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[@FELIZEVEE]

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[@TheeMademoiselle]

@@FELIZEVEEthanks 😂❤ and no. I am on a weightloss journey and just underwent TMS advanced depression therapy however. I talked about it on my IG. I am currently on my cycle and never miss a beat lmao.

[@illianagrande8545]

Ppl normalizing being "delusional" or "toxic" cringes me out

[@marylandj3228]

Oo this!! It's getting a bit scary.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

It truly isss

[@jeremy19175]

I think that is because a lot of us grow up in a toxic household and so they are acting and raising their kids to be like that which is wrong they should be fixing their issues so that their kids will know how to deal with their issues i've even had to call out my own family for their toxic behavior

[@iamelote]

It scares me so bad !

[@queenleo5578]

Over 50% of the us population make 50k or less a year. So thinking everyone would find someone making 100k is insane.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

People are truly delusional.

[@naomivought9317]

Facts I don’t know anyone making over 50k

[@dinkyboss]

There are actually a lot of people who make 100k + but the point stands in NYC

[@DemureDarlings]

@@naomivought9317I don’t know anyone that makes 50K I live in NYC!

[@DemureDarlings]

@@dinkybossExactly, everyone in my community make 500K and up!

[@cheftruvii6146]

I also said that we have normalized being alone too much. I truly don’t believe that we as humans are made to be alone. We have allowed social media and our phones to take place of true intimacy.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Verrry true

[@kuroe-chan5190]

I prefer to be a loner. Only person I can be around constantly is my hubby of 20 yrs. Otherwise I’m a very loner Wolff. Have been since a small child. I wish every now and then I could socialize more…nah. Stressful

[@naomivought9317]

And the fact when people are even with someone they aren’t intimate with one another many of times, they’re fighting all the time lol

[@Lisette121]

Agree because if it isn't for TV, smart phones etc, we would have no choice but to socialize.

[@daveeast8715]

U just want ALL my cuddles 😢dont u

[@Jessica.Shawnte]

Social Messi has tricked me and 1000’s of people that in order to have healthy hair you need a 50 step hair routine. When most of the products don’t work or do the same thing. Most of the influencers have texturizes or wear extensions

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Lmaooo YESSS THAT IS A BIG ONE

[@marylandj3228]

But no, yessss when the 3c girls were faking being 4c. It created and creates chaos!! Atp I can eyeball a product an tell that it probably won't work for my coilly hair. 🥲

[@Jessica.Shawnte]

@@marylandj3228they used to gaslight people for telling them that they weren’t 4c.. like girl we can clearly see your hair 3A

[@traceylennon1204]

@Jessica I was thinking about that too!!

[@cadiiii]

Yes! I found out the same thing about skin care too, I only use three products and my skin has never looked better.

[@NecroOwl]

People learned the word “narcissistic” and call everyone that and it’s aggravating. Just like how people call switching moods fast “bipolar”. I believe that they self-diagnose because they don’t want to have to go to a psychiatrist and risk that psychiatrist tell them that they have no mental illness. Struggle is popular now, and people really think that if you don’t struggle and have continuous hardships then your words and feelings aren’t valid or worthy.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

YESSSSSSSS OMG 😂

[@dinkyboss]

To be fair, most people who say stuff like that don’t get that there is a difference between saying someone has narcissistic traits vs diagnosing someone with a narcissistic personality disorder. I say that say a lot of narcissistic behaviors are more popular these days so it’s not inaccurate to say people are exhibiting narcissistic tendencies more frequently these days. Social media has normalized SO many toxic antisocial behaviors in the past couple of years.

[@thecoolintroverttv8381]

It literally feels like we're back to those dark/emotional Tumblr girlie days😂

[@armanifryeowens5518]

Not everyone is a narcissist but there are tons of people with narcissistic traits in gen z especially due to social media influence.

