Matching & Mirroring: Balancing The Nice Guy Vs. The Jerk Vibe

[@billlohan5079]

The goat sounds has me unable to breathe with laughter. I think watching Coach Corey talk about dating and analysing the letters is more fun than actually dating

[@ahigham58]

I’ve followed Corey’s work for over 5 years now, I’ve been with my girl for over 2 years and now we’re planning a baby. I used Corey’s advice and went from first date to relationship inside 3 months, I regularly watch his videos now just to make sure that my behaviour is tight One of my girls friends is currently on tinder and it’s fascinating listening to the story’s she comes out with about the 97%. It’s got to the point where I can pinpoint exactly where these men have gone wrong but can’t help but feel sorry for them Again thanks Corey Your advice has changed my life ❤

[@Robin-is3ke]

The courtship never ends - good luck bro

[@MrBrandonLau]

I have the same feeling when a girl tells me about a guy they dated and dumped. I secretly want to send them a link to the Coach. I used to want to keep coach to myself, but now I realize that only good guys will take his advice seriously.

[@benjaminholt6640]

Awesome

[@ragnapraxis4657]

Baby? Get ready to lose all your shit

[@blackstarra]

Came here for the knowledge and stayed for the hilarious character reenactments... 10/10 🤣 😆 😂

[@DevonsSelfDev]

This might be my favorite of all his videos - on comedy alone!

[@thesilenthero422]

OLD= online dating I’m guessing

[@movingthroughlifewithdusti6895]

Thanks for being the bright light.

[@Boogie7910]

This stuff Corey teaches does not come natural but once he explains it, it makes perfect sense. It changed my dating life forever. Women tell me they see me as such a masculine man, they feel safe and comfortable, they feel protected. This is because I don't act beta anymore. I don't over pursue. I mirror and match. Women go through phases where in the past, I'd get butthurt about it which displays weakness, but you just need patience and they come back around soon enough with all their feminine energy. If they're going through a bad spell and stressed, don't take it personally and just give them space. #1 piece of advice, it doesn't matter how hot they are.. if their toxic and not sweet and nice, drop them like a bad habit before you get sucked into a situation that will traumatize you where you forget what normal feels like.

[@CaptainAngelo]

This is exactly correct, you have to be willing to walk away from any woman if it’s a toxic environment, I don’t care if they’re a runway model. I’ve also had plenty of women talk about my masculine energy, not understand I’m under 6 foot tall, I’m 53 years old and I’m in decent shape, I don’t have a Lamborghini in my driveway and I no longer make a six figure income, and I’m still getting women, here’s what really gives you a masculine energy, self-respect, knowing self-worth, and having self-confidence! Confidence is a huge aphrodisiac for women, I’ve been shocked-by how well it worked, no matter what you see on TV, women actually want to be with a masculine energy in their life.

[@elsquibbs]

It is vitally important recognize that a response and an answer are not the same thing. She may not respond to your message or invite, but she's definitely answering you.

[@benhood4248]

Before I found Corey’s work, I thought I did some pathetic things, but listening to how these guys handle women…makes me feel better about myself🤣 Corey’s imitations are hilarious 🤣🤣

[@iwantgoals1566]

This is part of the draw of watching his videos after a break up. Really cheers you up and makes you see that you’re not that bad.

[@midking8841]

@@iwantgoals1566 same. I thought I did realy bad, but some of these guys make me think that I was handeling the relationship decent.

[@MrBrandonLau]

@@midking8841there are soooo many of these guys. Especially the younger crowd, my niece has some hilarious stories

[@jeffstone4624]

Drive the fun bus. Always gauge her interest level. Stay unperturbed. She calls for the relationship.

[@Masamune2001]

A good student

[@georgepay7667]

Corey’s puppy dog reactions are hilarious! 😆🤣😂

[@gustavogomez7331]

Fr 😂 I love how it's a mix of roasting and knowledge. I mean that situation was pretty funny. I guess it's tragic comedy.

