The Art of Softness : How to be a Soft Feminine Woman

[@Missaishaxox]

More videos on learning to embrace negative emotions please! I feel that society kind of pushes toxic positivity but I want to learn to embrace and feel comfortable not performing positivity.

[@ametrineambrosia4929]

I make a lot of people smile when I'm dancing barefoot in the grass and giggling and being happy.

[@juliannaokike3359]

Don't compare your self to others it's the theif of joy.

[@DesignDanielle]

I love how you brought up the cycle ! It’s so true life is full of ups and downs and it’s Important to give yourself grace.

[@drchristamarie]

Hey gorgeous lady, nice advice as usual. We love your feminine advice so much and we want more of those but also we’d like to see some of lifestyle vlogs, what you do on a daily basis, more travel vlogs, shopping vlogs, anything vlogs 😀😀. Much love from Africa 😘

[@Ryderschae]

Another African sister, hey im from Namibia😊

[@kurthalover]

Truly an amazing video! It's very interesting how you pointed about the 70% feminine energy and 30% masculine energy in women. While I do love and appreciate seeing women reach higher in their career goals, it is also important for them to look after themselves. I agree that seeing a softer side in a woman is rare, but I also feel that when they are able to find it, it will be one of the most greatest and luxurious feeling that they will have. It is definitely all about balance. Looking forward to your next video!

[@Hi_BR244]

I love what you mentioned about speaking to males. I am nicer to my dad & communicate things in a more calm/caring way now and it has helped us to not butt heads as much as well as breeding less resistance. Now I can also receive compliments so much better instead of feeling like I always need to say a compliment back. (I learned that men get more out of a compliment that plays to their strengths in what they are DOING/PROVIDING rather than looks/cosmetics. Whereas [I’ve noticed in myself] I feel more excited to receive a compliment about my presentation and demeanor.) It’s freeing to just accept a compliment kindly sometimes and not downplay myself so much. Your channel has been a blessing to me Lisa, thank you for presenting topics that are helpful 💕✨

[@Chahlie]

Years ago there was a TV series with Pam Anderson, called Valerie Irons Protection (VIP). In it she is just the essence of feminine strength, the kind of thing that just makes you smile :)

[@RoseMiah9191]

I‘m from a small town and everybody dresses very casual… the women wear hoodies and flats and a bun- that‘s how they show up to an event here… now that most of them mothers no make up at all. I‘m tall, long hair, athletic/ slim, nails and feet done, make up- all done up love to dress my feminine body- elegant but accentuating my curves. Anyways this weekend there will be a Town festival again and i will wear a midiskirt high waisted in burnt orange ( looks nice on my fresh vacay tan skin) and a black v- neck crop top that shows just the tiniest little bit of my toned belly and then- a absolute no go in this town and i know i‘ll be getting hate from the „females“ here- little black heels ( no stiletto but a thicker compfy kind) and my Jacqmus minibag in orange. I‘m excited because it looks cute but also insecure bc of the hate i‘ll be getting from the females… i gave me major anxiety before but no- i‘m doing me i am feminine and i live it. They better get over it finally.

[@grettalemabouchou6779]

I understand.....small town girl here. Women look frumpy! I however.....rise above it's ridiculously easy where I live.

[@erin2080]

Just want to say I love your channel! I’m always working towards being a more feminine woman! Thanks for the tips!

[@therationalfemale]

In our feminist-driven world, it's so important for women to reclaim our soft, feminine essence. Beautifully made video and all well said.

[@hollym-hopefilledhistory]

A wonderful video that the world needs to hear! Lisa, you are a wonderful asset to the feminine community. Thank you for being such an inspiration to this community and for being such a positive voice for the feminine woman! Bring back the days of women like Grace Kelly and men like Cary Grant! Thank you for the advice and positivity, you are making a positive difference in this world. May the Lord bless you and keep you always. Take care!

[@Lisaglamour]

Thank you so much 😍 That makes me so happy to hear this ! Bless you and take care as well my dear 💕

[@dreasuchada7793]

I love today's tips Lisa, Thank you 💗 There is a singer that is one of my favourites that I'd like to recommend to you ladies for embracing your femininity and sensuality and her name is Sabrina Claudio. Some song recommendations for example: Your night routine or self care or me time ✨️ -I just melt (I absolutely adore the live version of this song) -Problem with you -Confidently Lost -Wanna know -Still strangers -Favourite part -Protect her - Impersonator The Last four are from her latest album called Based on a Feeling.

