living alone diaries: living my twenties at my own pace and it's ok if i choose slow & easy

hey boos 🫶🏾,
this week already feels a lot more lighter than last week. I'm slowly starting to realize that our twenties isn't supposed to look like how everyone's instagram highlights or feed looks.
as a normal girl, living a normal life, social media has mad me feel like i'm not living my life to the fullest because i'm not booking trips or vacations every season or every summer. maybe one day i'll get there, but for right now, i'm finding joy in living out my dream as a content creator and build a solid foundation for myself and the girl i see in 5-6 years from now.
let this be a reminder that even the most simplistic days and moments in your life are just as aesthetically pleasing as the next person you follow and enjoy watching on the internet. love and cherish your right now, before it passes you by.
sending you big, big hugs. anyways, i hope your week is going amazing! take care all ways, always. enjoy! xo ❣️
(make sure you watch in 4k, the quality is top tier 🤩)
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this video is NOT sponsored, all opinions are my own.
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camera: Sony ZV-1 & iPhone 13 Pro Max
editing software: Final Cut Pro X
music: Soundcloud & Epidemic Sounds
#livingalone #vlog #motivation

[@Shay4Short94]

“Ms. Girl” will always let me know when she’s on her way- Everything is heightened and the situations that I can usually manage physically and emotionally become impossible. Thankfully, I can sometimes see the signs and make a game plan of how to prevent some of the symptoms before they progress.

[@MissNelliesWorld]

Out of EVERY KZbinr that I’m subscribed to, I’ve never LOVED & connected with someone’s content as much as I love and connect to yours. It’s SO SOOTHING, so relatable, so knowledgeable! I love everything about you and your vlogs 😭🙌🏾🙌🏾 THANK YOU ❤

[@AmaniRakeia]

wowww, my HEARRTTT!! thank you so sooo much!! i truly appreciate you. wow.

[@Princessm1320]

I haven’t even started the video yet just read the description, but I totally agree. Being in our 20s is so hard because everyone is doing different things. Some are finding careers, some are getting married, some are having kids, some are in college, and some aren’t doing any of those things. It’s hard not to compare.

[@alexistribble6279]

I’ve been in the same position for a few weeks now, and lately I’ve been feeling so overwhelmed and defeated. But, I know one for sure, is that I’m going to be okay. 😊 Thank you for letting us see this transparent moments. ❤️ love you girl!

[@AmaniRakeia]

girrrrl, all will be well! i promise. life as an adult can just be a lot all at once. it's ok to take baby steps in figuring it out.

[@OneVeronique]

Sending you hugs❤

[@marilove11]

I resonated deeply with your comment.

[@simplymonca]

I resonated, as well. I’m feeling a little bit stronger now ❤

[@dezerismith7529]

I always appreciate your vlogging style and the smooth old school jazzy city music vibes you put into your videos, thanks for opening the book to your single life journey to us, im way older than you and im going through the same thing and your realness is what i relate to and why i enjoy watching 😊, many blessings to you Doll and happy Labor day .🙏🏽💜💕 🌹

[@slayedbyjordan]

Your videos are just so calming and relaxing. I enjoy watching every week ❤️ !

[@cb4664]

I used to experience that when I was in my 20’s…I thought I was crazy…then I started tracking my period and noticed it always happened right before. Now that I’m older it rarely happens so hold on-it gets better with time! ❤

[@sincerelySeli]

‘I’m the mood board.’ PERIOD💅🏾

[@lelethugam7913]

giiirrrl, you ATE and left NO crumbs on your pinterest account. You are HER. she is you PERIODT !

[@AmaniRakeia]

awww, thank you my love!!

[@yas7821]

Your channel is literally my comfort channel 😢❤

[@raihana.onfilm]

it's okay to not be okay and take as many breaks as you need 🧡

[@diamondecollier9867]

I feel seeenn. That cycle definitely be letting us know what’s not right!! As inconvenient as it can seem, I’m grateful for it!! I’m grateful for you tho too sis. You are always so relatable and I love it! I love seeing you get back into your routine!! It’s so motivating.I loveeee your Pinterest too btw!!

[@HaiNanaTV]

"I am the mood board" - YES!

[@thisislydiab]

“You are the visual” sounds like a great title for transitional content you could explore for your other platforms. 🌹 The night out at the art museum seems like it fed your spirit! I hope to visit and experience the event at some point myself. Lovely content as always! 🤎

[@naomib3804]

Yes!! I was thinking this! YOU ARE THE VISUAL BABY!

