Life is Incredibly Unfair - In Our Favor

Jennie Taylor is a mother of seven who suffered a devastating loss when her husband, Brent Russell Taylor, was killed overseas during a military deployment.
Colliding into a mountain range of heartache and despair, Jennie shares the most searing parts of her journey to reclaim life, hope, and her family, and how hearing God’s voice distinctly reached her through the shattered pieces.
Also read or watch Elder Dale G. Renlund’s talk “Infuriating Unfariness”
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Brent Taylor funeral footage provided by The Standard Examiner.
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[@MovieMari]

"Not that everything happens for a reason, but that God can make reason out of everything that happens" -- that is a message I definitely needed to hear today.

[@churchofjesuschrist]

We are so glad that this video and message could help you!

[@Herahottie]

That line stood out to me as well. Very powerful

[@travismarin2595]

I think what you are talking about is at 9:16.

[@dallinclark607]

I struggle with the concept of God leaving such a monumental thing up to chance. Personally, I don't believe that an all powerful God would leave something like that up to chance. Thats all the more reason to trust in God, regardless of what He sees fit to have us go through.

[@rtharalson]

@@1Andelina1 Look at that. Bad things happen - humankind comes up with a phrase "everything happens for a reason." Then we realize how shotty it that really is and that as you said it paints god cruel - at least uncaring. So we update the phrase to he can make a reason out of everything that happens. When are we going to stop inventing god and re-inventing god and re-re-inventing god. Can't let god be a bad dude so we invent re invent and rationalize. Case and point look at all the work being done this year 2022 in the old testament come follow me to not let god be a monster. From cherry picking to rationalizing - the apologetics are laughable. Nothing convinces me more of atheism more than sitting through fast N testimony meeting and sunday school.

[@user-rz8et4ry3u]

As an Australian Veteran who is LDS, I really needed to hear this today. I randomly came across this video today.

[@Trancegirl1966]

Hello from Perth! I'm not a veteran but married to a former soldier in the South African Army. I hope that you're doing okay. What a great video on courage, strength and the will to move forward without our eternal companion... Regards from Perth, Western Australia 💜

[@nancyteran5581]

God bless you and thank you for ur service sir ☀️

[@sthiel126]

Not gunna lie, I cried during this video. But, I find myself afterwards being unable to be sad. Today I met a Queen.

[@absolutetuber]

As one that used to wear the same uniform and rank I can tell you I often think of your husband ever since I first read about this story in the news. I lost many friends while I was in the service, some to battle and some to the battle within after coming home. I know your family remembers him daily, but even those of us that never knew him will ever forget his service and sacrifice.

[@absolutetuber]

@@xXVitalsXx I knew very well what I was getting into. Some of the best friendships I’ve forged in life were made with those I served with. Proud to have worn the uniform of my country and I’ll do it again if called on.

[@steelpeart]

I too served for seven years in the Army and currently reside in No. Ogden and during that time. We all came out to pay our respects and it brought the community together just before Veteran's Day that year. I had two civilian friends still working as contractors out there at that time. And I also lost a long-time Army friend in Afghanistan several years prior to Brent Taylor.

[@darlenepedersen4145]

As President Russell M Nelson encourages us to invite the Lord to prevail in our lives, Christ is certainly close to your sorrowing trusting heart. You carry this huge mortal loss with complete trust in eternal life. You are so spiritually trusting and beautiful.

[@cameronchild7102]

I pray God bless and keep you.

[@andriafranklin4458]

Beautiful

[@Nat-A-lie_goober]

“Life is incredibly unfair, in our favor” is absolutely beautiful! I am overwhelmed with gratitude and thankful for the Taylor’s examples of Christlike attributes.

[@CpbUT-]

I just lost my wife of 33 years about 6 weeks ago. I was so touched by your video and cried all the way through it. There is nothing that can prepare you for the emotional devastation of losing your companion. Only faith in the savior and knowing that I'll be with her again keeps me going. Your struggles and how you have overcome them are an inspiration to me to keep moving forward. I am grateful for your example of strength and your testimony. Thank you for your courage to share this with us all. I hope it is helping so many others with their struggles as it has helped me.

[@churchofjesuschrist]

Hi @Cpb UT-1850, we're so sorry for your loss. We know comfort and healing can come through prayer and by relying on Jesus Christ at this difficult time. He loves you and can mend your heart and give you peace. www.churchofjesuschrist.org/comeuntochrist/believe/life-has-purpose/grief?cid=42001274

[@sherriemota7348]

@@churchofjesuschrist the link doesn't work :(

[@churchofjesuschrist]

Thank you for bringing this to our attention, @sherriemota7348. We have updated the link above to this: www.churchofjesuschrist.org/comeuntochrist/believe/life-has-purpose/grief?cid=42001274

[@andriafranklin4458]

My deepest sympathies. This was a beautiful and necessary video

[@coreymcleod2899]

"Eventhough we want everything to happen for a reason, it's probably a better mindset to let God help make reason of everything that happens." - thank you for that🙂

[@madmanmanx]

This is the strongest, most resilient, well adjusted woman on the internet…

[@raihakingi6954]

Amen to that!

