WOULD YOU EVER FORGIVE YOUR PARTNER IF THEY SLAPPED YOU OUT OF ANGER???? Comment Below 👇 Follow Our New Instagram Page: instagram.com/lifelessonswithluisinsta
@leahphipps84992 жыл бұрын
i might, ik that people can change but most of the time, i wouldnt because if they have this problem, they need to work on themselves first
@no.idkmyname2 жыл бұрын
Nope
@_melanyy.12 жыл бұрын
Nope
@User-qc1lz2 жыл бұрын
Nope
@liyana85312 жыл бұрын
No because you never know what it might lead to in life
@ns40222 жыл бұрын
It’s ok to be angry but it’s not ok to assault others. Thank you for this life lesson, Luis!
@shelbymitchell18282 жыл бұрын
Violence should never at all be the answer 💯 👌 😴 😒 🙄 🙂 as it is about talking it out
@needles19872 жыл бұрын
I'm glad that Brian got help and acknowledged that he needed it. Something that most abusers refuse to do.
@Cadillac192 жыл бұрын
The way the husband sincerely apologized to his wife and wanted to get her second chance made me tear up. He needs that second chance to be there for her. Please, Luis, make part 2 of this.
@beckykennedy68862 жыл бұрын
Moral of the story: Don't jump to conclusions and learn to control your anger.
@onlinetruth99792 жыл бұрын
Moral of the story: tell your significant other about something like your cousin coming over ahead of time
@teeman75592 жыл бұрын
@@onlinetruth9979 exactly
@beckykennedy68862 жыл бұрын
@@onlinetruth9979 that too
@lifewithniyah9882 жыл бұрын
Ok but she really made it look sus but he didn’t have the right to hit her…
@APOLLOO1112 жыл бұрын
Imagine tho
@leahphipps84992 жыл бұрын
this is a good message that only you have control over yourself. i dont have anger issues, but i get stressed when im not in control, so this was a good video!
@Seahawks.prodz112 жыл бұрын
I used to be the same way but then I started going to therapy for a couple years and it got better
@Seahawks.prodz112 жыл бұрын
@Kelly Jarno Boy Wth Boy
@iliana73472 жыл бұрын
@@Seahawks.prodz11 GN,
@natinamack51232 жыл бұрын
So, out of stress, when you're not in control, how then do you behave when things are out of control?
@steppasteps12 жыл бұрын
@Kelly Jarno what the f- why did u put that link I was curious csn please delete that comment
@NikkiGRocks4Ever2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Luis for another great story. Everyone gets angry. It is how one handles the anger that matters. Brian finally realized that his anger controled him. Therefore he admitted his faults and obtained help for his anger issues. In the end, it sounds like he conquered his past demon and can go on to a good future.
@dianalayne83242 жыл бұрын
As Brian grew up only seeing violence that he thinks that's the only way to deal with situations and it can be so hard to control your anger but I never think it's right to hit someone ,you just have to try to control it ,great life lesson Luis .hope that someone watching this will learn something ..
@blazingswordsman54102 жыл бұрын
You’re right, and I blame his abusive parents for how he turned out. In life, I learned that parents are kids greatest influence.
@dianalayne83242 жыл бұрын
@@blazingswordsman5410 so true .
@BenPeter-mi8cp2 жыл бұрын
Bro i once hit my wife.she overreacted all the time i do a mistake.my first experience was that when i made a coffee she didn't liked it and wasted it in the washing base. I was never felt this much humilated in my life.there are many incidents she acted like this.but all limits all crossed when she said she wanted a gucci bag bro it was like 5000 pounds.like my 2 month whole salary.i said we dont need to pay that for a bag thats too much then she said "go ask your sugar mama she will give it" i blasted off and slapped her in face.thats how we got seperated and now iam single.as i said its acording to situation how your anger is
@supermanfan31132 жыл бұрын
@@BenPeter-mi8cp pick your partners carefully man
@tienkhong34272 жыл бұрын
You just Got a new sub
@LucotIC.2 жыл бұрын
"This isn't a war, its an award show" *You can't spell award without war*
@basiIlll Жыл бұрын
ad lol
@12388-c4 ай бұрын
L O L 😂
@laurashane62282 жыл бұрын
It's awful that Brian realized how much of an anger problem he had by knocking out his fiance's cousin and actually slapping her hard enough to knock her down, but at least he did finally get help.
