Living in NYC | i lost my job... *unfiltered vlog*

[@loispark]

thank you for stopping by! sorry for being so MIA D: I hesitated on sharing something like this, but figured I might as well since this is something very real in my life!! missed u guys!!

[@ronaldmiears4554]

Panhandle i make four thousand dollars a month

[@adriennehilll]

Oh Lois, I honestly applaud you for being able to pickup the camera and talk to us during such a rough day. I always try to remind myself that when one door closes another opens. Sending ALL my love ❤

[@chiamei499]

Not forgetting we are asia

[@krm5693]

This also happened to me last month. The email showed up as I was getting ready. Almost didn't feel real at all but I handled it just like you. Went outside and just processed it, accepted it, and moved on while making plans for the next move. I'm hoping for the absolute best for you and wishing that you are able to find another role ASAP! Best of luck to you and anyone else going through the same thing.

[@e.beauchamp]

Also for you 🍀

[@krm5693]

@@e.beauchamp thank you

[@sibylledecarlo7108]

Wishing you much luck finding a great job! A time to focus on your self- care! Subscribed-

[@yarnellyelle]

i got laid off at the end of April and cried for a week and now I'm realizing my mood is so much better most days now that I'm not working lol (still looking for jobs thou) wishing you so so so so much luck, sending you Get Dat Bag energy Lois !

[@Tashas_Travels]

So sorry about the loss of your job. Don't give up, something better will come along. Apply for jobs, even the jobs that you think you're lacking on or are not qualified for. Miracles do happen . I am rooting and praying for you. Much love from Zambia 🇿🇲.

[@elainewang4585]

Lois we are all rooting for you!! Fighting!!

[@loispark]

woooooo!!!

[@AnisaSalsabila-vl4jb]

My dear *Lois* 🌺 don't be sad...you always be a great women ❤ stay health and always happy my dear 💕

[@AnisaSalsabila-vl4jb]

​@@loispark ❤❤❤

[@violemora]

oh Lois! Thank you so much for sharing this with us! The same thing happened to me in october this year; got laid off after 5 1/2 years in the same company. It felt very weird at first and super stressful but eventually it got better. I’m sending you all the best vibes for this new chapter in your life, you can do this!

[@dena8144]

Sorry about your job loss been there twice in my career it was hard but each time came out better. I wish you luck on your new job journey and your wedding 💜🙏🏼

[@Saral_Lekhi]

I lost mine in Jan. Got laid off...in one of the rounds. And it's been reflective and initially it was emotional n anxious and I swung between being numb to being anxious. But a little bit later.....I am just relaxed. It's boring to be glum. Trust life. It will take care of itself. Sometimes one runs. Sometimes one walks slowly. And when you walk slowly, you notice MUCH more and have many more things to say thank you for. Que Sera Sera :)

[@yannia76]

this is the first video i watch in your channel i am so sorry you lost your job and i wish you have a better job as soon as possible

[@maloyo7901]

Wow, I don't know why this vidoe showed up on my feed, but it does bring back some memories. I wasn't planning a wedding, but I was in a similar position in my early New York years. My "dream job" went out of business. It was both the best and worst job I'd ever had, and I can still say that over 33 years later, LOL...and i'm still in NYC! Hang in there and good luck!

[@franceswithajay]

So sorry about your job, I hope you are able to get through this somehow. Wishing you all the best.

[@mayreejay3211]

So sorry about losing your job. I pray you get a better one. Wishing you love and joy ❤

[@xo.haejini]

Grateful for people like you who just keep these vlogs real ❤

[@jenniezhu4299]

So sorry about your job Lois! That happened to me a few years ago and I was devastated but I realized that it was for the best. Wishing for bigger and better things coming your way!

[@ahancho]

i love that you always have the ability to share your thoughts and perspectives whether it be positive or not so positive even from shinil days. when i try to process thoughts/emotions, im inspired by people like you who are willing to be vulnerable by putting your thoughts out in the world for people to assess. sending much love and best wishes lois

[@loispark]

❤️🥺 thank you

[@HannahJYMoon]

so sorry for the bad news, Lois :( better days are coming soon, rooting for you!