[@breannesmith8580]

My man and I have been together for five years now and our first date was to Red Lobster and then we went to see the Venom movie. Afterwards, he surprised me with frozen yogurt and we hung out until my mom called me and told me it was time to come home. We were still in our early 20s so there came a point where a date for us was ordering a pizza and taking it to the park to chill and relax together in the fresh air or we'd get some coffee or boba and walk the trail together or sit and talk for hours. I love to get nice things and give nice gifts but I agree that isn't what makes a relationship stay together. A relationship truly has longevity when you are a team that is always there for one another and you uplift each other. Also, getting expensive gifts isn't always the way to go because I remember one year I got my boyfriend a huge book on how to draw anime characters and he was ECSTATIC about it and the book was on sale at Barnes and Noble for like $10. I got that with some of his favorite candy and other small things and he was happy. Times are tough on everybody right now so if you buying people gifts for the holidays and whatnot just focus on stuff you know that they would enjoy without having to break the bank.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

No, for real I agree I’ve gotten my man some expensive things and some cheap things and I will say his favorite things had to be the cheapest 🥲. Same with me lmao.

[@dinkyboss]

This sounds like me and my man and yeah really loved our broke era in our early twenties lol. It was such a vibe and it built a strong foundation for our relationship.

[@Jojobeanz3]

That’s why I left social media over 2 years ago. No point in entertaining that crazy mess. It’s all for fakes & frauds unless it’s for business. Even the businesses are shady too! Real world is falling apart around us . Gotta enjoy it while it lasts . Missed you ! You look great mamacita 😘💜💟🙏🏾✝️ God bless !

[@CookWithStephh]

I just deleted my IG a week ago and I feel free to! I also deleted Facebook and TikTok ! I just need my KZbin that’s all ❤

[@shaunaadams6924]

I went to get my eyebrows microbladed. When the lady tagged me in her post on social media, I was like who dis women. She put so many filters on me that I was unrecognizable 😢😂… Lesson learned, and I warn others

[@dani.1170]

I HAVE ONE. Child models on social media wearing clothes they should not be wearing as literal babies. Also, I have a friend who's autistic and he fits all of the "you may be autistic if you do this" listings, but the thing is.. you have to have most if not all the things listed to maybe be autistic, for example you can't not be able to detect sarcasm and be okay with noise, thats just an example. These traits alone can apply to anyoneee or anythinggg, key words; "these traits alone" So yes self diagnoses videos are harmful and confusing. GIRL YOU ATEEEE ON THIS VIDEO, especially the unrealistic standards on the FIRST DATE

[@TheeMademoiselle]

I touched on this topic: kzbin.info/www/bejne/g6LKf2p5bNGWmtUsi=hY7y1kxFr4JfSumW Also, very interesting. I never thought that you had to meet all of the criteria.

[@dani.1170]

@@TheeMademoiselle It's a "theory" I'm not educated on it THAT much but I'm putting my experience out there, connecting what makes sense to me. So don't take my word on it when I say "you have to meet all" jus in case I sound dumb😭I did say "most" though. And oh my god yes I loveddd that video so much, you PREACHED.

[@starryloona]

@@TheeMademoiselle you cat meet all of the criteria because its a spectrum I mean u do but don't at the same time like you have it but somethings are less severe than others

[@dani.1170]

@@starryloona YES THIS!

[@mrveryoutspoken337]

WHEN YOU FINALLY LEARN YOUR PLACE IN PEOPLE'S LIVES, YOUR FEELINGS WON'T GET HURT. I Swear To God That's The Truth & One Of The Most Important Life Lessons You'll Learn. Rather It's Friends , Family Or relationships. People Do Different Stuff, For Different People. They Move DIFFERENT, Love DIFFERENT, Support DIFFERENT!! Pay Close Attention To How People Treat Others Vs How They Rock With You Because That's Exactly How They Feel About You💯🎯.

[@NeOn-vw8xi]

People get so mad when you say 50/50 relationships aren’t realistic but THEYRE NOT 😂 Most families don’t have that experience.

[@armanifryeowens5518]

Explain ? I’m confused 😊

[@deniseayling8691]

Thank you for telling the truth 😤I keep telling myself people are getting dumber and dumber for falling for fake social media products, relationship or luxuries just follow their bad influence instead of worrying about their own self.

