Life in the UK: Why I’m Questioning Everything

[@nam_nomad]

Hi John, I have travelled the world continuously for most of last 36 years, I only return to the UK because of my children, but then only at 3 months max at a time to satisfy visas. I can tell you the change each time especially this time in the UK, is horrendous. Its like friends you've not see for 10 year, those around don't notice the change in them, but you do. My advice to everyone, is get out... The world is so much better especially out of the western world. Follow your heart, your instinct, we only die once, but we live every day my friend. Make every day count with new experience and creste memories. Much love and many blessings to you on your journey.

[@JohnTalksUK]

Thanks so much for the message - this really lands with me

[@paulhank7967]

Absolutely agree. I've spent a lot of time in Asia. I think this is Asia's century. The west is great at shooting itself in the feet. Progressive lunatic politics and wars are the main reasons imo.

[@nam_nomad]

I can definitely agree with you on everything there mu friend. I was in Asia for a few months last year and it's a real world. Certainly feels and looks like it is their time. Wonderful parts of the world.

[@CBCB78]

Life in the U.K. is very tough now compared to the past but I’ve spoken to many Europeans and Germany France Italy Spain are all in similar positions. I was always told “don’t rely on other people for your own happiness. Make yourself happy”. Only you know what that means to you and how you can achieve it. Good luck whatever you decide to do.

[@Mary-tj5qx]

Same in the US. We have billionaires and the working class has been destroyed by neoliberalism. Government isn’t the problem. Look who benefits - Corporations and billionaires. They are the problem.

[@CBCB78]

@ in the U.K. its billionaires also buy mass immigration is destroying the country. Diluted national identity and British values. We don’t have a boarder so no one should be able to enter the U.K. unless invited and they arrive by boat daily to milk the System. It’s vile.

[@jeffclarkejnr]

I'm 51, earn a great wage in a global company, have zero stress, lovely family and friends, have a grandson now. I'm single and have a nice home. But for many reasons, I'm not happy living in England at all. If I could leave with my family in tow, I would. I desperately want this country that I once loved to change for the better. I can't see that happening without major action from the majority of the good and decent people of Britain. We need to take our country back from all those who would use and abuse us forever.

[@royzview6254]

Freedom isn't free you have to constantly fight for it otherwise others will take it from you. We the public have trusted our government for far to long and they have turned upon us all.

[@tanthaman]

Whinger

[@foreignermakingmoney-phili1458]

@@royzview6254 great comment

[@roslinney4285]

John we took a year out at 52 and 54 me being older. We have never been back to work. We travelled Europe in a van then lived in Spain for a year. That was 9 years ago. We came back 5 years ago as I missed the children. Don't get rid of your house, rent it out. I agree with everything you say but what I'll say is the grass isn't always greener. I would say go for it John, perfect time. I think the western world is on a decline.

[@JohnTalksUK]

Thanks for the message and you’re right, the grass won’t be greener but I’d like the life experience from it before we are too old. Thank you for sharing and watching - regards John

[@cloggsy1971]

Great idea in principle, but with the Labour Government changing the rules on renting, it will make it increasingly difficult renting out your property. The removal of section 21 evictions and the tenant rights they have implemented could me you will lose your house at well under market value if the tenants decide they want to buy you out. 😬😳

[@luketarplin]

You can’t expect the grass to be greener, but it is different, and sometimes the different life, good and bad is what people need. Moving to a different country and adapting to a new culture really does give you a new lease on life and a new perspective, even mundane things have a different feel.

[@coolpot]

yes, you need to goto china, russia, poland.

[@clam4597]

Hong Kong is the best part of China. Suitable for westerners. English official language.

[@lauriedixon9661]

I lived and worked in just about every London borough for 52 of my 55 years. I loved it, but when the pandemic arrived, I saw everyone's true colours and the veil lifted. The last five years have been the worst, I became so fearful of the crime and anti-social behaviour that I became a recluse, and it affected me badly in every way. It became too dangerous to even walk through our car park to get out of the gate. My husband and I gathered the focus to make a change and move to the coast. Cornwall was out of the question because of mad price rises, but we found a place that brought peace to our hearts. A place like England used to be, full of politeness and positivity. Things happen in our work life and family life, but our base is our sanctuary. We support our community by spending any money we have locally and using the services of only local traders so the community will continue and stay like this as long as possible.

[@Chrisfrombroketovanlife]

That's the way forward. Exeter is wher I want to be as kids have moved down from near Birmingham and it's close enough to the coast but a lovely town. I've done small village with one shop and hates it

[@user-ht9fr6eh9u]

France+

[@demlot4653]

Go for it lad , I done 25 years in London, left it 6 years back , im now living in rural Ireland, it took some getting use to, but I've no regrets

[@JohnTalksUK]

thanks for the share - good on you, glad its working out - just what I want to hear

[@JimBob-iz2by]

I plan on retiring to your home nation John. As an Englishman (but class myself as British) Scotland is where I feel "at home". I can't put my finger on why, but it is. I don't mean Glasgow or Edinburgh, I mean where you open your curtains, and you see a loch, or the Mountains, or absolutely nothing man made for as far as the eye can see. There is something raw, and spiritual. I hope you find your place and that it's achievable as well. Life is short. I'm a similar age and time seems to be speeding up. Slàinte Mhath

[@JohnTalksUK]

Good on you, it’s a great place to retire - I do love the countryside and the greenery of Scotland…. But I also need some sun lol - all these years in England and the better weather have spoiled me lol

[@karen66x]

I used to watch the news constantly and buy three newspapers a day. It gradually appeared to me that i was being told what to think, if that makes sense. I rarely watch mainstream news or buy newspapers anymore. Havent for years. I do my own research plus rely on my own common sense now. I totally agree with you about the division thing. Its so depressing isnt it? If i could afford it i would live in another country although i am a proud english/british woman. I love your posts they are so down to earth and refreshing. I wish you and your wife well whatever you decide. Bless you both 🙏

[@JohnTalksUK]

Thanks Karen - I’m the same - stopped with the mainstream years ago, just lost faith on the narrative that was being dictated to me.

[@davefreercarpangler]

I agree Karen, I tend to watch youtube for news now staying away from the MSM.

[@Chrisfrombroketovanlife]

Yes, forget the news and main stream media! But other countries aren't the answer in my opinion

[@karen66x]

@Chrisfrombroketovanlife That's a fair point actually 🙂

[@molecatcher3383]

I stopped TV, Radio and newspapers around 2014. You are right, MSM news is all "the official narrative" and lies.

[@dekncaz]

Hiya John, great video. My husband and I were planning on travelling when we retired, even moving to the UK as he has family there, but then at the age of 44, I had my first heart attack, this was in 2011 and since have had two more. A few years later my husband had a motorcycle accident, lost his job, had to retire 8 years earlier than expected. In my opinion if you get an opportunity to do something, do it, don't put it off as you never know what can happen. Your life can change in an instant. Whatever you decide, I am sure it will be the right decision as you've thought it through. Take care.