[@johnpiper2558]

Hahaha, "I could have had a V8" line. Haven't heard that in forever, made me laugh.

[@ironyouth3384]

Always remember that receiving no response is a response. It communicates that you are not a priority or worthy of a response, not to mention it’s rude and inconsiderate. So match and mirror like the coach says. Don’t keep sending texts. If they can’t respond, fuck ‘em. You have better things to do and why would you want to waste your time on low energy and uninterested women?

[@Sip28]

I’m learning

[@kimberleigh8345]

I have experienced almost all the these behaviors from men throughout my life, you must have been a woman in your past life, Corey, because you understand women better then any man I have ever seen or heard. Impressive.

[@mr.poogezilla5049]

I was the third email. I took corrective action and apologized for being a jerk and we had a good long talk after a round of the indoor Olympics. Definitely understand I acted butt hurt now. Thanks coach for the response hope this helps anyone else who is in a similar situation.

[@cryptopharmacist7983]

I feel like 3rd e-mail I related to my last relationship more…

[@ediniojeanphilippe9432]

And why did you tell her to bring her cute ass over here ?😂😂😂

[@dusenstrahlverfahren]

Were you also doing the goat sound as Corey suggested? ;)

[@TurquazCannabiz]

Cory you absolute beast. This is exactly what I needed today. She wanted a 'break' and I returned the favor by going no contact for a week or two. Now she's reaching out and I have exactly the dilemma you just described. I'm stuck in between missing her and being convinced I can get better.

[@draknov1888]

Listen to your heart dude. What do you TRULY want?

[@TurquazCannabiz]

@@draknov1888 bro, I love her but it’s not worth it

[@pastcaring1]

You can get better and you will get better you are the prize as Cory says she should make your d..k hard not make your life hard

[@crnivuk7092]

@@TurquazCannabiz you can do better bro!

[@Robin-is3ke]

Move on and never look back

[@bodazaphfa]

OLD = Online Dating…..just in case no one else has stated it yet. Great video!👍

[@Robin-is3ke]

I laughed so f*cling hard 😂, thanks for getting a big smile on my face - Chad Thundercock

[@NomadicRVLiving]

Coach has become a comedian too. Love it.

[@pigbingo]

The role playing, especially on the third email is priceless.

[@MortalisPT]

Every time Corey Started to do those goat sounds i was dying of laughter 😂😂😂

[@rah1735]

The billy goat returns with another banger 🐐

[@shortingthetrend]

I'm gonna write an email to coach and it's going viral. My story is very unique. Both of us grew up in broken homes but we both started working on ourselves. Guys, greatest thing I ever did was telling my woman she was toxic and then I started applying Corey's teachings to her and other women. Then other women started wanting me and my gf was like "ok Ef this, I'm getting you back" & she started working on herself, fixing her flaws,.positive I am statements,. gosh darn, it's like I'm in love again!

[@JohnSmith-bq4zw]

Be careful about getting overly emotional bro.

[@AngieRomeo27]

So you mean she started working on herself after you've told her how she is toxic and disrepectful and now everyhting is alright?

[@shortingthetrend]

@@AngieRomeo27 not like that easy... It took about 6 months. I started flirting with other women and the way they replied my girl would say "ya, she wants you".. we did hypothetical situations where she asked me "so if left you after 3 months and came back and said I changed but I wanted you to break up with her, would you?" I said "no, because then you are still trying to control me" and she asked "okay what if I left and came back and then you two were already having sex would u let me come back?" I said "no it wouldn't be fair to you or her because you had so many months to prove to me and show me with your actions, I would have to see action before I let you back into my life" and she said "I really respect you for sticking your ground" and now she is working on herself she enjoys coaches videos now, she's working on being more assertive, less toxic and less insecure she's really putting in the work now and I am starting to be happy again it feels good

[@shortingthetrend]

@@AngieRomeo27 it takes time bro trust me she will mirror your actions... Just don't sit there with silence.. always be talking always be chatting always be having fun if you are doing your own thing on your phone and she is doing her own thing that is cool cuz sometimes there are situations where couples are always around which is what my partner and I have been doing for 13 years, we don't have a lot of space apart so we have to create space without hurting each other's feelings it sounds weird saying it out loud... But if you find yourself sitting quiet for a long. Of time just make sure you look at her every now and then and smile. Maybe blow a kiss tell her you are thinking about her and then resume your activity.