[@mrveryoutspoken337]

It's actually crazy when you're in tune spiritually. You just be getting these weird feelings about ppl , they start doing things that trigger you & everything in you just tells you to step back & as soon as you do, things start to unfold ... you stay silent long enough they'll expose the truth themselves. And all you have to do is thank God for giving you the gift of discernment. It's not a L man , you WON cause God revealed to you what needed to be revealed so you can move on gratefully 🤍

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Sooo true

[@CookWithStephh]

This literally been happening to me lately !

[@syguzman5739]

0:28 Sage dancing to "I Needed Love" ❤🐾

[@TheeMademoiselle]

😂

[@nicolerose4285]

The abundance thing for me is having multiple Stanley cups or any reusable cups like that literally defeats the whole purpose of reusable cups why do you have the same cup in every color

[@TheeMademoiselle]

I guess they want to match their outfits 🙁

[@nicolerose4285]

@@TheeMademoisellethat’s why I get neutral colors like black, white, or brown on things like that so they match everything that I have no matter the color lol

[@imanihogans6988]

Normalizing overconsumption and the feeling of not being enough without useless items and consumerism aswell . Feeding into the idea of “gotta have it” or “TikTok made me buy it so you have to get it too”

[@naomivought9317]

Before social media the “hauls” were just called shopping and collections. And you don’t gotta buy 1700 of the same thing to be cool guys 😭 just be normal people cmon

[@ariannamyrie9520]

I'm 25, almost 26, and I have been with my man for almost 8 years, and married for almost 4, and we started as best friends with no ulterior motive, period in university.... and we love not having kids right now, cuz we're just being happy and having an actual life together first, you know? Like, what?! I don't understand why folks hate commitment so much...... gtfoh 😅😒🙄

[@TheeMademoiselle]

That’s beautiful 🥲

[@mekastayfabsteele5989]

I think it's great to be single and take care of yourself. It's ok not settling for just anyone who don't meet your standards.

[@nicotr1]

From a former nail tech. Frequent gel manicures can weaken nails and damage the nail bed, especially if the prep and removal aren't done carefully. Some recommend taking a break of at least a week every eight weeks, while others suggest taking a few days off once a month or two. The same if not more so for acrylic. 😊

[@BleuJoy27]

Self-diagnosis is the reason this mental health professional thought about switching careers. Too many social media trained mental health experts with no credentials😂

[@TheeMademoiselle]

I can’t blame them because even having conversations with certain people trying to tell them like they should really go to a professional-They’ll really try to argue me down talking about well “The professionals can misdiagnosed you” like yes sure. I’m like OK but you’re walking around thinking you have anxiety when you’re probably Suffering with a panic disorder. Tiktok edu aint helping.

[@mrveryoutspoken337]

One thing about me I'm always real wit myself .. I know when I'm wrong , I know when I'm right , I know when I'm doing too much , or when I ain't doing enough .. I always stay true to myself , you can't be real with nobody if you ain't real with yourself first 💯

[@Ohemaamary]

I agree with you people self diagnosing themselves is insane and not good. It’s offensive to people who actually have these diagnosis. I legit didn’t know I had a mental illness until 2020 and that was a shocker.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

It truly is. Like i hate when someone comes to me saying they have undiagnosed Bipolar like 😒…..uhhhh ok.

[@Ohemaamary]

@@TheeMademoiselle wow someone really told you that? That’s insane.

[@WithloveYuju]

How people look on social media vs reality and why we think being average or plain is bad.

[@alexxuswillis1659]

An idea for your series; exposing "natural" influencers who encourage you to be natural and claim that they are natural, but really behind closed doors may not really be...natural

[@seleciaa]

Seconded!