[@jhickman4735]

I lived in Canada 13 years and came back to the UK 4 months ago. I think a lot depends on attitude, I personally prefer living in the UK. Many countries are in decline , including Canada. I’m a duel citizen and will go back if Canada improves but the grass is not always greener you see. I also think living in another country changes you and changes the way you feel about your birth country, I love England and I love Great Britain. It’s not perfect but there is still much to love here..

[@joannedibben2352]

I agree with you I've never lived in a different place but if you can get out to nice scenery grass trees beach etc there is still a lot of beauty here to be thankfully for

[@kamsavesmoney]

​@@joannedibben2352 being out in nature is crucial to well being, when out in beautiful nature you could be anywhere in the world.

[@RD-ut7gr]

Done the exact same as you a few months ago. Also a dual citizen, Canada/UK, and Canada has declined rapidly in the past 5-10yrs. Still have some people here in england who think I've made a big mistake coming back here, but of course, they think Canada is some utopia. UK ain't perfect but it's still a great place to be.

[@jhickman4735]

@@RD-ut7gr exactly, people don’t understand Canada is worse unless you are wealthy..

[@IconicIronicUK]

Hi John, I’m 58 and live in the Midlands too. The way things are in the UK at the moment, I would say to you that, if you don’t have any kids, I would definitely look at moving away. Once you realise how much the mainstream media doesn’t tell you it is even more depressing. I am torn between trying to ignore it and concentrate on my family and my business, because it’s better for my wellbeing, but feel that if we all do this, we just allow things to get even worse. As I am 10 years older and have kids I feel it is too late for me, but in your position, I would definitely do it.

[@JohnTalksUK]

thanks very much for the message and joining me on the channel - John

[@jacquelinehughes4629]

100% agree with everything you’ve said. If we can see it why are the politicians doing nothing about it ?!? I’d love to relocate but to where ? That’s a big question x

[@halfbakedproductions7887]

I moved to England from Scotland in 2011 and have lived in the same area all the way through. I don't want to write an essay, but the decline can no longer be ignored. Crime is up, there's barely any police, no nightlife, shops are closing and either lying empty, or being replaced with dodgy vape shops and barbers. Some of the market traders have quit and are going to the "nicer" towns nearby - and I don't blame them. I'm okay with paying high taxes if there's something in return, but in the UK there just isn't. Even some third world dictatorships have roads that feel like glass, while ours are like terraforming Mars and you get people dangerously swerving to avoid them. People then trip on the knackered pavements or slip on black ice ungritted everywhere, really hurt themselves and put more strain on the NHS. The term "a stitch in time" springs to mind. Why are we telling people there's no money yet are allowing our train drivers to print themselves a blank cheque every year at the expense of everyone else, when they already earn double the EU average (and they do - look it up)? Grow a pair. The service we get for the prices we pay is a farce, in 2023 I travelled almost completely for free on LNER because Delay Repay kicked in every time. Before 2022 I'd never had a refund on the trains in my entire life. It should not be cheaper to fly a round trip from Glasgow to Rome as the train from London to Newcastle. Instead of handing out refunds like free mints in a hotel why not invest in the network to stop the delays from happening. Why have other foreign governments got energy prices under control while in the UK even people on six figures are putting an extra jumper on? All we hear is "we're working hard to lower your bills", "bear with us", "help is available if you're struggling to pay". It's a joke. I know someone in France who's paying the same for electricity now as I was in 2017 and his home is 3x the size of mine. And the recent changes to NI. Why are they imposing those changes on the employer directly? That is already leading to jobs being cut and positions going unfilled. I got an extra £125 in my payslip when Jeremy Hunt cut NI contributions, I don't need that money, just tax me it and have a working healthcare system please. I know people who have been living in total nightmarish misery for 2+ years with no life at all because the NHS can't even give them a 90 minute hip or knee operation. My uncle went private for his knee out of desperation and it cost him the price of a used car, having worked for 42 years. If he wasn't retired he would have become economically inactive because his knee would absolutely have prevented him from working which would put strain on the benefit system. The whole thing is a mess and he can't be the only one. Feels like everything is being cut, cut, cut. Even Sainsbury's are no longer going to be running their cafes or selling fresh cakes and fresh pizza, yet you can safely predict the cost of everything else they sell will rise. The cost of living crisis has a radiating effect and eventually you'll find everyone suffers. But Scotland feels like an alien environment and definitely isn't 'home' anymore. I probably wouldn't go back, because it has all the same problems just on a slightly smaller scale. There's a lot about England I greatly prefer. None of the governments have a clue. Even the SNP are now playing the "vote for us for real hope and change, we'll do all of this stuff we haven't done for the past decade, just give us another chance" card after 18 years already.

[@JohnTalksUK]

thanks very much for sharing this with me and on the video

[@royzview6254]

For someone who didn't want to write an essay, you did a good job of writing one !

[@ilformaggiodidio]

John, I'm literally in the same situation as you. Quite scarily actually. I'm 35, relocated from Glasgow to the Cotswolds almost 10 years ago. I've been fully remote running my own business for almost 5 years now. My partner and I are feeling the same decline about the UK, and I have a severe lack of adventure in life. Cotswolds is a very nice area, but it's not giving us everything we need. We're moving to Europe this summer, we know the grass won't always be greener but new challenges is something we need in the current climate, I'm able to take my business with me and my partner used to live in Italy and misses it dearly. In terms of the UK, I'm like you, I struggle to get my head around the decline of the UK, why its allowed to be happening etc. But I'm also coming to the conclusion that as its way out my control, I can only control my life, and moving somewhere new is something I now need to prioritise. I laughed at a few or your Scottish stereotypes regarding your dad etc, it reminded me of my youth. Best of luck to you.

[@luketarplin]

Don’t think of the grass being greener.. think of it as being different.

[@JohnTalksUK]

thanks so much for the message and joining me on the discussion - which part of Europe will you move to?

[@subm2455]

The reason why it is out of control is because the population of the immigrants is and going to cross the population of the natives and after that there is nothing much that can be done.....

[@matthewharding6245]

I've found your videos so refreshing. I've had similar experiences to you over the past 4 years or so. I had a breakdown during COVID due to work stresses, similar heart issues, lack of sleep and then a prolonged period of depression. The problems in this country are clear for all to see. My biggest frustration is that nobody seems willing to talk openly about the problems and as you say, everything is so divisive. My situation is complicated as I have children and elderly relatives. If I could, I would be looking to leave the UK.

[@JohnTalksUK]

Hey Matthew - thank you for the message, taking the time to listen and I’m really glad the content is refreshing. Sorry to hear about your issues and I hope that you find some recovery and managing the stress

[@Nedmyers]

Hello John, I'm English but have been lucky enough to have moved around and have lived in a few countries, which has always been enlightening. I'm now in my sixties and will be moving out of England as it is no longer the country I love. If you want things to be different in your life then you have to implement a change. I'll be leaving the UK in March for the next chapter of my life. If I were you I'd grasp the nettle and give it a try. If it doesn't work out, you can always try another country or even return to the UK. If you don't try you'll always be wondering what if.....

[@ApnaChoud]

UK's nearly skint and on life support and just been given away daily!

