Romantic pursuit is like your shadow. You run after it it runs away. You walk away it follows you.
@grandoldsoul46915 жыл бұрын
i heard that b4
@simon00625 жыл бұрын
Cliche af but true.
@alanperez76573 жыл бұрын
@MarathonInfinityHalo most of the time, they dont come back.
@alanperez76573 жыл бұрын
@MarathonInfinityHalo yea bro women arent ahead of us at all. At least not me😎
@n_tsilivigos3 жыл бұрын
Nice allegory!
@elsquibbs4 жыл бұрын
It took me many, many years to realize one simple reality: every successful relationship I've ever had started with the woman choosing me, NOT the other way around.
@fargeeks3 жыл бұрын
Man this woman that chose me was also long taken
@linafosho86113 жыл бұрын
im gonna keep it real. If a guy of my very first choice is going to disrespect me ignoring me while he thinks he is going to be choosing a girl that actually is going to eventually reject him and not going to let him in the end, That Very Same Guy is Not going to be coming to me expecting for me to give it up & get "intimate" with me on his terms. Here is a facts meme i came across is 1,000% true! "A women will first treat the man how she wants to be treated, then she will treat the man how the man treats her "(10x magnified....so May it be a good treatment) - All the Best -
@XoXo4752 жыл бұрын
They can’t have been that successful if there were many lol
@elsquibbs2 жыл бұрын
@@XoXo475 You sound like a simp.
@dennisrobinson80082 жыл бұрын
Same here
@TankTheSpank4 жыл бұрын
"Treat a girl like a celebrity and she will treat you like a fan"
@theemperor20173 жыл бұрын
Best Avatar ever mate. Lol
@XoXo4752 жыл бұрын
I treat mine like a Queen and I get nicely rewarded 😈
@amirdespatco64382 жыл бұрын
@@XoXo475 what reward? please tell me......
@MarkHadleyUK2 жыл бұрын
Fantastic quote
@georgemcfly34827 жыл бұрын
BINGO!!!!!!!!! Every girlfriend i had chose me. I tell guys to focus on your career, making money, look nice and smell nice and women will notice you. THIS VIDEO IS SPOT ON. It's harder to chase women because women are pickier, she either likes you or she doesn't and there's nothing you can do about it. GREAT VIDEO!!!!!!!!!!! Corey are you in sales?
@theonlinegemini7 жыл бұрын
Gary Matlock + so true!
@Exxon3006 жыл бұрын
Hey Gary, I think he is.
@fargeeks4 жыл бұрын
I havent had a girlfriend since a decade and the one time i had a lady pursue me, she unfortunately was already taken
@linafosho86113 жыл бұрын
Thats great for you
@NFS3052 жыл бұрын
His philosophy is has a sales component. Read the book 10/15! He was also in construction. I bet Coach has read “the greatest salesman in the world”
@Hajjmusic_11 жыл бұрын
Let multiple women choose you and then pick the one you want the most. Congrats. You are the now chooser.
@sadistdaddy666 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. I think men should choose the women they are going to be with. Ofc she has to choose you first, but you also have to choose her, otherwise you would end up in a relationship with a 5 or 6.
@hondamanvtec2894 Жыл бұрын
😂
@chrisherber16353 ай бұрын
I find it hard to believe that most men are able to have 3-4 women choosing them all at the same time with equal fervor. It just doesn’t work that way.
@JohnDoe-ef3nv8 жыл бұрын
the most important thing you can do as a guy is courtship: setting up the next date be the rock, the mountain, the source of emotional strength and love- little little girl going to daddy when she's feeling sad, etc. for love and reassurance. guy is trying to start a relationship before dating- Bad idea!
@maartenbass3283 жыл бұрын
How does someone become the rock the mountain the source of emotional strength and love? How did you do it bro?
@MrWarthogv8 Жыл бұрын
Self Control bro A man must master himself first You need EQ Emotional Intelligence Be tough emotionally, not weak Don't be moved easily by what she says She's going to test you , say things to hurt you but Don't take it serious
@CoachCoreyWayne11 жыл бұрын
The problem is these guys do it to themselves, knowingly and unknowingly. They give their power away and show no self love and self respect. Therefore, they get none from women.
