【电影】我想和你好好的（冯绍峰,倪妮）

[@從心開始-q2z]

看了這部片，慶幸當初眼裡只有我一人的女孩，我沒有丟掉，劇中出現的事情，八成都出現過，到現在還好好的在我身邊，也已經結婚了，女生要的不多，只要感情雙向奔赴，就足以❤

[@姿姿-b1c]

但是壓力真的好大~"~

[@ruijun6147]

​@@姿姿-b1c那是愛

[@yinger_0609]

最後倒帶一切過去的畫面感覺好扎心...彷彿一切回到原點，就像當初一樣 從來沒有交集...。 女主原本明明不是這樣的一個人，為了愛情漸漸迷失自我，這也是她不想要的...可無奈的是被迫讓愛人搞得自己變得都不自己。 當好不容易建立起來信任的城牆，總是很容易被一點小謊言輕易的推倒...。一次次的不信任造就了一次次的不安全感，日益漸增，導致一點事發生都會產生心裡的害怕，同時也不想重蹈覆轍讓自己矛盾...，最後一發不可收拾... 看了真的心裡很難受，太走心了。

[@mcyip2193]

女主離開他百分百正確，看不出亮亮遊甚麼值得女主如此深愛，一個以找各種女子玩性愛為樂的渣男。

[@MOTO-998]

@@mcyip2193好看的皮囊、壞壞的玩世不恭的調調。若把男主換作韋東奕，看還會有幾個不能自已。當然，ipo後的韋東奕們，會因為鑽石王老五的身份，反而有了接盤的風險。 說男主渣男，應該言重了。不至於的。

[@kingjamezo4583]

我靠 大半夜看完我怎麼睡覺😣...為什麼倪妮演的都是讓人這麼心疼的角色😔

[@xintongjiang7805]

看了这部电影好像现实版的自己，之前在抖音看到片段的时候看一次哭一次，而且不能自已，于是决定看一下完整版。过去的点点滴滴突然历历在目，情节相仿，只是主角不同，感受相同，心疼倪妮的同时也在悼念自己卑微的过往！感叹这世界的女人虽然性格不一样但是对于真爱的人都拥有着极度相似的患得患失感。如果说女人要多爱自己一点的话，那是那个人还不够你深爱，记得有一句话：The more you love, the more you hate.受过伤害的人从此就会像刺猬一样的活着。

[@rksjp8779]

有些爱情是你失去后才会想到珍惜。 当你得到时却承受不了它的。 最爱的人也不一定是最合适的。 现在在一起的也许不是最爱的。 只是偶尔会想起她。 但是绝不会在见面了。

[@sherryho]

是的，偶尔想起，后会无期！

[@zhouyuan781]

其实只要互相再理解对方一些。迁就一些。。。就能很幸福，其实女孩要的也很简单。男孩要的也很简单，女孩多给一些信任，男孩多给一些安全感。祝大家都能幸福

[@hanson2328]

想的太简单

[@peggywang8688]

故事的刚开始喵喵也是个优秀 勇敢 不回头看的人 对开豪车的追求者不屑一顾，她漂亮有趣可在故事的结尾他却变成了一个偏执狂 她想确定是自己的直觉是对的 想找到亮亮出轨的蛛丝马迹 却又不想和他分开。几年前看这部片子很同情男主会有这样的女朋友 而现在经历过感情才知道 如果你身边的人一直都是像最初那样疼爱你的话 你是不会胡思乱想的。

[@chuanxiao6148]

女主需要的爱情是把时间和精力都给对方，而男主是希望爱的同时，又有对方的空间。这种观念冲突是不会有结果的。女主只需要爱情，但男主还需要生活。男主固然有错，其实男主也并没有太多过失，情有可原。也可以说是被女主逼出来的。女主的心情和做法也并不算过分。男女之间，只是看对方是什么样子的人了。如果女主放纵男主，不那么担惊受怕，其实会有一个好的结局。但如果女主不嘟嘟逼人的爱，可能生活也少了份味道。

[@elezirzarate8518]

Present

[@miffyl924]

@@chuanxiao6148 不敢苟同你的说法，可能你的世界观里男主的做法是正确的吧。空间可以留给对方，但前提是你们同居你还要在背后偷偷摸摸，选择了就坦诚些，男主女主都不去沟通交流所以才会这样，如果你给女人足够安全感，我相信没有一个女人闲的去做监视人的事情

[@zhanggrace5983]

很喜欢这个电影，这个故事告诉我们，爱人之间除了爱情，更要彼此信任，宽容，留给彼此空间，否则一味光想着掌控和占有对方，就会伤害彼此，最终葬送这段感情。剧本构思的好，男女主演的真实自然。

[@6773122]

zhang grace 所以，现实生活中两人念爱了，又分手了💔！

[@alexharry9121]

謝謝你的恩典。這是事實。我有同樣的經歷

[@lisa-yg7xw]

原来冯绍峰演技这么好。但是现在看他的命运却不怎么样。

[@leonlai5805]

@@lisa-yg7xwwhat happened? Read up on his bio and said he divorced but that’s all I read into.

[@joanncasera8497]

Im hook with Ni ni's acting and captured her beauty..She's great in acting

[@smilessmiles_aw4755]

This movie is pretty good movie, this is my second time watching it ....it talks about relationship and letting go and be confident in yourself and don’t be an insecure person. Always learn how to love yourself first before anyone else can love you. When being in a relationship with a new partner you got to let go of your old partner and focus on your new love. If you don’t focus on your current relationship at the end there will be no relationship.

