledge about sex came primarily from porn. My first experience with a girl went very well. She had no idea I was a virgin. I think she thought I was very experienced, seeing that I tried all the moves I had learned from "White Chicks". I had no clue that the things I was doings wasn't normal sex. All I knew was I wanted to be spectacular and I had a lot of anxiety. But after my first few experiences I felt a lot more comfortable. Needless to say, I had a very good reputation after that at school.

[@kimkitty3914]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@PhantomFilmAustralia]

My sex education porn professor was Ron Jeremy. If parents were embarrassed to talk "Birds & Bees" then the boy would discover it on his own. (Enter Ron) These are the types of women to f**k. What we also learned on our own was to find a gentle, hard-working, virginal, subservient, beautiful, soft-spoken, feminine woman to marry. This was from fairy tales. These women of virtue no longer exist. The women who do exist and are here to be our future wives and the mothers of our children are just like the porn stars we saw in the movies and magazines. Males have been taught from a young age not to marry these women. The statistics are showing this, as marriage figures are plummeting.

[@joshbutler822]

Smoove.

[@NovejSpeed3]

In Peppa Pig's Daddy Pig voice......"I am quite the EXPERT..!" 😆🤣🤣🤣

[@dekev7503]

@@PhantomFilmAustralia my porn professor was manuel ferrara.

[@vincewhite5087]

Data is out, Chad & Tyrone have been blowing out these girls backs. Go Chad / Tyrone!

[@same_ole_rome]

After swimming the the sea, climbing the mountain all while being an on queue mind reader and "playing it right," a guy may be less interested in what pleases a woman; at that time.

[@user-bm8fx9zs1r]

Appreciate your time, he'll share a beneficial knowledge ✒️☁️±𝟏𝟕𝟕𝟑𝟗𝟏𝟑𝟗𝟏𝟖𝟎

[@severussin]

This idea of actively pleasing others is hilarious when I’ve never once needed to think that hard about my male friendships. And my guys are down to put themselves in harm’s way for me.

[@hassan415]

Them college girls been ran through. Don’t do it. The “educated” ones make life hard my g ✊🏾

[@MyMelanin]

🤔 bro…that’s a helluva observation…reflecting on my hbcu experience.

[@dougwilliamsIII]

I love me an educated woman but man oh man are they a headache a times.

[@devincooper4243]

Bruh the second they step on campus it's a wrap

[@malibu3602]

What's your experience with them?

[@malibu3602]

@@MyMelanin I wanna know your experience haha

[@treyparker3775]

Great conversation with 2 adults...articulate and respectful

[@ericjames7819]

It was "respectful " because he let her get away with deflecting without answering questions.

[@joer8386]

@@ericjames7819 Agreed! Totally useless conversation.

[@severussin]

It was modern womanese, nothing of substance here.

[@thvtsydneylyf3th077]

it wasn't on her part. she was being disingenuous the whole time and pushing feminist ideals. nothing great about it

[@FritzMusicFritzMusic]

I'm sitting here impatiently waiting on the next part of this conversation

[@severussin]

I’m not. It was typical modern womanese.

[@lolab6770]

Same! I love how both of these creators articulate their points and am glad they collaborated.

[@zachslump5844]

@@severussin that womanese is like fingers nails on a Chalkboard

[@Bazrad68]

How did I miss KS sitting down with women in the flesh. This is only the second one I’ve found (both found today). So glad to have found new (to me) content from the great man. 👍

[@premiereelementmanufacturing]

Talk about women having access to 17 men to interact with on a monthly basis and men on average having 1 to 0 women to freely interact with. Sexual maturity is not about maturity it's about being tired of dealing with different people. Men on average can't get that out of their drive. Women can very easy

[@JetJamez]

🗣🗣🗣 SAY IT LOUD!!!!!

[@malibu3602]

PREACH THAT REAL SHIT 👏👏👏

[@Dada-jv9ng]

Words sounds is power. Teach dem make sure the message deh reach dem godfather. 🇯🇲

[@carlosdavis.]

𝚃ᵉ𝚇ţ𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ᴍʀ ᴇɴᴏs ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴛʜᴇ ᴄᴏɴᴛᴀᴄᴛ ɪɴғᴏ ʙᴇʟᴏᴡ;.

[@carlosdavis.]

±𝟏𝟑𝟑𝟏𝟑𝟒𝟖𝟐𝟕𝟒𝟐 ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ.

[@chrissydior96]

I love @Shan Boody her page is educational and supported by facts and statistics just like Kevin buy from a woman’s stand point I love it because she acknowledges the differences in social behavior

[@derrickmason7457]

Yea but she’s for the Mrs independent type woman winning instead of work with a man get with his leader ship. She says majority of black women are winning I would disagree from the numbers were both at the bottom as far as community

[@olskool719]

@@derrickmason7457 and until wmn understand what winning REALLY is, it's going to be an uphill climb to the bottom.

