We Broke Up

[@jasmynsreality]

It’s so refreshing to hear your point of view. I got out of a 3 year relationship and my family is expected me to cry and let myself fall apart. 2 months later I met my husband and now we’re celebrating 8.5 years together and welcomed a baby into the world last year. Some people gotta know when to move on and see they value you have in yourself.

[@Shaquana2k12]

Oh wow yeah people expect people to cry out same thing with me I stop taking to old flings and finally give this guy a chance and now we are married

[@paigebae1]

I needed to hear this awwee it’s hope for me. I just left my 5 year relationship and I don’t ever want to deal with another person again

[@ANWEclecticTaste]

I started watching you before you got into a relationship with DB. I really appreciate your very level headed, regular corner of the internet. Wishing you well on this next stage in your journey.

[@AjaJanga]

Same here was before her relationship

[@sheerriagraham3491]

Same was here before the relationship. We locked in OG status college party days with Hannah banana ❤❤

[@TypicallyToni]

I respect you even letting us know about the breakup. Because you didn’t have to…we could’ve just filled in the gaps. Love you sis..and if you’re good then I’m great! 😅

[@thebossmommynetworkllc]

I’m sad! 😢I respect your vulnerability and we support your new journey sis. Proud of you! ❤

[@Desireealycia]

For Amber to be opening up to us is big. We love you girl. It’s okay. Life happens. GOD GOT YOU❤❤❤

[@keannaprice]

Period! ❤

[@strategysessions]

Y’all actually falling for this scripted created narrative….there’s one born every minute 🪝🎣

[@kristinahoward8568]

Never clicked so fast in my life… I am praying for the both of you.

[@AmberMartinTV]

thank you😊

[@jesuslovesfamily]

GOD got you Amber for sure❤..ohhh what kind of lipgloss was that???

[@lancewoojonesjr.2315]

When bro didn’t even take album covers off the wall when she moved in i knew what was up.

[@fatsani27]

He also shrugged the whole moving in thing like he was getting a roommate. It wasn’t an elevation of the relationship.

[@stephaniewatson9759]

@@lancewoojonesjr.2315 She hung them up

[@mizzannie001]

Y'all don't listen to Amber block that man... BLOCK him y'all know y'all ain't that strong 😂😂😂

[@AmberMartinTV]

lol you prolly right. I’m one of Gods strongest shoulders when it comes to these n…i swear hahah. block him y’all.

[@1Chinadall]

Yes going Cold Turkey is the best thing ever LOL Facts

[@kimmiyonnewells6291]

Aw, it is a little heartbreaking 😢 to hear this news because I think we all loved you and Donavan together, but we all have to choose and do what’s best for us individually. I wish the both of you nothing but the best.

[@babygirly217]

This is exactly how handling a break up should happen. We don’t possess anything or anyone. Law of detachment, real grown woman energy! I’m excited to see your next steps Amber & the living alone era. -Love a subscriber since college vlogs before Micah was even born❤❤❤❤

[@NotSoTypikal]

🎯

[@candicebolden1300]

Who is micah?

[@princesstayy2274]

@@candicebolden1300her little brother…..

[@mrboneman4354]

its never easy to break up with someone i can tell you are hurting you are all over the place with this one. look to god he will help you out sis

[@amoreadrienne]

This is the one ☝🏽

[@SunBurst821]

I love ambers views on breakups but for anyone else going through it, just know it’s okay to feel hurt, or to cry. Allow yourself to feel your feelings. However, like she mentioned, life goes on so just know these feelings are temporary! And you’ll get through it❤️

[@jennyxyz]

You’re young! Shit happens, praying your new journey treats you well ❤

[@PracticallyHealed]

Heavy on the “wrap that shit up” . Life is short, you can heal without sitting in sadness forever. Loved this❤️❤️

[@alexiswilliams4738]

I went through a breakup in July. I was fine the next day. Everyone else wanted me to be sad. It was so weird to me. Glad I’m not alone.

[@CcoachBiz]

I think because people have this visual of women being stressed and depressed over a breakup. These 2023 women aint nothing to play with. Oh more women is moving on. And that's how it should be. Move on and be at peace. Good for you sis. God will bless you with someone greater and better if he havent already

[@sequoyahzaire4849]

Ugh I just love how you carry yourself and how respectful you are not only to the other party but also yourself

[@jazzyj904]

The way this video had me CACKLING because you were so “everything will be fine” about everything. Because that’s such a good feeling. We don’t see a lot of women coming online to talk about how they are in fact, OK and they know they will be OK.

[@MsChantae]

Seems like she detaches very easily and also isn't missing out on much besides time invested.

