Life Update: Turning 40 and Living Out of Suitcases Again!

[@tracykirkland2165]

I’m a slow burn too! Just bought my first house at 37 🤣. I spent most of my 20’s and 30’s traveling the world and learning different languages 🌎 . I love your growth been following you for years 💕☺️

[@shamelessmaya]

Aye!!! Congratulations 🎉

[@quietstorm4108]

You’re not a slow burner. You’re where you are supposed to be. Many dream of living the life you lived in your 20’s and 30’’s

[@Janique_GeminiBlue85]

That is not a slow burn, that's you living your life and enjoying yourself ❤ at 37 your doing better than most people our age. Including myself, I'm 36 going on 37 and I still live at home with mother. I'm finally moving out of my childhood home and moving across the country from New York to L.A. To be with my fiance, I'm so ready for June to get here so I can get out of here!

[@prettykitty5416]

@@Janique_GeminiBlue85 I’m almost 25 and still live with my mom and get clowned all the time. I plant to start traveling and I just purchased a brand new car! 🥰😀

[@Janique_GeminiBlue85]

@@prettykitty5416 that's awesome sweety! Congratulations! I'm getting my car soon, still saving up for it.

[@lolololololutrythcfy]

my nan had my mum at 40 and they were the best of friends! it seems i’m not the only one who has this family experience… i think mamas who are older tend to be more adventurous, self-assured and fun loving due to taking things at their pace and trusting in their time for whatever to come!

[@GaylynLareese]

My Granny had my mom at 40 and they had the most beautiful relationship. Plus I feel like my mom kept my Granny young and she lived a long and energetic life. You look great and I'm excited to see more of the home renovations! Sidenote: I will always be grateful for that one time you made time to have coffee with me in LA. Your ability to find community wherever you are is so beautiful and I'm so happy you're finding your mommy tribe out there as well

[@shamelessmaya]

Yes! What a fun meet up. You’re such a talented dancer! Keep being a light in this world and come on older mama 🤣👊🏾

[@EBONY_HD]

i am in this boat. my mom had me at 41.. i’m 25 now and she is one of the most important people to me ever. i know that it was the time of life that she had me that allowed our beautiful relationship to flourish

[@harrisvangeest5134]

Have been making losses trading myself .... I THOUGHT trading on demo account is just like trading the real market .. can anyone help me out or at least advice me on what to do ?

[@debbiecowdrey1358]

I literally want to wake up one morning to discover my portfolio is above $60k

[@joachimmilberg2313]

@@harrisvangeest5134 I will recommend you stop trading on your own if you keep losing and start trading with a professional.

[@R.S.546]

I can’t believe you popped up on my feed maybe 10 years ago? I just COULD NOT believe you were shaving your hair! That was such an emotional raw video for that era in time! But watching you has been like watching a big sister (only by 6 years) go through life and doing it shamelessly. From new york, to the old lovers, makeup videos, movie shoots, BTS videos, techy tutorials, what-I-eat-in-a-day’s, thrift and flips, renovations you have shown us IT ALL. It has been such a privilege 🙏🏽 you’re journey is incredible! Cheers to 40!! You win!!

[@AZARIA]

@R.S. I couldn't say it better myself. Such a wonderful comment! The next chapter will be an adventure

[@shamelessmaya]

Ah thank you for such kind words and riding all these years 🙏🏾💕

[@KatrinaSherokee]

Can’t believe that was 10 years ago 😩 that’s what motivated me to shave my hair and embark a new journey!

[@lyaalexis7901]

Yes..amen❤💋

[@MomandBuggs]

I want to shave my head I’m tired of hair😩

[@DawnofA]

I commented on your ig but girl this is my life. My baby is 6 months and I’m making 41 in may! We in this together!! It’s go go go over here too.

[@vlaptiste7476]

I can totally relate you are not alone my friend, be encouraged, stay positive ✨ 😊

[@PurpleEyes77]

Yessss May babies!!!! I’ll be 40 in may.

[@LachelleRenness]

I’m turning 40 this Monday the 21st and I’m praying for my first child 🙏🏾

[@Flourish_today]

May your womb be blessed.

[@poet82n]

Are you currently married or in a relationship? I'm turning 40 in December and praying for a child but not in a relationship...lol. Maybe God will shock me because I can't see it...🤣🤣.

[@Life.Love.Locs.]