[@loispark]

Thank you Hannah❤️❤️❤️

[@alicejoo8682]

hi lois i’m so sorry to hear about the layoff :(( you’re so strong and capable i know you’ll have good opportunities come your way!! thanks for sharing such a vulnerable moment❤️ rooting for you!!

[@lisaschreiber2893]

sorry for your struggles, I hope your new job is incredible ❤

[@annieshen3635]

Hi Lois 🫶 I just found your channel literally yesterday, and I’ve already binged so many of your videos. You have such a comforting voice and a wonderful vibe. Wishing you all the best in your job hunt! Fighting 😤 There will many beautiful opportunities in your future! You got this!!

[@orangetreeapril7050]

It's a sign that you're being redirected to your better suited future. Whatever you choose for the next chapter, I'm sure it'll be a exciting colorful one, just because the way you are today!! Enjoy ~

[@applemxchi1911]

Layoffs suck especially when we aren’t prepared for what we need to do next or have certain bills we would pay with our position! I’m sure you’ll find your next job soon.🤗

[@gracecanlas]

I’m sorry about the job stuff, Lois! But I’m so happy you’re getting time to yourself and looking at it as an opportunity to grow and take care of you. You got this!

[@Billy33753]

So sorry about the news. Wishing you well

[@suzilahlah]

We’re all behind you cheering you on… it might not pay for wedding dresses but hopefully it makes a huge deposit into your mental wellness x

[@piya-mia]

So sorry to hear this!!! Wishing you lots of success and positivity for the future! You got this!

[@jasminerossette]

I’m so sorry! Praying you find a job that you enjoy!

[@minimalliving8123]

I have lost my job three half months ago. It was rough, but I have moved on. I decided to spend the time focusing on my health which was the main caused to why I lost the job.

[@PriscillaYoshida]

I am sending you a big hug Lois. I am sure there are bigger things in store for you as you start a new chapter in your professional journey. 🥺💜

[@cococrisp430]

I have been through it too. I got the email and got panic attacks. But soon after, I started sorting my papers and updating my CV. I sent 50 CVS a day to as many places I could. Finally , I got something after about three months. Gratefully, we could keep the house for those three months as our landlords were very understanding. Then we were able to pay them before I relocated to a new city. You will soon find another one. Just keep searching.

[@AnaMoShoshin]

It's so nice to see you eating so many things again and enjoying spring!!

[@loviak4323]

Praying for uplifted spirits and peace at this time! And for a new opportunity that will be even better ♥️ lots of love! PS- that strapless wedding gown looks absolutely stunning on you!

[@sarah8579]

I'm so sorry to hear about your job. I was in the same position years ago. Everything will work out in the end.

[@staceygrier1699]

Something coming better you. I am rooting for you.

[@noorzanaid]

your vlogs give me so much comfort! wishing you the best

[@MegaRbailey]

Lois I always enjoy your vlogs and watch them to clear my mind and don’t worry you’ll definitely get another opportunity you are a go getter l continue to keep busy and be great with your lovely self 🤎🤎🤎🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@counterculture10]

Sorry to hear you got laid off but just looking at the way you carry yourself, I think you'd be highly employable. Thanks for the terrific shots around the city. The Cafe looks amazing.

[@eritafinds]

Hey I am in the same boat coming in terms with it

[@sharongibson1161]

Good luck with finding new job and have a beautiful wedding ❤

[@Sakura-zu4rz]

I haven't had any fun lately, I like the essence how you live on. I need to be true to myself and find a job I am passionate about. I want to find a way to live as who I really am.

[@LiTtLeMiZzDiVa]

Definitely know the feeling…I lost my job in March and I lowkey knew it was going to happen because little details that was going on at my former job…but it’s be a bit of a struggle

[@Chanixcbn]

Best of luck been in the same position. Very disorienting but hang in there and something even better will happen. Stay strong!!

[@cvilla5668]

Wishing you the best!

[@aichahaidara446]

Ugh Lois Im sorry about your job--sending you so much love!!!!! Also, you gon be SUCH A GORG BRIDE AHHHHHHH :) ilyyy

[@mansoor3159]

Hey! Lois I am so so sad for you that you had lost your job and I love your vlogs so so much and I wish you reach 20K Subscribers very very soon!💕💫😭

[@bellavania5753]

even tho it doesnt make sense right now hopefully everything will fall in place soon… all the best for your next step!

