15 Tips For Living Alone | Things I Wish I Knew Before Living On My Own For the First Time

Hello! In this video I share 15 Tips For Living Alone, Things I Wish I Knew Before Living On My Own For the First Time. My intention with this video is to give you practical advice that will help anyone transition from living with others to living solo! It can be super scary and nerve racking to take this step but you've GOT THIS! I truly hope these tips will come in handy. Don't forget to check out the resources I linked below!
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00:00 - Intro
00:51 - a little congrats moment 🎉
01:11 - tea & you ♥️
01:42 - #1 Be patient with yourself
02:21 - #2 It's lonely, so have a plan
03:51 - #3 Find the planner for you
05:07 - #4 Budgets are your friend
05:39 - #5 Stock up, thank yourself later
06:49 - #6 Meet/make friends with neighbors'
08:55 - #7 Make space your own
09:47 - #8 Be one step ahead with safety
11:43 - #9 Get good at knowing less
13:12 - #10 Craft routines that work for you
13:51 - #11 Talk out loud to yourself
14:35 - #12 Have things to look forward to
15:30 - #13 Clean as you go
16:19 - #14 Cooking for one is FUN
17:07 - #15 Start enjoying solitude ♥️
18:23 - self reflection question
About me: I was married at 18 years old and am going through the process of divorce at 21. Thank you for watching my journey.
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[@natalie4973]

Learn what makes you lonely. I would get distracted on a phone call or movie and my house would get dark in the evening. The dark made me super sad and lonely. I got in the habit of turn my lamps on really early so my house never gets dark. The warm lamp light is so cozy and safe. Sometimes you can’t fight the lonely feel but sometimes you can.

[@NolanKurtz]

This is beautiful, and I can relate. Nighttime is really hard for me for this reason. Thanks for sharing.

[@dianadickson6791]

I put my lamps on a timer. So they are switched on before dusk, then turn them selves off, say about 1am. Welcoming, cosy, secure

[@user-ef1sl4yl9e]

I can relate to above comment: I love this big flickering candle I have with a timer that comes on at the same time every night and indicates to me, "Ok, now it's time to mellow out and wind down for bedtime."🌛

[@patriciavandevelde5469]

Take a dog! Help the homeless 🙏!

[@HitoguraChanJapan]

💯 relatable

[@gretchenbond784]

I have a calendar on my fridge that only has fun things on it. I don't put anything related to work, paying bills, etc. That's for my online calendar. I love to look at my Fun Calendar. It keeps me focused on that area of my life so I don't just work...ha

[@gypsybelle4757]

Love this idea!

[@LaurenJuarez]

Um. I love this. So much. Wow what a great idea!! Thank you love!!!

[@ankitagrawal1107]

Hey! That's a great idea. :) Having a Fun Calendar with a list of things that I really look forward to do :)

[@shortgirl346]

I've been divorced for 26 years after being married for 18 years. I truly love living on my own and sharing my house with 2 cats. I tell people, "The best part of being on my own is that everything's up to me. The worst part of being on my own is that everything's up to me." I have become so independent and capable and have learned to do so many things, mostly out of necessity. Big tip: don't be aftaid to eat out on your own or go to the movies on your own. Sure, it'll feel awkward the first few times, but it's so freeing.

[@Jennifr1966]

What do you do when you're sick and having a difficult time caring for yourself? (I'm asking this more for my sake.)

[@user-vy4kh6jk1t]

You can’t just live with anyone for future care 😮.

[@annfung7402]

I totally agree with you.

[@hellogoodbyeandallinbetween]

I wouldn't consider living with cats living alone

[@mariaibarra4815]

I go to local concerts and movies or restaurants alone. Sit and watch people. Love it.

[@TaraMistsword]

I started crying within 3 minutes of watching this video. I thought I was doing a bad job. I thought I was failing. I thought because I am hungry that I'm not doing this right. But you helped me understand how big of a deal the first few months of moving out alone will be, you helped me feel so much better and cleared the guilt about being lonely or a little rocky with priorities. I cannot say thank you enough. Thank you for saying it's okay to feel the way I'm feeling. I don't feel alone anymore.. I feel like I'm doing just fine..

[@susantam5681]

My husband passed away 5 months ago & now I’m by myself. I call my family & friends. They come to visit me. I feel better now.

