living alone in the Philippines : how did i start & why

[@yerimaaa1300]

As a student who depends on my parents for the rest of my life, and thinking I cannot live without being dependent, your vlogs will be my inspiration to start being independent when I turn in the right age and face the reality.

[@theta8241]

Im rooting for you!

[@glydellarciaga2839]

Relate much

[@veronicasemanamoslares9182]

“Complete strangers are more inclined to help you succeed than some people you actually know.” this is so agreeable. I find that when we ask for help from the people we already know, they can be held back by familiarity or their own perceptions of you. With strangers, we feel the freedom to speak because they literally don't know anything about us. I'm glad you shared your thoughts in this vlog

[@ambivert1135]

Moving out and living alone without any support is the best thing you must be proud of. Having all the means and being capable to do things alone is a wow, considering your age (i'm sure you're younger than me) makes me more envy in life. Living alone is not about maturity but having the responsibility to live and survive whatever may life brings you. You're such an inspiration! 💙 27 here and dunno what to do in life. Deym! 💔

[@bygel6205]

Happy 100k sis. 🎉 Kahit nung march ko lang na discover channel mo I felt proud kahit papano nasubaybayan kita ang gaan kasi ng mga video mo.

[@aellijon]

Salamat pooo!!💖💖

[@xcileter2063]

Sameee

[@bygel6205]

Virtual hug sa lahat ng mga may separated parents. 🤗

[@anjmalle9524]

Hugs hugs

[@pterodactyl73]

I totally relate with relatives ghosting in the beginning of your life but then start appearing once we had our own jobs and life settled. It is hard to know whether if they really are there to be part of your life or after your money. It's tricky but we just gotta be smart and slide their comments and just move on. Also congrats in 100k! You totally deserve it :D

[@makizenin1840]

Definitely money because nobody actually cares about others. You would only find some few people ( maybe 1 or 2 ) who actually gives a damn about YOU.

[@Zyeshallreturn]

Same hayssss

[@veronicarubio8386]

We're rooting for your success and peace of mind Miss Aellijon!!

[@aellijon]

Thank you!!💖💖

[@annabeatrice8445]

Thank you for showing your vulnerability. I'm so sorry that you have to go through those challenging times. No child deserves that kind of past and I will not romanticise it by saying that those moments made you stronger. You just simply survived those times because you are and you have chosen to be a strong person. You are more than your past. I'm so glad that I have met someone like you in this platform. 💗

[@lanaspov]

Hi, i am also living alone here in ph, a college student and also a kid from a failed marriage. I just want to say na I am so proud of you even though I don't know you personally. Watching your videos makes me feel so inspired na may effect sakin everytime na nanonood ako na parang kelangan ko na bumangon. You cooking, buying groceries, and working on your desk makes me feel driven. Thank you for these videos

[@chaviste9417]

“Complete strangers are more inclined to help you succeed than some people you actually know.” I find this true too. Happy 100k subs btw! I wish I was here when you only have a few subs but meh, I'm happy that I got to see ur video in my yt feed. You're such a great inspiration. Stay covid-free! 💗

[@anjlorenzo5525]

Happy 100k subs! So happy for you. I subscribed sa'yo noong nasa 10k pa lang yata and I just feel proud right now huhu. I know, it's a big step for you to share your past but thank you for your courage, Ate. ❤️

[@aellijon]

Thank you so much po💖💖💖

[@marcocanja4233]

That " I just feel uncomfortable when someones asking about ur personal lives" hits me hard. Sending virtual hug cause your'e standing still and independent despite of that. More vids to come!

[@mariacristalene6419]

I am proud of ü for surviving alone, ✨ aLoNe ✨ I understand where you're coming from, ü don’t have to tell your story here if you're not comfortable of sharing. I hope you're proud of yourself too, for surviving each day. Sending love & light for u babe! We got thissssss 💐

[@dreamsushi_]

Congrats to 100k!! You totally deserve it and much more! You inspired me to start cooking and to make my own channel! Much love 🥰🌸

[@ajoyjc]

This is the kind of channel i would probably watch forever. So real, so true. Honestly got teary eyed watching this episode of yours. This is the kind of vlogs that i would want to watch before i go to sleep. After a long and tiring day of surviving in this world, this is my kind of peace.

