Limited Harmony-Disharmony Theory - A wiser perspective on close relationships

[@Shridharlifeschooling]

HELLO EVERYONE! Please tell me what problems or confusions you're going through in your life, so I can make videos for you, with some solutions and answers. forms.gle/n3SAakwChceESJp47 Let me know by filling this form. (You can keep it anonymous) .

[@vankaannapoornavasundhara8861]

Hi Sir you're videos and way of explanation is very good. Sir I'm a traditional girl and I don't have any bf's or affairs and I'm a Telugu Brahmin girl so.....recently I got a match he is staying at Chennai few months ago we started chatting with each other so....I noticed that he is very good guy, and responsible , caring but sometimes I can't understand his way of speaking I'm worried about that but...I like him and want him.I'm confused his way of speaking what should I do now????? Sir can you give me a best suggestion I don't want to live him bcoz he is the 1st guy which I liked one before that I never liked anyone bcoz I believe marriage ethics, Vedas etc....and my wish is my future life partner should be Understanding, Responsible and Adjusting definitely these qualities should have so.....he is like that only and match is my far relatives Sir I hope you understand what I'm trying to say bcoz this is the 1st match I got that's why I'm confused and I saw so many couples relationships, breakups etc etc.... and they're saying that be like that,like this etc.... I not even know where I was confused about marriage,about him, I don't know. In our family members and specially me believe astrology also and that way perfectly matched even though our tastes everything. But.....I'm confused or worried whatever it may be so.....Plz plz plz Sir give me a best solution for me to clear my confusion and he is coming to meet me till now we are just chatting and calls that's it I hope you give me a best suggestion tq tq so much Sir

[@arwachaudhary4063]

Hello.. was really impressed by the food for thought u gave.. had a great impact on me.. I recently got married i had wonderful time during my engagement period but eventually i feel my relationship has collapsed .. i feel there is nothing common between me and my spouse.. we fight like cats n dogs!! And ultimately i feel miserable.. we hardly communicate.. n i end up complaining always.. please I request you to find some solutions for me and people in general who are going through this phase.. thank you

[@shalinisharma4732]

Sir thanks for wonderful explanation.

[@amitk.9388]

to ease the pain of breakup just remember ugly time of relationship instead of remembering beautiful times... it will definitely help in moving on 👍👍

[@chaganarshiya6282]

It will take tym only. And thinking All will be fine

[@n.meadow1313]

What if it was a good relationship? No matter what it will take time.

[@amitk.9388]

@@n.meadow1313 obviously every relationship had good thing that's why it started... but if it ended then remembering good things will take u back and will result in pain n sorrow... that's why it is better to move on

[@n.meadow1313]

@@amitk.9388 True

[@jinteekalita9042]

Amit K - Great

[@m89298]

sir,i have not smiled since last 3 days because of conflicts with my husband..but now i have a smile on my face because i have understood all you said

[@twinkletalks4780]

Evertime I get stuck in difficult situations.. Your video pops up out of no where and makes things clear.. Thnku so muchh...

[@drsuraksha]

amazing analysis of human relations, circumstances and showing path instead of advising. Great job

[@mandeeps240687]

You are true rockstar. So much clarity given in layman language 👍👌🏻

[@BikerTia]

Lol... "Tv show friends has given you life goals to have this group of amazing friends.. But you are no where close to your friendship goals... " exactly my situation from many many years.... 😂

[@dibn1308]

So true.....Life is beyond any assumption...the reality does bite ....the first two years of marriage is just a phase of acting...the next phase does the real picture ..how we get through rough patches and how things work through the pathos. .....THE ONLY SOLUTION IN ANY MARRIAGE IS THAT LOVE IS UNCONDITIONAL..... AND A BIT OF DISTANCING TO FEEL THE RESPECT ON BOTH SIDES...AND SURE PURE FAITH IS THE KEYSTONE OF ANY SUCCESSFUL RELATION....

[@seemasheoran7695]

I know all d stuff u discussed here..but was unaware that it was this theory...really ...they work ...as I m happy in my life...loving my parents fmly friends. Having low expectations... Enjoying my studies....enjoying single hood....have small sphere of ur frnd circle ..have quality in ur relations rather than quantity....

[@praveenasubramanian4472]

Awesome work on the topic.Also give tips on managing anger and not letting the anger travel for more days..

