let's talk about shrinkage: how to stretch your curls

what's your preference: stretched curls or super defined curls?! watch to see how you can achieve BOTH from a wash n go!
hope you enjoy, xo
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[@nobodyasked5091]

This quarantaine thing really made me care more bout my hair

[@lanceycharles7830]

Same😭

[@nclay]

Me too! I typically get silk presses done. Now, I am loving my natural curls.

[@diboraandsquishes1649]

Same I wanna go back to school with longer looking hair Because my hair shrinks and it looks so much shorter

[@ijustwannaglowupthissummer8349]

Same😭😭

[@serena_jackson997]

Same

[@Dolly351]

Y’all. We got to stay embracing our shrinkage more. That’s a sign that your hair is really healthy. I love it.

[@yultaenyot9401]

well my hair is really really really healthy then 😂😂

[@Dolly351]

Yultaeny OT9 lmao I thought y’all know that. If your hair doesn’t shrink...you know it’s damaged. That’s why I use to call my heat damage, “trained” hair. Heard of that??? 😆

[@diamond852]

Who told you it's a sign of health? Stop regurgitating things that have no proof.

[@aanihyasimone6045]

I think she meant if your hair naturally shrinks when certain products that especially contain water shrinks your hair then it's normal. But let's say you applied way too much heat to your hair over the past few months and I wash your hair and see that you have long strangely strands of hair, that probably means your hair isn't healthy and that it's damaged

[@aanihyasimone6045]

U*

[@Yannii220]

I like how you said “don’t stress over shrinkage “ 👏🏾👏🏾😬

[@DeeDee_Stands_On_Business]

🤣

[@theyluvanalys3306]

Girl I’m out here having a mental breakdown cuz idfk what to do with my hair 😭

[@kaelynsimmons1459]

frrr 😭

[@bjrnbilqeyshatag7293]

Fr😭🖐️

[@jovialjuliaq8541]

Same, then I did the tutorial and I’m freaking in love with my hair that is now easily several inches longer!!!!

[@ciaramonet2629]

I just had a complete crying fit and now I am here. I really have a love hate relationship with my hair. More on the hate side tho lol

[@christiangirl9478]

💙Jesus lived the life we couldn't live and died the death we deserved and rose 3days later, repent of your sins and trust in Him💙.

[@ashleyborde7702]

Sis, this eye makeup & them lashes giving me life rn!

[@Hunnibee5]

Fr tho. Like I need the make up tutorial too 👀

[@Botanica2012]

That's exactly what I thought - gorgeous eyes!

[@wannabe41]

That was a great demo! I’m type 4, so fighting shrinkage is largely a losing battle, so I embrace it. I prefer definition over volume because I love to show off my curl pattern and styles last longer if I don’t over stretch the them. And I didn’t know Afro Sheen has new products. I’m dating myself but when I was in high school, Afro Sheen and Luster products were pretty much all us naturals had.

[@stormrhodes2654]

Right up there with you.

[@user-et5jy9qs6x]

Texturism?

[@faithm7997]

I prefer the more defined curls too bc it lasts longer + hair usually gets more voluminous throughout the week anyway.

[@ciripmd]

I agree. My hair is my fave by day 3.

[@Simplylockd]

Both sides are gorgeous! But personally I like the defined side because that’s going to last you all week and the elongation will come naturally.

[@abigailjackman1445]

Me watching 30 seconds of the video Nobody: Me: She’s so pretty 😍

[@queenofsheba8948]

Literally same😁

[@nadegejuste2638]

Actually, you can have a bit of both. 1st technique is to use gel even if you want to strech. I do this, and still able to combat shrinkage. using gel also give more definion and make the style last longer even if its streched. 2nd method is to use a streching thechnique on the inside of the hair, and on top where the hair is visible, u use the shrunken technique. So u create the illusion of defined curl on streched hair (but in reality is just the top of your hair being defined)

[@HH-cv1dr]

brilliant 👌

[@chach1070]

This was a great demonstration. I get so overwhelmed with hair videos but this was so simple thanks girl! Also I love both sides

[@demetriagibson8684]

I'm loving the definition as well. It looks more manicured, both sides beautiful.

[@tinabillingsley1016]

I’m torn! I love both sides! Thank you so much for the video ❤️

[@bjay1922]

So true...it's all about what your in the mood for. Sometimes I want definition and sometimes u want length. BOTH ARE GORGEOUS 💞💕

[@doloresw]

Yeah I love defined curls and I definitely am loving your defined curly side. Personally I save the stretched out look towards the end before my next was or before it goes into a ponytail or top knot type bun.