[@Tamar-sz8ox]

Here’s to new beginnings 🥂, sending you well wishes ❤ better things are waiting

[@gloweeya]

The storytelling in this vlog 👌🏼💯 also Matthew and I wanna try Zou Zou’s one day 🥹 LOOKS SOOO YUMMOS!!! Praying for u and rooting for u alwayz Lo Lo HWAITING 💪🏼💕

[@aadd11]

I hope you’re okay❤

[@elleg.7880]

Everything will be alright 😌

[@polyphonicdavid]

just found ur channel. ur a vibe 😌

[@yazminfrances]

potential redirection to make YT a real thing? as a professional as well, absolutely love this. subscribing!

[@sharoncherry]

You can draw unemployment until you find your next job. I know it is a bummer losing a job. I have been there also. Stay focus and you will make it through this cycle of life.

[@zinforthewin]

Just found your channel! sorry this happened to you but I hope this opens doors to a much better opportunity

[@franzo13579]

Wishing you all the best❤

[@tacticalpause3767]

1st world problem: I just lost my job, but…… I got cake tasting this afternoon lets gooo.

[@SherKhoo]

Hang on there it will pass just be patient

[@loveyourself8026]

Don’t worry be happy :) nex chapter 💪🏻

[@yorkstatue]

Sorry for what happened. It will all work out in the end!

[@AkatsukiShadow]

Yo I've been watching you here and there and I just wanted to say keep your Head up and Chin Down! Usually amazing things occur right after something bad. “A life without rain is like the sun without shade.” “You have to get through the rain if you're ever going to see a rainbow.” Remember you're Korean and we strong mfers! Fight on sis, rooting for ya!

[@loispark]

ty!!!

[@ancient_kitten]

Thanks for sharing! All the best for you :) ✨

[@amytan7081]

Keep going and move on. Don't let this bring you down. A good time to recharge, realign and reflect. Happy wedding preparation and enjoy the process 🙂

[@shuozhang236]

be optimistic losing job may not be a bad thing it will open a new door for you and switching lanes can do good for you don't lose hope

[@swankyshivy]

sorry about loss of your job. you got this. can u share recipe for anti inflamatory drink

[@loispark]

hi yes!!! blueberries (1/2 cup) oat milk or almond milk (2 cups) Half a banana handful of almonds or walnuts! Tablespoon of honey for extra sweetening

[@swankyshivy]

@@loispark thanks. yikes i have everything else except blue berries here. its expensive and frozen

[@lindajackson6959]

Another better door will open for you❤

[@dickersonr6172]

You got this!!!!

[@leapheap6837]

Tough times don’t last. Tough people do. Keep going!

[@yellowbird5411]

Perspective is important when you lose a job. The longer you live, the more of almost everything will happen to you, because that is life. You will love more people, you will lose more people to death, you will move more, work in more places, lose or leave more jobs, buy and sell more of your vehicles, find more friends, lose more friends, etc. When one is in their early 20's, a job loss is a very big deal. By the time you are in your 30's, a job loss is a major inconvenience. By the 40's, a job loss is just an opportunity for better pay and more satisfaction. By the 50's, a job loss can be very concerning due to ageism in the workplace, and reduced salary. By the 60's, many can just work part-time due to Social Security, so job loss is not too serious. So the earlier we understand that life brings jobs and takes them away because that's what life is, we can stop stressing and get on with finding another one.

[@Arhiva_Snimaka]

Nice vlog. Best wishes from Serbia/Europe.

[@EC-uk1bp]

Don't give up. Something good coming to you soon.

[@lidaxo3900]

Hello Lois. I saw your video in my feed and I subscribed. I wish you all the best for your wedding. And you make me really hungry with all the food. I am so sorry that you lost your job. How it works in America when you loose a job? You get than support from the government?

[@barbaravyse660]

You looked beautiful in all the dresses! I vote for the lemon cake if it’s not too tart. Sorry about the layoff. I’m sure you’ll land on your feet soon.

[@ajcrocksvideogames]

Lost my this Friday, sucks.

[@azyt]

How do you have a car in NYC??