[@earthgirl7874]

I agree and she is ultra feminine in my opinion. "Tell me", is a great song and video too. Thanks for sharing.

[@dreasuchada7793]

@@earthgirl7874 I've only recently gotten to know her so Thank you for sharing too. I'll check out that song.

[@ishitaarora281]

I have been obsessed with SC

[@nicolelam4701]

I looove her music! Especially Frozen, Truth Is, and Still Strangers. She has such divine feminine energy

[@RamaHealthBeauty]

Thanks for making me discover this singer she is sensual waw

[@mssharinabrown9958]

Aww this was amazing-I am so proud to be a soft feminine woman xx

[@ayaam7md136]

I have been watching you for a while now and it's amazing to see you become more glowing 🤩😍 it's even awesome to see how you worked on your voice and how it became softer and slower.. Long hair suits you so well by the way ❤️❤️

[@TropicalRedFlower]

My opinion is that being soft and femenine will not look the same on everyone. Not all personalities nor circumstances are the same. I would come across so unauthentic if I started speaking in a child like voice. I've learned to speak and be more gentle but can't just erase my quirks and personality, I find this so bland, cookie cutter and boring. Plus knowing how and when to be strong, not masculine but capable and hands on can be incredibly attractive as well as an asset. I think of the Proverbs 31 virtuous woman, she was noble, smart and strong not sitting around waiting on everyone to cater to her. I think balance is key 💯

[@VeeSweetTea]

Some of us🤭Have deeper voices .I just realized I can't talk soft or baby child like 🤣🤣🤣.but another KZbinr advised to talk slightly slower in a relaxed tone..and well it's working ..and yes I can't just erase the things or quirks that make ""me"""...."" ME"

[@MuseSunflower]

of course! you'll have to explore and find your own unique flavor xo

[@aanskska3058]

I agree 100%. I think one of the most beautiful things about femininity is that it should be somewhat natural. Letting yourself be you, and being confident about it while still maintaining a level of elegance is the most feminine thing you can do

[@ahmadaliyud9656]

True everybody has there opinions m. But in reality everybody should embrace what they are if your a man bd proud of it embrace it to fullest if your a woman embrace it to the fullest and be proud of it. Feminine and soft looks good on every woman. Masculine and bricky looks terrific on every man. Men and women should be proud of what they are.

[@enjisilverstone-nolongerac7533]

I think you took soft to an extreme level here. I prefer suggesting someone who is kind but to a realistic degree, we all have those awful days but being soft would be not focusing on revenge or violence etc

[@tonjawade9037]

So happy you have done this video. Stepping back into who I've always wanted to be! I have always worked so hard at my jobs,and have never been what someone would call a "lady of luxury". Now,I'm looking for new careers that help me step into my femininity. I also deserve a mature,healthy relationship with a man who accepts,and loves my softness.❤️💅💋🌹💄

[@takera7]

Very nice, I love that you talked about our cycle & hormones. Sometimes we can get so emotional we don’t notice it’s the time of the month. Will you be able to do a video on how to remain feminine when it’s that time of the month 💘

[@keatonhayes6636]

This is perfect timing, I was planning on becoming softer in this new season of life.

[@rachelmcclain5367]

I always try to make it to Lisa's video within a day of it being published! this is a very important topic, arguably more important than any other, because it allows you to enjoy your life and enjoy yourself. without the right mindset, elegance and success just aren't possible.

[@Christimony222]

I learned a lot and I honestly need to watch this multiple times. I’m always kind of ashamed that I have to watch videos about how to be a woman but I equally love the fact that it is something that can be learned and built upon and there is room for growth and my future is bright (or, soft!). Thank you.

[@outerspace7079]

Absolutely amazing topic once again Lisa, I really appreciate your videos💕 I feel you’ve become softer with your movements and speaking over time and this really inspires me 💗

[@csipkebogyo89]

Dear Lisa! I follow your videos for a while now, and I have to say, this one is the best! It sum up nearly all subject, you use to talk about! I feel very inspired! Thank you so much, for being such a rare soft woman, and help us to be true to ourselfs! Love, Sophie

[@priyadas2992]

Your voice is so soothing 💖☺ amazing video, got to know a lot of things ☺💖 Sending you loads of love 💖☺

[@winniegirma]

Being gracious is very important

[@jonitksacordova2817]

You have helped me so much. I love your videos. God bless you. You are a example of a real woman. I’m learning from you my inspiration thank you.