[@lamersonnikki]

Honestly that sounds like a good series... I avoid Tiktok and most social media because it's messed up my attention span and I lose time on it.. so this would be interesting

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Thank you ❤ stay tuned 😅

[@StarC2233]

Yooo, I have that thought sometimes 😂😂 "If I had it in me, I'd be rich from scamming, too!!" I'd rather be a good person.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

I think about it every day 🤣

[@naomivought9317]

ME TOO!! I’ve been selling stuff online since I think 2010. On many of diff websites! I’ve seen scamming in every shape and form, I’m a well educated in the form of scamming. Never done it! I could, but I could never live with myself.

[@nonnieJ94]

I’m glad I’m not the only one who has these thoughts. But the realization that the reason others are rolling in dough is because they scheme and scam which devalues the whole lifestyle helps me sleep at night.

[@divineempress8539]

Those nail designs are overrated and ugly if I’m being honest. Super long nails are unhygienic af. Those duck nails are 🗑️. Paying $150+ just for designs and rhinestones for a week or two(at best, god forbid they break during then) is not worth it. I used to get a fill every two weeks and to cut costs I would get them clear and do my own design how I wanted them done. Since 2020 I’ve been doing my own polygel. I’m a nail biter and work with my hands so to keep me away from biting I get them done or do them myself. Most haulers/video creator/influencer/content creator folks get on my nerves because a lot have no clue what they are doing.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Hideous fr lmao. And yes it makes no sense smh.

[@divineempress8539]

@@TheeMademoiselle I hate logos on my stuff too. Especially the repeated embossing and big obnoxious logos like it’s trying to show off on its own.

[@anneagena8236]

The toxicity on Instagram is so annoying they keep normalizing toxic relationships likes it cool and they glorify people like Ekane like why is she on my Tl she’s toxic

[@TheeMademoiselle]

She never popped up on my IG Thank goodness but youtube and tiktok yes smh

[@anneagena8236]

@@TheeMademoiselle I blocked her on my Tik tok cuz no

[@carmen.juliana]

Feelings are normal, miscommunication is normal, emotions are normal!!!!!! Unless you result to the extreme every time you are faced with situations your probably not Neurodiverse.

[@naomivought9317]

As someone who is diagnosed adhd, I am extreme in almost every situation. Although I’ve worked real hard to sometimes keep that extreme internally with coping mechanisms. I 100% agree with you. Knowing how much many adhd symptoms overlap with autism, all mental health conditions and other neurological disorders, even medical disorders. Y’all need to see your doctors! And I say that for people’s own well-being. Being treated for adhd when you have depression isn’t going to fix your problems. Being treated for bipolar when you have adhd is not going to fix your problems 😅🥹

[@Niafytb]

I love that you are talking about this! Social media has a tricked a lot of people they need to wake up and learn about real life.

[@Raven53944]

A thing influencers have tricked us to have is a house ( 1 million +)

[@TheeMademoiselle]

The real tea is a lot of these houses are not $1 million houses, they don’t own they rent and some of them are owned by their LLCs or businesses where the criteria is completely different for ownership.

[@farfrompleasant]

Social media normalized self diagnosing and just reducing real mental illness/ behavioral issues/ learning disabilities/ disorders in general to something that’s “quirky” or “marketable.” I wish destigmatizing does not result in the popularization of an ailment.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

It annoys me BAD. Like I will say it’s nice to not be judged for my mental illness but I hate when people walk around talking bout they “undiagnosed bipolar or borderline personality disorder” like how tf.

[@breannesmith8580]

Lmao I feel called out about the college thing 😂 it took me 7 years to graduate BUT in my defense I took time off and during that time did not accept any financial aid or loans so no money was wasted

[@TheeMademoiselle]

See that’s different 😂

[@dorothy6200]

I can’t afford to do my nails at the salon consistently so I use the Kiss acrylic set from Target. It’s so nice and strong and I’ve gotten a lot of compliments. Don’t have to break the bank to stay put together

[@caline626]

This why I like your content. YOU KEEP IT REAL

[@TheeMademoiselle]

I appreciate that 😇

[@Abundantone444]

I say to each his own. I'm blessed to be a sahm. I enjoy raising my children and taking care of them, like i wish i had. My husband enjoys being a provider. It works for us. I also have my own business that i run from home so im not just depending on his income. House work us hard work too so do you.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

You have your own business so technically you have 2 incomes. And you do not represent the majority. That’s common knowledge. I would love to live that life and more than likely will in the future but won’t be pushing it on others like it’s normal or expected. Most people have to work to make ends meet.

