life alone in new york

hi if youre alone, i hope we can be alone together. Im celebrating valentines day alone for the 19th year in a row. but thats okay. i love u
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[@maiphammy]

we’re alone for Valentine’s Day… BUT ALONE TOGETHER. remember, the most important relationship is the one you have with yourself ❤️ thank you for 1.76M

[@iililadfeilds6925]

WE LOVE U GURL

[@bellamonster9584]

I love you so much you help me do much with like everything💓💞😘

[@MariaDelCarmenVlogs]

You’re right on that 🌸💗

[@heyhey4657]

This is the best Valentine’s Day present ❤️🧸

[@fahdah106]

girl do you think you will be moving back to LA also can you do a Q&A video

[@grace_malfoy5]

I feel like everyone needs to do something like this wether they’re single or not

[@daeunyou2875]

Draco🖤💚

[@II-ne3lp]

I’m poor so.. maybe not

[@shanyabland1854]

I 100% agree with this comment 👏🏽💯

[@Babyfae_]

@@II-ne3lp girl you can do it affordably too just take a day to relax your body.. your health is more important so a purple sweatpants day is always needed haha

[@mitacapalot]

YESSSS

[@maryvillarreal1594]

"aside from cheating on me, he was great" girl I never felt a sentence more in my life

[@hearts_4_me337]

Watching mai is like literally talking to your best friend on FaceTime

[@lylawilliford5465]

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[@NaickyD]

Yeah

[@CA2SD]

The fact you are so confident, raw, and unfiltered in your vlogs is everything. At your age living your life without any apologies nor having to be with a friend or another KZbinr all the time is so refreshing. YOU connect with ppl on so many levels. You are genuinely so cool!!

[@charilyntucker8705]

The fact that the elevator most definitely had a security camera and she was shaking her thang with no care in the world made me die laughing! That’s Mai for ya

[@ayriayri8020]

I literally love her and I just started watching her today and she’s like the realest funniest KZbinr right now lmao I can relate to her sm 😭

[@saumyasingh5136]

same same same

[@aubriwood6319]

SAME

[@Immy_11]

The fact that in this video Mai is talking about how she’s trying to reach 1.8 million and now 9 months later she’s at 2.8 million like girllll you slay

[@Lily12182]

Now shes at 3.3!!!!!!!!!!!

[@julia.mariek]

So like- I'm literally 14 with a 5 person family (thats so stressing you dont even know) and I'm single af, but like a whole day without anyone bothering you and dedicating a whole day/night to yourself sound bomb rn

[@monishaasenthil484]

Declaimer: this channel is HIGHLY ADDICTIVE and the girl making the videos owns the heart of her fans💕ilysm this is exactly what I needed today.

[@hannaeniola396]

Couldn't have said it better 😭

[@kitty._.cat321]

while i watched this video i had a self-care evening had a shower, did a face mask, meditated, moisturised and watched your vids and let me tell you, I. AM. SO RELAXED RIGHT NOW

[@timevampired]

I just started watching your vids and you’ve helped me with my self care. Ty ma

[@fionnualafitz8086]

She is my comfort KZbinr she’s so chill, and supportive but in a different way like it’s not toxic.

[@katerinapetrova245]

Ikr

[@ryerosario]

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[@pcruzinn]

To all those spending Valentine's alone, just remember we ain't settling down for no charity work. We waiting for that person that gives the same energy back. Until then, stay single and thriving!!

[@gretawolf4991]

I just started watching your videos, and you have no idea how entertained I am, this is so funny, relatable and this actually gives me the motivation to take care of myself-

[@haleyhorrocks5634]

i love your videos mai, i fr binge watch them all day

[@ashleyyao3985]

I love mais attitude to life and how okay she is being alone. It’s honestly so inspiring to me. I’m gonna have a treat myself special day now hehehe

[@jasmineskinner5809]

It is inspiring! I go out of my way to try and build relationships and friendships and it doesn't work. She literally does her own thing and attracts people. We're learning from the best 👌

[@Giiscam]

Mai has made me realize that it’s totally okay being alone. I don’t have much friends that I hangout with so mai has been my bestie :)

[@Madi-lt3xf]

Same feeling

[@paradise2253]

i love your personality and i love how you are always yourself no matter what, all ur vids make me so happy and inspire me to love myself

[@ArtemisNyx]

Hi!! I just discovered your channel and subbed after the first vid I watched and I swear I’ve binged almost 7 of them today and had a full spa day because of you, and you are literally so freaking relatable and I absolutely love ur content. Sending love!