[@lamialaaraichi877]

Hey my love. Great advise. I think the point with understanding your cycle was on of the best to me. I can deal better with the days before the days, if I realize it.

[@missdianamarie]

Ah thank you for your advice! I’ve been binging your videos lately and you are absolutely fabulous- I’ve been trying to dive into my feminine energy lately as a 20 year old woman and sometimes it’s really hard at my age. But you absolutely give me a huge boost! 💕

[@BunterFreigeist]

During watching this video something came into my mind: I think in some live situations we need masculine energy. Like building a business, fitness or simply protecting ourself against unpleasent people. I realized that staying in my feminine is very uneffectic and sometimes painful for the psyche in these kind of situations (for example when ppl trying to use you and take advantage of you) Bringing some strong and aggressive energy out is actually very effective and protecting depending on the situations and the enviroment I think we as woman should be able to develope both energies to the fullest potential possible and use them right to the required situation. What do you think about it?

[@pyaaratfirstspice]

I AGREE @Elfjr!

[@Chahlie]

This is a good point. I'm still almost shaking from an interaction with a person yesterday who was very rude to myself and my young co-workers. While I know it's on them, not us, it still is really unpleasant, especially considering that we all do our jobs because we like it, not for the pay- but because we are in the hospitality industry we can't really talk back. It's horrible when negativity attacks out of the blue :(

[@missjae4033]

Forreal. Getting rape for being too soft is real. Sorry for the graphics but I'm just spilling facts and experiences. This happens to women and men. Being able to balance our feminine & masculine is a must. 💯

[@BunterFreigeist]

@@missjae4033 ‚Getting rape for being too soft is real‘ hits exactly what I mean. And nothing helps more than some strong and aggressive masculine energy in these situations. It brings respect and protection for ourselfs and bewares of mental pain afterwards. Femininity defenetly has it’s place but more in private when you are really safe like at home. I think it has a reason that more woman are getting masculine. It simply happens because we need this energy in everyday life to protect us against all these things that happen on workplaces, in school or when we just go outside. I love my feminine energy but I also love my strong masculine side. Without my masculine I would suffer a lot. With my masculine I can demand a lot of respect and caution from other ppl. It‘s not possible when I‘m in my feminine (tried that a lot)

[@JB-og8gn]

Divine feminine needs divine masculine (and vice versa). We need to honor the divine masculine within ourselves. It is alongside a healed divine masculine that the divine feminine can be.

[@xinli5320]

Thank you Lisa, I like your context! You are amazing and you are absolutely right! Sometimes I am struggling to be myself. I know inside me I have a soft side, I want to be spoiled. Thank you for encouraging me to be me! Keep amazing!

[@wisdomfromprystinetheempress]

Your hair grew so much & made you even more beautiful than ever! Thank you for this amazing video! 🥰🤩💯

[@sophie7375]

Cette robe! ❣️Elle te va à merveille! Merci pour tous ces conseils, tu es une source d'inspiration comme toujours! ✨

[@jwlewis3661]

Oui, c’est une tres belle robe.

[@hollyc.691]

I've been using that leave-in conditioner for about 5 months and wow, what a difference! I've been using oils on my mids and ends on wash day (weekend) then washing my scalp with a detox scrub, shampoo, conditioner, and then leave-in conditioner after using a microfiber hair towel wrap for 20 minutes. My hair is so nice now!

[@samirakassem92]

This is so beautiful 💗Thank you! I would like to see healthy ways to express emotions that are suppressed or unwanted :) in a feminine way!

[@earthgirl7874]

I enjoy running or jogging on a trail, good luck to you 😉

[@aquilaarinaldis3870]

Could you talk about hair products that you use? You have such beautiful hair 🤩 Also, great content!

[@lindeclarke1344]

Lisa looking stunning as always!! Loved the tips & sending love from the UK ♥️

[@sandraduwareski]

i am loving your perspectives. beautiful!

