Life and Channel Update

[@Lifeisbeautiful-ri2tb]

I was having a rough week at work and I felt the urge to go to the mall and "treat" myself. Before I did that, I rewatched this video and your outlet shopping video. It stopped me right in my tracks and u are the voice of reason. Your videos have brought me clarity and I can't thank you enough Wendy. You are helping people more than you will ever know. Thanks again and Happy 2023!!

[@lisagonzalez8957]

Wow I really applaud you! I came back to check your site cause I remembered you’d bought a favorite purse of mine ( Tory Burch small McGraw “jackfruit”) and then I heard your change of life(?) video. I feel very much the same, and have had the same realizations. Though certain difficult days I find I look to think about something I want to buy. I commend your truthful, laying it all out there- it helps- me at least!

[@dawngensler820]

You are so brave to share all of the information about “getting real with yourself”. I appreciate that so much. I am about the same age as you are and last year I started with all of the same goals you were talking about but I let myself really slip and had a terrible second half of the year with reckless overspending and such. I am going to rewatch this video when I get the urge since I have decided to have a fresh start this January and mean what I say. Please keep us updated, I appreciate your frankness and your friendly videos that are not always trying to sell something. 😊💕

[@Lifeisbeautiful-ri2tb]

Hi Dawn. I just rewatched this video because I am had another bad day today at work and felt the urge to "treat" myself. I am staying strong because "treating" myself doesn't make life better by accumulating more bills so that I will have to work harder and longer. I remember my days of reckless spending and I am having a fresh start too this year. I find this video and the one one that Wendy made about Outlet Shopping to be so helpful. Seriously these two videos have changed my life and Wendy is the voice of reason. One more video I would highly recommend is Tabby Violet's Am I Still Into Luxury video.

[@dawngensler820]

@@Lifeisbeautiful-ri2tb Thanks, I will check out Tabby Violet’s video.

[@carolann7459]

Hi! I am new to your channel. I was researching the LV Capucinne BB handbag in the Galet color and watched your bag review from a few years ago, following it with this video. I have also been on a journey towards a more healthy lifestyle for over the past year, and discovered intermittent fasting in the summer. I agree so much with your comments. I have lost over 60 lbs and am continuing in my journey to lose another 40-50 lbs, though I'm not so much focused on the number on the scales but how I feel. I do basic yoga every morning, but you have inspired me to look into doing more intermediate yoga to strengthen my core. Thank you, Wendy, for your transparency, honesty and authenticity. Take care!

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Big congratulations Carol Ann! You will get there - I'm sure of it.

[@Amy-hs1qe]

Dr. Fung said you can actually have a small splash of half and half or something in your coffee during your fast. So interesting listening to your story! I also started intermittent fasting in late September and down 18 lbs - the easiest weight loss I've ever experienced in my 63 years (but I have to improve what I eat in my window, still a bit of junk). And yes, realizing I have tons of nice things, stop acquiring, has been freeing.

[@katemiller7874]

Same. Intermittent fasting got me through menopause. Lost 20 lbs. feel great.

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Hey Amy! Yeah there is so much debate in the IF world about that - some people go as far as to say that stevia in coffee is okay too. Thankfully for me I just drink tea and have never liked anything in my tea. It IS the easiest weight loss ever. We literally burn fat as we sleep! It's freeing to stop grasping for things right? Have a wonderful Christmas Amy!

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

It's such a miracle during menopause right? Congratulations on your 20 pound weight loss. It feels wonderful to regain control over our physical health. Happy Holidays!

[@janetr5929]

What a timely video. I’m closing in on 63. I’m on a health journey to stay as healthy as I can. I have always been very healthy and still am but I had a wake-up call last November. I had a gallbladder episode and at the time thought I might be having a heart attack. I’d gained weight, which I’ve since lost. I also quit my job which was sucking the joy out of my life. Anyway, I could go on. I’m making it a point to quit buying for the sake of buying. I have enough. I’m happy you came on and gave us a life update. I hope you’ll continue to do so from time to time. I’m happy that you’re doing well and are in such a good place. I do think wisdom can come as we age if we pay attention. Merry Christmas to you and Jay. I hope 2023 is another great year for you. Take care.