[@akankshamishra8355]

"No one takes care of you better than you take care of yourself" -This made my day ❤️ Edit-: How did this got so many likes 😭 2 Edit-: mom I am famous 😭😭

[@jasmineskinner5809]

I'm married and still needed this. My husband gets home after dark. No gifts but it's not his fault. Just a lonely day to me for some reason. I'll be glad when its over. 🤧

[@inevera13]

Honestly this day in particular exists for very capitalist reasons, pay it no mind and just celebrate ur love for each other whenever u can!! Sending u all the love

[@katd200]

I got told by my fiancee he's signing his rights over and moving away after our son is born . Then I'll be raising two by myself

[@Mari-qx8hm]

My boyfriend isn’t even spending time with me overall , I thought today would be different but I guess not 😐

[@toastyrag3592]

@@katd200 what omg- that's horrible

[@jasmineskinner5809]

@@inevera13 thank you I agree completely! ❤ to you also!

[@piperissobbing4245]

Mai! your videos genuinely make me so so happy, like when im sad n stuff i watch your videos because they are just so uplifting and amazing!!!! I LOVE YOU!!!

[@blairhasnohair5228]

your literally so cool and motivative. you inspire me sm to be more of a clean and healthy person.

[@mayaarandolph]

I feel like most of us who watch are single bc we’re working to become the best version of ourselves and that’s why we watch you bc you help us SO MUCH MAI

[@cousinalejandro9931]

Bruh dating is useless anyway

[@liinagames]

I have terrible mental health and confidence issues, but Mai makes me feel so much better about life and that life is worth living. Watching her videos gives me so much happiness at the end of a long and stressful day. Thank you, Mai for making my days better with your videos. 💓

[@anniespigeons6085]

💕💕 keep being you things will get better soon

[@bamboobabby4572]

Also seek prof help!

[@folklore939]

Watching Mai's videos is like being on facetime with your best friend and I'm loving it

[@laylaa8694]

she's so realistic + aesthetic istg ✨ and i will definetly take your advice on treating myself, ur such an inspiration 😍👏

[@HongNguyen-pg4tm]

Girl I’m 34, and I haven’t been in a relationship for 6 years now and I can tell you being single is truly amazing in so many ways! Developing that relationship with yourself is really awesome and I used to think “my biological clock” is ticking like many girls do but realistically when it’s time, it’ll be time, plus I learned I rather be single and happy than being in a relationship and settle for someone who doesn’t deserve me 💖 and we all deserve the best💖💕❤️ You got this beautiful girl!

[@mamiedition]

Im 28 and married .i spend this day to show love to family&friends more than with my hubs lol i tell everyone you dont need a partner just because people say your at the age ,because holidays ,because love NO you need yourself and yourself only soo deff find your happiness and love your life 😍😍

[@noursaccount]

@@mamiedition do u love ur husband?

[@az.x25]

@@noursaccount that’s kinda weird to ask lol plus it’s a personal question ??? Idk

[@noursaccount]

@@az.x25 i mean i’m curious lol

[@mamiedition]

@@noursaccount yes lol we are happily married .its just we have been together 8years and pretty much just give eachother gifts or do little vacas through the months .so this one specific date isnt just for me&him .and rather to show everyone else love .is what im saying

[@rachelvlogs94]

I legit just finished watching your whole Moving to NYC series lol I stumbled upon your Cassie Euphoria Video and just kept scrolling through to see what other videos you post as well and just fell in love with your content. I love your personality and your content very much! You are definitely inspiring me to actually stop procrastinating with my own videos. I look forward to seeing more of your content and I'm happy that I stumbled upon your videos. I too am from Canada wanting to move to both LA and NYC one day.

[@michelleconnors8494]

Same lol came across the Cassie video and just kept scrolling and watching lol and love it. Also from Canada aswell

[@enyadushi7942]

100% Same!!

[@paielit]

SAME WITH ME

[@TombraiderFanboy]

LMFAO SAME

[@rachelvlogs94]

@@michelleconnors8494 ouuu ! i honestly love finding other Canadians online! idk why but i find it so exciting 🤣🤣

[@Yoyoyoshikayyo]

I love u so much dude I’ve watched u for years while I was going through tough shit and literally watching u mad me low key so happy

[@rouabaghdadi8495]

Omggg ur sooo pwetty and amzinf ive been obessed w ur vidssss, the fact that u actually read almost all of ur suns comments if just soo cuteeee😭😭

[@courtmusona]

that whole talk of how you're 19 and have the rest of your life to find someone actually spoke to me. I always feel like I need someone in my life to love but I can't do that if I'm not comfortable enough with myself. you're videos are actually amazing

[@rose-je1hf]

She’s makes me feel so confident about myself and reminds me to take care of myself I love her ever since I started watching her she made me realize that I should be a confident bitch.

