How to make the BEST of your 20's | simple life advice I wish I had sooner

[@OrdinaryLadyToo]

I think failure was my worst fear for a long time to a point that I wouldn't finish something to avoid difficult parts I could potentially fail at. Thank you for the advice!

[@mara-vn1wn]

same this fear is why i'm currently failing my degree🥲

[@daelia7615]

this!!!! i wish i knew how to stop fr 😭

[@kellinlanena]

You’re not the only one 😢

[@alejandracastano7328]

Me too

[@koo8567]

Omg i totally relate to that , and the issue is i still fear failure and idk how to not

[@annamariaemma11]

A couple of days ago I saw a TikTok comment saying something like „whenever I‘m stressed out that I don‘t have my life figured out I remember that I am the first woman in my family who doesn‘t have her entire life decided for her“ and I love that. Literally thinking about the generations of women before me and how they never got to decide what they want out of life, here I am free to choose. So I‘m starting to see it as a blessing whenever I‘m stressing about not knowing what I want to do in life instead :)

[@RandomlyMoi26]

“the faster you fail the faster you get to learn” wow this definitely changed my views about taking risks

[@altheawoock2411]

"Failure is not your enemy, failure actually is your friend"

[@anonamos225]

"Money is energy" Let me add to this. In primary school they taught us the difference between wants and needs. I subconsciously thought this way for a long time financially. In secondary school I studied accounting. In a business sense they taught us about assets and liabilities but this is a drastically superior mental shift from wants and needs in your personal life as well. Because of reasons that are not important for this explanation, I was hyperfocused on needs. If all you're doing is meeting your basic needs you will never grow. You need to invest in yourself and acquire fixed assets that will allow you to grow. Instead of asking yourself whether or not you need something you should be asking what door does this open for me.

[@shanzayaneel777]

wow i love how this advice is very unique. Its a really great way to change my perspective about my purchases

[@evolvingover50]

It never too late to start something new or reinventing yourself. Trust me I’m 55! It’s important to keep evolving and not worry about what other people think. You are way beyond your years. Love this!! ❤

[@Kriziaofficial]

So true! You’re an inspiration!

[@yongyicheng-t3g]

Thank you❤❤

[@CrystalArt10]

Coming from a muslim background, i would say that what you said is taught to us from our religion. Especially the money, the money should flow, thats one of our core belief, i relate a lot to this, ty so much!

[@jungyunooh1752]

im 22 and ive been watching these types of videos and really taking time to watch it even on tiktok. i really love your take on stop helping people who doesn’t want to be helped specifically when it comes to family. ive been trying to fix things and feeling like im carrying the weight of the world and this advice really changed the way i see things now.

[@Miraldine]

This is beautiful. Thank you. This is the best line that hit me hard: "Stop trying to help people who don't wanna be helped." It reminds me to stop trying so hard to try to help others, let them be. Let them realize things on their own. And focus on myself.

[@hbb893]

I am 20, and I blamed myself for making mistakes, I needed to hear this. thank you ❤

[@Oceanwaves-d8l]

Just want to add: There are also other benefits with failure. For example, you learn to be more humble and understanding, and even become a better problem-solver and more adaptable. Productivity channels seem to focus on planning --- and while planning _is_ good, being adaptable to new information is just as important. And nothing teaches that better than failure.

[@ImNotYourTypicalGamer]

You are the only person who has brought up that money is energy. It is so true. Money is energy. Very valuable information.

[@TiffanyLand]

Being the savior of your family is so true … you can’t help ppl who don’t want to be helped

[@slayyy_naya9302]

I love these videos on lessons that people learned in their 20's, I am 17 and im excited to get into that adult ERA, and these videos are so helpful

[@amritasharma2908]

omg third point is so slept on...its so necessary to be in your solitude alone without friends sometimes so that you can embrace your own individual perceptions ...you're so underrated i wish you more success and i believe you will acheive that

[@karlenitin2857]

This video is truly inspiring! I don’t usually share recommendations, but I have to tell you about the book women’s magic truths on borlest. It offers unique perspectives on wealth and self-care that you won’t find elsewhere. Wishing everyone all the best

[@Nmesomaolivia]

At some parts it felt like you were talking to me ❤ “Don’t try to fit in “ “Pleasing others when it doesn’t satisfy you “.

