Speaking of friendships,I feel like you are talking to me directly 😅 I keep to myself alot,I don’t like drama,I want more friends but I also don’t like meeting new people 🤦🏽♀️it’s a hustle
@kelechimgbemena Жыл бұрын
hahahh!!!...story of my life!!...lol
@SAMUELBELA Жыл бұрын
Story of my life
@Annyalluringplace Жыл бұрын
Story of my life.
@funmijohnson263 Жыл бұрын
Since y’all have the same thing in common, you can just link up and become friends 😂
@funmijohnson263 Жыл бұрын
Since y’all have the same thing in common, you can just link up and become friends 😂
@zigisandi Жыл бұрын
I’ve realized being on the internet God can give multiple people the same ideas. It’s about who does it first at this point. I like how you focus on your work and taking care of your family
@veemaugan04 Жыл бұрын
You are the biggest reason why I started my own KZbin channel thank you and it’s been so so hard especially subscribers but I have 130 subscribers now and I will patiently wait to grow You are such an inspiration thank you for your videos 🥰
@SimplelivingwithChi70 Жыл бұрын
Just subscribed
@marywealth62 Жыл бұрын
Just subscribed to your channel You're doing well
@lettilexie Жыл бұрын
Started mine yesterday hoping for the best load to 20 sub😅
@emmanuelsonopoku Жыл бұрын
I am in my late 20s and too much procrastination and negative habits mmm but from to I need change
@Jenniferawurum Жыл бұрын
I’m an ambivert, I don’t have a lot of female friends. I’m still struggling to make female friendships. I want to have more female friendships they’re literally the best community of people to have around.
@AbbysBandwidth-ABW Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I've built a group of sisters we've been friends for almost 5yrs and we treat our friendships like romantic relationships, we care for each other emotionally, resolve issues with communication and I'm glad we r growing together and pushing other to be better every day😊
@midnightmakingdifferencr8553 Жыл бұрын
I’ve not mastered being my tru self infront of the camera most people say I’m interesting but when I put camera infront of me I get afraid to unleash that bubbly me that keeps people around me 😂❤😢
@nuellafaith Жыл бұрын
I was literally having this conversation with my mum today, I'm in my late twenties but there are so many things I wish I did just like what you said...Mum said it's not too late so, I'll push further with God's help. Thanks for sharing your experience, I can definitely relate.
@tolanimary Жыл бұрын
I love having conversations like this. I have 2 female friends but we aren't as deep as i'd want us to be and i recently met a new friend and I'm looking forward to growing my friendship with her, aside those 3 female friends, i only have my mom and my sisters. I have quite a number of male friends and i will keep toping the list because there's just something about having male friends that's so comforting as well. I'm also looking forward to expanding my scope of knowledge as i try to be as open minded as possible and i know this would really help my KZbin channel I don't want to miss out in anything important in my 20's and I'm glad i still have a number of years before 30 to do a lot more things. I would definitely try hiking very soon, probably before the year runs out. You're doing great as a mother and a creator
@Faithafahaene Жыл бұрын
This video came exactly when needed! I’m currently 22 and every point you said here 🥹 I’m currently in a tough spot in my life right now, if I want to type everything this comment will be really long. As we enter the second quarter of the year I pray God helps me and that I really step out of my comfort zone too and try out new things, I pray he blesses my channel bc currently that’s the only thing I’m holding onto. You’re also really inspiring, I’m currently in search of a job and by Gods grace I will be getting one as a hotel receptionist, seeing you do it I know I will do it and thrive with my KZbin on the other hand too.
@chisomchukwuma3906 Жыл бұрын
@Hey Faith, I want you to know that everything will work for you. God is with you. Your channel is blessed. You are blessed. You will get that Job. Amen.
@Faithafahaene Жыл бұрын
@@chisomchukwuma3906 Amen 🙏 thank you Chisom
@ogomsseries Жыл бұрын
Female friendship is beautiful but ehhhh its hard to keep up. Valuable knowledge is key👌👌👌
@Ejimchukwu_eo Жыл бұрын
I just kept smiling 😊,cos am in my early twenties and am learning a lot from this video ❤️, I'm praying to God for the needed grace to implement and do the needful in other not to regret in the years to come.
@Jenniferawurum Жыл бұрын
12:28 I’m such a procrastinator 😭 I’m really trying to change that now. It’s not easy.
