Life Update | Finding Joy in My 40s

[@AlexisBelon]

This is why I think it's important that those of us in our mid thirties and early forties still be vlogging. Becausee processing these things are thoughts we are not alone in! Btw idk if you’re into nyc vlogs but if so, you might like mine! I’d be sooo grateful if you swung by and took a peek. 🙏 Stick around if you like!

[@ADivaForLife]

I so so agree❤

[@Createmoneywithab]

I’m glad you said this because the other day a girl who is in her 20s said vlogging is not for women who are in their 30s or 40s and that it’s totally cringe for women in their 30s or older to vlog. As a woman in her 30s, it made me so annoyed.

[@soufwesthoustontx]

@AlexisBelon I think it's great for every age to vlog because the Internet is vast with people of all ages using it. There's a woman who vlogs on YT that is 65. Although I'm not at that age I think it's great that there are people on the platform for people in that age group to identify with. I've also seen skin care routine for 60+ and I'm just like that's great older people are using these platforms more for lifestyle vlogs.

[@rubylioness727]

@@Createmoneywithab some people think they have everything figured out and they offer opinions that no one asked for… when I hear people say what people at any age should or shouldn’t be doing it reminds me of how much we still need to learn about the development / evolution of the soul. It takes lifetimes. And part of that is connecting with others in whatever way makes sense for us wherever we are at that time. Has nothing to do with the number of age. It is underdeveloped to think so and actually say it out loud.

[@Createmoneywithab]

@@soufwesthoustontx thanks for your insightful response. The sad thing is, this girl has thousands of followers and many of them are over the age of 30 but no one called her out for it. I’m rooting for anyone who chooses to live life on their own terms. Thanks again for your thought provoking comment.

[@peacexdorothymarie]

Love this! In retrospect, I see how God planted hobbies and interests in my heart to help me maintain a spirit of contentment. I roller skated, brewed kombucha, made ceramics, and baked from scratch. Hobbies are indeed a gift to us!

[@nathaliasimone_]

brewed Kombuchaa ouiii ohh that sounds funn 😁✨

[@ZeeMadison123]

so refreshing to not focus on a youtuber and their aesthetics but just--what really matters in life

[@serenenazari]

I’m Muslim and every time I listen to you talk about God, it makes me feel so inspired to dive deeper into my faith. Thank you, Maya!

[@carlitawilliams5594]

Your unofficial alter call just broke me and has me crying like a baby. 😭 It’s like you were speaking to me on His behalf. Thank you for sharing Jesus with us and for allowing Him to use you and your platform. God Bless you, your family and your endeavors. 🙏🏽

[@shamelessmaya]

This video was for you then. God loves you and everyone here so much ❤

[@nathaliasimone_]

Wow ! That's beautiful ! May you surrender all to Jesus and may God bless you richly !!

[@selinaaylin7224]

This video “felt” good. I know it sounds weird. But watching you bake, eat and have a chat about God felt like food for the soul. It was giving slow living and calmness ❤

[@nathaliasimone_]

Love the slow living and calmness vibes 👌🏾!!

[@theejojobee]

I'm about to start studying the Bible chronologically for the first time. I'm not sure why I've put it off for so long but I finally feel ready to go deeper into the Word 🙏

[@VLJonesSrOnline]

I read the Gospels first about our Saviour Jesus. Matthew, Mark, Luke & John. God Bless !! 🙌🏽🙏🏽

[@zeenkosis]

It’s amazing there’s so much to dig into ❤

[@shamelessmaya]

I highly advise starting in the book of John 🙏🏾💕 and reading the New Testament before going into the Old Testament ✨ It’s gonna be life changing

[@mayaozoemena5594]

Shut up. ❤

[@Halonablack]

I love this! My play time is with making big salads, meditating, learning how to run, and watercolor painting. You need a project after you turn 40 that doesn’t necessarily have to do with making money. It’s a project that is just for yourself.

