I Thought There Was NO Hope For Me Overcoming Obstacles Life Over 60 With Sandra Hart

[@ud5n]

Hi Sandra! I am 27 and I love this channel because young people don't have mentors, yet we are constantly criticized for not having our crap together. Thank you for being here 😊

[@EileenDuhey-kh4qe]

Hi Sandra, I just lost my husband this week he had Alzheimer’s was 96, I’m 79. Thank you for your inspirational videos, you do such a great job reaching out to us… it helps. Best wishes.

[@lindadupuis1531]

So sorry for your loss. ❤

[@bhargavimalapaka827]

Very sorry for your loss ❤

[@livingdoll3445]

Hi from Annie you are an incredible person and been thru such trials yet come out the other side still able to smile and be happy. It is not easy to do and I really do admire you, your family is lucky to have such a wise mother and grand mother ....I could adopt you for my mum too.... Happy Mother's Day it is coming up this weekend here in Australia I think the rest of the world celebrated it too but may be different times.... I have not seen my daughter and grand kids for almost 10yrs this May and it really is saddening it is heart breaking I pray so much that things will come good hope always to see them soon, I do not get greeting from them on Mother"s Day or Birthdays of Christmas or Eater not a word at all and I have no way of contacting them at all as they changed address all the time and email and facebook blocked mobiles changed etc, I have no other family that is what makes it so hard, and friends all too busy with their families no time for me either if I did not text them first I would not hear from them basically so it is very disappointing as you trust these people and they let you down you feel betrayed at times by this world and those in it you never expect to feel that way about close friends and family you expect them to be steadfast and true and loving.... I try to overcome the sadness but reminding myself to just live in the moment

[@Santana-i5u]

I'm so sorry for your lost my condolences to you and your family.🙏🙏🙏

[@anneschwecherl2001]

I am very sorry for your loss. And I agree with you about Sandra’s ability to help us find hope in whatever we are facing. May God bless you and give you strength during this difficult time. ❤️

[@laurenv2003]

This was beautiful Sandra! Thank you so much for sharing your very personal story. I've struggled with severe mental illness my whole life and I've lost countless people I love because of it. I've even found myself wondering lately if God even loves me at all because I've felt so alone. Your message gave me a much-needed kick in the butt to stop giving in to self pity & your reminder that God loves all of his children, no matter their struggles, truly helped uplift me. I thank you from the bottom of my heart & send you so much love!! 🥰💜💜💜

[@bobbiewilliams5101]

Sandra, a marvelous lesson in something my father always said…..” No one gets out of this life unscathed. We will almost all go through something. Your character is in how you handle those times, what you learn from those times and who you choose to become after those challenges.” His words have stayed in my heart always. When my mother went through cancer, I learned so much from her about living with grace and dignity. When I lost my dad, I learned how very much his strength was his love for his family. When I watch you, dear lady, I get a “ refresher course” on grace and strength. I draw on these lessons often and they are by my side guiding me through life. Love your wisdom and your willingness to share with us. Have a beautiful week.💕🌻

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Bobbie, thank you so much for sharing your wonderful thoughts with all of us today. I truly agree with you.

[@dancingkay2604]

Your Life story would make a great Thriller Movie! And speaks out on Mental Illness!God Bless🙏🏼

[@debrap947]

Thank you Sandra for the reminder that a bad day does not make a bad life. It doesn't bother me so much that I am aging, I just turned 65 on May 5th, it is that I truly have felt invisible as an aging woman. BUT I think that is all a part of the process, the season of life that I am in. Now that my children are having children and those grandchildren are now in their teens I don't feel needed, job done so to speak. I have learned to change my thinking in a way that I challenge myself daily to do something productive or creative. I am sewing again, I walk every day, and as long as I am able I remind myself to move, get up, and move! I have to live this life, I get to decide now, what I do. Raising children as a working single mother, and later on doing daycare for grandchildren, life just happened and it was busy. It isn't that I am not important, or valuable it is just different. There has been a tough learning curve in my 60s...but I truly am grateful that I am here...many are robbed of the privilege of aging. God bless you Sandra, hugs!

[@debbie1504]

Thank you, Debra!

[@bergannon6585]

I celebrate my 65 in July. Words of wisdom from my beautiful 103 year young aunt are, " Never let an old person into your body". I decided to age with plenty of colour, in my dress wear, jewellery etc. Look on it as a whole new challenge ❤ and enjoy ❤

[@debrap947]

@@bergannon6585 Great advice Ber! Funny you say that. I am doing just that, getting dressed up, putting on makeup, doing my hair up, just to go for a coffee with a friend or run errands, doing it intentionally! Happy 65th Birthday in July. 💐

[@bergannon6585]

@Debra P Thank you, Debra, doesn't it feel great. Lol No apologies needed, I am what I am. X

[@debrap947]

@@bergannon6585 Absolutely! Feels great. 😀

[@2EternityButterflies]

Dearest Sandra. When I came to your channel, I didn't know about your stalker and what you went through. I am so so sorry you went through this in your journey. You have truly helped me in so many ways. And I am very grateful. Some years ago after I left an abusive marriage of 36 years I met the so called man of my dreams. I ended up in a very bad situation by giving this man my trust. Long story short I ended up in a captive situation sleeping on an air mattress for a year and a half next to a guard dog before I was rescued. Sometimes, we don't know the people we think we do. I am so grateful to God for my life. Thank you so much Sandra for all your help here. It truly means a lot.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

I am so happy to hear that you were rescued from the nightmare you probably were living. Thank you so much for sharing your story of survival and courage with us. Sometimes we don’t know the people that we think are good for us.

