Life Update - Where have I been? Am I still making videos?

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Kayley Melissa

Kayley Melissa

5 жыл бұрын

Hey guys! I'm finally bringing you a life update! I'm answering all the questions on where have I been, am I still making videos, what's going on?? All of that! I appreciate you all so much and even though I'm very nervous to open up this much, I'm excited to be back.
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@fijigoya1236
@fijigoya1236 5 жыл бұрын
Okay your dog jumping up when you started crying is one of the cutest things I’ve seen omg
@cheerallyear
@cheerallyear 5 жыл бұрын
I know right 😭 what a sweet & caring pup 🥰
@marykeerasmus4817
@marykeerasmus4817 5 жыл бұрын
I love how dogs feel your sadness ❤️ so beautiful
@Jade-kt3mj
@Jade-kt3mj 5 жыл бұрын
Ikr he’s just like I’ll kiss you till ur happy
@teresawise7331
@teresawise7331 5 жыл бұрын
Dogs are the best companions when you are hurting. They are so tuned in to our emotions.
@lifeofjohannafrida
@lifeofjohannafrida 5 жыл бұрын
Fijigoya 123 the cutest! And it was so immediate ❤️
@elsagaxiola8431
@elsagaxiola8431 5 жыл бұрын
Letting go of the idea of what you thought your life was going to be like is the hardest part of divorce. You mourn the separation of your partner but letting go of your dreams of your future is devastating in my opinion. Especially since it's part of us even before we meet the "one". It doesn't feel like it now but at the end of this chapter of your life you are going to love the women you will become even more so than before. Sending you a giant hug.
@apocalypticlove
@apocalypticlove 5 жыл бұрын
Elsa Gaxiola yes! Thank you for this. I’m currently going through a separation myself and this is helpful to read.
@meghanborrasca3900
@meghanborrasca3900 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly what she said ^ I went through a divorce at 26 and it’s exactly what she said above.... the idea of what your life was gonna be is what I mourned mostly...
@ashleerees807
@ashleerees807 5 жыл бұрын
Agree 100%
@katyavolkov4089
@katyavolkov4089 5 жыл бұрын
Elsa Gaxiola This is a beautiful, insightful reply. How wonderful the world is when women reach out to other women in such a kind, nurturing way. Thank you.
@lunix3562
@lunix3562 5 жыл бұрын
I have never commented on your channel but have followed it for many years. You are not a failure. Life takes so many twists and turns that you can never be prepared for what is ahead. I remember when I watched How I Met You Mother, Barney had a quote about marriage that stuck with me.... "This isn't a failed marriage: it was a very successful marriage that only lasted three years." The three years part was for the purpose of the show but you can apply your marriage years to it. My point is you are not a failure.
@looksidewalkpenguin
@looksidewalkpenguin 5 жыл бұрын
I'm the same as you! I've never commented but I agree with this 110%. We're here for you! And sending all our love!
@noaarianna5750
@noaarianna5750 5 жыл бұрын
lunix 356 what a nice comment😊
@luisadelatorre5960
@luisadelatorre5960 5 жыл бұрын
I've been here since the green background and I will stay for as long as this channel exists. I'm sending you all my love and support and positive vibes!
@cookie04031991
@cookie04031991 5 жыл бұрын
You getting a divorce in no way makes a bad person, bad role model etc. You respecting you ex side of the story not dragging anyone down that makes you a good role model. It is normal to feel that sense of failure you are losing something you loved and worked on, but it does not mean you are one or are defined by this. I hope you feel better soon, but it takes time so patience is key.
@ferishakhan5919
@ferishakhan5919 3 жыл бұрын
Two years later, you’re the happiest you’ve ever been. I’ve been following you since your green background days Kayley and I’m soo happy for you
@janetp.7827
@janetp.7827 3 жыл бұрын
watching this after her coming out video hits so different I'm so happy Kayley got to grow and find herself, she deserves nothing but the best
@marcyc7204
@marcyc7204 5 жыл бұрын
Kayley, like many others have said, you’re not being a bad role model by getting divorced, you’re being an AMAZING role model by respecting someone you’re no longer with and not dragging him through the mud. Also, a great book to read to deal while in a tough situation is “It’s not supposed to be this way” by Lysa TerKeurst. Love you and your channel!