[@sweetnessantionette]

Yes my cycle does the same to me! I’ve been crying all week!

[@buhle_m]

Lov ur vlogs they r so relaxing... Love from south africa ❤️

[@dearomonso]

Your blogs bring me so much comfort Amani❤ Really striving to be this good. I love how you romanticize every part of your life. I love you so so much girl and I'm happy I found your channel🤗

[@thehumblehen]

I'm so happy you're feeling better - you and I were in the same vein last week! :) ...working a 9-5, wanting to start my small business, a YT channel and being a mom/wife had me feeling funky about not really having dedicated quality time for myself; always in work or mommy mode. I too had to dust myself off, reset and recenter. FYI...and chileeeee... I've gone to Gusto's like three times in the two weeks... bussin bussin! You're going to love Atlanta's fall weather... the summers here are very rainy, but Fall takes the cake! Have a wonderful week and may peace be unto you queen!

[@shermaine7579]

As usual love watching, and yes the cycle thing is off tha chain, wait till you get older, girrrrrrrrl. You are so right keep taking those moments 4 your self. Self care.💯💜

[@annetteyadon878]

Omg every time I watch your channel I get happy ❤ and your apartment is just the cutest and it’s so relaxing. I’m sure I told you that before but it really is. You’ve definitely inspired me just to do things around my house and make it look. Just comfy and cozy. Thank you so much.

[@AmaniRakeia]

awww this makes me so sooooo happy!!!

[@GulfCoastLady]

I enjoyed this vlog so much. Atlanta is where you need to be. I'm seeing so much growth since you've been there.❤❤

[@caprice4096]

Hi. Glad you are feeling better, enjoyed yourself, & had good vibe times. Peace, Joy & Blessings to you. 💖

[@tamziethestylishtraveler]

I’m here for the shopping spreeeeee!!!! So glad you had a great time out! Your content is so crystal clear!!!

[@winnieboateng5334]

Girl I love your vibe😂😂😂❤❤ when you were trying on your black bandue dress through your white shirt got me laughing. Your content is really relevant to me bcos I also live alone.

[@AmaniRakeia]

LOLLLL that shirt was giving me a HARD time

[@emeraldgreeneyes]

The car bomb going off 🤣😂🤣😂

[@Princessm1320]

12:31 omg yess I understand you. I got neighbors who work on cars and I be hearing those noises. It’s not that prominent now thankfully.

[@capsulebeats]

well..i love the title of this vlog. fan your vlogs and your honesty. thx for sharing. much love & good energy your way ✌🏾

[@Goddess_Isis]

I'm screaming at the Engine Terrorist!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Girl I just had a neighbor move in (bout a month now) with this loud ass dog! Ugh!! Twice a day. I have to hear that non stop yip yap. You got a bad dog that barks at leaves. You and your dog can go

[@simplymonca]

@5:26 💯 I’ve been stuffing things down to keep it moving and my cycle made damn sure I was dealing and healing lol

[@user-mv7dr6gn9k]

Aman love looking at your Vlogs ❤

[@magneticunicorn]

Yes, that cycle have you in your feels. This cycle almost made me lose my mind at my job because somebody kept poking me. My cycle was like sic em😩🤣

[@funmomtv]

Great vlog ❤❤❤I’m learning to be content and happy with where I’m at in life too. So I feel you sis.

[@dedrickconnell]

one of my new favorite KZbinrs

[@smileoften884]

I really wanna make my own move, bored now of myself, because I’ve never got to make one of myself but after looking at yours, it’s lit🎉

[@swelyleilane]

love see you going out and have some fun. god bless you 💕

[@RachelEthridge]

Beautiful place you have for your self

[@misskaykayRSA]

Big hair, don’t care. Love it 😍 ❤

[@AmaniRakeia]

exactlyyyyy lolll thank you babes!

[@jessicadpearce]

love the relaxed vibes, just subscribed!

[@DianaMbaye]

I love your hair 😊😊

[@naomib3804]

“You’re hot, I’m hot and your food is not” would’ve had meeeee 😭😂😂

[@RealMoves_TV]

New subscriber love everything about your videos ❤❤❤❤

[@sylviaharper4323]

Thank you for your authenticity and videos. May I ask where you purchased your large round candles from?