[@ashmurr2545]

very happy and proud of you

[@tuijawilkening]

Just stumbled upon your channel and thought these tips were for young people and almost moved on to another channel but quickly realized that as a 69 year old widow, these tips still apply. In fact, I practice most of them and love living alone Thank you.

[@LaurenJuarez]

Oh my gosh. Wow this comment has warmed my heart so so much!! Thank you for giving my channel a chance!! I am so glad it Can be helpful to people at any age and stage in life!! I’m cheering you on!🤎🫶🏼 I hope you’ll stick around and subscribe 😊

[@lindathornton3626]

Im.67 and enjoyed her video. She is a really adorable young woman. I'm sure her patents r proud of her.

[@sharonbeers4621]

I am 65 and got some great tips from you. thanks! I do think it is ok to allow ourselves to feel lonely for short periods knowing it is ok and it is not something we need to judge or change as bad or scary, this is what makes us all human and it will pass❤

[@Jennifr1966]

​@@sharonbeers4621thank you for saying that. I'm not looking forward to being alone, but my husband sleeps more and more these days, and my parents are both gone now. I had to spend all my time caring for family, and soon it will just be me, with no friends or family. So I need to find a way to change that sooner than later. I'm pretty scared, but this video helped!

[@Ladyrosethewitch]

I'm going through a divorce currently and soon I'll be living on my own. I got married right out of highschool so I've never been on my own. As much as I'm excited,I'm also nervous cause it's gonna be a whole new experience. I really appreciate the tips, they're very helpful 💚

[@user-hq3dy9vp6y]

As a highschool student who's gonna graduate this year I kinda feel u cos I really wanna experience bunch of stuff but I didn't had the chance so all I wanna say to you is you gotta be so happy on your own and appreciate your time with yourself, no matter what try to experience all the things you wanted to do but you didn't have the chance to, you still young so you don't have to feel nervous I know it's a whole new experience for you but remember you're gonna live your best life forget the past and think about NOW, good luck and I'm so happy for you

[@vanessagarcia-dw2cb]

Yes ladies!!! Lets do this! Im also separating from my partner!

[@kamrankamran8863]

I am already alone and single life wait a woman save me my life as a life partner? My life is alone and single 33?My education is graduate? My life is need a woman accepted me my life as a life partner? My life is need a woman as a wife? My feature life is dark to save me

[@rayrayndiema]

How are you doing?

[@temi4116]

You will get the hang of it Rose. Make it work, and you will be so empowered.

[@divyadeepawasthy8976]

Respected ladies and gentlemen; Born in 1973....All my childhood, teenage yrs. I've seen my parents 💥argue, 💥squabble, 💥fight over the pettiest of things. Now they're dead. But the aftermath of their marriage is such that I chose to live alone ; in peace { with my books, my hobbies, my thoughts and above all with my dear Ol'God almighty}. God sent me on Earth; alone, I choose to stay; alone, I'll die & travel to other dimensions ; alone.

[@nadiragangapersaud]

I am living alone with my mom and a brother. I have a challenging job and don't want to put my life in a stranger hands. With God's help I will make it 🙏

[@divyadeepawasthy8976]

@@nadiragangapersaud of course you will. With good intentions & a strong belief in yourself. {That's exactly what † God † intends U 2 do }.....☝🏽Remember; "Less Emotions = More life; More Emotions = Less life"

[@susandhays1640]

I have been widowed for 19 years and I love living alone... It has made me strong as an independent..💕

[@LaurenJuarez]

I’m so sorry to hear that but I’m really glad to hear you have triumphed through it all!!! Thank you for sharing this 🤍

[@alexanderfarrell8957]

I am almost 63 and have lived in a special care home for 6 years, and am preparing to move out into assisted living, so these tips are very useful, Tanh You!

[@ChiPyon]

Thanks, i feel validated now especially on the bored part. Every night, i get so bored i just walk around my apt

[@LaurenJuarez]

Find a craft or a hobby to look forward to❤️

[@decolo9832]

Thank you so much for the tips, I (34 M)got dumped by my gf 2 months ago from a 6 year relationship. I had to live with my ex for those 2 months because I was struggling to find a place for myself. Today, I was finally able to move out. I moved everything, and after everything was done, I just bawled my eyes out, like ugly crying, I probably didn't cry like that since I was a child, also a day before moving out I found out that she started dating with others about half a month ago. It hit me pretty bad and since I was living with her and other roomies for the good part of a decade and I'm suddenly living alone and the fact that she's seeing other people just joined forces and danced the polka on my psyche. Now I'm in my new bed that I built in 4 hours and watching your videos, and they really help. So thank you again I will follow your advice.