[@m.p2122]

You just make me feel much better about my self! Your brining me the vibes :)✨ Thanks

[@elisalouis5192]

okay girl i’m in LOVE w your vlogs in nyc like im obsessed, i’m gonna to watch ALL your vlogs (and i follow u hahaha)🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@daeunyou2875]

I just absolutely love her personality She's so funny

[@swedenrose2767]

Seeing Mai’s positive attitude towards being alone and having a relationship with yourself helps me understand it’s okay to be by yourself

[@billieeilishismylife9103]

omg i’ve laughed a lot in this video your vlogs and contact is everything I love your channel so much and I love you deep down my heart❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Mia_x0x0]

Idk why but just watching the beginning of any of Mai's videos gets me so excited because I just love Mai so much

[@itspreethikaaa]

Mai I love how unapologetically ''YOU'' you are. the confidence, the energy I'm living for it 💓💖

[@heartneri5897]

We should realize that its ok being alone during valentines it’s honestly the best. Treating and loving yourself better. Thank you for this video Mai, I totally love this plus I LOVE YOU ❤️

[@ellegeeran1074]

bro i love mai’s videos sm i’ve just been sat here all day binge-watching them

[@vanialopes170]

Girl you are my favourite youtuber of all times,your videos are just sooooo relatable,please keep being such a confident and sassy queen

[@ariesxxurmom9709]

ok but who needs a boyfriend when you have MISS MAI??? she be making me smile more than any man has 😌💕love you sm

[@mahd1yaa]

RIGHTT

[@Hirari103]

Yes, valentines is mainly a couple's celebration but let's not forget that it's a day to celebrate love! Remember that YOU are loved and cared for and be thankful for those around you who have loved and supported you, whether that's your significant other, your friends, coworkers, family members, your pets 💕 And most importantly, remember to LOVE YOURSELF! Be your own valentine 💗💗💘 Thank you Mai for encouraging me to always take time for myself and teaching to be more grateful for the things I have in my life. I love you gyuurl ~~ happy Valentine's! ❣

[@mamiedition]

I used to be like i HAVE to celebrate with a valentine .BUT now i use it to celebrate the ones i love around me .friends neighbors just anyone. i make little goodie bags and give it to them through out the day❤️

[@Jsjssska]

This is the first video I'm watching from your channel , and i just loved it . I subscribed with love. Love ya

[@i.t.g.5493]

I have been totally depressed for a week (yes, because of a man), but your video finally managed to cheer me up. I love your energy. Keep doing your thing girl. You rock.

[@mxrissahashemi4604]

it’s okay bae, i hope ur doing better🫶

[@namjoonsbicycle94]

I love that she always tells us to love ourselves and I love her whole vibe so much and I literally love her energy she’s a queen peridot 😫

[@itsnicole11]

Never spent a Valentine’s Day with anyone so I’m glad Mai is here keeping us company. I don’t mind being by myself (actually I quite like it) but it’s harder on Valentine’s Day

[@itsh4nn4hx]

Agreeed!! Your just there thinking that everyone is away doing things and being with people and your just sitting yourself like… what do I do hahaha we got this tho!

[@itsnicole11]

@@itsh4nn4hx we got this. I’m glad there are others that feel the same way

[@kaliparissa]

Everytime I feel lonely or scared to be alone this video completely slaps me over the head like no girl you’re good !! Thanks for this !!

[@savedsinner8904]

I literally started watching your videos yesterday, and now you're my fav youtuber ♡

[@rainhope3958]

This makes me wanna be with you girl. Just being friends and being a family is all I need

[@tangerinejess2984]

mai you're such a blessing to this world, you know when you spilt that coffee everywhere and you were like- nah im not letting this ruin my vibe? seriously your attitude on life has inspired me to be so much more relaxed, love myself, and not let any minor inconveniences shake my energy throughout the day. sending love from Australia!!