[@rafadon]

I get so much shrinkage but I love how versatile our hair is 😍

[@AviationShawnny]

Thank you so much for this. The side by side comparison is everything

[@jeangriffin2536]

Since locked down, I have been looking after my hair. My hair has grown and looks healthy.

[@LilianOkibe]

I can't believe how much difference. Shrinkage is amazing! 😍😍😍

[@veryfair2927]

Omg she's so pretty. I can watch her all day. After seeing this, I am going to wake up and get pretty. Need to go buy more makeup!!!

[@jcicrafters5724]

no no nooooo girl!!! you don’t need makeup to be pretty!! you don’t need to do your hair, wear nice clothes. you, just as you are, JUST AS YOU ARE, is perfect. you were made perfectly by Jesus Christ. and He loves you more than anyone ever could. He loves you because your His. just talk to Him, i gave my heart to Him and my life changed so much, my heart changed and I can’t live without Him 😭❤️ everything you’ll ever need is everything He is, nothing and no one else could even try to fill that hole. you are BEAUTIFUL because He made YOU, because He saw you and wanted YOU! He made you perfectly, have a nice day girl ❤️

[@T7d534]

You don't need make up to make up a pretty girl

[@NaudiaLittle]

Girl get the makeup & get pretty. If it makes u feel better & put together, live ur best life 🦋❤️

[@itssbri_bri5706]

i loved this video gurl i love how u explained and even split ur hair and did it on ur self to show it really works thank uu!!!😌💓

[@twin2206]

A makeup tutorial is needed mam!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@bellmosimpson9685]

I love the shrunken side! I prefer more curl definition as well. I’m going to try the denman brush again.

[@garnettsapphirewt7227]

Your hair is beautiful! I enjoyed the demonstration of the two types of shrinkage avoidance. 😊

[@blackdove1299]

Lovely! I always stretch my wash and gos using a hairdryer with a nozzle

[@letitaivory8831]

Alyssa, you looked great with both styles! I like both sides but, I would prefer the defined side to show the defined pattern and for longevity of the style. Over the years my hair has changed and I now have a more defined curl pattern I never saw when I was younger. I'm new to wearing my curls like this or in a twist so, I'm definitely going to try your tips...hopefully I'll end up with a good result. I also didn't know that Afro Sheen had new products!

[@rcb3000]

Wow you are GORGEOUS. And I love that you did to not obsess over shrinkage. I actually really like that. Thank you so much.

[@willojam5787]

This was a GREAT visual comparison!! Thanks for sharing 😍

[@sherryberrydc7744]

I love your natural makeup look. I like both sides but I would go with the shorter side. Thank you for sharing your video.

[@JasmineNicoleCogdell]

You’re so pretty Alyssa 😍💗 both sides turned out great!

[@Nottsoaverage_]

Really loved this video i had a shrinkage obsession once. My hair is super long same type as you but the shrinkage is insane i tried everything but nothing would work at one point i said f it if i have to choose to show of my curl defintion or fix my shrinkage i choose to rock my curls 💯

[@ashleyncurls255]

Love your curls😍! I love juicy defined curls, helps make my wash and go's last longer through the week 😁

[@valenciataylor4966]

New subscriber here! I have learned so much from your channel. I only wear wash- n-gos. I'll be trying the stretch method. With the hot weather having my hair shrink up off my neck is perfectly fine with me!

[@daisyflower1545]

Totally agree. I have type 4 hair and sadly I cant have it all. I usually choose more volume and stretch and less defintion. So I love your right side

[@antoinette4995]

Your makeup is done so beautifully.

[@obg7]

Had to watch it all the way through first...you're a great reviewer.

[@ikeriascott7946]

The Lords Prayer❤️ “Our Father, which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done, in earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread. And forgive us our trespasses, As we forgive them that trespass against us. Lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil. For thine is the kingdom, the power and the glory for ever and ever.” Amen❤️

[@deepierre6488]

Amen

[@MoneyAintNoClass]

Stfu

[@sleezy2926]

Stfup

[@jaylynnh8851]

Amen

[@chiccabee8840]

*AMEN* ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@destiny818]

I like both sides❤. I prefer the more defined side when im going through like a work week and want it sleek and frizz free and the finger coil side would be worn like if I'm going out with friends and want a fun fluffy look for a girls night out in town🤗❗

[@MelinasAdventures]

Never knew i needed to avoid gel and use a curling cream instead. Also need to look into a diffuser. Great tips 👍🏾

[@sherdeliane5191]

This has definitely change my hair! One of the best tips

[@sashaemmy27]

I couldn’t afford a defuser, so I bought an attachment for about £10 for my current hairdryer x

[@1womanoffaith1]

You are gorgeous! Beautiful hair too! Thanks for the tips and products.

