Lilly Singh Breaks Down the Difference Between a Boss and a Bawse

Lilly Singh explains how her journey with KZbin taught her how to be a "bawse" and reveals the tip from Jimmy that she included in her conquering life guide, How to Be a Bawse.
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Lilly Singh Breaks Down the Difference Between a Boss and a Bawse
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[@GilbertEffendy]

she looks super gorgeous here. hair makeup dress on point, i cant stop looking at her!

[@starxhilmie]

beautiful black woman ive seen

[@snovmantes2755]

SkankHunt 42 she's not black btw

[@SuperPineapple20]

SkankHunt 42 brown woman

[@rhtdm4me]

SkankHunt 42 brown don't frown

[@nadeem7610]

Guang Hui yeahhh she is Lovely 😍

[@AlyPicon]

LILLY LOOKS BEAUTIFUL

[@irenerosalie590]

Aly Picon LILLY LOOKS SO BEAUTIFUL 😍

[@noelaninadia5459]

Aly Picon EXACTLY WHAT I WAS THINKING!!😍😍

[@mehakgarg5948]

JB JG it's lighting

[@nicolesamai1572]

JB JG I met her in trinidad and she's pretty light skinned at least in comparison to our locals of indian descent

[@jessewynn3837]

she always does just like her personality😁😁

[@eminet2983]

Love the fact that she makes Jimmy "blush". He did not see this coming.. Cute

[@misbahailia3345]

I couldn't help but giggle ar that 😹.

[@Marisol1711]

I always say that Jimmy is too good for this mean world. Like I really always hope he doesn't read the comments of these videos bc it's always saying he fake laughs or whatever. Have you ever stopped and think that he just doesn't? Or if he does he does it for the guest to feel good? Don't you feel good when someone laughs at a joke you said? Like he is one of the few people that TRULY cares about others. He is one of the most (if not the most) humble celebrities ever. If any of you all get the chance to meet him you'll be surprised of how down to earth he is and how good he treats you even though he doesn't know you. P.D It's so sweet how every time someone complements him he gets so uncomfortable, like he doesn't think of himself as such a good person

[@paulahyland7688]

I so agree with you. I couldn't have said any of it better than you just did. Him blushing like that and getting embarrassed when he's complemented speaks volumes of his real character

[@shagunkhandelwal3414]

Marisol1711 all the celebs and even fans that have met him said the same thing , i don't understand how a happy natured guy like him drives so much flak 🙁

[@Marisol1711]

My theory is that pressed/sad/frustrated/shit life/embittered people just don't like happy and well intentioned people because they see in them what they don't are/have. Jimmy draws so much energy and happiness that they feel frustrated I guess, so they come to the comments to let that frustration out in the form of trying to put Jimmy down and discredit him :). There's seriously no other possible explanation.

[@shagunkhandelwal3414]

Marisol1711 that might just be the case , but i don't care as last year i was in hospital and was in a big depressed state and nothing helped to keep me positive except binging his videos and loving him 😀 there is nothing but positivity in him and his work ❤️

[@Marisol1711]

Oh that's so sweet. I feel you in some way, when I get anxious/stressed with college he is my cure lul. It's so great he helped you in such an important way.

[@elinah982]

She always makes me laugh. god bless our superwoman

[@starxhilmie]

fake laugh ?

[@farahatwa8047]

SkankHunt 42 if you fake it this is your proplem

[@duskplains1235]

Farah Atwa jimmy fallon fakes his laugh most of the time

[@elinah982]

SkankHunt 42 the most genuine laugh

[@kathysings9238]

Elina H AMEN

[@emilialawson3921]

They have such great chemistry

[@starxhilmie]

nah, thats Nicole Kidman, they both nailed the Jinx game

[@linacat7104]

Emilia Lawson Margot Robbie and lily both have great chemistry with jimmy

[@alaaalshaba9456]

lilly and jimmy just beat the record that jimmy had with nicole at Jinx sooo XD

[@Chris-wr6ew]

can't wait for lilly's parents to react to this

[@HelloKidney.]

Christian W. Greason they must be proud now!!!

[@adamkagee6896]

"Lilly?!?! This you?! You look like girl!!"

[@mr.o8539]

"Cleavage!?! Lilllyyyyyy!!!"

[@KiwiVlogs]

HUHHHHH??!!?

[@bach_in_a_minuet8700]

Mr. O "She doing shame shame!"