@midnightmakingdifferencr8553 Жыл бұрын
I procrastinate a lot have lots of talent ability but lot keeps me feeling I’ve not learned enough to take my Chanel to the next level ❤ I’m learning soon to level up
@SindyAkpolo Жыл бұрын
Speaking of the friendship i felt it like you were talking to me, indeed exploring more when you don’t have much responsibility can’t be unmatched, and learning new knowledge is everything......I love videos like this, the beauty of youtube is you can always gain new knowledge when you surf for it. Thanks for this video Kelechi ❤❤
@patienceenayi9253 Жыл бұрын
I highly agree with you on constantly learning in life and thank you so much for all you teach us here on KZbin most of us started KZbin because of how easy you make it looks although getting subscribers are hard and sometimes it is really discouraging
@tolanimary Жыл бұрын
I agree with you. She makes KZbin seem easy but getting subscribers isn't easy at all
@nonyerichy Жыл бұрын
Right. Girl dramas. But meaningful friendships are a blessing
@estheridume5241 Жыл бұрын
I also hate female drama but I admire people that have girlfriends
@Luchisam Жыл бұрын
I can relate with the no female friends and keeping to myself part.... I have a handful of friends but all males... I don't sync well with female dramas😄😄... I'm a female myself
@hawahpearl12528 ай бұрын
Exactly😂. I'm more into male friends, I barely make female friends definitely because of dramas.
@ObiamakaOfojeh Жыл бұрын
Your videos are always so insightful *picks up a notepad, to take notes*📝 😌
@kelechimgbemena Жыл бұрын
awwww~!!... thank you soo much!! hope you learn something!
@ObiamakaOfojeh Жыл бұрын
I definitely did!
@adeolashogbaike803 Жыл бұрын
Omg 😱 your work rate >>>>> You are really inspiring. Well done Kelechi❤
@sandrasunday387 Жыл бұрын
I just love your calm disposition.
@zinhle_dladla Жыл бұрын
I’m 29 and next year 30😫😫😫 I have learnt a lot with regrets too. I wish I did alot but I guess this journey is part of learning too. Friendships ahhh I suck at having friends 😭😭😭😭 I wish I had more friends but sadly it ain’t working. Job job ahhhh 😫😫😫😫 the only I have stayed longer Wes for two years and a few months 🫣🫣
@princess_amarah Жыл бұрын
Listening to you is always relieving and relaxing . Love you ❤❤
@NobleDee70 Жыл бұрын
Just listening to you speak on friends and I can hear a lot of “avoidance is better than a bad outcome” and that’s not so ideal. When you’re younger and open to it, you will meet a lot of different people outside of what you could’ve been used to in high school and it’s not always good to avoid the so called “bad influences” that you’re used to. In your early 20s don’t forget that these people are young too and probably finding themselves but I think the foundation to making friends/acquaintances is knowing yourself esp your dealbreakers and go out with an open mind. Your friend is not you and you are not them and the differences make you unique. And people are always going to judge you based on what they see and it’s not always true, avoiding someone because of what people might think of you is not ideal. Remember the kind of people Jesus was drawn to. Don’t only go out there with a “what can I get” mentality but also “what can I offer”. Be open to meet different personalities but also you don’t have to stay with people that burn you out socially. That was what worked for me and I think it could work for others too. Meeting people, you never know who might be useful one day even if it’s not as friends. Always be friendly but stand your ground as who you are or plan to be.
@tolanimary Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this ❤
@TosTosTV1 Жыл бұрын
I also do not have a lot of friends generally, whilst I am not actively searching, I still hope to make meaningful friendships 🥰 However, I wish I did form meaningful friendships
@NatashaEze Жыл бұрын
I can relate but it's never too late😊
@chinweaniche-hall3895 Жыл бұрын
Everything you said certainly makes sense lady. Personally I don't feel that I feel like there's anything as time wasted. You can plan your life as much as you want and life certainly will happen. I have been in my 20s, gone to university and all, thought I would find the right man and marry right out of college but that's not what God wanted for me. Then I traveled got to see different states, escaped an abusive relationship. I got married at 34 and had a baby at 35. But unfortunately he passed away around the pandemic. I gained a 5yr old son but no husband. All I can say is that God knows best. I am now a single mom planning Everything myself with my son. As for female friends I don't have them either ever since I left university. Most people I went to school with are now married with children or working several jobs trying to pay bills in a very expensive city. I work and try my best to do child friendly things with my son. Luckily I do have family that I can see when I do get lonely. As for going back to school, my current company pays for school and I intend on taking advantage of that in the next few years to earn an advanced degree. It's never too late to achieve any goals set in life so long as you're focused on achieving that goal.
@dream704 Жыл бұрын
Pelvic floor! I’m loving these vlogs because we are in similar seasons of life so it’s definitely relatable. I’m curious to know how things are going with keeping with your friendships in the midst of caring for a newborn and being a wife. I know it’s a lot to balance.