@@poet82n Life is crazy... I turned 40 in August 2020, in the middle of the pandemic. Just decided to upgrade my life in all kinds of ways, made a career change, met my partner in March 2021, now 9 months pregnant with baby number 1! It can happen for you too!

[@poet82n]

@@Life.Love.Locs. Oh, wow! Thank you for this confirmation. Yes....I'm in my season of upgrading and getting rid of things. Starting my publishing company and finishing my final year of Grad school. Possible career change in the near future. Thanks for sharing and making me feel a bit better.... sigh. But I feel you. You never know what can happen. I do desire to have a child of my own.

[@simplysony7308]

Happy birthday 🎂 Lachelle

[@kikiinthegarden]

My mom had me at 40 and I’m her only child. Our relationship was amazingggggg!! Miss her everyday ♥️

[@janbham04]

Thank you for sharing. I’m single and childless at 35 soon to be 36. Your story has inspired me. I can only imagine this season is filled with highs and lows. Sending you good vibes💛💚

[@awhitfield6827]

Thank you for interpreting that it's never too late for anything. You have no idea how much I needed this. Many blessings to you and your family. 💛🌟

[@shamelessmaya]

I got you

[@sarah1484]

I just had my son last year at age 37 and I am so happy I waited. I realized that I had childhood trauma to work through that I wanted to handle before becoming a mom. Thank God for my amazing therapist. My son is 9 months now and I am so in love with him. I’m so happy for you.

[@GracewithHumility]

Had my 1st at 37, then 2nd at 38. Just had a miscarry at 41, BUT we are going to try for one more. We need to take the stigma out of having kids past 35. It its definitely doable!

[@nataliegross7080]

I had my son a couple of months after I turned 39. He’ll be 10 soon! I appreciated having that time before him to learn who I am. It’s helped me enjoy this time as a Mama-more than I think I could have if I was much younger. Learning how to balance motherhood/parenthood and being your own person takes practice and time. You got this! We got it with you!

[@starzzzy22]

Saga looks like her dad, but I also can tell she's going to look like you the more she grows. She's so cute! Thank you for being honest about motherhood so far!

[@ForJoyTV]

I still remember your birthday party in LA with all your friends. Probably the best thing I’ve ever done for myself as an adult was attend that party. Fun fact, I just tossed the makeup from the goodie bag you gave out because I never used it but it was super sentimental to me. Thank you so much for being such an inspiration. Following you and learning from you has truly turned my life around. I’d probably never be where I am today if it weren’t for you. I’m so proud of your journey. It’s so exciting to see you being a mom ♥️♥️♥️

[@shamelessmaya]

Memories!!! Thank you for riding all these years and for coming out then!

[@shannonluzchris]

Right That Party Was Off The Chain!!! So Many Memories And Shamelessness

[@tylermariemcc]

Maya, you’re my favorite. Like for real. Thanks for being yourself, in every form. Seeing you start new things at 40 gets me just as excited as it did when you were 30! You’re 10 years ahead of me (I’m turning 30 this year). Every time I start to feel the pressure of - aging as a woman- you blow all that bullshit out of the water and remind me that aging a damn beautiful thing

[@mwila1879]

I turn 30 this year too. You said very nice words. I relate to them too.

[@blacknsmallbuys]

I turn 30 in August. We have to stop putting so much pressure on ourselves.

[@shamelessmaya]

Glad to do it for you 🙏🏾👵🏾

[@Menooy22]

30 next month and after calming down about it, I'm really excited and grateful. I remind myself that not everyone gets to this age and its a blessing.

[@designajunkiee6903]

I’m 33, and I remember 29 being such a hard year in so many ways. And YES that ever growing pressure as each day asses and your closer to not being ‘twenty-something anymore” 😫🥺 BUT the second I was a minute into 30 the illusion disappeared and I realized age is meaningless - and then with guides like Maya you know you can be, do, have anything you want- life becomes so much better💯 Happy early birthday ladies 🎉 🎈 Eternal love & light 🙏

[@loveescape9848]

I'm 34 and VERY slow burn. I don't have my life all figured out and every now and then I have panic and anxiety about it all then I get back on track. I've come to terms with the fact that life gets harder to live as we get older, it gets lonely a little, and less exciting. We have good time, it's not all gloomy, but yeah, life gets a little quiet and harder. We just have to push through the ups and downs and keep working hard to stay connected, have human interaction, and keep our mental health a priority!