[@shamelessmaya]

That part..."doesn't have to do with making money"

[@Neonstarzz84]

Wow Maya! I have been so anxious about turning 40 this year, but having you back on KZbin and watching you grow but also bring the same fun, youthfulness that you've brought since I've been following you has been such a relief! It let's me know I can grow into this new season without sacrificing who I am authentically at my core. I cannot express how much light and positivity you bring into the world. The bread turned out amazing and had my mouth watering! I'm currently writing my first novel and would love for you to share your writing process like writing software, outlining, motivation and everything in between if you're able to! Sending you all the love and sunshine from Arizona!!!🌵🏜🌈 ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

[@shamelessmaya]

No need to be anxious! The older I get the less I care about nonsense and discover new lanes and avenues

[@Neonstarzz84]

@shamelessmaya Thank you so much for responding! I'm fangirling right now🤩 I cannot wait to see what the year has in store!!

[@auag19]

My highschool biology or chemistry teacher started her own business at 40+ a few years ago where she is known for her sourdough bread. Because of that I've thought that making sourdough isn't super simple. She sells her bread to hotels on Aruba now

[@nathaliasimone_]

Ohh wow hotels in Aruba... that's super cool !

[@ChardeneyMason]

The storyline and editing in this video is A1. I can def even see the playfulness in putting this together. Love it and looking forward to your book.

[@alyssiachelsea]

Just binged 12 years worth of videos & wow, the Lord is GOOD!! It was so beautiful to see his hand moving through your life, all within your videos! I’ve been so encouraged by watching & can’t wait to see what’s next 💛

[@courtneysrelease]

I’m only 21 but you make me look forward to my 40s! I love your videos and thank you for sharing your life with us.

[@JanetVJohnson]

I grew up in the SF Bay Area, the sourdough capital of America. Your sourdough looks so good, ngl. You dipping it in olive oil & vinaigrette reminds me of the way they serve this in SF Little Italy restaurants as well as in Fairway Market in the Kips Bay neighborhood of NYC.

[@trestarichardson406]

Loving my journey and relationship with Jesus!!! Keep it up Maya!!!

[@keishaphillips3659]

Great job with the bread! Realising that yesterday's choice is not for you does not mean that you are a failure....the boon docks are not for you. Praying for your discerning spirit on this journey

[@naturalbrunette07]

Yes!!! I love that song. Shalom everyone 😊 Maya, with regards to play, I signed up for a metal working class in April. I'm so excited

[@shamelessmaya]

I love it!!! Metal working?! How cool!!!

[@Hefmod1]

Hey Maya, precision is key in baking, and using a scale is highly recommended. At least, that’s what I was told when I first started baking. However, when I moved to a higher elevation, I had to learn how to adjust my baking techniques. 😩

[@Around_the_way_finance]

Like I heard her say baking is a science and exact ingredients is recommended. Cooking is where you can go buy feeling.

[@Hefmod1]

@@Around_the_way_finance I’m glad you heard her say it.

[@nataliea.s.4595]

Perfect timing. I’ve been so consumed by life life-ing, focused on work, the responsibility of motherhood and family that I’ve forgotten about play. Definitely working on being intentional about play. ❤ Thank you for the reminder.

[@voncielbryant]

Thank you for this! I am in a rough patch right now, especially when it comes to feeling stuck in my career and very lost when it comes to my purpose. I think it’s time to explore some new things!❤

[@tonielease4301]

Wow I loved watching you find joy in making bread. Joy in sharing that with your family, and sharing Jesus with us. The last bit you shared was another confirmation to keep pressing toward Jesus. I’ve held back a lot out of fear and compromise. But He’s calling and my answer is yes! ❤

[@jloves4ever21]

What a beautiful message! I’m currently working on getting closer to god and I’ve been finding myself being lead to new hobbies plus a new found sense of independence. It’s scary but I’m excited! This was comforting seeing you find joy in something new. Thanks for sharing