[@GiveHerFlowers]

I watched a haul video for the first time yesterday in like a year and I had a whole different view point than I use too. Over the past couple years, my mind shifted about how I viewed shopping and what I spend money on. All I saw was a bunch of stuff that was going to end up in donation bins and the trash. It no longer persuades me to buy anything. I actually see it as a waste to have like 5 of the same item especially the low quality and super trendy items.

[@marylandj3228]

The unrealistic dating standards hits really hard as a gen z we have the expectations way too high when we barely even meet people our age in real life. The lack of third places is only exasperated by social media The cheesecake factory video pointed it out a lot that people are shallow for nothing. I feel like its very performative in the dating scene. Im still at a place in my life where id still do simple dates i'm driven really not item driven. I love coffee and would love a coffee daylte 🤷🏽‍♀️.For the nails part I feel like its just clout these days, long and or sharp nails are not for everybody.(the hand made/small business one's are so cute to me tho) Even our hands "need" to be aesthetic 😢. Having cute nails reminds me of the clout having buss down wigs have. Americans are spending far too much these days... the hauls especially its gettin to be way too much. Good will was never popular until the social media girlies got too it. Society expects us too keep up appearences 24/7 for the sake of social media. People are working too hard these days to give it up to some nobody for an 18- life long commitment. If the family can afford it then it's find by me. It's just a lot 😅!! Thanks you for another excellent video. I enjoyed this one thank you for all you do !! 😊

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Thank you for watching 😘

[@naomivought9317]

I had fake nails once in my life. For prom. Absolutely hated them and destroyed my real nails getting them off. I keep my nails cut short and unpainted and no one’s ever blinked an eye at them 😅😅 males or females. I’m a simple person, I enjoy simple dates or hang outs as well.

[@marylandj3228]

@@naomivought9317 I feel you. I like my nails done now but just simple jell paint usuallly. I also love gardening so longer nails and acrylics won't really work for me.

[@naomivought9317]

@@marylandj3228 yeah there’s been a few times I’ve painted them but I honestly enjoy my bare nails. My mom gets gel nails and my sister designs fake press on nails and wears them and sells them. 😊 so I can appreciate them but I don’t feel like it’s a necessary thing for women to have lol. I also work in inventory and shipping so hands are always cut up anyways lol. I had one ex who liked when I painted my nails, he would get excited when I did LOL. but that’s about the only encounter I’ve ever had with a male who enjoyed them or even noticed them, so I hope people who get them honestly like them 🥲

[@KL-yg3ii]

People don't realize these influencers are putting all these hauls as tax write offs, js. If its in a video, its in a tax write off!

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Absolutely

[@KL-yg3ii]

@@TheeMademoiselle I didnt even get to the part of the video where you mentioned it before I commented that 😅 but I learned in art school thats how social media artists get expensive studio equipment when they are first starting out before they have enough followers to get sponsored.

[@seleciaa]

I understand why people self-diagnose, though. Mental health services aren't accessible for a lot of people. One doesn't have to necessarily claim the illness before formally diagnosed, but they can learn about how to cope with whatever they're dealing with.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

That’s true but for many people they would rather self diagnose. I have a video on how to get free mental health services in my description at all times. You can also easily research hoe to get mental health services. Those who are low income, most of the time can get mental health services covered by state insurance (I know because I did it). Now we also have online therapy. Many therapists also will lower their service prices for you if you cannot afford it out of pocket. There are a lot of people who spend money on things they don’t need, but won’t spend money on therapy. That’s a real issue.

[@seleciaa]

​@@TheeMademoiselle That is very true as well! I just wanted to present the other side of the argument/discussion :)

[@chardonnay5715]

SM has normalized lack of integrity.