@Exxon3006 жыл бұрын
Coach Corey Wayne Preach Coach
@eheiser316 жыл бұрын
This is solid brother !!
@islandbreeze13526 жыл бұрын
Jose Torres you missed the point man ...pay attention
@michaelramirez41626 жыл бұрын
That's right Coach! We have to invest time, money, and emotions on ourselves as men. Because we know we have high value, whether a certain girl recognizes it or not is immaterial. A confident man has no problem aproaching women, so there's always an abudance mentality.
@blizzard20996 жыл бұрын
@Jose Torres: Making the decisions doesn't mean doing the calling(being needy).
@ModernDatingMastery12 күн бұрын
*Allowing women to take the lead in choosing creates a more relaxed atmosphere and shows confidence. It shifts the dynamic to one where both parties feel comfortable, making interactions feel more natural and authentic!*
@Scopps949 жыл бұрын
That story reminds me of when Goku met chichi for the first time. Goku had no idea what was going on but Chi-Chi and her Dad were arranging their wedding whilst Goku was just on his journey looking for the dragonballs, Chi-Chi had to look for him to get him ready for their wedding :) lool
@decayjustice48189 жыл бұрын
+Scopps94 Well not all women are chi chis ... but most men can become a goku if they are allowed to ... shame ..
@Scopps948 жыл бұрын
beastb83 I found out in the latest episode 😩😩😩😩 like wtf LMAO, how did they make Gohan?? Just fucking?
@ZenmasterZeni7 жыл бұрын
Scopps94 Goku straight savage. No kiss and Raw-doggin' it.
@anthonymedlin3207 жыл бұрын
Scopps94 lmao
@wyoancap19007 жыл бұрын
You have no idea how happy this just made me.
@ARThirty36 жыл бұрын
I’m a woman and you’re absolutely right about 99% of how dating works
@kevlar.853 жыл бұрын
What's the 1% that's not true?
@maartenbass3283 жыл бұрын
What's that 1 percent? We need to know
@DavidLoveOfficial3 жыл бұрын
I bet you think it's 100% but you just don't want to admit it :)
@safethamzagic72262 жыл бұрын
@@ChanceBerryman 😂
@Rage-_-Quit7 жыл бұрын
Been following your work for a while now, and at first I got the idea, but I felt my mindset wasn't there yet, so I kept making mistakes because on the inside I was still fearful. Then one day it just clicked, I could literally feel it. I had become that mountain that just is, no matter what the weather is like. I didn't feel diminished or worried anymore when my dates were dating other guys as well, I didn't even think about it and just let them come to me at their own pace. They would often even complain to me about how clingy and needy the other guys were, and tell me how different I was. I knew the other guys were causing one trainwreck after the other, while I could just sit back, focus on my purpose, have a good time and get the girls in the end. All while being that rock, giving them the safety and reassurance they need, without chasing or smothering them. To put it in your words: It's fucking beautiful :)
@maartenbass3283 жыл бұрын
What do you mean bro? What circumstances lead you to become the mountain? How does it feel?
@Signumc24012 жыл бұрын
I love these strategies, we can just fuckin relax, focus on our goals and let the girls do all the work!
