LILITH IN LIBRA | A time of deep honesty

Some transits just give me goosebumps! And this one draws me in, as it illuminates how we are spilling into new forms and recognizing ourselves in new ways. I am diving deep on wild dreaming, the big energies moving through each week, and tarot readings over on my cozy Patreon! www.patreon.com/sarahvrba
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Song: "The Still Midnight" by Eden Avery
Chapters:
00:00 Intro
02:13 Lilith the archetype
05:23 Lilith in astrology
09:17 Pay attention to your preferences
12:03 Listen to your QUIET intuition
13:39 Leaving behind the familiar path
15:30 The pauses are where something is happening

[@ryapappaya]

Sometimes on my walk to work, I tell the trees "I have a sorrow" and they say, "we know love, you are doing well"

[@RhondaWimmOfficial]

What a beautiful thing. Blessings!!!

[@pb11118]

After receiving my AuDHD diagnosis in my 40s I've realised how much Lilith energy I resonate with. Going back through the trauma of my life, the patriarchy harmed me so bad. My psychologist didn't even pick up on the signs. I was just labelled as 'crazy' & depressed. Medical professionals gaslit me due to the gender bias in the biomedical model. Even accessing diagnosis is a privileged position due to the expense. From childhood to having my own children men abused and discarded me. Used me for their own gain. I'm celibate now & have so much compassion for what I went through. Still processing it all. Funnily enough my overarching word of the year for 2024 was/ is 'Sovereign'. I feel so much empowerment now. Thank you for this conversation

[@pb11118]

My preferences are 'psychological safety'

[@RhondaWimmOfficial]

Hi @pb11118, A long time ago a wise person told me to never own the diagnosis I was given. That person was so right and I carried that message for decades. Over the years it has been attempted to diagnose me with bi-polar, Dissociative personality disorder, Depression, Chronic anxiety, and the best one yet schizophrenic! I could not help laugh at that one. I mean come on! Really? Hence I never own any diagnosis except perhaps a broken bone with the proof of an x-ray. lol Seriously the medical machine is more destructive that it is therapeutic in many ways. My nervous system is quite unique and it has weathered many storms and has reacted in tremendously severe ways. No need to label it. I stopped doing psych meds in 2020, with which caused me to have a stroke as a side effect of stopping the meds. The more I trust myself and accept my body knows what its doing the better I am, the faster I heal from trauma and the more balanced I have become. It's not only the patriarchy that is dishing out the blows. My mother, a master covert narcissist has traumatized her children and grandchildren on all levels, which in turn caused my male and female children to be abusive to me as you have experienced. I hear your pain.. I acknowledge your pain. It is recognized. Honor it and allow it to release. Blessed be.

[@marcymurrell688]

Same. 😢❤

[@Sarah_Vrba]

This is such a powerful and important story! Thank you for sharing. As a member of the neurodivergent community it makes my heart so happy to hear stories of others finding their own version of peace and sovereignty!

[@lesliekarl3594]

Your first few sentences are my story as well; I just got diagnosed AuDHD 2-3 weeks ago. I also used the word "Sovereign" in a deep convo with my husband yesterday evening. Did I just find my tribe? 😁🥰

[@katherinewalters9928]

i love this and thank you. i have been brewing over the idea that this time may be very catalytic for anyone struggling with addiction, sex/love/attachment addiction specifically.

[@christina7561]

I've also needed a lot of space to feel, connect and integrate. It's been a lot coming up. Transformation and change do indeed come with uncomfortable feelings, resistance, fear even if it also comes with hope, optimism, positive energy and empowerment. It's making space for it all without judgment, labels and over analyzing - sinking into the heart never felt so scary and yet so exhilarating!

[@artbyhansa-tckm]

Incredible! 10:56 "Preferences..."! I was listening but for a few seconds before you said 'preferences' my mind had wandered to an upcoming afternoon event and I was thinking 'I want to do this particular way of being then and that's my preference'. The next thing I hear you say is 'preferences' so I had to stop and write a note. I almost always say if I comment how on point you are sometimes literally and your voice your words share a clarity that is much needed. I very often watch your videos more than once because I know how my mind wanders and sometimes I am completely focused and sometimes it dreams so I make sure to watch again to pick up anything I may have missed. Thank you, Sarah, many blessings for you to continue to do the work that heals and confirms and renews.🙏

[@RhondaWimmOfficial]

Hi Sara, Thank you for your vulnerability, openness, feminine grace and so much more. You have touched my soul deeply. All of you young souls coming into your grace and spiritual power and sharing it has such a wonderful effect. After 60 years of holding the torch for all of you lovely souls I feel relieved to be able to "Pause," as you say, step back and allow the next wave to come in and take us all to the next level. I grow tired from the journey as I pass to all of you the baton, the torch, the message. Much love and luck in your journey.

