What to do when your lover is perpetually running late | Relationship - 104

[@Shridharlifeschooling]

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[@dilpreetbhatia2003]

Superb Video with great research...

[@bidhandas7711]

Sir please give me your video script

[@charusingh148]

What you are doing is a quite magnanimous.. you are one person who is using his knowledge to help people.. liberating them from their own faults and insecurities. Pls keep it up.. india needs such channels

[@dishad1770]

So true

[@vaddechetananarayan6422]

I always feel this guy is sooo handsome

[@irmabronder]

I just try to be consistant myself and show people how I am. And I see it as they do their best to be consistant in how they are and how they want to be. It is sometimes hard. I understand that I can only change myself and I am easier with making improvements. And I understand that not everyone sees that they can change theirselves. They don't see a change important, which I might find important. I now focus on how people show theirselves to me. I show how I am. I am open to learn from others and I hope the people I interact with are doing the same. Much love. xx

[@AkshanshGusain]

Brilliant! Absolutely brilliant, I was going through the same but, this changed my life. Cant thank you enough Shridhar.

[@mayursaun6413]

Best part for me was - "Thankfully i have a girlfriend 😂💗

[@KARTHUism]

You know the art of just going through thought process of complex brain easily. Just wow

[@JoyfulJabber]

This is absolutely brilliant. Very sharp thinking, completely focused on doing the right thing, doing what works, doing what's good for everyone involved. And it even comes with humility, admitting that, while you're doing pretty good now, you're still not perfect. This makes it very relatable and shows that things like this are about continuous improvement. It is also very specific and practical while also having the theory that brings it all together. You're a master of what you do. Thank you for sharing this with the world!

[@deeptichanana]

What a mind blowing perception you have! God bless you 🙂💐

[@Jashy_and_jacky_123]

Great brother, That one was one great detailed explanation with a simple example. Yet you made so many aspects clear. Your putting points convincingly is simply awesome. All the best and looking forward to your future vids.

[@harshawaghamare2459]

Bottom line is "Accept the person as it is n Enjoy ur own company!" When we accept the person as it is then all this things doesn't matter! :-)

[@workshopswithpooja]

Thank you so much. These videos have been beyond helpful for me. They are so valuable and to the point. Please keep posting these videos of relationship serioes. Loads of gratitude

[@richardascannio8509]

Excellent video! You are awesome. I love the way you express your ideas. Such a valuable information wisely condensed in less than 30 minutes. Greetings from Colombia, South America.

[@anupamajosh]

Such clarity of mind!!! Your videos motivates me to change the perceptions and belief systems.. Keep up the great work and God bless!!

[@niyatimilindmehta6694]

You are amazing!! You have this certain calm..I swear you girlfriend would be soo lucky,for she has someone who understands such depths

[@bulbulb4585]

Awesome Video Shridhar!! I'm the one perpetually running late but this was helpful for me too. Thankyou!:)

[@MkLydia]

Thank you for spreading positive vibes and your sharing make so much sense. I feel enlightened.

[@SeemaSharma-bc5po]

Yrr ye banda kitna sorted hai💞

[@elizabethmitchell2963]

Your gf is a very lucky lady! Love your perspective and your videos!

[@shabeeraferose2163]

Very helpful information.Thank you very much .Changing a person is not easy.We can only try to understand each other and help each other deal with it.

[@Suu-y7c]

You are amazing! For you now i am more calm and sensible!

[@harinimittal]

Shridhar! This is a very good video. I think you have come a long way. I watched some of your initial videos and then this one on FB. I see maturity, poise and clarity in communication, and humility in this video. This should be your benchmark. Good luck with your work. India has a long way to go before accepting psychotherapy and psychiatry. Your videos, especially of the quality of this one, will help in the process.

[@MrHarshal08]

Make more video on office environment., as arguments, frustration, anger, love relationships at office. Etc thank you

[@எஸ்சிசிகுழந்தைகள்பராமரிப்புஆதர]

Mr. Sridhar, I laud you on your efforts to bring happiness to people and have appreciated your initiative and services u til this video. I am a psychologist and therapist with experience in india and mostly on the US. I have always been told to respect and respected other people’s time and remember my uncles advice when he invited me to USA for the first time when he said “ remember…your time is not more important than the other person’s time!!” So if you can’t respect it, politely let them know about your tardiness so that they can prepare accordingly( within a reasonable amount). Sadly, the current generation is valuing happiness over punctuality, being organized and cleanliness. The bar is being set lower and the ones with these qualities which will ensure more harmony is being looked down upon. I understand that one cannot be spartan and allow it to take over life, but I would appreciate it if someone like you would make a video guiding young kids to respect time and make attempts to be punctual. We have methods for kids with ADD to learn strategies with tine management and executive function… so please promote such things given your words have a lot of value and you have so many people listening to you. Thanks for your services in molding future generations 🙏

[@எஸ்சிசிகுழந்தைகள்பராமரிப்புஆதர]

*until this video

[@anjuanju5556]

Oh my god! I have fell in love with your thoughts n kind of explanations ...