[@s.a.johnson9558]

That is one of the most heartbreaking and beautiful testimonies I have ever heard. I wish I had just a fraction of your strength and faith. I am in a very low point in my life's journey right now and your story was very enlightening and encouraging. Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us. God bless you and your family.

[@SB-kp2gz]

S. A. Johnson - it’s when we’re at a low point or rock bottom that we hit our knees in prayer to Heavenly Father. He hears us. 🙏🏽 God bless.

[@s.a.johnson9558]

@@SB-kp2gz Thank you.

[@SB-kp2gz]

@@s.a.johnson9558 sure thing 🙂 I think most if not all of us can say we’ve hit a low point or rock bottom in life. Sometimes it hits more often than we would like. He hears us individually. Because He is God and all knowing and powerful. 🙏🏽 It is my prayer that you will find peace through those things that you’re struggling with.

[@churchofjesuschrist]

@S. A. Johnson, we're sorry for the challenges and hardship you face. Life can be very difficult, but we know your Heavenly Father is aware of you and loves you. You can pray to him anytime, anywhere and feel peace and comfort. Jesus knows you and your circumstances. We invite you to join us and come to know Him: www.comeuntochrist.org/contact-us?cid=42001274

[@AlexAdam-sp5ri]

a.s.johnson9558 As a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, let me say I understand and appreciate what you may be going through. Life in these times is hard, but you're not alone.The Lord is extending His hand to you, and we too invite you to Come Unto Christ. ❤

[@DarknessLiesWithin]

Today is the anniversary of my dad's death. He was only 61. He will never see me married, have kids, or a million other things. I miss him every day. But so much of what was said in this video really resonated with me. Grief is such a life changing experience...Like she said, I'll never say I am happy my dad died. But I can see the growth and blessings I have received since.

[@leswalker2639]

Rebel I can promise you with no doubt in my mind, your dad did get to see you Mary and have kids even your joy and happiness. Never believe he is not far away from you. Dying is the easy part when you live a good life in the Lord. It's the living that have to struggle so hard now to make the best of what we have. Your dad is fine and happy. Your dad would never want his kids to feel bad anymore. Your dad wants your heart to heal and see you smile again. All you need to do is give your dad a big smile and tell him you love him and miss him, in the name of Jesus Christ! Your dad will see and hear and feel your heart when you speak these things . Do this in your heart and one day you will be healed. We all will die one day, but what matters most is, you giving a piece of your loving heart to others. Remember some of your heart is part of your dad's heart also combined as one. You will find in your life of Trials and tribulations they are only obstacles just like on the freeway driving. Being grateful for these trials will no longer be a trial. They will be only Everyday activities we all have to deal with in life, The Good the Bad the Ugly days. Thank you for sharing those great words of concern. Every one of us see death a little differently. I have lost both parents and Mini others in my life. Through prayers Miracles will happen! Please be case patient

[@perfectday777]

@@leswalker2639 What you said here is true, ❤❤❤

[@perfectday777]

❤❤❤

[@scottcox503]

Don't say that; he will see you married and have kids, if not in this life then in the one to come.

[@lorirogers9570]

Some never even had a dad in our lives Be joyous

[@kristinanoall]

Nothing like a good cry 😭 I can’t tell you what an incredible and inspiring person you are, Jennie. Everything I’ve seen you do, you do with energy, conviction, compassion, and faith. I feel so privileged to get to learn from your example. ❤

[@Sharkdog11b]

I’m a member and an army infantry paratrooper. I feel you and I love you and I’m truly sorry for your loss. Thank you for your service ma’am. Most soldiers can only hope for a wife like you. Stay strong sister

[@DJK-cq2uy]

I appreciate your love n service...but what would Jesus say about war? Just curious?

[@thedialectic6346]

@@DJK-cq2uy I'm answering as if you as sincere. I am a veteran and when I was in basic training a lot of young soldiers had this very question. I sat and counseled with a few of them. And as a result one was even baptized. "The Lord has said that in the last days there will be “wars and rumors of wars, and the whole earth shall be in commotion, and men’s hearts shall fail them” (Doctrine and Covenants 45:26). As members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, we are a people of peace. We follow the Savior, who is the Prince of Peace. We look forward to His millennial reign, when wars will end and peace will be restored to the earth (see Isaiah 2:4). However, we recognize that in this world, government leaders sometimes send military troops to war to defend their nations and ideals. Latter-day Saints in the military do not need to feel torn between their country and their God. In the Church, “we believe in being subject to kings, presidents, rulers, and magistrates, in obeying, honoring, and sustaining the law” (Articles of Faith 1:12). Military service shows dedication to this principle. If Latter-day Saints are called upon to go into battle, they can look to the example of Captain Moroni, the great military leader in the Book of Mormon. Although he was a mighty warrior, he “did not delight in bloodshed” (Alma 48:11). He was “firm in the faith of Christ,” and his only reason for fighting was to “defend his people, his rights, and his country, and his religion” (Alma 48:13). If Latter-day Saints must go to war, they should go in a spirit of truth and righteousness, with a desire to do good. They should go with love in their hearts for all God’s children, including those on the opposing side. Then, if they are required to shed another’s blood, their action will not be counted as a sin." www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/gospel-topics/war?lang=eng

[@terraalbritton6405]

That was so kind. Thank you!