[@Rachaelizabeth101]

Thisss! Amber is such a breath of fresh air honestly! I mean she always is what did we expect 😅🫶🏾

[@Adelaideee10]

I’ve been here since college days with Hannah. I’ll be here through every aspect of your life. I hope you’re okay ❤

[@QueenEst]

Your personality has always been chill 😊I love how open but private you’ve always been. I do wish you posted more pictures on IG tho lol. Hope you get everything you want in life. ❤

[@AmberMartinTV]

I need to! lol. Ig is soooooo…

[@QueenEst]

@@AmberMartinTV I get it lol how about tik tok mini Vlogs lol

[@wellwemovingonup7075]

​@@AmberMartinTV Narcissism equals bitter, sad and lonely.

[@TWForeeever]

@@AmberMartinTV lol nah don’t do it. IG is falling apart.

[@msreyn8062]

I will never circle back. I get over an ex very fast as well. I value and love myself way too much. With time you will get over an ex.

[@taraalston8697]

Me too, girl. I'm getting a divorce, and it's God's blessing. I'm starting life all over, and it's beautiful. I'm enjoying your new start.

[@ItsBrittany.]

Dang! May i ask why? Im a little over 2yrs in and its THE HARDEST THING EVER!!!! I can see why folks get divorced cause the work thats required be having u pulling your hair out. Its tough. Folks say the hardest are the early years. Ugh its tough.

[@Ashleyunfiltered]

Why did you divorce?

[@CaraMarieTV]

I’m glad you did this on your time sis!! I’m happy for this new journey you’re on

[@KH-vv6kr]

I love this bc some people can’t break away from relationships like this. You can outgrow good ppl and it sucks but it’s very mature walking away and choosing your self and desires. I admire that.

[@natashaharris4750]

What a message.❤ I ruminate on things far too long. Thanks for sharing. Continue being a dope as woman.

[@SweetestRebelEver]

My Pisces sis! Sending you love! 🤍

[@Deettamonique]

Yass she mentioned Jai. A Miami vlog is coming up soon 🎉❤! This was very mature of you. I wish you both the best and God bless you both.

[@Txshonxe]

As a fellow Pisces we are the same !! People say I’m nonchalant because I get over things easily but I refuse to be stressed. I rarely comment on videos but I had to support you Amber 🙂

[@renisha56600]

I'm a pisces and I get over everything else fast except relationship 😢 i really struggle with moving on

[@AmberMartinTV]

same…refuse to be stressed. So I just gotta let go & let God chile

[@Qbabe2448]

I’m a Pisces too and people always tell me that I’m either nonchalant or just don’t care, but I do care I just don’t like to dwell on things and allow for it to keep me in a bad mood.

[@tieshadiane]

I’m a Pisces as well and i always get the nonchalant comments! We do care but don’t like to feel vulnerable I think

[@Wavyfeels]

Pisces here. Once I let go…I really let get. I do allow myself time to feel the emotions. Sometimes I want to sit in them but once I feel it’s enough I’m over it

[@lenabaskin3605]

Definitely rare! Thank you for sharing this vulnerable side I know it’s not easy ♥️

[@TeairaLaniece]

Loved both of y’all together but y’all are young, go date, experience life. Both of y’all will be grateful for this in your 30s.

[@MimiSimone98]

They do always come back and when they so your mind is so much clearer and every decision is so much smarter! Love it for you!!!

[@_Blondelee_]

As a girl who hates being dramatic & emotional but is INDEED that, I feel you 😂🤎 Respectfully I love your genuiness at all times.

[@AlexisAriess]

I love how you broke things down !! I’ve personally subjected myself to a few things in a certain relationship and your words really helped me understand that sometimes things just don’t work out. God isn’t going to punish me for doing what I feel is best of course after praying on it thanks Amber

[@eroseabroad]

Down for the next chapter. Been here since college and we rocking with you boo ❤

[@moca_supreme]

I’m wishing you well !!!! My bf and I had a big hiccup this year and I found myself single for a few months . When we got back we were stronger than ever . Of coarse that’s not the case for everyone but I’m hoping whatever the outcome it be a happy one ❤

[@MissNajeeTV]

I admire you Amber, as a young woman listening to your perspective & ways to handle hard situations other than society’s go-to coping mechanisms is so refreshing…Blessings to you ❤️

[@najashawni7211]

Omg!!!!! I haven’t watched the video but the title Amber 😩😩 if it’s true, better is otw! It’s time to focus on yourself..elevate and grow! I’m rooting for you girly!

