My Sex Advice (as a 60 year old woman)

[@LisaBevere]

What lies about sex have you heard in church?

[@silviaoliveirasantos7358]

That men have more sexual desire than woman, so that is ok for man to have it, but no for a woman

[@antonialovesyou4462]

That sex isn't spiritual.

[@shirleymenendez2833]

Not solutions for couples with previous sex in the marriage 😪

[@paulatirla8488]

@@antonialovesyou4462it is .The Bible says that the one that lays in bed With a woman,becomes one With her so in the spirit They are married.

[@chemay5803]

None, cause it's not talked about 😢

[@trac1821]

Thank you so very much for this talk. I am a 50 yr old woman who was sexually abused from the age of 2yrs old until I was 13. I’ve just now started the healing process, I hope one day I will be married and enjoy marriage the way God intended 🙏🙏

[@irenemorley75]

Did you really know you was being abused at 2 years old 🤔

[@Elfling26]

@@irenemorley75 WTF kind of question is that? Dreadfully insensitive

[@Elfling26]

I'm sorry to hear that. I was abused around age 3 onwards. It's taken years to heal but Jesus heals all. Sending prayers for your healing

[@sherbetstraw]

So sorry to read that. Praying now that God will help you heal xx

[@tamannasarah8677]

I’m so very sorry for your great suffering. May JESUS bring complete healing to you. I’ve also experienced sexual abuse in my life. It’s horrible. I am currently on a long journey of trying to heal inside out and draw closer to JESUS and His Holy Spirit.

[@mariscp]

One of the ladies at my Bible study said something along the lines about sexual immorality is one of the hardest chains to break especially if you began young, there is almost always underlying trauma it’s so complex and it’s so true. I began to pray every day that God heals me from it and restores that area of my life. Lisa you a truly a blessing for so many of us women !

[@888KingsDaughter]

I agree

[@yaestaDios]

Hard but not impossible with God. Healing is possible!❤

[@Yeju20]

I was born again a year ago, God heal me from so many things, one of them is my past sexual immorality, i didn't even think anything about it (cause i was married with children already) but God restored our sex life, it become miraclously different (better), and we didn't do anything different, just surrendering to Him.

[@vkhoro]

Literally crying and praying in the holy spirt while watching this. Thank you for this raw episode. My sexuality was awakened at 5 years old, I went through soooo much in my childhood and teen years, but God has blessed me with an amazing husband of 9 years now. Recovery and healing is a journey, God has never left me through it. I have been saved and redeemed and God is leading me to this day. This episode is timely for me, answering recent prayers I had. God bless you and your ministry, Lisa. I am overwhelmed by joy and gratitude in the spirit. ❤

[@doml5636]

My heart goes out to you x

[@Reqreationalife]

My parents had sex in front of me for years... They were also pastors, so I grew up in extreme purity culture. All the while, I had found their porn and was washing my mom's lingerie at 9 too. There was a LOT of confusion and things I didn't understand for a long time. When I finally could it was too late for me. I fell in to years of lust (starting in my teens), sleeping around, and drinking. I was angry for many years as well. I confronted my parents about it on several occasions in my 20s and they blamed me for being in their way. God has blessed me with a great marriage and a wonderful man. It took many years of therapy and work to get here. This conversation is so, so important. Especially from a Biblical view point. Even within the church sexual sin can be awakened. But God can in fact redeem sexual nightmares!

[@RCGWho]

What happened to them that caused them to be exhibitionist?

[@summerwright9365]

The Lord will redeem you no matter how many mistakes we make❤ that’s the beauty of the gospel ❤

[@Reqreationalife]

@@summerwright9365 Yes, indeed!!

[@Reqreationalife]

@@RCGWho My dad has a lot of his own childhood trauma but that specifically is beyond me. I never understood and I still don't.

[@RCGWho]

@Reqreationalife I'm sorry you experienced that. Pray you'll be totally free of it.

[@marasegal1849]

29:49 "I don't see any of your flaws. I just see you." Wow! That really is love.

[@philipschifano5876]

I am a man in my 40s. Christian. I just love you and John so so much. You are so real and truly know who God is. You are so needed!!

