Living Alone | I'M STRESSED + opening up about plans for 2024!

[@denise92907]

Amber you was giving unbothered the last video. Be honest with yourself and know many of us as women have been here. You ain’t gotta front for us. We can feel you more than anything. Much love.

[@AmberMartinTV]

i’m single, yes, but wavering feelings i show on camera don’t rely on that fact…i love all the support of course🫶🏾

[@kenyakeoni]

That's the journey, though. It has its highs and its lows.

[@Jolee51S]

@@kenyakeoniLiterally! Idk what these people expect from Amber. Shit gets crazier every new video.

[@kikig604]

@@kenyakeoniexactly! Luckily we have an inside look on both! I respect that she’s showing the ups, downs and in betweens!

[@wellwemovingonup7075]

​@@AmberMartinTVAt some point we all have to grow up. Therapy is a great stabilizer when our personal life is in a free fall. Unchecked mental heath issues such as depression, anxiety and grief. Are a huge problems in our black communities.

[@Osnapzitsbernice]

Y’all everything isn’t about a man or a relationship lol Amber is just going through that midlife crisis situation or just the realization of “oh I need to figure out what I actually want in life”. We are about to turn 30 this year and that brings about its own anxiety and stresses and desires. God got it girl! Trust the process

[@AjaJanga]

Exactly this is her first time living by herself that alone can be overwhelming

[@Osnapzitsbernice]

@@AjaJanga exactly! It’s a lot to process!

[@courtneyparrish8576]

Amber it’s okay not to be okay. You loved this man over 5-6 years. I think you are trying to convince yourself that you are fine but your heart is telling you “ it will take a min”. It’s okay to cry yourself to sleep, trying not to look at old pictures or old videos. It’s okay we all been there. I think you going on vacation is a escape from thinking about what all happened. Heal baby Girl! Step by step. It’s going to get better but just not now love

[@makhadziparousiaphusewa1367]

Exactly. You don't always need to be strong. Be in touch with your feelings and allow yourself to feel the pain

[@courtneyparrish8576]

Correct but we know how that pain feels. We start overthinking, questioning ourselves ect

[@vivaladeee]

I love this. It's definitely okay, to not be okay.

[@DonnaAnderson1]

It’s a process, one day you feel like you got it, the next day not so much and it can be uncomfortable and overwhelming. God got you, you got this. The end of this year will be a phenomenal update from you of all you accomplished.

[@jadenknox9230]

I saw a video on TikTok that said to plan your year out by each quarter and plan what you need to do week to week of that quarter to accomplish your goals.

[@JudithSitero]

I saw that too!

[@NewlyNaturalMiss]

These are 100% natural emotions, whether you’re single or not. Life is a rollercoaster sometimes irregardless of relationship status.

[@iamLaTishaNicole]

Write the vision and make it plain. God is calling you into a deeper relationship with Him this year Amb ❤

[@givens2020]

Y'all were together for years friend, it definitely takes time! I'm rooting for you ALL 2024!

[@thatlamedudeworld2514]

The experience of living alone is a journey of ups and downs! I moved to a new state alone all I can say it been a journey finding out things about yourself and etc

[@kdouglas3661]

Going through this now even though I truly thought I’d be fine. It is a lot of lonely days

[@chillingwithteia8498]

In my experience when God is shifting you it’s best to go with the flow because if you fight against the shift it always backfires

[@Consciouskayy]

Amber this is REAL life. Think about all the women who stay in relationships that no longer serve them just because of the anxiety of starting over or being alone. So you are already WINNING! By putting you first .. I am solely into manifesting I create a vision board and frame it and I also journal. Write down your ideal life as if it has already happened. I manifested my husband after being in dead relationships that I felt like wasted many years of my life. But once I moved out got my independence and focused on me and what makes me happy entirely, I wrote a prayer for my dream husband as If I had already met him and a months later I did ! And also the sofa is giving 😂😍

[@courtneyparrish8576]

Also for people who’s doing Vision boards, understand that most of the time , what you write will not be as of “that month or this year” it’s on God time! Sometimes he puts you in a situation where “ this doesn’t need to happen just yet, wait and you will see why”. But then it happens two months later… Anxiety and stress happens to all of us but Pray, go sit by the ocean and just write in a diary and listen to the waves

[@jemsfromjen]

Yes hun, this is extremely true. Amen!! God's time and will! Not ours! 🙏🏽

[@Ferrist1]

Every year is your year. Change comes as it should. Don't force it, let it process.