[@whatisthat4481]

@@DJK-cq2uy War makes him cry. Where there is creation, there is war.

[@ZachToTheFuture117]

This reminds me of a thought that has been coming to me of late. Sometimes the tender mercies of God are tender as they are a gentle mercy; other times they are tender, more like a fresh wound. Both are necessary to experience a fullness of joy and a perfection of faith.

[@churchofjesuschrist]

Thanks for sharing, Zach!

[@korab.23]

I am so glad you shared that. I have felt those tender wounds lately and I recognize they are a mercy as they have removed me from a greater pain that would come later. This was a perspective I needed to hear. 💛

[@shivaprabu]

Jesus Christ our saviour from India🇮🇳. may Lord Almighty God bless to a lot.

[@leswalker2639]

Hey India how's everything on your side of the world. It's good to hear from other countries. Love you all around the world.

[@jodystimm2098]

Prabin-----. What a cool NAME. May JESUS Bless you too. The sweetest woman I, had ever met was from PAKISTAN. I, hope someday she comes to know JESUS--- because I, told her#Someday you will be in Paradise# YOU, will be too🙏🙏

[@latter-daysaintpud1432]

I had a cousin join the army after he left school. He went through his training and came back at Christmas. He was tragically killed in a car accident when the driver hit a tree head on and he was forced from the back seat through the windscreen. It was an irony. He was just 17. I am most grateful for the plan of salvation that makes everything right in the end. We will understand all things one day and weeping will turn to rejoicing.

[@blank557]

"God make reason out of everything that happens". Thank you for this illuminating thought. I always disliked the cliche, that "Everything happens for a reason" which I think puts too much blame on God, or a predestined fate, that negates our free will.

[@dallinclark607]

I struggle with the concept of God leaving such a monumental thing up to chance. Personally, I don't believe that an all powerful God would leave something like that up to chance. Thats all the more reason to trust in God, regardless of what He sees fit to have us go through.

[@ZarisWhiteFoot]

Perhaps it is more accurate to say that God has a plan for everything that happens.

[@Skinhorse61]

"Everything happens for a reason" is bumper sticker talk and not at all comforting. Let us think, feel, and reach deeper than that when faced with difficult circumstances.

[@judydavis7993]

So sorry for your loss. But what a beautiful spirit and strong lady you are for your children. You're a hero as well as your husband. Having sent my son-in-law off for two tours in Iraq I know what a sacrifice that is for families . Thanking your husband for his service and sacrifice 🙏. My mom lost her brother in WW2. All my best to you and your children in your future. You are inspiring. 🥰

[@yznalnoing1]

After my good husband of 39 years passed away suddenly, one of my sons gave me an analogy. He said he felt that my husband’s death was at first like looking at a handful of dirt or sand and all one could see was the dirt or sand, but in sifting through that, one could see gold nuggets. He said he felt that my husband and I were going to grow in ways we wouldn’t have if he’d lived, and that once we were together again, it would be even better than if he’d lived out his life and we’d continued on together. Although I miss him every day and still cry after his being gone 11 years, I have been SO blessed. The Lord has taken such good care of me and my children, and opened doors for me. I am so grateful for my Savior and His sacrifice, so that we can be together again. Then our joy will be so full and so wonderful!

[@nikan7704]

Thank you for sharing that analogy. That is beautiful. So true.

[@sallyewilkinson]

Thank you for sharing your opinion but I am not feeling this way at all I lost my husband a year and a half ago and I am still very much in the raw and thivk of things and even though it has only has only been a short time compared to you I will NEVER feel even after 11 years that I

[@howgreatshallbemyjoy--hast2831]

Finally! Someone who goes against the notion that life is “not fair.” My own father died at age 47, leaving my 47-year-old mother a widow with 10 children at home ages one to 20 and me in the mission field. Nine of those children went on to serve missions. All have been married in the temple. My mother is now 91 and in her 33rd year of a second marriage. And she’s happy! God bless Sister Taylor for her insight and her courage to tell this story. I’m sure Brent could not be more proud! ❤️🙏

[@louboyish]

Having faith in Christ means that we trust Him and submit to the will of our Heavenly Father. Having our prayers answered is being blessed by God's love for us, not by getting our requests fullfilled. May God continue to bless you with deep understanding and deeper faith in Him.