[@anushashashidhar7087]

Wow... Quite hard to be the bigger person. Really. If I can achieve this, then I can probably achieve anything! However chronic lateness is extremely difficult to deal with.

[@pocachiandpeekirivlogs]

I wish my life partner watch this. Am under tension all the time by his hurrying

[@deed1436]

She’s late because she putting makeup on for you so you have something beautiful to look at all night. She’s doing you a favor. Men are visual creatures. She’s giving you a special gift. Be grateful.

[@bhawnagoyal4466]

The true problem is that we want our partners to improve on the shortcoming or that irritating habit not just for us but for themselves... We at times sound like we are dominating them but in fact we are being protective n loving.

[@atiyathegreat7863]

How beautifully u explained things.. Worth praising..

[@vraj1762]

I laughed ALOT during this video! Because I have thought all the evil lawyer thoughts you mentioned and hearing it come from someone else made me realise how ridiculous my reaction to this issue is (my other half is always late too!) Thank you so much for explaining so beautifully, it definitely has helped me🙏😊

[@zion367]

I think that even tho it is nothing personal, we should not have to lower our values to accomodate others. It IS a disrespect of your time. Wether that is intentional or not. I would just leave if she wasn't on time and after doing that 2 times she would be on time, because she knew I didn't accept that bs. If everybody would stop adjusting themselves to other peoples disrespectful behavior then the world would be a better place.

[@positivevibes2018]

1)How to deal with toxic parents especially mothers when they do interfere in our lives and manipulate everything and play the victims?!! 2) How to deal with mother/ father who are social media addicts and play victims in front of their grown up children? 3) What to do when mothers are too busy on Whatsapp groups even when her children and grandchildren visit her on Summer vacations? Please make videos on these topics as well 🙏🏻

[@harinimittal]

This victim thing is pretty cultural I feel.

[@rashmisharma7859]

Ur way is super, osum..bt i wnt to gve u 1suggestion try to make ds videos in hindi also...it vill help d persons who dnt knw much english....

[@anu148s]

Wow bht achha explain karte h aap sir 😊

[@neilagnihotri3240]

Thanks, just now I was in this dilemma. Oooo you saved me.

[@arshad5569]

So,problems can be solved in this way....thank you sir

[@HasminTH]

Your way is good and awesome.. God bless you dear

[@chanchalsudan1224]

U r v good physiologist, u have covered all factors of situation. V wisely an beautifully explained.✌👍

[@khushiangel844]

If it is just matter of 5-10 min it's not s issue.. What if it's hours together??

[@gopikakk8093]

Great idea. I have a problem. Me and my lover work in the same office but we don't show up that we are affairs. Another girl from the office likes him and is continuously trying to make him fall for her by giving extra care, calling daily after office time and chatting. He is not interested in her but he can't ignore her as she is in a good position in office. I get frustrated and irritated daily by seeing all these. It has become a daily problem. I have written down points like this but this works for one day, next day when I see those again in real, I go back to that frustration. This has become a major problem in our relationship where is he is telling that he doesnt like her and talks to her casually as to an office staff. But I get frustrated seeing her over caring and other behaviours. Please tell a solution how to teach my mind to be calm daily

[@youmichua]

Do you have a solid reason why you both don't acknowledge your relationship in front of your coworkers? Are you sure you have yours and you are aware of his? Since you are so agitated by this it may start taking a toll on your relationship in the future and if you both want to be together it is not worth the risk to keep doing what you are doing So there are several options: 1) After going once more through the reasons why your relationship is secret, you may decide to actually show you are together If that doesn't suit your situation, both of you may choose 2) tell her only that you are together. Based on your understanding and values it could be either him or you who speaks with her privately, or even both If you really for whatever reason must keep your relationship secret from your boss/coworkers. 3)He may tell her that he has a girlfriend (not specifying who) and that this extra care and after work calling of your coworker is making her feel uncomfortable. (Nobody needs to be rude when turning down somebody, just very calmly explain that your heart is taken, people generally accept facts that are brought to them in a gentle manner even when they don't like what they hear) You have options. Just choose the one that best suit you both.

[@bidhandas7711]

Sir can I have ur total video script in PDF format please or if u will put it in ur video description then I could very benifit for that, please sir, u don't know how important is it for me😊 keep making video sir, GoD bless you

[@LuczyNagy]

Nice solution. But ADD/ADHD for example doesn't help on timing. So if somebody not able for plan its time properly, or schedule it, is she/he a bad person? You can considerate from this viewpoint too.