[@mira4529]

can someone make a gif out of Lilly saying, 'Damnnnn Jimmy!' 😂

[@Abeavs]

Fatin Amirah Yes 😂

[@Keziah2447178]

Its absolutely incredible to see her come so far! I'vee been watching for years...seeing her accomplish this much has me kinda emotional 😅

[@mahsaahmadpour23]

ZaZa Doe yeah exactly😅😇😍

[@h9.k]

Deffo!

[@CassieJazz96]

Same! I'm listening to her book right now and I'm not even that deep in ch.1 and I'm inspired already.

[@linacat7104]

ZaZa Doe sameeeeeeeee

[@GTanya07]

Awwww.... this is why i love Jimmy, he's nicest guy ever 😄😄😄❤

[@A-m-z]

Fakest*

[@GTanya07]

A M Z nahhhh... *nicest

[@mimibahiti]

Fakest****

[@mehreenahmed1262]

Tanya Sparrow I loved how you answered back.. with no hate 🙌

[@GTanya07]

Mehreen Ahmed yeah i just don't want negative energy around me 😁😁😁

[@dua_junaid]

I can't get enough of her lol, she looks really pretty too!

[@evigreece2254]

Lilly should play the role of Jasmine if it ever became a movie

[@raobao]

but princess jasmine is arab so technically, a brown girl can't play another race :) but lilly would make an amazing disney princess

[@evigreece2254]

Rawnak Islam yeah I know, but I just thought she would fit the role perfectly. If you take in consideration that they're thinking of Bella Thorne for the part, Lilly would totally fit more. ♡

[@iheartnaols]

Rawnak Islam I'm confused can u explain what you mean by that (not in a rude or offended tone)

[@remymartinez6708]

Rawnak Islam they're gonna cast a white girl so better to have someone who *LOOKS* brown or at least not wjite

[@herbivi-cus5382]

ABSOLUTELY

[@thecaiannepagan]

Lilly looks so beautiful and I loved seeing this segment on the show

[@suhaylahasan9985]

Hey, I know you! from instagram! hi boo!!

[@AmandaAlMotivation]

Jimmy is such a nice guy!! So proud of Lilly for getting so far in life 👊

[@NellieKAdaba]

Amanda Al Motivation Yes!

[@AishwaryaNet]

BAWSE: someone who conquers their life as a whole ❤️

[@patatreebhadra2532]

I love Lilly...she's really powerful and a bawse...dark skinned girls in India really get bullied but she makes me feel proud honesty...you are a bawse just the way you are...and she is soo beautiful...love you Lilly

[@akki015]

Patatree Bhadra not all girls do...some of my friends embrace their lovely chocolate skin tone and are amazing but i get why you are saying that i mean people still exist with fucked up mindsets

[@patatreebhadra2532]

akshay kr i know amd i was not talking about my friends and i love my skin tone but i am talking about the relatives...i mean they are always like u r pretty but didn't got the colour of your mom..but I do love my skin tone

[@akki015]

Patatree Bhadra hmmm uncle aunties say stuff like sundar hai par savli hai, gori nahi hai to ispe gayi hai wagera wagera

[@sammiss3804]

Patatree Bhadra she's not dark skin

[@shreelatalukder4436]

Sammi ss No she isn't, she's dark-skinned.

[@srishbish]

She is becoming such a wonderful human. Really proud moment for young, brown women.

[@starxhilmie]

brown woman ! wth is that ?

[@emilydchang]

SkankHunt 42 it means a woman that isn't white/Caucasian. Lilly is improving the representation of young Indian women in the media industry and the world, really

[@daladorous]

SkankHunt 42 brown is the colour term for south Asian - and possibly Middle Eastern too - people (As white is for those of European descent, black for those of African descent and yellow for East Asian)

[@FakeAccents]

Yet calling someone yellow does not feel right. I agree with the brown, black and white but I've never said yellow to describe an Asian person.

[@daladorous]

Finders Keepers Neither have I really I'm just aware of its use. My Hong Kongese friends use it to make fun a lot though. I think it's context and I think it's more a problem term in America. I'm from the UK so don't know how it's viewed else where.

[@livewithintention1625]

Literally the Beyonce of KZbin. SO frickin proud of her 😭🙏🙌😍😘❤️

[@joeeetea]

I met Lily when I used to work at a restaurant 3 years back and she was one of the nicest people ever. Everyone was trying to get a picture with her and basically borderline disturbing her while she was trying to eat and she was not one bit rude to anyone. Awesome person.