[@AnaSofiaLoves]

These are really good tips on femininity. Every woman could be these things more. we are naturally this way. I love your tips, thanks so much! ❤

[@tritzispoosa]

Your videos are a gift to this confused world

[@robertasc.9394]

You are like Venus herself giving us advice ❤️🌸 Thank you

[@paolaaguilar5003]

As always I loved your video Lisa!🥰 Wonderful advice on how to embrace and develop our feminine nature. Do you think you could make a video about how to ask a man for things (like material things, help, etcetera) in a feminine way? I would love to learn how to ask for things without seeming desperate or demanding. Thank you for your advice and please keep going, you are doing great!❤😊

[@rebeccaalex8525]

We love to see more lookbooks and fashion advice love from India

[@trixiexiang]

Can you please share where you get *every* outfit on your channel? I know you have some videos on it but sharing where you got every outfit would be more broad and helpful. Especially your red and light pink dresses/where you’ve gotten everything you’ve already worn. An idea is to include it all in one more video or mention it briefly in every Jew video you do. Also appreciate every video you make. Truly you have the best channel on the subject you discuss.

[@JRagaz]

Beautiful video, so relaxing, so nourishing, almost a therapy. We should all, women and men, go down a bit. Would be a blessing for us and for humanity. Thank you very much!

[@BecauseofHimJR]

Lisa, you have to share with us where you got that beautiful dress girl 💅👛

[@xxtamyxx6055]

Yesss!

[@lorrainebazydola816]

I had a dress in.this same floral 30 yrs ago. Different cut, but I miss it so! Just so soft and beautiful this floral!

[@amethyst4444]

Yes please♥️

[@fe6523]

Great job Lisa Glamour!!

[@TropicalRedFlower]

Please talk about how to get things done around the house, lifting heavy things, fixing things, etc. As a single mom I sometimes have to do these things and can't hire people. I want to be soft 24/7 but more often than not I have to be strong and do hard things and diy a lot on my own.

[@lindaweedmark6025]

I find that is when I feel some of those more negative feelings like jealousy and have to pull myself out of that slump. It is not nice to have to do these things ourselves, it is counter to our feminine energy.

[@jhalakmalhotra2029]

I love empathy in both men and women.

[@evaevaevaevaevaeva]

Hi Lisa! I absolutely love all of your videos. They are so motivational and inspirational and have really helped me a lot. I'm so happy I found your channel! Thank you for all your valuable advice 💕

[@ableephraim5344]

Thanks so much for these tips

[@DoeRaeMe]

I need to work on my feminine side and touch! I wish to be more of a lady, but I’ve never been exposed to this kind of grace growing up. So, it’s something I have to learn now as a young mom with a lot of babies. I definitely want to work on my appearance more this summer! Beautiful flowing dresses instead of thrown together mom buns😅

[@life.as.victoria]

Hey love! I enjoyed this video! I’d like to see a video on your hair care or your makeup routine..etc :) 💖😄

[@mariannegirao8135]

Your hair is so beautiful! You're looking like a fairy

[@xxBelieber97xx]

Lisa i just want to say that i am very glad that i found your channel!! You're like a big sister to me (i believe we are close in age), i recently bought two sgort dresses like the ones you wear.....they are SOOOO PRETTY, one of them is pretty tight BUT NOT VULGAR and it is floral andi feel like a queen

[@maricelg777]

Beautiful Lisa . 🤍🌸🎀👒💐

[@CharityNicoleXOXO]

I just adore your dress! 🥰💖🌈 All your outfits are beautiful, but this one in particular is lovely. Where do you shop? I’m trying to Elle Woodsify my wardrobe one day at a time. 🌸 (I haven’t finished the video, so please forgive me if you mention the shop in it.) 😌

[@lorrainedzeka]

Wow this was so beautiful and well said. Thankyou so much ,keep up this amazing work

[@chiomaconstance8848]

I love you Lisa❤. Great content

[@gemmabermejo2790]

Hi Lisa! You look so stunning!!! I love watching all your.videos.💖💖💖

[@userr0975]

Loved the video, just discovered the channel 😍 subscribed

[@sashablack6963]

Could you do a video on balancing your feminine and masculine energy (specifically in the professional environment). It's something I personally struggle with as I am quite ambitious about my career and I work in predominantly male dominated field but I don't wish to lose touch with my feminine side. Would love to hear your personal on this topic!❤️✨

[@natureme4429]

Hi Sasha. I have the same issue. I noticed that when I dress more feminine, wearing skirts and also putting make up on, wearing perfume, having my nails done, I feel very feminine even at work. I hope it helps.

[@patriceesela5000]

You need to get onto the Roommates Podcast !!!