[@fr33bird.33]

I love your energy. You and how you’re holding your cup and the colors in the background. All so beautiful 💚

[@down-to-earth-mystery-school]

I came out as non-binary about six months ago, and tomorrow will be my first Pride festival - for me. I am not even close to being the same person I was in 2016. Thank you Sarah, your chats are always so nurturing.

[@AriElfyn]

Congratulations on owning and claiming your identity! And enjoy the Pride festival…oh you’ll love it! I will never forget when I lived in Madrid, which has a thriving gay community in a beautiful barrio called Chueca, and the European Pride festival was held there (Infinitamentegay was the name, haha. It was around 14 years ago and long before the days we have now that embrace the complexity - I’m pansexual but had no word for it then). It was 5 days of non-stop partying with the last two on the Chueca rooftop garden of a friend, I remember falling asleep naked in a hammock hahaha…ah dear my life now is soooo tame!! It was beautiful and memorable and magical, and I hope you feel a sense of homecoming, acceptance, and belonging.

[@Sarah_Vrba]

Congratulations! I hope you had a beautiful Pride day!

[@justjules6975]

I so deeply feel this energy right now. Thank you for this beautiful xx❤️‍🩹

[@survivalsilk2101]

sooo good! love this deep dive on lilith, the part about lilith being about "the negative space, the rest in music, the pause" rly helped me understand her energetic, thx as always sarah!!

[@iamnotthecat333]

Thank you so much for this conversation! As a Libra sun, I got chills when you said “Libra is about the space between two beings that is created whenever we are connecting.” Yes, peacemaking is an important part of the Libra archetype 🥰, and there is also so much more to it! Libra is extremely dynamic, kind of an astrological chameleon adapted to filling gaps and uplifting heavy energies to restore balance. Thus, I find Libra to be just as in touch with darkness as with light. I’ve never intentionally worked with Dark Moon Lilith, but I’ve been getting a lot of intuitive messages about this recently, including repeatedly drawing the Lilith card in my Lilifer Tarot (shout out to this beautiful deck!!!). To Sarah and the community, I do have a question: with Lilith moving into Libra, ruled by Venus… I am also repeatedly seeing Empress in reverse, hearing “can you receive the love that you give?” If you’ve read this far on this comment, I wonder if you have advice on healing the feminine energy and allowing yourself to receive.

[@iamnotthecat333]

Getting ready to journal about preferences ❤

[@loveahulic]

I’m a Libra Sun too, and your comment/message about Libra is so beautiful 🥹 when you asked the question, “can you receive the love that you give?” I got chills …I never thought of that and I almost felt so resistant…but I think that first step for me to receive is to sit with that question and really bask in that feeling of how I would feel if I gave myself that love. journaling is powerful , but most times for me, visualizing and taking a moment to meditate or sit with the feeling helps tremendously.

[@paurow]

Thank you Sarah, I realised that I've been working with Lilith quite extensively. Such a beautiful energy to be with ❤

[@sarareadscards]

Feeling the waves 🌊 ❤

[@panamamrsears]

Wow so apparent right now, I am totally feeling all of this, have taken a day for myself to feel it out. Thankyou for this video, it's scary to really listen, it's hard to acknowledge these changes when you know they effect others, x

[@elizabethlarntz2185]

Beautiful painting, Sarah! I like how you used rest in music and space in art as examples of how to listen to yourself. As someone who grew up in a very hostile domestic environment, I had little time, as a child, to hear myself. I could never sleep and had very traumatic experiences in my inner and outer world. I am finally hearing my true feelings and voice now. I found healing through painting and journaling, and lots of body movement. Your words are also so healing, and you are a beautiful Artist and Writer and Creator, Sarah Vrba!