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Janet! I'm so sorry to hear about your health issues. Those are very scary. Maybe talk to your doctor about trying IF? I just finished a wonderful KZbin yoga class that you might want to consider too? Also - big congratulations for quitting your job!!!! I'm really happy and proud of you. Yeah - we have enough stuff. Time to focus on other more important things. Happy Holidays and wishing you a HEALTHY and happy 2023.

[@tycat808]

Hi Wendy! Thanks for the updates and for your Chloe bag review (it is GORGEOUS!). Glad to see you pop back on here - I’ve always loved your videos, no matter what you talk about, because it just feels like you are so “real” and “normal”, and like having a conversation with a friend. Anyway, also wanted to say that everything you said really resonated with me too. 2022 was interesting, and I have definitely grown and improved in many ways. Here’s to an amazing 2023! I hope that you, and Jay, and the fur kids have a wonderful and very merry Christmas!!

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Thank you for taking the time to leave such a nice comment. I always feel connected to you through your comments too. Yes 2022 was so challenging yet provided us all with an opportunity to reset and regroup. 2023 has so many opportunities for personal growth and expansion. Sending you much love and wishes for a prosperous and healthy 2023.

[@jamelsydney2737]

Hi Wendy, thank you for this update. If you would like to hear ideas for a video suggestion - I would love to see what would be in your ideal forever luxury handbag collection for a woman who is heading into retirement. I will turning the big 50 in two years, and although I am still enjoying my handbags and still buying them, I am becoming more and more selective with what I buy now and wanting to curate my collection for my retirement life when I will probably lose interest in buying frivolous things and need to be more practical with my bags and materials things in general. So I would love to see what is in your current collection, and how you would to modify it for your retirement years. Thank you ☺️

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Thanks Jamel - I don't do collection videos for safety reasons but I can tell you that totes are my favorite style of bag for ease. My favorite bags are my Goyard Artois and my Montaigne bb. I'm a top reach in person.

[@christinem8468]

Hi Wendy. Thank you for your inspirational video. Wondering if you could recommend any yoga you tubers that you follow. Since Covid my yoga practice has taken a back seat . Would really love some recommendations. Thank you and happy new year

[@suzannehall5200]

This is so strange but I have had a similar year too. I started intermittent fasting two years ago next week and I have lost 22 pounds. I am still a plus size since menopause and probably always will be but it’s made such a huge difference to my confidence just knowing that after years of trying and failing to lose any weight that I am now in control, not my body. It’s also easy to stick with because it’s not a diet, it’s just timing. It’s been phenomenal and I highly recommend it. I had Covid back in May and I got through the pointy end quite well but the residual effects are still hanging on and that has changed my life. Like you I haven’t been to a shopping mall or a cinema or on public transport since. I just don’t want to go. I have also had to learn to say no to people because I do ok most of the time but every time I get really tired or stressed the fatigue and respiratory symptoms come back and I know I can’t handle other people’s problems right now. Have a wonderful Christmas and coming year. Best wishes.

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

First of all - congratulations on your IF journey and your success so far. Have you checked out that Facebook support group? There is so much love there and helpful tips. Second, sorry you had covid and are still struggling with the after effects. I hope you have a full recovery soon. I do feel that many people have gone through a shift of consciousness and are moving away from material things. There is nothing wrong with treating ourselves as long as it doesn't get out of hand. I too am really protective of my energy. I think you are on the right track! Keep the faith. Merry Christmas to you and your loved ones.

[@suzannehall5200]

I am not on Facebook. I have been getting a lot of support from friends and family. Best wishes

[@insidecivscloset]

Good to see you. I intermittent fast when I can. Helps since I'm not as active as I use to be. All the best health and happiness. Xx Civ

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Hey Civ! Loved watching your vacation video. It looked like so much fun. Wishing you a wonderful and safe 2023.