@Jay-ef2ii2 жыл бұрын
It's beautiful when the woman you like selects you especially if the woman has looks. I have had that in the past, and It's a nice feeling. You don't struggle nor do you get humiliated by her. She is just there for you every single day. Clicking with a woman that you like is easy but you must first have chemistry. Chemistry solves a lot of things even though many embrace the black pill vision, but I have lived it first hand. You don't have to be a 9 to find a hottie. You can just be a 6 and have chemistry and everything just rolls from there (with a woman who is a 7 or an 8). If men followed this advice then they would not go through hardship with the opposite gender. Men would be avoiding embarrassment. Who wants to be thinking that on December 25, 2014, you went through an emotional embarrassment with a hottie and you just can't forget the experience? Bad memories sting, bad! I think that men want to do the choosing because they want someone super Hot and they don't want life (at all) bringing them someone unattractive. All men will lie on TV and in interviews but every man wants a HOT: (a Helen of Troy); they want a hottie. But we must understand that women will do the choosing. They select us, period. Love is a little complicated but if you respect, absorb, and follow this advice then things will be much smoother in your life. First, you will avoid embarrassment, along with cuss words being thrown at you by the ladies or the lady you desire. March 13, 2022 USA
@funkyfreshEazyO8 жыл бұрын
the problem is when a guy only gets choosing signals from women who they don't find attractive. then he has to resort to breaking the slumpbusters hearts.
@jhonjohnjonjondoe50115 жыл бұрын
no you don't have to and that is the beauty of being a man. Just ignore them and they will take it as a rejection
@michaelramirez41626 жыл бұрын
That's right Coach! We have to invest time, money, and emotions on ourselves as men. Because we know we have high value, whether a certain girl recognizes it or not is immaterial. A confident man has no problem aproaching women, so there's always an abudance mentality.
@nickdiaz84155 жыл бұрын
I love it when women show interest in me and pursue me because the ball is in my court. I hold all the power.
@NanoverseProductions7 жыл бұрын
I fucking love you brother! I feel so much better about myself because of your work. Imagine if you wouldve been a beta male....I and others would be fucked!!! My mindset is no longer based on scarcity. Now I walk around feeling abundant when it comes to women. And they respond to me better than ever!! God bless you! I hope to shake your hand one day!
@lolsucks35997 жыл бұрын
true I couldnt agree with you more :)
@Peteyp-o4v9 ай бұрын
I never chase anyone. They can come to me and i will decide based on looks and personality. If they try to make me jealous (which many do) they lose.
@maxlife97216 жыл бұрын
SET UP A DATE OR PULL BACK WITH A SUGGESTION TO LET YOU KNOW...THEN BACK OFF...SHE WILL CONTACT YOU IF SHE LIKES YOU
@MufasaWacho7 ай бұрын
You have always been ahead of the times my friend.
@rockn167711 жыл бұрын
Good video Corey, you teach guy's to make meeting and dating women as simple and as effortless as possible.
@Ravenex27 жыл бұрын
lol last minute Corey went ham on this dude.
@tomservo30012 ай бұрын
You also have to watch their words over their actions. They could say they choose you, with their actions they choose someone else.
@Alexandersaponte4 жыл бұрын
He’s the dad I needed growing up😂
@fosterhawkins3211 жыл бұрын
I like your positive attitude towards dating.
@elsquibbs4 жыл бұрын
I had a chick refuse to take a check from me for money I owed her. "No, you can pay me next time. I'll see you soon." That's totally an excuse to contact me when she feels like it while trying to disguise it. She may as well have left her earrings at my house.
@Colonalcool128 жыл бұрын
Pretty sure I've lost this girl she's got someone else commenting on her pictures, I thought I was doing everything right as well she was chasing me
@elkuartostudio8 жыл бұрын
Bare Grills don't contact her at all. at some point the new guy seems to be chasing too much. you'll be the winner.
@positivecommentguy6994 жыл бұрын
He’s nothing but a typical beta male orbiter begging for attention from a female by liking and commenting on every single picture
@sirstrong1st10 жыл бұрын
If this is true than the man in america is totally powerless....Or,he has to be a woman's fool until she get's tired of him. I say," change the rules,the laws, back to were they once where,or at least make it even". There absolutely nothing easy about dating a person who holds all the cards over you.But I know women like hearing it.
@heyitsablackguy95538 жыл бұрын
This dynamic has been around ever since the beginning of time.
@kevinwilson33374 жыл бұрын
Women has always done the choosing for the most part unless your a celebrity , professional athlete or has a lot of status.