[@yamur6713]

i love this vid so much like the vibes and i keep watching it since she posted it

[@dielanour]

I love your energy that even speaks trough the screen ✨🤍🧿

[@bluestarr606]

you’re vibe lately has been so so so amazing, especially since you moved to NY. your vids have been motivating me and making me feel so much better, about myself and life in general. you really are such a kind and beautiful person and your videos are such a safe place. keep doing what u love mai

[@AnnamaeJoy]

I am in fact a 26 year old woman who lives by herself and also spent Valentine’s Day alone and single. This made me feel better 💀🤧 but honestly it was better than most valentines I’ve had when I was in a relationship😌

[@sab9485]

I've been having really bad anxiety and have been overthinking about so many things in my life..but your videos help me so much. ur genuinely just so funny and I laugh out loud watching your videos. im so happy I found ur channel years ago and I love catching up on your videos, I just really want you to know the positive impact you have on me! I wish you more success!!

[@katya3297]

im so happy i found ur channel omg ur amazing! love u sm

[@araluenbeckford3014]

I used to be the kind of person who felt uncomfortable being alone and doing things alone but by constantly watching your videos and seeing your personal journey it has helped me appreciate myself and my own company, now i treasure those days when I can take myself out and not talk to anyone with my music in my headphones just taking everything in. it truly is self care having those type of days and I thank you so much for helping me embrace that side of me

[@ariellericher3018]

Mai you know how you’re always “im so grateful for you guys cause without you i wouldn’t be here” we im here to say im grateful FOR U. Seeing the notifications of your videos always bring back a smile on my face. You’re like the big sister I’ve always dreamed off and just, thank you for being the best human out there. I love you

[@alex_dezeus6717]

same here girl , i wish i can talk to her !

[@ariellericher3018]

@@alex_dezeus6717 exactly like omg shes the best

[@incrediblelara7729]

I love the energy she is so real

[@ameliemoore1696]

Mai ilysm ur such an amazing person and watching your videos influences me to be productive.💗

[@laylamedeiros3553]

I love how positive she is being alone, I know a lot of people think that when you are single you are less happy than when you were dating someone but that is FALSE. Being single is only a bad time if you make it one.

[@LeannKaye]

Valentine's Day is not just about romantic love, it can also be about your love for yourself, friends and family! Happy Valentine's Mai! 💗

[@mamiedition]

I deff use it more to spread love to the ones around me .. i make goodie bags and just spend the day handing them out

[@damarisayala2728]

You are so inspiring. I love you so much, I even got my cousins to watch you and they love you so much.❤️❤️❤️ so the love and good luck to you✨❤️

[@dabaddie3304]

Omg this is the dream life it’s so nice that you encourage us to care about are self every now and then ♥️

[@emilymay4603]

The fact that I started watching you 4 years ago and seeing how far you’ve made it is amazing ❤️ honestly so motivating ! my favourite :))

[@urmomissexy4307]

you always make me feel like im perfectly valid to be myself and live my life for me instead if living it to please other people and i cant express how much happier i am accepting myself instead of trying to change to make everyone else happy

[@johannehjer7054]

just found you yesterday and i love you. So authentic and such good vibes

[@Maddy-dm7fj]

I love watching your videos! I went through a breakup a few months ago and your videos are helping me learn to love being single again 💕💕💕

[@karenpham]

I love this! I’m a 39 year old married mom and everyone needs to do this for themselves. ❤️

[@Fi0laa159]

This girl has changed my life ngl. I’m October I wasn’t depressed but something close to it Deadlines were to much for me and I was having meltdowns twice a week at 7:30 and missed school allot.I was lazy,wouldn’t work, and was very unmotivated.I found her channel and remembered her from a while back and now I work consistently, am way more social,happy,and I’ve started doing stuff like journaling,meditating-I mean me?? Meditating?? Anyway girl I just wanna say I freaking love you and ur content so thank u for literally just existing Damn that was a long paragraph

[@enjoythesmallthings3214]

SAME THO!

[@teliaa_ha]

i come to your channel so often i get excited when i manage to find a video without the red line at the bottom of it yet lol :)) love you mai!!!

[@michellenicholas9074]

I love Mai's new energy it makes me so happy and positive..

[@gelynzamora2789]

mai u aint a bad dog mom, u were so good when u realized that sterling ate it then u worry so u called poison hotline. YOU ARE THE BEST MAI! ILY!