[@vanshikabahri5253]

It's funny to see how every hater in this comments' section is bringing in race/religion because they genuinely don't have any other basis to hate her on. That's how you know she's a true #bawse❤

[@baileyandthejets6240]

how about being a lame sellout

[@elyseahmad4030]

BB Bailey that comment is logistically fallacious and is based on no cerebral evidence; therefore being nothing but a useless opinion with no factual accuracy.

[@ninagotit]

BB Bailey- That is your opinion, I doubt she would have even gotten on this show being a "lame sellout".

[@ruww9818]

+BB Bailey how ironic you have a video called "hate comments" in your channel. you get what you give girl

[@Asb20334]

Vanshika Bahri I haven't seen any hate comments...but if I have to be honest I don't think she's funny like at all

[@JoyS212]

Daaaamn!! She looks so beautiful *_*

[@KittyKatForeverAndEv]

bawse squad wya

[@des7445]

Serena Macarena yee

[@DatingForRealYoutubeChannel]

Yeah. :-)

[@strawberryswings96]

Serena Macarena Here❤

[@TTLL-tx4rc]

Serena Macarena right here

[@crsri]

I am a brown person, and it is so nice to see Lilly come this far..

[@lisaschmidtchen2976]

Why did you think it was necessary to mention you were brown if I may ask ?!

[@lostinmyheadx3671]

Lisa Schmidtchen because in some countries you get alot of hate for being darker than a tanned Caucasian. wether it is that people are judgmental over your colour, hate you for your colour or just dont give you opertunitys. its beautiful to see that eventho the kids at school might be cruel, and you might get declined for a job by it, you can still get wherever you want to be with pasion and motivation. i get that you think skincolour is irrelevant in this case , but it can be relevant depending on who you ask. i myself am raised in a mainly caucasian country. im lauged at for my afro (that i rarely where iut for these exact reasons) and hear rasist comments more than weekly at school. its good to know that what these people think of you, or your rase dous not make you less capeble. its good to know your worth

[@lisaschmidtchen2976]

Oh yeah, I see where you're coming from. I was imagening something like that and I'm very sorry that you have such cruel and stupid people around you but happy for you that Lilli makes you feel better. 💪😄 It just always seems a little weird and away from topic when people just 'randomly' write down their skin colour even though it isn't. So that's why I was asking. ^^

[@lostinmyheadx3671]

Lisa Schmidtchen thats okay, i will be this school soon. and wel, new school, new chance, new me. i am working on not getting hurt by these comments, and i promised myself that if i hear people talk like that next schoolyear, i wil eather not be botjered by it, or shut their ignorance down emededly. yeah your right, it can sound pretty odd yeah

[@lisaschmidtchen2976]

Haha, yes it really does. ^^ Well, that sounds good. :) I hope you can fight those idiots by being strong and not dependent on what their opinion about you is. Anyway, I hope that there won't be any trouble with people like that in the first place. ^^ So, good look. :P :)

[@vgaur-2826]

Jimmy was blushing so much when Lilly complimented him awwww

[@amberlaceyyy]

Why is jimmy so nervous lol I love Lilly's confidence

[@RealTalkWithSSG]

He's trying to make her look like a bawse, that's why.

[@minahilfarooq7831]

Can't believe this is her third time 😭

[@timemixchine]

Utkarsh Yadav 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@yagalterry]

She looks so radiant and confident here. SHE IS SUCH AS BAW-LER 😏🌸🌸

[@mudit.johari]

heyterry hu ft

[@kittykitts8711]

she is gorgeous in n out

[@irenerosalie590]

Lilly she is really so gorgeous,, so beautiful lady 😍

[@baileyandthejets6240]

IRÈNE Michelle she's wearing two pounds of makeup. anyone looks gorgeous then.

[@rupinderjaswal8004]

+BB Bailey look at her in vlogs

[@shreelatalukder4436]

BB Bailey lol not me

[@thomasj5722]

My god she looks like she is right out of a Disney movie. Amazing.

[@sarahdaniel9912]

she's so classy and Lady like her compared to her videos it's awesome😂

[@kdev919]

@ basically - that's what i JUST said!!!! Lily growing up ???

[@mehakgarg5948]

i-love-the-rain it's Lilly plzzzzz .. ☺

[@csharpkween]

That's the thing with smart people like Lilly. You know when to adapt to your environment. Behaving the way she does in her vlogs wouldn't be appropriate for this setting so therefore she act accordingly. I'm the same. Ratchet as hell when it doesn't matter but poise and lady-like when it's appropriate.