[@JohnTalksUK]

yup, skint is very much the right view of the country

[@michaelanwyll]

A wise sage once told me, if you have an itch then you need to scratch it. When I was 38, I scratched and moved to Asia and stayed there for 2 1/2 years. I came home because my Asian wife got pregnant and the Uk was the better place to educate my children. I have lived back here now for 18 years, but as my kids get to the age where they are becoming close to adulthood, I am now getting that itch again and it's time to start scratching again. There are pros and cons about living in say places like Asia (via runs, not able to buy property in your name, a level of uncertainty etc...) but the experience was so worth it and right now, I absolutely hate the direction this country is heading because all I can see is conflict on the horizon.

[@jayleigh7285]

I’ve been in your boat, worked to the near death in London for 20 years In sales, got to 40 and randomly moved to South Devon with mrs and kids, just quit everything, stayed in a hotel until we found a place, I now work part time for myself at home sat in my pants and go to the beach or nature walks whenever I like and it’s beautiful In the summer you should try it, as for Europe… it’s not too great either as you would find out….take a chance move to the south west first😊

[@thankyouthankyou1172]

i don't know why, but I cried watching your video. i wish everyone on this planet can have a better, happier life, ..................

[@luketarplin]

Probably because your empathy gland is set too high, if you turn it down a couple of notches, you’ll be able to empathize without crying at a strangers video about considering leaving the UK.

[@JohnTalksUK]

Thanks for watching and messaging - I'm ok, all will be ok

[@paulwbafc73]

Me, my wife, my daughter then aged 6, son 10. We moved to Redlands, bayside Brisbane after living in the Black Country Dudley. We sold up moved to Australia with about £10000. Enough to pay a rental bond, buy a banger run around, basic furniture. 16 years on. My daughter is a registered nurse. My son is an avionics engineer and has his second house. I moved here so my kids could have a better life. That goal I achieved. I didn't see a future for them in the Black Country. I left because you can't change the government in uk as they are all bad. In Australia it is better. I have solar and my powerbills are roughly £50 a month, $100. Petrol is 80p a litre $1.60 to $2. Car insurance, my son had a Toyota GT86 as his first car. Car insurance is cheap. For me £30 a fortnight. Earning is around double uk here. I pay the bills with my wage. My wife's income we put away then pay cash for everything. Furniture, holidays etc. Not had a credit card or loan for about 10 years. We have a mortgage. My son has his second home already and now getting a pool built. As for work here for me. I have moved around changed my workplace 4 times. I am not actively looking. People offer me jobs because they know me. So I have security. Also in Australia you don't get punished by tax for having more than one job. They combine the salaries and tax you as if one income. Also you can claim tax back for work related expenses regardless of work. You can push this 😂. Income tax is lower than uk. Also you can earn double time on Saturdays Sundays. Double time during the week after 3 hours overtime during the week. It's worth exploring opportunities elsewhere in the world. Also it is good for your mental health and well-being. The homesickness is not much when you improve your life. I do visit the uk every few years. I see the decline in a way you guys living there don't. With every visit it is like there is bits missing. The saddest thing I see thou is people who are still living the same lives since 2008 when we was last living there. I have literally travelled around the world since moving to Australia, visited many countries on holidays and mainly because I can afford to do that now. In UK it was hard and me and my wife was heavily in debt. We cleared that when we sold our home and just had enough to start a new life.

[@70agrr]

Things definitely feel like they have gotten a lot worse in the last 5 years or so, but I feel there was a real paradigm shift in 2007/8 with the financial crisis back then, which we have never really recovered from

[@alexnoble6134]

Go for it John! We’ve got 4 kids under 16 and we’re planning on buggering off too. The UK’s not necessarily finished, but we’re going through a really miserable slog just now (depending which side of the fence you’re on). Looking forward to seeing how things turn out for you bud 🙂

[@stellaoliver2860]

It's very difficult to make that sort of decision. But if you want to travel and go see what it's like in other countries, now might be the ideal time. Personally, I've never wanted to go aboard. Now, at 71, I'd miss my children and grandchildren too much. Thank you for your 'chats', I enjoy them immensely xx

[@mandyinabudhabi]

We're ex-pats, have been for 20 years, hubby longer. We have reached the age where we "should" have retired a few years ago, but each time we visit the UK, (hubby is from Glasgow too), we think about coming back for good. And each time it is NO, not yet. For all the reasons you mentioned, crime, roads, high tax, fuel cost, negative media etc. Living overseas is not for everyone, some cannot hack being away from family, but many thrive and love it.

[@JohnTalksUK]

hey Mandy - thanks for sharing - this is it - we have spent many years saying "not yet" to a few things - then a health scare comes and suddenly i start thinking about all those decisions we delayed and that gets my brain moving into over drive. Thanks for joining me on another video - best regards John

[@annemariewight6079]

Listen to yourself and do what's right for you and Yvonne. Good luck with whichever you choose ❤

[@JohnTalksUK]

thanks Anne Marie - I'm sure we will do what's best, we just need to make the step

[@kenroberts3654]

So John, I have no comments about life in the UK just now. I left twelve years ago and can only get second hand news. What I can say is when I moved to America to work and live, my plan was to not stay here but to experience something different. This was driven by my role being made redundant in the UK, so that is similar to where you are now. My move to America was made easy by having a job with an American Company as they sponsored my move. They did not pay for it however. Any relocation is expensive, especially one over seas. However once I started to work in America I saw the huge change in the amount of taxation I paid. It was not long before I decided I rather liked that change and decided I would get my Green Card. Work Visas, Citizenships are all hard to obtain, however they can be vital at changing your situation. I can honestly say that other than the fact I am a very long way from all my family and friends in the UK, I do not miss living there and I am never homesick. Sometimes that distance is very hard though, especially when someone is sick. Covid was odd for me as I started to work from home nearly 24 years ago. At the start working from home meant getting on an airplane very regularly and meeting people, so I never felt isolated. However during Covid and after that work travel changed. So I built little routines to help my home working routine. They helped and I started to enjoy that. One last comment about moving overseas, I had worked for an American Company for 12 years and I had visited 16 US States before I moved to America. I felt I knew what living there would be like, however I was completely wrong, everything felt different, why, well just because it is. I am more than happy to set up a video call with you to talk about this if you feel it would help?

[@AndrewCrawford-ew4ig]

John, my wife and I left UK for France in 2023. It's very different but a nice different. People are respectful to each other. It's that simple but fundamental. It's reciprocal though, so you will change. I don't miss the misery in UK.

[@JohnTalksUK]

hey Andrew - great, just what I like to hear - tried and tested and working out for you

[@luketarplin]

Me and my family left the UK in 2019, it was obvious back then that the UK had no future other than just a steady decline into poverty, balkanisation, obscurity and a third world dictatorship.

[@JohnTalksUK]

Good job Luke - you really were ahead on the curve - where did you land?

[@mike-xt7qi]

2019??? Wow you were late to the party. What took you so long to come to the realisation that Thatcherism put the UK into terminal decline???

[@Chris-uk.]