[@粘興達-r6j]

看完之後好心疼女主角、她的體貼入微是我最心疼的地方、至於男主角的地方不給於評論。

[@lisanabila3964]

心疼个鸡巴 控制狂谁也受不了

[@wushmarst]

男的欠電來說女的控制？ 男的會自制、守份？ 我如果是女方家長，估計男的跑不了、吃飯要人餵。

[@YouTubeZhaiZaiJia1012]

变态的人挺多啊

[@lalala4355]

好电影， 喜欢女主演倪妮演的电影，每一部作品都能被她带入。 这部电影我真的很喜欢，刚刚离婚的我，就是电影里女主那样的，怪我爱的太深，爱而不得。 导致很多事情变的扭曲 ，希望大家都能遇到真心相爱，互相理解，互相珍惜的人

[@荤昏昏君]

lala w 祝你离婚了会得到快乐

[@leonlai5805]

Hope things are better after 4 years. Wish you well.

[@sherryho]

能够分开的都是可以失去的，不要可惜，往前走，你爱的是一类人，还可以找类似的好好爱！

[@林宇恒-y3l]

有一個如此癡狂愛著你的女孩,其實是很幸運的事。 我也曾經有過,但我已遺失了她... 看這片讓我好有感觸,當時的我像他.當時的她像她，可惜都回不去了

[@meilanliang8058]

再来一次，也是一样。除非经历过～～

[@bringyourownsunshine]

若是以前的我..可能已经泪流满面了 现在看完这部片...我能明白那种痛 可是没有眼泪...是经验让人铁了心肠

[@山崎里英]

Bunny DK 我也一点都没哭

[@ANOKO_owo]

我哭慘了 因為處於這樣的感受裡 不知道該怎麼辦

[@楊傑-w9t]

电影看完了…… 男女主两个人谈不上谁有错 但是作为男人我想说 这个世界真正对你好 对你爱的人 一定要珍惜，不是谁都有的、那是幸福！ 换做是我会珍惜这个女孩！ 有幸的是我做到了！😊

[@chengcasablue]

拍鱼美人那段太美了!倪妮这段演得极好!

[@吳麗蓉-c5o]

看完感觸很深，十年前我也曾那樣過，就是女主的翻版，最後支撐我好好生活下來的卻是我逞強生下來的女兒，回想起來那時候真傻...

[@wushmarst]

傻

[@wanlau6698]

我是女人都受不了這樣的女人😂

[@王岩-j3r]

刚开始觉得这片不现实，后来才想到其实是我老了，离年轻的我很远很远，年轻的时候谁不是这样冲动。可现在的我却再难心动。

[@fenliu2712]

那就不要动呗，现病戏不需要动。

[@nihoang9285]

我也是刚开始谈恋爱，但我不是恋爱脑，所以也无法理解🤣🤣

[@lilychen690]

@@nihoang9285 一個60歲的老婦人 跟你說 所以想就是有這種 強迫 佔有慾的人 你很幸運沒有遇到

[@lilychen690]

男主角要離開她 必須用生命代價

[@nihoang9285]

@@lilychen690 我就很害怕被这种占有欲很强的人爱上，真的很累，但他们也真的可怜啊

[@云赵-n1p]

有一种爱情就是相爱，相杀，在一起痛苦，不在一起也痛苦，等到若干年以后回忆起那个人，那时候的自己得了病，不能以正常的思维去评价

[@nelljen7594]

I see myself to her. She loves the guy so much. But so much love will kill the relationship. If the two of them really in love then trust and respect are in between.

[@eugenebactad8216]

i dont mean to disagree but yes..she loves him but shes also scared...she cant give her trust competely...how can you love without trust...i guess one must to gamble...i remember when the guy said...lets have a child...if you re a man..and you asked your girl to have his child..what comes first to your mind?..as for me...an answer to that question...as a man..i want to have a family...a home i can call my own...dont you think?

[@jacquelieno6789]

In my opinion this got nothing to do with love..this is all about being insecure and the need to control everything, instead of to admit it..without understanding this will drive the other person away from you, so the biggest fear to come true..

[@taiwan-TEA689]

太年輕時候的愛，大多如此，懵懵懂懂，不知如何去愛，以為佔有就是愛。

[@ethenethen5110]

那是自私！

[@realestateaustralia9795]

真的是可悲又可笑 像极了爱情最初的模样， 看到最后的倒叙 才发现最初遇见你时候的我的模样是那么漂亮和帅气 有哪种不甩你的眼神，而现在的我是那么颓废无助，。所以啊喜欢再多也不能迷失自己啊

[@강쥐솜사탕]

女孩 好自然 好漂亮唷❤❤❤

[@yulinwu2970]

本以為是爛片，出乎意料的好，男女主角很貼切、生動演譯愛情無法控制的「窒息」，相愛容易，相處難的原因

[@corestinay3290]

I just remember something with this movie. That no matter how u stay and work for your relationship, if you're not meant to be to each other, it will never be.

[@vangzthepiratanggala1992]

Yes indeed

[@fenliu2712]

No money, no honey!

[@barbarapelshaw657]

Their relationship was the same as how they met. Intense and powerful. He accepted her and her challenges. The karaoke, the implied building jump. She could not accept that he was a player. He showed himself clearly in the beginning. She was crazy in trying to cage his free spirit which is what brought them together

[@latte1694]

Good comments :) It is exactly what I think. And I always believe the reason that makes lovers apart should be the problems of the both. The girl was too extreme and the boy was not letting her feel better. They were both loving each other and keep doing the wrong things on each other.