@blazingswordsman54102 жыл бұрын
He should have gotten help earlier so that way he would still be in the military and be married to Vanessa.
@laurashane62282 жыл бұрын
@@blazingswordsman5410 true, but at least he did get help before something even worse had to happen.
@nickcurrie_2 жыл бұрын
And sad too. He only grew up in an indifferent way as why he thought it was ok to do.
@hammer-02 жыл бұрын
@@blazingswordsman5410 you know most people don't realize they need help until they look at the damage they could cause
@golpogil41272 жыл бұрын
Help Is not something that should be Achieved Help is something which is to get from Your Friends family His family treated him like shit Now I've anger issues with the police And I'm angry with brian cause he got dishonorably kicked out from the server
@missouriprideusa62412 жыл бұрын
Ladies, there is no excuse for a man to beat you, even if he did grow up in an abusive household. He could have broken the cycle earlier. I'm going to tell you young girls starting to date that I told my daughter. The first time a man hits you is the last time he hits you. They'll apologize and say they won't do it again, but they will. Watch out for the warning signs of abuse. If you're not sure, Google it, especially if this is your first time dating. Even though you're dating, it's not the same as being married. Ladies, you are still your own person, your own individual. If a man starts to put you down or call you names, don't stand there and take it. Stand up for yourself as as it starts. Don't ever let a man refer to you as his bitch, his ho, his old woman, his whatever. You are not his property. My ex was a little abusive and when we separated, I told him that I will not tolerate being abused nor will I tolerate any vulgar names. And when I mean I was abused, he didn't hit me everyday, but did cheat on me and call me names. The sooner you nip it in the bud, the better you'll be. If he really cares about you, he'll stop. But if he doesn't, break it off, walk away, and don't look back. Don't take him back, no matter what he says. Ladies, we are better than this. Men are abusive at times and it's not because of the environment they grew up in, but sometimes I feel like that because women have made so much progress for working and equal rights, some men, not all, but some men feel like their masculinity is in danger and that's why they act like assholes. To preserve their masculinity.
@dylanobrien97752 жыл бұрын
people can change tho-
@iknowwhereyoulive94972 жыл бұрын
(When it’s the other way around nobody bats a fucking eye. Don’t they? Oh a woman beating a man? They’re probably just playing around. Stfu woman moment + ratio + useless femminist + no male partners + touch grass)
@chenoriyekakay83802 жыл бұрын
yh true
@stealthskater56742 жыл бұрын
@@dylanobrien9775 it depends on the person brother First and foremost and secondly there is a difference between toxic masculinity and positive masculinity and someday when I bring up boys of my own I'mma a teach them about positive masculinity I came from a mom and dad that were toxic and psychologically abusive but I broke that cycle early especially when I found God at age 25 People can change only if they want to change but if they don't want to change then it ain't going to happen Food for thought and God bless 😇✝️🙏😇✝️
@dylanobrien97752 жыл бұрын
@@stealthskater5674 yea. But in the video he said he wanted to change so I believe he wanted to.
@ConcertgoerJ.R.2 жыл бұрын
That slap wasn’t staged at all as far as the award show was concerned, that was a real statement, I lost respect for Chris Rock for talking smack about Will Smith’s wife but I was also disappointed in Will Smith for slapping him, no self control whatsoever! No one should slap anyone for anything!
@nicktubara2 жыл бұрын
Dude hè told a joke that was his job, and no malice intended on his part.
@lilxtasy49362 жыл бұрын
gi jane 3 cant wait to see it
@ConcertgoerJ.R.2 жыл бұрын
@@nicktubara On an award show? I don’t think so. Besides it wasn’t that funny whatsoever!