[@Cataclysm-n7r]

I also lived with my Relatives when I started High School, and damn that was the hardest years of my life. those 4 years still haunt me till now and made me as a person today. This vlog reminds me of the old days. This is very inspiring, and I hope that you keep posting this kind of video since it inspires me to do well in life

[@fayseok]

I'm really happy that you felt comfortable enough to tell us your life situation and why you decided to live alone! It's not easy to tell people about yourself, so I admire your confidence and also your independency for living alone! I'm rooting for you and wish you a successful future

[@mlucilleg]

Your videos are my motivation to do better, work smart and just keep going in my freelancing journey. I'm so glad that YT put your vids on recommendations. Thank you so much.

[@aellijon]

Thank you!!!❤️❤️❤️

[@maryannmagararo]

Hi, aellijon. I just want to say that I'm really proud of you for living independently, for living life the way you do despite your toxic relatives and your past. I'm a new subscriber and a freelancer as well. I've been binge watching your vlogs for a few days now and they make me relax after work. Hope you find joy in everything you do, and that whatever comes your way, you continue to live meaninfully. Will continue supporting youuuuuu! Don't ever tire in making videos! 💖

[@allianacurilan5159]

You're so strong and independent! I wish i could muster courage to also live on my own just like you. Not now, but soon! Thanks for being an inspiration.

[@chaewxn9102]

Congrats on 100k! Love watching your vlogs bc it has a calm feeling to it, also aesthtically pleasing! Deserve lahat ng nakuha until now hanggang sa future! Good luck sa last semester (naol)!

[@aellijon]

Thank you so much po💖💖💖

[@maji8862]

congrats on your every achievements, ate! thank you for existing and for getting through this far... you've been through a lot and im so proud of you po!! whenever I watch your vid and you're making kwento nasasabi ko lang “im proud of her”. your videos are very comforting po. you're such a strong woman, I wish you all the best in life. 🤍🎀

[@나-n2c2k]

Hello, Ate! Congratulations for that 100k milestone, we're so so happy for u! I also wanted to say thank you for reassuring (at least for me) that it's "normal" to not feel at "home" cuz I'm also currently living with my relatives since I was v very young. I sometimes think & felt guilt that I should still be grateful to have a "home" after all what's happening w/ my life. Hoping also that I'll be able to say "that's how my life was" soon, and also live the way I wanted.

[@aellijon]

💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

[@jahzgo4942]

back then i dont understand why some people say " I dont want to talk about it", until it happened to me , when something traumatic experience actually took place that i dont want to even talk about it. So now, I can understand other people better . This vlog is really uplifting and relaxing to watch,.. keep making one pls. God bless!!!

[@lynnmatini3467]

You touched my heart😭. I feel so motivated to get work done career-wise😃. I actually got more help from strangers than my relatives in choosing my career. I wish you all the best in life💖.

[@TheArbieSP]

Aaawwweee. So proud of you for taking up the courage to talk about your life despite the discomforts of doing it. Tbh, I'm one of your viewers who initially thought you must be rich because u can afford to live alone but now knowing your story, I admire you 10x more for being so brave and hardworking to get all what you have now and I'm sure you will achieve more because of your hardworks. Well done! Virtual hugs, girl! 🤗🤍🤍🤍

[@rosie9072]

You are so relatable! Thank you for sharing a little bit of your story to us even though you're not very comfortable doing it. You really inspire me. I am also living independently right now. (It's been two months now) I just have one job and I'm also planning to look for a part time job or a better paying full time job. There's no feeling better than not being dependent to anyone but yourself. By the way, there's no reason for you to feel embarrassed about your past. It actually made who you are today-strong and independent.

[@heelift713]

I just found your channel last week, and your videos has been keeping me going in life and make it worth living, I'm still in jhs & your videos really motivates me a lot ! thank you so much and happy 100k subs ! you deserved it po❣

[@aellijon]

Thank you!!❤️💖💖

[@aireenechenique575]

I think most of your followers understand and admire your strength, keep dreaming and pursuing. I wish all your hopes and desire come true. your new follower

[@Belphy]

Recently there's been a lot of 'Living alone' vlogs but yours is my favorite and is much much natural

[@yuyang6467]

congrats on 100K aellijon! i started watching your videos just recently, but they give me so much warmth and comfort. you are doing too well for yourself at a young age and it’s an inspiration to a hundred thousand. praying for more success to come your way!!