[@pixigirl999]

Thank you for this Maya. I follow you on your other channel but I hope that you update on this channel more. I think we are at similar points in our lives. I just turned 42 and my twins are 2.5(I also have a 1 year old…yes I’m tired) but I love the idea of trying new things in this chapter of our lives and rediscovering oneself. I look forward to finding my own version of “play”

[@sahara-nadine]

I’m absolutely so happy, motivated, inspired, hopeful, and grateful that I found your channel. I truly needed something like this for us who are desperately trying to maintain a relationship with God while being in our mid-thirties/early forties age intersection. Looking forward to learn from your realness and authenticity.

[@shamelessmaya]

Welcome!!! It's a journey worth taking

[@Omega7ish]

I am so loving this baking ALL the breads, author, Mama, Wife, friend, creative Shameless Maya! 🍞 🥖 I’m loving this era your in Maya 😊❤🙌🏾🙌🏾 Great vlog. The breads look delicious and amazing!

[@RoyalBlueMoonRiviera]

Peace be unto you and your family, Maya! I’ve been thinking about you randomly for a couple of years just never thought to check your channel although I subscribed. Anyways, one day I randomly thought of you and I was like omg, what’s her name lol. I could t remember your name. And I also felt you had another baby. I randomly scrolled and your channel popped on my feed. This was when you were pregnant with your last (new) baby. Sending an abundance of love and appreciation your way my dear! 40s is the golden years and we must embrace it! 🪬⭐️✨✨✨⭐️🪬

[@azurisora9836]

Play time is self growth. Life has so many amazing things to explore that expose us to our creative side. I want to try painting and sculpting, bead work and sewing. I enjoy baking and yes baking is exact measurements. When we search for our relationship with God Almighty, you will experience a change and be blessed eternally. Keep growing Maya, been a subbie for at least 12 years. Love your journey and your channel.

[@jordanknox8508]

MAYAAAAAA! Ahhhhh I just love you so much! I grew up watching your videos and have seen your journey and it has been so beautiful. I also LOVEEEE JESUS so this era/season you are in is just BLESSINGGGG MEEEE! Speaking life over you and your family. I am so excited to come with you on this phase of your journey.

[@docd2026]

Ok so im turning 40 in September and these “artist dates” ‘skills dates” are a thing. Yesterday I made my own tomato sauce for the first time and canned it. BREAD IS NEXT. It really is joyous~ THANK YOU THIS IS THE BEST VIDEO EVER

[@toniciabryan438]

This is amazing watching you try new things. I am on the same journey with God. Learning and knowing that I can trust him with every part of me is peaceful.

[@trestarichardson406]

Maya! Girl! Your going to have me over here baking bread! That looks SOOO good!!

[@catarinabatista9868]

Olá😊, i have been following you on and off, i have started as i was searching for a more natural hair care tips and i got so curious because you had this amazing energy.I dont have social media apart from youtube and Whatsapp and i dont spend much time on it but today i felt like it and there you were on my notifications and honestly you are an amazing,allways growing, natural beauty, down to earth mom ....Your realness inspires me💕!There's so much peace in you as you talk about "struggle" ...Wish you all the best

[@yodithaile5149]

As soon as I heard that crunch, I was sold! Great job, Maya!

[@AseaMae]

Maya you are an amazing story teller. Loved this video ❤

[@beckya640]

I’m completely here for the very necessary and well deserved humble brag. Your first loaves of bread are looking like great quality. You should be proud. This makes me want to make, but I really need to eat less gluten.

[@Choklatekisses1]

It's so good to have you back over here!! :)

[@DewyMoonlight]

I started watching you when I was 16. Now I'm turning 27 and watching you finding yourself again at 40 years old. Wow. You are such an inspiration.