@liviadiana178
@liviadiana178 5 жыл бұрын
Agree! She handled this situation so well! Kayley, if you read this: You are an amazing role model.
@maryruff4725
@maryruff4725 5 жыл бұрын
I have followed you since I was 13, and here I am looking at my role model and realizing that it’s okay to not be perfect. I am a older sister to a younger brother and two younger sisters and I’ve always strived to be perfect and happy. you have taught me how to braid and in return I’ve taught my sisters. you are an inspiration to me, I always wait for a new video and this one truly tops them all. keep your head up high and keep pushing because girl you are amazing 💖
@lynnyuxin
@lynnyuxin 5 жыл бұрын
Beyond being curious to what happened to you, I think everyone were more concerned about your well-being and safety (though I did notice you were still active on Twitter, so that was a good sign). I am so glad you decided to open up with us even though you don't have to! I recently went through a breakup which was hard, and I'm sure you've had it harder, but I can at least somewhat understand/relate to what you're going through! It took me a few weeks to function properly, and 3 months later I am only still starting to try and get my life together. So, take your time and please take care of yourself! Above all, welcome back! We missed you and we will always love and support what you do ❤️
@AngelaPags
@AngelaPags 5 жыл бұрын
OOOOMG I melt at your dog's reaction to your emotions. Dogs are seriously the best!!!! I wish you true happiness, Kayley.
@4ng3lic4
@4ng3lic4 5 жыл бұрын
Ikr!!
@Wemills1285
@Wemills1285 5 жыл бұрын
This is the first time that I have ever commented. On anyone’s video. But this spoke to me on such a personal level that I had to say something. I split with my husband of 13 years in October. I cried every day for weeks after I made the decision to leave him and move my son and I in with my mom. Divorce is very much like a death and you have to give yourself time and permit to grieve. I so empathize with everything you said here. I felt like a failure and that I was going to end up screwing up my son. But it gets better. I am happier now than I have been in years and I know you will get there too. Your channel was the first channel I subscribed to on KZbin 8 years ago. I have loved your content since then, even when I cut my hair off and couldn’t do most of the styles in your tutorials. I still loves watching them because of your genuine joy in doing what you love. Keep it up, girl!
@cozypillow638
@cozypillow638 5 жыл бұрын
Beth Mills this is a wonderful comment❤️
@dgroskurth
@dgroskurth Жыл бұрын
I’ve been through divorce and it is horrible, be strong
@anniallerlei440
@anniallerlei440 5 жыл бұрын
Love the Support your dog gives you and you can be sure that your viewers will support you too 😘😍
@MrsBellaBrunette
@MrsBellaBrunette 5 жыл бұрын
The way your dog comforted you when you started crying 😭...he truly loves you! Wishing you much happiness in the future
@magnolias__
@magnolias__ 3 жыл бұрын
just came back to this after today's video and can i just say congratulations for getting out of your previous situation and finding one that's so much healthier and kinder to you. 😭💕
@LinkinParkLover2012
@LinkinParkLover2012 3 жыл бұрын
And 2 years later you’re finally at peace with yourself 🥺🤩
@manyagaver1946
@manyagaver1946 3 жыл бұрын
I was scrolling looking for this comment
@ferishakhan5919
@ferishakhan5919 3 жыл бұрын
She’s engaged!
@JahairasMission
@JahairasMission 5 жыл бұрын
Literally JUST thought of you, you are deeply missed! Please don't lose sight of the value you bring to KZbin! We love you, sis. 💖
@HilBG
@HilBG 5 жыл бұрын
KAYLEY my heart. We have missed you so much and I am so glad you're back on your own terms! I also got divorced in the last year (after having gotten married around the same time as you) and moved back across the country closer to my family. (twinsies) Every situation is different, but I definitely understand the difficulty of having to explain when there was no clickbait ~event~ that signaled the end. You should be so proud of yourself for making the right decision for both of you, and you should be extra proud of yourself for having the courage to open up to us. I can't imagine what it's like having these fans who feel like we know you and definitely love you, but you don't know us as individuals. That's a scary crowd to be vulnerable in front of! You are amazing and strong. Keep taking care of yourself. We're not going anywhere! Also PS I am so happy you have Pippin and your sister. You deserve all the support you get and more!