[@mrsloi3265]

It is so nice to have an elderly christian role model talking about this especially with her pregnant daughter in law! Something my christian parents always shied away from discussing with me but would have made a world of difference in how I viewed this as a teenager. Thank you for all you do Lisa (and John and family!)

[@badkatz_yt]

“Why would we spend it on ourselves rather than share it with one another?” That just completely shifted my perspective.

[@elisabeth_wales]

"God fights nightmares- he fights them with dreams" Lisa B. Thank you for this message 💕

[@applefeliciaonly]

This is a conversation that I needed as a younger woman. And honestly, it has even helped me now at 38 years old. Thank you!

[@autumnfayee]

I was introduced to sexual stuff at the age of 6. My husband at the age of 12. We are breaking the cycle for our children. They don’t go to sleepovers, play at friends houses without us or watch any tv or movies that are inappropriate. Me and my husband are extremely compatible and would have probably had 10 kids by now 😂 although we kiss and show affection in front of the kids, we’ve never had any incidences of them seeing anything. 🙏🏻 I’m praying God continues to bless us with wisdom in parenting ❤

[@kerrystewart8594]

I agree with all that is being said here. Thank you. What hurts my heart about this subject is that not every woman has a Godly, deep, intimate relationship with their husband so this sex life seems impossible. Those of us that are married to men that don't walk closely with the Lord long for this type of intimacy but just get by.

[@FelicitoAdaroSr]

Sex is good age 25 plus

[@SandraJenner]

0:20

[@turquoisemama33]

@@FelicitoAdaroSr Excuse me ! Did you even read kerry's comment???? Don't be so insensitive. !!

[@turquoisemama33]

@kerrystewart8594 EXACTLY Living that right now myself. It's horrible and is causing all sorts of unnecessary problems. Let's get the church to talk about that. And how about spouses that are not even there, like in being jail or have Alzheimer's....WHAT THEN......sorry, I am hurting so much......I have a husband who claims to be Christian but has rejected me.....doesn't even want to be in the same room as me.....we've had a hard life both before and after marriage, so I don't blame him for much if it, but still......he does have a God given responsibility.....pray for us, thanks....

[@InspirationalLiTV7]

I will be praying for you and him 🙏 God is able to restore all🙏🙏🙏💕​@@turquoisemama33

[@azerlynno]

I have been married 3.5 years. We have a 2.5 year old boy and another boy on the way! Lisa, you have been such an amazing voice of truth and continue to help me grow as a godly women.

[@tessaelstran]

This needs to be talked about more in the church!!! I’m 45 and was raised being told sex is bad, icky, etc. Most of the time it wasn’t discussed at all. I learned that my mom had a lot of trauma as a child and my sexuality was awakened at a very young age. I had no one to talk with about anything related to sexuality. We can’t ignore such an important part of our human lives. I am just now healing and understanding Gods desire for intimacy in my marriage. Thank you for speaking on this.

[@ellenmelon88]

This is SO GREAT!!!!! I have been Christian for 3 years and i have 4 kids one is a teenager & i have no experience in raising children to honour the lord & ive wanted to know about so many of these topics & noone talks about it! THANKYOU ladies! I love your family! Always honest & humble.

[@li2kforme66]

I am a young man watching this and I've learned so much insight on this topic. Thank you for your wisdom.❤

[@kimilala1000]

Please let your future wife or wife to watch it so both of you could be on the same page

[@fillthefeeder]

I am an older man. This conversation is not authentic. You cannot treat a woman in a Godly manner and have her respect. Good luck.

[@jose-anneleclair7561]

Thank-you so much for speaking about this Lisa! 🙌🏼 I was raised in a very strict Christian home with toxic purity & now I’m raising my teenage son - so appreciate your teaching & speaking about redemption! 💗

[@CharityDLindsey]

This is so powerful. Thank you for talking about this. I agree 100% this needs to be talked about more in the church

[@Fitinprayer]

I feel so encouraged by the faithful work of your family. I’m a mom to a 15 month old boy and you are helping equip me.