[@Rachel-ou5sv]

Don’t think this guy is a player

[@senivatar5259]

@@Rachel-ou5sv He´s totally a player, even with her at his side, he was always looking at other girls, he said he wanted to be free. Both of them were wrong, she was in need of psicology help and he need to be more mature.

[@NicoBonTV]

剧情起伏敲到好处，演员演得特别好，女主的表情好到位。好电影无疑

[@merlionn]

只有永远失去了，才会想起原来那渗透进你生活的点点滴滴也是一种幸福....

[@ataowe]

I love reading the comment section😊 Anyone like me...?😅

[@1953lili]

I like it when commenters reveal the title.......

[@andrewchin4143]

倪妮的演技真是一流啊，看得我好焦慮

[@dominicayyanikkatt7463]

Good movie. Human relationship and love have become so stressful and complicated in the modern times. Thank you for the clear and readable Eng subtitles.

[@jonaswong3381]

倪妮的颜值和独特的气质，真是会迷上。

[@penggao7040]

床上很主動

[@evalau8023]

她沒有在宸汐緣裏美

[@ayaaya-ss3je]

谋子的人

[@pemjoy5586]

Guys... listen to me ... i did the exact same things the girl was doing to my boyfriend.. i was jealous and possessive...... please dont do it .. nothing comes out of it,.... heartbreak and pain.... its been 6 years but i still cant get over him ...the love is toxic, it will consume you..... he has a girlfriend now and he is happy, so i am happy for him......... but the pain is endless..... love yourself first, have high self esteem, respect yourself, find a passion in life, cherish every moment, don't base your happiness on someone else........

[@lulubear5046]

Krita Dus we all make mistakes and we should learn from them, and we shouldn't blame it on ourselves, we should evolve from them. You have your reasons to be that way to your boyfriend, and it just shows that he wasn't for you. I'm sure there is someone out there for you, but don't keep on building a wall from love. Love may be toxic, and it does consume you, but it isn't love if there aren't hardships. Love is all about hardships, love isn't always about being happy, but it's about going through fights and hatred but always staying by that persons side on matter what, that's because you love that person that much. No matter how many fights you have, love is where you will stay there for them, staying there not to consistently fight, but to work on your relationship. Krista Dus you seem like a good person, but don't mourn because it ended, be happy that it happened.

[@pemjoy5586]

@@lulubear5046 That is so beautiful... "be happy that it happened"......... i agree with you .... but this is Kaliyuga and after all love is just a game....if you lose, you will get hurt...... I have no problem with hardships for the person i love as long as he does the same..... The kind of people we attract depends on the kind of person we are...... and yes, i promise i will do better with life, thank you for your kind words, i wish you all the love in the world....Om !!!!!!

[@randu4822]

You are so right. I wish I could have seen your words before.

[@塗添山]

一部好看的電影，演技精湛，值得推薦

[@anndyen7067]

其實無法被控制的人大部分都是玩心未減，劇中女主只求安定生活，而男主卻是還想玩下去，一個接一個！ 控制會因爲愛而變成一種甜蜜的負擔

[@tonytolentino3367]

One of my favorite actors--Feng Shaofeng!

[@reogkunti2616]

Zhou li ying the husbend

[@princesstan284]

很有感触的一部电影，或许有些人无法理解这一种的感情，但我能体会到男女主角的心情。只能说他们都在不成熟，不自信的情况下，遇到了爱。虽然没女主角般严重，但我也曾经如此，爱着对方，同时对自己没有自信，更不懂得如何维持这段感情，因为害怕失去，所以更加占有欲地控制着，害怕着会不会就一个不小心失去了他。 而现在的我，突然怀念起当时的我，因为她，我如此疯狂过 。因为有她，我成长了。

[@涪陵榨菜台湾省区代理]

爱情信任真的很重要，爱不爱其实可以感觉得到的，每个人都有自己的空间和朋友圈。

[@61zulu77]

說得好

[@dessadessa433]

那只能说你认为爱你的那个并没爱你。你对爱的标准太低。一个男的爱不爱自己，自己有没有飘起来，自己还没感觉吗？

[@princesstan284]

没有一个标准可以来形容爱情。每个人的感觉也不一样，没人一开始就懂得爱情，都会经历了不一样的事情，才学会成长，学会经营，更没人可以100%的了解对方的感觉，这一切都需要信任，相处，了解，沟通。别把事情看得太简单，也别把事情看得太自我，试着了解不一样的人便有不一样的思想。这是我学到的同理心。

[@dessadessa433]

@@princesstan284 喜欢就一起，不喜欢就分开。还需要多复杂吗？那注定得不到简单的幸福。

[@lmm1520]

能在一起就是幸福的即使是过往，哪怕是瞬间也是上天的礼物

[@夏黛黛]

在女主身上看到自己过去的影子---那种放下一切的去爱一个人，祈求一个人，卑微到极致..... 只想给各位说一句：爱人先爱己

[@leebeet5989]

但不是這樣的監控對方 讓對方一點呼吸都沒有吧

[@wushmarst]

我怎麼就遇不到這樣的女孩？

[@lindaliu8641]

@@leebeet5989 是男生明明恋爱了还是和其他女生不清不楚 导致女生本来就没有安全感的性格更极端

[@rothschildcheng7896]

这种女的男人都会害怕。好的爱情是彼此滋养，互相成长

[@yangzhang5854]

@@wushmarst 因为她在屏幕里

[@aneiwekezo8729]

The lead actress always my favorite... Love the movie, the girl is insecure about his bf because she loves him so much.. Well the ending doesn't make sense he just sleep with his ex-girlfriend ,didn't expect that to happen in the end.