[@jennywren8937]

I am moved by your experiences, but know that you are made stronger and will have happiness ahead. Wishing you all the best.

[@lyn9291]

What an incredibly strong woman you must be to have survived that. I wish you all good things and also the strength to reclaim your life because YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY!

[@Gypsygirl9]

Hi Sandra. What do you think about doing short little interviews now and then? The subscriber here wbo shared that she was kept captive by her husband or boyfriend and slept on an air mattress..that made me think that I bet there are many out there with very unique stories. If they wanted to share it could be great. Possibly even therapeutic and helpful❤❤

[@terryKessler42719]

What a special person you are to overcome the obstacles that you have. Many blessings to you and I admire you for sharing this horrendous story with us.

[@rrhines3151]

Sandra, how ironic that you were “my” Romper Room teacher and our paths have crossed again. You continue to offer life lessons and advise & teach… What you shared today is quite poignant. Regardless of your challenges, which were significant, your perspective and ability to “make lemonade out of 🍋 lemons,” is both humbling and awesome…. No one would wish to revisit or experience what you did… I have, as all do, experienced a number of life experiences. I feel my life might be a dramatic Lifetime movie… that’s nothing to brag about; some things were my poor choices and others were completely out of my control. Today is a new day. At 68, I continue to learn, pray, and be the best person I can be for today. As my oncologist said yesterday, “take one day at a time. Look where you were a year ago.” Ladies, if we look at the big picture, helping others is a huge boost to ourselves and the others whose paths we have crossed! Thank you, Sandra, for your videos. ❤ A big thank you to our community here for encouraging each other. 🙏🏻

[@anneschwecherl2001]

Your heartfelt words are beautiful and inspiring! May God bless you with perfect health and much joy throughout your life ❤😇

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you so much for your message to all of us, and as a proof to your survival and bravery. I wish you much good health and happiness in your journey,

[@luannstewart9031]

Your words speak for many of us as we go through this life learning as we go. Prayers to you for your health situation. ❤

[@vickylee5579]

My husband had Viral meningitis 1996. He almost didn’t make it. He was the breadwinner.I had to be the breadwinner from then and on. I had Septic years later and I almost didn’t may it. I also had to have an aorta surgery and I have tubes running from it to the tops of my legs. Now he has cancer for the fourth time. It’s in his Adrenaline gland above his only kidney. The other was taking out from cancer. It’s just to much sometimes. But we’ve made it through all this together.❤

[@rrhines3151]

@@vickylee5579

[@beverlystickney]

I grew up with a schizophrenic mother and nine siblings. Even as a young child, I came to know, and accept the fact that beneath all of that there was a mother with the heart of a lion for her children. I watched her struggle for moments of clarity which she very often and frequently had. I had a burning rage towards those relatives who did not rescue us from our home. You dear Sandra, are filled with mercy and grace. This is some thing that I sadly lacked in my formative years. I spent a lot of years being angry. It’s no surprise that I went on to become a mental health professional. Thank you for sharing your story . It touched me deeply. Yes, the human mind is capable of so much perseverance and resilience.I really liked hearing you mention about your parents generation . It’s true they were stoic they just went on with survival. This fact that I came to realize this later in life, helped me reconcile the fact that no one intervened, and allowed us to grow up with this situation. My father was the buffer, of course, but he was a major enabler. There was an unspoken code of ethics in our home. Don’t tell and don’t feel. We all have our own degree of woundedness. I thank you for your bravery and your courage to share your story. You are an Overcomer, and you give hope and promise for all those people afflicted by mental illness . You bring light. ❤

[@janebrady1389]

My mother always said get moving ,take a shower and put one foot in front of the other and move on!!! It has worked for me in my 77+ years and hopefully will help someone else 😅love to the SH family 👍💕🙏

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Smart mother, Jane!

[@deirdrevaughan5078]

@@lifewithsandrahart 5:28 5:28

[@deirdrevaughan5078]

Dear Sandra , I’m struggling now,as my Mam who has Alzheimer’s is living with me. She is nearly 91 and has completely taken over my life . I try my best every day 😉

[@deirdrevaughan5078]

She’s killing me …

[@deirdrevaughan5078]

Thank you Sandra 😘 you give me hope ❤ sometimes you just need some one to tell you to buckle up , in the nicest way . I’m just tired……

[@vixxcottage]

Being a victim as a teenager changed me but I never let it define me. I went on to build my life with challenges at times. Cancer 20 years ago. 2 years ago broken/dislocated ankle with Dr saying amputation. Thank goodness even though I walk with a brace/boot I still have my leg. I am now home but spent a year in a wheelchair with multiple surgeries at other places. I say now they will have to pull me kicking and screaming to get me to leave my home. I am on my 2nd or 3rd act now and trying to enjoy every day.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Vicki, good for you! Never give up!

