life alone in new york

[@maiphammy]

we’re alone for Valentine’s Day… BUT ALONE TOGETHER. remember, the most important relationship is the one you have with yourself ❤️ thank you for 1.76M

[@iililadfeilds6925]

WE LOVE U GURL

[@bellamonster9584]

I love you so much you help me do much with like everything💓💞😘

[@MariaDelCarmenVlogs]

You’re right on that 🌸💗

[@heyhey4657]

This is the best Valentine’s Day present ❤️🧸

[@fahdah106]

girl do you think you will be moving back to LA also can you do a Q&A video

[@grace_malfoy5]

I feel like everyone needs to do something like this wether they’re single or not

[@daeunyou2875]

Draco🖤💚

[@II-ne3lp]

I’m poor so.. maybe not

[@shanyabland1854]

I 100% agree with this comment 👏🏽💯

[@Babyfae_]

@@II-ne3lp girl you can do it affordably too just take a day to relax your body.. your health is more important so a purple sweatpants day is always needed haha

[@mitaverse]

YESSSS

[@maryvillarreal1594]

"aside from cheating on me, he was great" girl I never felt a sentence more in my life

[@yourmom_341]

I GOT THE POWER ( LATE RESPONSE)

[@ayriayri8020]

I literally love her and I just started watching her today and she’s like the realest funniest KZbinr right now lmao I can relate to her sm 😭

[@saumyasingh5136]

same same same

[@aubriwood6319]

SAME

[@hearts_4_me337]

Watching mai is like literally talking to your best friend on FaceTime

[@lylawilliford5465]

fr

[@NaickyD]

Yeah

[@monishaasenthil484]

Declaimer: this channel is HIGHLY ADDICTIVE and the girl making the videos owns the heart of her fans💕ilysm this is exactly what I needed today.

[@hannaeniola396]

Couldn't have said it better 😭

[@fionnualafitz8086]

She is my comfort KZbinr she’s so chill, and supportive but in a different way like it’s not toxic.

[@katerinapetrova245]

Ikr

[@ryerosario]

fr

[@CA2SD]

The fact you are so confident, raw, and unfiltered in your vlogs is everything. At your age living your life without any apologies nor having to be with a friend or another KZbinr all the time is so refreshing. YOU connect with ppl on so many levels. You are genuinely so cool!!

[@ashleyyao3985]

I love mais attitude to life and how okay she is being alone. It’s honestly so inspiring to me. I’m gonna have a treat myself special day now hehehe

[@jasmineskinner5809]

It is inspiring! I go out of my way to try and build relationships and friendships and it doesn't work. She literally does her own thing and attracts people. We're learning from the best 👌

[@pcruzinn]

To all those spending Valentine's alone, just remember we ain't settling down for no charity work. We waiting for that person that gives the same energy back. Until then, stay single and thriving!!

[@jasmineskinner5809]

I'm married and still needed this. My husband gets home after dark. No gifts but it's not his fault. Just a lonely day to me for some reason. I'll be glad when its over. 🤧

[@inevera13]

Honestly this day in particular exists for very capitalist reasons, pay it no mind and just celebrate ur love for each other whenever u can!! Sending u all the love

[@katd200]

I got told by my fiancee he's signing his rights over and moving away after our son is born . Then I'll be raising two by myself

[@Mari-qx8hm]

My boyfriend isn’t even spending time with me overall , I thought today would be different but I guess not 😐

[@toastyrag3592]

@@katd200 what omg- that's horrible

[@jasmineskinner5809]

@@inevera13 thank you I agree completely! ❤ to you also!

[@Immy_11]

The fact that in this video Mai is talking about how she’s trying to reach 1.8 million and now 9 months later she’s at 2.8 million like girllll you slay

[@Lokmebe]

Now shes at 3.3!!!!!!!!!!!