[@gv4153]

The boy doesn't want commitment He wants to be single and wild. Really Love the actress, she's my favorite too.❤️❤️

[@keanslumdog438]

I don't know why he came to sleep with his ex. I'm not ok about this.

[@rozinalipy6568]

At first place they were totally unknown. They meet again and love each other. But their love made them cry, fear, scare. And their scary love make them as unknown as where they were at the first place .

[@ksksks1606]

such a roller coaster :(

[@ethenethen5110]

他俩曾经是一对，现实中。演的挺好，女的控制力很强，男的受不了，不给彼此一个空间，就是分手，有些事情，说开了，不说好！

[@emmaliu9715]

爱的太累！

[@khythlyncaberte6288]

Its so painful for both of them to stay each other because of different personities they have,,, but it even more painful to stay to a relationship where you could hurt each other at a little ways,,

[@阿冠-i3x]

親身經歷過我是男主角。男女主角並不是不適合，只是愛的方式錯了，看了很多留言說男主渣男還是怎樣，我只能說女主角愛的方式太讓人窒息比如在家裡裝監控或是做一些讓男主感到不自在的事情顯得很自私和一些情緒勒索，雖然是對男主愛的很深，但是並不會去從男方的角度去想，所以男主角總是會在吵架期間會想擺脫對方，就會做一些不好的事情，雙方好好溝通很重要，起先其實很多都是誤會造成的，久了誤會沒解開反而更嚴重導致變成真的，不是男主不夠愛，真的不愛就不會為女主那樣情緒波動，而是冷淡。假如他們找到了正確愛的方式就可以好好的過下去，想想曾經在一起快樂過的時光吧。如果可以我想把劇名改成＜我想和你/妳好好的＞

[@阿冠-i3x]

可能會有人說為什麼男主要把前女友照片留著，女主燒了又說那些話，但是只要認真看，當時女主角燒了他前女友的照片時男主意思到時並沒有生氣也沒有找她吵架而是沒說話，劇情到了中後段男主跟女主為了查銀行的事情吵架，女主突然說了照片的事情，那時男主情緒不好才會故意說那些氣話包括後來到路上罵女主神經病有經歷過的人相信你們在吵架情緒高昂時總是會言語過度吧，可能只是他原本忘了而已所以前面女主燒了他沒說什麼。

[@erasake2224]

深有感触，我以前跟一个女孩有过这种经历，看着那女孩看到自己，我女朋友最后嫁给了她根本不爱的一个人，可惜------，我在这里想对热恋的男女说一声忠告，不要太过于敏感，必须相信自己的爱情，不要太过于沉默，不要太过于自私，太过于追求，这样很容易产生矛盾，两个人毕竟在一起，有些时间必须给对方自由的空间，这样爱情才能饱和，希望大家不要犯我犯的错误！！！

[@sunshineyang3956]

很理解女主，不是真的想控制，只是男主因为前女友给女主造成了伤害，那种伤害成就极度的不安全感。女主也很累，也不想控制他，只是太爱他，日积月累的伤害使女主总想确认他是不是真的听从她，爱她，这种控制对女主本身就是伤害，而且越积越深

[@wanlau6698]

如果你是那個被控制的一方，你就不可能這麼輕鬆啲講，理解與是對方真的是太愛自己了！

[@洪文堂-o1l]

在愛情世界裡！有對與錯嗎？ 男的.想永遠愛著她.一步一步去改變他原本渣男生活想好好愛著她 錯了嗎？ 女的.想永遠愛著他.因為他的一次謊話不信任他.導致控制他的一切 錯了嗎？

[@lilychen690]

分析得很好客觀 往兩方面去著想 可惜啊 感情不可能那麼理智

[@jacquelieno6789]

very nice movie..it shows exactly how suffocating someone's love can be without having any trust because this person is insecure..mostly this insecurity grows by having a partner who is not capable to make you feel loved..as happened in this story.. (the other option is that some lovers get jealous because they are themselves not trustworthy and can not recognize true love and honesty at their partner)

[@samuelemiojerenre4547]

This is one of the best movies I've seen in a while now.

[@林潔琦]

這樣的愛 太讓人窒息了 覺得女生愛到沒有自我 好不容易有的機會 居然這樣就不演了 應該要有自己的生活重心 也應該要有隨時準備要走的決心 看到曾經的我 覺得心疼也覺得可憐 自此之後 我知道 安全感 自己給~ 這部戲後面就不是愛了 變成負擔 已經變成是一段不健全.生病的愛情了 沒辦法互相信任.神經質.兩人每天都不快樂.真的很痛苦 每天提心吊膽的 連一句話都覺得沒辦法溝通 一開口就不耐煩想吵架 很可怕

[@yangzhang5854]

女方条件这么好，为什么要这么卑微，不自信，只觉得她太二，爱的那么深，那个男的不配拥有她

[@lihongni6943]

曾经的我也是这样，后来放手了，突然觉得世界好大，珍惜自己

[@guzha]

是的，我是就是那个男的一模一样， 语气摔门！相貌性格！就拍的我吧！服了

[@latte1694]