[@kiannalenore2437]

That could be your change, accepting change!

[@AmberMartinTV]

mmmmm points have been made…

[@wellwemovingonup7075]

​@@AmberMartinTVYou hate for anyone to speak truth to you. Grow up! Get the therapy you need. So that you don't end up being stuck in this emotional nightmare. Your dad abandoned you and that has destroyed you emotionally.

[@kiannalenore2437]

@@wellwemovingonup7075 not too much on Amber now! We lead with love over here, Stink!

[@laddenigerra2]

@@wellwemovingonup7075omg you need help. such a nasty and foul mouth.

[@rachelb7215]

Yes Amber! Nothing changes if nothing changes! You got this girl!

[@rashebaaa]

Definitely can relate to this. I just felt like I’ve needed a change in all aspects of life. Not sure why but I just feel that 😅

[@Pinkest1988]

I did my vision board on canva, & put it as my home screen wallpaper. Sumthg abt poster board & magazine cut outs hanging in my house is so damn tacky & honestly I'm prob gona put it away & nvr look at it. But I always have & am in my phone so I'll always look at it. Last year was my 1st year doin it & I actually manifested my engagement. But be very specific when doin it.

[@KeysheanaRochelle]

I am currently trying to move on from a 3 year relationship and the living situation is crazy because we just signed our lease together a few months back. Binging your recent videos gave me so much motivation to plan everything out this year and all i can say is 2024 is truly going to be my year! I love your energy and content. Thanks for sharing this part of your life with us 🫶🏾

[@loverofallthingsbeautiful2]

🙏🏽 for you sis.

[@KeysheanaRochelle]

@@loverofallthingsbeautiful2thank you 😔❤️

[@VibrantPeace]

I love your mom’s support so much !!

[@ViciousVixenBaybee]

I deeply believe in manifesting. I journal every day, sometimes 2x a day. Helps w my anxiety . Don’t have too many people I trust w my emotions and intentions. Words are very powerful girl. I made my vision board New Year’s Eve and it was such a relaxing experience. Love waking up seeing my goals :)

[@TerraMarie34]

Amber, can you do a video talking about how you manage your entrepreneurial work schedule and how you’re able to stay creative when you’re mentally drained? I mean you have a lot going on outside of that, so it’s impressive that you’re able to keep up with being an entrepreneur while keeping up with everything else. Where does the motivation come from?

[@strategysessions]

Habakkuk 2:2-3 And the LORD answered me: “Write the vision; make it plain on tablets, so he may run who reads it. For still the vision awaits its appointed time; it hastens to the end-it will not lie. If it seems slow, wait for it; it will surely come; it will not delay.

[@brianad.2542]

Bro. You calling your mom & her giving you scripture and explanation almost brought a tear to my eye. That clip is so powerful !

[@msbrandimsmith]

"how black of you." i'm so weak 😂

[@lavoka96]

That’s got me crying Lmaoo

[@_fallforautumn___]

I love you Amber!!! Literally been locked in w you since college days😩only person i still keep up w on KZbin 😭 I wanna shine light on the vision board and bible verse. What a lot of ppl misinterpret is the fact they we think God is saying to write our own vision down and make it plain for Him to do what we say. What God is shining a light on is to write down the vision that He gave to the person in this verse. Its easily understood when you read a few chapters into this verse. But I wanna see you win and do the things the Lord has already graced and favored you for! Vision boards are dope when we invite God into our plans and allow Him to give us direction or re direction cause we can only go so far out of the will of God. With love🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@KleanTemple]

The scripture your mom read (Habakkuk 2:2) is me right now. Im writing it all down in faith, taking some action, and I know God is gonna open doors this year🙌🏾. Loved your video, and thanks for being so transparent💕

[@samanthawilliams621]

Just think, this moment of transition for you will be a pivotal part of your journey of your transformation into who you are and who you can be. It’s a bittersweet thought but I hope you feel grateful for where you’ve been and hopeful for where you’re going!

