The Negative Side of My Femininity Journey | Lessons I have Learned

[@Myfemmedaily]

Hello lovely ladies, I am sharing the personal obstacles⛔️ I have faced on my journey to become more feminine and leveling up my life. I hope this is informative and can help you in any way. This is a two part video, the next upload will be all about the positive side️️️️️️✅ of my journey. Enjoy ladies, much Love Urania ♥️♥️

[@elizabethstefania3907]

It is so hard being a feminine woman alot of other women see you as a threat and low value men see you as prey. Be careful ladies and good luck in your feminine journey.

[@stellakamau6994]

Losing friends while leveling up is real, jealousy is also real.

[@da-eu]

Exactly

[@jessicaribeiro8928]

I'm kinda losing one because of jealousy and Im sad....

[@pattyray328]

Where are you based in?. I think the Part of living in another country contributes to this

[@serious7179]

Losing your spouse is also real😢

[@triple__em]

Kenyans in the house 😅

[@ajohonly3721]

Losing friends has actually helped me a lot for the good.

[@gladysnjamiu1464]

Hello Ajoh Wong .. I love your profile picture. Is that you ?

[@ajohonly3721]

@@gladysnjamiu1464 yes that’s me thank you 🙏 😊 .

[@danilaroche1156]

I got a great deal of judgment and 'haters' when I made the decision to be high value and level up. Especially from African-American women! They called me Hollywood and would try to physically fight me. I didn't take it personally. I have authored 3 books, learning 3 new foreign languages and have a ministry mentoring women. Also in courtship with an incredible, high value man. Thank you Lord. Thank u sister!

[@Myfemmedaily]

You sound like such an inspiration to me, thank you for sharing your story Dani♥️🌷.

[@danilaroche1156]

@@Myfemmedaily I wrote a book, my latest about loneliness. I would love to send you free copy & get ur imput. A Season Called Lonely: Managing it; finding it's gifts. [e-mail]

[@faa1412]

@@danilaroche1156 what languages are you learning if you don’t me asking?

[@danilaroche1156]

French, Spanish and EYE talian!!!!

[@tralaritralarajiju2652]

Woooah! Such a good role model♥♥

[@radlyn7234]

From my experience the only tough thing I experienced is women at work, they looked at me weirdly because I dress up everyday, I was put in a box, I did have some compliments from some women but the majority I felt they don’t like it. After that I realized that I wasn’t in the right job/office.

[@Myfemmedaily]

It’s sad that women can’t just support each other. But it’s a good thing that it help you find out it was not the place for you anymore. Wishing you lots of love ♥️

[@BlessedByHisGrace7]

Very true, I got fired because of jealousy from my catty female coworkers.

[@jazzjenkins2060]

Another part of the level up journey is time management. You have to set a side time to get ready you need time for your hair, time to actually iron and steam your clothes, time for make up. Also you must set a side time for reading and continuous learning about femininity.

[@Myfemmedaily]

Hi Jazz great points!

[@AnastasiaDiscovery]

Just ironing and organizing your clothes takes a lot of time. I spend at least couple of hours each time doing it. But it totally worth it because it changes the way I feel about myself.

[@Sheyshel]

"When someone shows you who they are, believe them THE FIRST TIME."

[@Jade-gf3ox]

Ppl that don’t understand or agree to the level up journey will always have something negative to say because they don’t believe that they are worthy of luxury.

[@OTMaraH]

Yup i relized its not about makeup an clothes. Discipline and patience and self inner healing/shadow work is the hardest part for me. Not the looks. Smh. Its a true journey.

[@Mya-Elba]

I struggled with female colleagues /friends jealousy, those who i thought love me and would be happy for me, started acting differently with so much hate, this sudden change broke my heart because i'd be happy for them if they leveled up, levelling up shows you who are the real ones !!!

[@lovelylauz02]

The loneliness part is tough. Not that I don't have people around me, I don't have people around me who like doing the things I like to do. I enjoy going to art museums, performing arts, the symphony or just reading a book in the park. I've become more and more at ease with keeping my own company. It's nice to just relax and do the things you want and not have to worry about someone else and what they like. I spoil myself all the more!

[@femmeviews]

I'm so glad you touched on the financial aspect because it's so true! And yes I'm so over my family asking "Who you dressing up for".

[@mcleanroom7997]

Oh God! 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@femmeviews]

@@mcleanroom7997 It's seriously so annoying.

[@minnievaughn3359]

I always say my damn self lol

[@anapinky]

I truly felt that part when you talk about appearance, I started in this journey to become more femenine and also to help me cope with my depression. It felt good that some girls complimented me sincerely, but others wanted to find out the reason as to why I looked better at all costs. I felt so embarrassed in my workplace because they thought I liked a colleague which is not the case. So I came back to dressing as I usually did because I did not want any type of conflict inside my work place. It’s like some women don’t like that you look better than them.