[@jenn_in_atl]

lmao i love when you hype yourself up

[@inthegardenwitheveliaflore4908]

❤ I just 🥰 love you!! 🥰

[@Sunkissednoe]

I experience the same thing…i am tearing up as we speak and i know for sure my period is coming tmre!! Lol i thought i was just crazy 🇯🇲❤️

[@Suddenlycalm]

“Is it not?”😂😂 It’s giving ❤

[@ashleyrobinson7462]

Museum fit was sooooo cute.

[@miyakemp106]

First of all, When you played my song (SNOOZE by SZA) while getting in the shower you peeped my entire vibe! 🫶🏾

[@estudiaresmipasion2412]

Hi guys remember that God can heal you❤

[@Tmoney6868]

Girl I feel u.

[@LeahAdiyba]

Oh god Mother Nature would have me in a headlock but a good workout routine and eating right has truly helped😂

[@alainacommander2657]

I love the full video.😁

[@ravenroes]

Girl I be the same way lol I'll have a breakdown after work and then when I check the Flo app I be like "Okay never mind" to my counselor lol

[@morganmiller6796]

At this point can you drop twice a week i’m bored it’s raining and we need your content 😂😂😂😂

[@AmaniRakeia]

I WISSSHHH! I gotta get a video editor first then it's uppp!! lol

[@BABYXJAY]

Love love love this video. New subbie 🥳🫶🏾

[@AmaniRakeia]

aww, thank you so much for being hereeeee babes!! 💗

[@jessmruth]

You are the visual! 😌

[@deetheseamstress]

My cycle get me the same way sometimes worst than others lol

[@dreamAngelXO]

3:47 agreed - im so tired of cooking but I am going to try to get in my era 12:52 lol Chile anyways...*Nicki Minaj* voice

[@user-mb9jx5tx9y]

I noticed that with myself too. Yesterday I flipped out on a random man and didn’t fully understand why

[@Suddenlycalm]

Here boo❤❤❤

[@AmaniRakeia]

thank you for being here and watching babes!!

[@Suddenlycalm]

@@AmaniRakeia I thought yesterday was Sunday. Telling my son where is the drop lol 😂

[@Princessm1320]

14:41 crazy I have the same washer as you.

[@Suddenlycalm]

“Break douwwwwnnnn..” my cycle does the same 😅

[@AmaniRakeia]

like UGH!!! cannot stand itt!!

[@Suddenlycalm]

@@AmaniRakeia which is why you’re so relatable. People love to see things they go through. Good and bad! Ty

[@naomib3804]

New subbie cause what? Cause who? Yes!

[@artsygirlmarilyn6296]

Gorgeous woman. Gorgeous jazzy vlogs especially 🎵🎵when stepping into the shower. Love the goodnight animation 👁️👁️ my eyeballs can’t see the little yellow print with the vlog going on. More contrast and size That’s what she said 👩‍🎤🎸🌊🎸💋lol 😂

[@Janedo369]

I really wish u would get them back of the head baby hairs too ❤

[@evee1233]

Don’t be fooled it’s fake fall or pre-fall. It doesn’t get chilly till late October / November lol

[@Tmoney6868]

Baby girl be cooking.

[@aishaeversley2120]

Are u decorating for the fall ?

[@AmaniRakeia]

you already know it babes!! ❤

[@CyberDMC-ds7lp]

What do you do for a living hun❤

[@Lemonpeel2021]

How did your food turn out?

[@AmaniRakeia]

GOOOOOODDDDD

[@Nombulelo_ace]

I love her 🎉....

[@AmaniRakeia]

awwww, ily tooo!!!

[@shenaytp01]

Wait…so…the food…Did they bring you a hot plate?😂

[@AmaniRakeia]

LOLLLL yes they did! 🤣

[@OaitseMot]

No I didn’t just go to Pinterest and stalk Amani 💀❤️❤️❤️ love you lots

[@morganmiller6796]

So i’m really laughing because i have been looking for your videos and my butt wasn’t subscribed

[@only1tiff]

You’re hot..I’m hot.. and your food is not I would have been on the floor cuz sir where did that come from 😂

[@AmaniRakeia]

loolll i was SCREAMINGGGG afterwards, we were just so tired that night 🤣

[@amethystqueeen909]

Got u on locked 🔒 🥴😍😍😍🤎

[@AmaniRakeia]

heyyyy boo!! love youu!!