[@lifewithlesak]

Okay transparency! Hey Amber! You got this 🫶🏾

[@RYLEandACE]

I have been watching you for years! I’m glad we finally got a video in January lol.

[@c.nicholle8250]

When Amber said yall usually don’t see my a** till March I hollered!! We love you ❤🫶🏾

[@Howfineisjasmine]

Amber I don’t think you know how amazing you are! Just from the way you edit your videos you should be helping in production & film with some of these big companies like Issa Rae. There is no way you are this good and this different and not putting yourself out there as much as you should! Your personality is definitely the icing on the cake

[@DeeRayOoo]

I’m loving how often we get to see you now! I truly missed your videos! Praying this season gets easier for you! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@elizabethsimpson610]

Amber, the reason we write the vision and make it plain is to denounce every thought and enemy that whispers about what reality only looks like now. Stay blessed love ❤️ keep going.

[@blessybaybee3]

I feel you about the anxiety in the beginning. I took 2 years off from doing a vision board and sitting down to set intentions for the new year but I literally had the worst 2years of my life during that time. So I made it a point to stick to what works for me and make that vision board, write it in my journal and say it out loud because phew that was not it and I know God is in control so there’s no need in acting like he’s not.

[@ninany3870]

Your mom just gave me some jewels on writing down your visions. Yesss 🧑🏾 momma’s

[@tiffanywho11]

Happy New Year Amber! I’m praying blessings, positivity, growth and peace for you this year!! Happy New Year friends in the comments I hope everyone has had a good holiday season and is going to have an amazing 2024!!

[@aishamawusi]

No Micah had me dying I had to rewind to make sure I heard exactly what he said 😭😭😭😭 I did a vision board last year and stood on business! I saved it as a wallpaper on my phone to look at it everyday and it worked! Praying for you amber ! You got this 😊💕

[@annika2271]

“That’s so Black of you” is WILLLLLLD the way my mouth dropped girllll😂😂🤣🤣

[@DJKaylaGTV]

Happy New Year, Amber! ❤ We’re rooting for you in this new season!

[@AmberMartinTV]

Thank you!!

[@wellwemovingonup7075]

​@@AmberMartinTVEnough with the tough girl act. You're not hood you're an educated college graduate. Get into therapy so that you can live your best life.

[@sharinadavis9715]

You just amped me up! This was a reminder of what the goal is for 2024!!

[@loverofallthingsbeautiful2]

Praying for your healing. And hopefully one day you all will get back to being good friends.

[@PhilP5924]

This is so real. I think we're all on the struggle bus rn.

[@Desireealycia]

Amber i will say, writing it down definitely makes a hugeee difference. I’ve been writing things and making them plain and GOD has been answering. Habakkuk 2:2. Glad you’re doing that ❤

[@melloxox1]

Amber you’re doing so well, stop being so hard on yourself! Is it because we are approaching 30 (the pressure) 😩🥺

[@AmberMartinTV]

when i turned 25 i was like omg 😩…turning 30!! eeeeek😬😅. hahahaha new era type ya know.

[@kaetovalentina]

this is my dream apatment

[@melloxox1]

This is just LIFE, Ups and Downs 🙏🏼❤️

[@JammyG360]

Seeing you go from reluctant to just writing down your vision board was really nice to see. I keep mine as my phone, ipad and laptop wallpaper and last year only 3 out of 11 things didn’t happen. I realized though that I wasn’t ready for 2 of those things, i just didn’t have the capacity to get them and sustain them. The other, i didn’t give it much effort. Vision boards are cool but somethings are in God’s timing and if it doesn’t happen this year it will happen later, if it’s suppose to. 2023 was great to me overall. Good luck 😊

[@kameronalexia4435]

Just came across your channel, thank you sm for being authentic and showing it on the internet. 5 mins in and you already have another subscriber. Knowing is half the battle you got this frfr babes, one step at a time

[@imanibrooke]

The way I’m going through the same thing and look forward to seeing/hearing from you. And tell mom thank you for being active on Tik Tok dropping those gems about finances 🫶🏾 happy new year Pisces sistaaa.