[@nellyngigi3593]

Thank you Sarah...I really needed to hear this. Everything I'm feeling now makes more sense and I'm excited to explore what this means in my life

[@carlyavril]

Such a wonderful conversation 🩷 I resonated with so much of what you said. I think understanding yourself and who you truly are can be liberating but also scary as there's nowhere left to hide. You always help to lessen the scaries as you speak with so much compassion and gentleness 😊 Thank you Sarah 🙏

[@kashmirakaya6557]

Thank you dear friend Sarah. I'm feeling sensitive and sad too... And pretty much every else you mentioned about Lilith. But you put it into words and concepts in such helpful ways. Thank you for showing up and sharing your magic with us. 💙🌑🌊

[@cocofrog1976]

The synchronicities of this subject just hit a triad for me. I had an intuitive tell me a couple months ago that black moon Lilith was one of my guides, I found a dead crow on my dog walk this morning and both you and Kaypacha discussed this beautiful archetype in your videos this week. I am paying attention. Happy new moon in Cancer, sweet lady 🌑 🙏🏼💖 ♋️

[@Nicol_Z]

Sarah, thank you for this. I had a truly transcendent moment while listening to this video on what was already feeling like the beginning of a post mid-life Goddess (Hero’s) journey. I don’t think it was a mistake that this was the video I found to usher me on my way. You are so deeply appreciated.

[@inceelif]

How does this feel so timely and relevant? Appreciate you sm dear Sarah

[@thewanderingmother233]

Sarah, I NEEDED to hear this today. I DO feel I absolutely NEED a sacred pause of a wayyyyyyy longer time period than my habits and ego are anywhere CLOSE to “giving me permission” to do…I just might DO IT anyways! 😅🙏🏽🐛🐛🦋🌙🦄❤ I appreciate you and everyone on this wavelength of self love and transformation. It is how we help heal this wounded world…by tending a whole lot to ourselves ❤❤❤

[@mypathtopeace]

thank you so much for this. it resonated so much. needing to truly express ourselves and follow our true preferences and what we seek for ourselves not for anything outside of ourselves. im starting new expressions that feel so good, but so uncomfy as well ❤ will need to listen to this multiple times throughout the transit as a sounding board! thank u for your light ✨

[@meehee5215]

I have FELT this. The pausing.

[@RegularHuman]

You are, as always, so right!

[@BonnieJean369]

This was so on point, thanks for being you Sarah

[@michelehill6649]

This resonates deeply. Thank you 🖤

[@thewildrosewoman]

I knew I was feeling something “more” this Cancer season. My Lilith placement is in Libra. This cleared up my wondering of what the heck is going on! Thank you ❤

[@jcosmochic82]

Libra is my 1st house & I think I've def been feeling this energy 😞

[@dakinikiss9413]

Divine timing, Sarah love. ❤‍🔥9th House Lilith in Libra

[@empzdz1550]

Thank you so much for this content! I am having my Lilith Return 3:45 really validated what I have been going through the past few years.

[@DaveMathison503]

❤ I'm currently spending the summer in the Olympic National Forest on the west side of the Hood Channel and yesterday I spent the day barefoot grounding myself but couldn't shake the energy of sorrow, abandonment, and waste. My Sun is 12° Libra with Leo rising and moon in Capricorn. So comparing my sense with yours is acknowledging it wasn't about me.

[@tbeau6663]

Hmmmm. I feel stuck in a phase of limbo right now...... and desperately need those changes. I shouldn't feel like hibernating in July...... but I do. Bless you Lilith and you too, Sarah xx

[@laurapolitzki8363]

I'm so grateful for this video. Transit BML is currently conjunct my natal Pluto, heading toward my natal BML - Lilith return. Had 2 major losses earlier this year and have taken a deep dive into shadow work that keeps requiring me to go deeper. The sadness and depression right now are hard-core. Thank you! ❤❤

[@florahelix]

"A library of nourishment" should be your tagline somewhere!

[@karenc.9298]

I was experiencing this this morning. Thank-you so much for putting it in words.

[@------6ampoems]

thank you for this chat ! … lilith feels to me like moonlight on the threshing room floor …

[@maddylight5082]

Awwesome deep conversation thank you Sarah 🙏❤️

[@mariaishikawa3402]

Thank you for sharing, I have been feeling this a lot and felt a bit struggling how to see this part of myself as you mentioned, how we are structured or trained to be.

[@karinabatres3669]

Love your imagery 😅, haunted houses.