[@theapeandtheostrich]

I am so impressed with that sour dough bread Maja! I have been making my own sour dough bread for several years now but mine never turned out that good 😳 I want that recipe! 😅

[@madamesativa1319]

I was literally just thinking about you the other day. This is perfect.

[@claudiacastly]

I think we all going through it I’m turning 30 this year and definitely feeling like that ❤

[@GISELLEMARIED]

Wow. I’m about to complete 1 year in my 30s, and this made me feel something deep my in heart. Life is revealing itself to me in a way that is really challenging me right now. I love the way you spoke about going back to God. I seek him more now and have been hesitant to get closer. I don’t know what I’m scared of. What helped you get closer?

[@Estiexo]

Love this video so much! And so true about not worshipping the negative it can be so easy to do, but I’m gonna find more ways to play and escape while being responsible 😅 ❤ Also I will def be making sourdough bread thanks to you!

[@tamaramurray470]

I love your whole journey, your such an inspiration. I need to continue to do the things that give me joy.

[@user-cl4vz5cl2o]

Thank you for this! I am on a similar journey too and I am scared but growing.

[@taneshabeverly6516]

Im 43 years old and I only wish I knew the things I know now, but that is impossible we are here to learn, grow, and evolve. Life is beautiful in my 40s and I was nervous about turning 40 but honestly nothing changed I'm still me and growing older gracefully and gaining wisdom.

[@kamielittlefield1572]

Making bread is an event! You've definitely inspired me to get back in there and do it some more. I'm looking forward to your mozzarella video! I'm curious about making mozzarella and ricotta. I started doing a chronological Bible study and it has helped SO much with understanding what the heck is going on with the major and minor prophets. I used to not understand why the tone was so angry and wrathful. But seeing everything laid out chronologically has helped me get perspective on a whole other level!

[@Iamsaraii]

I really love this video. As someone who is in their mid 30’s and feeling like I’m relearning who I am, this video is right on time.

[@ANAIVI]

Litteraly was looking for a channel to watch like I used to .. a place authentic and so glad you are back!

[@hellaSwankkyToo]

WTH, man. LOL i just began learning to crochet as well but it's so challenging for me; i'm not good about sticking to things that don't come naturally easy for me. so, i keep putting down my hook + yarn. but every other video i watch someone is talking about//mentions crochet! at this point it feels like a sign. LOLOL 😅 ETA: oh man, i didn't see the religion stuff coming; + def didn't expect my religious trauma to be triggered on a video about age x identity. 🥺😥😖 i g2g but wishing you nothing but the absolute best. 🖤✌🏾

[@SageOfTruth1111]

Mya, it is so good to see your face again and how much growth you continue to expand. ❤✨️

[@lisajenkins7692]

Funny story. Sourdough bread is one of my favorites. And my mom was a pretty good baker. So every year I’d ask her to make me two things- sourdough bread and gingerbread. Welp I guess she got tired of making it cuz … I got sick as a dog. Idk what happened but the sourdough bread came out bad. I think when making the starter from scratch, it can only sit for so long before it goes bad. So be careful with that sourdough! Ijs.

[@M.A.Wahome]

Thank you for the video and the baking trick ,let me also get biblical with bread😂,I want to learn how to bake Zeke bread,there's some kind of bread in Ezekiel that is supposed to be interesting and healthy and really filling.

[@shamelessmaya]

Me too!!! I saw that in the Bible and remembered eating the loaf. It’s very “healthy” 🤣

[@nathaliasimone_]

This is soo cool 👌🏾✨! Cant wait until you post tutorials on these breads & cheese ... Cannot wait to see you make mozzarella cheese. That sounds fun!!