[@FaithWithG]

Mai has made me realize that it’s totally okay being alone. I don’t have much friends that I hangout with so mai has been my bestie :)

[@Madi-lt3xf]

Same feeling

[@liinagames]

I have terrible mental health and confidence issues, but Mai makes me feel so much better about life and that life is worth living. Watching her videos gives me so much happiness at the end of a long and stressful day. Thank you, Mai for making my days better with your videos. 💓

[@anniespigeons6085]

💕💕 keep being you things will get better soon

[@bamboobabby4572]

Also seek prof help!

[@Megan_Love_333]

Girl I’m 34, and I haven’t been in a relationship for 6 years now and I can tell you being single is truly amazing in so many ways! Developing that relationship with yourself is really awesome and I used to think “my biological clock” is ticking like many girls do but realistically when it’s time, it’ll be time, plus I learned I rather be single and happy than being in a relationship and settle for someone who doesn’t deserve me 💖 and we all deserve the best💖💕❤️ You got this beautiful girl!

[@mamiedition]

Im 28 and married .i spend this day to show love to family&friends more than with my hubs lol i tell everyone you dont need a partner just because people say your at the age ,because holidays ,because love NO you need yourself and yourself only soo deff find your happiness and love your life 😍😍

[@noursaccount]

@@mamiedition do u love ur husband?

[@az.x25]

@@noursaccount that’s kinda weird to ask lol plus it’s a personal question ??? Idk

[@noursaccount]

@@az.x25 i mean i’m curious lol

[@mamiedition]

@@noursaccount yes lol we are happily married .its just we have been together 8years and pretty much just give eachother gifts or do little vacas through the months .so this one specific date isnt just for me&him .and rather to show everyone else love .is what im saying

[@kitty._.cat321]

while i watched this video i had a self-care evening had a shower, did a face mask, meditated, moisturised and watched your vids and let me tell you, I. AM. SO RELAXED RIGHT NOW

[@charilyntucker8705]

The fact that the elevator most definitely had a security camera and she was shaking her thang with no care in the world made me die laughing! That’s Mai for ya

[@daeunyou2875]

I just absolutely love her personality She's so funny

[@swedenrose2767]

Seeing Mai’s positive attitude towards being alone and having a relationship with yourself helps me understand it’s okay to be by yourself

[@shutterjazz]

I have been totally depressed for a week (yes, because of a man), but your video finally managed to cheer me up. I love your energy. Keep doing your thing girl. You rock.

[@mxrissahashemi4604]

it’s okay bae, i hope ur doing better🫶

[@itspreethikaaa]

Mai I love how unapologetically ''YOU'' you are. the confidence, the energy I'm living for it 💓💖

[@heartneri5897]

We should realize that its ok being alone during valentines it’s honestly the best. Treating and loving yourself better. Thank you for this video Mai, I totally love this plus I LOVE YOU ❤️

[@r-0213-en]

I legit just finished watching your whole Moving to NYC series lol I stumbled upon your Cassie Euphoria Video and just kept scrolling through to see what other videos you post as well and just fell in love with your content. I love your personality and your content very much! You are definitely inspiring me to actually stop procrastinating with my own videos. I look forward to seeing more of your content and I'm happy that I stumbled upon your videos. I too am from Canada wanting to move to both LA and NYC one day.

[@michelleconnors8494]

Same lol came across the Cassie video and just kept scrolling and watching lol and love it. Also from Canada aswell

[@enyadushi7942]

100% Same!!

[@paielit]

SAME WITH ME

[@TombraiderFanboy]

LMFAO SAME

[@r-0213-en]

@@michelleconnors8494 ouuu ! i honestly love finding other Canadians online! idk why but i find it so exciting 🤣🤣

[@julia.mariek]

So like- I'm literally 14 with a 5 person family (thats so stressing you dont even know) and I'm single af, but like a whole day without anyone bothering you and dedicating a whole day/night to yourself sound bomb rn

[@akankshamishra8355]

"No one takes care of you better than you take care of yourself" -This made my day ❤️ Edit-: How did this got so many likes 😭 2 Edit-: mom I am famous 😭😭

[@Hirari103]