[@AdventureWithMeSB]

I have been feeling helpless/hopeless lately

[@Honey-qp6ti]

I have been said that lilith is in an unfortunate aspect for my life or something. and yes, I do not know, what to do anymore to get lucky. gemini rising, we have such hard lifes. 😢

[@dawneozz]

don’t be sad, you will become wiser and stronger in the end 🐢 ♎️☀️ ♊️ ⬆️ ♋️ 🌙

[@lesliekarl3594]

I appreciate your interpretations, especially around this sort of thing! Thank you! I feel like I am unpacking who I am, properly, for the first time at 42. The hardest part is realizing that certain people I am supposed to be close with really can't accept who I am. I seem to rub them the wrong way with my version of empathy/compassion and in turn, I end up disregulated with their unwarranted defensiveness. Somehow we trigger each other and I really don't know how to fix that, as masking myself harder doesn't work. You mentioned walking on egg shells, and that is how this feels. I have done a ton of personal development work around this relationship and just when it feels safe in some new form, it boils over again. It's complicated and heart-breaking, but at the end of the day, I have to decide how much of my limited energy am I willing to spend on this relationship that just goes around in circles. I keep asking, am I willing to love/accept myself, grieve the relationship I yearned for, move on in some different capacity and leave the roller coaster behind? After-all, there are others in my life that "get me". Thanks again for this Lilith chat! 🥰

[@lalathea]

thank you lovely blob

[@alexiamellor]

Lilith has played a huge role throughout my life, but it has only been fairly recently that I have answered her call. Your commentary on this archetypal energy is so spot on! I love it! Thank you

[@carlenec5085]

777 now 778😊❤ wildly inspired ❤

[@Sweetdevotion358]

Oh Jesus last time Lilith was in Libra was my first proper romantic relationship 😅 I’ve changed so much since that so scared yet confident about this transit 😅🙏

[@staceyfulton1183]

Thankz Sarah

[@margo5583]

I align myself with Lilith, the believe we females are equal to men. It has been said it's mythology but some think a lot of mythology is truth. Humanity has suffered because women have been downgraded. The feminine caring side and love that embodies the female has been missing because it has been overlooked by the masculine society. It has been mainly male who have dominated the world. ❤️🕯️

[@socalsays]

Love it love you

[@Deb0033]

♎️🌞♏️Asc. Totally resonating with your message…since 2015… Loving Lilith💜….while in this moment with Sirius 🌔New Moon🤩

[@ingridfulton9269]

I fell pregnant in June and my due date will be mid March, so my pregnancy runs parallel to Lilith in Libra. I can't think of a better time to honour my preferences, tune into my gut, take a new form and tap into the wisdom of the quiet.

[@magnavarre2398]

Spot on ❤

[@MsAimeeisforlovers]

My natal Lilith is in libra in the first house ❤

[@dawneozz]

this is amazingly timely for me, just had lilith return ♍️ 4th and I have ♎️ stellium 5 th 😂🎉 🙏

[@vanessasamayoa9329]

Lilith= rebellion & being true to yourself. Anyway… that’s my feel on it. My first house and my Venus are in Lilith.

[@Honey-qp6ti]

the first topic is a major topic for me atm, I feel like having to express it to people again and again and they keep trying to push me into their little form.

[@Honey-qp6ti]

I am super sad atm.

[@MidLifeMama43]

Natal Lilith in libra, 1st house. Transit Lilith will be conjunct soon. It’ll be interesting to see how that manifests 😬

[@mariafrey6190]

Heading over to Patroen now to do some "work/play" that you graciously share,! I appreciate your help! ☮️❤️😊🙏

[@bettywing52]

Thank you for your insights, its hard to find good psychic information about Black Moon Lilith.

[@sienabarbarawagner4828]

Oh, Maai!~~~❤

[@kimw3784]

I would be curious to explore/learn more about the connection between this transit and the last time this occurred. I'll be honest, 2015 - 2016 was a traumatic time in my life and I'm a bit scared about what is coming next

[@melonmelody18oz]

Lilith in Cancer PLEASEE 👹🥺

[@juliet8678]

That was totally amazing, thank you! 🙏💖 What is your take on Lilith in the houses? (She'll be transitting my 12th in Libra).

[@pialabsis3014]

Could you do another video about Lilith going deeper?

[@MsNerdsRevenge]

It is Military and the Ships.