[@ItsGr82BUnique39]

You look so beautiful and radiant! Glad to hear you and the family are doing well and you are adjusting to your new home life. Sending you a belated HAPPY BIRTHDAY shout out, and pray for your continued good mental and physical health! 😊

[@shamelessmaya]

I think I misedited my video because my birthday is coming in May!

[@ItsGr82BUnique39]

@@shamelessmaya No worries- You’re human. Still wishing you an amazing birthday!

[@VeeBee81]

LISTENNNNNNN... Life begins at 40! That's a saying I have grown up with! You have done SOOOO MUCH over the years, so this is a new chapter in your life's novel! I think you're fantastic and absolutely great to watch you go through this new chapter of wife and motherhood! Changing Countries??? I still live in the 'borough' I was brought up in! I've never lived in another country? I'm waiting for the film of your life knowing that I have been with you for years! Your age is 'No Age' Hugs!

[@LiliaDeterville]

They say Black don't crack, but Duh-damn! Looking like this at 40!! Amazing. Happy to hear you're doing well and very true - Never too old to do anything!☺️

[@justdidthis]

"She's a slow burn. She's a slow burn." Me to myself from now on whenever I feel time pressures.

[@shamelessmaya]

Yas!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@alisonhilaire4170]

Your journey reminds us that if today we plant seeds and choose the path of growth, fast forward to some years later, we'll see amazing things bloom 😊❤.

[@Drawingboredi]

I got my 1st home at 27 , thank God because I woorrked. My mom also got her first home, as a single mom at 27 too. She passed away at 39, how bleak. I can't help but feel sad sometimes knowing how many people probably felt jealous when she did buy it then but there was actually nothing to be jealous about. Her friends are in their 40s getting all the things she once had. They are blessed to be alive. Honestly this taught me the importance of celebrating eachother no matter what. There is no manual to life. So I am impressing me, because I know,I actually do not know time but I know me, my wants and what feels naturally to me. Now I can travel and have a nice warm bed to come home to. Honestly we should all move in the pace that feels naturally to us. We never know, stay true to yourself guys and be shameless. Actually that's what Maya is doing, living to the beat of her own drum. Do what will make you wake up and smile.

[@yanalala]

An OG subscriber here. I’m so happy for you and happy to see your face on the YT again. You were a part of my late 20s when I was embracing my shamelessness and gave me the much needed inspiration back then. Now, in my early 30s, I’m happy to hear about your new life adventures and find inspiration in those. SLOW BURNERS UNITE 💕😀 Stay strong and shameless, mamma! You keep inspiring 🤍🥰

[@shamelessmaya]

Slower burners unite!!!!

[@laecurlslaetwirls3779]

Swedish sounds so similar to Afrikaans because I could make out what you were saying, I'm shocked but happy. So glad for the update ❤️❤️ love from South Africa

[@shamelessmaya]

Really?!? I’ll have to look into that!

[@foxxybrown291]

Not everyone’s path is for you. I still keep saying when I grow up I’ll.... I’m 44 and a Nana to 2 girls 🙄 please I’m too cute to be old 😂😂😂 xx

[@shamelessmaya]

🤣🤣🤣 too cute to be old! That’s gold!

[@VenusNovember]

I’m 37 and I’m still waiting to have a kid. I don’t think no one should be a shame or mad about age. Motherhood is a beautiful thing and we should all enjoy when we ready💜 your glowing ❤️

[@krislatoya7556]

May I ask how do you deal especially when hearing "your clock is ticking, you gonna wait until you walking with a stick". I'm 32 and still undecided 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@VenusNovember]

@@krislatoya7556 I don’t feel away. I’m happy where I’m at right now. 💜

[@CelineAdobea]

It's so crazy to have seen you since them early days of Shameless Maya living in New York to now having you as my literal next country neighbour.. blows my mind 🤯 love from Norway 🙋🏽‍♀

[@shamelessmaya]

Hi neighbor! I gotta make my way over there!

[@pearlivory3483]

Maya I can’t even begin to express how it’s been such a huge pleasure to be able to see all these parts of your life all these years!! I’ve been following you since you cut that hair girl!!! I was newly in college at time and the growth I’ve been able to witness in you and your journey have been so inspiration. And now I’m looking at myself, entrepreneur and married. Just love love love everything you’ve shared with us, it’s really helped me in my life. God BLESS YOU SIS!!!