[@ioanafilipescu2327]

Amazing video! You are right, leveling up is controversial. A lot of people think that leveling up means becoming selfish, materialistic etc. People who knew you for years start to say things like ‘you’ve changed’ (and they don’t mean it’s for the better) and they are like ‘how dare you put yourself first and taking care of you (both physically and mentally) and not sacrificing yourself for literally everybody else. Of course they don’t say it to your face but that’s why they mean. Judgment will come and yes it will affect you, especially if you haven’t been exposed to public opinion before. This exposure comes hand in hand with becoming seen, heared, taken seriousely and being respected and/or feared/seen as a threat at the same time. We need to understand that with success comes being attacked. And yes, the overwhelm and wanting it all from the beginning is so relatable. We all do these mistakes but then we realise that we actually need a plan. Organazation and patience are key.♥️✨

[@Myfemmedaily]

Thank you for sharing your point of view. I enjoyed reading it🌹🤗

[@intentionallivingspace]

Hey Urania, again a fantastic video. Yes I can relate to this topic. So when I began my level up or self-development journey, I was suddenly seen as conceited and selfish person. When I lost weight, people would come up to demotivate me to ask if my health was ok. So yes it is definitely a path of self-discipline and commitment....and the results are fantastic and worth it all :)

[@Myfemmedaily]

I love to read that you have been so successful.💖

[@AnastasiaDiscovery]

same thing happened to me

[@janamarinicova9277]

Hello Urania, hello ladies 😊. When I’ve started my level-up journey almost 2yrs ago, to be honest, I had no idea that I’m starting my level-up journey 🙃. That fact that I’ve been actually leveling myself up has presented to me over time and I’ve fully understood that beginning of this year. On my journey, I’ve come across almost all of the negative aspects, you are sharing with us, Urania. For me personally, taking ownership of my life, being responsible for my journey and keeping myself accountable and disciplined was one of the hardest (and not yet fully mastered) parts of my level-up journey. And another challenging part has been (and still is) realizing that it requires a lot of financial investment into myself - as I am sometimes impatient and want everything at once, I had to remind myself to see the bigger picture, not get overwhelmed and take it one step at a time, especially when it comes to financing my journey. Thank you, Urania, for this video, and many others - I am always finding lots of inspiration and encouragement in your videos ❤️.

[@biancanazareno1657]

Hi Urania! It’s been a wonderful journey to level up with you :) You are such a beautiful big sister to me. I wanted to ask if you could make a video on feminine ways to be a receiver and how to express clearly to the affluent man your standards and how you expect to be treated throughout the relationship

[@Myfemmedaily]

Great video idea dear! Yes I would love to make a video about this! 🌹

[@jillgreene9225]

I am seperating my Feminity NEEDS from my WANTS....AND I will not let others make me feel ashamed, embarassed or wrong for staying the course , making the most of & truly enjoying MY Femininity Level Up Ascension🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🌅🌅🌅🌅🌅🌅

[@fameshyne7932]

I'm a beginner in this journey, and I must say; The expense of self-investment, and loosing friends hits real hard 🙂 but not giving up now

[@mariamhalula8916]

Be strong ccy, the ending is awesome 😍

[@jat6547]

Losing

[@AnastasiaDiscovery]

Urania you covered it all! I have experience the same mentality treatment from people around me. It was the same 25 years ago and is still now. It did bothered me tremendously in the past. Men definitely like it but the majority are a low value men that will not be my choice. Low value men are highly attracted to high value women but will never treat you as such. I am still in search of my high value men but the most important thing is me feeling happy, at piece and confident.

[@mariellegarza3894]

Hi Urania, my biggest struggle was losing friends since I started to level up I realized that my "friends" didn't respect and care about me at all, and it is hard, but I try to stay positive and keep up💖

[@amenshiferaw395]

It's true to be judged.... ppl will judge u and u only have to ignore that and focus on your self! No matter.... Keep leveling up!

[@ashleyluciana4440]

The friendship part is so true. I am going through it now....it's very painful

[@deenadream]

Me too

[@brittanyluvsyouso]

I only have a couple of female friends who I see occasionally, I like to focus on my family more so the older I get. I get judgement from some people not because of my appearance but because I don't work outside the home. Oh well lol

[@Myfemmedaily]

People will always have something to say. Focusing on your family is always a good idea♥️🤗

[@FaithFashionFinances]

I have struggled with a lot of these situations in my journey aswell. People see me as someone that I was 20 years ago. I have invested alot of my time and money in my own personal development, I don't broadcast it all over the place, but I won't be undermined.