[@YibuYibu]

I like 3 parts of this message the most: 1. Advice to tell children:Transcript minutes 7:04 to 7:56 2. How folks dismiss the unfairness that exists: Transcript minutes 7:58 to 8:35 3. The "AND" that Jesus provides for us: Transcript minutes 12:22 to end

[@nettynette8697]

I had never thought of the "or" vs. the "and" mindset. Her explanation of those two different ways of thinking was inspiring. ♥️

[@pamelafitzpatrick2717]

I am amazed at this Sister’s fortitude!! God bless her for her hope and faith in the Saviour! Those 7 children growing up without their father! I have nothing but admiration for her! 🙏💐

[@sorinrobinson9237]

"This will be good for you" mmmh those pure messages from God always hit the hardest. Pure truth.

[@landonsimpson1598]

“I don’t think it had to happen so I could learn those lessons, I think God’s let us learn those lessons because what happened.”

[@rsrguy]

I remember the morning I first heard about this it hit hard and cut me deeply. He was doing the lords work as an example and a member missionary in the most hostile places on earth... to me Brent is a modern day book of mormon hero who served lived and died in the lands of the lamanites. Having been there I relate and I morn with you... may the lord continue to bless and keep you.

[@sherriemota7348]

That's beautiful

[@nelliaagard258]

I'm a Veteran as my husband. He's a Disabled Vietnam vet. I cried the day when i heard your husband passed. But your message has helped me so much fir we lost a son and i have struggled since. Your message hit my heart. Thank you... Gods Blessing to you & your family...

[@wesparkle]

This video could not have come at a better time of year for all those trying their best to get through the holiday season, with whatever kind of loss they are enduring, this message is so uplifting. Sister Taylor, The Lord is already working his miracles through you, just by you sharing your testimony, and insight on life after the death of a loved one. I will admit that one of my greatest fears is that I might someday be called upon to live a life without my husband. Your strength and fortitude will be my example if that should happen, but also in just living with the unfairness of everyday life. Thank you 🙏🏻

[@churchofjesuschrist]

Thank you for your comment, @wesparkle. We are glad to hear that listening to her story could be an uplifting experience for you.

[@lauriehendrix8515]

Thank you for putting this video together! My husband, Michael, passed in June 2022. The first thing I said to my son was "Dad needed to pass to help us grow". We were stagnant in our lives, in the process of moving to another state. We had trained and prepared for new jobs while packing. Now, we have been given the opportunity to get into to the process of buying the same house he knew was our new house., We are starting new jobs, and methodically paced ourselves. And like you, the Lord is beside me! He lives and Michael lives on watching our family daily. We have been given so many opportunities for growth and service since his passing. The first being that early morning before his blood clots stopped his heart right at our side. Our Rescue First Responder training was not going to change the situation, but it put it in perspective. Reality is difficult, but also kind. The 20 year battle was won by Michael and our Lord was right beside him at the finish line of his life. Now he has a wonderful work to do guiding us. There have been happy times with sad, friendships that have grown and loneliness, but in the end, as you, the kindness of the Lord shines through with someone else serving us, giving of their own love, time, and talents. I have seen many afraid to speak to us, unsure of our reactions, but the majority of them are lovingly giving of themselves. And that is why we are here. To grow. Thank you for your strength and strong family military service. I am so blessed to have people in my life that strengthen me and my son as we continue our journey.. to the new house, and new jobs and new opportunities for service. Trust in the Lord, Be of good cheer . Faith proceeds the miracles. Life is wonderful!

[@churchofjesuschrist]

Thank you for sharing your experiences with us.

[@AlmaKim-im2gv]

Thank you really.

[@MegaSnow121]

Thank you. I needed both the video and your comment this afternoon. God bless you for your faith.

[@jeremybabcock4287]

From one who has stood in harm's way to you, thank you for sharing your husband with us. I didn't know him, but I have had the honor to serve with many like him. They are not forgotten by us.

[@geoffreybaker3736]

Heart warming. Jennie has such spiritual maturity. She has come to know what this Telestial world offers and also demands of us. She may feel alone but she is not lonely. She has the knowledge that Brent is "alive" in Christ. Her marriage binds them both together in time and eternity. It is the season of separation that is so difficult to adjust to. God bless her and the children. With a faithful mother in Israel her children will yet rise up and called her blessed. What an example!!

[@angelatabak5397]

I recently lost my second child (both of my boys are now gone). I've struggled with the 'or' or the 'and' idea. Thank you for helping me understand clearly the concept of the 'and', that it is ok (and probably normal and healthy) to feel emotions and be in places that seem contradictory to each other. Thank you for being willing to share your experience on such an intimate level. Part of the 'reason' brought to everything that happens comes through the honest and vulnerable sharing of our experiences and realizing the commonalities of our shared human experiences.

[@raihakingi6954]

I’m sorry to read this sis, I hope you’ve got love & support around you, Much love to you🙏🌷

[@glennoflaria9721]

There is that faith to remove mountains, but there is also that faith to climb mountains. So I'm grateful for this beautiful video. It gives me hope and brightens my path.

[@jennajulianne6178]

I really like that, thank you!