Still feels like we are in lockdown

[@JohnTalksUK]

hey Chris - really good point, it sure does - little has really changed

[@halfbakedproductions7887]

@@JohnTalksUK I really dislike working from home and always have. Being forced to do that during the pandemic was one thing, but being lectured by others on how amazing it was and I should do it forever? That was worse. Whilst I don't fully enjoy my job, my mental health and job satisfaction improved sharply once they started calling us back in for 2-3 days a week. My commute is reasonable and I'm fine doing it. Before the pandemic we were fully hybrid and very flexible. Then it was "you will work from home", then became "you will be in for 2-3 days a week". The latter had people running for the exits despite them doing the full week in the office before 2020, almost without issue. But that's up to them.

[@janwilliams4282]

Another honest heartfelt video. I enjoy watching them. I know it must feel scary. Your wife might feel it even more. But going back to where you were has an ending that you can probably see. You connect. You can build this channel up but even that will have a chain tied to you. The algorithm wants more videos. Does Scotland have a program where you can buy a house that has been abandoned and they will pay you to inhabit and fix it up? Not saying you would want to do that but it might be possible to have a home that you record the improvements to and have a channel that supports you. Whatever you do, you will have people wanting to keep up. The very best John.

[@davidbeasley6504]

What a great down to earth video.....Such a lovely thing to do for your father even though in the end it didn't work out!!!!!

[@JohnTalksUK]

thanks very much David

[@markdyballuk]

Dear John, i find in your videos and yourself a warm place. pride in my nationality? even speaking as a yorkshireman living in kent, no. i tend to take bill hicks's take on where you are born and from is luck, so why be proud of it? i have pride in being part of a world, I find nationalism increasingly sad. a way of creating division. i lost my dad, I lost a long term girlfriend (but long since split up with) through suicide, I lost a very good friend from cancer, I lost my mum. i gave up work and cared for my mum towards her end. supported by wife. My wife lost her job through redundancy when covid started which eventually meant we had to move out of London and, like many, ended up on the kent coast. sure we are lost and our lives have changed beyond recognition BUT, BUT, there is always a light however dim. the real political issue is that international companies have raped our cities, our countries and put nothing back. Our towns are decimated because everyone shops online to save a few quid, pays these multinational companies who dodge tax. Governments don't run the world these companies do and take a look who was behind trump at his inauguration and you might start to see some truth. in short, we are fucked. to be replaced by robots or perhaps worse still become robots. and yet and yet. the human race is capable of great, breathtaking beauty and as long as I see it I will continue to believe in the good. John, you are good. follow your dreams young man. the real trouble I've found, is just knowing what my dreams really are. my life changed when I lost my dad and I knew it would never be the same again and it isn't but I still search for the light. and it is there. love to you and yours.

[@JohnTalksUK]

thanks Mark - that's very nice to hear - I'm a big fan of Bill Hicks - he really was ahead of his time and his work stands today, when he talks politics, change the names but the game and the story are the same, nothing has changed over all these years has it?

[@Benwalkers_]

I photograph peoples homes for a living, I have done for about 8 years and love my job. Recently I am doing about one house per 1-2 weeks where the owners are planning to leave the u.k. Used to be once every maybe 3-4 months.

[@JohnTalksUK]

hey Ben - that sounds like you have a nice business going but also sad to hear your seeing exactly what I'm talking about with a closer lens - people that can leave, have or are making moves - thanks for joining me on the video - John

[@mickandtraceycope7826]

Go for it, otherwise you will always wonder what if. I enjoy how you articulate your thoughts. Makes interesting listening. Life really is too short. Don't replicate your fathers life of sitting in a cold house wondering if you should put the heating on. My father did he same, when he really didn't need to. Your perseption of life can trap you. Go explore 🌍

[@JohnTalksUK]

I appreciate that!

[@Billy_The_Beaver]

Unfortunately the inflation problem isn’t exclusive to the UK. The grass isn’t always greener, but I’d say move abroad. It’s a great experience

[@JohnTalksUK]

hey Billy - yes totally agree, I know that's hard to outrun by just leaving the UK - but I'm looking for a lower cost of living perhaps in the Far East - who knows, it's a minefield making the decision but let's see what comes this year

[@JKSpoff]

Separate yourself from reality, there is zero need to read or watch the news, as it does not affect you, or you simply can’t change it. Retire at the earliest opportunity, and enjoy freedom. Life’s too short.

[@TheHicksonDiaries]

I think it’s perspective. Only being here for a couple years, I’ve not witnessed the decline and it’s better than what I came from. But I know many British people who have been here their whole life aren’t convinced. Wherever your journey takes you, just focus on being true to what makes you happy! Best of luck to you!

[@JohnTalksUK]

that's fair, it is perspective for sure, many will feel it's worth staying - thanks for the message and watching my video - John

[@DonFury-pi3dy]

I saw the writing on the wall in the early 2000's and I left the UK in 2005 best decision I ever made.

[@JohnTalksUK]

you were really reading the situation ahead of time - where did you move to and how is life now?

[@DonFury-pi3dy]

@JohnTalksUK I went to south Australia, fantastic move, brilliant honestly.

[@joanhannah8062]

Hi, this is me watching your second video….really enjoying them…..I live in Scotland now. My late husband and I moved up here 18years go….i hope you are able to sort things out for you both x

[@JohnTalksUK]

Thanks Joan - I appreciate you following along

[@soggybawsmoto]

Similar boat, 51, Role in Engineering Sales/Marketing/Project Delivery, 30 Years industry experience, 18 Years service with former employer. Redundancy consultation started 01/11/24, Selected for redundancy 01/12/24, exited business 31/12/24. My Partner and our 21 Year old Daughter are enabling me (allowing me essentially) to head off on a Round The World motorcycle trip for 6 - 8 months. No onward employment set up, but my industry is always looking for people with my skill sets, so there will always be another job when I want one. Take your gap year, all the better that your Wife can go with you. You might never have the funds, good health and opportunity to do so again. I too will be documenting my journey, so feel free to watch along

[@JohnTalksUK]

Thanks for the message - sorry to hear about the job situation although the motorcycle tour sounds life affirming. Good on you and thanks for the inspiration John

[@christinemccarthy1765]

Interesting chat John. We are now retired so our chances of relocating are complicated by children and grandchildren here. However we do sometimes play the 'if not here then where?' game and everywhere seems to have the same problems as we are experiencing. I think the world is at an infection point and society globally is in transtion to a different path. As the chinese saying goes, 'may you live in interesting times' , and thats not a blessing! I think back to our ancestors who went through invasions, plague and civil war and wonder if they too found it hard to see a way through. I love this country and the bones of my forebears make up this soil so l won't be forced to leave by petty politicians and forgettable commentators. I shall be staying put and just saying no to those who try to crush us. Good luck with whatever you choose and l shall watch with interest.

[@DavidSmith-yi8ou]

Come to NZ bro. Great option for a gap year. Just avoid Central Wellington which is riddled with those who wish to categorise people by criteria that cannot be changed. Anywhere is still pretty good, especially regional NZ where your average salt of the earth Kiwi tends to reside. Life is good here. A little expensive, but still good and it’s easy to be happy. Especially if you like the outdoors and a temperate climate. 25 years from now you’d to anything to only be late 40s again. Go for it, whatever it is, while you still have the health to enjoy it. All the best.