Yes, valentines is mainly a couple's celebration but let's not forget that it's a day to celebrate love! Remember that YOU are loved and cared for and be thankful for those around you who have loved and supported you, whether that's your significant other, your friends, coworkers, family members, your pets 💕 And most importantly, remember to LOVE YOURSELF! Be your own valentine 💗💗💘 Thank you Mai for encouraging me to always take time for myself and teaching to be more grateful for the things I have in my life. I love you gyuurl ~~ happy Valentine's! ❣

[@mamiedition]

I used to be like i HAVE to celebrate with a valentine .BUT now i use it to celebrate the ones i love around me .friends neighbors just anyone. i make little goodie bags and give it to them through out the day❤️

[@mayaarandolph]

I feel like most of us who watch are single bc we’re working to become the best version of ourselves and that’s why we watch you bc you help us SO MUCH MAI

[@cousinalejandro9931]

Bruh dating is useless anyway

[@danielleschmidt2954]

As a married mom I love to rewatch this video from time to time and remind myself to take care of myself. Even if I can't take a whole night off. Just watching this video and doing some skincare is a huge comfort. Thanks Mai.

[@namjoonsbicycle94]

I love that she always tells us to love ourselves and I love her whole vibe so much and I literally love her energy she’s a queen peridot 😫

[@rainhope3958]

This makes me wanna be with you girl. Just being friends and being a family is all I need

[@tangerinejess2984]

mai you're such a blessing to this world, you know when you spilt that coffee everywhere and you were like- nah im not letting this ruin my vibe? seriously your attitude on life has inspired me to be so much more relaxed, love myself, and not let any minor inconveniences shake my energy throughout the day. sending love from Australia!!

[@aubriwood6319]

I feel like everyone needs to do this, HONESTLY. I've been doing more self care you know all that and it has been a GAME CHANGER.

[@bluestarr606]

you’re vibe lately has been so so so amazing, especially since you moved to NY. your vids have been motivating me and making me feel so much better, about myself and life in general. you really are such a kind and beautiful person and your videos are such a safe place. keep doing what u love mai

[@itsnicole11]

Never spent a Valentine’s Day with anyone so I’m glad Mai is here keeping us company. I don’t mind being by myself (actually I quite like it) but it’s harder on Valentine’s Day

[@itsh4nn4hx]

Agreeed!! Your just there thinking that everyone is away doing things and being with people and your just sitting yourself like… what do I do hahaha we got this tho!

[@itsnicole11]

@@itsh4nn4hx we got this. I’m glad there are others that feel the same way

[@paradise2253]

i love your personality and i love how you are always yourself no matter what, all ur vids make me so happy and inspire me to love myself

[@karenpham]

I love this! I’m a 39 year old married mom and everyone needs to do this for themselves. ❤️

[@khalilahd.]

I love these gentle reminders to take care of myself. Being a lone teaches you to find happiness within yourself ❤️

[@emilymay4603]

The fact that I started watching you 4 years ago and seeing how far you’ve made it is amazing ❤️ honestly so motivating ! my favourite :))

[@brisapalacios590]

I just…love you. Thank you for always cheering and teaching us to love our selves, you are a truly awesome, wander full, lovely human being.❤

[@araluenbeckford3014]

I used to be the kind of person who felt uncomfortable being alone and doing things alone but by constantly watching your videos and seeing your personal journey it has helped me appreciate myself and my own company, now i treasure those days when I can take myself out and not talk to anyone with my music in my headphones just taking everything in. it truly is self care having those type of days and I thank you so much for helping me embrace that side of me

[@stephaniep5177]

Coming from a person that has been in a relationship for the past 7 years... I sometimes forget the intention to spend time alone and caring for myself. I truly respect a woman like Mai who always reminds us ladies to take care of ourselves first. Yes we can find someone we match well with and want to spend our live with, but time with yourself and loving yourself is so much more important. Ive always found myself appreciating my single friends perspective of relationships and self care, more than my friends in relationships, since they prioritize their wellbeing over others. and my 26 yr old ass is taking notes from your 19 yr old ass cause your absolutely on point! Love a mature queen!