@@guzha 相貌性格也一摸一样？我合理怀疑你在夸奖自己！哈哈

[@latte1694]

说得好 突然觉得世界好大 珍惜自己 这个感觉很棒。很多人也都是这样长大的，其实就是遇到的男孩不够耐心不够诚恳，当遇到好的人的时候，大家都会一起长大一起变好的。感情结束一定是两个人都会有问题~并不都是一个人的错。

[@guzha]

@@latte1694 哈哈～长得还可以吧，别人说我是帅哥，可我自己觉得不是！不过看那些明星帅哥也感觉帅不到那儿去，哈哈

[@latte1694]

@@guzha 哈哈哈哈哈哈哈既然长得帅 就不要跟男主一样的脾气了！会错过好女孩！

[@jiyouzhang7340]

故事不错，演员们拍得非常入味，的确反映的是现实生活中的真实写照，希望此片能敲醒剧外的你我她，对身边的人好一点吧！

[@felivarte4016]

If our partner feel insecure its our duty to make them feel secure not pushing them away or avoiding their feelings,if the boy pay more attention to the girl's insecurity i think things could get better

[@anamendez5839]

Hell no, she's got to get rid of her own insecurities. The guy is giving way too much of himself to keep her happy, but that hapinesss doesnt depend on him...

[@babymommy6460]

Being in a relationship is helping each other's insecurities, building each other's trust securing each other's faith. The guy should have secure his girlfriend, comfort nor correct her doubts to him. But unfortunately the girlfriend's doubts are true. The girlfriend wants her boyfriend to be mature for his own good. But the guy is asshole.

[@lizzymay23]

@@babymommy6460 While he wasn't a perfect guy, it is not his fault she went into Fatal Attraction mode. How is he the asshole in this relationship when she went psycho on him?

[@daphnekaburara9663]

Men are not built to bear the burden of our insecurities. No one can ever do it for you. The human heart desperately seeks to be satisfied by love and affirmation from others but they can never be enough. A wise man once wrote, “If I find in myself desires which nothing in this world can satisfy, the only logical explanation is that I was made for another world.” Only the Creator Yahweh God who made us can totally satisfy our deepest longings.. Not even the most loving man can compare! That emptiness we feel as women is pointing us upward not downward. That's why we get crushed under the weight of other people's disappointments which are inevitable in this world. I invite you to read the Bible and meet the God who can truly satisfy and whose love for you will never fade.

[@zengdu6187]

This one and half hour is not just a movie, there were a lots for us to think to reconsider our lives and to value our life partners. Actually I'm a single till today and i have not had any girlfriend in the past. I will respect my future partner and love her all my heart and i will always try to understand her. This movie teached me a big lesson. Thanks you guys!

[@Diana-ke6ow]

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[@Diana-ke6ow]

TRUE Same thoughts here btw😆

[@zengdu6187]

@@Diana-ke6ow yep... the girl is so cute and love her husband so much but her husband could not handle their situation because i think he couldn't forget his exgirlfriend too.

[@Diana-ke6ow]

@@zengdu6187 yes the guy coundn't handle the situation not because he wasn't over his ex but because his girlfriend was obsessed with him. She didn't TRUST him which caused them to be "crazy? "😅

[@patrickng8827]

年輕時，會害怕遇到，這樣的女朋友 長大後，才發現，身邊應該要有，這樣的一個女生，無時無刻，都把自己放在第一位

[@老鬼-m4h]

失去後才明白她的愛

[@東方海涵]

愛情這東西就像太陽底下的一塊冰，怎麼保存都保存不住

[@chuyinglong3978]

原生家庭的重要性 从“我们生个孩子吧”， “我不要孩子，我不知道怎么当个妈妈” 就可以看出 女生从小童年时期就极度缺乏安全感

[@samfeng8134]

同时我也想到。男主没有给女主足够的安全感，而是大家争吵时后男主对女主的冷落，和平常对自己隐私很敏感的程度。大家出矛盾了。男主第一想到的是逃避。。。这也是后期女主越来越疯狂的原因，女主片头时是一个非常贤惠的人。

[@stacyma7868]

Chuying Long 太有道理了

[@lilychen690]

@@samfeng8134 建議女主角安靜離開，不要互相傷害！！

[@rothschildcheng7896]

@@lilychen690 是啊，不合适就放手。居然跳楼吓人啊，太极端

[@alexaliu8045]

跟我現在一模一樣，沒安全感，懷疑，自己也不想變成這樣討厭的人，但是對方兩三次的説謊，行蹤成迷，爭論時選擇逃避，真的很累，卻又捨不得放棄。 女主説的，我不知道怎麼當個好媽媽，和我曾經説出口的話一模一樣，好揪心

[@jeslywu7430]

女生太没自信了，令人窒息的爱，注定两败俱伤

[@charllote3379]

那个男的也有问题，比如和前任藕断丝连之类的。

[@juju-tj4fv]

又来回顾了，每一阶段看都是不同的感受...以前我认为喵喵很恐怖只想控制蒋亮亮。但现在经过一段感情之后，才发现蒋亮亮其实是不值得被深爱的。

[@彭诗淇]

对！比起心爱，心安更重要

[@zaiyilei4563]

的确，但是也不能每次拿自己生命开玩笑啊

[@yangzhang5854]

并不是想控制他，只是他没能给她基本的信任，男方的爱不够深，他不值得被她爱

[@눈가리고야옹-b8k]