@Twistmepretty
@Twistmepretty 5 жыл бұрын
Girl you had me in tears. I just felt all your emotions during that video and I hope you know I think you are incredibly brave for coming here and opening up. Giving us a piece of your heart and just being so vulnerable. You’re a light in this world and I’m so sorry to hear about your split but you’re gonna get through it and come out the other side so much stronger. I love you. Keep your head up, we are all cheering for you!
@joyarose2801
@joyarose2801 5 жыл бұрын
Your dog is precious! Literally just knows that you need comforting at that time😭😭😍
@brookelew3237
@brookelew3237 5 жыл бұрын
No judgment at all sweet lady! This must be so hard for you! So sorry for your pain. 💛 Praying for your comfort and healing dear lady. There is such FREEDOM in realizing we do not have to be perfect. I hate the pain that you have had to go through, but I deeply appreciate thIs Video and YOU!
@Oceans1974
@Oceans1974 5 жыл бұрын
I second that!!
@trishpipkins
@trishpipkins 5 жыл бұрын
I went through a really really horrible divorce. It gets better. I at first hated the fact that it happened. But staying in a marriage that shouldn't be would be the true failure. And now I'm married to an amazing man and I am so glad. Don't be so hard on yourself. 💖💖💖
@Fuckaroundandfindout101
@Fuckaroundandfindout101 5 жыл бұрын
Trish Pipkins reading this mad me so happy! Congratulations on finding the right one!♥️
@trishpipkins
@trishpipkins 5 жыл бұрын
Amber Renee thank you! He's wonderful. I have learned so much through all of this and want to encourage everyone to find what makes them happy. It's so worth it.
@VSanchez43
@VSanchez43 5 жыл бұрын
Take your time! We’ll always be here for you💕
@simibelle
@simibelle 5 жыл бұрын
omg this is the most amazing thing i've seen in a long time... when the dog looks at you when you start crying. another proof that dogs notice when you're sad and want to help you. i can't get over it how he acts when you get really emotional. i wish you all the best and thank you for sharing your story.❤️
@curlsandnodes8886
@curlsandnodes8886 5 жыл бұрын
Oh, girl. I noticed that you weren't wearing your ring but I didn't want to push the subject. *hugs* You are such a big role model to me. That hasn't changed a bit. You did the right thing by respecting his privacy. You're not a failure! I miss you and I hope you will feel better soon! I really hope to meet you one day
@carolinatrindadeferreira3169
@carolinatrindadeferreira3169 5 жыл бұрын
I don't know even how to start... I cried with you the whole video - not because i'm sad, but because i'm so, so, so proud...! I don't know you, but for some reason I really love you in a level that see you hurt makes me wanna go there and feed you with love... And ice cream! These moments in life make us grow, and i have to believe that is for the better, as I know what is like to be depressed, to be hopeless, to struggle to get out of bed, have to come back to the family nest and re-build the life from scratch. It took courage to put this video out here, we can see it, and don't worry about us, we are loyal, and you deserve the loyalty for being this amazing beam of light in the world. When I am down, few things put me back on my feet like your videos, how long and I'll wait as you rise again, supporting you in everything. By the way, I am a child of divorce, and like with many friends of mine, the rupture made both mom and dad to flourish into happier and better people. Oh, and I loved your ideas for the channel, can't wait to watch!
@katyavolkov4089
@katyavolkov4089 5 жыл бұрын
Carolina Trindade Ferreira Wonderful comment! So poem and honest and supportive. I'm so sorry you've suffered from that kind of debilitating depression. And so brave of you to tell the world like this. I hope you're doing better. I just felt I needed to reach out to you and give you a big Bravo for being who you are!! ❤️
@techygirl999
@techygirl999 5 жыл бұрын
Love you! You have taught me everything I know about hair. I’m so sorry you are going through this time in your life. Can’t wait to see more from you as you are able.
@jessicaleigh1983
@jessicaleigh1983 5 жыл бұрын
Love everything you post, Kayley. I struggle with perfection issues as well... you pointing out that we can either be authentic or try to portray perfection (not both) is brilliant! Thank you for being you.