[@Denisebemmett]

Amen ! God bless you. I really do not understand why people would question anyone for wearing nice attire. Keep your level high, continue with your blessings. May God bless you with all that your heart desires. 🥰🙏

[@amber0290]

Yes yes yes! I relate so much with feeling overwhelmed and realizing how intentional I need to be with leveling up.

[@thereshegrows113]

Thank you Uriana. This is not an easy journey for real it is expensive but your story lets me know that it will all work out!. All the best ladies.

[@RSA1507]

I have struggled with being misunderstood and not being able to discuss freely out of fear of being labeled ‘stuck up’ or ‘materialistic’. In the end, I have realized that not everyone will understand this journey and that’s okay. I love your content, Urania ❤️

[@dr.phaty_bee]

This is so real as everyone's level up journey is different.

[@jessicar8422]

Hi beautiful! Yes losing friends is sooo relatable. You mentioned you made connections with leveled up women online. Where was that? Is there a site/certain group chats etc you joined? I’m looking to connect with them too 😊 Thank You! 😘

[@pianotnt]

The new feminine on Facebook is one group

[@LadyFancyyy]

For me, first thing am doing now is my looks. Upgrading my wardrobe, makeup etc.

[@annakarenina1134]

We women are strange creatures. Instead of supporting each other, we cut our wings. When we want something more from life, we want to develop, we get aversion, jealousy and gossip. Why do our friends do not want to participate in this journey with us? Why, instead of saying 'Great that you are going higher, you look better and better and you're so feminine. I want like that too!' We hear, 'Why are you pulling away from us? From average us? You have known us for years. You're like us. Makeup and expensive clothes won't change that ' (I still hear it myself - the best part is that they envy my intellect). 😁😅 The worst thing is that people are stubborn and closed to new ideas (my 'friend' is only getting married because she is over 30 - she doesn't love a guy, she wants this paper).🤦‍♀️ This social mindset results that many women with potential not discovering it at all. It is very sad that the will to develop meets resistance and aversion. Especially in times of pursuing women's equality and solidarity. Forgive for the long post, but seeing the will to live a good life as sth bad, makes me very nervous. This is the life we ​​should have from the beginning, that's how we should be brought up. Instead, we get an underestimation of our value from society, which in turn leads to seeing normal life as something available only to the chosen ones, and something that we must strive for.

[@dahliavalentine]

Hi urania- quick video idea that would help alot by going into the specifics of the investment / budget topic. Going more into detail would be awesome

[@Myfemmedaily]

That’s a great idea! I will put it on list of video ideas. Thank you! Btw love your username ahah🌹

[@sudan723]

Thank you so much for sharing your journey. This video is very relatable. The level up journey isn’t always glitz and glam but it’s necessary. You’re channel and Instagram page has kept me positive during my level up journey. Keep up the great work!

[@theamberturner]

You're amazing! Commitment is important. Thank you for sharing your journey ❤

[@theblessedblackwoman]

OMG how did you tube send me here. I am also currently bursting some myths in my videos. The term Levelling up has been hijacked into meaning being selfish and acting like a brat. About friendships...as soon as you start moving forward, many people want to pull you back.

[@Myfemmedaily]

Glad that KZbin brought you here, welcome♥️. I will have a look at your channel too 😊

[@ItsAnj]

Same here, It's really inevitable to meet other people especially females, leaving negative comments why I dress up everytime for work meetings. They usually demand u to dress like them, or like everyone. And That's saddening, because there's no respect at all..

[@beempowered8365]

Thank you so much sis you are so amazing❤️❤️❤️❤️ feeling overwhelmed is what slow the process it seems as if you are not improving we focus on one day at a time rule 💖💖💖

[@Myfemmedaily]

Thank you dear ♥️🌹

[@alexandradavis8017]

Just started watching your channel! Thank you for making this video! So excited to hear part 2! 💕

[@divinafrances]

Thank you for this Urania. This is exactly what I needed to hear. Everything that I have been going through. And still going. It is a journey and a lifestyle afterall. So much lessons that you learn about yourself.

[@leonillavenance4588]

You talk facts always... ❤

[@yermelinsotoa6170]

I admire you so much! ♥️♥️ your voice relaxes me and of course it’s part of my feminine time to listen to you

[@hairspiration]

Hi ladies, I am a new subscriber and I just want to say thank you so much for these videos. I am definitely feeling that overwhelming feeling and not knowing what to do first in my level up journey so really appreciate your effort and hard work in creating these videos. Xxx

[@ygfbff198]

This have given me so much insight that I hadn’t considered. Thank you!!!