[@Ieyena]

As a military spouse my heart goes out to you. Thank you for your honesty and example.

[@hulaannieinspirationalhula1037]

I am a military spouse with seven children and have lost my husband another way through his addictions and a marriage of 38 years has been destroyed. It’s been a devastating loss. I can relate somewhat to your story in that I lost my husband but another way. It’s been a painful chapter in my life that I am closing now. I am moving forward with much personal growth and starting a new life. Through it all, I’m grateful for keeping Gods commandments, staying on the covenant path and falling back on my testimony. Thank you for your great example of faith and courage which continues to give us all strength to battle the storms in life with optimism and hope. There is peace in Christ!

[@robertferrin4408]

I"am myself a vet and have lost family & friends in Iraq (2003) and foot hood (2009) and lost more to suicide and hearing her story brings me to tears and joy for knowing that Jennie Taylor refuses to quit and keeps fighting those dark days and times.

[@LiveHappy76]

May God bless you, Robert. Thank you for your service. Everything I hold dear and enjoy I owe to two things: God above and good and brave men and women below. Just sent a prayer your way :)

[@kellherman]

I used to say, “life is unfair…and thank goodness!” But it’s been awhile since I’ve thought of that. I love this ❤

[@joannb6254]

It is an honor to see someone who understand that God, does not make any mistakes. It might be difficult to understand but he has a purpose in all things glory to God and may He Grant you and your family continued growth and strength

[@nathanbanks2935]

Please please be respectful to this wonderful woman, and to her amazing family. Unkind words don't help people. Compassion and Christlike understanding are key here. God bless you all!

[@photonic]

Nothing that I know hurts more than the unexpected death of a loved one. The pain is very real and valid. Yet, you begin to carry on when you start to see it as an involuntary change of plans. Blessings come as you provide comfort to those around you, who are also hurting. Healing comes as you remember and accept the Lord's help. Gratitude comes as you recognize the daily flood of blessings. And mercy is truly understood when your strength is completely gone, invisible hands support you, and divine peace fills your heart.

[@eileenhaugen8862]

I have a story very similar to that of this video. Your words spoke to me as well ❤

[@paulalarsen7697]

Wow. Everyone reacts differently to tragedy, but what they do with it is what defines them. I'd like to do the best I can with what I've been given, like this wonderful sister.

[@jessicamorrell7932]

I remember when this happened and this mother has been in my thoughts often over the years - always with a prayer in my heart that she is doing okay. Thank you so much for sharing your testimony with me. It means so much to me. I hope that I can one day be a fraction of the woman and mother that you are.

[@stevenhyatt3609]

What an incredible eternal family. My heart and prayers go out to you. Stay strong we are all just walking each other home.

[@BravyM9]

Thank you for sharing your story. My husband unexpectedly died at the end of 2019 and hearing of your experience helped me tonight. I have very good days and sometimes very hard days. Today was a hard day-I prayed and then found THIS video. l feel l was led to it. I loved your philosophy regarding Heavenly Father’s role in our earthly lives and feel exactly the same way. We’re not marionettes, we’re people who agreed to come to a random world where random things happen, both good and bad. But whatever does happen He is there for us. I’ve become stronger than l ever thought l could with His help.

[@churchofjesuschrist]

Thank you for sharing your experience, Corinne.

[@shanecarter5271]

The best explanation and testimony of the Plan of Salvation and the Atonement. Christ's life was perfect yet he was treated the most unfair so he could die for us. Your husband was killed unfairly but he died and gave his life for us and others. There are not many who can say they gave their life serving and gave their life in death while serving.

[@sallydougherty2027]

Wow thanks for sharing, when my husband died 😒 I felt the same way but I knew God needed him 🙏 I've been blessed

[@robertreichlein463]

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart aches. I am thankful for his service. I was a combat engineer 10th mountain division and serviced 4 tours in Iraq. God is in charge. May God bless you and your family

[@williamk9881]

Brent was a good friend from elementary through high school. He is missed, but his family’s story is inspiring. We miss you, old friend. ♥️

[@jadenataylor]

I really needed this today. Had an unfair inner conflict due to nepotism, but after seeing this video my trails don't seem at all that difficult.

[@churchofjesuschrist]

Thanks for sharing, Jaden. We are glad this video could help you.

[@shaunhicken]

Thank you for the beautiful reminder that life is unfair in our favor. Thank you for sparking more faith in me. So many things happen that we don’t want- but God knows exactly what He is doing and exactly what we need to go through to better understand the Atonement and grace of Jesus Christ.

[@oppositepete8342]

As the bravery of those who give their lives in service to others should never be forgotten, neither should the bravery of those left behind. To those who Brother Taylor left behind, God bless you all. Especially you, Sister Taylor. You are a remarkable woman, indeed.

[@mattreid4246]

What a liberating and expansive realization: that I can be heartbroken and happy at the same time! Thank you so much for living with and sharing such a great perspective!