[@sunshinero9289]

What I did for me was to reach out to a therapist to help me through my emotions and being alone for the first time. Thank you for this beautiful video, it made me very positive and hopeful ❤

[@LaurenJuarez]

That helped me too so much! I’m so very glad you enjoyed this video 🫶🏼

[@joycegonzales4994]

I could be wrong, but to me, being out with your headphones could keep you unaware of danger.

[@LaurenJuarez]

You’re right!! It’s most likely a lot safer to be out with out headphones. I like to keep my left one off so I can still be aware of my surroundings 😊

[@williamjameslehy1341]

Took some getting used to, but now I love it. I love being able to eat whatever I want every single day, and I *LOVE* being able to clean my house and it just...stays that way. I'm just now starting to adjust to the fact that I can decorate my house however I want now.

[@LaurenJuarez]

Wooo I’m so glad to hear this!

[@Lunaishtar]

Going through a divorce, and honestly this gave me so much hope on one of the hard days. Thank you!

[@LaurenJuarez]

Im so so thankful this video was able to help! All the Glory to God!!! I am praying over you and asking for peace to cover you right now!

[@its4fourty848]

This video is so helpful and comforting. I am currently going through a breakup with my live-in partner. I have so much anxiety about moving into my own place, but I am also excited to really make it my own without having to run everything by my partner and get approvals to make the space the way I want it. I know this season of anxiety will pass with time, looking forward to finding peace with living alone. Will be using these tips! Especially the preparation. So thank you thank you!

[@parusudi1]

I can't believe this video!!! I have had the EXACT SAME experience for the past 14 months 😊😊😊. Thank you for this truckload of positivity ❤

[@LaurenJuarez]

Wow. I’m so so thankful to Jesus this video found you!!! You got this love 🤍🥺

[@floridadreams263]

Thank you Lauren, another great video. I appreciate you putting out so much great content. Some of these things I would have never thought of on my own. Thanks for sharing.

[@priyankayadav-en4rh]

im introverted so i think it would be very peaceful for me to live alone

[@SandraT269]

I'm an ambivert. I like to be with people when I can choose where, when and with who.

[@AvecPoesie]

Living Alone as an introvert is indeed exceptionally PEACEFUL. 🖤

[@shawshank1315]

Oh it is! As an introvert it's amaaaaazing.

[@aliciab4236]

Excellent tips. I'm not sure I could have come up with half of those at your age. I'm decades older than you, and many of those tips still apply. I didn't hear you mention books, but those have been a lifesaver for me. Not only do I learn (I read non-fiction), but I can get into a discussion with the authors through journaling.

[@jeabennett9108]

This video is confirming because I am the only one I know that do this. I have lived alone for many years and I have meticulously scheduled everything. This is something I have been doing since middle school. Even though I only follow through with half of what I write down, having a schedule keeps me productive. I even schedule little things like washing my hair or picking out my clothes for the next five days. I've sometimes been late to work because I had to make a decision before work on what clothes to wear that I did not pre set. I also agree with the content creator about chores. I only do chores for one hour.. Then I recontinue cleaning the nexy day. Like the content creator I'm least likely to get overwhelmed when I break down things I don't like into small segments one at a time.When I was in school I hated studying so I would only study each subject for one hour then come back to that subject later. If I didn't do that I would day dream and not focus intently on my subject of study. I didn't have Focus Mate in the 1990's but I did have the Library for studying. If people around me were studying then it was easy for me to study. Same thing for working out: If I saw other people at the gym working out then it was easy for me to work out. The gym was better then working out at home. This is a good video weather you live alone or with roommates or live with your family. Some parts of this video is good advice for having order and structure in your day to day life.

[@SteveMyer]

I was on my own for about 18 years before being married for a good stretch and am back on my own again . Your advice is good and your have such a friendly manner that anyone would be happy to be your neighbor 👍 (cookies or not)

[@abeagleslife]

Have been walking this journey and it's taken a little longer for me getting through the uncomfortable zone, but I'm starting to see the light. This is a very funny and inspirational video. Wishing you all the best!