@natashanicholson79572 жыл бұрын
I lost all my respect for Will Smith. Im not going to see any of his movies ever again. I have a lot of respect for Chris Rock. My mom told me that the joke about Jada Pickett Smith was written by someone else and Chris was just repeating it
@stephaniebaez71282 жыл бұрын
Yea but there was also things that Will Smith’s wife did that a lot of people lost respect for her so it wasn’t just Will Smith and Chris Rock.People have said multiple time that Jada (Will’s wife) had embarrassed Will smith on a bunch of movie’s that came out with them+ people have said that in their relationship that She was messing around with other guys(but i think from what people have said,they had a “open relationship” but i don’t know for sure). you don’t have to believe me but i’m just saying from what i have heard.And if Will Smith’s wife was super pissed about what he said then SHE would have spoken up for herself and did something about it, because it was like when all that happened Will was laughing but it seemed like Jada said something that made him do that, so are Will and Chris the only people involved? No. So Will Smith’s wife is NOT as “innocent” as people make her out to be.And plus, Chris is a LITERAL COMEDIAN, i mean come on he always does that kind of stuff nothing new, and all Jada did was “🙄”. So if Jada was so mad she would have done something, because let’s be real, women can stand up for themselves perfectly fine, Apparently she cannot and needs someone to do it for her.She is a grown ass women ,i think she can do that JUST fine. So please stop acting as if she couldn’t do anything about herself and is only five. She needed Will to do it for her,and that is saying something.
@totaldomination72692 жыл бұрын
Going to a therapist and getting help with my anger was the best thing i ever did for myself
@deborahwood70892 жыл бұрын
Wow, the ending of this hit me in the feels. It put a lump in my throat and tears in my eyes. Very powerful.
@Alanboy3952 жыл бұрын
The day you raise your hand to me is the day our relationship ends, no exceptions.
@SethBrundleify2 жыл бұрын
I grew up in an abusive household and I NEVER hit any of my gf's. Not once.
@JustinMacri0072 жыл бұрын
That's the point we never knew what Family we will be born in to
@jonathanlee27942 жыл бұрын
Poor Darren for getting beaten up just because he is the cousin of Vanessa. Darren really didn't get a chance to introduce himself when he took a beating instead.
@Wrestlingnerdlife2 жыл бұрын
Love how the video starts off with the Chris Rock and Will Smith situation
@anwarnice122 жыл бұрын
We need to learn to control ourselves especially when we're angry because when we're angry we do things that we may regret later 💯.
@EternalOCE2 жыл бұрын
all i can say is luis has the best videos and thank you for teaching us all these valuable lessons and what not to do towards our partners, girlfriends etc and just overall giving us very valuable life lessons
@BarneytheFridayDino12 жыл бұрын
The lesson is don’t jump in conclusions and don’t let anger get in your way
@BubbaRottweiler2 жыл бұрын
What Brian did was wrong, and nobody appreciates that kind of behavior. Well, he did send an apology note to Vanessa, trying to work on himself. That reminds me: I have anger issues myself (it came from my parents and stress issues), but I try to deal with it myself. I express it through journaling, walking or talking with someone I trust. And hoping that things will get better. So this video teaches me a valuable lesson -- control your anger [relax], and things will go well for you and you will live a better life. Thank you for uploading this, Luis. I really appreciate that very much. :)
@galwiththebraids2 жыл бұрын
I see what you're saying with this video about the recent event at the Oscars. Mr. Smith had some anger issues and didn't need to react that way. He could've walked onstage and asked Mr. Rock to stop telling jokes, and people would still have seen him defending his wife. I am glad someone still stands up for their loved one's honour, but it could've been handled better.
@xxmunriztzxx30732 жыл бұрын
It's weird seeing Luis getting abused, I've really never seen that. Kind of coincidence that the guy at the start was also called Brian
@bryanevans40362 жыл бұрын
You're almost at 1,000,000 subscribers!!!! Keep up the good work, Luis
@derpyt47252 жыл бұрын
Best one ever, I could imagine the guy being older version of me with problems
@sheilagallegos87842 жыл бұрын
OMG!! Yes I love the beginning with the slap and I enjoy your videos Luis I don’t have anger issues but that was scary he was so angry. But I’m glad he went to anger management classes and dealt with his emotions of when he was growing up. Thank you for sharing this is with us . So many ppl out there with issues that they need to deal with. Great content Luis
@superdragon11012 жыл бұрын
When I was a kid, I BRUTALLY beat up a kid for trying to hit my mom at a party. Most of the parties I went to before I turned 10, were the type where kids do violent horseplay!