[@Cobra-ky9bt]

Brent was a good man from a good family. I'm so glad he had the Gospel and his family has remained so faithfuth.

[@rosebud71wilcox61]

I was very touched by your story. You are a strong daughter of God who has been left behind to continue the work of your amazing husband. May God bless you and your family ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

[@halildogan3353]

I am so sad to watch and listen to your story but I am so grateful for your faith and testimony in Jesus Christ.

[@punasautoalesatiatia4381]

I cried so much watching this video. My heart goes out to you and your babies. As an ex-military wife with my 2 daughter's daddy doing 2 tours in Iraq, I certainly understand the anxiety when he left during Desert Shield and again during Desert Storm. It was gut wrenching. I love your strength. I love your spirit. I love you Sister Taylor. Love and light to you and your children.

[@mlatchison57]

Thank you Sister Taylor for your sacrifice and for this very uplifting message. Faith is a great and marvelous miracle in itself. Thank you for reminding me of this.

[@graces5977]

I read an article about this family a few months ago and was so uplifted by it, I'm grateful there's now a video to go along with it. Thank you so much Jenny for sharing your inspiring story and putting your thoughts and feelings together in such a clear and concise way. My dad passed away unexpectedly a few years ago and I'm one of seven children, so I feel like I can relate to this video in a lot of personal ways. I appreciate the way you could capture the sentiments you have and share them with others while looking to Christ for strength. My condolences to you and your family.❤

[@churchofjesuschrist]

Thank you for sharing your comment, @graces5977.

[@stephtimms1776]

💔❤‍🩹💖Thank you for sharing your heartbreaking experience and beautiful testimony! And Thank you for your family's sacrifices for freedom 🇺🇸 🇺🇸 🇺🇸

[@mikeandsandy9957]

Thank you so much, Sister Taylor, for sharing your peace and wisdom. Your message had incredible impact and I'm so grateful for you faith and your story. And thank you to your incredible husband and all he did to serve and love others and this country ❤️

[@roberthall6609]

Need this, remember its ok to not be ok. Doesn't mean we don't have a testimony. Your whole family is amazing!

[@margenebeckstead7593]

Thanks so much for this video I saw today as I have news that my brother is on a ventilator after 2 heart attacks when he was scheduled to have his leg amputated from the knee down because of a heel infection. I live the sentiment of using "and" which seems to free us to just accept the emotions, sometimes conflicting, and feel both ways. Thanks for your testimony and your honesty you share so freely. I am a therapist and I know we must go through steps of grief and healing and I appreciate that you can show us that just because we know the Plan of Salvation it still is so hard and q we can ask "how can we get through this, instead of why." Life is unfair and that acceptance can help us move forward.

[@LiveHappy76]

Just sent a prayer for your brother, you, and your families and loved ones.

[@TRoth858]

This video hit home for me in many ways. First because I was raised a military brat, and married 2 military men. Thank you for your husband's service to our country. As well as the service you & your children gave by supporting him in his choice to join the military. My husband was retired after 24 yrs active duty. He lived 12 more yrs, and was taken home by way of an accident. I still miss him so, but am grateful that even on the day the coroner knocked on my door, my first thoughts were God knows more than I do. He has a plan, and I know He knows what He's doing. He knows that I don't like that He took my husband, but I trust Him. There have been many blessings that have come to not on my life, but to my son's life, and to many family and friend's lives. One of my biggest blessings was being sealed to my husband. When I married him after raising my son from my first husband, for which none of us were members, I had no intentions of being sealed to my second husband. I loved him dearly, but always looked at it as a civil marriage. I believe with everything in me that my husband died for me so that I would wake up and see that we were meant to be together for eternity. I prayed long and hard for the yr we had to wait, but I got strong confirmation that he was right. We did and do belong together. Had I died first, we wouldn't be sealed now. I'm sorry that you are having to go through the trials and struggles, but thank you for sharing your story, and words of wisdom. God bless you and your children always. 🙏🙏🙏

[@notfatnotskinny]

What a beautiful story. Thank you ❤

[@lindavigil4908]

My oldest son Kevin passed away last November 27-21. Almost one year now. When I saw your husbands face close up, I just started bawling. I had this overwhelming feeling of love and loss for him. I love you sister and your beautiful kids. Peace in Christ❤️

[@churchofjesuschrist]

Hi Linda, we're so sorry for your loss. We know comfort and healing can come through prayer and by relying on Jesus Christ at this difficult time. He loves you and can mend your heart and give you peace. www.comeuntochrist.org/beliefs/purpose-of-life/4-ways-to-cope-with-the-loss-of-a-loved-one?lang=eng?cid=42001274

[@brianwalker4297]

I went through the same thing at the same age with the same number of children and the exact same beliefs, understanding and attitude. We don't always get to choose what happens to us and those we love. That's mortality. But what we never lose is the power to choose how we will respond. Knowing that that makes all the difference. God bless you Sister Taylor.

