LIVING IN CHARLOTTE, NC (dating tips) | CLT Brunch/Lounge + Risky Storytime 😱 (ALL Tea)

[@sincerelyshakiya]

I thoroughly enjoyed this video please keep em comings sis 😂 I am considering CLT and you always wanna know how the dating scene is in new city. My fav tips were the no fine dining first dates & be optimistic! I am one who loves the finer things but like you said if it gets awkward being at those type of places you really can’t bounce back from like you could at like an outside date/venue.

[@ebonysoblessed]

thanks for watching sis. I am trying to tell the people you always need to find a way to dip! lol And yes come to CLT I love it here!!

[@ebonysoblessed]

What kinds of videos would you like to see from me?

[@sincerelyshakiya]

@@ebonysoblessed hmmm maybe DITL, vlogs at the places you suggested or showing different parts of Charlotte. I hear people talking about it being boring or that it lacks a culture so maybe seeing more of what the city can offer?

[@ebonysoblessed]

@@sincerelyshakiya ok and I personally don’t think clt is boring at all. A lot of ppl that move here are from NY or Atl which of course they would say that but it’s not a fair comparison.

[@sincerelyshakiya]

@@ebonysoblessed right! I think it’s all perspective and what you make out of it! CLT is still a growing city so it’s not going to be like other cities like NYC or LA etc.

[@energyh6]

Lmfaooo you had me DEAD when you said “he’s a cheater” and ran off 😂🤣🤣🤣 girlllllll, I love you 😅😅

[@ebonysoblessed]

haha look she can believe what she wants to believe

[@energyh6]

@@ebonysoblessed Girl! I’m already knowin! Some people will stay with someone who they KNOW they shouldn’t. That’s why, when I move there, I’m taking everything a man says to me “with a grain of salt”. Everybody guilty unless otherwise proven innocent 😂

[@courtdari9286]

I drive myself on first dates

[@Honeydukes89]

Hey Ebony! My name is Nicollette. I am moving to Charlotte in October, so this this was extremely helpful and entertaining. You seem really cool Sis. Please keep the videos coming.

[@ebonysoblessed]

Thanks sis

[@ojalara3937]

Where is the professional black crowd at? The city? Or out in suberbs like Huntersville? Where are the single black women at??

[@ebonysoblessed]

Hey I would say check out uptown or south end. Also axios Charlotte for events

[@consciousawakening4799]

I appreciated the video and more specifically your tip on the dating scene in general. It seems location and interest lie at the heart of the dating experience. That may be said to be anywhere however I'll still apply it to Charlotte in particular.

[@ebonysoblessed]

Yes absolutely you end up meeting ppl with common interests based on the things you like to do

[@consciousawakening4799]

@@ebonysoblessed could you speak to any apartments that you visited that you would, or would not, recommend? I'm currently apartment searching any that is indeed a process.

[@ebonysoblessed]

@@consciousawakening4799 hey honestly all the apartments are pretty much the same for the most part. Def say location plays a role you can pay more and square footage is small but the location is in a certain neighborhood. I don’t really recommend that bc mostly everything is 15-20 mins away. So I say get the sq footage you’re looking for. Also I suggest pick a neighborhood first and then look for places.

[@ebonysoblessed]

@@consciousawakening4799 also I suggest south Charlotte to new people that move here bc I think you get the Charlotte lifestyle experience however if that’s not in your price range. The northlake area is just as nice and 20 mins away. If you look up apartment finder it list neighborhoods and apartments. Apts near the airport are nice and I think you get the most for your money and your relatively close to south Charlotte.

[@ebonysoblessed]

@@consciousawakening4799 check out Camden south line or Solis apartments and look around that area.

[@katd1183]

I’ve been looking for places to meet new ppl. I’m new to NC

[@ebonysoblessed]

Hey check out charlotte agenda, black singles in clt on FB, camp northend, kickball leagues, elevation has an awesome women's group, etc.

[@katd1183]

@@ebonysoblessed thank you I’m definitely going to look into these

[@djdretakingover89]

Dope video love and how did you add chapters on KZbin channel

[@TakeaG]

This was a good video! 👏🏾👏🏾

[@ebonysoblessed]

Thank you we still need to grab brunch.

[@TakeaG]

@@ebonysoblessed yes ma’am just HMU😊

[@ebonysoblessed]

TIME STAMPS: 0:00​ - Intro 1:24​ - Dating Storytime 2:57​ - CLT dating scene 4:01​ - Dating Apps 5:27​ - Facetime Dates 6:16​ - NO Fine Dining 7:28​ - Dog friendly locations 8:44​ - Share leasing office address 9:45​ - High Value Men 11:26​ - Every man is not your husband 12:27​ - Be Optimistic 13:10​ - List of CLT Brunch/ Lounges Thanks for watching.