[@neemamkerenga5530]

Wow! Your level up (why you decided to) video was factual but the first point here on being OVERWHELMED this is spot on. I am experiencing this right now. I need a blue print for how I will take this journey on. I am on the beginning on my journey. I found you channel late last year, but now I'm sure I was meant to find your channel. It's the best guide to leveling up. Thank you for honestly sharing your experience. Wish me luck. 😁

[@sashahemmingwayy]

Totally relate to feeling overwhelmed

[@Myfemmedaily]

Good to hear that it’s not just me😊🌹

[@anikabeauty6932]

God bless you, such an amazing inspiration💕💕💕 #Level up journey

[@Myfemmedaily]

Thank you dear♥️

[@jyothipathak5456]

I enjoy the way you speak . So composed ,slow & easy.

[@Empress-lala7jy]

Thank you for sharing your experiences, it boosted my confidence a bit as I am going through similar situation.

[@avantiiresha6687]

Can totally relate with point 3 , I like only to be at hotels and not motels or bed and breakfast options when I go on holiday and some people do judge it in my life as they want to go with me but don’t want to spend on 4 star hotels ..

[@nehemilia5033]

Watching your vidéo made me feel that i was not Alone. Thank you so much for this video

[@melann6791]

I've always enjoyed dressing up and taking pride in my appearance I have been called a city princess. However it makes me happy. I live in Sydney Australia and alot of people don't dress up anymore which is sad.

[@SK-yc4vp]

This is your best video. So real! I love it xx

[@rosenoire1641]

This is so relatable

[@emmaalvarez1794]

Thank you so much for making these videos. We really needed this.

[@teliclikeitis]

Yes! You speaking this. 👍 👍...

[@ddg80sbby]

This is so very good!

[@ShayLamere]

Loneliness during this journey has been eating me up more than everything on this list that are also currently happening. I don’t feel as close with my girls as my mindset evolves and choosing abstinence feels like it has just eliminated night time cuddling altogether. I love cuddling and my girls dearly. How do I find balance?

[@danielalondongirl933]

Loving your videos Urania your inner beauty radiates and i wish i lived near you to be your friend. My kinda friend

[@swapnabhattacharya2465]

Very true. Thank you.

[@Sonja-he1kd]

Thank you so much ❤️🌹

[@deep3587]

I am also feeling overwhelmed sis, can you please share how to make a action plan🙏🙏

[@margret2688]

Can relate,, losing friends

[@anikabeauty6932]

People always assume you are leveling up your self for other people so annoying. Come on i don't fucking care after other people. People don't their business it your life not their. Me living my live to the fullest.

[@magdaclassy]

How am I supposed to answer questions such as why are you wearing so much make up now or who are you dressing up for etc ? I've gotten questions like that a few times, and I'm not gonna lie it makes me a bit uncomfortable. Thanks Urania :)

[@jackiehamilton2738]

Tell them that it is none of their business and change the subject. If possible, Ignore the question altogether.

[@emmaalvarez1794]

You should make a video on how to improve yourself and a guide such as a chart with steps.

[@zamanimoney7231]

Well am still in shock never believed this could happen,, I can recomend you to someone that helped me restore back my broken relationship, I'm so happy I got my ex back and I believe he can also help you ,just as he did mine too, just tex him on WhatsApp 👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇

[@zamanimoney7231]

[phone]

[@timetravelere1208]

Loosing friends. Does this apply when you have only one friend? I mean literally one toxic friend but still the only one you have.

[@nehemilia5033]

Level UP in m'y feminity

[@ra4798]

please break down pointb6 in more detailed

[@annicks7385]

I click your IG link and it’s telling me the page is unavailable?

[@Myfemmedaily]

instagram.com/levelup.journey/

[@emmaalvarez1794]

I want to be able to move away and start a happy life.

[@latoyathomas9640]

Hi!Any married ladies on this journey here from Georgia?

[@fatimatawelz1245]

Excellent❤️😘

[@nehemilia5033]

I am not alone in Douala or thé world

[@nimisa5968]

♡♡♡♡ love your Videos

[@foreversunshinetv3340]

💛👑

[@da-eu]

You're gorgeous 😍🥺❤

[@tralaritralarajiju2652]

♥♥♥

[@nehemilia5033]

I have to tap into m'y feelings

[@cherrY28201]

Any Woman from germany?🙈🥰

[@emmaalvarez1794]

I don't have 4 friends and I don't have family that's on my side.

[@zamanimoney7231]

Well am still in shock never believed this could happen,, I can recomend you to someone that helped me restore back my broken relationship, I'm so happy I got my ex back and I believe he can also help you ,just as he did mine too, just tex him on WhatsApp 👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇

[@zamanimoney7231]

[phone]

[@ahhbee8298]

Interesting title