[@rjskum688]

@@shortingthetrend you essentially just made your ex jealous via the other chicks. lol that's not love bro. Thats what females do to dudes lmao

[@BrokenAbucus]

Just driving to work, listening to the video, drinking some water, almost wreck after 25:51 laughing my ass off with water now everywhere 🤣🤣

[@danstout3154]

Hi Coach-I thought this was one of your best, especially in the second half, with your levity and expressions. I have recommended a 40yr old son and a 60 yr old friend to your work. Thanks for your body of work. Been following for a couple years, bought book, read once, doing well and hope you are as well. 64 and going strong. Dan

[@jasonharris644]

It’s so oddly bizarre how accurate this is. I’ve made pretty much all these mistakes unknowingly. Oh well. Live and learn ~

[@Tookode1]

Omggg I love your goat noise, specially the one at the end. My coworkers like wtf he laughin at?! Raaaah raaahhh 😭💀💀

[@JR-ts3tf]

This content hurts to hear but it’s necessary for learning and growth. Stay strong men.

[@richard1723]

So I'm the first guy in the video. Thanks for making a video about it. I wasn't able to include everything in the email as it had to be a certain word limit but pretty much you summed up everything. I made mistakes, was needy, overpursed, etc, sucks that I fucked it up with the girl I've wanted for so long. I really can feel the vibe from her when I'm with her in person, but outside of that, there's no effort from her and I can't tell if it's because of me and something I did or more so the fact that there's another guy. I regret texting her, but was in an emotional space when I saw her at the gym with another guy. How do I play it if I see her at the gym? Not gonna reach out to her at all again, which sucks but I can't do anything more than I've already done.

[@achillesegaruoc1807]

Not sure how Corey would take this, but I personally wouldve come and said hello to her that first time you saw her with another dude. Be cool, say hello, and introduce yourself. Don't act butthurt. Act dominant.

[@edwardpalmer3054]

@@achillesegaruoc1807 no

[@edwardpalmer3054]

@@achillesegaruoc1807 Don't take this dudes advice ^ horrible advice.

[@edwardpalmer3054]

You're a mess, work on yourself instead of drooling over girl for 2 years because of your Illusion of the "The one". On your post you said it yourself, you made mistakes, was needy, over pursued. Then you ask, you don't know if it's you, something you did or the other guy? You know the answer and coach just gave you the answer, stop projecting your obsession with this girl on to her because it's blinding you. Let me tell you it's ALL 3 reasons. It's YOU because you had a crush on her for 2 years and she knew it, instinctively she knew that you had nothing going on for 2 years. Then you get the chance and you over pursue, most likely you projected how much you've been drooling over her for 2 years, you smothered her and she noped out of there quick because she has dealt with guys like you before and it's always easier to reject them over the phone than in person. That's why she's always smiling and talking to you good in person because she doesn't want to deal with how you're going to react to her rejecting you in person so she just cancels and rejects you over the phone. She don't respect you, she don't want you, she don't want to talk to you, she doesn't like you, she doesn't desire you sexually. She doesn't have to say anything her actions are clearly telling you everything, but you're infatuation with her is blinding you from seeing that she doesn't feel about you what you feel about her. I recommend you watch coaches video, when you stop caring. Leave this girl alone, stop talking to her in the gym, stop texting, stop calling, stop trying to make dates, don't even look at her anymore. It's over with her, only thing you can do is work on yourself, move on and date other girls that want to talk to you and that are excited to see you. You clearly have a lot of work to do on yourself, get to it. Best of luck to you.

[@johntravers2321]

You just simply back off. You can let her come to you but don’t expect it to be for romance. You need to be focusing on yourself and other women. Move on.