[@janellmast3848]

Thank you for this Lisa and Christian.I listened to this twice.Once by myself. And again with my husband. I have been searching youtube for christian advice/direction on how to date/have a godly pure relationship as a christian. I am a first generation christian,who got saved shortly after my marriage.So my dating history w other guys,relationship w my husband before marriage was very very heathen. We now have 2 daughters.The oldest is 17.With me being a first generation Christian, I have no idea how to advise her on this topic.I remember feeling ashamed that I was a virgin,as a young teenager. I HAVE explained to my daughter that virginity is a treasure. Something valuable.But beyond that Im at a loss.I spoke w another Christian mom,who said she saved herself for marriage, but their sex life was awful for the first year of marriage bc all she was ever told was don't do it,it's bad.And then she got married, and the switch from that mentality was a huge struggle. I want better for our daughters.Hearing how your son called you on his honeymoon in celebration, made me exclaim to my husband, "That's what I want for our daughters!" Thank you for this! 😊

[@AfricanAussie]

Intimacy is a very emotional and spiritual experience. Unfortunately over 50 years of marriage we have had this only a handful of times. My husband has had a problem with pornography which has brought such heartache in my life with his lustful pursuits. It’s hard for me to submit to my husband in this situation because I know that sex is almost always fulfilling his fantasies instead of real and true intimacy and love for me. It’s like I have to keep looking over my shoulder at the subject of his fantasy. It’s horrible

[@TirianOfNarnia]

How on earth do you tolerate that for that long?

[@heidibfit8708]

This is so so good!! I awakened my sexuality when I was 15 years old, which was way way too young and it did have a profound effect on me!

[@888KingsDaughter]

I can so relate .

[@9milmama280]

Same. At 37 I’m now examining why. It’s a deep, dark rabbit hole but I have to figure out how to spare my children from the generational curses of promiscuity and divorce in my family.

[@christinacanto3740]

The comment she made about porn having a calling voice is SO TRUE.

[@MLopez836]

Just started watching this video I am going to write all the verses and remember them and talk to my 12 year old boy and my other boys I will talk to them when they are older. This topic is so important because that’s how they are taking down the family.

[@renico123]

I wish all the mothers and fathers would talk about this to their teens. The lack of norms and values and the hypocrisy around it are destroying people, its really the biggest pandemic of all times. But, imo, it's especially important if a FATHER(figure) talks to a boy. Otherwise boys internally see it as: oh there comes mom again whining about sex. Its the man who have a much higher chance to get through to boys by not only talking but by giving good consistent examples during daily life..Because this problem mainly stems from the toxic oversexed male society. Therefore I love the vids of RC Blakes for example.

[@TirianOfNarnia]

​@@renico123True, but both my parents refused to tell me anything about sex. If one of them had been willing to talk about it, I probably would've been better off. I did not hold marriage in high regard though, because I saw how much disrespect my dad tolerated from my mom

[@QueenKiely93]

This officially my new favorite channel! I’ve been learning so much, I’m just 2 videos! Thank you for your discipleship (idk what to call it-I’m sure it’s something different lol) My husband and I have had our sex life amped up a little more each time, it feels like it “gets better” .. especially when we read the word together

[@Royalprincess2121]

I love the “not time” phrase this is so powerful ❤… we demonized the very gift God gave us as husband and wife.

[@patricialobos1263]

So many awesome points!! I have so much I could say about my situation. One thing I can say is a man that has watched porn in the past have a distorted view on what women really want in an intimate Christian marriage relationship. It is very difficult to change that.

[@veronicafruitfulltv5641]

Lisa, this is by far one of your best podcasts. I love it. Iam praying the Lord blessed my ministry so I can invite you over to England to have this conversation. God bless you. And I love that you had your daughter in law, this is such a great example of how we should treat sex, not as something to be shameful of but open and honest conversation which can bring healing. I ell done ladies.

[@trac1821]

Yes I agree by far the best podcast ♥️

[@nhall1270]

This was a good episode. Did I blush? Yes, I did blush. But this was a good episode and I will continue to re-listen to this in the future because its helpful and healing.

[@acissej4400]

Thank you for being so real, vulnerable and practical! Very helpful!