[@briannastrong5686]

Me and you got CRACKED TF UP about circling the block 🤣🤣 “did you know today was Black Friday” bishhhhhh 🤣🤣😂😂😂😂

[@teeerhodes]

“general, general.. I’m tryna be relatableee” lol love you always🤍 and def get back to the try on hauls and random unboxings

[@denise92907]

I adore you, Amber but I’m not buying the whole “I’m cool, get over it” phase. It’s ok to be vulnerable. Not with us but with yourself. If it was real love, you need time to heal. Laughing everything off will one day turn into explosion. I wish you both the very best. I’m looking forward to more frequent uploads❤

[@Leevon74]

Thank you..100% facts. I think i see it as you do for i have 3 sons my eldest is like Donovan. My husband and i just said this generation is built different and its gonna be a struggle for them to be in an committed longterm relationship

[@aprilmiller2374]

​@@Leevon74Man she gave herself time she felt she needed to heal who are we to tell her how she should be

[@aprilmiller2374]

You clearly aren't a day 1 fan she has always been this way

[@denise92907]

@@aprilmiller2374 how she’s always been has nothing to do with my comment and certainly didn’t make it right. Be a fan of yourself not others.

[@aprilmiller2374]

@@denise92907 I'm allowed to be a fan of who I want lol and I know how to manage to be a fan of her's as well as myself lol that's your problem trying to police how others should be

[@everythingglam7676]

I love how you can decide someone isn’t for you and adjust. Wow the amount of time I stayed somewhere I shouldn’t have! ❤

[@TheElephantInTheRoom12]

I am 6 months late to this party about your break-up and your healing journey. Not to come across as non-supportive but I am always the elephant the room so here goes. I am older so I have a life experience perspective to share. Sometimes when we are young we need or want a break from a long term relationship to find ourselves, explore life, have that wild and crazy "situationship" or to just date that new person that checks the boxes of what we think we want and that is okay. Doing that can be good and bad. In a good way we grow as a person and have a great time doing it or we do that but lose someone who we could have grown with and could have been our person. I have watched you since college and always thought two things when I did see you and Donovan. One that he was a keeper and that he seemed like he was your person. However, I only saw what was on camera so there were things I could not have known. Just wanted to slide some advice out there for anyone reading this comment that I wish someone had told me at your age. Sometimes its the presence of a person that makes us realize that we want someone else and other times it's their absence that makes us realize they were what we really wanted. Sometimes that takes years to figure out. Wish you the best in whatever way this works out for you! If you two find your way back to each other I would love to see it again on camera-don't hide him-lol, it was always fun watching y'all just hanging out.....

[@sarahthomas9804]

It’s very hard to hear you say that you were with someone for years & lived together and can just move on so quickly with little to no emotion. especially after saying he did nothing wrong. It’s okay to move on from things that don’t serve you but this video makes you seem cold and like you never cared for him or was invested in the relationship in the first place. It seems like you just suppress your emotions then call it “moving on” .

[@MzFoxyBlack]

Agreed

[@marisaking5982]

seems like a cover up tbh like it’s okay to say you’re hurt lol. if she’s not that’s fine too but something seems disingenuous about how quickly she “moved on”. like i’ve never gaf about 🥷🏾 either but damn!!!

[@aprilmiller2374]

​@@marisaking5982She never said she wasn't hurt she said she moves on quickly I am too this way I allow myself so much time to cry and then I move on I will not wallow for too long doesn't mean I didn't love the person

[@aprilmiller2374]

Everyone is different and moves on differently

[@aprilmiller2374]

​@@marisaking5982It's definitely her personality if you're a day 1 you know this is her

[@kamisesmith]

I definitely learned from this video. Now I can view things different. Keep your head up Amber, you’ll get through this. Proud of you girl💕

[@TheFishAndTrips]

Yeeeeah ok, we all claim we're good after gettting out of a long term relationship and still being friends....until one of y'all start dating someone else and all hell breaks loose.😂😭😂😭

[@labritt5843]

I had a similar break up with similar reactions back in 2020 so when I tell you I FELT THIS SHIT HERE👏🏾 Amber, thanks for sharing bc it’s not always easy being transparent on the internet. This video confirms that Amber is simply cut from a different cloth and I fucks with it! It never gave fake ass KZbinr. Shit happens and I’m wishing you both all the best❤

[@sybilison6350]

Such a relatable KZbinr, not trying to do too much just giving us the best of yourself. Love it

[@boldlion9417]

You’re handling this with so much grace. I handle life the same way. Thanks for opening up to us.💕

[@ashabryant4984]

As I’m exploring my healing and self reflection from a break up. I loved hearing this advice. I also truly respect how you decided to tell us and still stay true to yourself and keep y’all’s privacy.❤

[@yelleyw]

Wheww glad you cleared that up even tho I honestly didn’t expect you to but I def was giving Donovan the side eye thinking he did something but glad to hear you both just moved on. That is a part of life especially in young relationships ppl and relationships change. Glad you’re doing well and I’m excited for your new journey ❤

[@MoniqueR22]

I be on the same tip. I’m unbothered and I move on. Must be a Pisces thing. We love you Queen!! Glad you’re glowing and growing!!