@samjones8586 жыл бұрын
You saved me so much pain my friend
@CRoooH3 жыл бұрын
Following coach Corey strategy to the T set up the date keeping the text smalltalk and never double texting.. she been pursuing me and I haven't even really tried and the results are so much better, just love yourself homies and beauty will find u
@faceless-x-abberation84006 жыл бұрын
My wife and I are split up. Weve had the idea of getting back together all this time but things are changing. Ive been going through some changes in thought and attitude ect. She can tell somethings been going on. She blew up my phone yesterday but I was dealing with some mental shit and never messaged her back. That pissed her off. Well I ended up getting back with her today and she ends up dropping the bomb that she got asked out on a date. lol but i text my lil bro and told him cause weve been talking about stuff alot and he sent me a link to one of your vids. Now here I am. I stood up for what I believed in through it and didnt back down change my approach. idk tough situation.
@NoName-zb1gm5 ай бұрын
The issue I have is if the woman chooses the man she feels like she has the upper hand and you'll have to deal with her drama and bullying. He chooses her and gives her space and lets her think she is choosing him.
@fabianpatrizio28653 жыл бұрын
True Corey.....movies/ tv nowadays is unwatchable.....I only watch old movies :)
@richardrye71209 жыл бұрын
Great point about the old movies compared to today's message ....yup !!
@philmcculla49417 жыл бұрын
I luv this dude there is no other, hes so right the point i tell everyone no joke
@methlokaijufan97294 жыл бұрын
This stuff works in America only . Not in Europe . If you live in Europe no matter what you do you are still friendzoned even if you are good looking . And if you let the women do the chase they will forget about your existance
@methlokaijufan97294 жыл бұрын
@Thanos This is bullshit and you know it
@methlokaijufan97294 жыл бұрын
@@travis6694 Exactly
@ciobanualin33604 жыл бұрын
I live in Romania and I can only say that women from here are very complicated and strange. 70% of the girls from my country are dreaming to have a boyfriend who drives a BMW, who owns a house with pool and is able to take them wherever they desire. 20% are good looking, smart girls, which are already taken and 10% don't want to get involved in any relationship, because they have been hurt in the past by someone else.
@methlokaijufan97294 жыл бұрын
@@ciobanualin3360 Si eu sunt din Romania . Ai perfecta dreptate
@ciobanualin33604 жыл бұрын
@@methlokaijufan9729 De pe unde, mai exact? :D
@richardrye71209 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for you timeless wisdom Corey Wayne . Your point about ( when not successful yet , how you felt you had to do something first yourself to initiate a need to be understood wow . This is paramount not to do I see now . priceless !!!
@epicbehavior9 жыл бұрын
2:15 .... best analogy ever
@SavedbyGrace77734 жыл бұрын
Lost it when Corey's face appeared. 😂😂🤷♂️
@benngoma5373 жыл бұрын
I love the reference to the olden and newer movies
@slowkarate9 жыл бұрын
Hey Cory, it seems like your telling men that might be naturally sensitive to deny that side of themselves because its too feminine, or at least hide it from women. Am i correct in this assumption, and if so, don't you think its a bad idea from a psychological point of view to disown perhaps core parts of yourself for the sake of being masculine? Any thoughts are appreciated and welcomed.
@Djr26999 жыл бұрын
tim wilkins whats the poing in being senitive? a man is supposed to be stong and lead. let her be the sensitive one
@dapper_slapper40938 жыл бұрын
Being sensitive is good and attractive. Being emotional is a turn off. Know the difference. If your sensitive it means you have the strength and are able to protect and provide for another person. The perfect man for a woman should be the picture of what love is. Love is patient, kind, does not envy, does not boast, is not proud, is not rude, not self seeking, not easily angered, keeps no records of wrongs, and never fails. Those aren't asshole qualities. They are quite sensitive but very strong. Men seek respect in a partner the most and women seek love in a partner the most. An emotional man is unable to have these qualities because the only person he cares about is himself, if even that. If you are emotional then you need strength.
@thoarnejones68057 жыл бұрын
tim wilkins nothing wrong with being sensitive, I'm a huge romantic. but we as men need to be stronger than the women we date/marry. watch Bedazzled with Liz Hurly, there's a really great scene that shows why being TOO sensitive is bad.