@MonicaMettert
@MonicaMettert 5 жыл бұрын
Oh, Kayley. 😢 I have watched every video of yours since the green sheet days. I went through a divorce about 3 years ago and it was so, so hard. I lost so much hope. But it got better. I grieved and healed and met the man of my dreams and we just got married and we are SO better matched than my ex and I were. You are a passionate, beautiful, successful woman and you WILL find love again. Divorce is not failure. It is learning and growing. It is going to be okay, sweetheart. 💕
@mayssarmini6917
@mayssarmini6917 5 жыл бұрын
Same exact story here 😊 just keep pushing
@mindyrardin9934
@mindyrardin9934 5 жыл бұрын
Nothing can keep a good channel down! We will always love your channel. We love your videos whenever we can get them thank you for all the videos you’ve given us already!
@sharezerglazedilao2329
@sharezerglazedilao2329 5 жыл бұрын
Take as much time as you need Kayley. We will wait for you! And thank you for sharing with us, even when its really hard. Stay strong. We'll be here for you!
@karishi11
@karishi11 5 жыл бұрын
I've honestly been thinking about you for the past couple of days. You were one if my first discoveries on KZbin back when you had the green background. I'm sorry this is happening to you and I'm sending love and positive energy your way. Just remember that you're exactly where you're supposed to be even if it's not where you want to be and that's okay. You're loved and not alone 💛💛💛
@everythingmusicgirl
@everythingmusicgirl 5 жыл бұрын
Sending much love. As the oldest sister of four girls I have deep sympathy for the feelings of being a good big sister, but you are one. You help me with my hair, you're super kind, respectful to all, and full of the character that makes you a good role model. I know it's hard when life shakes us up hard, but please know the best parts shine through, and imperfections are something we all share too. Much much love!
@martinastefancova67
@martinastefancova67 5 жыл бұрын
When I saw the thumbnail I knew you were going to announce a divorce. I saw myself on that bed. I'm not divorced but I went through a terrible breakup. You are an amazing person and a divorce doesn't define you. You are still a role model for so many girls. And now even more, for standing up for yourself and doing what's best for you. Be strong, the pain will pass. Looking forward to new videos ❤️
@mayaowen6557
@mayaowen6557 5 жыл бұрын
After such a huge life change, a recovery period is definitely much needed, and with all the hard work you put into building this channel, was a well deserved break. Your videos always give me joy and inspire me to try new things with my hair, and it's because of you that I can do some really beautiful hairstyles that give me confidence. I'm so glad you're back, and I can't wait to see what you come up with next!
@taptitecaro
@taptitecaro 5 жыл бұрын
Hey Keyley you’re a beautiful human, inside and out. You deserve all our support and more! Wish you to feel better soon ❤️
@christinaangel787
@christinaangel787 5 жыл бұрын
Praying for you sweet girl! I'm sorry you are going through this. Sending you all the love ♥️
@lindsey5365
@lindsey5365 5 жыл бұрын
Everything will work out in your situation, you are beautiful inside and out!! stay positive and do what makes you happy.
@PlantBasedBride
@PlantBasedBride 5 жыл бұрын
I cried through this whole video. Sending so much love your way ❤️❤️❤️❤️ you will heal eventually, love. And we’ll be here for you through it all!
@nilavanilla24
@nilavanilla24 5 жыл бұрын
You have been such an inspiration to me for literal years, like I remember watching your videos 7 years ago learning how to do my hair for my first high school dance. And the way you’ve handled this with so much strength and integrity just proves how you’ve continued to be a role model all these years. Sending you all the good vibes and energy so that hopefully this year is a little nicer to you than the last 💕💕💕💕
@estebritt9555
@estebritt9555 5 жыл бұрын
You're one of the first people I ever subscribed to, and this was yeeeeears ago. I'm so sorry for what you've been going through, but you're so strong for sharing it with us. ❤️❤️❤️
@andreakevresian1429
@andreakevresian1429 5 жыл бұрын
I also divorced young, and I identified with so much of what you said -- Being a perfectionist, everything "by the book", never in my life imagining something like that would happen to me, and consequently feeling like a failure on so many levels. But what I can tell you is that it is so hard and will be painful for a long time, but it DOES get better, you WILL heal, and you are NOT a failure. This doesn't define you even if it feels like it right now. Praying for comfort for you during this time ❤️
@magdalenasofiasalgado5458
@magdalenasofiasalgado5458 5 жыл бұрын
I've been following you for ever, you taught me to braid my hair all those years ago 🤭 I hope you overcome this hard chapter, you are so great and full of light, keep your head high!!!