[@jaimeelyndavid4675]

Ate you are one of my definition of "strong independent woman". you really inspiring me to do better in life. Happy 100k subscribers po🤗

[@JustJessah]

You also inspired me to start my own channel! Hopefully soon you can share some tips hehe 🥰 Also, regarding your personal life, you are not alone and we your virtual friends are proud of you! I know a lot of us, whose parents were separated, could relate. Virtual hugs to us guys.

[@neilzen5452]

You did so well on your own. We kinda have a similar story and am also an introvert as well. I find comfort in my own company, just because i grew up walking on egg shells around people. When I finally got the chance, I looked after myself. Stay strong girl! You are amazing!

[@rojournal]

I am truly proud of you of what you have become right now. You created your own space and peace and that is something no one can steal from you. I always admire your independence.

[@princess.a.0088]

Felt fortunate to know that I'm part of your safe space here on yt. After hearing your story, I knew that you deserve all of this. Keep shining, ate. We are proud of you! 😗❤️

[@waynegonzales8970]

Happy 100k Subscribers Ateee🥳🎊, U finally reach your goal, u deserve it thought bcz your doing a hardwork to entertain us, that's all thank you again❤️❤️❤️

[@aellijon]

Thank u so much po💖💖💖

[@LVNavyaSree]

I feel so satisfying watching your videos. I Love your content . I wish you lots of happiness and success❤.

[@notazula]

You're the only vlogger whose content makes me mouthwater. I don't know if it's due to the simplicity, rawness, and the normalcy of your videos but something about it is just therapeutically right.

[@rochellejoachico9767]

Happy 100k! So proud of you, I just discovered you when you were around 6k that time and I know that you will come along way. And it’s okay if you’re not comfortable sharing your you know, your feelings are valid. Genuinely happy to see you grow. I hope one day you’ll also gonna be able to get out of your comfort zone and explore the world beyond it. But I understand you, u know introverts like us are hard to open up cause most of the time we want to just listen and be silent. Rest day again and dito ulit ako tambay sa channel mo haha. Love u!

[@ysabellaclainedelgado3911]

I am a college student and whenever I feel stressed about my academic responsibilities, I would always watch your videos. It is kind of therapeutic for me.

[@ikimchi4753]

“Complete strangers are more inclined to help you succeed than those who actually know you.” CORRECT!!!!

[@julyanasaliganan1941]

Happy 100k ate!! Deserve!! can't wait na iunbox mo silver play button mo!!

[@chiligarlicsauce]

Your videos are really inspiring. Living alone doesn't really mean avoiding people. Sometimes, we need to be alone in order for us to be able to discern on what we really want in life.

[@sincerelyaudrie]

I love you, Ate!!! Your vids are indeed comforting! Thank you for making these and sharing you life with us!!! ❤️

[@aellijon]

Thank you!!❤️❤️❤️

[@Utsagie]

Feeling ko tuloy ako may kasalanan ng Past reveal atee :"D, But what a journey po. The Strength, Wisdom, Toughness and Hard working nyo po ay sobrang galing! Alot more blessings po and sana matuloy yung wish na Solo Traveling ! Happy 100,000 Subcribers! Congrats po

[@nogotabigail3124]

i just discovered your channel and all i can say is you are doing best in your life. i wish i had the courage to be on my own feet. you are a brave woman. and also i like that you are cooking home meals rather than eating out. Stay healthy and i wish you happiness!

[@kyeunism]

Maybe I'm too late for this but I really admire you. The first time I saw ur vid, I became interested already. Simply because I also want to become independent sooner. Maybe it's weird to say, but that was my dream ever since I lost my mom. Maybe we're not the same, maybe I won't really understand ur situation but you're so brave. After 5-6years, all I want is to live independently too. Thanks for giving me so much hope and motivation, keep on uploading vids ☹️🤍

[@ayhezzadhane]

whenever i feel unmotivated, i always watch your vlogs and it makes me feel better

[@aldrinvargas2593]

Support natin ito, don't skip lahat ng ads.

[@maryaan3769]

Aellijon I really like your videos and I'm really proud of you l'm always enjoy your videos

[@shxna]

I think you are very right and fortunate to have been able to reach the point where you are now. All the more power to you! I hope you feel more comfortable in the future.

[@sydneylouise]

I'm grateful that despite everything, you are here, you fought well and still fighting. You're more than just a vlogger I came across on youtube months ago, you're a role model and an inspiration to those people who are on their way to finding their path to happiness and success. You're amazing. Thank you for being brave for yourself. Happy 100k! 💗

[@phyllisi.340]

It's upwards and onwards for you gal! Keep doing what you are doing. You are hardworking, blessed and such a techie!