[@MagnusStormfist]

This is tricky, I also acted more like a slightly selfish jerk in the early days however after 2 months I get too committed and soft, balancing the two has always been a challenge.

[@shortingthetrend]

First person with an actual comment. Thanks for your work coach, I reattracted my insecure gf to find her feminine. ITS WORKING!!!!!

[@dagamingsalmon7668]

When Coach does the female voice I crack up everytime, lmao! Love the goat screeches too hahaha!

[@Iamtemjin]

The whole “BLEAAAAAHHH” impersonation is 110% hilarious. I thought you were going full Toxic Avenger.

[@hasheralawi1977]

Corey really having fun 😂

[@Signia268]

I've been there just recently. I have had a lot of trouble dating ever since my 6 year relationship (failed engagement) ended - 2 years ago. I was a doormat and then have noticed I've been very insecure and needy. I'm glad I have stumbled into his work because it's easy to see where I went wrong. I had a girl who set up 3 dates with me all by herself and I completely blew it (didn't have an opinion, just did whatever she wanted, was unattractive even to me). I've taken it as a lesson and have begun fixing my life in other areas and can't wait to apply your book and refer to it whenever I revert back to my undesirable behavior. Thank you.

[@jameshunt3504]

Lmfaoooooo 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆 🤣 had to be one of the funniest 🤣 videos 📹 ever coach ‼️🤣🤦🏽‍♂️

[@650Ryder]

I was laughing so effin hard at the goat sounds you were making at the end coach. Somethings obviously wrong with me but thanks for the laugh 😂

[@Exotic_St4rxxx]

Lots of great videos and advice on Coach Corey’s Channel for free even for people who cannot afford phone sessions. Also generates a lot of good karma back to him. True example of a man with value. Thanks so much!

[@lovingdevotions]

Outstanding examples of good quality questions 19:00 Thank you

[@CreatingExcellence]

Take her off the pedestal Bro. Behave and act towards her like someone you would behave and act towards someone you are not interested in. You’re in your life’s mission and purpose, if she cares to join you great. If not, great as well.

[@DenaliKid93]

@CoachCoreyWayne: You made my night with the Spanish Guy & Goat 🐐 routine at the end of the video!!! 😂😅😂 I needed that laugh!!!

[@sirrantsalott]

Been watching you over half a decade and you’re still looking good and spreading the good word. Thanks for being a part of my journey. Yes I bought your book, a long time ago. :)

[@bloodwashedsaint]

Corey, you bit the bullet hard and did it for the team…!

[@marioestrada4473]

Hey Coach, at 25:45 ….the “goat” video you’re referring to is the man asking the goat if he wants to be BBQ’ed or turned in “Birra” which is a style that goat meat is cooked to make tacos. That’s why the goat was screaming….he doesn’t want either. Hahahaha

[@robkent9745]

Corey ends this chapter in a great way hahaha I remember that video he's talking about and it's hilarious 😂🤣

[@craiglange4523]

Great advice. I feel sorry for these guys. If a chick is unavailable or already with a guy or just wants to be friends, I wouldn't bother with the line, well if you change your mind, let me know, there are so many women out there, why waste time hoping some chick will break up with her boyfriend. It works for some, but you could be meeting women who are completely single.

[@ChristopherT1]

Dude your girl voice is hilarious!! 😂😂

[@joshwilliams6517]

Corey been going hard for decades

[@tapiwanyakabau3541]

The arggghh goat scenario part had me in stitches😂 but also great advice 👌🏾

[@-HiddenInPlainSight-]

" i'm busy baaaaah" too funny. I know that video you referencing..goats are ridiculous lol

[@Jacobey22]

Liking the longer videos again

[@greggillings9454]

You imitating the way the guy is coming off is hilarious 🤣

[@last1000]

Going over the third email was really informative for me. Great channel

[@MrGuile8]

Thanks!