不是不爱，还是年轻，不想被约束，等成熟了会怀念过去

[@御风破浪]

真的。。。最怕的就是你深爱她，却无法信任她。。。

[@liuxinyu9833]

太喜欢这个女演员了

[@vampire4940]

好喜歡他們一起哦！❤😢 劇情也是人生會經歷的過程，太年輕😅

[@Pluto60]

Fights 😂❤then I can buy myself flowers 🌸

[@sophiawang7980]

很喜欢这部电影，大多都是这样爱情吧，女孩子，对爱投入要死要活的，很教育人，

[@ethenethen5110]

Sophia Wang 结局我不喜欢，可是，男人的心更脆弱，男人全身心投入，比女人更可怕！

[@lizzymay23]

I was NOT expecting this story to go in this direction. Acting by both leads were superb. Ni Ni especially did very well in her scenes, you can see her deteriorating further and further with every breakdown she had. Feng Shaofeng's character was just a poor schlub who had no idea what he got himself into. Then again, I'm a big fan of his and I find his acting very natural and organic. But why that ending? Are they resetting their relationship? Going back to start again? Three and half stars out of five, just for the performances. Seriously, some of you in the comments blaming the dude for making the girl act like this... think about what you're saying. Smh.

[@kazudon22]

I just found out that there is an alternative ending to this movie. It shows 10 years later what happens to their life. I encourage you to check it out and see if you like this ending better :)

[@erisamantap4720]

@@kazudon22 where i can find the alternative ending?

[@czzcen592]

发人深思的一部电影，越深刻的爱越令人窒息，相爱相杀，互相折磨，爱情真的是一门高深的学问

[@運力]

倪妮真的是太會演了，她跟湯唯一樣有個獨特的氣質，但是倪妮比湯唯會演。

[@diogenusdisinope3015]

第二次看，上次看是跟她一起，我们嘲笑着男女主的不成熟，如今再看想的全是她。我们也曾那样相爱，她也曾看我的手机查我的隐私，如今想来那也是一种幸福，有人那么在乎你。

[@soewaiwai3459]

哥们 ，不是么每个人都把那当幸福😪

[@dessadessa433]

@@soewaiwai3459 不是每个男人都有人翻手机。

[@merlionn]

只有永远失去了 才会想起原来那是一种幸福...

[@kateclassic6837]

我前男友和男主的行为一模一样，和我在一起后还和前任藕断丝连，我特别能理解女主的种种不安和极端的做法，其实都是男人逼出来的，谁还不是个小可爱，谁又天生喜欢做这些掉价的事？

[@下班一條龍下班一條龍]

經驗之談，很好的經驗分享

[@刘博-n1m]

你的另一半如果总搞暧昧。 那你看也看不住。你看着也没用。 你不可能24小时都把他攥在手里。 想要锁住男人的心，你得知道他想要什么。希望什么。女孩的温柔是最厉害的武器，相信我， 绝对不是你有多强势

[@qiaoa9420]

@@graceguan5141 没错，天下好男人那么多，浪费生命在搞暧昧的渣男身上不值得，妄想改变对方本性一厢情愿圣母心都会被现实狠狠抽醒

[@theworld5937]

The coolest opening ever. Love Ni Ni She is the moon the sun and the stars.

[@Baron-mk2nf]

願每個女孩都能找到帶給你安全感的男孩

[@CIaireyIt]

個人覺得, 如果跟一個人一起要像防賊那樣防他..防抽煙, 防下班後不回家, 防跟同事瞹眛, 防他用多了錢....然後對方是因為怕你查他才不會做你不想他做的事...那這兩個人真的合適嗎? 你想他成為你要要的人, 他又想你成為接受他一切不要對他有要求的人, 有意思嗎? 早分開早好啊不要跟自己過不去... 如果兩個人對生活有着不同的期望, 他不是自己心甘情願的去調整的, 那你只是扮演着一個監護人的角色, 而這角色不會能延續下去的, 結束只是遲早而已... 這個是男或是女也是一樣.

[@ValentineWan]

thank you for reminding me to stay single. This is exactly like me and my ex.

[@cindychang1218]

So you learned that " Single is simple. double is trouble" . （PS：Tringle is terrible）

[@henryzhang9915]

相当接地气的一部影片，年轻的爱情啊爱情

[@polarmouse5029]

It was my first Chinese film, and I'm surprised how good it was, celebrate me on discovering Chinese cinematography ❤

[@letvdramas]

Thanks for your like💕

[@irenereveluvs8872]

Congratulations

[@polarmouse5029]

@@irenereveluvs8872 `(*∩_∩*)′

[@crazy_for_bts6660]

You should explore their drama...They are so good.. Especially Rise of Phoenix and Ashes of love..

[@yokoliu8936]

Watch the same actress Ni Ni star in it again Suddenly seventeen ,Chinese bride wars and u be amazed by her acting,the flowers of war

[@pingpingp757]

愛得很深深到只會傷害自己不會傷害你，但是被愛的人真的會很害怕好比驚弓之鳥

[@rosemarievargas2903]

Fsf is really a good actor ,playing playboy fits him...toxic relationship is a no no for a couple..