[@シナモン-d3y]

Thank you for making this video. I was struggling with my family issues. In my family,my Dad is the kid, my Mom treat me like a Father. Since I was born, I have listened to all the problems between my Dad and Mom. I am 23 this year, I always want to fix this wrong relationship in my family. But I understand now, I shouldn’t teach them, because they don’t even want to change.

[@tropicalgirl8166]

I'm 19 and i think the thing that is ruining me is toxic uni environment and some ppl i thought they would be a really really friends for me. I just came out with trust issues, no confidence, no personality progress , just trying to save and protect ma self from everyone and i forgot to set ma inner self and personality free, i hated my self i lost my interests , even i started to cry every night because i felt sooooo lost and stranger , Even i found out these ppl are not accepting me as me they want to shape me and personality the way they want. Like if i say i wanna focus on my studies they say like omg u still childish running behind grades and graduation 😢 i wanna get rid of them really really badly.

[@-0marty0-]

I'm 23. This is the video I've been needing to watch for a long time 🥺

[@How_Do_You_Really_Feel]

Thank you Krizia, I think I needed to hear this. Especially, being multifaceted. I have always felt out of place because I am just so passionate about so many different field and being good at different things, that I started to question what it is that I really wanted. I felt like was just doing so many things and never actually moving. But now I can say that it has made me into someone I thought I was never able to be. It has open my eyes to new possibilities and most of all I found that my perspective of life is more open to change, being adaptable and accepting of moving forward regardless of how any situation turns out.

[@madamz7]

Thank you so much for this video. I’m approaching my mid 20’s, so a few of these I’ve had to “learn the hard way” but even being reminded and coming from someone other than myself was so helpful. I relate to you on so much, as an eldest daughter I feel the need to be there for everyone, fix everyone, and have no boundaries and constantly feel bad. I really needed to hear some of these tips and will come back again and again to constantly remind myself.

[@glowwithsandra]

The advice on this video it’s 10/10. Love , love it 👌I’m on my 30’s and I can relate that being perfectionist and afraid to fail kept me behind in life. Boundaries is another big one if you don’t have it in place it can lead to resentment, being used by others, not getting what you want from life, keeping “peace” at your own expense…

[@4lternater3ality82]

girl I LOVE the way you explain and talk! omg instant follow cuz there's a lot of "self help" / manifestation gurus out there that really talk down or are condescending and way too aggressive (i'm like girl chillll why are you mad at me LOL) but you are so tapped into your feminine and I love it. Taking notes and I feel aligned with everything you said. I see it reflected in my own life too

[@d_rami444]

Ended this video with a bang!! When you mentioned a boundary you set for yourself was turning off your social notifications, your reasoning really impressed me. I would have never thought of that as a way to be in control of your attention but it makes perfect sense and seems like a great start to getting offline and prioritizing the now. Thank you for sharing that!

[@OlgaJuma-u3l]

What you said about stop trying save people hit me because i was like that months ago but i took decision that i don't wanna save or change anyone anymore and I've never felt this different in my life thank you 🥰

[@gayathriv7431]

I’m gonna be 21 in 2 months, honestly I regret a lot of my decisions and I’m a people pleaser and I’m trying my best to overcome it, and as u said I’m interested in many things and that’s what makes my life unique and interesting, thanks forall the advice This is my first time watching your video.❤❤❤

[@kathym322]

10:03 this is so important and i actually watched this video and opened it again and it resumed at this topic. I feel exactly what you said we’d feel if we put others before us all the time. I do not regret it, but putting boundaries is something i am afraid of because i am a people pleaser. I am afraid to hurt someone’s feelings or make them feel bad if i say no, so i shut up and do it. This will no longer be me anymore. I only feel like this towards one person who i feel like has been using me for rides. Her family has also gotten used to it and even said “why can’t she (me) drive you?” It bothers me because I refuse to be responsible for someone only a mere 2 years younger than me, who happens to drive alone, and only can’t use her car ironically the same day we’re meant to hangout. She even offered someone else a ride who legit lives farther away from me than I do to her. Which bothered me. I dont think her intention is to use me, but I am definitely going to put a major boundary and no longer drive her. Her family can pick their daughter up from my house or dropped off. Her way of driving me is me parking my car at her house and her taking us to the place but i never did that. I always picked her up and drove her off and she never did the same except for a few times. I love her and do not want our friendship to end, but her ex bsf also mentioned that she used her for rides. So thats why i am afraid. But i am going to talk to her soon, only issue is her mental health is not ok, everyone is worried abt her bc she legit shows it. My friend literally told another one of our friends who was asking about her “shes not okay she hasnt been for a while.” That to me is attention seeking becauss she deliberately shows it. I’m not okay either, my mental health has been crap but i haven’t been able to take this burden off me because there was never the right time to talk to her about it. Its all abt her. But for once it will be about me and what i want. I am in control, the enemy cannot take me. I am worthy of God’s love because I am saved. I no longer want to be a people pleaser but a God pleaser.