[@goodenoughgirl8102]

Ha ha. I talk to myself all the time. Well also the cats as well. I’m kind of a “living alone” veteran (and a former latch key kid lol) but lately I’ve just been feeling like interesting and intelligent convo is hard to find. And sometimes you can just feel like I should have more friends. People might say you need to be more “social” but also solitude can become one of the best friends you’ve ever had. But my background was fleeing toxic relationships tho and it’s truly better to be “alone” than with bad people…for the sake of just not being alone.

[@darcygoodboe3457]

Hallelujah! I hear y’all sister! TY!

[@andreaaguilar1295]

Thank you so much for this video! ❤ this was so helpful. And so many things that feel painful are super normal from the way you’re saying them. This is an adventure! 🎉

[@NoSpringChickadee]

That little song at the end was so encouraging! Thank you for the great tips on solo life! Glad I’m not alone!

[@CatherineTalley]

we need more people like you on youtube !!!

[@LaurenJuarez]

I love you Catherine!🫶🏼

[@LaurenJuarez]

@sarahale2575 wow you are so so sweet!!!

[@tonetteraber378]

Wonderful suggestions. Thank you for sharing this. You are blessed to learn these tips at such a young age. Go you & thanks for being an inspiration!

[@sqinisekomajolq5547]

Well done. 🎉 You are adjusting well to being on your own this is good. Make sure you go for medical checkups with your doctor occassionally. ❤.

[@user-ef1sl4yl9e]

Dear Lauren, I have been living on my own for years and these tips you gave are just excellent, most I hadn't known! So even after years, these tips are great!!! Thank you for your warm, heart-felt video. You are special. May everyone who listens to you and yourself have peaceful, cozy, safe-feeling goodnights.🌛⭐

[@LaurenJuarez]

Oh my goodness. This comment means SO SO Much to me 🥺✨🫶🏼 thank you for taking the time to watch this video and leave such a sweet comment. I hope you will stick around and subscribe!

[@darcygoodboe3457]

Yes! So, Yes!

[@rachelgarrison992]

So helpful, thank you!!

[@saracameron6701]

I moved out for the first time in February and never really settled in and have been lost. But then my dog passed suddenly last week and now I have to make my apartment my own even more so I can feel at home grieving if that makes sense? So this video is very helpful. I think I’ll start celebrating my on-my-own-iversary as well!!!

[@yerocc]

I love your energy! Thank you for the great advice 💚

[@saptarshirchoudhury8597]

You are doing great :) I am so proud of you. Made a lot of mistakes in life but I am trying to be a better person.

[@angelenapulis9083]

I just recently started pursuing a divorce, which means I’ll be moving across the country to be closer to family. I’m excited for it but also feel so clueless. Glad I found your channel!

[@57waterlily]

Super great advice!! chock-full of information!

[@Holistikaylie]

Omgggg this video is amazing ! ❤❤❤ really makes me excited

[@siddharthk.sekher1960]

This was so good! Thank you🎉

[@debbiedormand1499]

that candle burning 🔥 next to dried flowers

[@LaurenJuarez]

Hahaha yeah probably not the best idea from me🤪😂

[@t.k.000]

Thank you. from the bottom of my heart. I am a nearly 20 yo student moving this summer to be closer to the Uni i wanna go to and my girlfriend, I have been TERRIFIED, but how much i know I'll be shouldering on my own for the first time and this advice truly was helpful. Even just seeing you so openly talk about the struggles of it. I'm glad there are people out there like you with a platform, letting people know there's somewhere to go and feel safe, even if its just a channel on the internet

[@LaurenJuarez]

Oh my goodness Terri I am so so glad this video was helpful for you!! You are right and your feelings are SO valid. It is scary and I was also terrified but the crazy thing is I LOVE spending time in my own company now. Day by day, little step by little step I know you will feel that too!💜 I hope you stick around!!!

[@hey-jd7fh]

thank u for this, u really touched on most of things

[@user-mf7ll4nm4n]

I have decided to live alone because I have tried to join various groups ie volunteer,recovery etc.Frankly I got very hurt.Never the less I will join others.I think the list is a very good idea.Take care of your health etc more than anything else.This you tube is v v good.