[@MsVA757]

I literally hollered at “did you know it’s Black Friday”. 😂😂😂 Reaching out like “Happy FriYAY” 😂

[@naelavie]

“Wrap that sh*t up twin” is literally the mood for 2024 😂 Amber so unserious but serious I love it. Keep the vlogs coming ❤

[@shaquerabrown5781]

Girl let me start off by saying in real life like real life we would DEFINITELY Be friends 😂 like you say things to KZbin that I say to my little circle in private and I love it. 😅😅 like your smart as hell, and NATURALLY CONFIDENT like me and I love it. Thank you for being bold enough to share it with KZbin 😊 I appreciate you and will continue to watch. Keep doing you boo 😊

[@tysheoniabracy]

Amber! You are hilarious!!! 😂 so glad to see you moving along gracefully 💕

[@jakaylaemani]

Donovan was so quiet & chill I can’t believe y’all would ever have a disagreement lol

[@rismalishus]

It's amazing to see how breakups affect people differently. I went through mine in April, and I was in shambles for MONTHS! The healing part is so hard. I wish I was so nonchalant about it, but it's so hard to sweep it under the rug.

[@evacapri9769]

After 14 years I’m in the same boat. Life indeed goes on. Ready to see you continue to flourish in your singlehood ❤

[@thatssohaven1131]

So much personality in this video. Amber is hilarious! I love it! 😂

[@Labisijamiie]

The part were you said he was a good man but people would not understand why you guys are not together resonated well with me! Till date, i say my ex is one of the best guys I have ever met but we just were not compatible plus wrong timing!

[@AfroTae]

Some people grow out of each other and or sometimes people need to be single and alone. She went from living with her family to living with her bf so now she has the time to explore and learn herself. We never know where life takes us, I’m just excited to see her journey.

[@facinganya7798]

“Wrap that shit up twin, u a bad bih” i needed to hear that 😘 thank you!

[@makayajamillah]

Amberrrrr I’m loving this single you! Enjoy your new journey. Pour into yourself and live it up!! I can’t wait to see what’s next ❤

[@Jessicachanell]

I’ve been watching you for a while, like since you were in college. I’ve always really liked your personality and that you were from the upstate/SC since I am as well. Thank you for sharing your life with us. Praying for you with your new journey for the New Year! ❤❤

[@LIVEMOREBLUE]

It’s actually refreshing seeing just AMBER! I’ve been a follower since before the relationship and I feel like her channel has the potential to grow so much as a single young woman

[@Tiffie45]

Thank you for this Amber as this doesn't only apply to a romantic relationship. Friendships that end are just the same way. Learning to be okay with not being friends with someone anymore doesn't make you less of a good friend to someone else.

[@teericag]

THIS!

[@MimiLulu23]

My ex-husband and I divorced with no bad blood or issues. We just grew apart, and that was that. He's a great guy, just not my guy. Coparenting with him is cool, too. So I totally get you.

[@tonyaskye]

You are the definition of standing on business!

[@courtneyparrish8576]

When I tell you” this is why she’s hands down my favorite! Sis came on here and gave us a big sister talk that people genuinely needed to hear. I’ve been here since day and will keep being here. We are hear for you! End the year with forgiveness and begin the year with healing with a healthy heart and mindset. Also Amber get a dash camera for your car. Front and back

[@NB-uh5fy]

I’ve been watching you since 6th grade. I’m in college now, I love you so much Amber and thank you for being vulnerable, super proud of youu! God bless protect and heal the both of you ❤️ love you so much beautiful! Love from 🍁🇨🇦🇸🇸🇪🇹

[@Do.Justice.LoveMercy]

Amber you teaching me alot! Been watching you since 2016!!!