[@Lifeisbeautiful-ri2tb]

Thank you for sharing with us where you are at the life lessons. I am focusing on self care, paying off my credit cards, and buying less. I wa5ch a lot less youtube videos now because I needed to focus more on career goals and it was impossible for me not to be influenced to shop when I watched unboxings. I do pop in here and watch youtubers I like though....though n9t so much for the luxury content. I love fashion and think it is fabulous for those who treat themselves with luxury items...but I can't afford them. I am not saying I never shop or will never save for a wishlist item again....but I am saying buying an expensive item is not on my radar at this point. I was discussing with another youtube friend how watching less videos have changed our spending habits. Your new Chloe bag is so beautiful.....the leather and style look amazing! Happy Holidays to you, you hubby and your precious fur babies!! xoxo

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Good for you! I am so proud of you. I too watch far fewer KZbin lux unboxing partly because that kind of content doesn't really appeal to me much anymore, but also because I don't want to be tempted either. :-). Happy Holidays to you! Wishing you a wonderful holiday season and 2023.

[@MonsiieurAlex]

What a great video Wendy!! So happy for your vision/direction for 2023. Life is for the living!! ^_^

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Hey Alex! I just saw some great pics of you today on your IG. Happy New Years my friend.

[@magourn]

Such a good video! great message!

[@saffanna725]

SO fascinating, Wendy. It all makes sense and I'm in similar position - got out of control and now I'm getting back in the driving seat.

[@_lines_of_joy]

Wendy, great video! I’m also on IF since August. I’m 60 and am diabetic so I do healthy keto too. With the iF. My blood sugar has normalized from 267 to now between 94 and 120. I do indoor treadmill and rowing but I’ll check out the videos you suggested. I love intermittent fasting. It has gotten rid of my mood swings and migraine. Wish you all the best in 2023❤❤❤

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Congratulations on you IF journey! It's really a wonderful lifestyle with so many benefits. It's fantastic that you normalized your blood sugar via iF!!!

[@alittlebitlaura]

Congrats on your life changes. I can absolutely relate and am also focusing more on my financial, physical and mental health in 2023. I started intermittent fasting this year and lost about 15 pounds but have gained some back late in the year as my schedule has slipped. It truly has been the healthiest change I’ve made and I feel great when I do it. Thank you as always for sharing your journey - always inspiring. ❤

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Hey Laura! Merry Christmas to you and your hubby. Wishing you a wonderful holiday season and 2023. Yes - IF can really be a life changer for so many. It's hard to stay consistent during the holiday season for sure. It would be wonderful to see you in person in 2023.

[@Miauuu71]

Merry Christmas from Germany💓Oh,I totally need to try that,too! Great to have you back😘

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Hey Chrissie! What's the weather like in Germany right now? It's so cold in so much of the world. Wishing you a very Merry Christmas.

[@Miauuu71]

@@Wendys_lovinglife Right now we are having a warm Christmas...around 7Celsius🙈 We had a lot of early frost,until minus 8 degrees Celsius,a few weeks ago! I really enjoy your videos,and I can totally feel you!Since I went into hotflashes,a couple of years ago,I need to look at my health.I have backpain,neckpain,hips,thumbs...I need to do more sports!I am a Physio and I have a horse...but I need my running - and I couln't run,because I hat pain in my foot,starting in Jan. 2022....and I put on weight,like crazy.I totally love fasten...need to try the intermitting fasten,instead if the total fasten.I also think that I own everything and don't feel the need to buy more.Really funny😂🥳Warm cyberhug to you!Merry Christmas🎅🌲💓⭐️

[@Miauuu71]

@@Wendys_lovinglife P.S.The last really functional designer handbag I bought last year dec.!A Mullberry small zipped Bayswater in a soft tan colour and very smooth leather.I don't like Mulberrys uniformly pebbled newish leather.I was lucky to get it in the Mulberry sale for -400Euro🥳

[@Henry-uf5qp]

Glad to see you posting! I love watching your videos. Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to you and your loved ones!