[@myshavikes6263]

Im moving out on my own this month. I am so excited! I am defintely already a very introverted person and i think itll be a good transition. I found yoir tips around to reach out/ be more social treat. I think the ones about knowing your neighbors and your "get good at knowing less".

[@LaurenJuarez]

I know you Can do this and I’m so so glad this could be supportive on your new adventures ✨

[@maddym8779]

Thanks a lot its nice and all genuine things to include whn alone❤

[@HokutoAnsatsuken]

Thanks for this!

[@patrickferdinand1901]

I just loooooooved so much this video. I¿m 22 and thinking of living alone, but my family isn't really accepting it (I have already graduated, have a job, etc) but I think they just see mee as a really young person hahaha which makes me scared of it sometimes, listening to this advices was really helpful and make me feel calm,

[@LaurenJuarez]

Hey love! I’m sorry to hear you don’t have your family’s support. That can be really hard. Do you have a friend or councilor who can encourage and support you in your decision? Remember, your life is YOUR LIFE!!! We only have one!

[@bluebuffy5]

Great tips 💯 I especially like #2

[@Randomest_Stories]

I enjoy living alone for the most part. As a social introvert, I realise I only get scared when I feel helpless and feel, if I can't be self sufficient then life is hell. One, become lonely because one can't make many social friends so it is a habit. But also, one starts enjoying the independence of alone space, but what gets to you is when u feel helpless. That's the scary part. And then the problem is u just cannot become social and when u try u feel uncomfortable or bored. Then u come back home and are happy....but suddenly a bug or pest is in the house, or a life situation that involves getting out and dealing with people and situations u don't know how to tackle and suddenly you feel HELPLESS AND LONELY and invisible with no support group. So now my conclusion is...if living alone was without fear or stress....most people will enjoy living alone. But fear and helplessness drives a lot of people to be around people. It's just a safety in numbers. Being with someone who doesn't really pay attention to u can also be very lonely and worst... isolating.

[@masterculturedunkerque7918]

No matter how we're used to live alone or being introvert, humans are social creatures and it's not ok to be all time alone or even possible

[@joyh2224]

Hey, finally, you have an actual Dresser! And choosing a Girly things. On my own anniversary day( like it ). And cooking for one, instead of my family. Enjoy my own company... Thanks for the tips.

[@neginghaheri3285]

Thanks a lot for your great video ❤

[@Usernamegoeshere93]

I’m here for the very end of this video ❤❤❤ my fav. Thanks for this I definitely needed to hear it before the big move

[@LaurenJuarez]

I’m really really proud of you!! You can do this. ❤️❤️

[@danielleehernandez9419]

Thank you for making this video.

[@annalange5414]

This helped me so much thank you

[@emrvlogs6646]

Congratulations! Freedom is powerful….😊

[@veryfil]

this is so helpful

[@paulavukonich7679]

Develop your hobby: book reading, painting, drawing, writing, photography, outdoor walking, day trips to nearby towns , fun shopping ( no spending required), baking classes, pottery, learn a new language online, plan a short vacation to a national or state park. Invite a friend.

[@LaurenJuarez]

I love this so much thank you!!

[@HitoguraChanJapan]

These tips will really come in handy! Thank you for sharing these. 😊

[@LaurenJuarez]

I’m so so glad this was helpful ☺️

[@tashamanning624]

So grateful you make and share these videos 💛

[@LaurenJuarez]

I appreciate you so so much

[@torisworld428]

Going through the first rough breakup of my life i have a few months to live with my ex partner before i have to for the first time in my life as a 24 year old living on my own and someone who also struggles with abandonment issues, chronic loneliness, and severe anxiety. This process is really hard already and im trying to make this transition as easy and comfortable as possible.