[@jimbobjones1124]

What a tragic, heartbreaking story AND a beautiful testimony. Thank you for sharing your story, faith, struggles, and determination. Nobody has been betrayed more than Jesus. Nobody has suffered more than Jesus. He knows our struggles because He suffered.

[@K5RTO]

I've been on both sides of the bad news. There was no chaplain available that day so I had to break the news to the young Soldier's mother on my own. My job was to help her and the family navigate the DoD bureaucracy - to win the support she deserved, emphasis on deserved. There's no contract, no set time for interaction, there's just being there to help as long as they need. It doesn't take long to become part of the family, in a strange way. I helped her just as much as she helped me understand the grieving process. I would need that understanding later, at the loss of several soldiers and friends of mine. I am not a member but I continue to be impressed by the message of the content coming from your church. The depth you all explore in your content is edifying.

[@churchofjesuschrist]

We're glad you're here and we appreciate your comment!

[@angelaferdon5956]

I am so sorry that you lost your husband. It must have been awful. I loved to hear your honest feelings. God bless you and your children

[@reafus53]

I feel great satisfaction, belonging to the same "Human Family" as people like Brent Taylor and Jennie Taylor! Thanks, SISTER Jennie, for your example of optimism in the face of tragedy. Your kids are lucky to have such an awesome mom!

[@patriciahelms8036]

Lost 2 husband's through the years under stand your loss! Heavenly Father bless you and your family 👪

[@montanasbigsky]

What an amazing video! Thank you Jennie and family for your faith filled story. I spent 8 years in the U.S. Army infantry, then went on a mission to the Phillippines, Married my before mission sweetheart who served the Lord while I did in the New York, New York spanish mission. We have 6 kids, 3 boys and 3 girls. Our last 3 are all at BYUI right now and our 3rd missionary is preparing now to put his paperwork in. I'm not sure how either of us would have or could have done it without the other. Your story and your faith is a testimony I needed to hear. Your husband/Dad, looks like he was an amazing leader and I would have loved to have served under him. Thank you for all you have done to get to this point of being able to tell your story. I will start this New Year now, (2023) with a little more gratitude, a little more thought in how I treat others, and a little more thought in what their needs might be verses my own. Your sharing this makes me wonder more now, just how many people are around me that may be going through troubles that I am completely unaware of. I need to be more Christlike and this video has helped me with that.

[@Flinabin]

What an incredible testimony, thank you so much, Sister!!This soldier lost his life the exact same day, my Mom lost hers, I miss her so much, especially today, on Mothers's day😢.

[@bettyjoharrison2934]

That was beautiful and sad..at the same time❤️

[@ibelieveingod5524]

We thank God for Brent's life and thank Brent and you for being beautiful vessels and inspiration to the world. May God continue to bless you and family.

[@LiveHappy76]

Love your screen name/handle :)

[@MedievalMary]

What an honor to hear such a message! What an example of will and grace! Thank you!

[@jeffreyb.2817]

As a widower with kids myself, I know the feelings.he shares. I admit, I wish I could see those special moments of help when they come, but I have to admit it's hard

[@Nimbus-ex8md]

God bless her and her beloved husband. This was very touching. I’m sure her husband is beyond the veil watching over them and doing what he does best, serving.

[@euniegordon8753]

What an incredible story of inspiration--showing such wisdom and strength despite your own devastating loss. You are truly remarkable--truly.

[@teeflow34]

I remember when this tragedy happened and reading it thinking..gosh I don’t think I knew any other LDS Soldier in my 23years…so reading it touched me so much. And now seeing this…knowing we went through all the same uniform changes…and hearing again your testimony, brought tears to my eyes and hope to my heart. The waves of grief are so intense and then when we can hold onto that which gives us hope, lightens the burden. Your family will continue to be in my prayers

[@bplumbj]

Amazing story and amazing testimony and outlook. We lost our 16 yr old son 4 months ago and I can definitely relate to all of those feelings and emotions. Thank you for sharing.

[@churchofjesuschrist]

@bplumbj, we're so sorry to hear of the passing of your son. While we mourn for those loved ones we’ve lost, there is hope-death is not the end. We believe that because of our Savior, Jesus Christ and His resurrection, we will all live again someday and be reunited with those we love. This can bring us comfort and peace. You can learn more about God's plan for us here: www.comeuntochrist.org/beliefs/purpose-of-life?cid=42001274 Take care!

[@mm-nt8el]

You are a great mom. Its ok to have bad days and bad moments, the simple fac that you keep going and keep trying each day is incredible. Your children are so blessed to have you!

[@DvdRa]

Blessings can come disguised as tragedies… only a positive attitude and Christ’s mercy can allow us to see that… there’s always a reason, and only God knows - thank you for the important reminder, and for your amazing example 💛

[@edransable]

Jennie Taylor, you are such an inspiration. We just don't know what challenge(s) we will be given to us in this life. Will we allow them and the Lord to grow and become what God wants us to become or will we be caught in Satan's grip and blame God for problems. Major Taylor was also an incredible example. All of us should be so dedicated to serving, to care enough make the world a better place.