[@JohnTalksUK]

Thank you

[@AMH-bl1ne]

The opportunity presents itself to go back. I see the desire in your demeanor. You know it will be exciting. Nobody knows the future, but if you don't take the opportunity, you will never know if it was a good, invigorating plan.

[@JohnTalksUK]

thanks for the message - regards John

[@CT-vu1jr]

I am sitting in my home office, making pictures of those planes spraying the sky with chemicals. And yes, this was the last drop for me: Brits don't do anything about something so obvious. You can see it with your own eyes! I don't know how long it has been going on, but I noticed it about a year ago. Before that I didn't know anything about chemtrails. For the record: we don't have any airport in my area, and these planes are not commercials. (Commercials fly much higher.) So by now I realised that the UK is really doomed. I live here for 20 years now. I bought a house, I built up a business. But all I am doing is paying my bills, and live month by month. And in return I don't get a normal food nor normal weather. I love rain, I love 4 seasons as well, snow etc. But this weather modification is out of hand and almost nobody seem to bother. So I am looking around in Spain, see what can I afford etc. Luckily I can carry on with my business from anywhere. Conclusion: England has a very negative effect on my general health, and "just surviving" I don't consider as a lifestyle.

[@Mary-tj5qx]

I left the UK a long time ago. I had adventure in my heart and it was just inevitable I’d leave. Go for it I say. Just have a packet of money set aside so that when you decide you want to return and buy a little place, you can do that without stress. Go live your adventure. We don’t regret the things we do, we regret the things we don’t do, mostly.

[@JohnTalksUK]

Thanks Mary - where did you go ?

[@Mary-tj5qx]

@ The US.

[@GazBobOutdoors]

Well my hometown feels completely foreign now, so England is finished from where I sit.

[@JohnTalksUK]

Sorry to hear that Gaz

[@MaterLacrymarum]

It's still England, you've simply got to grow with it or get left behind.

[@GazBobOutdoors]

@MaterLacrymarum yeah I know the score mate..

[@happycamper6214]

Be happy be grateful. As the old sayin goes- wherever you go there you are. No perfect place.

[@JohnTalksUK]

very good advice - thanks for the message

[@Anita-rq9ev]

I wish you good luck and I hope you'll find your path 🙏. I travelled a lot, but never had the courage to do more. I live here in Germany and it also changed a lot in the past 5 to 10 years. It's not what it used to be. Thank you for sharing your thoughts 👍

[@JohnTalksUK]

Which part of Germany are you in ? I was working in Munich over the last years and really enjoyed it - but it also felt like an outlier vs other parts of Germany. Thanks for watching and messaging

[@Anita-rq9ev]

@JohnTalksUK Munich is a nice place 😊. There are some nice places here. I love the UK, been there many times. Enjoyed Scotland twice, beautiful. I live and work in Frankfurt.

[@lrsco]

If you’re able to leave……… DO! There are no prospects here anymore, just more austerity! I’ve been eyeing up Portugal

[@JohnTalksUK]

thanks for the message - good luck to you on your adventure

[@markyt6594]

fantastic video mate. enjoyed it a lot. keep them coming.

[@JohnTalksUK]

Thanks, will do!

[@tonyruggiero1]

I lived in England till I was 40 then moved to New Zealand in 2004 I returned to England in 2014 and 2016 after a year I decided to return to NZ because I felt that England was going to become a very messed up country what a shame I was right it makes me very sad knowing I will never live there again even though I still miss England of the past and am so far away from family 😢😢😢

[@stum6070]

When I planned and I left UK 35 years ago Ihad the same thoughts of "am I making a rush decision or will it get better if I wait". Looking at the now, I made the correct decision. If you make the choice to emigrate, you will not have a regret that you have given it a go but when you get older, you may have the regret that you did not try it. I am sad to see my old town [Wigan] and the desperate state that it is now in, and covid shutdown was the final nail in the coffin. Scotland is a beautiful country, England and Wales are beautiful countries and people make the places what they are and it is unfortunate that the "locals" in most places are the ones suffering the most. No job is permanent and life passes by faster as we get older [some say also wiser]. I wish you luck with your choice and I admire you bluntness [Scots have a way with that :) ] Keep posting, keep positive, stay healthy. Thank you for posting

[@aktolman]

I moved to Spain, the taxes are still high, but at least its sunny! ;) You get used to the heat within around 6 weeks.

[@JohnTalksUK]

and the sun is all I need right now from this grey & wet of the UK - thanks for the message

[@storyshedblog4718]

Sorry to hear about your Dad. The video is great, and you have a good eye and sense of programme making. Lovely use of the rule of thirds which I always struggle with. I hope that you find your way and look forward to being a fellow traveller.

[@storyshedblog4718]

Silly question: what mic are you using?

[@storyshedblog4718]

John did your Dad ever use the phrase "Get a proper job?" My mum certainly did, and I am fascinated to see if this was really a wide spread thing. I am thinking it is. But she never said what a proper job is or was. This is the question that rises in my head the most. The thing that keeps me awake pondering. A big old rabbit hole that I am trying my best not to jump down too far.

[@JohnTalksUK]

thanks very much for joining me and the message

[@JohnTalksUK]

it's the DJI mic that came with the camera as a bundle - I'd be happy to cover the tech I use in a video if its helpful?

[@JohnTalksUK]

HA - I think my dad was just had I had "a job" and was able to look after myself from a young age.

[@PhenoMuzik]

Go for it mate it's honestly gotta be for the best can't be much worse than here at the moment il be keeping an eye on the channel see what you choose I'm having these same discussions with myself scotland is no better bud just colder time to make a change!

[@JohnTalksUK]

Keep me posted if you decide to make a move - thanks for watching

[@ChloeFuller-n8x]

I'm a young 25 year old, and what's been forced upon us is really heartbreaking, we never wanted this, i live in Bradford and its now the city of culture, question is who's culture? Not the "English culture" its for the other culture

[@JohnTalksUK]

Thanks Chloe for the message - yes I’d read about the award - very questionable given the reputation the place has.

[@Stardog_xyz]

Feel exactly the same way at 42. Feel like everything’s moving backwards including people and their attitudes. Just want out of it all at this point

[@JohnTalksUK]

thanks for sharing with me - best regards - John

[@sadsack8993]

Hi John, recent subscriber and really like these discussions and for someone that's just started out on KZbin your videos do have a very good polish on them already. With the question about is the UK finished we believe it's going that way and not far from it. Where we live its a small village with a small town not too far away, built for miners and it was a great area to live but not so much now, crime is through the roof, 3-4 cars stolen each night, kids being stabbed, beaten badly with hammers etc. We are looking at moving either up north or even looking at moving to a nordic country.