[@LaurenJuarez]

I’m so sorry to hear this Tori. It’s truly heartbreaking to go through but I know you are going to come out stronger 🤎

[@user-ef1sl4yl9e]

Thank you for being so brave and sharing!!!❤️‍🩹🩷There are so many people dealing with similar issues. You are not alone!!!💌

[@bettyboop7738]

Seek a relationship with Jesus! All else will improve ❤️ love you all ! 👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@princessleai]

im about to move out for the first time, so im happy I found your video on my feed^^

[@paulwhent1370]

I love this I’m about to be on my own as been with someone for long time and it’s been abusive but now I’m going to end up in a house share in a single room excited and nervous. A little lost and not sure how to put my life into a single room ? Would be great to see a video on must have essentials ie bed clothing space etc or game changing things you’ve found

[@IlonaMPUNGU-ov4ne]

i love the song at the end 😂❤ thank you for your content

[@gailrobey4316]

I'm new here, just found this video, so helpful. I have been on my own since my son moved out a couple years ago. I wish I had seen this video then! Great tips! ❤

[@LaurenJuarez]

Hello!!! Thank you so much for watching, I’m so glad it was helpful 🫶🏼 do you have any tips you can add that you have learned?:)

[@ryans413]

As an introvert being a lone wasn’t really my problem what did scare me at first was bill payments so I’d recommend to budget. I had to cut back on buying stuff and only buy things I need. The neighbour tip is good thing because it shows your respectful and in an emergency they can help you.

[@laurelflorio7292]

this is such an excellent and uplifting video about treating yoursekf well and self care

[@LaurenJuarez]

Wow thank you Laurel!♥️

[@user-mf7ll4nm4n]

This is you tube is exceptionally good.I am a 56 year old male .One thing I can do is to eat well ,don't have to be expensive,avoid too much anger if you can and yes plan for today,tomorrow but keep it to yourself just think maybe tomorrow might be better.

[@englishwithsarah7565]

Thank you. I really needed this

[@LaurenJuarez]

I’m so so glad this helped 🥺✨

[@Jennifr1966]

I'm probably your oldest viewer in distress! I'm 57 and have never been alone but heading there QUICKLY. My mom is gone now. We lived with her for 6 years after our special needs daughter moved out of state. My husband is mostly bedridden. We moved into a small apartment complex (4 units) and have nothing to do with any of them. (After thinking about what you said, holidays are coming. So I think I'll make some Italian treats and use the opportunity to hand them out. Hopefully it will help.) I don't know how much longer I'll have my husband, but after that I'm on my own, so I'm trying to figure out how to navigate my life. So, thank you for sharing your thoughts, experiences and encouragement to all of us. Praying you have a lovely rest of your life!

[@LaurenJuarez]

All are welcome here no matter what age and your feelings are just as valid. I am so sorry to hear you’re having to face this but I know you are incredibly strong and resilient and you will get through this just like everything else you have overcome before 🤎 I’m praying over you as well, lean on the Lord!

[@kacistushtv]

I thought I had living single down pat until I heard tip #4. I am running to Walmart right now to stock up on essentials. Thank you so much!!!❤❤❤

[@sarahrandall2254]

I love this video, and will return to it frequently. I went from living with a big family to living with a smaller family to living with multiple roommates to being a mother figure to someone's kids for a short while. Now I'm preparing for my first time alone at 27 years old. I'm excited, and a little nervous. I've got my emotional support animal, my home defense tool, and some trusted local friends and siblings so I think I'm all set. One bit of advice I want to talk about though. When dealing with cars, please don't let your mechanic or dealership know you don't know about cars. They may charge you more for not knowing what you're supposed to pay for. Ex: I had a mechanic try to charge me for 3 visits on a transmission issue but I was able to watch them do literally nothing. I started putting marks on all my bolts and anything that moved so I could prove they hadn't been touched. Got a full workup for free after that.

[@debbiestott3651]

You are so lovely. Thank you for this content and your honesty. X

[@LaurenJuarez]

Aww wow thank you so much for watching 🤍

[@amyg.8592]

Excellent advice--very practical. One variation on giving a key to a neighbor is to get a padlock-type key box (where you have to line up a dial or type a code to open it). Give that to the neighbor and if there's an emergency, you can give them the code. I'm sure the boxes can be broken into, but it's just a little more secure if you're unsure who comes and goes from their apartment, or if the neighbor might be a little too eager to check on you. :)

[@LaurenJuarez]

I love this thank you so so much!!

[@stacyjaye6350]

In this day and age, there's no way I'm giving a key to a neighbor, that's crazy talk. And don't tell me you know the person, none of us know anyone.

[@stephanie7572]

@@stacyjaye6350 My question would be, even if the neighbor is nice, who visits them? Does the super-cool gal next door whom you think you can rely on have a sketchy boyfriend? What about her cousin Joe who just got out of jail, does he drop by?