[@psybelle]

As a mental health Professional, I cannot Express how glad I am to watch you bring awareness to The harmfull mental health content online. Thank you so much for that.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Ofcourse 🙏🏽

[@chelscara]

5:43 I feel like everyone deserves a thing that’s just a treat for themselves. My hair is that for me, I don’t spend a lot on looks stuff but I’ll drop money on a good hair cut and I’m so hype to have a job again so I can get it dyed instead of having to do it myself. Like I do alright but professionals are professional for a reason.😂

[@carmen.juliana]

Glad to see you and your cat again 💚

[@mrveryoutspoken337]

It's okay to be money motivated in a positive way. Don't sell your Soul for money, once you do that you're automatically putting yourself in a position to be silenced. Don't let anything or anyone control you.💯

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Facts

[@s.tiaira9081]

The kitty😻

[@BoujeeGrapes]

Looooooove this series!!! You will forever have content because these folks have lost their minds.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

They truly have. It is wild.

[@lamersonnikki]

Your cats like... I love you but come on and accepts her fate 😂😂

[@TheeMademoiselle]

She* & she tolerates my mess lmao

[@lamersonnikki]

@@TheeMademoiselle Sorry I fixed it. but she's cute

[@_lunaceleste]

about the self diagnosis thing, that’s why I say “it’s possible” because I don’t want to be walking around here saying I have this & that for it to come out not true. my mom has been doing the research longer than me because she’s been noticed the signs since I was little. I would love to get a professional diagnosis & I just started doing research on what I may have. if it comes out true, then I’ll have to figure out how to live with it.

[@pandaluvr]

Ohh I made it to a video!! Im finna binge watch all the other ones for summer break Luv you ^^🫂💕

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Thanks love ❤

[@IamBlaqueBlossom]

I mean everyone prefers something different so if one prefers EXTRA nails that’s their choice, every female don’t have to have a basic set to please a basic person.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

As I clearly said, you don’t HAVE TO in order to please others as in it’s not normal or necessary. This video highlights things that social media has normalized. In addition, if you clearly can’t pay your bills, you shouldn’t be getting your nails done, especially excessively and then paying mad money to do so.

[@sbostic08]

Your comment was pretty basic. Thee Mademoiselle's critique clearly went over your head.

[@bunnyblue9311]

Honestly, if the 50/50 is truly split down the middle then I have no problem with it. What I do have an issue is if the woman is doing all the cooking, cleaning, giving birth, taking care of the kids, being available for sex on top of going to work and then having to split all the bills, that’s not a true 50/50 that’s like a 30/70 relationship disguise as a 50/50. Heck to naw, I rather be single. I’m grateful my husband pays the majority of the bills. I do have to pay the smaller bills but he makes more than me and we split the domestic responsibilities in half and I’m happy with that but expecting someone to pay 100% of the bills in this economy is ridiculous and unrealistic.

[@ruthhennington1993]

I love the fact i do my own nails thats how some ppl express themselves long extravagant nails have been a thing in the black community its more visual due to social media

[@carmen.juliana]

Ya I will always do a fill or rebalance before a soak-off unless you have broken nails or excessive lift lifting, you don’t need to soak your nails off for a nail tech to call themselves a nail tech and refuse to do fills is ridiculous

[@OnyanaRosa]

8:20 Self-diagnosis: shout out to Amanda Seales! 😂

[@cococroshea]

You're so intelligent, God bless you 🧡

[@TheeMademoiselle]

♥️ thank you

[@jenniferavila2703]

Heyy, I've been a follower for about 2 years now and im working on commenting more lol. I love your content, I love your energy. anyway to answer your question in the beginning: I would be interested in a deep dive about the unrealistic "day in the life" or "what I eat in a day". or the fake closeness you feel because you have someone on social media or how this generation is so lonely yet we have advanced methods of communication.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Thank you 🙏🏽 and those are great topics 🙃

[@brooklyn.nychole]

Hit the nail on the head with the self-diagnosis stigma. Thanks for pointing that out.