[@LeannKaye]

Valentine's Day is not just about romantic love, it can also be about your love for yourself, friends and family! Happy Valentine's Mai! 💗

[@mamiedition]

I deff use it more to spread love to the ones around me .. i make goodie bags and just spend the day handing them out

[@Butter1quest]

I just started watching your videos, and you have no idea how entertained I am, this is so funny, relatable and this actually gives me the motivation to take care of myself-

[@Fi0laa159]

This girl has changed my life ngl. I’m October I wasn’t depressed but something close to it Deadlines were to much for me and I was having meltdowns twice a week at 7:30 and missed school allot.I was lazy,wouldn’t work, and was very unmotivated.I found her channel and remembered her from a while back and now I work consistently, am way more social,happy,and I’ve started doing stuff like journaling,meditating-I mean me?? Meditating?? Anyway girl I just wanna say I freaking love you and ur content so thank u for literally just existing Damn that was a long paragraph

[@enjoythesmallthings3214]

SAME THO!

[@jennaadams4504]

i love how she’s so consistent with posting, i haven’t been a subscriber very long but i’ve been OBSESSED with watching her vids in the night, it’s so relaxing

[@allysoncaldwell8492]

Mai! we literally had the same Valentines night alone. Thats so comforting to see that other people do this and actually mean it. I love your videos honestly makes me feel like I can do anything myself and I love that feeling!

[@folklore939]

Watching Mai's videos is like being on facetime with your best friend and I'm loving it

[@umamurshed5433]

I love how she just speaks her mind in every video. I literally love Mai

[@urmomissexy4307]

you always make me feel like im perfectly valid to be myself and live my life for me instead if living it to please other people and i cant express how much happier i am accepting myself instead of trying to change to make everyone else happy

[@aesthetic__2658]

Honestly, this is something I needed! I was just giving myself a self talk on how being alone doesn't mean you're lonely, and then you posted this! Most of us feel like we have nobody, but that's not true because we always have ourselves! And mai, ily! Tyyyy for literally being my best friend even tho you don't know it

[@kaliparissa]

Everytime I feel lonely or scared to be alone this video completely slaps me over the head like no girl you’re good !! Thanks for this !!

[@MayseeRenae]

I love this it’s so supporting seeing another person who vouches that it’s okay to be alone and enjoy your own company regardless or a significant other or friends. Thank you so much!! It makes me feel not alone!!

[@makaylawashington4472]

It’s so crazy and amazing how much Mai empowers so many people. She is so inspiring. Love you Mai 🥰

[@sassi2873]

I love how you just walked around with the facemask on, the confidence is real. Your constant talk about selflove has made me have a look at what I’m doing for myself and that is nothing, soooooo I will try and change that in the hopes of it helping with my mental health, thanks for that push. And btw I will probably learn how to cook from you.

[@ItsNateWoo]

i would run

[@taybae6206]

she’s alone

[@houdahaoufi9556]

@@taybae6206 yeah, while filming that. Imagine putting it out there for millions of people to watch, that's the "confidence" she was talking about. The internet is worse than having a neighbor that looks at you through the window 😂

[@yamur6713]

i love this vid so much like the vibes and i keep watching it since she posted it

[@ariellericher3018]

Mai you know how you’re always “im so grateful for you guys cause without you i wouldn’t be here” we im here to say im grateful FOR U. Seeing the notifications of your videos always bring back a smile on my face. You’re like the big sister I’ve always dreamed off and just, thank you for being the best human out there. I love you

[@alex_dezeus6717]

same here girl , i wish i can talk to her !