[@alanOHALAN]

1. He talked about how many ex-gf he had, he should never listed all the girls he had even if a girl asked, it creates a playboy persona. Keep to 2 at max, one in college or high school, one after college. 2. He never took her to his parents and he joked about his parents might not like he; it shows he is playing with her insecurity. 3. He didn't tell his friends that they were living together and pretended to be single, because he wants to be popular with the rest of the single coworkers or is he afraid that they might get jealous? 4. He couldn't provide for her because his job is low-payingish; his coworker was complaining of no raise, he should quit and find a better paying job, and try to buy a house. 5. She is doing well getting fancy gigs out of town, but he is not supportive. He is not texting her, goes out with friends to bars and clubs. She quit the gig and returned home because she missed him. 6. He smokes behind her back, that shows he is dishonest, with no determination to even quit smoking. 7. They are practically married, he even asked for a kid and yet he is lying about his whereabouts; he is not telling her when his ex asking for favors, he spends time with his ex alone. He is always doing something behind her back. 8. He is passive-aggressive and introvert. His mood swings back and forth. He can be very romantic one day and then a total stranger some other days. Is he bipolar? 9. She is pretty, focusing on him, talented with acting, doesn't look down at him even though he is poor. She could be with that ultra rich young guy. It shows that she has a good character, and not going for money. 10. He might have talent but he is not seeking opportunities to further his career. He is too passive. He doesn't understand a girl like her needs security, and that he cant provide because he doesn't have the discipline and maturity. Conclusion, she is too good for him but she doesn't know it. She needs more romantic experience to see those men who are just not man enough.

[@aprilrain.s]

this is the comment i was looking for

[@CallmeNorim]

This comment is everything 🔥rightly said🥺👍

[@tomoe96]

I can’t disagree with this comment more. He listed the women he’s dated because she asked. If she didn’t want to know or couldn’t handle the truth, then don’t ask. Why is it okay for him to lie to her then? The fact is she is crazy. Her insecurities are her problems alone, not his. Why is she allowed to dine with a former suitor but he isn’t allowed to even have a photo of an ex? He has to repeatedly lie to her because she gives him no room to breathe. He can’t have any kind of life outside of her. She has no trust in him. She’s possessive and immature. If she were really concerned about his well being and his money management, why not just come out and talk to him about it? Why go behind his back? And to install a hidden camera in the apartment?! She knows nothing about love. What she wants is a pet, not a partner. If I were Jiang Liang Liang, I’d break up with her and then get a restraining order against her

[@becksfun]

@@tomoe96 I agree with you... however, she ain't crazy. It is likely she had OCD. At the movie beginning, when Liang was living alone, his flat was so messy. But when they moved in together, the flat was always clean and neat. Miao also oddly rearranged his cigarette butts at the aircon unit. It is very likely she had undiagnosed OCD.

[@pratyushdash7573]

everything you said is correct but are introverts not humans and moreover that girl was was not even trusting him and i think both of them have their own faults but yes the girl was better

[@zhaoxi1122]

这部电影确切不是感人片，可让我看的哭的稀里哗啦……感触太多。

[@mariamonicamariado3926]

Scary to have a relationship with a very possessive and obsessive partner! A very good movie.. 👍 🧡🧡🧡

[@boredpineapple892]

As long as she don't cheat on me ... I would actually be fine with that

[@eugenebactad8216]

nop...samtayms it pils gud...ip yu olso lab dat samwan..dat s onli may opinyon.

[@hara_999]

太怕失去没有安全感，如果一个男人不能够给你安全感又或者你自己各种猜疑不放心，那就趁早分开，放过彼此！

[@alppechan1411]

我也有過類似的經歷，現在剛經歷了分手。要是早看了這部戲，可能是另外一種結果。我懂，衹有深愛又沒有安全感才會那麼做。

[@charllote3379]

不对的人，你就算早看到也还是会分的

[@xiaomingsun7376]

这是一段每个年轻人既向往又害怕的爱情

[@СюйГао]

没有一场轰轰烈烈的爱情能叫人生吗？

[@luosu432]

He makes her insecure with all his bad habits - whats with the ex friendship?! & she is so insecure it makes her crazy ... very unhealthy relationship- trouble is they love each other but doing all the wrong things - its best to end it ... in all of life’s journeys- insecurity is never a good thing - if you feel insecure walk away or it will always cause hurt & sadness - in work, relationships, friendships... insecurity makes people behave irrational & unlike the person they truly are.

[@peterlipman8211]

Sounds like you know from experience.

[@alhambrahickory1185]

Everybody has diferent value. For some people it is okay befriend ex couple. Myself doesnt have problem if my couple doing it. For myself, if my mate has issue about it then, i could restrain myself to comfy her feeling.

[@shellenchangmai8669]

Very much satisfied with your thought! 🙂

[@sweetyjones1756]

This is true .. had a relationship with someone who just didn't trust me no matter what. He even looked through my phone and checked up on me.. no trust at all until in the end I had to leave, so damaging and destructive : / If you haven't got trust, you haven't got a relationship.

[@jessicapen1506]

That's why don't be "too much" putting on everything even love, hate, like, and etc... That would hurt & destruct back a lot hmmmm!!!!

[@yujuanbi2495]

像极了现在的我，爱得太满！伤得太深

[@愛美-x8p]

You are a great producers.this love is made me a cry

[@joannezhao9165]

怎么看都喜欢倪妮，大方，美丽，气质优雅，真的摔了那个谁好几条街。可惜啊，怎么就没走到一起呢？

[@marilyncagalitan6588]

Loving someone includes accepting what she/he is, or all over his/her personality. If you want to somebodys attitude because you love him/her is very impossible to happen. I always beleive that to love someone is setting her/him free and if he/she comes back the he/she is yours. When you love it doesnt mean that you solely own him/her. We must also consider that feelings of our love ones. In this world , we have unique personality, so we must extent our outmost UNDERSTANDING for each one of us inorder to maintain peaceful and harmonious relationship.