[@NewLeaf88]

The jerkstore called….and they’re running out of YOU! - George Costanza

[@DrDuke-om3tk]

whats the difference...? you're their all time selling best product

[@anthonyjacksonjr4812]

Vital Information Coach. 💪🏾

[@drrrs86]

Coach is so funny! Thanks for your channel! I think one of the most important to men actually

[@mkeuphoria]

18:40 LMAO! And then the goat! Great stuff through and through Coach. Thanks

[@Couri3rr]

Thanks for the reminder coach. The phone is only for setting up dates

[@darrenrioux9538]

OLD=Online Dating, come on Cory get with the times! 😂

[@SkiBeachCamp]

Always great videos

[@scoepp1053]

I love coaches animation he started using in his newer videos 😂😂 eeeeh eeeeh eeeh 😂😂

[@LonCopeland]

Freaking hilarious, Coach!!!

[@andudontstopyo]

Yo, Coach Corey is hilarious. 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@sketchbookhero]

OLD is On Line Dating- KEEP up the great advice!

[@faisalnoor7081]

Oh god! this is the best video by you, corey! WAHHHH!!! XD

[@Champ1988]

You had me dying 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@heathers2273]

Do the goat voice in every video 🤣🤣

[@BETO_Youtube]

25:23 THANK YOU CORY. You say it how it is. Now that I look at it I’m a butthurt baby and have so much to learn BAHHH😂🤡

[@DStewart521]

This one was hilarious!

[@DocM.]

The ending 🤣🤣🤣🤣 BAAAAAHHHH BBBBLLLAAAAAHHHH!!!!! 😂

[@benjaminholt6640]

These videos are golden

[@avacollezione]

If you've been phased out or she's gone flaky what's best practice just forget about her & get on with life, centred man with a purpose doesn't give it two thoughts etc. Tempted to send a closure text instinctively just wishing her the best etc but I know it's probably unwise - it's just quite abrupt to have gone from regularly sex and great intimacy to zero - the text feels right but is slightly against Corey's teaching.

[@Phantom-ez4zv]

flakeyness is hard to swoallow

[@jorgeromero7532]

😂 im dying watching this.. coach cracked me up

[@modernman7576]

These stories are funny when you used to do the same stuff 😆. Pick up the book gentlemen.

[@mfran025]

Haha coreys girl voice is the best always😂

[@kobyfullerton5350]

OH man the puppy dog impression just killed me..

[@hotdoglover1573]

OLD online dating come on Cory! Showing your OLD age 😂 jk love you man you changed my life.

[@josephhunt2478]

Common man! lol OLD on line Dating nice work Corey thanks

[@jorgeromero7532]

So I hear alot of "be playful".. Sometimes a man is not in a mood for games, is that ok or is that weakness? Is so how do you retreat without creating drama

[@phillipanthony2402]

first dude: 🎾🎾🎾🎾🎾🎾🎾🎾🎾

[@johnbingaman3645]

Man that first email he had tragedy lost his car as house and his job through the hurricane, I had the same thing happened when I got divorced lost my car my house my job to her

[@bringtheideas460]

This had me cracking up...

[@FemmePhilosophy]

That second guy sounds like a complete nightmare...

[@djspencer929]

I'd love to be a coach like you coach, us gentleman certainly appreciate your brilliance.

[@mikesteger6171]

lmao 10:20 to 10:40 hahaha

[@itsDEWgan]

“I COULD’VE HAD A V8” 💀😂

[@jonathanlutton1858]

Ex Girlfriend favorite line “I just need to talk” translation let’s talk for an hour then go screw.

[@GrowWithTrung]

LOL! Love you face, coach.

[@shakaj1525]

So there is this chick that i walk with sometimes for 30 min when we see each other on the street...she is on a bike but she slowed down and started walking after seeing me and i approached and that's how we met. She still rides the bike but when we see each other we walk for 30 min. She doesn't really give choosing signals like that she did let me touch her body(ribcage) and head( she said she got hit there at both places) I can't gauge her, thoughts? She said she once liked a boy and a girl so so that threw me off as well

[@mavrolos4728]

Coach!!!!!!