@Chisomm Жыл бұрын
I'm an introvert, too. Im in my mid-20s, and tbh I'm okay with it. I have about 2 really close friends, though, and they're females. My siblings are my closest friends and my husband, my bestest friend.
@ajohonly3721 Жыл бұрын
Looking great sis,nice video 👏🏿. I have so many things I wish I did in my 20s but! that’s life. Thank goodness I did a lot of traveling.
@patriciaakowuah2834 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this love sometimes we think so small of ourselves by the time you realise you're waited time you don't have.I join the youtube channel 10years ago I thought I was not good enough or too big to be in front of the whole world so I will look for people who look like me and size like me to watch not knowing I could be inspiration for myself and someone else long story short I started posting on my youtube channel wish I have been inspiring orders like me.
@hopeemjiee Жыл бұрын
On procrastination; I’m on this table
@KelechiIbeleche Жыл бұрын
Nice one👌🏾 I should do a video on things I’m glad I did in my twenties. Grateful that I had the chance to do most of the things you mentioned in my twenties by God’s special grace. About making female friends, it’s the craziest thing out there. I had my reservation about it and boy was I right?! Navigating female friendships is a hassle and one might want to brace oneself for drama!
@ObiamakaOfojeh Жыл бұрын
You’re such an inspiration ma’am because this consistency 💯 ❤
@kelechimgbemena Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 🤗
@Elizabethofthenaturalhaired Жыл бұрын
This video is wholesome! Thanks for sharing ❤
@n-silverose6244 Жыл бұрын
I want plenty friends but how to go out and met them or make friends is a hassles 😅 i really don't want drama nice video i enjoyed watching
@kosarachiofoegbu9982 Жыл бұрын
Great video ma’am definitely will put your advice to practice. Please can you do a KZbin video telling us more about your childhood, school precisely live during and after University. Thank you ma
@ogechiaikohi Жыл бұрын
Great advice. Thank you!
@estheridume5241 Жыл бұрын
Really insightful video and I total agree to all your points. Well done Kelechi
@justmelly16754 ай бұрын
How’d you learn to do makeup ? Did you take classes to learn?
@emmanuelsonopoku Жыл бұрын
Thanks for your advice❤
@emmanuelsonopoku Жыл бұрын
Am from Ghana and you inspire me lot 😂
@jumokebabatope Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing
@chitichalamuka3580 Жыл бұрын
I have a business idea but no money to fund it turning 25 😭😭tbh I hate my twenties because of money 💀
@TomiwaOO Жыл бұрын
Hi kelechi, great video Pls what app do you use for your thumbnail??
@Maureen_Hyacinth Жыл бұрын
Canva, she has a video on that
@H.R.H_BRENDA Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video ❤but where is your earring from, I've seen it in two of ur videos now
@bbhairyfros1996 Жыл бұрын
You're an inspiration 🥰✨
@chiamakachibuzor9074 Жыл бұрын
I love your contents ♥️
@melodygininda1839 Жыл бұрын
New subbie and I love it here❤
@marthafrans Жыл бұрын
Loved this
@Louisihuefo Жыл бұрын
07:05📌📌
@iruoma21 Жыл бұрын
Lmao on the female friendships 😂😂😂
@kelechimgbemena Жыл бұрын
If I get you there!!. Lmaoo🤣🤣🤣
@obindeborah1305 Жыл бұрын
Girl drama Ahh😂😂😂😂😂
@Odewaletaye Жыл бұрын
Hi kelechi. Thanks for the tips. Please can you give me one of your old cameras😩. I really wish to own one and maybe one of your old microphones too. Please 🥺. I have a KZbin channel I'm trying to grow and I wish to make quality contents too. Please 😩
@Esther_nwachukw Жыл бұрын
To think that I’ve been talking about leaving my parents house🤔-Oma
@kodisignature Жыл бұрын
I clicked so fast❤
@SimplelivingwithChi70 Жыл бұрын
Omo getting subscribers is a really hard thing,so painful when you keep posting but hardly get subscribers, my views are okay and I've uploaded overall 130 videos but still struggling below 450 subscribers since last year😢😅
@funmijohnson263 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@maonagadaga Жыл бұрын
❤
@daviddevlogger Жыл бұрын
Sorry for late comment My wife slapped me because i went to the bathroom to see if our maid is using our soap😁
@mawumenyofreda3370 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@princess_amarah Жыл бұрын
Listening to you is always relieving and relaxing . Love you ❤❤