@kristakula4899
@kristakula4899 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for being so honest and mature about the situation! I can’t wait to see your personal growth and I am wishing you a future full of happiness! Much love 💕💕
@1stAmbientGrl
@1stAmbientGrl 5 жыл бұрын
Kayley, Kayley, Kayley, Kayley! I'm middle-aged and one thing I have learned is life rarely ever works out the way you think it will or should. Right now I'm dealing with my mother having dementia and I never imagined she would because no one else in her family had it, that I'm aware of. I never married or had children. I don't have a career or any savings because life keeps throwing curveballs at me. I've learned to see it all as an adventure and to be flexible with my plans/goals. I've also learned that there is something good in each difficulty and that the quality of my life depends on focusing on the good rather than the bad. I know how you feel about hating to make mistakes because I've always been that way, but guess what? Making mistakes is inevitable. So, embrace it all and be kind to yourself. God loves you more than you know regardless of what happens in your life.
@itsoliviaaa18
@itsoliviaaa18 5 жыл бұрын
So brave of you to share this with us. Take your time to heal! No pressure to come back straight away. Looking forward to see more of your videos once you’re feeling better. ❤️
@mybrainisuseful
@mybrainisuseful 5 жыл бұрын
I feel like I've grown up with you! When I lived overseas in my late teens I used to use your hair tutorials for crazy nights out, when I moved back I still used them for job interviews and such now when I'm going out on dates you're my go-to tutorial person! It might sound silly but I grieve with you, all the way from Australia, from someone who will never meet you, you're in my heart and I'm wishing you great, great, great peace and all the lovely things in life like family time, deep sleep, good food and fresh air. Love, love, love and more love xxx
@rebeccabeard2964
@rebeccabeard2964 5 жыл бұрын
Wow, Kayley. I'm so sorry to hear about what you're going through; thanks for being so honest with all of us. So glad you have a supportive family and a loving dog by your side! Would love to see some scrunchie styling ideas and hear what your current favorite things are. Thanks for all your hard work on this channel!
@michelele859
@michelele859 5 жыл бұрын
Your dog loves you so much and it melts my heart when it looks at you!!! Stay strong girl! You’re very clearly a fighter and beautiful inside and out ❤️
@telizabethxo
@telizabethxo 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this with us. Everyone goes through things that are hard in life and sometimes life doesn’t work out as we expect. I can definitely relate to that as I’ve felt like a failure for a long time not following the exact path I set for myself. Truth is you’ll learn from it and come out stronger. Hope things get better for you soon. As a long time watcher since the green background and KZbin tutorials. I never cared if your tutorials were perfect I am just happy to see videos from your because you give the best tutorials. Plus you seem like someone I’d want to be friends with IRL. Can’t wait to see what content you release next. Much love and good vibes.
@rebeccas9488
@rebeccas9488 5 жыл бұрын
No one is perfect and I don't think anyone expects you to be. To be honest, I really love the bloopers at the end of your videos. And what a sweet puppy. And what a good sister you have too. Sending you love during this time of transition.
@sarahwhite3239
@sarahwhite3239 5 жыл бұрын
Sending you so many hugs and prayers. I hope you know I have always looked up to you and your positivity and your realness and willingness to be candid makes you even stronger in my eyes. I hope you know we will always be here for you and I am wishing you all the best and this new journey of healing ❤️
@vickyw6178
@vickyw6178 5 жыл бұрын
Awww, your dog is so sweet & knew right away you needed support! It is hard but you are a woman & stronger than you know! This moment will pass and it will get easier every day. 💪🏻👊🏻👍🏻❤️🙏🏻
@ginaa.4539
@ginaa.4539 5 жыл бұрын
Stay strong. Thank you for your honesty. You didn't need to bare your soul but since you did, I'm sure it will help a lot of people going through a hardship.