[@nwanyibuifeobiako162]

I sooooo love this podcast! Thank you for the necessary conversations🙏🏾 Watching from Nigeria🇳🇬

[@Adakataba]

Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.

[@PrettyTasha-k8q]

It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.

[@Adakataba]

Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?

[@PrettyTasha-k8q]

His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@PrettyTasha-k8q]

he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.

[@Adakataba]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤

[@janemugala5181]

Thank you Lisa for your Godly wisdom. God bless you even more. From Zambia.

[@helenculling9130]

Such a brilliant discussion. Everything you're saying is really holy spirit filled, I feel. I am recently married and look forward to growing in intimacy with my husband.

[@ElijahBakesDessertArt]

I found your channel and have been watching a couple of your videos. So refreshing to hear you speak. Such confidence, passion, and wisdom. Subscribed!

[@withthetrans]

Couldn't love this more... Thank you for all your family does to help so many people get vision for how to leave a generational legacy of living God's way. The only way of true life! So grateful as a 39week first time mom who didn't grow up in a Christ-centered family. I feel so inspired and empowered for my husband and I to be spiritual pioneers for our lineage. ❤️

[@amayaatheresa]

This was so well executed!!

[@sjg5994]

THANK YOU SOOOOOOOOO MUCH for discussing this! God has placed it in my heart and mind to have this discussion with wisdom in our church. I'm a single divorced woman who pre-marriage was sexually wrong. But during separation and post divorce, God restored "waiting" in me. The scripture to not awaken was something I studied and God has put that part of me back to sleep in Him. I can see an attractive man, but I'm in no way tempted. At all. God has done a great work in my heart and flesh. And with what God has done in me, I've had women come to me or admit randomly to me they struggle with porn. I've even had a few men say it in a class....plus I can discern it better because my ex-husband struggled terribly. I wish the church would educate and talk freely without fear. Porn DOES call. I was an eight year old girl and for some reason, I felt the need to go in my parents room and dig in the back closet. There was porn. So yes, the enemy absolutely calls out and we answer when we aren't educated to what is happening.

[@mariscp]

I brought this up to my church but I don’t foresee it being addressed no matter how important it may be, which is so unfortunate we’re doing a deservice to those who are lost in this

[@sjg5994]

@@mariscp I haven't brought it up yet because I was hesitant. But this video is even more confirmation. However, I'm going to pray first. Won't be shocked if they still can't handle it.

[@jonathanrbutera8001]

@@mariscp YES. doing a disservice because of pride, fear, and judgmentalism and 'tradition', "We've never done it that way before!"

[@patriceallen5417]

Good topic, looking forward to listening as in the last several months trying to discern, asking God about this area in our marriage. We've been married 33 years, mid 50's. I desire not to be displeasing to/before the Lord.

[@4theFaith]

Woooooow!!!! You helped SO much in just one sentence. I have really bad messaging and have always dreaded sex talks because I don’t even know what to say. Now I know what to say!! Thank you so much!!! I have no women role models, I just found you online, so thank you for that!!! The men are great, but as you know, we fight for female!!

[@su....]

as a 70 year old woman who married her highschool sweetheart almost 50 years ago, for myself and my husband in this season of our lives, all we want is to feel love. outside of our relationships with the lord of love, that translates for us into long sweet embraces and gentle kisses throughout the day. and lots and lots of talking and sharing!

[@kb8481]

Thank you!! I'm getting court married in 11/30 this month and it's very helpful 🥺

[@melvinakammies843]

What a gift and blessing you are to the Kingdom of God, i pray for Increase in your ministry sis ❤🤗👑

[@Hope_is_Love]

My half sister and i are 5 months apart. Same dad different moms. Also neither one of our mothers have any other children. Anyways my mom was 30 when she had me and she grew a big hatred towards men. I didn't even know what p*** was until my late teens. Couple times that I've tried watching it as an adult didn't make me feel good. I think the Lord that even though my mom had other issues that she didn't have boyfriends coming in and out. I really feel like I was able to guard my innocence for a long time. Me getting older into my late teens early twenties I was very promiscuous. I would be with the same people I would try my hardest not to be intimate with them and obviously couldn't do it. Fast forward to my middle 20s I have a failed back procedure and the signals from my brain to my sacrum doesn't fire off. So now I literally have no desire. And I thank God for that too because I needed to get off the train to hell I was riding.