[@drezaowens]

My daughter slept on us the first few weeks of her life as well. What a ride! She's 6 now going on 15, 30, 50, or 80 depending on the day! Life felt like a blur then and I never thought I'd get normal amount of sleep, but here we are!! Glad you're back! Your daughter is precious! :)

[@kharyzma4u]

Great to see you doll. Change is not always easy, but it's very necessary. You've accomplished a lot in the past few years. It's OK to give all of your energy to motherhood and being a wife. You will find balance. Enjoy each moment. Take everything moment to moment. Things are coming together as they should be. Your braids look nice. 😍

[@Tigerlily777]

Love this video... very inspirational. I'm 44 with a 2 1/2 year old and the struggle is real. I hope you're loving Sweden! Big move!! 😃

[@chatswithirisdeorre3191]

Interesting about potty training. I’m a mum again with a 14 month old at 46 years old. I’ll wait a bit before potty training though 😊. I have a 21 year old and started at about 2 years old. She was communicating and kind of understood what she had to do. All the best!

[@DJ-wz7br]

Totally understanding where your at. I'm a new mother and 40 this year as well.. All new experiences and challenges but trying to enjoying the moment. Your not alone, thanx for your videos 🤗🙏

[@josephcarlson4678]

It's has always been a Creative happiness for #Drdodoyi ON KZbin herbs to cure me totally from the Deadly Cancer.

[@josephcarlson4678]

It's has always been a Creative happiness for #Drdodoyi ON KZbin herbs to cure me totally from the Deadly Cancer.

[@ItsMeMissRuby]

Wow! Potty training at 5 months! I’m inspired! And girl I share so many of your thoughts/experiences and I feel your pains/joys watching this video. Stay prayed up mama. The road continues to wind from here on out.

[@poet82n]

Girl...I'm turning 40 in December, not married or do not have kids. I'm still figuring it out. I want to buy a home but don't want anything...I'm picky and am too old to settle...lol. Maybe I'll have kids. Maybe not. Maybe I'll get married. Maybe not. With all the maybe's in the world I'm learning to take time to just BREATHE which is hard for me to do without my mind working on the next chapter in my life. It's okay...we got this. To all my 39 and above ladies out there... let's create our own life path and quit trying to conform to what the world wants us to be at a certain age.. Thanks.... girl. I needed this video!

[@LG-kx8xl]

Maya you're even more beautiful in mommy mode! The experience brings out other aspects of your personality. Get you a Max (love that)! 40 is Freedom. I'm thankful my grandmother didn't give up & had my mom at 37 & she's an only child. If not for her, there are now 7 other people that wouldn't exist (me/my sister & our total 5 children). You're right, it's never too late and some of the Best things are unplanned. Let life surprise you sometimes instead of carrying the fear that feels we have to know it all since you can't anyway. God designed life that way! Please share the area where you live. I'd love to see the culture. Your hair is pretty!

[@cecedavis9840]

That is exactly how I trained my daughter. She was mostly potty dependent by 8 months old. Good for you.

[@DAsiaRaeB]

Maya I have been following you for the longest! As someone that wants to be a mom one day but feels VERY unready for that, (im 25) I’m so inspired by your beautiful journey and how you gracefully navigate life at your own pace. Sending love! ✨

[@orlandograntt2073]

My dogs are the same with puppies and kids. I was bit nervous too when my niece was born. You should be fine though. Jackie will eventually get used to Saga, especially when Saga starts dropping food and giving Jackie treats. They’ll be besties. Haha

[@vaneese85]

So happy for you. I got first house at 33 y.o, married last year at 36. We dated for a year but didn't see marriage coming. Didn't have a relationship that really worked before. Now at 6 months into marriage and we are are trying for a baby. You give me hope at 37. I really hope we will have a baby.

[@royalt538]

You will by the Grace of God. Amen. God bless you and your family.

[@IAMthatIAM_TLM]

Hello Maya may I suggest that you do a "where I am as supposed to where I was" type of video. Such as a flashback from then to now and you giving your perspective in between clips!👍🏾🤟🏾🙃🙏🏾... If I must be specific I will say relationship-wise with self and significant other...

[@krislatoya7556]

I like this *Where I am as opposed to where I was* . I do this daily 😩

[@jourdanleatherwood7399]

Thank you for this! Navigating my early 30s has been a journey. For me it’s been hard not comparing myself and where I am in my life to others. I am indeed a slow burn but I’m learning to be grateful for that. God makes no mistakes and I’m trusting the fact I have no idea where life is taking me lol. Much love 💗

[@MissJhane]

The whole video set up reminds me of "The Boy is Mine", even with the braids. Loves it. It is never too late for anything.