[@carolinejuncker5799]

Girl.. You popped up on my start page, and I binge-watched a few of your self-help videos (I loved them x). I went to go subscribe, and when I tell you I was SHOOK at how "little" recognition your channel and videos have. Ten thousand people is a large number, don't get me wrong, but I was just expecting so much more by the quality of your videos, my jaw literally dropped when I saw your 'ask your intuition'-video has under 1k views. People are missing out BIG TIME. I can't wait for more people to discover you and your channel, I know you're going to get way farther in this industry and I'm so excited to follow along 🩷🩷

[@Kriziaofficial]

@@carolinejuncker5799 thank you so much! I am grateful for you, and anyone else who find my messages helpful 🤍

[@gankalsallyka]

Cause literally same!

[@asakiito765]

I just found her over the start page as well!! I also found her to be very likable. Glad I'm not the only one🤭

[@thefilipinonerd]

I've gotten a HUGE influx of these types of videos the last couple of days, and as someone in my (technically still) early 20s...this is the best one. these are all lessons i'm learning now and have been the past year or so (and earlier for a couple of these tbh). the way you explained each point was so concise and yet so clear, and it very much reaffirmed my current path in life. thank you for making this video 😊

[@Kriziaofficial]

@@thefilipinonerd thank you so much 🤍

[@IamKetura]

This is all so true, about the last point I was thinking about that too, i believe celebrities heart posture towards money is why they aren’t content because internally they have a desire you want to be filled but money will not satisfy you. They receive more and as time flies the expensive material feels like nothing. When i was thinking about this I read this part “Whoever loves money never has enough; whoever loves wealth is never satisfied with their income. This too is meaningless.” Ecclesiastes 5:10. As i’m growing as an entrepreneur I hope to find purpose in God and not what I make. Cuz number literally change all the time, if someone has $10,000 then goes to 0, and they aren’t content within they will be depressed. This was just on my mind i love how deep your content is.

[@secretartjourney]

So true. Thank you for reminding me to let go of expectations and just live life as I improve. I am 34 now, but your advice is still good for me in this process of evolving. I think this advice is for all people who need it. Thank you! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@lizbehtpelayo8725]

I loved and needed every single one. As a 21 year old, I’m so glad I came across this video. You’re so beautifully well spoken 🤍

[@ageemade]

oh my gosh.. you're like therapy to me thank you for your words

[@lifee_Lilly]

Thank you for this video. You really gave me a lot of perspectives that I didn't know before. Especially on the topics of being interested in many things and not having a group of friends. I only ever saw the negative sides of it, but thanks to you I now know what advantages it has for me.

[@izzyybellyy]

this was so refreshing to watch, the present is a present…… and i think you’ve made us all realize that

[@Kriziaofficial]

@@izzyybellyy 🤍🤍

[@JustSangay]

You've talked about everything I wanted to hear. I'm 21 and I think this lesson was a really helpful one.

[@caraosullivan8569]

Just turned 30! I’m like surely I can still watch hehe

[@Kriziaofficial]

Yes definitely 😊

[@Tortik4412]

This video genuinely motivated me and this video was meant for me to see this, thank you girl wish you all the best ❤

[@raihana.onfilm]

I love this type of videos and I remember watching similar ones in y early twenties but it just didn't register until now (in my late 20s). I think we really get to understand things once that frontal lobe fully develops. But for me setting boundaries has been a game changerrr! thank you for this video 🧡

[@Byebyebyyeee]

These are great lessons and I am in my Early 20s and I already now some of these lessons because of different experiences or situations I had to overcome and also a lot of healing and like what you said failure equals to growth, its hand and hand. And I am Glad that I remember that. And new subscriber. ❤

[@bookaddict-x6k]

Your content is so good, most of the time while watching this kind of videos i get bored but yours is very interesting thank you❤❤❤ that's exactly what i needed to hear ❤

[@Kriziaofficial]

@@bookaddict-x6k thank you 🤍

[@yemin5564]

Thank you so much for this video I really needed to hear this I’m 21 and I met new people in my university and I just feel like already I’m starting to hear jokes or comments that I didn’t like but like you said your experiences are a reflection of what you think of yourself. I obviously need to work more on self love and setting boundaries. I have always never fit in and it’s bothered me all my life. I also have different talents that I’m starting to work on.