[@Mandyjeanmusic]

Thank you for sharing and opening up. These are hard conversations that need to be heard.

[@susannearmand9565]

So proud of yall Lisa. This is really brave to talk out this most sensitive subject. I have a 15 years old grandson and a 13 years old granddaughter. These are very important issues for me and for all of my generations. Thank you soooo much!

[@henrindi3889]

Perfect teaching watching from Africa/ Cameroon. It's fascinating to have such an insight into our secular world of opposite

[@baybeh3578]

Wow such great advice. About love and how to engage this topic when it comes to your kids. Ive always wondered how to do things right and how do i get them to trust me enough to talk to me about it instead of just taking advice from their friends. Also how she described how her husband sees her is one of the most beautiful things ive ever heard i wish all men could see their wife this way. Life would be so different.😢

[@readaloudkids1407]

Great phrasing here that I will remember and re-use: nightmares vs dreams, awakening vs putting back to sleep…

[@annayork8979]

This is a great episode. I totally agree with the point about women reading these novels. Women, including Christian women, are reading these books...

[@RCGWho]

I see Christian women openly reading their Sarah J. Maas books on instagram. I read that the author writes page after page of over the top sex scenes.

[@IzzyNChrist]

I read them when I was 15 the first time and stopped around 17. It really just started to feel wrong. Then when I became a Christian at 19, they didn't even peak my interest anymore. It must have been God's protection. I read the stories because I wanted a good story, but they all started to sound the same. It seemed the most important aspect of these books was how much these couples wanted each other. These books also seemed to push the message that "sex is love" no it's not.

[@rochelleceballos5312]

Such a great episode! Needed this!

[@esmeraldarodriguez7328]

The words this woman spoke was far beyond human intelligence, the spirit of God was so heavily present in this video. It pierced my heart with true love ❤️

[@JesseHansen-oh4bh]

My husband and I have been married for 25 years…and we enjoy intimacy and sex so much more. It is Definitely so much more than just a physical act. Being intimate with my husband brings us so close together and spiritually bonded. I was rape at 17 …. It caused me to be loose and thinking who would ever want me! It took years of Christian therapy and marriage counseling…. But my husband and I have come through all of this with God’s love and wisdom. I love my husband so much and our intimacy has drawn us soooo close to each other.

[@christinaheagy4602]

In our family the importance of the children's purity was to preserve the parent's reputation, and "a gift" for your husband (I don't know if it was different for the boys). It wasn't balanced with blessings, it was a taboo subject. Public schools taught me about my menstruation, my parents never told me anything about it.

[@LoneLast-m6k]

Thank you so much for bringing up this subject. Because there is a store in Odense where i grew up, a sex store, that has some pictures of women in the windows, large pictures, that i have always thought: If that's love then i don't need it, if that is what men are like then i don't want one. That way i have developed a very unhealthy and distorted view on men, which i have recently come to realize. Because that attitude towards women do not just diminish womanhood, it also diminishes and devalue what it means to be a man.

[@ksnow4105]

Thank you Mumma Lisa for the tears are flowing at hearing you speak Gods truth.. It reached my heart and I finally feel free from my past, it's like now my heart has permission to redeem the holy marriage God intended to give me🎉.. I received Gods cleansing and redemption through Christ Jesus. Praise be to God my Father and creator. In Jesus Christ name Amen

[@charlesiragui2473]

The truth, not the details. Great distinction. This true confession.

[@isobelbartonreis]

Brilliant! Thank you so much! Wish I had been talked to by my parents like that! ❤

[@mariamjlothbrok8402]

I just had a talked with God and i said i want to surrender my intimacy, i told him i needed help and i didnt want to do something wrong about that part of my life, i pray that he will keep give me the wisdom to help my kids

[@maysatorres1846]

Thank you for sharing this precious content ❤🙏🥰

[@faustman1000]

Being married is a dream. The foundational things are eternal regarding love and sex.