[@ShaundrickRoberts]

You are an inspiration, Maya. Can’t wait to see what comes next

[@sincerelyshans]

So here for this video, you were definitely missed!! Take your time having fun reconnecting with being you, doing your hair, DIYs, your home, etc, and we will be here whenever you upload sis!! Continue to have your goals and plan, but continue to remain flexible, giving yourself grace every step of the way!

[@stlhottie2]

You've always been my favorite maverick! Don't ever change! You have so much to teach Saga and the rest of the world 🌎. Keep your light 🕯️ burning and never dim!

[@SoulGlamGrl90]

I'm very inspired by you Maya! I'm on the slow bird wave as well and it's refreshing to hear your perspective. 💕

[@shamelessmaya]

Come on slow burns 🔥

[@SoulGlamGrl90]

@@shamelessmaya Yasss! haha

[@brookedaniels4980]

So glad I found you!! You’re so awesome!!! I’m a first time mama and I’m still living the 4th trimester life at 18 months in! 😩😆Thanks for sharing your journey with us! Can’t wait to check out all of your content!

[@maricarsays]

There is no timeline really - for me it's comparisons where I'm all "I need to make six figures by the time I'm ___" or the "I need to have this, this, and this completed by the time I'm ____" when I should just ride the wave and see where things go. I think as long as I'm happy with who I am and stay grateful, that's my goal.

[@MsFrancoise15]

I am so happy for you !!!! You look amazing I’ve been following you since you started and to see you grow and bloom into such an amazing beautiful open spirit humble mother! It’s an honor. God bless your beautiful family!

[@nekeavalentine8717]

Hey Maya nothing wrong with being a slow burn lol. I have yet to buy my first house and I'm 45 lol. I've created a 3-year plan to make it happen but I'm all the way good with being a slow burn lol. I'm a writer as well and what I find helps me with me with my plans is actual planning. AS a writer, I need to write it down so I don't really do apps and such. It helps me to actually write it out and if I don't plan out my day which is essentially planning out my life then I'm all over the place and lost. I set aside time each evening to write out my plans for the next day. It may take time to develop the habit of daily planning but you'll definitely find yourself being able to establish routines again. Once I started doing this, I became much more productive.

[@josephcarlson4678]

It's has always been a Creative happiness for Drdodoyi ON KZbin herbs to cure me totally from the Deadly Cancer.

[@breneworld]

Nothing wrong with a slow burn Maya. You are not alone. I will say you are living an enriched life and so full of wisdom. Happy to see that you are finding your tribe in person and online. 🌸🌸

[@Brezzybri741]

I've been watching you since I was in high school I'm 27 now. Good luck to you and your family.

[@simonedaul4415]

So happy for you all! Looks like you are settling nicely into mommyhood!

[@LovingAtlanta]

👍💖🌈🌼I’m so proud of you and happy for you. I’ve been here since the beginning curly hair days and when you were living in NY. 👍🙏Bless you, bless you bless you, your hubby & baby. Looking forward to seeing the twists & turns of your journey l. 🙏👍💖🌈🌼🤗

[@princesscherry-top5989]

Turning 40 and don’t look a day over 25☺️

[@shamelessmaya]

I’ll take it 🙏🏾💕

[@NyNativeTv]

@@shamelessmaya Yesssss. Aging backward. And your hair grew super long. I didnt think you'd keep the length once it got longer.

[@JanaMariie]

You’re always an inspiration and a breathe of fresh air ❤️ great job in motherhood so far. Being a young mom made me understand why many women wait to conceive later and in many cases I believe it is more stable for the babes that way. We have to understand ourselves to help guide another human. Nonetheless, great to see you upload 😊

[@sincerelyloveangel7675]

Thank you for being so transparent about your life, your age and timing and how it all works out. Love ❤️ this for you and US. No rush just process and living.

[@jenniferphillips5006]

Same Mya! I was a first-time homeowner at 39 and I am currently on my TTC journey on my own at 40! I'm so excited though. My twenties and thirties were rich and I have no regrets. On to a new chapter!

[@nameunknown1519]

Wow! I am an older mom, my son turned 4 months yesterday, and we are renovating our entire house. I could have spoken this almost word for word 😂 congrats on getting through all of it!