[@barbarakelly1916]

Some cities have a professional private security service that can keep a copy of your key and go in to do what's needed. These firms are bonded and insured, often staffed by retired police officers or veterans. My security service provides a record of visits, which can be useful if an insurance claim or police report is needed. Worth considering!

[@sqinisekomajolq5547]

Talk to God Jesus Christ! You are single it the most enjoyable thing about singleness.

[@user-hu5gz3vm7r]

I really appreciate we have something in common I can relate thanks for an inspiring story,God bless.

[@LaurenJuarez]

Wow I’m so grateful to Jesus this video found you!! We can do this!!

[@ameliahelms5084]

Love the editing on this video! I don't live on my own yet, but I found a lot of these tips helpful for the stage of life I'm in as well! 🤍

[@mykajaapyoungapelian9317]

Thank you 💙🥹

[@hereskrista1161]

My husband left 2 years ago. I'm now trying to come up for air. This was helpful. I don't have any friends or family near. I do know one neighbor. I'm struggling. I will say for the ladies don't garden at night last summer I was watering my plants and got bit by a snake at midnight.... Had to call an ambulance go to the hospital alone stayed alone had the Uber home because I don't know anyone. I don't know how to make friends... I'm 49 and was married for 20 years. My kids are in a different state. I can't just go home and be a burden on them.

[@darcygoodboe3457]

Be a burden, communicate with them! Let them know what y’all are going through!

[@jubiterr]

meal prepping is my way to go about food, i don't particularly enjoy cooking so that works for me. i loved your video and learning from your perspective after a divorce. i moved out of my parents in need of peace and quiet so it's interesting learning from your seeking of community. i just subscribed :)

[@darcygoodboe3457]

Meal prepping is the way to go. It’s kept me being healthy, not anemic. Because who wants to “cook” for one, do it anyways!

[@OG_lesliedixon]

Thank you!

[@kabean09]

hi Lauren, I just want to say that this video came at the perfect time for me. Thank you so much! Also, I do the same out-loud check before I leave the house :)

[@LaurenJuarez]

Hello beautiful! Aw I am so so happy to hear this!! You’ve got this 💕🤍

[@elizabethwherawati8734]

Hi, Lauren. Welcome!

[@j.m.silva__]

Thanks for putting this up,! Great tips, you're beautiful!

[@marybethbasu8858]

This is a great video; so many good suggestions. I think it's a really helpful thing for seniors who fear ending up alone later in life, like a widow. But even though I am scared of being lonely, I think there are a lot of good things about being on your own.

[@LaurenJuarez]

That’s so true!! Hopefully it helps them too! You got this 💕

[@darcygoodboe3457]

Hella Yea!

[@tatianacotofan3074]

I've been living on my own since my divorce in April 2022. With this video I felt seen and definitely less lonely. Thank you for that ❤️

[@bdfm1220]

I hope you’re well ❤

[@lotusflowerlilyy]

your vibes are SO comfy omg ♥

[@LaurenJuarez]

Ahh thank you!!!❤️

[@954giggles]

I leave the TV on so I dont feel alone

[@barbarakelly1916]

radio helps also...music, or other people talking

[@maryabreu9634]

This video has been so helpful! 😊 I have not come across one which helps people who live alone! Some very useful tips too! I actually feel less alone now! Thank you so much about the positives about living alone. Reassuring about how to connect with neighbours as well 👍 😂

[@LaurenJuarez]

Ahh hi love!! I’m so so glad this video was helpful!! I try my best to make videos for people to feel less alone so I’m really glad this kept ya company! I have a playlist called “living alone diaries ( these will keep ya compay” if you want more 🤍🫶🏼

[@kennethbailey9853]

Thank you.

[@wh17efox]

great video, thank you ❤

[@LaurenJuarez]

Wow thank you so much for watching 🤩

[@littleawkwardb9562]

I just got out of a relationship a month ago and I’m finally on my own after 27 years of living… I’ve always wanted this but for some reason the empty feeling inside became to eat at me more recently and I’m trying to shake it! This video and the comments really help 💕

[@LaurenJuarez]

Im cheering you on in your new chapter 💕

[@kate_rae_porteous]

Just what I needed

[@LaurenJuarez]

Aw I’m so so glad!