[@garnetbabe2.0godschild40]

Whew I'm on time 🎉🎉 Allo cheri❤❤❤

[@shakarafarrow2183]

Don’t get me started on the 20 v whatever videos and the illusion of having plenty of options when it comes to dating. The lack of preteen role models is getting out of control. Some of these teenagers look my age (23) but sophomores in high school. They look cute but there’s nothing to look forward to when they become grown. They become targets for predators and they use the excuse “They don’t look 16 and lied about their age.” You knew good and well during y’all first conversation that she was underage

[@TheeMademoiselle]

YESSSSS shit is disturbing

[@cristhianmontoya6648]

Need part 3, 4, 5.. ASAP! 😂

[@lextonwilliams2627]

Awesome video thanks for shining more light on this topic keep up the great work

[@ytc858]

Whew! The way I appreciate this video. Take MY money

[@addisonalexander8886]

YES! PT.2. Can't wait to hear your thoughts

[@Puppydogpals-b4j]

I was looking forward to this video thanks ! I love how real and uncut you are, I’m just discovering you but I see you’ve been a big KZbinr for years 🤩🤩

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Welcome!! Thank you 😊

[@GothBatty]

I have an audience of hundreds of thousands of people on Twitter but it’s hard to monetize. 😢

[@ItsBrysonJ]

I agree with the dripping and designer items, I personally know people in my life that make me feel that I need designer shoes or chlothes.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Shit is weird to me. Like target is fine.

[@DemureDarlings]

I’m one of those people who are dripped down lol and it makes me feel so bad when people feel like they can’t hang out with me because don’t have those things😢it took a lot of hard work and YEARS for me to be able to afford those things but I don’t want to intimidate people😢

[@AntaneseTooREAL]

That’s exactly what I thought of when you said what you are about to do

[@chardonnay5715]

Man you was on point this whole video!

[@xoxomonet]

I got a video idea the UGC scammers charging for courses 😂😂 I was trying to get into it but the big UGC creators be scamming

[@TheeMademoiselle]

I hate them.

[@laladaniel3488]

Not yall walking around smelling like SeaWorld. With the long nails. 😂

[@TheeMademoiselle]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Darkstalker1012]

It’s a sad world, smdh…🤦🏾‍♀️ Btw, LOVE 💕💗the song 🎶 in the beginning. It’s so sweet, and chill 🥰✨

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Thanks it’s mine ❤

[@Darkstalker1012]

4:56 Also, not you bringing out the shade fan 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👏👏👏👏👏. But on a serious note, people DMing you about the last vid is crazy..Like sheesh, people can’t have different opinions nowadays without people getting mad over it. Like goodness gracious…🤦🏾‍♀️

[@thatsthatdrpepper]

Loved that lil dance break w you & Sage lol. Also I would love this series just to listen to you rip toxic norms apart - so I’m here to stay, cus you always keep it 1,000.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@salihahwilliams1453]

For the nail part I also get my nails done regularly and have been since I was 17 I’m a pretty creative person so I do get designs and such but nothing that’s way crazy . Just expressing my creativity and if I ain’t got it or have something more important to pay for the nails can wait . But heavy on the self diagnoses part ! Because idk how many people I meet who swear they have “bipolar disorder” or adhd but never got actually diagnosed just making assumptions . And it’s offensive to those who actually have said illnesses . Like people are making a mockery of mental health it’s sick af fr

[@setsunatodoroki]

let's have a content about,Hyper Consumerism/Consumption. Lots of love.

[@chelscara]

I used to feel bad I couldn’t own designer as like a teenager. But as I get older it all just looks so bad and obnoxious? I feel like anything that’s really designer and good, I’m probably not even gonna know until someone tells me and I can feel the durability and softness or something.