[@mrsbefort1616]

You look great! I had no idea you was 40. I though you were way younger than me. You look so freaking good. I've been following you forever. Love you. Im a ftm of twins, 4th trimester is alot. My twins are everything too, consume practically all your thoughts. I started remembering I have a life outside of them about 8 months in...slowly getting back to me.

[@theresalucas9477]

This video is sooo good 😊, gurl I missed your talks. I luv when u mentioned allowing life to unfold starting with good intentions & the feelings in place for yourself. I agree, it is a blessing how things can turn out even if it’s not how u planned it.

[@lizlimon4423]

Girl! seeing you in your new beautiful chapter , I can't help remember how a few years ago I watched you shave your head on your shameless journey. And now your beautiful, glowing, kick ass mom journey. It's amazing!! 🤗 thank you for sharing your life with us ❤

[@Hersacredheart]

The fact that I’ve been following you since I was 13 and I am now 22, turning 23 in November. 🥺the growthhhhhhhh

[@_callmeebee_]

Love your hair 💕 we’ve missed you! And are happy whenever you do have the opportunity to put something out! We ain’t going nowhere 😉

[@shamelessmaya]

🙏

[@jay_islove85]

Im just loving it! All of it. I'm so happy to see you thriving doing you boo. Had legit tears in my eyes. So happy for you and your family.

[@luckysuepro1181]

This was refreshing! to get your life updates from your real points of view. You are a transplanted woman. I hope this new environment works out for you for long term. Maybe going forward you could give us tips on visiting or moving there. We might meet our "Max" lol. Anyway.. love up on baby and hubby. peace & blessings

[@stephaniej1351]

Maya, I really do love you. What a gift you are. Thank you for sharing parts of your life with us. Lots of gratitude 💛

[@nnereen7]

💛💛💛I’m so dang proud of you, Maya. Been watching off and on since basically the beginning. You have attracted abundance because you have self-compassion and such a beautiful, genuine spirit and growth mindset. I wish all the best for you and your loved ones. Blessings.

[@lindsay_dee]

I’ve been watching for at least the last 6 years and every single video you put out inspires me endlessly. Sorry to hear about your worries with Jackie. I’m so glad your considering her the way you are. I don’t think I’d want a baba pulling at me in my old age either 😂 I think the distance is the best idea. I adopted my JRT in 2015 and I remember you gave me lots of great advice on terriers over in twitter. So glad to see you smiling and laughing girl x

[@ChenaeTreLove]

You are giving me so much life right now! Whew! Yes! I'm so happy for you and your family. you give me hope!

[@hendrick32]

Wow!! This video made me realize just how long I’ve been following you! I’m talking NYC days! I’m 35! It’s been a joy watching you in this journey! Growth is so beautiful! May God continue to bless you abundantly! ☺️

[@praxsmiles]

YESSSS GIRL YOU LIVE YOUR LIFE!! Thanks for being such a positive force and being so upfront with the struggles. I felt exactly how you did during my fourth trimester too, but now I’ve got a three year old and I’m like HUH 🤔 how did we get here!? 🤪💖🥰

[@emmylovisa]

Thank you for this video Maya! It's so real, raw and relatable. I had my son in the end of October 2021, so almost 4 months ago, and I can relate SO much to the 24/7 care of your little one and how time for anything else is more or less nonexistent. You're definitely not alone asking the question "how the heck does others do it?", because I've asked it oh so many times. It's beautiful and needed to see you show up like this, shamelessly, whenever you've been able to based on your current life situation. So excited that you brought up the potty-tunities because I'm really excited to start doing this with our son soon! I'm with you on the whole diaper situation, haha. Pls keep us updated on that! Looking forward to the video on how it's like living in Sweden since I'm Swedish myself. Ta hand om dig och familjen, och har ni någonsin vägarna förbi Norrbotten så hojta! Vore fint att ses.

[@jazmine16675]

40?? I cant believe it i remember watching you and latoya forever wayyy back when

[@amandatyler6050]

Thank you for sharing parts of your journey with us. 💕

[@tons9380]

Thank you for the words of inspiration Maya. I am 37 years old and have been feeling this way lately. Even the comments section is inspiring. Thank you ladies.

[@lesa5937]

Welcome back , I understand , change brings changes

[@NokthulaMadondo]

Maya you look so beautiful. Motherhood agrees with you girl. Get your glow on. I'm here for it.