[@mariajaimez5411]

Honestly they both look good but the one with the curl definition I love it

[@pamelawinston7848]

I love both sides but the defining side is simply gorgeous

[@manalabdelrahim7792]

ur hair is literally gorgoussssss

[@propheticendtimeministry9389]

Both sides are absolutely gorgeous, but, I love those deep beautiful defined curls!

[@ms.g1791]

Love that you did this video. And I'm loving your personality lol

[@tinadavis6091]

I'm glad I saw this because I was just staring down a box of texture softener because I'm new to my little curls. I like both sides of your hair.

[@theabride7776]

Both side looks great. But you are right nothing beats the side with beautiful defined curls.

[@frankysoulspeak]

Wow! Your curls are gorgeous! On both sides!

[@rblair5342]

Both sides look cute. Nice comparison!

[@jameranaquai]

Pfft. I can’t 4C this working for my hair 😂😂

[@T7d534]

Lmao good one

[@emmaelisha1339]

Try it 🤷🏽‍♀️it won't look the exact same as hers but it might help

[@lalasisland5277]

Why not?

[@creativequeen8371]

😂🤣🤣

[@ciripmd]

Haha

[@tryphenaeady8560]

I love your curls!💜

[@abbysings13]

The stretched technique was so perfect!!!! Thank you so much!!!

[@barbarahodges8835]

Your hair is super gorgeous. Both sides look healthy and full.

[@yg-sd1ex]

I think shrinkage is what makes our hair magical 💜I love my shrinkage

[@shannonarmstrong6364]

Absolutely love both sides

[@jovialjuliaq8541]

IM CRYNG MY HAIR LOOKS SO CUTE RN ITS SEVERAL INCHES LONGER AND SO CURLY!!!! I didn’t have your products, I used Aunt Jackie’s Curl La La curl custard/cream and it worked so well! I don’t have a diffuser or hair dryer s I let it air dry and it’s still really cute I’m in love right now thank you so much.

[@AlyssaMarieXo]

OMG THIS MADE MY DAY!!! yes honey, FLOURISH!!!

[@jovialjuliaq8541]

@@AlyssaMarieXo I’m glad this made your day! It lasted pretty long but did end up shrinking but still looked very defined and shiny. Any tips for making it last a bit longer?

[@kamilahspeaks2200]

I like the stretched side!

[@merileeaquino9569]

It’s beautiful 😍 you are gorgeous with both lengths 🤩

[@hebeforeme]

Love this! You are stunning!!! Thank you for sharing some hair wisdom. 💖🙏🏼💖

[@mcgireshairemporium392]

1ST DAY EVER WASH N GO . IM IN LOVE Thank-you for you tips❤️

[@klara3646]

I don't have curly hair but I think this video was really interesting and nice to watch!💖 Love both sides of your hair😻

[@augustqueen3996]

I prefer the more defined side... so what I do is dry my hair under my hooded dryer and stretch it with my blow dryer on medium setting to gain length, maintain curl definition and avoid frizz. It’s takes extra time but my wash n go lasts for 2 weeks💖

[@missserwaa_]

Do u stretch it every morning afterwards? Mine shrinks right back after stretching

[@prettylady818]

Maame Cerwah watch KimberlyCherelle channel for natural hair. She has a lot of useful tips.

[@nph136]

@@prettylady818 Yep, Kimberly Cherrelle has type 4 hair and stretches her hair with fully defined curls. She has many vids on the topic

[@autumncraig7916]

Maame Cerwah you can do the banding method overnight

[@moorelivinwithxbeautyy]

My scalp is telling me noooooooo 😩 *R. Kelly voice* I wish I could go 2 weeks. How do you keep your scalp from getting flaky?

[@tabythabeebe]

You're gorgeous!! great video💕

[@i_comment_on_everything]

I don't have curly hair, but i loved this video. It was very educating and gosh you are Stunninggg😍😍

[@fjohnson72]

The definition side is my hair on day one, and the longer side is my hair on day two. I have your same curl pattern but you have thicker, heavier hair than mine. You are so pretty!

[@JSPurpleOne]

The defined side was definitely my favorite.

[@kearstenw3855]

Wow you did a really great job thanks for the comparisons

[@carlashipman1778]

Excellent demo. Love both.