[@earthdogpj1]

What an amazing story and I admire your honesty. Your generation was more silent than the newer ones. My biggest regret is not getting my mother to share more of her history with me. She would always say, “ That was the past” and I didn’t know of her adventures or feelings or really much of anything until after she died. It was my father whom shared all sorts of things with me about her upbringing that would have given me clarity and more compassion towards her. Silence isn’t always Golden!

[@YardleySlicker]

Hi Sandra When I was away at college my brother who was 23 passed away unexpectedly from complications of drug and alcohol abuse. We had loving parents who did their best to help him get the mental health treatment he needed, but he just couldn’t find his way. I went with my mother to see his last psychiatrist - my mother was struggling to find away to live with this. The woman psychiatrist told her, “ Organisms who don’t adapt, die.” Not the warmest words of comfort, but direct to the core issue. When I go through hard times I remind myself to go with the flow - even though it was not what was planned or expected. Looking forward to next conversation, as always.❤

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you for sharing about your brother. That must’ve been so hard on both you and your mother, but in a way it is up to the person to except and try to overcome. Very sad reality.

[@seventhchild7270]

YardleySlicker....that quote from the psychiatrist" Organisms who don't adapt, die"....This is a lesson to learn from animals also!......But it's true...like it's been said "if you don't swim, you'll sink !

[@naomiferreira8255]

Happy Tuesday Sandra. What doesn’t break you makes you stronger. You are a strong woman. I have faced many challenges, too many to mention, but each time I ask myself “why is this happening FOR me” and leave it to my creator. HE has a master plan for each of us 🙏❤️🤗

[@lifewithsandrahart]

So, true, isn’t it?

[@artistcarolyngrace1711]

Amen! Yes HE does

[@MyrajoL.heart.withART]

Learning to breathe. Trying to live in peace in a world filled with tumultuous people. Taking a new look at the misfortunes in my life as a learning scale. Trusting in the great I AM to restore all that was stolen. Keeping my eyes looking straight ahead. Thank you again.❤

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts Myra.

[@sandradee7484]

Thank you, Sandra. I’m sorry that your husband was your stalker. I cannot fathom what you endured. What a testimonial! I had Scarlet Fever in the early 1980’s, when I was 16. I had to stay home from school in quarantine. Luckily my friends were understanding and didn’t abandon me when it was safe to get together. Unfortunately, my chemistry teacher felt differently. When I returned to class, she was wearing a mask and made fun of me. I had no one who could tutor me while quarantined, so I failed the class that semester. I wish I could find her now, because I work at a research lab for physics. God bless you for sharing your story and wisdom.

[@ioanafilipescu2327]

Very inspiring story, Sandra! I truly love and appreciate you. I’m a 24 young lady from Romania, Eastern Europe. Yes, indeed, we, the younger generation, are looking for guidance a lot, this is how we come across channels like yours here on yt♥️ Thank you so much for your words of wisdom and encouragement. Both are very much needed🙏✨♥️

[@louiseparisotto3630]

With my challenges I've asked "What am I to learn from this". I'll cry for the first day or two and I don't apologize for that but think it's healthy, then know it's time to 'move forward'. Is it easy? Hell no! Is it rewarding to come out the other side having learned something, having become stronger and more self aware? You betcha! This video is a great lesson and I'm sorry for what you had to go through.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thanks for sharing Louise

[@nomprenom7949]

Dear Sandra , I’m 38 years old and I’m grateful for the wisdom you share with us . Hugs from a Moroccan in Texas 😘

[@carolcaruso6641]

Bless you for your encouraging message! I heard on a podcast that a sense of purpose is so important as you grow older. It suggested that mature women who have lived through lifes challenges have a mission of being a "torch bearer" leading and enlightening those behind her in age with her wisdom that was given to her from experiencing life. In my life thats one of my purposes and its so important. And you, Sandra, epitomize this to thousands!!! We are lucky to have you. Thank you for sharing.

[@anneschwecherl2001]

So beautifully said! ❤️

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Having a Purpose in your life truly is the key to happiness in my opinion.

[@Jaxxie1981]

This video brought tears to my eyes. I am 42 years-old and am beginning to realize how short life can be. I told my husband the other day, "we've been together for 20 years now, and it seems like we have a lifetime of shared history, and at the same time it doesn't feel like enough time." I feel like so many people my age have parents and grandparents who came up during a time in which it was considered inappropriate or weak to share past struggles, but your wisdom is so very much needed. I see so many young people, half my age and younger, who are so despondent and angry. They need hope.❤

[@Roadie247]

The best video I’ve seen in a very, very long time. Thank you! I’m 48 and I’ve always valued and treasured wisdom of other women. The first I can remember is my great grandmother. She lived through so much and I remember soaking it all up. Again, thank you for sharing your wisdom ❤. God Bless.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you for stopping by and washing today Stephanie. I really appreciate your kindness and sharing your thoughts. Have a beautiful day.

[@starduster6687]

I have said for years, this life is a testing ground for what God has for us during and after it is over. God bless you Sandra, keep on what you are doing.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you and blessings your way

[@virgierutledge3004]

It is Earth School. We keep coming back until we learn the lesson.