[@michulafrance117]

Bruh 9:18 got me!!! I really saw these videos and was thinking I might be autistic because I have a lot of these issues. But I’m disorganized lol 😅

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Shit is ridiculous. They got people out here thinking they’re mentally ill 🥴

[@salmahernandez3142]

Ahh, bc i eatch Hannah Alonso the algorithm brought me to you. Not disappointed. It took about 2-3 months, sprinkled watched about 25 hrish? of Hannah's content

[@InfamousTing-tu5wq]

I def have a husband that makes 6figs and all i do is cook clean and take care of my kids 😂😂😂 however it is very emotionally draining to live this way. Keep your freedom ladies 4b

[@TheeMademoiselle]

That’s really nice lols. You def got a unicorn. 🦄

[@DemureDarlings]

Hey twin ❤ my husband also makes high 6 figures, I get to raise our child at home, and all I do is shop, but it also robs you of many different things😢people think one life is easier over the other when it’s all just a trade off!!

[@InfamousTing-tu5wq]

@@DemureDarlings yes omg. I def need more SAHM/W friends because even working women judge VERY harshly meanwhile are on the outside. Its equivalent to selling your soul. Especially if you are trapped. Glorified house slavery imo. All i do is shop and clean myself 😂😂😂😂

[@DemureDarlings]

⁠@@InfamousTing-tu5wqWhat’s SAHM/W?Im sorry I got the stay at home mom part lol

[@InfamousTing-tu5wq]

@@DemureDarlings stay at home wife. Not to be mistaken with SAHM

[@nicotr1]

Lack of honor, integrity, faithfulness, all rooted in the destruction of the family, turning our back on God and his commandments. Like ancient Rome, Egypt, Mesopotamia, they fell for the same reason. Strong men bring good times, good times make weak men, weak men make bad times, bad times make strong men. We're in the weak men make bad times but I believe that will change, not in my lifetime but maybe my grandchildren will live to see it.

[@xoxo.daviii]

Jersey girl here ! & I’m also jamaican, Haitian and white I love ur videos you speak nothing but facts girl ❤ the music in the beginning was such a vibe 🇭🇹🫶🏽

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Thanks it’s my single 😅

[@KdotStew]

Sis yyyaaassss I love the way you refuted the haters! We Haitians don't be Givin a fux.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Exactly!!

[@K.D-Gaia]

I really enjoy listening to you speak

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@bugsbunni4200]

Notifications Gang ❤

[@carmynp719]

You saying you dont Gaf about the people who DM took me outttt💀

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Cause seriously. Idk who they thought I was.

[@michulafrance117]

The natural hair gurus 😵‍💫

[@_badbish_98]

5:35 press-on nails for every day things for fun design. I only get my nails done at the salons for events.

[@meracat56]

I be honest, I messed my first year of college cause of Covid 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@CLow2018]

FYI. The link only gives 15% off for the Raycons.

[@domjean2267]

What is your view on ghosting? And why do you think people do it ?

[@TheeMademoiselle]

I feel like sometimes ghosting is valid for some people and that’s how they communicate and there’s many different reasons why people do it. I don’t think it’s an effective way of communication tho. I believe if you’re gonna cut someone off at least tell them why but I do understand that in certain circumstances it’s the best way to go.

[@MosesTheRealEstateAgent]

Was that kompa music in the intro? ❤❤❤❤

[@Xgold1]

0:35 Sage is like put me down 😂😂😂

[@jeralee23]

The other day I saw this TikTok video of this person unwrapping a Burkin bag. I don’t know have never seen a Burkin bags in person, but this one screamed fake.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Hmmm 🤔 it’s hard to get one so who knows

[@DemureDarlings]

I PROMISE YOU I LITERALLY HAVE THAT LIFE AND ITS STILL A LIFE, AND LIFE ISNT EASY!

[@aw33]

The cat made the entire video for me lol

[@leilani8949]

You’re so gorgeous & your hair is sooo long😍😍

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Thank you!!

[@luciusb6026]

Yu saying everything I been preaching to people but no one listen

[@TheeMademoiselle]

They do not 😂

[@fantasytraveler]

50/50 is mindset, it doesn't exist unless are both are equal: equal in value, status, body and thought. Sometimes it 35/65 54/46 20/80 sometimes both equal to 25 and they need contingency plan.

[@AntaneseTooREAL]

I just over love you … you keep it 1000 and don’t care who you offend. I’m currently working on that cause i be holde back truth and the people need it