[@muddraadhainje4551]

Outstanding.. thank u so much .. this video has helped me alot ... I feel this video is soo soo abt my life.. thanks a ton

[@vanithaganesan8403]

Sir please upload a video on How to handle a hypocritic husband?

[@muddraadhainje4551]

U r a true genius🙏

[@malinisaravanana4766]

Sir my friend and her husband fight for silly things and her husband will not talk to her for 6 to 8 months he doesn't eat with her he goes to his mother's house just 500 meters away he sleeps separately is he a psychological affected please make a video on this sir it will be helpful for her

[@nikitag421]

Too good,happy to c ur video....

[@abhiam18]

in short if u wanna hv a peaceful life stay alone🙏

[@neelamlath4165]

Amazing video sir!!

[@jasminepaul7291]

This helped me a lot, thank you Sir

[@jayalakshmi9513]

Exactly this is wat happening for me... I waited for him for 2 hrs... and he didn't even realize that he was late. Then Next one hr I was with him by expecting the sorry by realizing his fault. But he didnt do anything then I just dropped all the plan and left him. I left that place because this is not a first time, always he is late. And I know he is not good in planning. And am taking this personal, I feel he is not giving importance to our relationship or me. And am always in stress by thinking how I will be with him in future, wont he take care of me or my feelings. My evil lawyer not giving enough time to think positive. In free times also this evil lawyer only occupying me. Now instead of sitting ideal I am searching for some positive videos that changes my way of thinking which gives some good points to stop my evil lawyer. And urs first video in tat... thanks :)

[@pranikaworld6673]

If possible i think u should make video on postpartum depression.its a serious problem.i am still a victim .try to control my emotions.but not able .even though i have loving and caring husband.still my bby is two uear old i am sure there are lots of moms who are in this condition biut society is unaware of thos serious issue.

[@SairaSabir1443AH]

True

[@glsaikumar]

hahaha at t end of the day, how you can count on life along wit everyone is important..

[@harmanmeetkaur9758]

I want to share ur all videos to my hubby bcz he doesn't understand that much english I want that my husband understand my feelings with the help of ur video bt how

[@shubaprabhakar]

Dear shridhar Lovely English and good dissection of problems. I am stealing some of the points for my forum. Any objection?? Would like to talk to you and invite you as a faculty 😀😀

[@chanchalsudan1224]

Hi shridhar I liked ur lecture v much . My quiry is that do u do workshops? How can I approach u. Thx

[@prajaktachandorkar8618]

How to know if he really loves me or not?

[@dibn1308]

Leave them at their freedom...

[@pavitrasomanathan1050]

To avoid all of the above thoughts just give your girlfriend the time of 15 mins earlier, problem solve

[@NeethuSMohan]

I dnt knw y..i lost my track of listening aftr 10 minutes!!🤷🏻‍♀️

[@kanicanagpal1198]

Well you can just tell her that you have reached , when actually you are just leaving from your home 😂. That's what I do 🤣🤣

[@bregadishbalamurugan8466]

Sir.. kindly make some video on anger management

[@ravipandit5044]

all good but be late on airport and waiting for pizza and whatever is just not personal to u man.. but a waiting for a gf is too much coonected and personal..she or he have to be on time it's all about respect and values to sharing with each other..and its happnes agan n again then its bettee to be alone...have fun alone

[@manjuyadav6729]

Awesome ....

[@soundiramallesureshkumar2908]

Very useful

[@kabitadas7160]

Like me impatient. Thanks brother. But I too much emotion, why I don't know? I always think I am not good in anywhere or look beautiful in my life. Bec all groom want beautiful girls as life partner.

[@ushaasivakumar1216]

You are jus osm❤️🔥

[@deepikamishra3326]

I need a help sir how to contact with u

[@sharlottearuldas1260]

Good for you Your girlfriend put you on a test drive as a Councellor

[@ramyav7717]

Sir pls give the speech about confidence sir

[@manjuyadav6729]

Make some more videos... related to general life...

[@pranikaworld6673]

I think u should watch parenting junkie u tube channel.it will benefit u .i am damn sure.please watch it.

[@aaryavihaan379]

Good

[@neerpahva3086]

👍

[@lavanyalavs8449]

I reallyyyyyy like ur videoss u can also post more videos on love nd relationships which i absolutelyy loved ittt❤❤❤❤ all d best

[@abhijitsen7782]

try to find the logic you propagate and preach , i could discover nothing and then i concluded my half insanity

[@ek48955]

Plz make short videos.its lengthy nd boring