[@susanniciejewski5447]

Thank You Sandra. I’m new to your group. I just wanted to thank you for your positive outlook on life’s challenges . I really needed to hear this message. I’m struggling because my 7 year old Grandson has just been diagnosed with a rare degenerative uncurable disease called Battens disease. This is breaking my heart. Also my 66 year old husband has just been diagnosed with Parkinson’s. We all have struggle in life and I just have to learn to be strong and take each day as it comes and of coarse to listen to your uplifting messages

[@EC-yd9yv]

🌹🙏✨

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Susan, I am so sorry that you have had such heartbreaking news about your sweet grandson and your husband. Life does give us challenges. My prayers are with you and your family. Blessings your way.

[@tweetybird4347]

❤

[@sallysmith8081]

Susan, I'm sure your heart is certainly broken. You must and will find a way to get through these challenges. Within my grandchildren, I have two little grandsons, 4 and 6 years old. I can't imagine how traumatic it is for you. Wish I could send strength to you. My best wishes and prayers to you, Susan.

[@susanniciejewski5447]

@@sallysmith8081 thank you Sally for the kind words and thoughts. Most people even doctors have never heard of Battens Disease because it’s so rare.we Pray everyday for a cure or at least something to slow the progression down. You have Grandchildren so I know you understand. Sandra helps me when I listen to her advise and lessons in life💕

[@janetsharpe7071]

Thank you again Sandra for your words of wisdom and encouraging video. You inspired me to go on that holiday and see the sea and here we are. Our first day after 13 years ago my husband had a heart attack at this hotel after being mugged and had a bypass operation but try to be positive like you and after recovering from cancer and losing our daughter we are still surviving. Faith and prayers for all here who are inspired too by you 🙏🥰

[@lilajtblue]

Thank you Sandra for talking about 60ty and over. I never thought I'd be here. Divorced and single. I'm a survivor of Domestic Violence and Abuse. I want to read Behind the Mirror. I too was stalked. Twice in my life. Good for you for caring about women like me. Mental Health, victims of violence. Just because we suffer from this, it doesn't mean we're crazy, our spouse's our parents and people of authority that sexualized me. Manipulative and Narcissistic personalities. I face challenges in my life and others. I want to protect them, I've been there already, I don't want them to die.

[@aunties5798]

Sandra, thank you for sharing your personal journey. I am in my early 60s and my ex husband had Mental illness and addiction issues. I went through hell with him. We eventually separated and it's been 15 years and I thank God for his faithfulness. Much love from Canada. 😊

[@lifewithsandrahart]

There are so many women with similar stories, unfortunately. But we are the lucky ones that survived.

[@quidquop]

Sandra, you are a lovely and gracious woman! It's certainly true that this world is full of trouble. I truly appreciate your comforting countenance. I'm a 64-year-old, never-been-married woman. No kids, no family. I have C-PTSD and am currently "Cold Turkey" with benzos and anti-depressants. I can honestly say that this is a very tough time in my life. I have hope of coming through this because of my faith in The Lord Jesus Christ. He never leaves us or forsakes us. I pray, that in the not-so-distant future, The Lord will put me in a situation where I can help and encourage others who are facing difficult life challenges. Sandra, your warmth is wonderful! Thank you for being such an encouragement to us!

[@fionas4774]

I'm 61 and it's only now I'm learning how to live my best life with love ❤ and discernment. Kindness is all that matters. People matter the most. Respect and love. I resonate with you Sandra.

[@TheBeautygarden]

Thank you, Sandra. I knew your story - read the book and loved it. My favorite moment was when he was dragging you down the stairs and for the first time you decided to fight back. You went on from there to build a good life for your children. Brave!

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you so much for reading my story

[@gsand07]

I believe that overcoming the challenges, heart breaks, and rough times in life gives us wisdom and substance for the service of helping others. Suffering teaches empathy and makes us less judgemental toward others. When you revealed that your stalker was actually your husband, my jaw dropped! Wow! Sounds like your story could be a very interesting movie! Thank you for these videos. Looking forward to each and every one of them.❤

[@lifewithsandrahart]

So true

[@ld3507]

'...nothing is written in stone and nothing is forever...' my motto!! I think sometimes when we have to make a decision, we look at it from the perspective of it's final. Life is fluid, pure energy and when we understand this it makes it doable, at the least, to ride the wave! This is my experience, anyway. And you're right. We are the storytellers. Life experiences are to be heard. Thank you Sandra, once again🩷💛💚 You are very much appreciated 🙏

[@LindaSmith-xo8qb]

Couldn’t agree with you more Sandra. We have to reassure younger people life is all peaks and troughs, you will go down in life but you always rise again. Without hope life is very over whelming. Xxx

[@elaminkakoom4828]

You acquired your grandeur from your humbleness

[@dianawright6285]

A great video. At 87 I see many young people around me with mental health problems. You are right they do look to us to give advice. BUT we grew up in a society that said get up and help yourself and that advice does not go down well with this generation but it is still the BEST advice.

[@anneadkins4403]

My every day is a challenge for me. We are out of work due to physical injuries. So we are living on God's grace. My daughter stopped talking to my hubby, and I. So we are grieving over that. Thank you for great advice.