@Kitkat.-.-2 жыл бұрын
Here’s one thing why is the boyfriend so creepy looking?
@Packgodjunior-c1f3 ай бұрын
Fr fr 😂😂
@Kitkat.-.-3 ай бұрын
@@Packgodjunior-c1f STOP THIS WAS TWO YEARS AGO I WAS REACTING TO WEIRD STUFF WITH MY COUSIN
@Ellyanor-f9b2 ай бұрын
@@Kitkat.-.-😂😂😂
@elytrumiАй бұрын
@@Kitkat.-.-LOLLLL
@rips142 жыл бұрын
I totally understand this kinda situation been dealing with one and yet many are still silent about it. Lucky are those who are in a country with proper law n order.
@arvellataylor97842 жыл бұрын
Abuse Hurts I Know It Dose,It Hurts Mentally, Physically and Emotionally and Violence is A Horrible Thing and (I'm Sorry)Dose Not Fix Everything, But This is a Great Lesson Luis.
@chickennugget16352 жыл бұрын
Amazing videos sending positive messages keep making them Luis your so inspirational and amazing!!! 🧡💚💛
@julialouiseproductions69242 жыл бұрын
Love your content! Awareness for PTSD
@JessicaMarieLove12 жыл бұрын
Really great story my problem isn't anger though its my stress I wish I could control being stressful so much, Thank you for the video you did great as usual
@danielacanto94212 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Real and raw reality of wat some go through.❤️❤️👍
@BrandonCiCi2 жыл бұрын
Your videos get better and better Luis. And you’re almost at 1mil subscribers. Keep it up!
@MrBookworm012 жыл бұрын
Brian: *writes in letter that he's not trying to get Vanessa back* Also Brian: *writes about how he fantasizes about her still wearing his ring (creepy) and leaves his number* Really didn't like how Vanessa WAS still wearing the ring of her possessive psycho ex, since it gives the implication that she WILL go back to him. Even if he got help, I don't see a relationship ever getting past something like that.
@Trxpzkj2 жыл бұрын
oh nice that actor is back I remember him from the dirty cop drug episode i loved his acting i would absolutely love to see more dirty cops videos with him in it
@danielacanto94212 жыл бұрын
Really good one. Many do go threw this. Very good lesson here.👍👍 You have such a good heart Luis. ❤️ Nice video and . Realms d raw
@piano_arts33722 жыл бұрын
Plss do a part 2! Left me on a cliffhanger lol.
@junivanofdragonia2 жыл бұрын
8:37 HONESTLY!!! True. Brian would've been charged with DV for what he did to Vanessa. And A&B for what he did to Vanessa's cousin. BUT what Luis got half wrong/half right is the military part. Seeing his uniform. He looks like a ghetto Marine. So, Brian would've been Court Martialed. And would've been charged with DV and most likely: • loss of rank • forfeit of pay • and/or dishonorable discharge. • and serve a mandatory sentence anywhere from 60-120 days in luxurious (USDB) _aka,_ Fort Leavenworth.
@junivanofdragonia2 жыл бұрын
Not truly guarantee. But, the military looks down and from the statistics anyone charged with DV has had to serve a sentence at USDB.
@lynnejohnston89222 жыл бұрын
BIG THANK Life Lessons with Luis for another fantastic video i can't thank you enough for all the hard work you put into makeing all these videos 💯 percent in all your videos you are absolutely amazing.👍🏻👍🏻👍👍👏💯
@soccerarena41292 жыл бұрын
Thanks for giving us nothing but the best content ever on this channel keep it up we are with you in prayers
@jasminesmith13112 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this ☺️
@high162002 жыл бұрын
Hi Luis, I'm impressed that you always have new and unique content and this is very realistic, this kind of jealousy is very common in relationships. Wonderful video that I enjoyed watching. Thank you for sharing this life lesson. Be safe brother !! ♥️♥️♥️
@savannahmcdonald18552 жыл бұрын
yo i just wanted to say real quick, this dude puts so much work in his videos man. I used to watch dhar man and I felt he gave a message sort of but definitely not as much as Luis.