[@Eurobrasil550]

A place I am supprised more people don't consider is the South of Brazil, obviously a long way from the UK, but infrastructure and safety is good, good public health service paid by taxation, so 'free' when you use it. Climate not as extreme as further north in the tropics, cool winter days a few times a year, Language, food, and culture European. Perhaps people see documentaries and reports of the troubled area in places like Rio and São Paulo, many hundreds of miles away and think the whole country is as such? If you have a western income you live very comfortably in Southern Brazil, check out the coastal areas in Santa Catarina State, You do need to speak Portuguese though to live in Brazil. Not sure what the visa requirements are for British nationals, but it can be found on-line

[@JohnTalksUK]

I'd love to travel to Brazil, good suggestion - thanks for the message and watching my content

[@stuck-in-the-80s-e5h]

Brazil is amazing

[@Paulg51-73]

It certainly is for many. I haven't been back since 2013

[@JohnTalksUK]

Good on you Paul - where did you land?

[@BlackLines]

I've done quite well professionally since lockdown but despite earning more than I ever have, I feel like my lifestyle hasn't improved at all. Since this won't be "the norm" forever, I've lost a lot of hope for the future ... I should have thrived, but I've simply survived (some have not and are currently drowning and being told it's their fault for not working hard enough). There's something very wrong with the country, its spending and its priorities. I don't mind paying tax, but I do mind paying tax when it goes into someone elses pockets instead of what it's supposed to be spent on. Do what is good for you and your wife is my advice, noone else will look out for your wellbeing - certainly not the UK government.

[@Johnbgoode-s7c]

Very good points. But measuring your happiness against what you earn is probably wrong. I think it's a case of the higher you fly the further you fall. Scared of losing it all. Maybe set a goal of saying 3-4 years of earning top dollar, squirrel the money away and "down size". Gives you enormous satisfaction to be in a job where you are not in charge (when once you were) and watch others stressing it out! Take it easy.

[@halfbakedproductions7887]

I don't mind paying taxes if you get something in return. Right now it feels like we're just... not. Everything in this country is falling apart and the tax burden is highest it's been in decades.

[@FishingDiscoveries]

Great channel. Thoughts that spring to mind (not necessarily in order); the issue of Western governments’ debt/risk of bankruptcy as well as societal wealth inequality for individuals plus the politics of division etc. is really well explained on Gary Stevenson’s KZbin Channel “Gary’s economics”. In other words, the decline you note isn’t restricted to the UK. Also, with the skill of selling, how do you feel about creating some kind of information product, service or paid community (so you don’t have to rely on the pretty measly YT Ad revenue)? If you’ve solved some problem it means your skills and knowledge can be valuable to other people. Genuinely helping people with something you believe in makes selling that feel meaningful and could open up the “digital nomad” opportunities for you to thrive outside a western country and with potentially much lower outgoings. If you can ethically sell, there’s a good chance you’ll never go short - especially if you step outside the conventional company/career structure with a personal brand. It should also help you avoid building an audience of customers that you dislike - increasing the chances of feeling fulfilled through a life with meaning.

[@JohnTalksUK]

Great reply - thanks for this info, will check out Gary's channel and video. As for plans here on YT and my skills, yes that's exactly my thinking for down the line.

[@ChristineHillier67]

Hello John, You have really kicked the hornets nest with this subject! 😂 I know so many disgruntled people who think that the uk is going down hill at break neck speed, even my niece moved to Portugal 2 years ago and she has never looked back since. I was born and raised in Essex, and always thought that i would be fertilizer for the daisies here, but even i have been seduced into the thought of moving this year. As regards to the 2 main political parties, I heard a comment from another KZbinr that made me laugh He quoted "politicians are two cheeks of the same arse!" I think I agree with that sentiment to a tee 😂 Whatever decision you make in regards to moving back to Scotland, do it while you are still young and can enjoy your life. All the best to you and Yvonne Take care john 👍

[@JohnTalksUK]

Hey Christine - yes I knew this would be a tough topic that’s had a lot of coverage online in recent weeks. We all seem worn down by how the country feels and what we are all seeing with our eyes daily, yet with no end in sight. For me personally - it’s a perfect storm of grief, work and health also feeding into a need for change. As someone else said in a comment “the grass is greener” - but I’m open to the experience whatever that may be Thanks as always for watching - regards John

[@ChristineHillier67]

@JohnTalksUK Thank you for the reply John, I'm sorry I forgot to send my condolences on the passing of your dad, I lost my dad 44 years ago when I was 14, age doesn't make any difference to the grief you feel losing a man you looked up to and hope to make them proud of your achievements, which I'm sure your dad was (and mine too) Take care John

[@cloggsy1971]

Wholeheartedly agree. The UK is an absolute 💩🕳️ Is it too far gone? Goodness only knows. My wife and I very nearly left and went to Canada a decade or so ago now. We were 1 point off the required number for visas etc. The only thing we didn’t have was a GCSE in French. That would’ve been the difference. My wife currently works over in Dubai. She loves it over there & I enjoy the frequent visits. I did briefly get a job over there, but resigned after two months, so I am now back in the UK. Another place where a lot of Brits are now retiring to is Thailand. You get a lot more bang for your buck there and you could probably retire there now with your redundancy and the capital out of your house. (assuming you own it?) Plus, you seem a pretty resourceful guy, I’m sure you could find work over there too if you wished! I too am sick of the UK. The politicians are corrupt, the Police are ineffective at best. The Judiciary, Crown Prosecution Service, the Probation Service and the Prison Service are not fit for purpose. The influx of illegal migrants is turning the UK into a very dangerous place. I think my destiny may be out of the UK too! 🤔

[@ringsnthingsuk]

What's the worse that could happen if you both took a leap of faith and had an adventure?..Even just for a while. The UK is still going to be here if you decide to come back😊 Life is way too short for regrets and what ifs.

[@JohnTalksUK]

Exactly - we can only come back to the U.K if it doesn’t work out… it feels like it’s worth the punt

[@ringsnthingsuk]

My middle son was in sales like yourself and had done quite well..but he was scunnered with the routine. Sold his flat and went to Asia and travelled for a while. Has now been living in Thailand for 4yrs. He's now running his own business with his wife and absolutely loves his life. I haven't seen him in 3yrs..but we fly out in 3 weeks to meet my first grandchild😊

[@susanwood829]

Thank you for sharing thoughts and and agree with your sentiments whole-heartedly re our country. Sounds like a major change for you is a long-time coming and, after losing your dad, you may want to take stock and listen to your heart as a turning point and transition as the questioning is actually a 'wake-up call'.' Haven't seen your other videos but you have articulated so well the fears and uncertainty that many ordinary citizens here in the UK currently feel just from culture shock alone as though the rug's been pulled from under us. I sincerely hope that you follow your heart ...