[@loispark]

Just been borrowing from my brother and or parents!

[@laurastone6578]

New subscriber to your channel. I’m sure better things are in your future! 🙏

[@shaunanacole]

Wish you the best! I think if i got laid off i definitely wouldn't be soending money eating out and such, but to each her own

[@avocadobog]

Lois, you got this girl! There's a quote that goes something like....things may not go the "right way" but it's the universe trying to redirect you to something better! hope your job finding journey will go smoothly

[@adaas3126]

love

[@Chutney1luv]

Lois, just remember that you got that job, you can get another one! When one door closes, a much greater one opens! Hold your head up high and believe in yourself! They are hiring everywhere! You got this, this don't got you! You have the personality that employers are looking for! Light attracts light! Save your severance pay, and don't stress! Blessings...🙌

[@xian4616]

You are brave .i m sure you had chosen moe researches to work in States.

[@margaretburnham5683]

That first wedding dress looked like it was literally made for you

[@elainesmith7512]

Lois is lovely! She looks like JoAnna Gaines' little sister! 😊❤I hope she finds the job that she wants, and may God BLESS her and her finance in their marriage. 🙏🙏❤❤😊😊👍👍

[@yolandelyle]

As long as you have a roof over your head,a warm bed to sleep in and you can eat a meal everyday,........you will be fine,👍. There are many people that live in Asia, Africa and the other side of the earth that sleep outside and have no idea what will they eat or what will their future be like!! Everyday speak words of affirmation to yourself and into your life: I AM BLESSED. I AM FAVORED. I AM SUCCESSFUL. YOUR LIFE WILL CHANGE.

[@Nancy-px7hn]

I wouldn't be eating out if I just lost my job. I would conserve as much as possible until I actually started working again. Eating out cost 3X's what it costs to make the same thing at home.

[@elleg.7880]

Everything happens for a reason. What you may see as a set back is actually a set up for something better. You'll see.

[@GurtyBeats]

You're going to crush it wherever you land next yo! Yewwwww

[@loispark]

❤️❤️❤️

[@summerliu3394]

Happened to me last month, laid off after all hard work is done. Like a nightmare looking for a job not easy good luck to all who comments here and got laid off.

[@PAPERWEIGHTPRODUCTIONS]

No worries come to jersey.... there are jobs cheaper rent then ny

[@cindyfern]

Omggg 😲 😱 literally my worst nightmare

[@plaindonut7145]

You will be fine. You will have a new job....better one! And don't worry!!! You are so blessed. You are getting married and you are talented. What could go wrong! God bless you, your family and future Husband! He will pay for the wedding....lol....lol......mmmh why not

[@maddscientist3170]

UNFORTUNATELY ....this will be happening to more & more "Social Influencers" These videos are not real jobs, with healthcare benefits, pensions, 401Ks. The economy is in a tailspin more so than other decades...it is also a global happening...not just happening to U.S. workers either. Good Luck on your future endevors.

[@msunje9862]

These videos are not real job but they are nice side jobs. She already has full time day job, social influencer is just side income

[@lookbehindyourback6910]

​@@msunje9862so basically you mean that she aint keeping it real? What a faker!

[@TopGun_-]

To you reading this right now...I know, yes I know what you’re going through. I need you to know that God is holding you right now. You are gonna get through this. Your breakthrough is coming.

[@ElaineSharon358]

Poor thing having to shop for a dress…. So exhausting 😂

[@msunje9862]

Poor bitter guys can only feed on hate

[@asukaaano8113]

Good days coming Babe. You can do it ☺️

[@welcometosusansmukbang9215]

👉Job comes and goes. Please embrace your life. Time don't wait for no one! Be happy! Even if you have a corporate job, you can be laid off at anytime. You walk away with nothing. Trust me, I wasted 16 years in corporate world. Searching job circle will continue until you reach 67 years for retirement. Try to collect unemployment. Go out for bubble tea or asuan supermarket for snacks❤

[@vanessatrujillo7486]

❤

[@krongkrong979]

힘내요

[@gracetuyor2639]

❤❤🙏

[@yougetaspear7799]

You be fine hon...and most people want Asians on their team anyways

[@winnifredmiller7759]

Salut¡