[@AmberMartinTV]

You got this!

[@ryanelee]

What is her mom's tik tok?

[@laddenigerra2]

yes what is her tik tok please

[@sabrinastrong]

This was really therapeutic to watch fr I also am not the type to do vision boards and whenever people ask me to make them, I decline. Seeing you do yours and hearing your Mom’s explanation pushed me though. I have to make my dreams clear to not just myself but God if I want them to become my reality. Also, I love how you let your emotions flow; in a mood for a little, then vibing to music, then talking to family etc., your content though well edited and aesthetically pleasing always is still real. Sending you all the love Amber, happy new year 🩵

[@mizzpeach01]

Oh this is me! If it’s too big of a change I’m staying in comfort. I definitely need to change this too Amber! Needed this video.

[@daneshajones]

Happy New Year Amber! Take each day one day at a time. I hope 2024 will be a prosperous and fulfilling year for you!

[@janellemoore8979]

Happy New Year!! 2024 is going to be a Blessed, Successful, Accepted, Approved, year!!

[@nikitasworld1437]

Happy New Year sis ❤ This year is about to be a whole movie and you're the main character.

[@Qbabe2448]

Lol 😂 I giggled a little too hard when you said “y’all usually don’t see my a** til March”, you really have been spoiling us.

[@adeolaminaa]

Omg I overwhelmed by the consistency

[@jazmineemonae]

I just knew we wasn’t gonna see you until your birthday 😭 but hope your new year is off to a great start! 🫶🏾

[@thecandylipgloss]

The awkward black girl skit aka insecure moment is so real. Issa was spot on with talking to yourself in the mirror

[@itsFatimaJ]

I love how you touched on the fact that writing helped you to see yourself accomplishing your goals which is essentially what faith is , seeing it beforehand, proud of you friend for trying new things and giving yourself grace along the way, thank you for sharing such intimate parts of your life , which you don’t have to do but it’s appreciated ❤️

[@naomibeautymind6226]

I think if you write your plans down you make more of a commitment. If it’s just in your head it’s more like an idea. And if you’re an overthinker like myself, there is constantly something that comes to mind. Writing it down also helps to figure out your actual thoughts and feelings. Also sometimes we want something but got will rejected it for us cause he knows it’s not the right thing for us. That’s my take on it.

[@brittneykeairaa]

Though you don’t have attachment issues ….. This is normal. You don’t have to be rigid, let it flow.

[@cherisselundy7786]

Break ups are hard period . To me it doesn’t matter how low the relationship is because whatever you put your energy to and effort to and then decide to no longer entertain is a lot . One day you feel like your that girlieee the next day you feel like wtf ..so every video won’t be the same its all a journey.. days ,months,years will go on amber will be able to look back at these videos and see were she has grown and what she could of maybe change but that’s for her not everybody else . I appreciate the transparency everybody can’t do that .

[@taj90]

2024 is going to be an amazing year🎉🎉🎉 Im claiming that for all of us.

[@miszbrown6801]

We are here for the consistency!! 🙌🏾☺️ loving all these uploads! 🔥❤️

[@takara.nicole]

Positive mindsets all year 🎉❤

[@sakaelajahstice]

amber your couch is so gorgeousssss

[@SamariaYvonne]

Habakkuk 2:2, Your Mommy is so right. Love the wisdom she is passing to you.