@kevinvargas53296 жыл бұрын
Women always stay choosing
@KevinHernandez-pr2qk4 жыл бұрын
"Playas get chose"
@shadyclyde62777 жыл бұрын
I was clueless in this era. the results is I'm clearly fckd up here 😂😂😂
@VictorNintendista5 жыл бұрын
This is gold
@peterslattery79594 жыл бұрын
Aaron Rogers has only been in and won one super bowl btw.
@cast10618 жыл бұрын
Why do women sometimes complain to their girlfriends about the guy they're dating never talking about being exclusive?
@LimitlessAffirmations8 жыл бұрын
Cuz they're a 97% woman. lol
@cast10616 жыл бұрын
Wild Bill This answered my question, Thanks! Dumb question after looking back. Didn't know coach's material too well or women in general
@danyavilaoficial2 жыл бұрын
The most needy the less needed
@bobyy319 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the information,this really helped me!
@lloydbeal6133 жыл бұрын
Why would a woman be more attracted to a man that his feeling are unclear🤔...over a man that's actually shows how he really feels up front..lol 🤯 I hear woman all that time talking about dudes playing games..and not being upfront but🤯
@SuperDenkoo2 жыл бұрын
Cuzco she knows she can have you easily when you confess. It's more interesting to get what you can't have.
@roc65965 жыл бұрын
I'm dating a girl and I didn't have to care about any of this shit, I just was who I was, shown that I was confident and that I had goals, made it clear I wanted someone to help, and to add instead of taking and she just did almost everything, she asked me on a date, and was the first one to confess, I just had to ask her out though cause she was shy lol
@atteindresiempredad6 жыл бұрын
that guy just learned the friendzone speech and applied it in the wrong time
@bahaatamer12454 жыл бұрын
Meanwhile here goes my story: I met a girl online and asked her out the moment we were in the same country (I made quite a lot of mistakes as well!). First date she claimed to have overslept (she flaked on me!) and she tried so hard to apologize about that, but I gave her a penalty to pay! - eventually she texted me again out of nowhere last night and I asked her out to study with me today if she can (I had plans to make my move!), but she never did. For now, I didn't act butthurt yet, but what's the cure for such type of behavior?
@KakashiBallZ4 жыл бұрын
Do you consider studying a breeding ground for romance?
@maartenbass3283 жыл бұрын
@@KakashiBallZ this👆 study time and lunch isn't what loser do, it's what friends do... Go at night for drinks, and then to your place... hang out have fun hook up..
@pauldomfree5 жыл бұрын
Whats up though with girls who never had a father figure? To whom do they run? Does their behavior change at all?
@maartenbass3283 жыл бұрын
Does are mostly girls you don't wanna deal with, they haven't done the mental work to procès their traumas, your live will become hell, let the good ones come, corey said: if a woman likes you enough she will make you it easier to come
@iangrinols166 жыл бұрын
Corey, great work as usual but Aaron Rodgers has unfortunately only been to one Super Bowl #GB for life
@keithdevine82816 ай бұрын
When I was a young boy in my teens,my father told me a man chases a women till she catches them.
@howardkwok55288 жыл бұрын
Coach! What do you do on Valentine's Day? Do you think it's a bullshit man-made fabrication, or do you respect how the women perceive it? or does it not matter at all, especially when the women say: "it doesn't matter"
@christopherarmstrong27103 жыл бұрын
5:03 Her putting on the *War paint* = getting the fingernails done, buying the dresses, wearing the perfume that smells like cotton candy. Women are physically setup to get our attention.
@blajul110 жыл бұрын
thanks maestro for this wonderful clip and sayin about the movie IT'S A WONDERFUL LIFE! gret movie , great actors, it, s nomber 11 in best 100 movies of all time!! thanks for giving us the opportunity to see it!
@RiverflowwcutzTV4 жыл бұрын
Emotional Unavailable
@inquisitiveone25567 жыл бұрын
"That's asinine!" Lmfao!!