[@GodisInYourJobSearch]

Wow God blessed me with your video/ channel today ! Similar journeys. 40. And have 2 year old. (NAMED MAYA!!) Left nyc. Saved. Got pregnant. And now hobbies are on my heart out of nowhere. Bread making. Gardening. And acrylic painting. Lot of confirmation Here for me. Thank you Jesus. Doesn’t it make so much sense that he calls us to understand bread and appreciate it more thru the process? 😭😭✝️ #breadoflife

[@MaxMayaLiving]

Love this new hobby BUT man, its dangerous to have all this delicious bread in our house!!! 😱😱 / Max

[@shamelessmaya]

Dangerous! And we both love carbs 😳🙏🏾

[@bettydavis7904]

Hey Maya ! You taught me something with your bread making. Thank you !!l!!!

[@bettydavis7904]

You got something here! God is speaking through you! I hear him! I'm 64 years and you have a message

[@NatallyiaGiovanni]

I got so excited when I seen your new video I grew up watching you way back in the day and so refreshing and good for you to talk about things in your 40s as I’m now just hit my early 30s. I love your videos.

[@TheDydy26]

Yes to this. Covid was like that for me.. I played too much, passed the French Bakery exam and became a Baker 🤣👩🏾‍🍳 And the past year, I lost my sister and became a mother soon 4 months ago : time to find God and play again 🙌🏽 I read, I bake and cook week, I am also into coloring and I just bought pearls to make bracelets and necklaces ✨🍃 I have been wanting to write for years but I think I am afraid of sucking at it. The only thing I can't play with😩

[@seekingthelost7]

Thanks Maya !! I learned that I can be responsible and have fun. That bread, though !! You did a great job !!

[@ginaE6240]

Great job on the bread making Mya! I enjoy break bread moments. I made bread 2 time in my life. And it turned out great. My ancestors did not measure. I don't measure when I bake or cook. I eyeball it Just Luke my Mathmatical ancestors did.❤❤❤

[@user-yk3yj1vy4g]

Maya, adoring you! You're so cool, and wise❤

[@OhSheila25]

The reno on your house looks good😊

[@donna5790]

Good for you sweetie I'm glad you found some people you can explore with propel for it and do your creative thing by walking with God

[@canija926]

I love that short reel in the middle of this video about sourdough - genius!! ☺

[@shamelessmaya]

That’s all thanks to my hubby with editing 🎉

[@robertjbrownministries]

Hello Maya, I have been following your KZbin for years, and the fact that you are not ashamed to honor Jesus Christ is very good news to me, keep up the good work, God bless😇

[@donmoniquekelson9550]

Chile, I love to hear you think out loud… I’ve been here for YEARS!!! Do you boo…

[@AllOverDori]

I make bread with my one year old all the time it’s such a fun tactile way to play. If you want to have super active starter try rye flour if you haven’t already. The starter goes nuts and has a great tangy flavor

[@shamelessmaya]

Yes! I used rye flour and it worked out perfectly!

[@TheParadisebird]

Love your journey so much!!! I am sitting in that read rabbit hole nd have never looked back :-). What really helped me to stop fussing and start enjoying baking was Elaine from foodbod sourdough here on KZbin. Her knowledge changed my bread game and brought me so, so much joy. Yay to being a fiber artist now. I knit and that's my joy as well. Making is so soothing and at the same time it opens up my awareness to new perspectives. Knitting is the language my souls speaks. Love to see more from you making joiner, be it bread, cheese, hats, mittens or whatever you choose to do....

[@pinkblackbrown]

Just finished my 4th 3 day fast! Keep in mind that i could never fast a full 3 days without food in all my 42 years but once i changed some eating habits it became easier to do.

[@Janges23]

Thank you for this. This was beautiful.

[@n.g.l.]

Maya we love to see the changes and phases. ❤️

[@Sheba7688]

I too got into sourdough bread baking this year-now I bake it more than I can eat. So much fun experimenting with different flour combinations.