@candacemccormick6488
@candacemccormick6488 5 жыл бұрын
I’ve been following you for years and love you and your channel. You’re one of my favorites! I’m so sorry you’re going thru this! Thank you for filling us in on your life. Hoping and praying for you and your healing as you walk thru this journey. ❤️💜💙🧡💚
@EllaFadeout
@EllaFadeout 5 жыл бұрын
This was the realest episode, I really am sad to hear you're going through a change like this. It brings me comfort to know you can be brave and talk about it openly, I am going through trying changes myself and you sharing your story brings me hope. ❤ thank you and I look forward to more videos
@serenakelly3619
@serenakelly3619 5 жыл бұрын
Also, being real and showing vulnerability is the bravest thing you could possibly do, and so powerful. I think just posting this video alone makes you a fantastic role model to anyone scared to deal with darkness. Your strength is inspiring 🦋
@camilla1708
@camilla1708 5 жыл бұрын
I never comment on videos, but I feel it's time to make an exception. I've been watching your videos for the past 7 years. I started when I was in the middle of a depression, and learning how to have fun and be creative with my braiding really helped me focus on something else. You came across as a such a lovely person and you almost felt like a friend. I especially appreciated when we got to see a glimpse of you life, like when you decided to go in to cosmetology school, got married, moved, told us about your depression, and now this. There isn't such a thing as a "perfect" life, and I think you're incredibly brave for sharing your story and I think that is a big part of why I've almost consider you as a friend for so long. I sure I'm not talking just for me when I'm saying, don't be scared of being yourself in front of the camera! I'm really looking forward to watch your videos, just make sure you don't get too stressed about it. We can wait if you're not feeling well! Lots of love from Sweden
@jillwolters6956
@jillwolters6956 4 жыл бұрын
You are BRAVE! Thank you for doing this update. I apologize that it took me so long to watch. Kudos to you for moving forward. 💜
@petrichor5837
@petrichor5837 5 жыл бұрын
I love you and your channel. Literally, you are one of the only channels that I have found that has super cute and simple hairstyles for SHORT hair, so thank you for that! I am so sorry for your situation, and I hope you and your ex find happiness soon. Sending you love, support, and prayers! Also, your dog is absolutely adorable!
@auntiej1961
@auntiej1961 5 жыл бұрын
Sending healing and blessed thoughts to you. All the best to you and your ex as your navigate thru this transition. I am sorry. Your channel has always been fun, spirited, great ideas and I have enjoyed your videos. You GO Girl!
@cozypoisons
@cozypoisons 5 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry you're going through this darling. I can see you're really hurting, and I am sending you all the love and light. Your dog loves you so much and is trying to remind you as much as possible every moment how wonderful you always are. I am inspired by your strength and grace i this situation. I've gone through a similar divorce, but you are handling it the way I think is the best way. I'm proud of you. Time will bring healing, you will come out of this stronger and happier. I promise. Don't give up, love you!
@ceilidhswan736
@ceilidhswan736 5 жыл бұрын
sending you so much love and support. I'm glad you've got family and friends there for you, and your support doggo is helping too. Take care of yourself as much as you can, and i'm looking forward to what you feel up to doing next!
@stephaniecarmichael453
@stephaniecarmichael453 5 жыл бұрын
You’re amazing. I’m a hair stylist and I’ve always loved how real and chill you seem. So sorry you’re going through this. You’re going to get through this 💓. We will be here
@laurahammer4060
@laurahammer4060 5 жыл бұрын
When I first discovered your videos hoping to learn a few hairstyles I never saw it coming how much I would end up caring about you as a person, and how each video would be like catching up with a good friend. No matter how long breaks you take for whatever is going on at the moment I will always be there so so happy to see you again. Sending you the biggest possible hug from Denmark
@Rhaemyra
@Rhaemyra 5 жыл бұрын
I found your channel about three or four years ago and I was in the deepest point of my depression after my dad died. It was a very rough moment, hard to wake up and do things and found no reason to take care of myself. Finding your channel gave me motivation and a reason to try new things because I always loved my hair so through your tutorials I started to remember how much I loved styling. At first, I was only watching your videos, then started trying the styles (and failing hehe), kept going, bought a curling wand, bought an iron, sooo many bobby pins and finally, after months of feeling terrible I started to look at myself, feel pretty and capable of doing something well, like I actually liked myself a bit again and at that moment that was HUGE. So I am forever grateful to you and your channel. We all go through painful moments in life, moments when we fall and find it harder to stand and that's ok. It doesn't make us weak, just reminds us we are humans facing life and that is never easy. You are not alone and again, thank you forever for being here and sharing yourself with all of us. :)
@gina_marie
@gina_marie 5 жыл бұрын
Girl, I’ve been where you are and felt all the same things you expressed in this video. You’re so brave for sharing! I feel for you. It gets better in time you just can’t speed that up. You just gotta feel all the things. You’re supported and loved, and in no way a failure! You’re stronger for pushing through this with the best attitude you can. Praying for you ❤️
@gracedevalois1855
@gracedevalois1855 5 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for all the pain you are going through! You are not a bad role model, and though this you are an example of persevering through trials and I admire the respectful way you went about this all. 💗
@mariarapti6207
@mariarapti6207 5 жыл бұрын
Always here for you Kayley!! Sending love and thoughts your way!!!! 💞
@vgamer456
@vgamer456 5 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry you had to go through that. It's not easy for anyone, and all I can say is that do what you know is right for you. It's not an easy path, but you can. Don't lose sight of who you are Kayley.