@davidh1927 Жыл бұрын
So very accurate....
@arnauddebremaeker77239 жыл бұрын
thanks Corey ;)
@abelgodinez40443 жыл бұрын
I needed to see this video
@merkey5 жыл бұрын
talking about aaron rodgers and this ni88a looks like brett farve :)
@bibliusz77711 ай бұрын
What if no girl is pursuing me and I'm at home 24/7 using computer and would only go out if it was actually with a girl?
@dylanhulen485517 күн бұрын
Then go to the gym and get you a job as a bouncer. It will sky rocket your ability to talk to women.
@bibliusz77717 күн бұрын
@@dylanhulen4855 Idk. I just need few girls to impregnate. I want to have non-human children mainly, through genetic modifications. My reasoning is this: to decide, one searches for furthest predicted consequences and selects preferred ones. I see that life will end when stars and planets burn out, so I want to influence what the last life is. Now my focus is on earning much, which doesn't go well, since I don't get responses for my CVs and didn't have a commission for months. I am a software engineer who developed own tools for programming in the last 5 years.
@dylanhulen485517 күн бұрын
@ ever thought of getting with a cat?
@levedia9 жыл бұрын
So a woman has to chase you basically. If was a football player women would chase me too. I don't buy it the guy has to chase but slowly. The guy has to call dosent mean the girl dosen't like you as long as she dosen't cancel the date and shows up and you both have a great time. What im going to give up on a woman that she dosent do the pursuing.
@josereyes11489 жыл бұрын
ok this girl chased me. she asked me out a few times but I didn't. mostly me being wussy. now I don't see her anymore. should I ask her on facebook even tho we are not friends on there. or would this be chasing her. should I just wait to see her naturaly and ask
@raypierce32059 жыл бұрын
Just wait to see her naturally and ask don't randomly ask her on Facebook especially if you're not friends on there, it's creepy
@alexanderkhojainov30714 жыл бұрын
Fucking coach Corey, always on point
@cliffimages178511 жыл бұрын
Good stuff, thanks!!!!
@seanstinson393 жыл бұрын
... Except when it comes to movies
@erikcortez2106 Жыл бұрын
I didn’t understand? Anyone ?
@firty85182 жыл бұрын
Thanks.
@anjushreemahapatra85246 жыл бұрын
At the end of the day a hefty bank balance & the wallet size matters. Trust me!
@borlucaerkan6 жыл бұрын
So do we let women act anyway they want to even if there disrespectful by the words they say
@mariasantiago75106 жыл бұрын
Corey, how long should a man court a woman before committing to her?
@Cubanwestern5 жыл бұрын
My Ninja 😊
@bigslimsanantoniotx64836 жыл бұрын
♦️But it fukn wrks lol
@wb95064 жыл бұрын
It's much easier in the Amish community LOL
@anpe65246 жыл бұрын
"Chasing women gets rejection"???? NOPE if she is into you.
@raulsanchez33665 жыл бұрын
Men that don't initiate contact and are busy for her are always more atractive to her. Avoid initiating the contact and let them contact you and chase you. That works better
@jordanpermenter75154 жыл бұрын
Roger
@matthewgregory82187 жыл бұрын
The guys chose to marry by proposing
@victorsuarez37 жыл бұрын
The girl chooses by saying yes...
@HerSunHisMoon913 жыл бұрын
I know men who don’t know the meaning of courtship!!!
@lergeworkman52086 жыл бұрын
The guy who wrote in is a hardcase. He needs to get off the computer and get his shit together.
@HectorToscano-fx6ro Жыл бұрын
Broke
@rescalante266 жыл бұрын
47 marks disliked this.
@lemonpepperjones70936 жыл бұрын
Aaron Rodgers only went to 1superbowl
@christopherarmstrong27103 жыл бұрын
14:30 “They [voters] want a man who acts like a man [Trump], not a man who acts like a woman [Biden].”
@willysworldtv4 ай бұрын
Your intro is the most annoying sound on the internet 😅