[@joyce7310]

Thank you Sandra.I sometimes ask myself if I could take one pill to erase all of the bad things that have happened in my life, from my memory, would I? I don't think so.They have all helped me to learn and to grow.❤

[@justintindall9515]

Why is it so important to share? I grew up with my mother's brother, who lived with us, and hardly shared anything. Mom and Dad hardly anything. ❤

[@글쓰는부엌]

At the first time, I watch your video to learn English, but I want to get hope and wisdom from you now. I lost my all money, health, and my hudband will get important surgery next week. I believe in God, but life is so tough for me. I don't know how to live in hope. I get many comfort from you. Thanks 😊

[@1212salsera]

Our Creator has put me in very challenging situations since my childhood. By overcoming each one as they came, I became strengthened to take on the next bigger one. About 10 years ago, I took on a legal situation against a city all on my own and eventually won BUT that really almost killed me mentally, physically, spiritually, emotionally. I am still in recovery mode and making strides. NO ONE who was going through the issue with the city was prepared to take them on. All my previous life challenges made me uniquely qualified to do it. I saw that clearly.

[@mariaaquije8169]

Good morning dear Sandra ! I understood life isn't perfect since the moment I met my mother when i was 15 years old. I just didn't feel the motherly love in her words or actions. I was raised by my grandmother when I was little. The few years I spent with my mother I went to school and graduated from college. I left home soon after. Today, my relationship with my mother is better. II think she was bipolar but she was never diagnosed or treated. My experience made me a stranger person but I don't hold any grudges towards her. I am a woman with strong faith🙏. Thank you and God bless you Sandra 🙏

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Maria, power of forgiveness is one of the strongest powers in the world. Your mother is truly blessed to have you in her life.

[@colinandrews1118]

Life is the need to keep well and keep going happily. Love Colin

[@amandaalfred4372]

Hi Sandra, I am indeed grateful for your words of encouragement since I've found your channel five months ago. Today I am happy you shared your experience of what had happened to you as child, it has really touched me because I dont know of anyone who had the same illness, even though everyone's case is different I see hope. I am now grown to an older adult mid age but all through my life I had a phobia remembering what I had gone through as a child. My faith in God and his goodness is what made me stronger over the years. Keep up the good work. Love from the Caribbean 😊

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you for sharing Amanda. Best of luck to you.

[@joymerriweather7229]

Hi Miss. Sandra. The journey I'm on....Breathe..... I never thought I would be in this place. But like you said my creator knows best. I blessed because I have a dear friend who has been on my journey with me. Last year I thought my life was over. As a matter of fact I wanted it to be over because I couldn't take the pain anymore. It took about a month for me to realize I needed professional help and I checked myself into a hospital. It was the best decision I ever made. At first I was apprehensive buut once I was admitted I received the best care since my mom. I still struggle. But I'm studying the bible, learning the teachings of Jesus. I have a support group. I have my dreams of being a writer, returning back to acting. Having my own business. Maybe finding love. I'm at the walkway of 60....Breathe....I'm on journey waiting to see where I end up. Leaving it in God's hands. By the, I remember 'Romper Room!' That's amazing! Thank you 🤗❤🙏🏾

[@kimdurant2217]

I'm stunned! You never know, just looking at someone, what they've been through. I too have a strange and tragic story, though very different to yours, but God brings us through these traumas stronger and wiser. What the devil means for our destruction, God turns around for good. Blessings, Beautuful Sister! ~ Kim.

[@lorisandison765]

Thank you. I now believe we're given our lives for a reason. Some of us are given more challenges than others. If we choose to rise above them afterwards, we have much to learn, and in this way we can contribute better. I no longer say, why me, but instead say, please help me through this.

[@donnageesey9508]

You are a true BLESSING, Sandra! Your videos are so mature, and are presented with such class and dignity. Thank you for sharing every Tuesday morning. 😇🙏

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you so very much

[@julianterris]

Hi Sandra, thank you so much for sharing your story about your stalker. My ex-partner from two decades ago recently vandalised my car -and left a note -in her handwriting -so that I would *know* that it was her. I understand your predicament all too well. I'm so glad that you survived it -and wrote about it. One of the most important things we have to offer our children is our experience, which is why I am working on an autobiographical novel I hope to finish/publish this year. TYSM for being you 💮

[@bettymaugeri7316]

Bits and pieces of your story resonate with me - your message is an uplifting one! Thank you Sandra 🙏

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you, Betty

[@debrarusso330]

Storytelling has been such an important part of our history and evolution as humans. I could not agree more that we owe it to younger generations to share our experiences and the lessons we learned. This is quite different from living in the past or refusing to accept inevitable changes in societies that are part and parcel of adaptation. As an elder I love to share and feel it is also my responsibility. I enjoy contributing to the conversations on your channel because it is fun and meaningful. Thank you dear Sandra ❤

[@noraalvarez5433]

Thank you for sharing your challenge with this community. You are truly a hero.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you very much

[@sharonmchari269]

Thank you Sandra for sharing openly. You demonstrate choosing Divine Compassion over Fear

[@MManela1]

Thank you so much for this wonderful moment of Love…Wise words … and Life! Grateful 👩‍❤️‍👩

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you so much

[@teresayocum5463]

Thank you so much for sharing Sandra,I am going on 4 years of being my husband's caregiver,he first had a massive stroke,and then a heart attack...I'm doing my very best to stay positive,loving and kind,he doesn't walk,accept to transfer with my help....this is a tough life,but I am so grateful for my faith❤

[@myrnaedmisten599]

This is so important, Sandra. Knowing our stories help us to make sense of ourselves. Telling our stories can be scary to us but so important to share. Well done!