[@whosyourbrad]

Can we find moments to just be in the moment 🥹❤️ I love how you're on the mad bread vibe, I wanna come for the mozzarella bread 😂

[@hollaatthekid1796]

I love the joy! ❤

[@VLJonesSrOnline]

Great seeing you again. You are so blessed. Take care & Much Love!! 🙌🏽🙏🏽💙

[@breneworld]

Are we living parallel lives, Maya? 😊 I started my sourdough journey last year too. Is there something in the water when being in the 40s?! ❤❤loving your videos! Love seeing you explore your curiosity😊😊😊

[@CurlsofaCPA]

its baby girl waiting patiently for her piece of bread for me lol too cute

[@thequeenv83]

Love seeing you happy and playing. Also that time with your daughter is so beautiful and precious. Did you say you use oats for that bread? Can I get that recipe please? I wanna try it.

[@shamelessmaya]

I linked it in the info box. Because I don’t have whole wheat I swap whole wheat with oatmeal ground up in my food processor

[@Keyboardmom]

This was very helpful for me today. Thank you.

[@AnjoliMonae]

I love it HERE!!! I think I am going to play! Thank you for the inspiration!!!

[@ritah_ndlovu]

Loved this!

[@kemi8143]

Identify crisis in life 😅 let alone 40s I just love your growth. Its inspiring

[@rjsmiley89]

Yo your edits fire 🔥 girl way to pop out

[@fanzypants]

I make those boxes from greeting cards that I've been given. I make sure the persons signature is part of the inside. ❤

[@shamelessmaya]

That’s such a good idea!

[@Rachel3675]

So much fun, loving this!

[@CharisMaggieTV]

I love this season for u ❤

[@edgesanddrinkstv]

Jeez that Ciabatta really looks good sis 🥰 I mean some of us that I know are still trying to figure out the journey of sour dough starters but honestly! the feeling when it turns out lovely and delicious at the end is it for me , we still learning 🥲 ❤🧡 Thank you so much for sharing your life, we really enjoy watching your videos 💜

[@JuJuLuvsYou]

I love u ❤ your videos solo as well as the videos with Max are just so well done and captivating 🎉

[@Createmoneywithab]

I’m so happy watching this. The bread making was so wholesome. I’ve been trying to make bread for a while, I’m going to try again lol.

[@buzzinbee9463]

You go gurl!!!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@nicolejackson6099]

now you have me on a quest to make focaccia bread! i'm excited. i'll talk to God when i finally sit down to do it.

[@aprilbryant5404]

Make cinnamon raisin next …. So yummy

[@Kathymoses880]

matrescence ted talk great talk , your great been following you for years. Well done you’re smashing ❤

[@arielmalone1856]

Can’t wait for your book girl lol. I love this new series in your 40s I’m ready to play too 😂

[@Gurlbyetalli]

Omg -This might be my fav vid of urs how u didn't measure used ground oats I do that for alot of my stuff I don't have a scale nor measure & it comes out wow ur editing excellent I am a newbie I love ur content ur fam is amazing younger guy etc etc etc 🫶🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽👍🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥Thanks for sharing

[@alliphil1]

Girl do Ben Starr’s 10min overnight sourdough bread. 😀 All that stretching and pulling over hours and hours is not necessary. Check him out on KZbin. He’s the “easy sourdough bread guy.”

[@shamelessmaya]

Thank you for sharing cause I know this ain’t it 🤣

[@alliphil1]

@@shamelessmaya Yeah I went down the “complicated math sourdough” rabbit hole myself then I found Ben Starr. He can get technical too because he likes to teach but his method is so simple. My dough rises in my oven with the oven light on while I’m sleeping, I wake up and shape it, wait 60-90mins for it to rise again then I bake it. Literally the only effort is mixing the ingredients and shaping the loaf (hence the 10mins).

[@AllenGauthier-rd7gb]

Your family is so cute

[@xtinalucia3684]

or Heavy whipping cream + self rising flour thats it! makes good biscuits

[@KytiaLamour]

Preach, sis. 🍞 ✝️

[@CheRhys]

This is crazy! I have a starter in the fridge. I want to make bagels 🤣.