[@anniegrady9478]

SO WONDERFUL! thank you for your transparency and vulnerability!!

[@KM-zn3lx]

As a 60 year old woman I can't say its better than my 50s. It's ok to not feel that desire as much. It's better to feel my love is deeper. We're naturally losing that desire and need for physical love.

[@rncondie]

I am almost a 61 year old man. I enjoy sex with my wife who is 58. We have been happily married for 37 years. My wife reminds me we are getting older and sex is not important. That is her opinion and i have learned you must give and take in a relationship.

[@ryanmorgen5895]

I will tell you this, I have been married for 10 years now. We have been blessed with four children. My wife's physical body has changed, however us married me don't see the flaws in our wives physicsl bodies because we see howuch pur wives have blossomed and grown through motherhood. We see the love they have towards the children and us. This is why your husband will always see you as "perfect". We know you have physical flaws, we know your bodies have changed. Your souls, spirits and hearts have grown so much more and shine so much brighter that we choose to look past the physical and we see everything beyond. That is what we love so much about our wives.

[@jonnamaesc977]

this is truly life changing.. i believe this is not accidental.. God wants me to hear this I believe

[@margaritajohns7907]

Thanks Lisa. Great advice this is what all society needs to know. Wisdom from above You and your husbund are a Blessing to all. ⭐️❤️🙏🕊

[@MichelleSanchez-f5p]

This is such a great topic!!!

[@eLeKtRiKSh0cKeR]

Hi Lisa! Great episode. My question is: at what age did you start talking to your sons on the subject? Wondering what time you think is appropriate?

[@aimeegraper]

This was so good especially the parts about how you spoke to your children about sex. I would love to hear Lisa do a whole episode on how to raise boys sometime! 😍

[@angelaclarklll5472]

She did a whole series with Havelah Cunnington. They both have all boys. I haven't watched it but heard it's great!

[@beckyharding6571]

She did! Check out her series with Havelah (as previous poster mentioned). I'm halfway through it and it's brilliant.

[@CarrieYoung-j4s]

Being in a “believer “ marriage the sex is BETTER. It just it because God blessed it In marriage

[@TheSingleManPodcast]

As a Christian man that is single, this was 🔥

[@gracetolivewellness]

Just subscribed! Checked out your videos. Great content.

[@TheSingleManPodcast]

@@gracetolivewellness Thank you so much for the encouragement! I hope they continue to bless you!

[@avilalovee]

This is an incredable video. Im excited to show this to my daughter when its time to talk about intimacy with her🌸

[@Momo_carol]

A much needed conversation❤️we need more voices sharing information on the topic of sex in a godly way. Thank you so much Lisa❤️

[@ChristaDeana]

Lisa, thank you SO much for having this conversation. I’m very happily married to my husband of 8 years. But I was taught my entire life that sex is bad. There’s so much I need to learn about sexual intimacy within the confines of marriage. Please make a part II. Let’s glorify The Lord in our marriages! 🙏🏾

[@danTkazadi]

This was timing for me. Thank you Lisa 💯

[@jishamarydaniel23]

I much needed this podcast. Thank you for sharing

[@JuliaShalomJordan]

Incredible conversation. You just inspired me to film a video on this topic with my husband. Thank you, Lisa.❤

[@AmBeauty28]

❤ I don’t see your flaws, I just see you!!! From a husband to his wife! ❤

[@lorenalindemer2167]

Thank you Lisa 🙏 Thank you Jesus for healing my sexuality 🙏 Praise God 🙌

[@aromasolanki7859]

Thank You Lisa and Christian that was very helpful for me.

[@Dr.Cherokie]

My book came in the mail yesterday!!! So excited to read it!!

[@shirleymenendez2833]

Thank you! Just in the right time for me! 🙏🏼

[@madelynowensmodel4752]

so so good. Thank you for speaking so candidly and honestly!