[@510bayareaprincess]

You are AMAZING!!! I just found you and I’m addictive to your videos! They are clear and well understood you go straight to the point and without wasting time or confusing the viewers. Thanks A lot from California 🇺🇸

[@Samar-bw1cl]

U r becoming my fav brother...... Kp on doing it... Great work...😊

[@mukundanvenkateswaran7264]

You are really doing an amazing job....after watching this video ,i have got 100 % clarity ....thank you so much and keep doing more videos on relationships 🤗

[@sayalijoshi5118]

WOwwwwwww!!!! Shridhar you are amazing....such a wonderful video...i am going to watch it several times....feel like sharing it to the whole family, set of friends and colleagues...

[@dr.nitajoseph3881]

Completely agree Sridhar. Moderation is a fact. 50-50 is the truth of this world. 🙂makes sense.

[@radhikak5782]

The work you are doing is blessed by God go on bro....

[@shuhailaaftab1302]

I just seriously loved what u spoke.....it was so so true....

[@indhraboy3344]

Things you speak are very practical and realistic. It's easy to practice and keep them in action. Great job! By the way I am single and I feel like the exam paper is leaked for my future relationship(EXAM) :P Yaayyyy!! :D

[@learngrow4839]

U r amazing person, please make a a video on Anger Management at the same time emotional intelligence where we can handle both simultaneously

[@sohinisaha597]

Very well explained. Another validation for the choices I have made thank you

[@fishii5758]

Your words are very sharp and clear... You really give clarity in all topics... Thanks a lot and all the beat for your future ...

[@rittikawalia8385]

That simplifies many things, thanks!!!

[@Madiha-b3c]

Woww !This video made my day💫...thanks for educating us ...this is a real education which v need to make ourselves happy nd to create harmony nd understanding among relationships by accepting the flaws nd trying to resolve ,coming towards solution n finding clarity .🍀☘ lots of love nd wishes for you ❤

[@namithabharadwaj2434]

Hello sir..sorry for late response...just 2 days ago I watched ur videos.. it's really necessary for unhealthy relationship n their misunderstandings.. U r really achiever.. Thank u 👍

[@rupamdubey5156]

U r such a unique creature of god Really became ur biggggggggggg fan

[@jeseenajose5035]

Your talk is extremely helpful. It really helped me. I wish more people could listen to your talks. I would surely share to my friends .May God bless you.

[@choudhary2k]

It's really helpful. Many thanks

[@indranid9089]

just watched your video on relationship . I am checking almost all playlists. Really helpful. Thank you so much

[@sohinisaha597]

Compatibility = interests match + habits acceptable and tolerable + no conflict in beliefs + good communication skills I think people from same family should get married.

[@sudharshinireddy2206]

🙏 this vedio played a key role in my life

[@anilsah2692]

Too gud...lower expectations in relatioships...but disaharmony has taken away my peace of mind...I am on verge of nervous breakdown..also I have given 13 yrs to this relationship...I want to break up and move on....

[@pritamaroy4276]

Thanks.. 2 of your videos are really helping me soo much right now.. 😊

[@swativerma2248]

The day I have argument with my husband that day u video pops up to solve my confusion.

[@rittikawalia8385]

So...what about the phase when you are not into a relationship and seeking one...how do you deal with that period?

[@sakshikumari5559]

Good understanding ❤️

[@charugoenka6543]

Aapki vedio realy bahut sahi mind set deti h but please hindi me batae taki bahut se logo ke liye easy ho jae

[@sricharitha19]

Hi Sir, your videos are very nice and reaches us straight. We are able to connect to the situations and scenarios you come up with to explain the topic in hand. And I feel one thing is missing here . The eye contact. It would be very nice and more effective and it would be like you are talking to us directly if you have the eye contact with the camera. I can understand though that it is difficult to convey this sensitive content just from your mind rather than reading it from the thoughts you carefully formulated and jotted down. Just a suggestion though if you can consider. Thank you so much again .

[@manaswini2010]

Gold ! 👌

[@manisha861]

Nice, good points, 👍

[@farzanaali8470]

You are amazing! Thanks for making things clear

[@dipskv]

Excellent💯👍👏

[@RajSingh-hv2ij]

Exellent piece of Advice Bro. Keep it up. You are sharing invaluable advice.