[@jacoblasc]

You’re funny as hell lollll

[@Ajourneycalledblessed]

Hi Corey, I’m not a 3% man, I’m the exact opposite actually. I recently told my ex bf I wanted him- not back, just wanted him. I professed my deep love, and he mirrored it, by saying: “I appreciate your boldness to say as you feel and where you are. I do appreciate, love and care for you as well. Where am I at now.. not seeking any commitment. I am quite content where I am.” On the other hand he keeps in touch with my mother occasionally, views my WhatsApp status, and has recently made initiative in greeting me the way he use to when we were dating etc. However since this topic came up, he went silent for a day. Is this another one of your 3% philosophies, is there an underlying male thing I need to understand, or me choosing not to accept what’s obvious? 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@sallyjrwjrw6766]

If he wanted to commit to you then he would say that. A 3% man is honest about what he wants, he just doesn't push a lady to do it, he waits for her. So a 3% man would wait for you to say you were ready for commitment and then agree to it (or not, if he didn't want to). You either need to accept what he's offering or cut him off. You can't make him do what you want him to do. Of course, tell him how you feel, don't just ghost him.

[@Jarrod489]

I’m busy aaaaaarrrrrr ahhhhh😂😂😂😂

[@mihirpatel5024]

Your smile is a jerk smile but you say nice guy words 💯

[@Patrick-cm2gj]

How do I go from hooking up with my ex when she reaches out every 1-3 months without being seen as a back up plan?

[@rgy5820]

You should be seeing other women. Not waiting around for her.

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

she's just one of the girls in your part time rotation. when she reaches out, hangout, have fun and hook up. don't focus on a relationship, you're not a chick.

[@crnivuk7092]

@@Patrick-cm2gj seems u are too much fixated to your ex instead being excited meeting new younger women that will love you, be femine, wet by just beeing in your presence and look at you like the best ever.

[@TheWaynelds]

I think OLD means On Line Dating, I may be wrong though.

[@pastcaring1]

I blocked my situation-ship girl yesterday I wanted to just move on from it completely and just be done with it and close the door I sent her a message first giving my reasons then blocked her feels good knowing I don’t have to deal with it no more

[@Sip28]

She ever reached out bra?

[@pastcaring1]

@Sip yeah bro she did then had another 8 weeks with her but been done with it for a few weeks now like cory says have to make sure they are normal girls and no carrying to much trauma as this effects the relationship Be at peace with yourself and give yourself time to heal after any break up Hope ur good bro u in a similar situation?

[@Sip28]

@@pastcaring1 man I’m going on a roller coaster. The girl is having family issues and it’s like one minute she wants a relationship and next she don’t.

[@pastcaring1]

@Sip man if u love her and can see a future with her then try to help her the best you can but not at the expense of your own mental health Coach says there like cats and let them roam when they need to

[@Sip28]

@@pastcaring1 definitely bro and today that’s what I’m doing. I’m not going to reach out first I’m just going to let her roam and breathe and call me when she feels like it.

[@danielgallagher8208]

I presume OLD is On Line Dating coach

[@wulfclaw4921]

If they wanna be the spoiled lil girl, the victim, or the pain in the ass. I tell her: "Hey, just kettin you know up front- I'm not perfect, nobody is, and I hold myself accountable for my wrongs, hopefully you do the same. I can empathize if you had some bad relationships, but I don't pick up the tab for other mens abuses or mistakes, so if you feel you are a victim, you aren't MY victim. If your not into operating from a fear- base that's good with me. We can have some great times ! " That's largely based on learning from Coach Corey's book and video lessons and my low tolerance of petty BS games. If she can't deal with that- I'm prepared to - and have walked without another wasted thought. I believe is sets the boundary and cuts off the bullsh!t tests, for the most part, if she respects me, she respects my boundaries. Just as I respect hers. Leaves everything open for good times !

[@6And6rej6]

Best video yet! xD Blaaah

[@shortingthetrend]

27:49 baaaaah gaaaaah! 😆