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Thank you Henry! Wishing you and your loved ones a happy holiday and wonderful 2023.

[@katemiller7874]

Hi Wendy. Glad to see your beautiful face. I agree intermittent fasting saved me during menopause when the weight creeps in. It feels good to lose 20 lbs. I feel you when you say I just don’t want to go places. I consider it withdrawing a bit from people and I hate it just can’t stop doing it. No I can’t not Christmas tho I would rather go on a trip. I have adult children no way I couldn’t buy gifts , cook or celebrate with them. They are my life. Great to see you again. This was inspiring

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Congratulations on your weight loss and IF journey. It feels incredible doesn't it. I feel you about Christmas - if you have kids it's all about them. :-)

[@christinem8468]

Also.,, I think some great videos to make would be how you got to this point what steps in the journey did you take so many of us probably feel very similar to what you did and to hear shaman share bits and pieces of their story would be helpful.

[@Charoletta77]

Thank you for this video, my problem is eating in the middle of the night, I must stop to become successfully healthy . I truly understand the no Christmas, I didn't even put up a tree , that stuff isn't important to me like it use to be . I asked God to mature me in every area of my life and it's been a change, and I'm loving it.

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Hey Charolette - one of my sisters gets up and eats in the middle of the night and it's horrible horrible horrible for your health and causes spikes in blood sugar. Try to resist this. Maybe watch some KZbin videos on If and see if it is something you would like to try. We didn't put up a tree either this year - just not into it this year which is FINE. We all don't have to play that game if we don't want to. Maybe next year.....

[@adasollystyling]

Merry Christmas beautiful Wendy. ❤I think we definitely change as we get older. I choose to only spend time with people I love and do things that I enjoy. Life is too short and this year I have lost so many loved ones suddenly. 😘

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Merry Christmas Ada! I'm so sorry to hear that you have suffered so many losses recently. I really feel that. I have too and I keep telling people that I just can't bear to lose anymore. I don't fight or quarrel or even debate with anyone anymore about anything because life is just too damn short. I get that you and I are in similar places. Focusing on what is truly important. Sending you love and wishes for a wonderful 2023.

[@victoriasexton758]

Good for you! I love this. I love the allowing yourself to just be without the Botox etc I think that’s so amazing. ❤

[@lucymcc595]

I am so thrilled for you! It’s inspiring to see you be so deliberate about making changes for true good. I see some of my challenges in yours - what am I shopping is something I’ve been thinking about for a while… and have some more work to do. Thank you for sharing.

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Thank you Lucy! It's not easy. I have this week off and boredom is setting in so I find myself scrolling online looking at stuff I don't need.... But I'm staying strong and on track. You will follow the journey you are meant to take - trust yourself. Wishing you a wonderful 2023.

[@fabulousirene]

Merry Christmas Wendy. Beautiful bag 🎁🎄💕

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Hey Irene! Chloe is so underrated. This Tess bag has a classic silhouette and is so practical. The leather is divine too. Merry Christmas to you and your family and loved ones Irene.

[@fabulousirene]

@@Wendys_lovinglife : 😘😘😘😘

[@muffyscoops]

Thank you Wendy, I am 52yrs and having the same thoughts as you.

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

See! I'm not alone - we are all going through wonderful transformations and evolutions. Happy Holidays to you and your family and loved ones.

[@hundhundkatt]

I loved this! Would love to hear more life updates as you learn more about life and yourself❤

[@janettezcan4694]

Merry Christmas Wendy! Nice to see you on here.

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Hey Janet! Happy New Year to you and your loved ones.

[@bjtaylor02]

Wishing you many blessings for 2023 ❤.

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

You too BJ! I miss your videos too. Wishing you love and peace and contentment and happiness in 2023.