[@sathsah1593]

@@csharpkween Lilly singh is hollywood and bollywood in one single persona.

[@hotheart123]

Lily looks so gorgeous!! and that sounds like such a great book

[@rachelward135]

She's such a queen.

[@jennb6485]

I'm so jealous of her hair, she's a queen, damn I love her !

[@DominiqueRoseASMR]

So I have a slight problem.... I seem to ship Jimmy with EVERYONE, because he always has such amazing chemistry with the guests of his show... They have a great time, seem to have genuine interactions, etc... Basically, all this really says is that he's a really cool person who allows other people to shine.

[@paulahyland7688]

He makes all his guests feel welcome and has an amazing rapport with them. Some people call him fake. I find him genuinely caring and sweet.

[@dvg4868]

Watch Graham Norton

[@sarbanimitra1857]

Lol... 😂😂😂

[@zm6208]

1:22 Sitting behind my computer screen with my nerdy glasses and double chin smiling to myself like an idiot because she's so amazing and I love her so much

[@hadykobrossy]

I just wanna say , i was here before trending.

[@bocatcc]

Hady Kobrossy how would you know it is going to be trending if you where here before it was trending? Are you from the future?

[@hadykobrossy]

tbh i don't know , i was just early and didn't know what to comment and i knew this would get me likes.

[@venaacavaa]

Hady Kobrossy hahaha your honesty is precious

[@yaayuuh5801]

HOW TO BE A BAWSE👏👏💓💓

[@jazyb5750]

Superwoman is awesome 💖 Jimmy is one of the nicest people you could meet, absolutely adorable 😍❤️

[@bondubu]

"B-b-b-b-b-b-bawse" 😂 so nice that she added him!

[@zainubaali6704]

I can't wait to get my hands on that book. So excited.

[@lorettagrey7383]

Jimmy's such a sweet and honest person.

[@gunjitamishra2006]

I completed part 3 of her book...Only 4th is Left..... I am finishing it sooo quickly....I'm lovin it...I think it deserves a BIG PRIZE or something like that...I ❤ you Lilly!!!!

[@m.j.8366]

I love jimmy ! You can see it he's so down to earth, I hope to one day meet him in person and who knows become good friends

[@manager-nim2623]

Awww jimmy is so cute when he gets uncomfortable every time someone compliments him like DUDE YOU EARNED THAT!!! And don't mind the haters they're just jealous af! Keep your awesome bawse personality and keep doing what you love!

[@Angelina-vt7xp]

I AM SO DAMN PROUD OF THIS GIRL 😍😍😍

[@Kiminkaaa]

Perfect! Excited to get the book!

[@FZ-bk9kh]

Got my copy today! 40 pages in and I'm loving it already. Kudos Lilly! Love from India to Team Super!

[@azadahmedkhan]

She is a celebrity now. I can't believe it. I saw her channel grow before my eyes

[@freebird3004]

i hope everyone will shut up about Jimmy after this😊

[@FuZandy]

That is so cool! Both Jimmy and Lily are such genuine people.

[@rohini13]

She is so phenomenal...loved how she explained about Jimmy.. I am so overwhelmed right now!

[@kairakim9396]

that moment when you want that book soo Bad but your broke ass can't afford anything anymore 😭😭😭😂😂

[@GenevieveThornton]

Hyuna Kim wait a little and then hit up the used bookstores! I'm broke too but that's how I don't miss out ;)

[@akshtaarora9843]

😂 I keep telling my librarian to get books for me.

[@kairakim9396]

Genevieve i was thinking about that thank you THOUGH I hope i'll get it!!

[@kairakim9396]

Akshta Arora soo lucky trust me whenever you get the chance just take it !!

[@AlwaysaFangirl]

Same. And I love books so much, I cry.

[@armanator7291]

Lilly is winning at life 😍

[@sumeelajagtoo6749]

Something about the concept of that chapter and how happy she looks makes me so emotional. love you Lillz 💛

[@menalidissanayake1545]

so proud of you Lilly!!! thank you for inspiring us ...always♡

[@AKhn-cx7sc]

I just absolutely love the part where she explains what the title 'shake what your mama gave you' means and that its not about yo booty but about your hand and that you should always be kind/polite to people x

[@kerin3294]

Lilly is giving off some major Queen Bey vibes with this hair/outfit!!