[@jassicalawrence818]

Great content

[@ayshwaryasinha8836]

Amazing clarity of thoughts u have 👏

[@muhammadahmad887]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@radhikalekshmirnair]

Thank you for your very good presentation of a common and genuine problem.. every part of the scenarios are true.. and I would like to mention one more small point .. sometimes to detach oneself mentally from the chaos and looking at the total picture like a third person would help .. it will give you a new perspective and a better view of where things actually stand and it may help to make decisions as well.. Thank you for your time and wonderful effort .. excellent presentation once again.. keep up the good work. . Best wishes

[@tahmidatahir3784]

Thanks vai ...I like your vedio n the way you speak. It helps me a lot ...😊

[@nancysingal6739]

You are so right...

[@pratiklondhe3699]

If the harmony has changed to disharmony.. And things are not working out.. but even after lots of fights you are there to change few things in yourself.. so that your partner is also happy.. But when you get to knw that in this disharmony phase your partner has been cheating on you.. What should you do?? And after that if your partner is asking for 2nd chance.. but yes many things are still not on track.. like how you should start again?? What are you plans for future.. about marriage. Etc.. many things are still not on same page.. And you knw you have been 100% loyal.. and just wanted to keep the realtion going.. But after this what should you do?

[@taniyabhatiya9488]

Yes.. your theory is just too good... But I want to know if we stuck in a relationship with false people who are telling lias.. n not responsible enough to handle the relationship in long run so what to do with that? Should I have to take a divorce as I do not want to face the same situation again. How we can trust a person if he broke our trust. N blaming us after all. How to tell you I really need your help. Even I tried your no but I think it is not working.

[@LizaS191]

Nice.....

[@kanikamankotia6039]

Every thing was true..

[@amberumair2298]

Awsm, keep it up for us.. thank you💞

[@meaj7969]

thank you sir.. i got my ans

[@Mamthaak]

Hi Shridhar, thank you for the videos. You are doing a great job! After a couple of years we see couples, or one of them loosing complete interest or starts taking the relationship for granted. Especially one of the partners ( I have seen mostly husbands) stop communicating or not bothered to communicate with the spouse which causes a lot of arguments and fights. It really pains to see how one partner is least bothered to sort it out by discussing. Walking out of the relationship seems easier to them than discuss or go for counseling. This literally puts an end to the relationship, should the other partner leave the relationship if there is no reciprocation from the other?

[@rekha5543]

Does this theory apply to covert narcissist.

[@deeps56]

Superb

[@TheSamee20]

Very nice and good clarity keep it up

[@meeragoldenheart]

Thank you

[@mayurizarekar562]

I caught my bf using my Gmail password even before we got into relationship and he kept lieing to me whenever I doubted him in past and only now he confessed. But now he blames and says why are u worrying, why are u scared if there wasn't anything wrong. But it's about trust , he has broken my trust and while in relationship he kept assuring me that baby I am not hidding anything from you. Did I do right by breaking up with him?

[@himanshibhatiaa]

I think u did the right thing... Truth is important.. He shud realise it sooner or later.. If he is meant to be in your life.. He will come. Back.. Otherwse.. Let it. Go..respect urself before you respect and love others

[@NavKhemka]

Hi Sridhar I need your help mere pass koi rasta nahi bacha he

[@chanday9827]

How could I contact you?

[@sakshii_2002]

Amazing video😀♥️ thnx for this guidance bro

[@181Ravikiran]

Awesome bro...

[@lathalathab.r676]

Thank u... This helped me a lot

[@sumanamaity7546]

Thanks

[@WorldOnWeb84]

good words of wisdom. But why look away from the camera and read out word to word from a screen/board in front of you? It takes away from the personalization of the messages and makes audience (at least I and a few I shared this video with) wonder if these are your own thoughts. Sure, read from a screen but add your own thoughts, words, hand gestures from time to time looking at the camera..that would be much more natural and believable.

[@anukhurmi435]

V.good.could u make these videos in Hindi?

[@jag_head]

Word ❤

[@swapnajathar2205]

God bless You

[@archanalakshman3671]

He sounds like pawan kalyan...I don't know....i meant his voice...am I d Oly one who felt....but yep he spoke d fact..

[@sushreejamishra6387]

Hello , I wanted to connect with you regarding personal counselling . I tried all the contact numbers mentioned at the end of your meeting. However, I was unable to reach you . Let me know how can I connect with you 😊

[@sapnajain1320]

Make a video of narcissism...in relationship

[@VeBe28]

Yes very much needed. I think there is not much awareness abt this in Ind.