[@kiriende3691]

She was low key crapping all over black men.

[@TheSunkissedmein2000]

@@derrickmason7457 I agree. I mean BM aren't in the hood alone. There will always be a section for BM & BW who are struggling and Financial stable. I think we get those two crossed talking about relationships and what we want.

[@Tential1]

Facts are facts. She's not saying facts, she said stereotypes.... she literally said that women are out-earning men. GREAT. job the wage gap bs then.... Oh? See how easy it was to find contradictions in her speech....

[@mfalmekali]

I was hoping KS would nail her on insisting that men should accept female sexual promiscuity.

[@charlyb9194]

I mean, physically it’s natural whether you want to believe it or not. Socially, it’s unacceptable.

[@TheUzamaki1234]

@@charlyb9194 yep as natural as those same women not being married and being dug out and then thrown away.

[@mfalmekali]

@@charlyb9194 dumb logic. It's like saying men beating up their spouses is natural. But socially unacceptable.

[@charlyb9194]

@@mfalmekali that’s not even the same comparison but ok….

[@charlyb9194]

@@mfalmekali whether you accept it or not that’s on you. It’s just socially unacceptable.

[@Hallucitania]

Wow. The picture, and sound quality are superb!

[@guitarplayer1434]

the Bible says the 2 become 1, and when separated you get torn( your soul) , some might say in half , after 5 partners your soul is down to 3 percent even if not in half ,like velcro you tear one to many times and it does not stick

[@MyMelanin]

💥🎯💥🎯💥

[@notandyvee]

I'm glad they started talking about the equally yolked topic. But Kevin didn't point out that those same women with PHDs aren't wanted by those men. The top 20-10% of men don't want those top 20-10% of women. And by top, I mean "success". There's a mismatch. Hopefully it's addressed in the next part.

[@inoclasism]

No one wants a unruly woman. Most professional women will not listen or submit.

[@ChaosInsanist]

Didn't know KS played matchmaker. I'll bet the criteria are pretty strict, however...

[@pjcornell4318]

Equally yoked means you can provide what he needs to the same extent that he can provide what you need. He does NOT need your money. Therefore, you are likely NOT anywhere near equally yoked with a man earning as much as you. He deserves better - someone who is willing to let him earn while she fulfills a support role for him.

[@KS-dg4cp]

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[@samagatsu1]

best interview in this channel

[@cholli4141]

She dodged the UPS analogy and Kevin allowed her to do so. Wtf. That’s at the heart of the issue in too many cases. Men say take less because we’ve always done it… “come back down to their level” .. bish please 😂 I’m a trucker, I earn more than 90% of college grads… I guess her audiences must be that Talented 10th.

[@brittanydaniels879]

How long have you been trucking? Also, what demographic are you talking about because educated people make more than blue collard on average. Even Blue collard entry level doesnt make as much as grad entry level. Thats FActs.

[@cholli4141]

@@brittanydaniels879 medical, engineering, law, computer science… those are the only degrees that make real money. The other 50 degrees you get are pretty much worthless. I been trucking over 15 years…. Now days, an entry level truckers can come in at 70k easy!…. Welders, plumbers, etc can make the same amounts and more. I seen plenty with four year degrees and I’ve ALWAYS ran circles around them in the annual income area.

[@brittanydaniels879]

@@cholli4141 Trucking because of what the pandemic! Period! They were losing trucking like crazy and plumbers and welders dont make that. You forgot Business entry level you have make 60-80k, Ive made it my trajectory suprassess yours by far with promotion and stock option. Hush! Economically you are not making sense it wouldnt be big stressors of education. Dont clown BS degree because 9/10 they are not useful they just have to continue school to make more money. Also, certain jobs are more cruial than others thats why the demand/salary is hire but they average bacholars degree holders makes 50plus according to the goverment verse blue collard. Factoring in how much yall truckers and blue collard working put in body/time its not worth the health risk. & company benefits are way better.

[@cholli4141]

@@brittanydaniels879 trades smash majority of the college degrees hands down. It’s only certain four year degrees that come in at 60-80k on an entry level.. You can count those on hand. and that’s likely in a city that’s very expensive to live. Truckers have ALWAYS made more than your average college grad. The numbers of the highest grad earners is what put the white collar numbers over the blue. The average white collar worker fairs no better. Education… college education is pushed so much because it causes debt… it’s mainly a money grab for a bunch of useless degrees. If you’ve attended college you know this is true.

[@cholli4141]

@@brittanydaniels879 and a large amount of your high earning white collar workers put in crazy work hours too.