[@politicalbrownkid191]

Totally irresponsible advice, which is why women are single. If you see someone you like and y'all flow together, you telling women to stall men out until you look at EVERY SINGLE MAN HE KNOWS and then make a choice. That's women's problems. They continually looking for better options, then wind up with no options or bad options.

[@techauntie]

😂😂😂😂 he’s a cheater

[@camilleandriette]

I forgot a couple questions. Moving in September. Got a townhouse in Ballantyne. Visited and loved the area. Is that a good place to be? Secondly - How is the car insurance rates? Who do you use? Thanks!

[@ebonysoblessed]

Hey I really don't know much about the area. However, I did hear its a safe neighborhood for families. car insurance is moderate but depends on driving history. i have farm bureau.

[@delanianicole]

Hi Ebony!! Do you have an email that I can get in touch with you? I have a few questions about relocating CLT 🤍🤍

[@ebonysoblessed]

Hey sure [e-mail]

[@MiaMommyof3]

Hey Hey! I’m new to your channel! I live in Charlotte NC as well and a KZbinr. Your channel came up in my recommendations for you tubers in NC

[@ebonysoblessed]

Hey thanks for watching. I have to check out your content.

[@MiaMommyof3]

@@ebonysoblessed You’re welcome and Thank you!

[@tishatolliver9422]

😂😂😂

[@gracelikerain5039]

Is raleigh safe for black people too in terms of racism?

[@ebonysoblessed]

Hey I’m honestly not sure. I’ve only been to the airport but it’s the sister city to Charlotte so I would say it’s safe

[@gracelikerain5039]

@@ebonysoblessed ok

[@hooddreamztv]

South Charlotte here !

[@ebonysoblessed]

Welcome lol

[@ebonysoblessed]

Skip to 4:01 for "DATING TIPS" but do recommend watching storytime

[@ebonysoblessed]

Tell me your favorite Tip! Here for the Tea

[@AccordingToQueen]

Great Video! It was definitely the high value men for me😌 Thanks for sharing !

[@ebonysoblessed]

@@AccordingToQueen right lol date men that have something to lose

[@AccordingToQueen]

@@ebonysoblessed 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@Aperfumeaddict]

You’re the type I would love as a friend. A real one! Lol I’m relocating there this month.

[@ebonysoblessed]

Ahh so sweet. Welcome to Charlotte

[@danextbestthing15]

Are you still on that dating app?

[@ebonysoblessed]

Hey no I’m not but if you’re interested check out hinge or bumble

[@danextbestthing15]

Damn I was hoping to find you on there 😫

[@briamonyae1396]

Girl I appreciate this video 😂

[@goodfellatv313]

🤣

[@gracelikerain5039]

You look just like my sister 😦

[@consciousawakening4799]

You mentioned "cliques". Are the cliques predominantly men that you're referring to or is it also that the women are cliquish?

[@ebonysoblessed]

hmm i would say depending on your social surroundings and interests you will run into the same people. Honestly the vid is lighthearted so i would say both.

[@ebonysoblessed]

What was your favorite tip?

[@consciousawakening4799]

@@ebonysoblessed thank you for the quick response! May I also ask, you said that southern Charlotte is pretty sparse when it comes to dating (South Park, Steel Creek, etc I presume). Would you say uptown and the surrounding areas (cherry, Dilworth, South end, Plaza midwood, etc) are the best areas for an active social life? I'm still considering area to relocate to.

[@ebonysoblessed]

@@consciousawakening4799 hey, I love South Charlotte that's mainly (southend and midwood) where I hang out there are several lounges, bars, events, sport venues in the area. Everything is in walking distance or you can take the train. South Park Mall is nice but that's all i know about the area. Honestly CLT has a great social scene and there is a black presence here.

[@amsey3700]

I like Cabo Fish Taco...it’s in NODA

[@jaigneforte5038]

I busted out laughing we need to be friends

[@ebonysoblessed]

Hahaha thanks for watching

[@tonyalston4838]

You foul for putting people business out there because you got played

[@ebonysoblessed]

hmm i was telling the truth but I'm sure he shared a different story with her. so its up to her to decide what she believes. thanks for watching.

[@jays824]

@@ebonysoblessed i would have wanted to know.

[@katmat9030]

Better she told the truth then told a lie. City girls up 1000 points haha.

[@ebonysoblessed]

@@katmat9030 hahah thanks. I semi know the guy that I ran into so it’s all good