[@AkA-sw7rl]

I never consciously thought about that groupe mindset thing and adapting to play it safe but the more I think about it right now I see that you are spot on!

[@Kriziaofficial]

❤️

[@jennysbeads]

I can affirm MONEY IS ENERGY 💯... It was a scripture that did it for me (proverbs 11:24-25). Everything you explained I experience.

[@SanjiVinsmoke]

I didn’t even realize how afraid I was of failing. Thank you so much for the advice ❤️🙏

[@monse6224]

im turning 20 in a few days and im so scared that I'm going to accomplish nothing since that happened in my teen years this video really helped with that anxiety

[@zira0839]

Thank you for these inspiring pieces of advice. It was really helpful, and I feel like there is a lot of authenticity in your voice.

[@Melanie-rp4gg]

I want to be an actor, content creator, architect and interior designer for houses, apartments and yachts so I’m focusing on architecture as it is probably the easiest to achieve and acting and content creation is just a hobby and maybe it will become bigger

[@sumayyaattar1564]

Wow!!!! I usually never comment, but honestly this video was highly required in my life. I'm really grateful that i came across this video before moving to a new city and starting a new job. Love your aura🎀✨

[@Kriziaofficial]

I’m so grateful the message resonated! Wishing you the best ❤️

[@ClassyWithChrist]

At 29, I definitely needed this video. Thank you, queen ❤

[@Kriziaofficial]

Glad it was helpful! Thank you!

[@sunbbow]

Thanks for your video, now I’m in my 20’s and your advices was need to me. By the way, I’m from Kyrgyzstan and watch this video. ❤

[@alishahall1779]

Thanks for making this video. It's really helpful since I'm about to turn 20. Hope you have a good day. ❤

[@jasminei7927]

I went to look for you on Spotify because I thought you would have a podcast - I think your insight is really valuable and that you should consider the possibility of also putting these audios onto a podcast :)

[@Kriziaofficial]

Thank you it may be in the works 😊

[@nour.44]

The point where you said don't try to change people who don't want to change, that affected me deeply.. because all my life I built the idea that I have to change the people around me if I want to be better.. and that's very exhausting

[@agustinaxavier1850]

Thank you Krizia. It’s the first of you I watch and I adore it. ❤🎉

[@TuluaTime]

Girl you needeedddeddd to have a podcast ❤❤

[@TopGlobal_Getaways]

Omgggg i TURNED 20 last month this is a sign ✨🙏🏼🙏🏼 thank youuu

[@Karysegocoul]

New here, the tip at the end was the BEST one!! It’s so easy to think “Once I get this high paying job or find the love of my life everything will work out & be easy from there” it’s a mystery if that’s true because it’s hard to see AFTER that

[@prink314]

This is exactly what I needed and somehow I avoided it but listening to u. I should do it 😊 thank u ❤

[@Kriziaofficial]

yes rooting for you 🤍

[@prink314]

​@@KriziaofficialI'm also rooting for you 💪 from the bottom of the heart 💗

[@languageandmana9255]

10:32 I loved this example❤ Coulf you please make a video on how to remove people who don't give us good energy and we don't know why and we wanna remove them from our lives but we feel guilty if we don because they are a family member or very close friend!

[@SalihaKarmous]

Im proud of you ; thank you for existing

[@katetran4392]

This is fire. So glad you put this art piece together 🫶🏼

[@RefilweSetlogelo]

Thank you for the tips. I'm in my teens and I would advantage the knowledge you shared ❤.