[@TheDWZemke]

Was a male model in college on academic scholarship. Had a body count less the 100. I graduated, as a undergraduate, one weekend got married the next. was 23 and my wife was 33. Lost her to Alzheimer's after 30+ years of marriage. We were true to each other the entire time. We had lust even at the end and still spiritual. Now I am starting allllll over again. In my 50s we shall see what happens.

[@megan.homesteading7263]

This is SO GOOD!!! I desperately wish my mother would’ve held this conversation with me when I was younger so I didn’t just go along with the sex is fun culture.

[@charity7773]

Yeah I began fornicating when my parents got divorced at 18,had a broken engagement. Stayed with my child's father 15 years unmarried more faithful than Sarah in the Bible. He killed himself drinking. Stayed celibate 10 years then finally got married and did not get intimate until after wedding at which point found out he like to use dildos. D/T impotence. Divorced him after one year at age 50 when he began verbally abusing my only child. Fell into fornication at age 52 with my current boyfriend and basically have given hope of God being present and arranging anything. Pray God intervenes because I wish to inherent the Kingdom but can't seem to be blessed with the right circumstance. So never agreed with a y of it just seems like the only chance for companionship.

[@marinfam6]

Heartbreaking to read this, you have to love God more than you love your sin , the fear of God also plays a huge part in this , pray for that! Praying for you !

[@pebblesduckmurray]

Thank you for this conversation. Very inspiring.

[@wenwilliby1766]

Thank you so much for this. And for this book. ❤

[@davidtweedy8036]

God using you lady 🙏 training your sons the way you described is so very right, AND your advice to her about toys etc!!! SO Refreshing, God Bless

[@NaturalWifeyandMamaBear]

Thank you for this Lisa!!! Love y’all. And yes! Christian, the romance novels like the Colleen Hoover books 📖 wow. Definitely will make you lust. “Soft porn”. I tried some and then felt majorly convicted and started reading faith based books only, that help and encourage me, and still do; with my Bible being #1. Also enjoying the innocent love ones like Francine Rivers ‘A voice in the wind’. So yah, people need to hear all this y’all! Plus let’s pray for all the lost in the porn world 😔 sad. A main way for Christians who deal with porn addiction, need to picture Jesus sitting right there 😳 would you still watch it?! 🤔 powerful. I just pray for all these folks. 🙏

[@lindsaypeek63]

Lisa do you have any resources for discussing this with children ? Our son is 11 and highly academic and strong. He really isn’t interested in learning any of this and he is completely oblivious which is wonderful that his mind is so pure. He has never even asked me where babies come from. I would like to start to teach him some of this but I truly don’t want to bust his innocence when he is happy to hold onto it. He started middle school this year and I know the kids have phoned and might be saying things. Any resources would be appreciated. Thank you

[@mayra5269]

God bless you Lisa! You are a beautiful woman full of wisdom!

[@mariabanholzer7942]

Thank you for this interesting video! Much love from South of France

[@happyness5163]

Hi Lisa i needed this teaching badly i think i have been exposed to sexual things very young now im 33 un Married but i addmit i have a problem with sex im aroused by simple things on tv or magazine Im believing God for a husband but i also make a promise to not have sex before marriage even though i have live a lustful life style before im not doing that agian but im struggling Lisa please pray for me

[@RCGWho]

There's a book that I haven't read, but it might help, called Every Young Woman's Battle.

[@johnf6267]

turn off the tV

[@shelbyhendrickson7988]

You need deliverance from the spirit of lust 🙏

[@9milmama280]

29:53 So true! I had a boyfriend who pointed out a particular bald spot he had behind his hairline that I had never noticed… then I couldn’t unsee it. Then he seemed older to me. (Not why we broke up - but not NOT one of the straws on the camel’s back). Anyway - keep your flaws to yourself. You might be the only one who sees them.

[@Bublee1111]

Go Lisa! Thank you Jesus for Mama Bevere

[@1234567rek]

Thank you dear ❤ love you in the Love of Christ ❤whatever i wanted i got it through God through you

[@jennamartin5913]

Thank y’all for this…..what about having a disability and having to have very intimate medical exams from a very young age and that awakens inappropriate things in a person? This is something I’m working through in counseling.

[@Daybara]

Wow, this is going to set people free