@antoniogirgenti97382 жыл бұрын
Like Yoda said: Anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate, leads to suffering.
@ChristopherCapersJones2 жыл бұрын
The moment he slapped his wife was the moment the divorce was instant!!
@blazingswordsman54102 жыл бұрын
Vanessa was his fiancé so it’s actually she broke their engagement.
@atworkstation4 ай бұрын
No question about it.
@bhavanijayant5264 ай бұрын
So dude basically slapped Dua Lipa
@FMGJ1MMY2 жыл бұрын
I'm 11 and have anger issues and your videos help my problems so thank you 😁
@mzvetta96012 жыл бұрын
Hi *Luis...* Interesting Video!! Thanks For All The Weekly Uploads! And Keep Up The Great Work! 🤗💖
@KekeChannel02152 жыл бұрын
It's never okay to hit someone. Brian growing up in an abusive household couldn't help with his mental state. There are ways to control your anger and if you can't get help immediately.
@DailyLives22 жыл бұрын
Luis never disappoint us great work Luis keep up the great work
@WarpedMCYT2 жыл бұрын
7:42 wow this sure did teach me a good life lesson life lesson: never start beating people you see in your house
@stevenbrashear34082 жыл бұрын
The moral of the story is to always get the facts and never go off of assumptions. Otherwise, you could end up destroying a very beautiful thing. Also, anger can be extremely dangerous if you let it get out of control.
@PatriciaR.E.2 жыл бұрын
I agree. It can & often times does lead to death. Women that stay in that situation, either believe that they deserve it, or that because he apologizes, that it won’t happen again; but it does again & again! Very sad!!
@stevenbrashear34082 жыл бұрын
@@PatriciaR.E. very true. However when it comes to domestic violence, it doesn't discriminate based on gender, let alone race, sexual orientation, age, etc. Anyone can be a victim as well as a perpetrator of it. Therefore, it is always best to bring awareness to such matters. And lastly, striving to be part of the solution as opposed to the pollution.
@nylaxeila57172 жыл бұрын
I wish there was a part 2
@harvdagreat81442 жыл бұрын
Thanx Luis great vid bro great lesson💪🏾💪🏾
@hafsahriaz67762 жыл бұрын
Love your content luis thanks for the video
@anweshapaul70132 жыл бұрын
The actress looks like Dua Lipa!!
@Stargalaxy1234-c4 ай бұрын
Yeah, she looks dua lipa sister.
@pinky_artist_072 жыл бұрын
I love your videos! Keep up the good work♥️!
@GauravSingh-qc4gx2 жыл бұрын
Appreciate your consistency u r on trip but still uploads video
@mirraaa.w2 жыл бұрын
love this!! need a part 2
@vanessavieux72832 жыл бұрын
Azming video sending positive messages have a super day have a awesome day have a nice day life lessons with Luis
@Rictube232 ай бұрын
Life lessons are always the best. Between of, Dhar Mann, there is always light, and Luis Mercardo, there is always dark.
@zach71932 жыл бұрын
Man, this reminds me of Abusive Wife Beats Husband. Luis was handed by Brian, then Vanessa comes in and gets slapped by Brian because he thought that Vanessa was having an affair. Funny how they had the slap of Chris Rock by Will Smith to start the content.
@julietteplonsky44752 жыл бұрын
OMG I NEEEEED A PART 2!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@TANAPHELICE2 жыл бұрын
Baby… that slap! This is why it’s best not to assume. Guess it was a huge lesson and an opportunity to reflect and grow.