[@dkblue9331]

Great to see you Wendy and hear how your journey has unfolded over the last months. As a nearing 50yr old woman I am very interested to hear about IF - have heard bits and pieces here and there but am definitely going to seriously look into it now as for the first time in my life I am heavier than I thought I would be! Its exciting to see how the yoga and diet have transformed your life on many levels and it has inspired mw - so thankyou! Happy New Year to you and Jay in the US from me in Australia 🌺

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

There are so many wonderful videos on KZbin about IF and yoga - Happy New Year to you and your loved ones.

[@JustJennifer]

Wendy, you look so sparkly and fresh! Just glowing!! 🥰 I’m so happy to hear that you are finding peace and making your world what it needs to be for your higher good. It must be something about our age…we tend to really focus on what’s most important in our lives. Loved seeing you and hearing about your wonderful progress. Sending love and hugs ❤

[@karentremblay4633]

I love IF. I do 20. 4 since July down 22 lbs…. You should watch Dr Mindy Petz. And Dy Ann Parham…They are great IF coaches…

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Yes! Dr. Mindy Petz is fantastic - I was trying to remember her name when I was doing the video but my mind went blank. Congratulations on your weight loss! That's wonderful. It's really miraculous and a lifestyle change. Merry Christmas and happy holidays to you and your loved ones Karen.

[@TheLeighleigh7]

Love seeing your face on here! We have missed you. Praying the Lord’s best for you this 2023! 🎉

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Thank you! I hope you are having a wonderful holiday season and wishing you all the best in 2023.

[@lovenluxe]

The place you're in truly fits your channel name. Congratulations on loving life. You deserve it.💕

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Thank you! I hope you had a nice Christmas. Wishing you a wonderful 2023.

[@ItsOnlyWarPaint]

That was really good, makes perfect sense. Great to see you back if only for a fleeting visit. You certainly do not look an old lady 💕

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Aw thanks! Happy New Year!!!

[@pursediva]

Hello Wendy, so glad to see you back on YT. Hope you and your family have a great holiday season.

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Thanks Sharyn! Hope you and your family and loved ones have a happy holiday and wonderful 2023.

[@theduchessofmearns]

Good to see you again ! Merry Christmas 🎄🥂

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Thank you so much for watching. Wishing you and your loved ones a wonderful holiday season and a happy 2023.

[@AndrisWorld]

So good to see you back ❤

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Thank you Andri! Merry Christmas to you and your beautiful family. Thank you again for being such a wonderful support to me when I started IF. It has been transformational.

[@rebeccamitchell5387]

I totally get the break and admire your courage to step back but I must say I did miss seeing your videos and goodies that you share. Sending you love and light for 2023!

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Thank you Rebecca! I hope you and your family and loved ones are all doing great. Wishing you a beautiful, happy, and healthy 2023.

[@sandraboyle2520]

✨🎄🤗Happy Holidays My Friend 😘❤️🎄✨

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Happy Holidays Sandra! Wishing you and your family a lovely holiday season and a happy 2023.

[@ramonalayne]

I was wondering when I would see a video like this from you, I often wondered how and why you needed so much stuff. This is wonderful to see ❤️ cheers to you in your wonderful transformation

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Thank you so much Ramona. I guess we all have to go on our own journey's. Today I started methodically and slowly organizing each and every room and drawer and closet in my house and let me tell you - I am being ruthless with organizing and deciding what to keep. It's taking me so long to organize under my sinks, drawers, closets. and it's exhausting... I just can't stand having too much STUFF hanging around. I watched a couple of the "what I got for Christmas" videos today and it stressed me out. LOL. Where are they going to put all that packaging, let alone all that stuff? It feels better to streamline and have less. I'm off work until Jan 3rd and am going to slowly make my way through my entire house. I might need to rent a dumpster. :-). Wishing you a wonderful holiday season and 2023.