[@ExploratoryLifestyle]

I love you girl. I learned so much from you. I also registered with the app you recommended. Peace be with you. Take care

[@scottstarnes8461]

Amazing- I was just eating and flipping through KZbin suggestions and this video was one - my former spouse divorced me in 2015 and announced her engagement via Fakebook right after divorce court. It was a very hard transition - my guy friends from church ⛪️ supported me with prayer 🙏 and understanding. I’m 59 now and still living alone with anxiety, some depression and trust issues (especially concerning women). After scrolling, I see that there are three other guys that have commented - wonder how many others would if they weren’t afraid of what others would think about them. Thanks for ideas - I came home thinking about how can I make life more than just work, food, shower and sleep- repeat every day… like the main character in the movie “Nobody” 😕

[@barbarakelly1916]

Here's a few things that work for me: 1. Picking up a hobby or interest (maybe something you used to do and would like to get back to doing). Also gives you something to connect about with others. 2. Doing volunteer work, (I do a few short-term things, like box office shift at local comedy festival, helping out at co-op shop's summer fair. I don't get tied down into a regular or long term commitment with this, and have the enjoyment of meeting new people, having fun, and helping). 3. Inviting a friend/family member for a meal/snack in my home on the regular (for me, it's once every 2 weeks or so. ) This ensures that you maintain pride in your home by keeping it up nicely for visitors, and you keep up the experience of hosting. It is easy to get into a rut of going out to meet friends or always going to their places. Best wishes for livening up your life! You are a "Somebody"!

[@scottstarnes8461]

@@barbarakelly1916 Thank you Barbara for taking the time to reply to my musings this evening (8:17pm EST now) No. 1 is the one I’ve been thinking about since I commented… I used to draw for fun and it’s something I want to return to. Bless for caring enough to write me. 😊

[@aliciab4236]

It seems to me being single is harder for men as discussing feelings isn't encouraged. Here are a few things that keep me sane: 1. Having a pet. 2. Focusing on things that bring me joy like sailing. 3. Learning new skills. I'm studying Swedish. 4. Reaching out to friends via text and phone. 5. Making myself special foods. 6. Having a cozy place to read complete with a throw, a variety of tea and scented candles. 7. Scheduling workout time. 8. Practice gratitude journaling before bed. There are many options. I hope you find some things which bring you joy. 🙏🕉

[@scottstarnes8461]

@@aliciab4236 Thank you for caring enough to reply to my comments with really good ideas. I agree that some men don’t share what’s going on with them because a lot of men think doing so makes them appear weak. I was a part of men’s integrity group two years ago where this wasn’t a problem- all of us need to share on our path to healing ❤️‍🩹 it was the most accepting and honest group I have ever been in. Guys that are married won’t share about their struggles because their wives will lose confidence in them and their security will be compromised - I know because I’ve been there. Thank you aliciab4236 and bless you.

[@annfung7402]

My ex-husband got married shortly after the divorce, causing me heartache.

[@user-hc7dd2qu3k]

Smart you, brave you $ wise you. Thank you for your wisdom.

[@lily3323]

This is SO helpful thank u

[@LaurenJuarez]

Oh yay I’m so glad thank you so much!

[@stephanieharries7746]

❤ Love it!

[@LaurenJuarez]

ahh thank you so much!

[@calebnoble6426]

Thank you

[@Sona77.]

You’re so young! This was great advice. I want to move out, but I’m not so sure if I can do it for some reason. Thank you again.

[@LaurenJuarez]

Ah thank you so much for watching!! What do you think is your biggest roadblock right now?🤍

[@Lanasilveiraah]

hi there! I've stumbled across your video, and i found it really touching :) I'm usually the quiet viewer, but this video made me think for a while I'm scared for whatever is going to happen in the future, I'll move abroad when i finish high school and I'll be on my own. although i really love to be alone, I'm afraid of what is going to happen, because my family or friends will not be there with me, so I'm feeling a little bit lost thank you so much for your advices, I'll do my best to apply them in the future

[@LaurenJuarez]

Hi there!! You are so sweet, I know it’s so scary, it is and you’re already doing a great job acknowledging that! But guess what! You are going to do such a great job in this new chapter, you might even love it!!!!💙

[@Lanasilveiraah]

@@LaurenJuarez you are very lovely 🧚 thank you for everything! I am rooting for you as well ❤️‍🩹