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you so much

[@dianebondhus9355]

Good morning Sandra! You're absolutely right, our experiences shape us into who we are. How we look at, process and react to those experiences affects who we become. Looking for the good and encouraging others helps us rise above the circumstances. Thank you for sharing with us. ❤

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Diane, thank you so much for washing today and sharing your thoughts about our conversation.

[@dianaanson4506]

You make so much sense. I think it is important to ask for guidance from our mothers, Father and grandparents. Not so much advice but guidance. They have most likely lived their life and in doing so have much wisdom, stories to share. If you just listen a few minutes, give your time, your life and heart will become so much richer. Your soul will find its balance as well. I just adore your channel. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. God bless you!

[@angelapriddy6308]

Oh dear Sandra you are helping so many by sharing your story Thank you dear sweet one. May you be blessed!

[@artistcarolyngrace1711]

Thank you Sandra for your wonderful and inspiring video today! Overcoming these challenges in our lives- you give so much love and hope to us all with your Tuesday conversations about “real” and daily issues and how you’ve handled them through your life and that we’re able to survive and thrive these hard times where the rubber meets the road. Blessings! Do something wonderful for yourself today too😘👏👏Love you so much

[@sheilacirioni4676]

Life is full of good, bad.Right now we are having a time of hardship& hubby is very sick, don't know what it is.Meanwhile,bills upon bills are coming in..in the thousands. He still goes to work swollen, & in bad pain. I love this man& it kills me to see this.I think of his pain& i get scared, & anxious& lost.I will be strong,but i am 15 yrs older. He is 60 next month & I 75 in July. Sandra,pray for us& we will for you, & others.🙏❣

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Shelia, I am so sorry that you are going through this and your husband as well. Life sometimes seems very cruel. It’s hard to put a positive spin on things that happen sometimes. My prayers are with you and try to stay positive.

[@brianree00]

Lovely insights. My partner is 40 years older than me and I can’t imagine life without her. Your videos are quite inspirational and encouraging.

[@Casper-jx1zd]

Sandra! Your awesome and beautiful! I grew up watching you on Romper Room. My favourite part was the magic mirror. I never understood how you knew our names. You are a shining pure ray of warm golden light 🌟✨🌟

[@AMERICAFIRST54]

I think you're right, mental health or the lack of is one of the biggest problems we face today. You're such a kind soul.

[@Sarymarsite]

Dear Sandra, your introduction is so real and I want to add we, the young generation and even younger than me, now 35 and a mom; look for content such as yours to learn but also admire and wish to become when we age, really as you do with grace, down earth, wise, an eternal young spirit, and I can sit here to praise of how many good things you show through a camera and for sure in real life, it would be such an honor to talk to you. I may be the generation who still looks and respects our boomers and beyond. I used to visit a home and talk to a former teacher when I was in HG. I still believe we have and must do these kinds of practices, and reach mentors to learn from. After all, you have walked the road and there is a lot to share. Hopefully, the younger generation can get fascinated as I do with content like yours. You give me hope of how a woman must live aging gracefully until we cross the sky to meet God. You are a beautiful woman inside and out! Thanks for what you do, love and so much respect. :)

[@michaelmclean3237]

May 1 was the first anniversary of my husband's death. It was a shock because the oncologist said he had 4-5 good years left. But then covid came. In that year I lost the support of my church, (had to move away and and move in with my daughter and granddaughter) and now am living in very difficult circumstances. I also lost all contact with my parents, 3 siblings and their families. My friends still have their spouses and find it difficult to relate. I must now leave my home city that I love dearly and move far away. I know the Lord is always with me but it is frightening. I have never been this alone. I now see your tremendous courage and I am praying for my faith to grow as yours clearly has.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

As long as you have your faith, you must know that you are never alone, and your path will be one that has been chosen for you. Keep up your strength and positivity where you are right now is not necessarily where are you going to be tomorrow or a year from now. Blessings and my thoughts are with you.

[@winter_storm635]

Thank You, Sandra ❤ I just turned 21 and my last teenage years in high school happened during the covid... I relate to you so much, I felt so lonely, focusing only on my grades and exams- because nothing was really left. Everyone around me kept saying that high school will be the best time of my life, that I will make long-lasting friendships, go to parties. While all I did was seeing everyone on Teams/Zoom and even though I always considered myself as a social, open person- those 3 years really destroyed my ability to connect with anyone. I can't really describe that pain especially when I see most people my age getting along with each other so well, and I feel I lost those 3 years of experience in relationships in high school. Thank You for those videos, your experience gave me hope that anything can change, that I can change and that it's all about learning the new perspective. Lots of love from Poland 💕

[@Iam_Celene]

I’m 23 and have learned so much from your channel. I might be getting married to a childhood friend and I’ve been talking to God about it and we struggled together in school and I wanna be that soft place for him. He told me he’s so gonna wife me up. He’s adorable. He and I were talking about middle school and I told him when I had scoliosis it was tough on me because girls were very judgemental and I told him how it was hard to feel beautiful and he told me he always thought I was beautiful with my brace on and he says he remembers how nice he was to me and it just warmed my heart

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Best of luck to you.