[@ramonalayne]

@@Wendys_lovinglife thanks Wendy! Have a wonderful New Year! Looking forward to your videos next year, stay blessed and beautiful

[@LVCoffeeLVer]

Sounds like you are doing really well. Missed seeing you ❤

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Thank you Tiffany! I do feel much more settled and peaceful. Love seeing your happy family on IG.

[@kristak1102]

Hi Wendy! It sounds like you’re in a fantastic place. I’ve been working on my health and fitness/strength as well. I’d love to try something new. What would you suggest as far as choosing between Pilates or Yoga? 😊

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Hey Krista. I love both pilates and yoga and go through cycles where I'm going hard on the pilates. I love yoga right now because it is calming, strengthens, and improves balance - and it's FREE. All you need is a yoga mat, a little bit of floor space, and can make so many improvements in only 30 minutes per day.

[@kristak1102]

@@Wendys_lovinglife I think I’ll go with Yoga to start! Thank you!

[@YosheaLux]

Hello Wendy! This is an awesome video. I need to do Intermittent Fasting as well. You look so happy. You have piece!

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Thank you! I really have a hard time putting into words the internal and transformative shift. There are so many great IF videos and professionals out there. That Facebook page is great too. Let me know fi you have any questions.

[@SabrinaShekofteh]

❤❤

[@Lmurovic]

One of my friends has had major success intermittent fasting. I’m trying to get on the bandwagon and try it. To lose weight and the overall benefits of fasting. Glad you’ve had success!

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

That's great to hear about your friend. There are lots of great and informative videos out there. It's been a miraculous lifestyle change for so many. Happy Holidays to you and your family and loved ones.

[@AndrisWorld]

I’m so glad you’ve done a video on this Wendy . You look absolutely amazing 🤩 ❤

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Thank YOU Andri for being so helpful and wonderful with all my questions and for suggesting Zero and the IF Facebook group. It really has been transformational is so many ways - not just physical. I appreciate you soooooo much!

[@tpink4651]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Thank you! Merry Christmas to you and your family and loved ones.

[@tpink4651]

@@Wendys_lovinglife Merry Christmas to you and yours as well!

[@AndrisWorld]

Rico and stopped doing presents years ago ❤

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

It sort of feels silly at some point right? I mean - we have all we need and want and what we need and want we can buy for ourselves. Merry Christmas my friend!

[@chelay_luxgg5866]

Great Vlog Wendy! Any suggestions on a good Yoga video?

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

I love Sarah Beth, Yoga by Kassandra, the Yogi Witch, Black Yogi Nico Marie, and many others

[@pjeames3334]

I love your positivity ❤️

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Thank you PJ! It feels amazing to make changes that are positive and healthy. Wishing you and your family and loved ones a wonderful holiday and 2023.

[@lylygirlygirl]

So good to see you back! Merry Xmas Wendy

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Thank you! Merry Christmas to you and your family and loved ones too.

[@corikay]

Wendy I understand the need to step back and concentrate on life’s important lessons. I’m glad that you are having such success in your process. I think 2023 may bring a lot of thoughtful introspection and adjustments in our lives. Thank You for always sharing your lessons with us!!!! They are very helpful! Hoping you, Jay and the fur babies enjoy a Wonderful Holiday!!!!💖

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

It's been a transformative time of evolution for so many. May 2023 bring you you joy and happiness and goals realized. :-)

[@javiersanchez8440]

Sensacional ☀️🤍☀️

[@MariaRodriguez-om1yi]

You always had to declare it

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

Not always - when I started KZbin I didn't have to declare it - a few years in we had to start. And the little bit of extra income screws me up for taxes and I end up having to pay it all back to the IRS so it's not worth it. So I demonized my channel.

[@MariaRodriguez-om1yi]

It might be menopause

[@nikilou5147]

Look at the camera correctly, very distracting when KZbinrs don't know how to look at the camera. Don't you realize when you're editing videos?

[@Wendys_lovinglife]

heyyyy - you don't have to watch my videos - they are not monetized. you can just moooooove along. I won't get my feelings hurt.