@jacquelinehansbury2252
@jacquelinehansbury2252 5 жыл бұрын
Sending all my love and good vibes your way! In all honestly seeing you as you really are, and seeing you struggle and come out better on the other side will make you an even better role model. It honestly takes a lot of courage to admit when you aren’t happy in a situation anymore and make a change for the better. I’ve loved your channel for so many years and I’m always grateful to have you on KZbin. ♥️
@lucibell7119
@lucibell7119 5 жыл бұрын
Melissa we love you. Be strong and keep smiling! You deserve better!
@aastha7350
@aastha7350 5 жыл бұрын
Girl! I loved this channel every since I was 13 and still love it till this day!! Hope things will get better for you and you become stronger person out of it! You are good, kind and hard working cinnamon roll!! 😙💖And don't worry, us fans have got your back!! Love you sooooo much!!! 😘😘😍😄
@jenarichelle92
@jenarichelle92 5 жыл бұрын
oh kayley. you are loved. you are so strong! we will always be here for you whenever you're ready to come back full swing. focus on your health, and surround yourself with love. if i was your friend i would hug you! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@allisonsymes4837
@allisonsymes4837 5 жыл бұрын
I'm in the Raleigh area too, sending my support. I can only imagine how difficult this is but it sounds like you're finding your new normal which is great. Can't wait to see the new videos from this year - whenever you feel comfortable to put them out.
@andreamorgan996
@andreamorgan996 5 жыл бұрын
Kayley you are the first youtuber I ever followed because you helped me learn how to braid my hair, and 8 years later you still inspire me with your kindness and genuine spirit. I am so sorry you've had to endure this pain and heartbreak and will definitely keep you in my thoughts and prayers!
@zoeworsnip4192
@zoeworsnip4192 5 жыл бұрын
You’re amazing! I don’t usually comment on videos but I just wanted you to know that your honesty is so refreshing and appreciated ❤️
@jodiehenry4334
@jodiehenry4334 5 жыл бұрын
Sending tons of happy vibes your way! You got this, Kayley! (HUGS)
@allisonsykes8851
@allisonsykes8851 5 жыл бұрын
Kayley I just found your channel last year and I love the way you shine! I am so sorry about what you’re going through. I always want to seem perfect too and hearing this really helped me realize it’s okay it not be okay! Thank you for sharing and also thank you for making videos and inspiring me to get creative and have some fun with my hair and with my life!
@kellyrollins5246
@kellyrollins5246 5 жыл бұрын
Kayley, I’ve been watching you grow since you started. I’ve used your Christmas hair tutorials for years. I’ve learned to braid with YOU in my bathroom. It breaks my heart to see you grieving. Time is the greatest healer. I’m glad you’re getting support from family. Keep doing what you love because it will make each day easier. Love you 💕
@catherine_dong
@catherine_dong 5 жыл бұрын
Making sure you're okay always comes first-that said, it's wonderful seeing you again 💜
@crystgh
@crystgh 5 жыл бұрын
Amidst the painful parts in life, family and God are always with you. And so are we, your subscribers, we love you! ❤️
@lisaalexander5186
@lisaalexander5186 5 жыл бұрын
You are awesome Kayley and so strong! I have watched your videos for a number of years and I have always loved them! Your content is amazing, but your fun, bubbly personality is even more amazing. Thank you for being real in a world that is so fake with people pretending to be things they are not. I appreciate you. I wish you the best. You will do great in whatever you do! Hugs!!
@sarverkaveney
@sarverkaveney 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your honesty. Just being honest, in and of itself, makes you a better role model than you can imagine. You deserve a life of love, health, and happiness. Making choices to care for yourself every day will get you all those things. Your fans (me included) will always be here, whether you post once a month or 3x/wk. Best wishes for a much better 2019! May you be well.