[@Rita-bw3wh]

Good morning dear Sandra, just like you I have overcome similar situations in my life. And again I have a big challenge to survive. You are an inspiration for me to make it again. Thank you so much for your books and your channel here. Please keep it up. 🙏💖

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you ever so much Rita. I always enjoy hearing from you.

[@cynthiahurlburt2819]

A wonderful message of hope,strength, and grace from above to sprinkle on lives of others as our paths cross. Your example is beyond measure.❤ I can not imagine the life of your dural personalities of the love of your life and the final outcome for him. Mental illness is difficult. Frontal temporal dementia stripped the life of my spouse and left scar on the entire family. We accepted the challanges and moved on. As i once shared, we buried him with glass shaped hearts and gave him to our Heavenly Father. Challenges come ,we meet them with God guidance. My youngest child was diagnosed with Schizophrenia during his college years. Path forever changed and challenges continue ,but God is our rock. Each new sunrise brings beauty and joy with strength from God who holds our right hand and goes with us through the storms of life and sees us through to the otherside where renew of love is abounding, like filling up at a gas station. 🙏 ❤ 🕊

[@shiningstar5408]

Thank you sandra for being an inspiration to us. My jaw drop as well when you said that your stalker was your husband. Mental illness really is in the forefront of our society right now because we're scarce of people that think holistically everything was fragmented but the truth is everything is connected. We have to take care of our environment because without it we're nothing.. We are fortunate to have this community, a group who empathize, undestand and willing to learn and by learning we keep on growing..

[@kathrynblock357]

"Romper Bomper Stomper Boom(?)" as I recall it and your Behind The Magic Mirror kept me spellbound for years, Sandra Hart! ❤ Finding your website many years ago was wonderfully serendipitous for me. Thank you SO much! 😊

[@nancystinger7393]

Thank you for sharing some of your life journey. You went through such a horrible traumatic time in your life . Life certainly doles out very challenging circumstances. I suppose we find out how strong we are . I look back and so often think how did I overcome what I did. I still have hardship with my sons addiction but I am becoming so aware of what so many young people are going through in these current days and it’s making me a more compassionate empathetic person than I ever was. I know God sees and knows everything and guides us all through out turbulent waters. You always bring us to a place of provoking our thoughts and life journeys. We all need to not have secrets . May we all be vulnerable and through that help each other . Many blessings in your day Sandra . ❤️

[@Elizabeth.RMartin86]

Happy mother's day thank you for your wisdom it's a special 🎁 and the sound of your voice is soothing

[@barbschmidt3723]

I lost my mother to cancer when I was only 14 years old. It affected me deeply, and I had to grow up very fast. I've learned to cherish every moment because life is short. Enjoy every moment.😊❤️

[@motivemystic]

Wow, this video really hit home for me. Thank you for sharing your story and reminding me that it's never too late to find hope and overcome anything that comes our way.

[@vpwb]

Thank you Ms. Hart! God Bless You Always!

[@loveliveholistically]

Wow Sandra, what a life...Thank you so much for sharing.

[@AnnalienMatthysen]

Hello Sandra, thank you for everything you share, I'm learning so much. I'm from South Africa and turning 66 in August. Blessings love Annalien ❤️

[@sharoncavanaugh979]

I also had rheumatic fever as a child. They called it scarlet fever. Infact. I missed so much school I had to repeat 2nd grade. I couldn't complete the school year. I have led a very healthy life since then. In fact, I feel blessed with great health. The United States does not address the mental health issue. I know from personal experience. My little brother suffered from mental health issues with no help from medical professionals or law enforcement. His way out of the suffering was "death by cop." He was shot and killed. I attempted to get him help but was told I couldn't do that. It had to be his doctor or law enforcement to recommend taking him in for evaluation. I see it every day in the news. I knew what was going to happen, but no one would listen to me. We need to get serious about the mental health issues in our society. Let's not wait until a tragedy happens. We need to be proactive, and when someone tells you someone is a danger to himself or others...listen. Thank you, Sandra, for sharing your experience. I can't wait until next Tuesday.🙂

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Sharon, I agree with you so much. Your brothers life could have been saved if it only gotten help. We have to change the rules that do not allow us to help those who need intervention and medical mental health treatment. I’m so sorry you lost your brother so unnecessarily.

[@judementz-gibbons6730]

Hi Sandra - what an amazing, compassionate, brave and positive person you are. An inspiration. Thank you for being you.

[@Vivian-nv9hb]

Thank you Sandra! We had two baby girls who died in infancy. We adopted a daughter and a son and have three beautiful grandchildren!

[@lifewithsandrahart]

So sorry for the loss of your daughters, but what joy, love and opportunity you gave to your 2 adopted children! Thanks for sharing.