[@jadeamirie4804]

I’m enjoying the living alone series ! I want to see the workout plan 🤣 , I would like to see any plans you have for the new year like goals or just things you want to work on. Idc what it is 😭 just post ❤

[@hannafromatlanta]

Thank you for being so vulnerability and raw with us! Been following you since your University of Tennessee days(actually got to meet you on campus 🥹 )Sending lots of love and will continue to support your new journey, Amber 💖

[@dosageofdemi]

We respect and appreciate the vulnerability as always Amber! Can't wait to see how you'll thrive in this new season! Happy Holidays love 💛🌻

[@victoriamicheal]

They will indeed come back. It never fails.

[@TeeJxsn]

Praying for you and DB! God bless your journeys! 🩷🙏🏽

[@Kaceee444]

We love you amber❤️❤️ still watching, but thank you for sharing🫂 God bless you sis!

[@onelilangel92]

Thanks for being vulnerable with us! ❤ Wishing you nothing but the best in this new chapter Amb

[@Kim-zp8jf]

Hey 👋🏾 baby girl 👧🏽 you gonna be all right frfr!! A grandma 👵🏾 in Chicago just went through a break up but it is what is life goes on sweetie!!! ❤❤❤💯👍🏾😘🌹🌹🌹stay blessed 😇 you still young so live life men come and go !!!

[@leemoore2768]

Loving your transparency through this new transition ❤️❤️❤

[@ebonilacy3027]

Exuded bad bihh energy! 👏🏾 I’m here for it! 💕

[@everybodyluvskg]

Love you Amber❤ appreciate your vulnerability and you sharing with us. Prayers up for both of you🤍

[@ChynnaADavis]

Although this is sad; Amber is hilarious 😂 “I'll circle the block” sent me

[@llongs321]

"Maybe this can turn into...How to get over a..." and switch scene... I'm screaming 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Rachaelizabeth101]

You look sooo good Amber! I’ve been watching you for soo many years now, happy to be on this journey with you, wishing you all the best always! 🫶🏾

[@jdaniel1011]

awe Amber this was so encouraging and a good watch❤️. heavy on wrap that shet up!

[@sabrinastrong]

I appreciate you being open about this new chapter in your life with your supporters. I loved seeing your last chapter but I know the new one is gonna be even better. I’ve been watching since you was rocking the long nails and the bandana headband, real og status loll so I’m not going nowhere. Love your content always and seeing you continue to elevate. Hopefully now the comment section can get back on its normal vibes of showing love to Amber, that’s it that’s all. Happy for you, can’t wait for the NY vlog 🤎🤎

[@glimpseofj5184]

“Me and the Lord are still locked in… we’re like this 🤞🏾” and period sis! Lol

[@SamariaYvonne]

Praying for your continuous growth in life. This is so inspiring and so many young ladies will benefit.

[@DESIREEELEASE]

“I will indeed circle the block” 😂 same girl SAME tell the fam I was thinking about them!

[@paulma222]

For you to post this..this is HUGE. Thank you for sharing

[@SmileysWorld2]

I keep telling folks, DONT BLOCK!!! they always come back. Especially if u a good one!

[@heyyyydani]

I’m happy for u. Single is sometimes better. But I use to b so emotional when I got out of relationship but now since I’m older, I just dnt give a fuck no more. Life goes on ppl come and go and us women just got to keep pushing. God knows what he is doing ❤❤

[@QueenEst]

Great video. When you know you are a genuine person, you can easily move on from a friendship or relationship and go about your life and let life life.

[@aureecee3781]

Also the whole men come back thing is so accurate I had a boyfriend from 7th grade hit me up talking about he went to therapy and realized he was wrong 🤭😂 like sir

[@Babygirlkae]

I love your mindset Amber. I can definitely learn a lot from you when it comes to giving yourself a little bit of time to be sad and then get tf over it. I really don’t have the time or energy to be stuck on stuff either 🧡

[@veggieloc9257]

Thanks so much for sharing all parts of your life with us. I'm that girl too life twirls on and you have to move along! Pray and God got you lol

[@stephanienelly90]

Things will be so much better❤ I left a relationship 3 months ago and unlike you, I hate that man.

[@stlbricks]

Ring around the rosey bih 😭

[@lavoka96]

Lmaoo that had me crying

[@fatsani27]

I’ve watched you for years Amber, just reflecting on the little bit that you and Donovan shared, you guys were both kind of emotionally unavailable so there is no loss, heartbreak only happens with emotional attachment. Keep growing you guys are both young…

[@TWForeeever]

Yikes. Emotionally unavailable? We didn’t know either of them like that imo…

[@AmourLondyn]

Doubt that they were "emotionally detached " we don't know them in real life

[@Roni03336]

“ hi …. Happy Birthday….Merry Christmas “ 😭😂 LMAOOOO I’m cracking up

[@muse8888]

& you wiped your hands ever so gracefully❤