[@ariellericher3018]

@@alex_dezeus6717 exactly like omg shes the best

[@marisaunders2438]

My 2-year-long relationship ended a month ago, so valentines day was rough. I had a good morning, took myself out on a picnic beach date to read and journal. But once i got home that evening i was non-stop crying. Watched your video and it helped me calm down :) Im only 18 so i know its not the end of the world, but first love is pretty rough to handle once it ends. Wishing everyone a great day today❤️ you too mai🥰

[@laylamedeiros3553]

I love how positive she is being alone, I know a lot of people think that when you are single you are less happy than when you were dating someone but that is FALSE. Being single is only a bad time if you make it one.

[@celinahoyer2649]

bro I swear this girl is so funny and “relaxing” all the time. Like my fav youtuber🤭🤭🫶🏽

[@AnnamaeJoy]

I am in fact a 26 year old woman who lives by herself and also spent Valentine’s Day alone and single. This made me feel better 💀🤧 but honestly it was better than most valentines I’ve had when I was in a relationship😌

[@chloetic]

I'm going through so much heartbreak from a series of failed relationships and honestly have never felt more single in my life. I've pushed away every potential person, even though I feel so lonely because I have nothing left within me to give. Seeing you live and be content with your singleness gives me so much hope. I love how you said that when you're single you don't need to worry about anyone else's feelings because you have your own to deal with. I guess I never took the time to understand my own. Thankyou for that.

[@julie30147]

I hope you’re well. Take care.

[@ariesxxurmom9709]

ok but who needs a boyfriend when you have MISS MAI??? she be making me smile more than any man has 😌💕love you sm

[@piperissobbing4245]

Mai! your videos genuinely make me so so happy, like when im sad n stuff i watch your videos because they are just so uplifting and amazing!!!! I LOVE YOU!!!

[@ashleyJo3547]

This is the first Valentine's Day I have spent alone, and it was honestly the best day. I did all the self care things, sat around in comfy clothes, watched Euphoria, took a little nap and went to bed early! It honestly made me want to do that every night 🥰

[@angelahammon3619]

i literally love her so much she makes me feel ok like it’s ok to eat it’s ok to not look completely perfect and it’s ok to self love she just makes me realize that i really should be happy to have the body I have

[@Angel-ul5lg]

This is my comfort account. You continue to inspire me and watching you helps me feel accepted and that I don’t have to fit everyone standards. I’m proud of the person your becoming. Luv you Mai💜

[@Mikamac]

I literally wanna be as confident and self loving as this amazing woman-

[@user-eh8nc5zh2z]

You are!!!

[@AndreawhisperingASMR]

I'm living for that lowkey spa unintentional ASMR!

[@leen5927]

I was just thinking about how “lonely “ I am , especially when I see my friends socials and compare my life theirs but when I watch your videos You remind that it’s ok to be lonely and that just makes my day

[@jvdbs2304]

This is exactly what I needed I was low-key crying a couple of minutes ago and then I saw that you posted, and the video was about loneliness the thing I was crying over. Thank you so much Mai! 😄

[@Mia_x0x0]

Idk why but just watching the beginning of any of Mai's videos gets me so excited because I just love Mai so much

[@jlanacrv]

That was the first time I watched her vlogs and she immediately just feels like a big sister showing you how to life - LOVE IT

[@giamariesantanasoriano]

Every time this girl uploads a video it somehow makes me feel so at peace to see her life and how she fulfills her dreams but at the same time gives us advice about life. I don't know about you but this is the best thing that has happened to me in a while. Discovering your channel when I was going through a very depressing time, was the best thing that has happened to me. So thanks for uploading or trying to upload daily videos on KZbin, I know that it shouldn't be easy at all, so I really appreciate it. 🥰

[@jawana9]

Listen I’m not alone but I love Mai’s videos and positivity about everything, she is literally the sweetest person ever!

[@sandbunny450]

the way you slowly dip the strawberry in made my chuckle i don`t know why 13:26

[@anqwonrandle]

mai i’m 23 and i’m still trying to learn to love myself the way you do.. every time i watch you i catch myself questioning why i can’t be happy and proud of what i have like you can. all i gotta say is you’ve got a good head on your shoulders and life’s gonna reward you for that.