[@林昕榆-v8l]

愛情這東西跟鬼一樣，相信的人多，見到的少

[@dessadessa433]

爱只是化学式，学会了，把握好了。成份配比都有，那就常在长有。

[@cironbt]

你这个总结非常精辟

[@dessadessa433]

@@cironbt 学会爱情保鲜

[@sharonlee5078]

太爱一个人会变得过于敏感反而不能好好相处，所以最终在一起的大多不是最爱的那个人

[@victorad4208]

你好👋👋👋

[@林小靜-i6c]

看這部片，彷彿看到曾經的自己 或許會有人說，喵喵很可怕 但只有親身體會過 才知道，那種又愛又恨的無助 說謊，跑酒店 跟前女友藕斷絲連 每一個瞬間 都把我逼成瘋子 就因爲我愛你 所以我不斷的原諒 不斷的改變自己 整整7年 你還是說謊，跑酒店夜店 直到我受不了 放你自由 我得到的是一種解脫 我甚至做夢夢到你回到我身邊 我都會嚇醒 醒來 還好只是夢 時間如果可以重來 我一點都不想遇到那個人

[@旧夢-c7g]

其实这个女的真的挺好的，男人，如果爱她就用心好好去爱

[@crystalni7524]

是的！起码一整颗心都在你身上

[@ruifha]

What an obsessed woman she is. She's holding on to the wrong person forgetting about herself.

[@sreejithc3304]

Correct

[@flo8133]

I still like to watch him in 古装。。especially in the movie of the monkey king, his innocent look.. and the ming lan ( the lovely couple )😊

[@suyatiradin7841]

flo8133 The legend of Ming Lan with his wife’s

[@flo8133]

Yeah the story of ming lan.. love both characters in this drama

[@mirekuaefia2443]

Its really painful sometimes when ur in love with someone who doesn't really recognizes ur effort. Or should I say doesnt really know the meaning of true love.

[@vangzthepiratanggala1992]

Maybe because that' person is really not meant for you

[@mareetamchi713]

This movie depicts reality about the ups and downs in relationships! Every relationship needs some space or else it won't work !

[@Pluto60]

😂lies 🎉drama out But having kids isn’t a good idea

[@ee_say_irettehc5922]

Don't know but I can totally feel her overwhelming pain and her love for him who he totally took granted.. ❤❤

[@bensonbranzuela5167]

Sometime you'll never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory,,, :(

[@graceb5448]

so true

[@fenliu2712]

把悲历留给自己吧，自食其果，自作自受川

[@jasons4586]

千万别跟这种性格的女生谈恋爱，哪怕长得跟仙女一样~ 肺腑之言！

[@crystalni7524]

如果全身心爱这种女人的话我觉得是可以接受的。起码这女的是爱惨了

[@HKislandwarrenbuffett]

你懂个屁

[@赫雪-y5p]

是疯癫的一种

[@Yun-q1z]

剖析一段感情 女人就是這樣 不愛的時候高傲得可以 愛上了就開始力不從心 男人的一點小秘密 故意也好無心也罷 都會在心裡放大 尤其是前女友 我想這就是女人所有的致命傷 如果男人沒辦法跟前任徹底切割 都會覺得自己像是一個替代品 "阿 可能他還是比較愛前女友吧" 不然為什麼要瞞著我 怕我不高興?那又為什麼要跟她聯絡呢 男人總會說 我現在最愛的人是妳 不要想太多 你又怎麼知道 你的這些行為會給我造成多大的陰影 安全感逐漸被吃掉 感覺那女人在你心裡>我 確實愛上了卻又感覺自己不是對方最愛的 只會想越抓越緊 越抓越緊 越抓越緊 抓到連自己都感覺好痛 指甲都陷進去肉裡 女人就是這樣 一點的不安全感就會想試探 男人如果真的是想跟女人走一輩子 就不要感到厭煩 不要覺得沒空間沒自由 若你想逃得更遠 那我也只能說 這是你要的自由 我還給你了

[@qylpatron5370]

是这女的自身有点问题吧。应该有过被包养的历史，或者一些不好的经历，心里明显不太健康，轻点的叫性格缺陷，往重了说就是有点精神病。

[@Yun-q1z]

retal empire 男生自己做了一堆隱瞞的事情才讓女生患得患失的== 女生反應是有點過了啦 但就是很愛才會這樣阿

[@qylpatron5370]

美食&生活鑑定娘 哪有一堆隐瞒的事呀，就是女的去横店的时候他跟同事出去夜店玩一次吧。这女的绝对有心理问题。

[@老鬼-m4h]

說的真好，但卻得到自由後才明白…

[@yangzhang5854]

@@Yun-q1z 是的，那个男的不配拥有她

[@Alberta204]

這下可熱鬧了，周伯通、蘭陵王…全都湊在一塊儿

[@esteban9889]

If you’re looking for the scene where they jump the fat guy it’s at 1:14:51

[@Stargalco]

😂😂😂LMAOOO I CANT BE THE ONLY FROM TIKTOK

[@dubioussightz1538]

Lol

[@andret9439]

ty lmao

[@nandaarya9775]

bruh

[@orrjlucky77]

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