[@TeaRose9]

Thank you Sandra so much for sharing your story. I’m so sorry for what you went through with your husband. You sharing your story helps me to feel less alone because I too went through a horrific marriage with a toxic abusive narcissist sociopath and I always feel so alone because most people don’t understand and people blame me , the victim, they ask “how could you marry someone like that “. I have struggled with forgiving myself for forever since that marriage. That mistake I made of marrying such an evil man has destroyed my life and even worse, my children’s lives.

[@concettaalcorn686]

Another wonderful message as I have recently written to you about losing my Granddaughter, it is an overwhelming loss but I know she is watching over me . I know your story as I have been with you for quite a while and loosening Arthur is a one day at a time thing for you as it is for me .Thank you again for all your wisdom ❤

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you so much Concetta. You are a very special part of my community.

[@MariaRodriguez-we3dh]

Sorry for your loss. Much love to you ❤❤

[@claudinaromero9080]

Thanks Sandra for all your videos and sharing your life experience. They make us feel that we are not alone on these challenges

[@lyn9291]

Hi Sandra. This is only the 2nd video of yours that I've wayched, so I didn't know your background story at all. My jaw dropped a couple of times, not only because if the dramatic events of your life, but also becausr similar things have happened to me. I also got very sick as a teenager and had a husband with mental illness as well as a stalker. In my case, I had to leave my husband as he was endangering my baby and me. I made the decision to refrain from dating so I could focus on her and providing for us. Eventually I was able to buy us a home. Then the stalking started... some strange man coming on my property, on my deck to spy on my daughter and me. My ex drank himself to death and a year later my daughter got pregnant. I am now helping to raise my granddaughter. I am so tired and I am afraid I may have become a bit cynical about people (especially men), but your video has breathed a little hope into my life. Thank you for caring enough to share your story. ❤❤❤

[@Santana-i5u]

My dad had rheumatic fever as a child. Sandra thank you, I've learned so much from you. Life right now is hard for me no family, children or friends since my husband's passing. But i know im not alone your such a blessing to many.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@lifewithsandrahart]

I am sorry you’re going through this lonely. In your life. I hope you can reach out to others who may be feeling the same way you are. You will find new connections and new friends. It’s another chapter for you.

[@Santana-i5u]

@@lifewithsandrahart I pray so it's a very lonely existential for show. From your lips to God's ears. Thank you.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@thewisepowerchair2369]

PT I am in the same situation: no family, children or friends. But the 'friends' is by choice.

[@ForestSageStyles]

Wow Sandra. Im a fairly new fan and hadn’t heard about your past very much. Thank you for being 0:06 so vulnerable. It is inspiring to me to hear how you survived and thrived!! God bless you. 😊

[@jmdsservantofgod8405]

We are loved and we are never alone!

[@plotwhisperer5502]

Hi from Northern California, Sandra. I just came upon your channel and I was instantly drawn in. First off, when you mentioned Romper room...I teared up, remember watching re-runs of Romper room, while my mom did things around the house and it filled my heart with joy. I also needed some words of wisdom, I'm 48 young at heart and sometimes, I just want to redo my life over again and make different choices, but life goes on and all you can do is not make the same mistakes, learn from the old ones, such as not finishing college, which I am doing now and just moving forward and do things that make you happy in life .I.e reading, painting, being out in nature and doing things that are of service to others. I'm not the type to marinate in feeling sorry for myself...I just get on with it and find joy in life, even when things global or locally are too much to mentally and emotionally handle. Anyway, enough with my ranting. Thank you, for your words of wisdom and I wish you lots of love, happiness and joy.

[@wendykornfein3337]

I enjoyed your conversation with us. I will try and extend myself to younger people with helpfulness. Thank you, Sandra.

[@lagatita19801]

Im in my earlies 40s I love to listen to your conversations Thank you! ❤

[@samirasharmeen1124]

There's so many things to learn from you. Love you ❤ @Sandra

[@bablybhat5498]

Hi Dear Sandra, your words are pearls of wisdom for all those who have been crushed under the wheels of destiny. Your suggestions and advices turn out as drops of nectar for dying ones. Though physically we are alive but emotionally we hv been pushed to the dead corner of life by our misfortunes, for the last one and a half year i hv been listening to your kind n compassionate words. Thnx for being there for all of us. May almighty provide you with lots of good health and happiness. Always waiging for your pearls of eisdom.

[@marilynmalone7238]

Sandra ,your such a Wise woman and I love hearing about your life , I remember you as a child and I loved listening to you then and now as a older woman still Love listening to your advice ! You've been a constant reminder Life can be Beautiful ! God Bless llll

[@lorettafreeland2219]

You are a blessing keep sharing your words are true !

[@susantaft6873]

Happy Mother's Day to our Romper Room Teacher who continues to teach and guide us even today. God bless!

[@susanmason3432]

Giving back is healing. Thank you Sandra.

[@lisamorring922]

Sandra Thank You for your encouraging words, Kindness Matters be Blessed 💙💙🕯🕯🕊🕊

[@jaym291]

Hey Sandra, I turn 25 next month and cherish your guidance, and as someone with various mental health conditions, thank you so much for raising awareness and doing all the good you've done for so long!

[@themiskoteck2355]

Thank you Sandra for sharing your life story with us .

[@TravellerDM007]

This session is particularly powerful and authentic. Blessings all around! Thank you, Sandra