[@Fashion_With_Tamyia]

Happy New Year, Amber. The Bible verse is Habakkuk 2:2-3🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@OhhChey]

Your mom reading the word! It does help

[@Versonyca]

I just got done letting go of a toxic love relationship that I hold on too so I feel more better for this year for 2024 and I will be on my grind to get in a new environment, a new house, and drawn closer to God

[@lifeasmiyaa]

I’m literally making my vision board rn! This was perfect timing! Wishing you much success and blessings this year Amber🩷🩷

[@KateraKiitten]

i love you amber, happy new year mama! 💕

[@flwrchylds]

I’m convinced all Pisces are the same bc girl no one’s sees me until March every year lmao I start getting weird around the end of October then I become alive again in March then it’s back to the birthday blues 😂 Happy New Year Amber!

[@QueenEst]

When Amber uploads it’s really like a breath of fresh air. Happy new year Amber and everyone else.🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@Ashleyunfiltered]

You’re on a new journey of self discovery. It will take lots and lots of time to find a new way of being and thinking. Time does heal and thanks for letting us in to see this transition period 🤍🙏🏾✨

[@sadielemons665]

I needed this one sis. It’s lonely without my ex but I would rather be lonely than be places I don’t belong. ❤

[@jadejahrobinson]

HNY! I did a vision board for the 1st time too. Had the same thoughts during and after! Very excited to crush these goals.

[@eboniquef9101]

Your sister is cracking me up with the cheese board

[@honeydipsunshine]

I’m digging the updated editing though. Feelings ebb and flow, that’s the game.

[@teiwade18]

Did you tell us where the couch was from? I love it!

[@blacksunflower2958]

I’m going to be making a vision board this weekend while my son is gone and I can concentrate lol he’ll be away for the weekend so I plan on fully cleaning my house and making and hanging my board ! I slept through the new year lol and haven’t done so bad week one but I need to write things down !

[@VivianEtugbo]

Hey! I wanted to reiterate the Bible verse your mom was talking about. Habakkuk 2:2-3 which LOOSELY translates to “write it down so that the Lord can take it up and run with it. At the appointed time, it will certainly come to pass and not delay”. Thank you for sharing your journey with us! God bless you

[@SDeeze]

"I already said I don't want that nasty a** turkey" took me out lmfaaoooo!!!

[@dickersonr6172]

Happy New Year Amber. Look at as your opportunity to embrace growth!

[@AmberMartinTV]

definitely!

[@patriciabell8360]

Lmfaoooo Amber not understanding the concept of charcuterie is sending me 😂. I love that your sister is food boujie. I love me a good savory, salty, sweet combo with my charcuterie as well.

[@these.twenty.somethings]

I’m so proud of you!! You can tap into your emotions it’s so good to see you try new things! What an inspiration and great job for listening to your mom :) this was inspiring. Love you getting closer to the Lord ❤

[@JamieLeeR]

I know how you feel. This year I’ll be 29 and it’s a lot to think about, a lot I want to change! I know it’s going to be a journey worth while! Many blessings to you, you’re going to be just fine! No worries

[@teelc0253]

This was really good Amber!!! Happy New Year!!!!

[@BP-fh8np]

The shift is already happening and that's what's making you a bit on edge because it's new and different. Just breathe and relax in it❤

[@growingfuturesfarmgardenpa5540]

Okay I think u have found that you like it Just a thought I set my goals in October that is when the planners start and it’s less pressure in January

[@aliyahsplaylists]

when your sister was telling you what micah said 😂😂😂 kids are hilarious

[@taj90]

I will write my goals down on notability...I want to see how many goals i accomplish

[@_signedbyni1952]

Loving the Consistency sis ☺️

[@keneyshamckinney2124]

Will love to see you go over your vision board and talk us threw it

[@UNRULYMARSHA]

Ive never done a vision board but the way your momma explained it i might make one

[@jadejahrobinson]

Love the thumbnail pic of your rug. The shape is ✨giving ✨

[@mickasoul]

Yoooo the mirror talk was sooooo real

[@therealzin3746]

Happy new year!!! Amber we are currently living the same life, we got it KEEP GOING!🎉

[@edeokao]

love how quick Amber is to call her mama because same! 😂🥂

[@bibio7236]

I really enjoyed this video. Happy new year, Amber!