[@ronnaa.manarez4684]

I just want to say "NAPAKA STRONG MO ISANG MAHIGPIT NA YAKAP PARA SAYO" never kang mag iisa kasi kasama mo na kaming mga subscriber mo and we are so proud of you. Tuloy lang ♥️💗

[@gensfps]

2:30 - ganito din ang reason ko. thankyou for sharing ur life and keep inspiring ! 👍 May natutunan ako habang pinapanood ko to.

[@macescosura5147]

You really helped me at improving myself to be independent. I may not be living alone right now but I am home alone most of the time. Thank you! I know I’m not the only one who’s inspired at your daily life.

[@blissnotes3477]

this was peaceful to watch?? but at the same time leaves you with the anticipation and hope for a life like hers or even better. just a simple and worry free (as much as possible). thank you

[@CD-co6vr]

Loved ur video. Hope your taking care of yourself well. It's nice how u managed to come out of a lot of hardship. Much love

[@CoffeeTailsandTreats]

You shluldbe proud of yourself! Living and supporting yourself is a big thing. Best of luck to you! May God bless you with more more more jobs and may He heal you from past traumas!

[@menziejoyducado7731]

I've been in a chaotic week too. So much backlogs and unwanted arguments but your channel is my peace. It feels like I have a companion even though I didn't say my problems at all.

[@nagmanasrin9818]

Hey, Happy 100k+ subs, I still remember when I first watched, you had very few then . Feeling really happy for this growth. I wanted to know if you can share how to make to do lists and properly follow them, since productivity is something we can feel ri8 away from your vlogs.....

[@jrfernandez1718]

I found comfort whenever i am watching your vlog. It inspires me to do good and be independent in life. I really want to be like you someday. Thank you and God bless you always❤️

[@alliyadesiree9344]

Kung mabasa mo man ito, PROUD NA PROUD AKO SAYO kasi you survived and you will survive kahit na mag isa ka lang. And if you're thinking that we will pity you knowing your past, NO. A BIG NO. I believe that every people in this freaking world has a lot of nit so called good past and it's normal. Basta proud na proud ako sayo, gusto kitang i hug kasi u deserve it. Anyways, nandito lang kami for you. Kaming mga subscribers and viewer mo,mahal ka namin!

[@watchjikjinbytreasure8076]

u found ur home in that apartment. i'm so proud of u

[@jonasenyahan1961]

I subscribed dahil nakakainspire ka,sa ganan edad nagagawa mu makasurvive sa araw araw na walang ibang inaasahan kundi sarili,proud of you,

[@igot7459]

You are doing so well and as your subscriber, I am really proud of you aellijon. Hope you get all the success, love, support and care you deserve. Your channel is my comfort channel also congratulation on your 100k subscriber.

[@maya_pearl]

grabe I'm so proud of u po. you were able to handle those kind of struggles and pains in ur life. grabe I adore u po talaga because of that

[@MV-zk8nq]

I admire your courage to live alone,, one of my bucket list,, we really find comfort in living alone...

[@LormzWorldCanada]

🥰🥰🥰🥰an inspiration to many...keep going dear....

[@lenydelacruz-castro7556]

Interesting as it may seem, let's try not to force her to talk if she's uncomfortable about it. She will speak when she's ready. Good on you, girl. You make all these tasks and responsibilities easy. I only have 2 online jobs, and I am already drowning at times. Way to go!!

[@baeyuhtrice]

studying + working + living alone and you're supporting yourself ?! you are so EMPOWERING !! I wish that life would be more gentle to you from here on out. Love your pajamas, btw!!

[@baldwinjan1840]

You inspired me a lot more than you can think! God bless you. Such a blessing if someday I'll meet you in person. :)

[@marilagkatha]

You’re such an inspiration 🥺 I don’t know you but I always feel comforted whenever I watch your videos. Thank you for your life 🌷

[@KristiNinyuh]

so proud of you. I wish I have the guts to go independent just like you. Cheer up and stay strong.