[@SierraBuckeye]

Hi Sarah! I've been watching your videos for several months now and always find them to be quite enlightening. In my natal chart, not only do I have Lilith in Libra but it's in my rising sign of Libra. What does that mean exactly? Over the years I've struggled in romantic relationships and wonder what role this particular placement has on this. Thanks again and take care.

[@elara4955]

i’m not a libra rising but i do have libra lilith in my first house (i’m a virgo rising)! for me this manifests in being an “outcast” in many areas of my life. i also have had many struggles with unhealthy mindset towards sex and love, being oversexualized and having little power over the way i am perceived sexually. sexual trauma is unfortunately a big theme in my life (i also have saturn in the 8H lol). also, just being perceived as “bad” or misbehaving even when im not. in the myth, lilith did nothing wrong but she was damned for being true to herself. with lilith in the first house i resonate with that.

[@11Rising_Wood11]

Been working wirh her for 5 good years , councious knowing for bout 3 of em tho . The shift in libra is a bit weird for an aries like me . But ima find ma path towards 1181 😂

[@user-tc4oy6su8x]

Lilith like sedna recieved the short end of the stick Their both back with perfect memory of the past ..us men need to listen this time ...or not Free will lives in lillith! So much later in creation mind showed up doubting intuition! Now lillith has a mindful will and the earth will move We will move emote and align with the rivers flow Life's glow The mothers know The scales of justice are in lilliths hands and she Remembers everything The spiritual arrogant misogyny will recieve notice Because God loves lillith now Beezlebub be warned Libra knows spirit needs will And will needs spirit In love And peace be with you

[@------6ampoems]

this was lovely & perceptive , thank you

[@TiOnemorename]

How does this transit work with Aries in North Node? I feel the tension

[@joleengay7946]

❤🙏

[@MarisolGreeneyes]

Lilith in Gemini

[@mcsplayatease7]

Thanks for this post and your attention here-well done! Here is some additional info that might expand the exploration of those who are learning of astrological Lilith. It can be very confusing! First, Lilith is a triple Moon goddess. The one you are looking at is the third stage, Black Moon Lilith. That is the Moon’s apogee (not Dark Moon Lilith). For *Black Moon Lilith* , one can choose either the Mean (average of the math, more representative of the collective), or the True Lilith, which is unique to the individual’s energy. I use True. Both of these (Mean and True) represent the final stage of the trilogy. 1. The initial stage is asteroid *Lilith* , who was an astronaut, a pioneer who came to seed the planet. A starseed! 2. She reteated to the second stage, *Dark Moon Lilith* , which Zsuzsanna Griga identifies as the only 4th-D object in our near-Earth region - Waldemath Moon - a second satellite (another Moon) of Earth, seen occasionally as a dust cloud above the horizon. 3. After deep reflection, Lilith returns as *Black Moon Lilith* , the return of the divine feminine. I have been shown (through many many received charts over the years) that BML is aligned with the great mother archetype, the Creator who birthed light. The dark fabric of space. Here, as BML, the goddess is no longer wounded or subjugated. This is the stage we are welcoming now, grounding as we ascend. Demetra George got us started on this female trilogy. I have explored it greatly, and I have not found Lilith to be sinister, as many suggest. Her heroism and courage, her beloved status in the cosmos, is both divine and earthly. This is the higher octave of understanding that much of the old literature had not yet embraced, dealing with the residue of her ancient demonization. Just as the 12th House in astrology used to be viewed as a wretched curse, it is now seen as the numinous divine realm of unconditional love, without boundaries. Which is what I wish for you! xoxOxox

[@ZsuzsannaGriga]

Thank you Mary Clare :)

[@mcsplayatease7]

@@ZsuzsannaGriga my pleasure, wise lady

[@lesleylichtenfels1699]

Thank you for sharing ~ I love your channel but have never commented. I have lots of energy in my Libra 12th house (Sun, Mercury, Venus and Pluto) Any thoughts on Liliths presence in a person's 12th house? ❤

[@talyamatz1706]

626 likes when I went to thumbs up the video ❤ palindrome angel numbers

[@hausoflaboratories]

Hi I want to know is this for black moon Lilith h12 or it's just mean Lilith?

[@bernadettekiss7679]

Can I ask if my ascendant/ rising sign is Libra, does that mean it will affect me more? 😃

[@mishmarie4170]

I identify as a sensitive blob 🙋‍♀️