[@user-qg4td6rg5x]

omg thank thank thank thank you so so much i’ve reallt been struggling with this

[@mightystrong5484]

Both sides are beautiful 😍 TFS be safe and well 🙏🏼

[@herhairfetish1]

Ommggg this was sooo helpful sis...thank you 🙌💕💕💕

[@Golden_Glamourzon]

Glad I found this video..you gave me the truth I hv been searching for⭐

[@adriennenelson6709]

Hey giiiiiirl!!! Im all for elongating shrunken hair but honestly I am more for defined curls... So I'll take the shrunken side anyday. I was feeling the shorter side better but dont get me wrong both sides still looked beautiful on you. Stay blessed.

[@alethiadavis646]

The defined side is bomb I love defining my curls

[@y.carson7692]

Either way it's gorgeous! ☺💜

[@CatherineNCottingham]

I like the ‘elongated’ side. Mostly because the volume looks great and you didn’t lose that much definition .

[@MadisonPettway_]

You are absolutely stunning!

[@rosepogue7902]

I love both sides but I would have to go with the stretch side because I feel like if it was a windy day your hair would blow in the wind and it would be just relaxing and beautiful it looks Airy I feel like the curly side or more defined side would just lay there and I like my hair to move

[@laurice8056]

Both looks have some advantages. The more defined curls may not frizz as fast as the more stretched fluffy side. But the full side looks dramatic and glamorous. The defined side may look more in proportion for a small head, face and features. But on you Sis, Both sides look fabulous! Thanks for sharing!🙏🏾

[@Listen2me400]

I do the same with the dyson. Your left side, my right, is what I do. I like my definition as well. Also I can use silk scrunches later to stretch to my desired length, which I don’t leave them on more than 30 minutes and that gives me enough stretch and keep my definition. I love your thick hair. I have thick strands, but medium density. Love, Love Love your hair.💕

[@the13thgoddess28]

When you use the scrunches, is that on wet hair and then air dry?

[@Listen2me400]

Carlotta Graham I use them on dry hair. I don’t sleep in them. I only put them on in the morning for no more than 30 minutes. Not every morning, it all depends on the weather, humidity, if my hair shrunk the day before.

[@Briana-hd9mk]

THANK YOU!❤ THIS is so helpful I've been trying to wear my natural more and I get so irritated. Def will keep doing the finger method but lay off using gel and use a custard instead and diffuse different. You're so pretty btw! Keep shining ❤ i subscribed new followers.:)

[@kierstinfuimaono795]

you are so pretty!!!!

[@tashayleniece]

I just recently stretched my hair and I still got definition but a lot more volume I def prefer my definition and the lasting look because I only wash my hair once a week but both are def cute

[@Godisloven09]

Love♥️ both. The longer side looks like day 3/4hair. Either way is bomb. When I'm going for longevity, I want shrinkage. Meaning going longer between wash days.

[@Clauds71]

Hi Alyssa, I prefer curl definition 😍 so the shrinkage is real 😁💯. Great 👍 video

[@catherinebutler3003]

Nice results. The fuller side is my favorite. Besides, I like a mix of definition and some frizz. Peace and Blessings❤

[@michelleneither8186]

I love the definition side

[@bryannag.]

Thanks boo! I needed this!!

[@novaturient425]

I'll take my defined curls over perceived length any day! My hair usually stretches itself out after 2 or 3 days anyway so Win Win. Great video!

[@bjmorgan3092]

I don't understand the perceived length comment. This length is real. My hair seems to do opposite. As the days go by my hair gets bigger but shorter. I must be doing something different than others.

[@HeyTeyKay]

You are sooo pretty oh my gosh. I said it like 5 times within in the first two minutes of this video lol but I really liked the video as well

[@nickyh6641]

Wow! I need to try that diffuser. I agree with you 100% on the shrinkage issue. With shrinkage your hair is more defined and with stretched hair you lose definition. Gotta chose your battles lol

[@antoniawelo465]

I love both sides, so I will try both methods

[@cammiecam3032]

Love the curls on the side with more shrinkage.

[@honeyisnatural5]

I couldn’t agreed more. Don’t obsess over shrinkage. I just told my mom this same thing. Let your hair be itself. It’s stays more healthy and retains moister. Ok on with the video about defying shrinkage. Lol. Tfs!!!!

[@d.colbert6869]

Thank you. Truly appreciated!

[@latoyaclark561]

Liked both sides. First time watching but liked the video and host’s personality.

[@joannwilkins5238]

Beautiful hair, love your video!

[@bjmorgan3092]

I love both sides but I love big hair more. I have embraced my shrinkage. I love that I can have both sides and still look and feel good either way.

[@mellymel1100]

Honestly, I like the left side (shrunk side) best. It's so defined and soft looking!

[@bluemickey23]

I like the defined curls.