[@debfryer2437]

What a wonderful message and what a brave woman. I have come to the same conclusion. That we can be in the pit of despair and yet within that blackest hour sweet love and joy can come. God bless you and your children. Your husband was a wonderful example of devotion and heroism, courage and strength and I’m sure he is proud of all you have become. ♥️

[@erostucko]

A very strong woman with a positive mindset. "Even though we want everything to happen for a reason, it's probably a better mindset to let God help make reason out of everything that happens." Amen! To be honest, several thoughts came to mind during the video questioning the family's choices (the necessity to go to war, obligation to family VS obligation to country, the validity of the Afghanistan war, etc.). However, I think a huge part of the lesson here is that, regardless of our choices (which will be different because everyone is different), we all have access to the healing/enabling power of the atonement. The Savior's love is unconditional and is available regardless of nationality, political beliefs, and circumstances. Powerful video.

[@hangwithmj2412]

Proof that God will turn even the most horrific and sorrowful moments into pure joy if we have faith♡♡

[@imagebboy]

I've been through the hardest time in my life. After being raised by an alcoholic father and a neglective mother, my first wife having an affair, a botched surgery that left me half crippled... I am having a worst time NOW than ever before. I am in an explainable soul-crushing trial. I feel so alone. Yet, I have a good job. I have good doctors. I have good friends and family that are here for me. Most of all, I have a loving and trusting wife. The truth is, I am not alone, and God has blessed me by keeping me safe in everything else while I deal with this new overwhelming trial. I am lucky and blessed beyond belief. Even now.

[@soundfxboy]

John 9:3 - I think of this scripture when I read your testimony. I think the same applies to you. Whether or not your trials had to happen so that God’s works should be made manifest, but that has been the result. Your words mean that much more because of what you've been through. God bless. I'll say a prayer for you.

[@Ben9263Thurber]

Sister, know that you are prayed for. Your strength and your testimony will grow, even through this really tough trial. I'm unable to serve, but I do know what it's like to have your loved one, your spouse, suddenly and unexpectedly taken from you, and that you decided to keep striking forward, leaning on The Lord says so much about your faith and your strength. You're an inspiration.

[@bobbq8380]

God bless ALL our heroic troops Lds and non Lds alike. All equally sacred to me as all our military should to those that really appreciate where our freedoms really come from thank God almighty. 🕊 ❤️🤍💙 🇺🇸 🌎 ... Ma'am, patriotic heroes like your husband is why I proudly joined the church and keep trying again despite how much it hurts. Support ALL our troops 🙏 🙌

[@LiveHappy76]

Opinions on his presidency aside, I will never forget the State of the Union address George W. Bush gave where he asked/invited us to thank veterans and those in uniform when we see them. A high percentage of the time since then I have thanked veterans and those serving. Favorite words I use are "Freedom and everything I hold dear I owe to two things-God above and brave men and women below. Thank you!"

[@lindamoses3697]

Thank you. You can do this! I know because I had to raise 5 children alone with little or no child support with broken health. Many nights I spent long hours on my knees pouring my heart out to Heavenly Father. After the children have all been raised I can say He is the only reason that I was able to do it. By the grace of God it was done hour by hour day by day

[@jasondonahoeservices]

Thank you, Jennie Taylor, for sharing this message of hope and The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints for producing this very well done video

[@judyeldridge5786]

I remember reading about this. I am so sorry for you and your children's loss. You are right. No one has ever suffered like the Savior. I am sure that the Savior is with us always ♥️. May the Lord bless you and your family.

[@Fred-mp1vf]

We lost our father when I was 11. I never felt cheated or angry because I knew that the gospel is true, and that I was extremely fortunate to have had those 11 years with him. Also, to have a mother like you, whose righteousness and selfless life is an inspiation to thousands! She was a teacher and friend to all.

[@RichChamberland]

What an amazing and wonderful testimony of our Savior! Thank you for your insights and your profound understanding of the plan of happiness.

[@candyhr4152]

Thanks to those who gave everything. No I really mean thanks. We live the benefits every day. Every sunrise we are here with our families. Thank you for letting us be here.

[@DBrentWalton]

What amazing faith. Sister Taylor's testimony is humbling. There's a lesson where we can all learn. ❤

[@shadjohnsen]

I love to listen to her perspective. What a great reminder that Jesus Christ had the most unfair life. Yet, he was still obedient and committed to his mission. Thank you.

[@jennifercalljc]

Thank you so much for this video. Jennie you are amazing. I have never experienced the loss of a spouse, but a loss of hopes and dreams. Thank you for reminding me of the "ands".

[@mikelieber5878]

Things can happen because we are mortals. I embrace this statement as a testament of our free agency. Thank You for having the courage to share your feelings. One day You will find out just how many people have been touched by Your spirit and motivated to become better in so many ways. I include myself amoung them. Thank You !

[@AJRich-pw1zm]

Incredible strength, mettle, and might. Thank you Taylor Family.