[@ReneMiroLupo]

I‘m 21 and I just saw your video. Thank you so much!!! 😊

[@kvasolynka]

thank you sooo much for this,i need to hear this right now🫂

[@Artistic___henna___HK]

You're the best for clearing all these points. Thank you so much pretty 🥺♥️

[@meryemgd5553]

I adore you vibe and energy ❤

[@OwlsomeTrivia]

Everything you mentioned in this video is so relatable ❤ thank you so so much for the amazing advice You’re like an elder sister I never had 😢

[@KokiAlmahdi]

This video changed me. Thank you Krizia ❤️

[@mellon3761]

oh my gosh, i felt this so personal like is what i needed to hear at this point in my life, thank you so much, new sub❤

[@Kriziaofficial]

Welcome!!

[@Onlyemilina]

You have no idea girl but this is all I needed someone to tell me ❤

[@zosiakseniak9117]

You’re doing an amazing job girl! Listened it all, shared to a friend and also gonna subscribe and listen to other videos, keep doing!

[@Kriziaofficial]

Thank you!

[@pony9810]

Thank you for making the subtleties ❤

[@osnapitzevelin]

this was so good and beautiful and soft and wise i love

[@Kriziaofficial]

@@osnapitzevelin thank you 🥹🤍

[@Kokykory0538]

I am 19Y, and i just saw your video. There are things i already experienced and things i didn't notice but you showed me it. However, nice video my dear thank you for your support Allah help us all in our life 😢❤

[@iqah5230]

I'm 24 and currently hustle to get my job opportunities after my graduate. Thank you for your advice.

[@corarberry]

Wow, this really struck a cord with me. Thank you for sharing! It gives big sister advice I never had

[@linakhail3252]

9 hits different!!!

[@mariamali5106]

Hey guys I'm here to practice my listing skill and also on the other hand to grow up in Life so thanks I learned a new words today also got a lot of advice it's really effected ❤️

[@Asti-Diary]

It is very healing and very motivating to listen to me thanks alot

[@samaamukhaimar9885]

Truly the best video you answerd many of my questiones in this video

[@hessa9898]

I watch this video again it is really great I am grateful for you thank you so much 🥰

[@abby-yj4sr]

I’m okay with failing, but the problem is I think about what others would say- people pleaser problems 😭 thank you for the video though. It gave me a new profound perspective.

[@pixelninja1452]

Think of it this way: you don't want to hold peoples opinions of you above your own in any circumstance. They have not lived your life, they don't have your experiences, and they are not YOU. So the opinion they may have is based only on what they know about you if even that. Only you know everything about yourself and how your life has gone so far so why would you hold the opinion of someone who doesn't know you like you know you, above your own? You shouldn't:)

[@abby-yj4sr]

@@pixelninja1452 aww, thank you so much for giving me your insight. That is so true 🥹. Truly, gave me a new perspective right there

[@SoyPalta-]

A little advice, never tell your projects to anybody until is done.

[@simplyRheaa]

Thank you for sharing this. I've learned so much from you.

[@kathrinejr.walter8411]

Thank you ❤️🫂 you are amazing. I came to a sudden realization that I need THIS kind of talk to guide my life Carry on you are doing well it is so helpful

[@Kriziaofficial]

@@kathrinejr.walter8411 I’m so happy to hear that the message was received! So excited for your journey 🤍

[@namelast440]

this is def a vid i would recommend to anyone

[@Kriziaofficial]

Appreciate that!

[@StylileypsUGC]

aww!i really need this advice ,I'm always finding a group of friends to be fit in but i always failed and when i trying, I got sucked.

[@CindyNalwoga]

this video and advice has helped alot and encouraged me. any ideas of businesses one can start in their early 20s

[@graciefoster]

i really needed to hear this! thank you so much for this video :)

[@dearly_departist]

27 in one month and YES to all of these ^^

[@PauletteMendy-s6q]

Trying to save people made my life a mess Thanks for the advice sis

[@pearl_greytea]

What got me to sub is the “money is energy concept” ✨😌

[@hessa9898]

Thank you so much it very helpful to me please keep posting 💕✨

[@shradhajoshi5619]

Thankyou Krizia❤

[@JasminaTrejic]

Thank you so much Ford your Video. I could listen to you for hours. Thanks for your advice, it gave me a lot to think about. greetings from Germany😊

[@Kriziaofficial]

So glad to hear that, thank you!

[@chickemin]

thriving🌸

[@ay_arman2748]

thriving 🥰

[@Stardust_098]

THRIVING 💜💜💜💜

[@denisesanjuan4216]

i turn 20 next year! this vid is so good