[@miiimiiikyuuu]

I just loved this whole thing, so sweet both of them! So wholesome! ❤️

[@tatumn9346]

I watched your vlog and ive been waiting for this!!! Also your beautiful

[@tatumn9346]

(lily sorry Jimmy

[@avianna51502]

I slowly died of laughter every time Jimmy tried to say "Bawse". LMAO

[@kaykaychanz]

"DAMN JIMMY" -Lilly Singh 2017

[@alwaysreference07]

Love how quick-witted and genuinely charismatic she is in this interview! 💕

[@JewelsLee]

I remember seeing one of her first videos of types of teachers. Now she's on this show and achieved so many amazing things. LOVE LILLY!! Xx

[@julem28]

Real life princess Jasmine

[@maishazarinanan5028]

Jule-Marie Adomeit ikr

[@indrialya]

SO GORGEOUS LILLYYYYYYY❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@estrellaalena2566]

I just got the book today!!

[@ChaniceRich]

loved this and love her book half way done

[@Liora.y]

So cute!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@MissyMishti2095]

"My journey on KZbin has very much taught me to be comfortable with who I am. Comfortable with my own skin no matter how weird I am, if I have stretch marks if I have love handles I don't care. I love who I am and that's when I decided I'm a bawse!" And that, is why Lilly Singh is such a good role model for today's young girls.

[@daniellaprovencio9128]

Loved this so much

[@gayesha]

aw jimmy is so sweet!!

[@AlainBruno]

Lilly Singh is my favorite KZbinr!! 👏👏👏👏

[@AntiDot43]

she is hilarious!!

[@merdesh2402]

I love her videos💗💗💗😍😍😍

[@andreeaabro]

me too

[@ryandcranchdel7046]

you own clothes?

[@rutapendse9869]

she is such a wonderful human... the best person in this whole world... i respect her so much!! she is my role model!!

[@whitewalker608]

Ordered the book already. Amazing reviews on Goodreads as well.

[@ajwriter5699]

I'm glad to see Jimmy giving KZbinrs more exposure. Kudos!

[@gerryvyti4256]

Proud of mumma unicorn ❤️

[@bellak46]

I feel like a proud sister! Go Girl! She was made to be a leader! 💙

[@ilavanyah]

Tears of joy, Lilly.! I loved what she said about Jimmy and it makes me adore him even more.! 😘😘😉😉💋💋💋💯💯❤️❤️

[@angie5430]

This is definitely one of my favorite episodes ever, I love them both so much!!

[@maryamkhan2844]

i just love her so much 💓💓

[@florayim8678]

I want that book now

[@mariededeyan6536]

She looks incredible and I'm so excited to read this book!!

[@Zuhkeydesigns]

I'm so so so so so so so so so proud of her. watched her for more than 5 years now and it's amazing to see her successful. I just love her.

[@ynahmia6416]

SHE'S AMAZING I LOVE HER 😍😍

[@minna3286]

take a shot every time they say bawse

[@tessandjonkou167]

I'm sooooooo proud of you fam !!! You went from Brampton to jimmy Fallon

[@arshini01]

I have subbed to Lilly's channel from her first video and so proud of how much she achieved. So proud of her. I can't stop starring at her face too gorgeous. That hair, face , dress and makeup everything is on point 👍

[@marshmellowsafari]

Go Lily!!! Love from Trinidad!!!

[@imalive404]

in nutshell , she is saying - "KNOW YOUR WORTH AND HAVE SELF RESPECT"

[@GenevieveThornton]

imalive true! You know I was thinking what a powerful message that is, especially for girls and women across the world who may not hear that from their everyday life. And on a huge platform like KZbin, Lilly Singh has the power to impact and change lives.

[@bookstosky]

She is so inspiring ! I love her.

[@rebeccajoyner3858]

OMG! I gotta have this book!

[@angelkaur574]

she is looking Adorable... I Love You Lilly.. who else.??

[@213Safia]

GOSH SHE'S BEAUTIFUL!!

[@aishamohammed4311]

So she been jumping in the vlogs and embarrassing herself to us but coming out here looking all fly and making us proud. I love u Babi

[@9nishath]

OMG! SO proud!!💖

[@jamisharifa5638]

BAWSE ALL THE WAY!!😃

[@rossycruzmarroquin8012]

Jami Sharifa HECK YEAH!!!!

[@razzamatazza12345]

Lilly looks like a princess

[@brelewis268]

That was so sweet❤️

[@AmiKamara]

Lilly is honestly the most incredible woman ever and her book is amazing!❤️