@phonebackup82802 жыл бұрын
Wow, sooo great, but where's the ending? Ahhh!!! 🥺🥺😍😍😪😪
@richellejackson55732 жыл бұрын
Lol my dad watched that meme its everywhere
@silvialogan9226Ай бұрын
I understood that Brian had abusive parents and was abused when he was younger and he had angry issues, but hitting is not the answer.
@Sosa_Makenzie2 жыл бұрын
I love you Luis keep up the good work ❤️
@goomerkiller84522 жыл бұрын
you're the best video content creator you're the best at what you do
@maddmichael10702 жыл бұрын
0:16 this just became a meme
@masonkline26442 жыл бұрын
Violence is never the amwser
@Ellyanor-f9b3 ай бұрын
Sometimes it is 😂
@Zeno_Sama15007 күн бұрын
In self defense yes
@fatimapina8112 жыл бұрын
Your consistency and quality of content never disappoints 💝💝💝
@themoongirl22242 жыл бұрын
This is why I don't like abuse. Abuse can cause depression, break-up relationship and suicide.😟 And violence is not a best way to solve situations.
@Whyamisomisrable122 жыл бұрын
This was so good Luis wow
@katrinaperea8380 Жыл бұрын
Even though this is just a video, I like how he’s walking around outside without a cover on and his hair is out of regs😂😂
@peter_flames142 жыл бұрын
Even this video got the Will Smith thing🤣🤣🤣
@waheedakhan69362 жыл бұрын
So good 👍
@calebguelcher2 жыл бұрын
This is a good lesson to control your anger
@epicgameryash97952 жыл бұрын
Best video till now
@robertinoyanzanny2752 жыл бұрын
Real good video, I hope Will Smith and many other people with anger problems see this and seek the appropriate help for a better future.
@markeemdavis45652 жыл бұрын
I love all your videos I just woke up and I’m already on your video and I just wanted to say you inspire me to do KZbin one day
@golpogil41272 жыл бұрын
Ok I'm crying cause you Reminded me that I'm single
@milisarkar97492 жыл бұрын
No Clishe Ending..... loved it 🤗
@ivisyung30882 жыл бұрын
Moral of the story, What kids see us do is completely normal way of behaving to them. So how we set the example while near children as adults will change their behaviour when they are older
@DAMONDANIELS2 жыл бұрын
He must have watched the Oscar’s
@imobsessed8182 жыл бұрын
Yea probably 😂
@varshabidur72182 жыл бұрын
"Omg yes hell yes " that caught me laughing
@carly54622 жыл бұрын
Love your videos ❤️
@imobsessed8182 жыл бұрын
Same 👌🏼😎
@itsmemarie2 жыл бұрын
you don’t just go around to slap people because of your insecurity crazy 🤦🏽♀️
@caylasimpson69142 жыл бұрын
You shouldn’t jump to conclusions you don’t know the whole truth and if you have any issues that stem from childhood get help for them don’t let them take over.he really needed help for his anger issues because hitting people is not okay or violence he didn’t even let her explain.everything isn’t how it seems.
@frxmed27432 жыл бұрын
bro smacked the water bottle☠️☠️☠️
@mr.pawstoons60032 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣will smith just killed it
@kylehshulkpage3202 жыл бұрын
I think twice before hitting someone but this man immediately hits
@susanchretien5702 жыл бұрын
I understand that video completely been there and they call that ancient Orange when they have memory blackouts God bless her that she didn't seriously get hurt
@mildredthomas66402 жыл бұрын
Thanks for telling the truth.
@alceratops68532 жыл бұрын
I was thinking _Is the woman aboutta get Will Smithed??_ and then they showed 0:13! I LOLed
@karthikv1379 Жыл бұрын
What brain said during the 1 minute was absolutely true
@ImgonnabeaStar-dh3hu7 ай бұрын
Frr 😂
@kylasird46002 жыл бұрын
I love you so much you are my biggest inspiration 💗💗💗💗💗
@vongvbaddrivers2 жыл бұрын
8:08 this had more plot twist than Jerry Springer 🤣
@jamicaparty28602 жыл бұрын
The bad bf looks like a combination of Bruce Lee and Jim Carrey!