[@JohnTalksUK]

thanks for the message Susan, not an easy topic to cover

[@createwithbarbbl4125]

Hi again John. What a can of worms it all is. I'm English, living in Australia. I could say we saw the writing on the wall when my husband our son and I left the UK in 1983, but that would be a lie. I did not think it would be forever and I had hopes that the wider family would join us once they heard what a great place this is, but sadly they did not. Like you. there reached a no return point. We now have two sons and even though I missed my sisters and brothers and mum and dad so much there just was never the right time to return to UK. I'm lucky to have visited regularly. I hear what you are saying about the divide between friends and family and that it is wise to keep your politics to yourself if you value a friendship or family member. A ridiculous circumstance, since we should be able to talk like adults about the things that are important to us. I'm not saying Australia is any better than the UK these days, I haven't been back home since 2018 when my darling dad passed away. House prices are through the roof here, as they are everywhere. My husband and I had a few stints working overseas, it was all an adventure, we do love living in Australia, but the pull of family is strong. If I was in my 40's I would treat it as an adventure perhaps try somewhere that you can boost your savings (that's what we did). You are young, no point being unhappy where you are every day. I wish you well. BTW, I am still proud to be British/English.

[@johnandrews8590]

I left the UK in 1998. Never looked back. On top of everything else, the weather is shite! Good luck to you mate, whatever you decide to do.

[@JohnTalksUK]

Thanks very much John - where did you land ?

[@johnandrews8590]

@@JohnTalksUK Japan. Highly recommend it.

[@victoriahouse9969]

If you have skills and can match them with a Job in OZ. You could try that. Or find a house in Scotland that needs work, so you can get to cheaper. Maybe at Auction. I've lived in many places in England and once in Edinburgh. Always moved for work. But now back to North East England being from here. Is there a place which made you happy? Research going back there. Nature. Walking. Fresh air. Maybe look into working at a Guest House or something else where you get to meet people. Search the map. Find a place where you would like to be. Photography. Tour guide. You have a chance to make a new life.

[@victoriahouse9969]

John - I've just looked on Rightmove there is loads of Guesthouses for sale in Scotland. If you fancy that challenge. Especially with having a family. In the past I've bought a magazine called "The Caterer" that has jobs in it. But this would suit you and wife but maybe not young kids. If you can get a hold of a copy to check out their adverts. Used to be available in WHSmiths.

[@halfbakedproductions7887]

North East England is badly underrated. It's a beautiful place, very affordable, good access to both Edinburgh and Newcastle, lovely windswept beaches and fresh air.

[@victoriahouse9969]

@halfbakedproductions7887 left it years ago due to lack of jobs in the 1990s. But back here now for being back closer to family and money reasons. Yes the NE still has some wonderful places. Everywhere I've lived over the last 30 years has it's good and bad areas. But it's finding the place where your happiest. If you can afford to live there. There is plenty of choices out there. It's just finding the right place to be for you and your family. Many people don't have the chance to move.

[@pumpjackpiddlewick]

Would you regret if you did nothing, eg don't really try something new? If yes, and you have the opportunity then try. Life is short, don't live with regrets if you have a choice. Good luck!

[@JohnTalksUK]

knowing my brain - yes, it will spin in my brain every night before I finally fall asleep lol

[@jeansmith3367]

I agree with you on everything you have said. I am beginning to despise my city and this country - crime rates, filth, our taxes being spent on ridiculous things, too many things being brought in without our consultation - it goes on. I'm like you - I wonder WHERE ON EARTH DOES ALL THE MONEY GO??? Road Tax, car tax - roads are crumbling. Poll Tax - cities are neglected and services poor, Income Tax - well......... The news is very depressing and to be honest, I think we are drip fed all this negativity, for what reason I do not know! I often dream of moving away but my husband won't entertain the idea, he says where would you go that's any better. And like me, you're an over-thinker! I think it's right that you're considering things and I hope you are able to do whatever you want.

[@dallassukerkin6878]

I can only really say that my thoughts are along precisely the same lines as your own, John. The big barrier is that most countries aren't operating an open door policy like we are here, so unless you can get set up with a job *before* relocating then it's almost impossible unless you have a massive bundle of fivers in your pocket.

[@JohnTalksUK]

This really is another of the hurdles I'm trying to work through - we are too young for a retirement visa for some places - the window being 50 and above - but i'm 47, if that meant 3 years to see through till having that longer option, I think we could make that work.

[@UrbanDadLife2024]

Im a Brit who's lived in the US for 24 years so im just an observer of whats going on there. You can see for yourself whats going on here..... 😉 The pandemic changed so much around the world.

[@JohnTalksUK]

It really did change so much - not just the lockdowns and the impact but the aftermath is so concerning to me. Let’s see what happens in the year and where we end up - thanks for watching

[@UrbanDadLife2024]

@JohnTalksUK I'm with you, I struggle with over processing what's going on in the world, and I'm not someone who does well keeping quiet about injustices' I see. It's scary times. Loving your content.

[@neil7245]

Well I'm in agreement with you and feel exactly the same way and lost my dad and uncle and aunt and several others in the last few years. My friends never call me either now. It's just extremely bleak in UK now. So expensive. So much stress. Very isolating place. Nothing is being done to change the road we're on. Yet my big problem would be selecting where's better and realistic. I simply can't figure it out. I think about relocation to somewhere better in UK and stumble again to knowing where that might be.

[@lewisstredwick7616]

Again keep it coming pal, very interesting indeed 👍

[@JohnTalksUK]

Thanks Lewis - appreciate the message

[@xizilionyizzexeliqer3897]

Well you do sound strong and full of energy and for the age you mentioned. Be a voice actor? You could be the next Cait Sith? ...

[@JohnTalksUK]

Thanks very much

[@philipkeys3638]

I live in the midlands and to be honest if I could convince my partner to leave the uk and my mom and dad weren’t around I would pack my bags and go. I think the uk has had it to be honest it’s definitely not the country it used to be. A friend I know left two years ago to live in New Zealand and he has never looked back. Go for it mate 👍

[@JohnTalksUK]

Thanks Philip - kind regards, John

[@mrspontiac9174]

The cost of living crisis is everywhere. The housing prices here in Australia are ridiculous and my kids are looking at perhaps never getting the chance to own their own home. Great place for a holiday though. And if you like speaking your mind, Australia's a good place to be. We'll tell you what we think, straight up. I really enjoy your videos. Always interesting.

[@JohnTalksUK]

Thanks for the message

[@kellyshaw7271]

I think you should both go for it. You have nothing to lose and life's too short. You don't want to look back on this point in thirty years and think, if only we had taken our chances. The UK is now congested. Lack of decent jobs, decent housing, medical care and high taxes. Here in Lincoln they get road tax, the roads are potholed. They get council tax yet turn the street lighting off at 11pm. You pay taxes through your wages yet the NHS gets worse each year and schools and hospital wards are overflowing. The country is broken beyond repair in my opinion. I'd go for it.

[@marinakaplais]

What a great video….so much you say rings true to me. This country is going to hell in a handcart. I used to be a proud card carrying Labour party member….i have resigned that in total disgust. I am politically homeless. My 89 year old mum is afraid to heat her home. Its dire. If you do leave please can i get in your suitcase!!

[@JohnTalksUK]

Thanks for the messaging and taking the time to listen - I was raised on a workclass ethic and my father supported labour, but that changed for him in later years and seeing him struggling with the heating last year was heart breaking. Look after your mum as best you can. Regards John

[@amandawood7015]

You might never get the opportunity again so i would say to definitely go and have an adventure.