[@maculirachelr.9077]

Such a strong and brave person, u deserve all the love and support muah

[@potatochippy9303]

Being alone is not being selfish. Being alone is loving yourself regardless of your flaws in life. Sending a virtual hug sisss💕

[@maryaa7449]

Conggraatss po!! Happy 100k!! always remember na kahit hindi mo kami kilala lahat andito lang kami to support you! abangan namin hangga't mag 500k na subs na!! Deserve mo po lahat ng blessings na dumarating

[@jeremy_guryongpo]

I wish 1year from now you'll achieve 1million subscribers!🎉 congrats aellijon you deserve success because you are hardworking and inspiration to others who want to step out from their comfort zone and pursue something meaningful in their lives!💕

[@happymaffa]

Don't consider the comments that break your heart keep going keep living your best life we love you.....

[@pennylane4169]

I love your videos. You make cooking look easy. And traditional Filipino dishes too with ingredients easy to acquire. Just because you vlog doesn't mean you have to tell your life story or your background. But thanks for sharing some of your experiences. It just makes you more relatable.

[@gnanalaharialla8417]

Happy 100k IAm from India. Believe in your self .All the best.Life is mean to to struggle and achieve .Be happy share your happy moments with your close ones.

[@rania_3x]

thanks for coming this week too

[@jetax4064]

I aspire to be like you. You're actually my inspiration now. I saw one of your vid earlier today and I keep on watching them, until now. I can say I've been motivated. I like the comfort your videos give. I hope you reach your goals and peak happiness! :)

[@bmichreads]

I know it's late but happy 100k!

[@_daki]

sometimes people can’t just stop asking about our personal lives but what i mostly do despite being uncomfortable is that i always refuse to tell them about it in a kind manner, i do not owe anyone an explanation as to what i had experienced before. thank you for the vid, nice content btw :D

[@Misyseyah]

Happy 100k!! upload ka lang palagi

[@ang0006]

just scrolling here looking for none talking but soothing video and found your channel, So Proud of you that you can stand on your own and living away from those people. like you I was in those situations before, now currently living far from my relatives, sending you a big heart and also for creating this channel of yours

[@alyannapalada9796]

Hello ate! Thank you for inspiring me. I'm so proud of you! You did well on your own. Im so happy for you, i just want to say that you become one of my role models. You are the best!!

[@fakerboy7409]

You said that you don't want to be pitied by anyone else for hearing your story, but I actually idolize you even more for reaching so far despite what you've experienced. Congrats for coming so far!

[@engr.kuyacas]

Proof that vlogs doesn't need talking to be fun and enjoyable. Grabe content mo ate. Di nakaka sawa!! 🙂🙂👊👊♥️♥️

[@kediagaurang]

Firstly got a yt recommendation of your channel soo that's good, secondly I hope you fulfill whatever you dream off. You inspire a lot of people lemme tell u that. Kudos to u being strong.

[@hamorabisiblings]

Every time I feel lazy to do things, I always watch your videos ate to help me be productive. Hahahahaha. Idk why pero It feels so great lang to watch your videos kasi nakakisinpire mag trabaho hehehe. Keep up the good work! Sending lots of love and support

[@Meipngxin]

My relatives are just as same as yours just the difference is my parents never separated. They still love each other and make me feel loved, which I am the most grateful for....I really hope your situation gets more better and you succeed in life, keep fighting !!!

[@jaychelbaldos7965]

when i discover ur youtube channel u have a 12k subs .and then ang bilis dumami ang subs mo .Congrats ms. aellijon.Happy 100k subs.Stay humble🥀

[@christopherallan22]

I honestly thought this will be another trying hard vlog but man i was wrong. I actually enjoyed watching the video plus i super relate to your story. You are very real and not pretentious so KEEP IT UP! You are doing great!

[@markandreimelo2798]

Happy 100k subs!! your videos help me through harsh times because it comforts me and it helps me ease my mind! love all your vids! keep going lang po. FIGHTING!!!!

[@tapulele2024]

im so sorry about that, im glad you are comfortable with talking about it here

[@redveronpinoy659]

Just wanna let you know that your videos make me wanna be chill like I how I wanted to be and slow down to appreciate the simple joys of things like cooking. Ive been wanting to get back into videos online and maybe a vlog for years now and stumbling upon yours has me finally decided on a format after looking at the style of your videos and others like it. Thank you for the inspiration and rekindling my creative spark.

[@princesscastillo1305]

I remembered watching this once, because of the broken glass😅but didn't really read the captions because I just want these kind of videos playing while working. I always watch your videos because I want more encouragement to move out of our town but when I rewatched it and read the captions carefully, you're giving me a new sense of inspiration. I am a stranger, too, but you make me proud🎉🎊🥰