[@stephaniep5177]

Coming from a person that has been in a relationship for the past 7 years... I sometimes forget the intention to spend time alone and caring for myself. I truly respect a woman like Mai who always reminds us ladies to take care of ourselves first. Yes we can find someone we match well with and want to spend our live with, but time with yourself and loving yourself is so much more important. Ive always found myself appreciating my single friends perspective of relationships and self care, more than my friends in relationships, since they prioritize their wellbeing over others. and my 26 yr old ass is taking notes from your 19 yr old ass cause your absolutely on point! Love a mature queen!

[@ineslourencovazpinto2425]

heyy!! i love so freaking much ur videos guurl!! it's just, i just get that really good vibe that i can't even explain, like living in NYC and your appartment>>>>>>>>>>DUDEE! gurl you're lucky ASF!! I just, when i wanna watch this type of video, i just click on your channel several times!!!

[@brisapalacios590]

I just…love you. Thank you for always cheering and teaching us to love our selves, you are a truly awesome, wander full, lovely human being.❤

[@aesthetic__2658]

Honestly, this is something I needed! I was just giving myself a self talk on how being alone doesn't mean you're lonely, and then you posted this! Most of us feel like we have nobody, but that's not true because we always have ourselves! And mai, ily! Tyyyy for literally being my best friend even tho you don't know it

[@jennaadams4504]

i love how she’s so consistent with posting, i haven’t been a subscriber very long but i’ve been OBSESSED with watching her vids in the night, it’s so relaxing

[@majaoledottir7381]

hi! i love your videos. i litterally watch them when im feeling down or angry

[@celeste2366]

I love youu. period. You made me feel 100x better abt my self

[@umamurshed5433]

I love how she just speaks her mind in every video. I literally love Mai

[@sassi2873]

I love how you just walked around with the facemask on, the confidence is real. Your constant talk about selflove has made me have a look at what I’m doing for myself and that is nothing, soooooo I will try and change that in the hopes of it helping with my mental health, thanks for that push. And btw I will probably learn how to cook from you.

[@ItsNateWoo]

i would run

[@taybae6206]

she’s alone

[@houdahaoufi9556]

@@taybae6206 yeah, while filming that. Imagine putting it out there for millions of people to watch, that's the "confidence" she was talking about. The internet is worse than having a neighbor that looks at you through the window 😂

[@celinahoyer2649]

bro I swear this girl is so funny and “relaxing” all the time. Like my fav youtuber🤭🤭🫶🏽

[@itzmejj5439]

I just love ur confidence , I just love watching youuu! U make my days better tbh , wish I could be ur friend dude😮‍💨😭🙏🏻

[@khalilahd.]

I love these gentle reminders to take care of myself. Being a lone teaches you to find happiness within yourself ❤️

[@allysoncaldwell8492]

Mai! we literally had the same Valentines night alone. Thats so comforting to see that other people do this and actually mean it. I love your videos honestly makes me feel like I can do anything myself and I love that feeling!

[@Livi_Grace]

I watch ur vids every week and it honestly makes me wanna get out and do stuff for myself ❤

[@addismommy1227]

Why have I just now found you and am obsessed with your videos💕

[@marisaunders2438]

My 2-year-long relationship ended a month ago, so valentines day was rough. I had a good morning, took myself out on a picnic beach date to read and journal. But once i got home that evening i was non-stop crying. Watched your video and it helped me calm down :) Im only 18 so i know its not the end of the world, but first love is pretty rough to handle once it ends. Wishing everyone a great day today❤️ you too mai🥰

[@makaylawashington4472]

It’s so crazy and amazing how much Mai empowers so many people. She is so inspiring. Love you Mai 🥰

[@shagun3691]

Your vids are literally amazing and it just keeps me motivated :)

[@adeyemoifemade7832]

Man do I love your videos and how you keep it real 100% as a 16 year old who has never celebrated valentine's day it can be difficult but it also ok cause I'm an introvert and I think apart of me is insecure which is why I don't really put myself out there but I've gotten so much better cause I don't the energy to be insecure

[@MayseeRenae]

I love this it’s so supporting seeing another person who vouches that it’s okay to be alone and enjoy your own company regardless or a significant other or friends. Thank you so much!! It makes me feel not alone!!

[@EmmaMendez]

Although I wasn't alone for valentines day, I did notice how USA/UK cultures make valentines day about couples and not about love, friendship and family and that made me so sad! It's a genuine day of love and I wish more people looked at it that way! Sending love to everyone!

[@Ocpri]

you made me love myself aaaa i love your vids they motivate me

[@aubriwood6319]

I feel like everyone needs to do this, HONESTLY. I've been doing more self care you know all that and it has been a GAME CHANGER.