[@sstcatherine]

Ooh the hair Maya... lurrrve it! 🥰🥰. You're one foxy forty year old lady. Congrats when it gets here. You're a inspiration and right about the fact that you are never too old to do something new! Thanks Maya!

[@nellyngomane]

I love how you are always pouring into others with your videos. Your honesty is appreciated ❤❤❤

[@shukr-sabr]

I love your hair in this style!!! I’m new to watching you. I actually found Max & Maya first and now here. I’m kinda in love with you and ur family. Love how honest and authentic you are.

[@PatriciaLLogan]

I am a Slow burn as well. At 57, I still need to own a house. I bought my first car in 2020, after having used cars given to me by my father (after he bought my mother a new car, I would get her old ones). I am single, but I have my own business. I am shameless for sure. I am ready to learn French and relearn Spanish for 2022.

[@JosiphiaRizado]

The love of a mom... I didnt know I would love my kids as I do... So maya I understand you... i feel you

[@SashaColdheart05]

Your hair looks amazing !! 🤩 thank you for sharing your shameless journey with us

[@deelaurent]

40?! I promise i thought you were in your 20’s when I first saw your video about The health truth.. omg!! 😮 You look amazing💖

[@deeniology101]

Ok, a mommy and wifey but you are still you, and don't you dare let you go. Your beauty, your energy, your spiciness, your inspiration and your love is very relevant and important to scores of people. And it is crystal clear that the reciprocal is also so true too. All of your magnificence is still intact and glowing. Start building the momentum to get lit lit again so you can share that light with the 1.2 mill. I'm positive that you can find the balance.

[@adrianwillis66]

I can not wait until the renovations are done and how the house transform into a home. You have always had great taste so I know it will be lovely.

[@wabz.z]

Maya I’ve been watching you for years! I just want to say you are amazing and you’ve restored a bit of optimism for me. As I’m approaching my 32nd birthday, I find myself a bit sad hoping that a baby will be possible in the next year or so. Beautiful as always! So happy to see you happy!

[@queenbbee2695]

I love you 😘 Thank you for this beautiful video! You are amazing. I am a full time mom trying to start my business at 34. It is a constant struggle between the love 💗 I have for my baby and doing my own thing. Time is so precious! I appreciate your videos.

[@lynn682]

“…leave some pages blank.” Yes!! Love that

[@gwen5440]

So beautiful. Blessings to you Maya. Looking good Sis

[@margiedaniels489]

I have been following you since Prince. I am PROUD of you and your BEAUTIFUL FAMILY. I pray God's continued blessings on you and your family.

[@TankaVizion2]

Super happy for you.. You're at peace, you're growing, glowing & it's showing!

[@mrs.liztomasi4120]

Obsessed. All the good vibes from you. I turned 40 in December and have a younger husband. We are trying to get pregnant. Girl, I love you and Max and baby Saga.

[@shalissmonet.4239]

Aww, Maya, this was great seeing your postpartum life update. I've been watching since thee very beginning, shaved head, NYC days. And yes, Mommy Brain is so real. I've had it 3 times. Haha. Also, your braids look really pretty. Great job, Mama... on everything. 💕

[@cocoainthesun]

I've been following your Journey for more than 8 years and to see you grow and evolve has been inspiring af!!!! Congratulations 🎊 on doing you Boo!!

[@KiraLovingLyfe]

I just love you! You are so honest, genuine and relatable! Ive been following you for YEARSSS and am sooo proud of how you've grown. I'm so grateful that I am still around to witness it.

[@bridgetsaine1760]

I’ve been watching you since before you shaved your hair off the first time and I am currently 23. I’m not a mama yet but I can say I’ve enjoyed watching your journey all these years! Your life and your story is valuable! Thank you so much for continuing to share it because you don’t have to! I love you boo stay shameless!

[@renee6511]

WE LOVE YOU MYA, AND THANK GOD FOR YOUR LIFE AND FAMILY...

[@livinacurlyworld2419]

#slowburn gang lol. I have been following your journey from the beginning but started because I wanted some hair inspiration, but your journey has inspired so many different aspects of my life. I’m 32 and I’m tired of moving in a way to please everyone around me. It’s time to be shameless and move in a way that pleases myself, but more importantly God. I am so happy for you and how your higher power has worked in your life (in ways you couldn’t have predicted). This video just filled me with so much joy and hope and inspiration. I love you. Thank you.