[@zaralinden1288]

I fell in love with somebody a few months ago and I got really heartbroken, and for Valentine’s Day I had nobody to spend it with to take my mind off of it because all of my friends have significant others. Seeing you normalize being independent in situations like these are really comforting. I love you so much Mai. Muah 💋

[@tocalily9072]

I literally needed this lol I’m alone aswell but it’s alright cause I can count on u always and I always watch u cause u make me feel good about myself and help me, lysm Mai xx

[@amiewilson200]

I love your channels I’ve been watching them for a little while

[@gelynzamora2789]

mai u aint a bad dog mom, u were so good when u realized that sterling ate it then u worry so u called poison hotline. YOU ARE THE BEST MAI! ILY!

[@roxannaduarte2101]

Okay but Mai, you literally showing your personality is like talking to the best friend I’ve always wanted :’) the ending was the cutest. I was like okay bestieee🥰

[@lillakelemen2580]

After having a busy day i just wanted to watch mai talk about how good life is and i needed this positive energy! Thank you for being here:D

[@arlene.1]

She is one of the most honest creators on this platform abt not having a partner & saying how you should dedicated a night/day for selfcare as it is very important! :)

[@teriderson2692]

Mai, I just want you to know that you being so natural and talking about things even the little stuff is healing itself for me. Somehow, watching your vlogs and hearing your voice is my other form of self-love. Love you, Queen! 🥰

[@toriachterberg9457]

I have started a mental health journey because seeing her videos pushed me too. I love how real she is it makes it soo much easier.

[@kittysxorestarting6571]

Watching you treat yourself made me relax, the cosy nyc vibe just is enough to put me to sleep, your living my dream life girl! ❤️🌃🌆🌅

[@stellaturley4301]

Mai has like the best quotes out there I swear

[@ashleigh9255]

You are such an amazing person, this is the kind of energy that we need in our lives

[@leahsimpson1361]

You know when Netflix asks if your still watching and you see you reflection in the tv screen? Literally what I’ve looked like for a week bingeing Mai’s channel.

[@daphneguineveregelay4668]

I just recently watched Mai’s vlog and i could really tell that I FREAKING WANT SOME MORE!!! Like what the actual heck?? Mai’s really the baddest I’ve ever seen and i really love her for that. The clumsiness she act and the way she talked, like girl!? I really love the confidence of her. And also how i love her independence i salute you Mai for living alone for like how many years. I hope Mai’s gonna notice this i really freakin hope with crossed fingers. And if she’s gonna notice this I just wanna say stay healthy and positive always Mai we’re always her for u and I’m ur new subscriber and a fan! Xoxo🌹

[@pinkbrownieei]

this girl is so inspiration and realistic which is all we need tbf 😭😭

[@maliavanhoepen8272]

I needed this so much, like this was the perfect pick-me-up. You're literally so entertaining no matter what you do, ur just so easy to relate to, it amazing. ily, I hope you have an amazing rest of your day!

[@kelseyaritonang2435]

I'm watching this and you're helping me go through the roughest times. Thank you Mai

[@rose-je1hf]

She’s makes me feel so confident about myself and reminds me to take care of myself I love her ever since I started watching her she made me realize that I should be a confident bitch.

[@lilith7475]

your confidence makes me feel better about myself tho 😅

[@vianeymartinez4115]

In the next 5 years, I plan to live like Mai- moving to a place she loves, doing what she loves, taking care of herself, travels ugh ily😭

[@karlamendoza7166]

I don’t think I’ve had a REAL self-care day. But watching this made me want to have one and I think I have time this weekend, so I’ll try it out and see how it goes:) I love you Mai

[@elanapung]

mai is living the DREAM and i am here for it!!!

[@karliekinser5548]

This is literally my favorite video ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I’ve seen it like so many times lol like it’s 8 months after you posted this and I’m stilll watching this lol

[@Diana-zu7qg]

Bro I literally love these videos they bring me happiness if that makes sense

[@khalilahd.]

Same ❤️