[@abenawilliams6623]

Newbie. I love this thankyou 😊

[@bibi-t2j]

You look like a radiant angel

[@cyndiapasillas1137]

Best videos everrrrr!!!!❤️🙏🤌

[@orazenou6003]

This dress is everything on you I love it so much

[@aleshaarreguin9522]

Great tips! Thank you! Also, your dress is beautiful, and you look beautiful as well.💐🌷🌸😊💐🌷🌸

[@femininevibes2213]

I love this video😍

[@Cree_Gist]

You’re beyond gorgeous love 🌸

[@marysia_ml3744]

Thank you Lisa for wonderful tips 🙂

[@MarieCace]

A vídeo to Learning embrace negative emotions please!

[@workoutmusic4209]

This video was so helpful to me! Thank you 💗

[@JuliaShalomJordan]

Amazing video, Lisa! 💕

[@FeminineAlpha-tf5og]

You did a great job on creating your videos you're so feminine you manage to draw women in also

[@FeminineAlpha-tf5og]

My full name is Alexandra I'm Russian

[@dinuli2494]

Love that dress on u! So beautiful and elegant!!!❤️

[@jolafitzsimmons8751]

Fantastic advise you are gorgeous feminine energy 💖 can you please share the website where you got your dress that you are wearing on the video thank you, Merci 💐

[@PrincessRising]

LOVE this! X

[@starlizgold7339]

😊 I see. Apart from this youtube great content that you do, what do you do… for work actually or did you use to do? I wished you were in charge of critical patients in Emergencies or theatre . Or even landing a plane in a bad weather! Femininity is definitely displayed differently on everyone

[@garyrobinson8665]

Hi this is my favourite video of yours. That dress is incredible. You look stunning. I really like softness in a lady it's very important in my opinion. Have you thought about doing asmr? You have the voice for it.

[@bellamathers6740]

Loved that video! ❤️❤️

[@alicehtwe]

Thank you so much Lisa❤️

[@virginieb.3192]

Bonjour très belle robe et vidéo très agréable ; avez-vous des extensions capillaires ?

[@dianascutelnic3118]

You look beautiful 😊 I love your dress and hair ❤

[@bossanovalvr9069]

That dress is beautiful? Where did you buy it?

[@LaGalletaLibrosyModa]

Excelente Lisa Glamorosa❣️

[@xKeepTheFaithx]

I'll keep these tips in mind 💖

[@lenarosic]

I was often told that I have MASCULINE energy...even when I try to be femenine.😅

[@pyaaratfirstspice]

I LOVED thisss💅

[@otoknopi7317]

Yes understand cycle is so important

[@darthvadersmom1192]

Where is the dress from? It looks so cute!

[@babeinblissland555]

Where do you get your dresses?

[@maynardewm]

I don’t like the saying that women are more emotional. It pretends like anger for men is not an emotion. Men are often so angry and in fight mode, but for some reason that isn’t counted as “emotional”. I would say that almost all women I know are much more level headed, and have much better judgement, because our emotions are not as extreme as men’s.

[@jhalakmalhotra2029]

We are not more emotional than man.The actual truth is we can regulate our emotions differently than men .

[@liliangoodness8154]

Please update of your dresses links or privately Tailored 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽😭😭😭I would love to own some of your pieces or similar...thus would come in handy with the knowledge I get from you.Thank you

[@ЖогинЕвгений]

Thank you!!!

[@Jackie-dc2js]

Awe you're so adorable my darling!

[@femininevibes2213]

Stunning dress I love it 😍 I love dresses only I hate jeans and t shirts its nothing wrong with them its just not my style

[@Dj19720]

I got a question and it's trying to be a serious as possible.... What is a way to be in your feminine energy and express how you feel if your partner has a tendency to hear the over exaggerated version of what was actually. said it's clearly more to something just being soft and tone. Because I try to be a soft tone I have a deeper voice naturally so I feel like it's harder to be softer in tongue even when I'm actually trying...how can you be soft and energy when they feel they are receiving the opposite?

[@Dj19720]

They highlighted my question but I’ve never got an answer 😢

[@ganeshchidambar3299]

my god... u are soo elegant

[@alissiamiller7291]

I feel like I am a soft lady.

[@michelleakinyi987]

I have bar question, Why do other women make women that take care of themselves feel like they are doing too much when it's the bare minimum?😊 Like you look good good...😆like some ladies don't like having jeans on for every outdoor activity..for example