[@aiswaryadigal5377]

Thanks sir..jai hind 🙏

[@awaisbhatti7393]

Does this man do paper reading? I need an answer.

[@YR523]

Great

[@abhijitsen7782]

FUN is not the proper word for the reason to settle down with one spouse officially . there are several justifications also , consideration factors unnumbered . apparent and subdued with hidden ones.

[@mindspeaker6378]

Are you related to sandeep maheshwari? Because same surname

[@sowjanya2019]

Super analysis..... Hand some..... I became fidaa to your manlyness ❤️

[@uditadas6450]

sir u look so amazing i just feel the girl whom u will mary she will be lucky

[@versatile5665]

I texted u but no suggestions sir

[@pritysasane]

Who’s is talking to?

[@yashikamatta2726]

Nyc

[@reenamagre3193]

Plz help me i m in trouble I m depressed plz help me i beg u

[@sathyasnehasathya8582]

I just want a suggestion from u..that is I am seperated 8 year's back n devoeved 3years ..a two back is one of my far relative says he loves me even he is married has twins of 5years,we spoke friendly n became closer we r very comfortable ..he understands me loves me I too love to wait for his call once in a week we meet eather we sit n chat out or if it's at home we go physically ..I want this to be life longer relationship ..he also says we shall be the as now don't worry..but the thing is my x husband came n says after long years we shall be together I'll take care of u n my son ..I said this to my present boyfriend he says u go ahead be happy .I'll always be there for u..we were separated due to inlow who left husband n wanted her brother to take care of her son's..now they r grown he is relieved..now plz give me the suggestion what do ..rather then husband I need my boyfriend who understands me we..plz tell me what to do

[@mohdsalik9173]

There would be time when you get old are you sure that your fairy tale relationship with your bf goes on .. when you ll be in tough situations.but there is a chance to build the loat relationship for you as well as your sons better future

[@gretaaarons4941]

Please take care & not get involved with both men. Your child needs his father & if you are divorced, better not to get involved right now with anyone. Live your life & pursue a career, be independent & strong! Any relationship on the rebound is dangerous & keeping an affair with a married man is trouble.

[@சங்கிமங்கி-வ3த]

If your boyfriend is not committed truly to his wife, then don't expect that with you either! He should never cheat in the first place! Most of the people tend to sugarcoat themselves.. what if your bf is doing the same? And regarding your ex husband, make sure that he changed for better otherwise don't allow him either. Or else you'll end up hurting yourself once again .... Be financially independent and stand strong! Hope for better.

[@salehatabassum9394]

@@சங்கிமங்கி-வ3த WOW awesome.

[@gayanetigranyan5582]

♥️

[@enavigatorE]

Too late for me dude 🙄

[@NavKhemka]

With two kids he ek beti bhi but AB nahi hota

[@nibeditanagabansa7561]

It's can't harm at all we are single

[@Anamikaparmar26]

I stay in fairytales just to stay single😂

[@adityanarayan3213]

can I make your fairy tale come true... contact me❣️

[@hanishaarora5454]

Please make your videos with less time. Your ideas are good to help people but cannot listen so much. Especially a person in depression cannot concentrate so long on things. Hope you got my point. I want help directly on my problem. Please give me any mean to contact

[@dbliss6866]

🤐

[@_-KK-_]

I disagree with some of his speech..first of all is it feasible for new lovers to be talking about dis-hornmony when it all starts? Start of a relationship you talk about their negative things ? Lol this is funny. I find this guy to be negative most of the time...he should read Buddha's quote...he starts his speech with a negative comments and ends with a negative comments. Idk if he has any experience to be talking about all this..or how much has he experienced to preach. He doesn't know what situation everyone is in or going through. How the heck he can preach!

[@sanjeevkushwaha4043]

My father always says that "Never trust the words coming out from people who live by selling their words"😂😂😂😂

[@kuldeepsinghchauhan8699]

marry me

[@SaumyaKashyapsaumyakashyap]

Is he single???😝

[@umavalluri8079]

Great job

[@abhijitsen7782]

FUN is not the proper word for the reason to settle down with one spouse officially . there are several justifications also , consideration factors unnumbered . apparent and subdues with hidden one.