@elainesutter5761
@elainesutter5761 5 жыл бұрын
So many good vibes and prayers being sent your way!
@kuchareczek
@kuchareczek 5 жыл бұрын
You deserve support :) I wish you all the best! You don't have to be perfect, no-one is!
@amberprice6331
@amberprice6331 5 жыл бұрын
Hugs! Life is always unexpected, as much as we plan we never have complete control. We do our best and as long as we doing that you will know you did what you could. I cant even wrap my head around how hard separation is so needing time is understandable. I maybe newer to your channel, I came over after seeing you on Tati's channel, but have really enjoyed watching you and am excited to see what you have coming up. Glad you are going to doing what makes you happy! You are truly an amazing person!
@carolinefreak
@carolinefreak 5 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear you are going through this but I am glad to see you have a lot of support from the people around you as well as online (and lets not forget your amazing dog). Please don't be so hard on yourself - there really is no such thing as perfection - we just end up driving ourselves crazy chasing an illusion.
@renaterondeel2794
@renaterondeel2794 5 жыл бұрын
Im so so sorry! Please take care of yourself first, we can wait. You are perfect the way u are,u are good enough!!!! Pippin! You rock puppy🐶you take very good care of you're mommy.
@syene5739
@syene5739 5 жыл бұрын
You’re amazing!!! Don’t think you’re a failure for going through something so hard. If anything, this makes you so strong, and an amazing role model! It takes an amazing person to do what they think is right for both parties and split up, and I have so much respect for you over that! Also, just the fact that you didn’t explain why things happened out of respect for your ex is something that you wouldnt find out of alot of people. You are so strong, and you deserve every bit of support that anyone can give. I know things are beyond hard, but you got this! If you need anything, we are all here for you ❤️
@dudawanderer8907
@dudawanderer8907 5 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️ - just all the love. Thanks for sharing, and I am so glad you’re feeling ready to come back.
@13swimchick
@13swimchick 5 жыл бұрын
Oh Kayley I am so sorry you are going through this! Just know that things will get better with time. Stay strong and take time for yourself it is the most important!
@gracedispoto9542
@gracedispoto9542 5 жыл бұрын
Take all the time in the world to make sure that YOU are happy! We all love you and we will be here when you decide you're ready to come back. Sending you lots of love and support
@thenightingale3347
@thenightingale3347 5 жыл бұрын
Oh Kayley stay strong! You dont have to always be the big sister or the role model, be yourself and happy :) im sending you lots of love from Slovenia Also Pippin is amazing, props to him
@charleemcneil3531
@charleemcneil3531 5 жыл бұрын
Been watching Kayley for YEARS while and my heart breaks watching this! You're so beautiful- inside and out- and deserve so much ♡ even at our lowest, we are deserving of love and happiness but trials are meant to make us grow and you have all the tools needed to do that. Can't wait to see what this new season on life brings 💗 "For I know the plans I have for you. Plans for your joy and goodness"
@diibadaa
@diibadaa 5 жыл бұрын
I actually found you today and have binge watching them. I think you seem super talented, your videos look awesome and they are some of the most inspirational hair videos I've ever seen. This video is now at least 2 months old so I'm sure you have healed a bit. I just want to let you know that people still stumble upon your channel and follow you cause' your videos are good. So it is good to give yourself time and make better quality content. Thank you for this video even tho idk much about your ex and life at all. It still shows you're a human.
@meganclaire3651
@meganclaire3651 5 жыл бұрын
You’ve got a whole bunch of people rooting for you and that will be here whenever you’re ready. Take any time you need. We are here for you.
@theqashah
@theqashah 5 жыл бұрын
Dogs are the cutest. As soon as you started sobbing Pepper seems so concerned. I lowkey want to adopt him ❤
@marykeerasmus4817
@marykeerasmus4817 5 жыл бұрын
The Qashah my dog does the same. They sense your sadness. So precious ❤️
@vanessawilborn7825
@vanessawilborn7825 5 жыл бұрын
We love you, Kayley!! You’re one of my favorite youtubers. You introduced me to Kristin Ess products and showed me a lot of hair tutorials I use on the regular! Thanks for opening up and being transparent! I love it!!
@juliajimenez7162
@juliajimenez7162 5 жыл бұрын
Huge hugs Kayley!!!! I pray you find comfort and peace knowing that you are enough just the way you are. May God bless you and be with you always! ❤
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