[@JohnTalksUK]

Amanda - exactly this - it's the perfect storm at what feels like the right time

[@mychills123]

I’m feeling completely trapped, I would love some land and be away from everyone but as you get older you need people around you, I hate the uk weather it’s making my health worse, I’m just existing from month to month.

[@jo-anneknott4113]

Follow your heart/gut , life's too short

[@JohnTalksUK]

Thank you

[@AndrewCrawford-ew4ig]

Fyi don't listen to people saying it's the same everywhere. That's utter drivel.

[@JohnTalksUK]

thanks Andrew for the message - I'm willing to give it a go and see for myself

[@allthatjazz9000]

Umm it literally is the same everywhere. It's going to be global

[@anonymousone777]

@@allthatjazz9000is weather the same everywhere? Knife crime the same everywhere? Please use that noggin God gave you before spouting such nonsense.

[@crossland2007]

It's difficult or perhaps foolhardy to discern a way forward when there are so many options. That's what I have learnt over the past 40 years or so. The world is on the cusp of major change. New technology and processes are going to impact on many professions and what looks like a safe bet as a career option might not be. But you do have some skills that many do not, and ones that will always be in demand. You clearly communicate very well, which would indicate you also listen well. You have a high level of emotional intelligence - and some hard life lessons that have made you appreciate vulnerability, fear and gratitude. My counsel to you is to consolidate and deal with urgent issues in the short term, to prepare for something bigger in the medium to long term. So get well. feel well, and know that your health is sorted. Consider 3 to 6 month temporary work placements here or internationally - dealing with specific sales and marketing challenges, perhaps consider training or team development. Then wait for an opportunity to present itself, and then go for it, knowing you are well, solvent and focussed.

[@JohnTalksUK]

Solid advice - nothing will happen instantly - but we are working towards the goal and ready for anything that might pop up unplanned

[@Henryagincourt]

Scotland is a nice place,beautiful scenery........But the weather is crap 😂

[@ColinBlack-j5n]

Is that a technical term?

[@JohnTalksUK]

hahaha yes the weather is a great problem of Scotland - everyone is waiting for the one or two big summer days every day

[@JohnTalksUK]

hey Colin, technically nailing the Scottish weather

[@stuck-in-the-80s-e5h]

I need sun 😊

[@Chrisfrombroketovanlife]

Anthwr thought if you work remotely is the scheme to get familys on the Highlands and Islands where they oay yiu to renovate

[@SewHealthy8]

I reckon it takes a while to decompress after intense life events & what you have been observing in your country. 6 months will go by in a blink of an eye. You have mentioned England & Scotland, how is Wales looking?

[@JohnTalksUK]

Hi there - thanks for the message and suggesting Wales, but I think we'd like to just get out of the UK for a while, some regular sun would be welcomed. I also agree on the timescales to decompress, that's why I'm so conflicted as I don't want to do something in a rush when dealing with grief. Thanks for watching - regards - John

[@simongarlickhousetruckbuil1160]

we are in the same boat mate

[@JohnTalksUK]

hey Simon - we are not alone in our views and thinking - do you have any plans to consider an exit or something else?

[@simongarlickhousetruckbuil1160]

@@JohnTalksUK ill stick it out and vote hopefully enough of us will change this country for the better.

[@samsails9820]

The UK is and has been unfortuantely run by buisnessmen not country leaders. Parasitically feeding from extremely hardworking people who have up till recently really started questioning what happens to the contributions they have to make to keep the economy in order. As you mention the basics like good roads, fully functioning healthservice, transport, housing, energy is now almost seen as a nice to have. To summarise I would say that the issue is lack of equal distribution of wealth to enable further growth. Instead its plummed into the capitals and little further. Take a year out and see what else is on offer.

[@user-qq9wz9sl1z]

I agree with you John and pretty much have had those thoughts too, however having lived away from home I came to the conclusion if your not happy going away doesn't necessarily help, some countries have lots of red tape and may need to employ translators etc, also what I found is just not having anything in common with the people you meet just meant meaningless small talk which became really boring after a while 😂..... No craic at all, we decided to stay home at least our family and friends are here

[@TomBartram-b1c]

10:24 why do people always say "For Yvonne and I?" It actually required a German person to point to me out that the correct word is "For Yvonne and ME"..

[@JohnTalksUK]

I will fix it next time Tom

[@TomBartram-b1c]

@JohnTalksUK not Avin a go just wanna know why it happens. I used to do it myself.

[@tonycocchiara7445]

My condolences john on your fathers passing, seems like your heart is back in Scotland, I'd sale up here buy a nice place back in Scotland just outside a major city I hear Edinburgh is beautiful, get back in to work , if you have a mortgage make it your goal to pay it of , if your mortgage free now , then great , why then don't you go both part time, then both of you can enjoy your hobbies and enjoy life , try and meditation this will help with your nervous system, hopefully this helps with your chest pains , wish you both all the best , T from bristol, also state of country I think we've had terrible leadership, here and abroad , bit like Southgate for England, 😂❤

[@JohnTalksUK]

thanks for the message Tony

[@mariamabey6039]

No way would I want to go back to commuting not worth it for my sanity. WFH is the best for all the family if it can be done and done well and ur happy with that. Redundancy makes u question everything. Good luck on ur journey no matter where u go. 😊

[@JohnTalksUK]

ohhhhhhhh the commute would kill me now - I don't think I could ever go back to 4-5 days in the City, EVER... is that age, change of times, all of it?

[@happykitchenfitter]

Perfect country dont exist.All the best from Polish joiner in England.Stay strong❤i have small channel 55 subs.Have a great day😊

[@JohnTalksUK]

thanks for watching - good luck with the channel

[@paulhank7967]

If youre foreign, you have a future. If you're British, you face an expensive future paying for them.

[@JohnTalksUK]

The British are left behind by the government

[@DrRogB]

Hi John I watched your birthday video too but I think I will post here. We have a lot in common. Same birthday, same attitude to work, similar economic migration, worse health, I have long covid and have had to give up work. We are in the process of our third major move for work, this time to support my wife's career. Its incredibly hard but I think history has proven it worthwhile. Friendships and family relationships need management wherever you are. Yes the country is in decline, I believe due to the deliberate neglect of those in charge but it's worse in a lot of places and we could still turn it around. You have a great gift for communicating, ideal for KZbin, keep it up and lets see where it leads you. Thanks for your output so far.

[@AlienX202]

I was on skilled worker visa and now on IRL, and I think that, I as a migrant care about the country more than local does. There are 2 groups of people who are destroying the country right now: the government who only care about votes and lazy local who only care about how much benefit they have, and it is a deadly combination to bring the country down

[@JohnTalksUK]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts with me - kind regards, John

[@kevinomalley1521]

Hate it here in London now, Spain move in the works the last 4-5 years. Just a case of timing. Have Irish passports and can work anywhere.

[@JohnTalksUK]

hey Kevin - I avoid London at all costs now, stop going to concerts there which was a regular of the wife and I. Good luck with Spain, certainly a good option to consider - keep me posted on how it goes