Living in Taiwan vs Japan: Would We Stay Forever?

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Prozzie

Prozzie

Күн бұрын

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@mindcache5650
@mindcache5650 Ай бұрын
I’ve travelled to 38 countries from the UK in my career . I’ve lived in 6 as an expat banker ( Hong Kong, Singapore, Indonesia, Australia, China, Taiwan) . Loved Hong Kong before the CCP, loved Singapore as a PR ( still) before the price gouging . Australias lifestyle unbeatable . China - no ; Indonesia- no. I’ve been with my Taiwanese wife for 27 years and married for 17. Best thing that ever happened woman- wise. Now I’m at retirement age there’s no way I’d ever go to the UK . Too greedy, too expensive The transportation , the healthcare and education systems suck . My wife never wanted a visa to the UK but we tried it out for 1 year. Truly a s**show. The main difference is that there’l are only 6 cities I’d ever consider living in after we did the whole tour . Cambridge, St Ives in Cornwall, Torquay, York, Stamford ( Lincs) and Bath . But so does everyone else making those places so very pricey . I’ve gone too far to the other side. Absolutely nothing, I mean nothing happens in the UK after 1800 apart from boring pubs . My wife and I were at a loss. The key driver for me to buy a house and settle in Taiwan is the fantastic cheap free healthcare , education , safety and ease of traveling to other destinations like Japan or the Philippines, Vietnam etc . Transport works . I don’t live in Taipei but by the beach with a World Gym nearby plus a University . The other factor is that my Taiwan city is 60% cheaper in cost of living to places like Oxford . I first came here in 1996 but have lived constantly here for the past 7 years on a marriage APRC . I will convert that to a PR in 2025 . It’s different if you have young children because grandparents and close family in the UK want to see them. However for me I have no debts , 3 pensions and the state UK pension kicks in , in 2026 . I could live easily off that alone as I don’t need to buy anything. No mortgage, no car loans , credit cards . It’s very difficult to spend £35 per day here if you don’t drink and party. Everything we do is free almost Walking, hiking, the gym. The last thing is inflation is only 2%, mortgage rates 1.75% and energy and utility bills 20% of the cost of the UK . Plus ;no council tax . So for our age it’s perfect. If you have a younger family it’s a different situation. But I’d be insane to retire in the UK or Singapore .
@sandyyang2210
@sandyyang2210 Ай бұрын
在不同的人生階段去選擇適合自己國家生活是最好不過的,而且Prozzie說自己母語是英文真的是個很大的優勢
@Moksha-Raver
@Moksha-Raver 29 күн бұрын
Japan seems like a wonderful country, and that part about his kids being safe from violent crime, but still subjected to Japanese pedos is insightful. No tentacle molestations in the UK. Good to watch a Prozzie vlog again.
@stilllowkey
@stilllowkey Ай бұрын
I thought the same thing of going back to the hometown to be close to lovely childhood friends before, but I forgot that people have changed when they got married and had a family, still can hangout with them sometimes, but it's not like you used to be anymore 😅
@jannnnnieinkr
@jannnnnieinkr Ай бұрын
我是住在韓國的台灣媽媽,這裡跟日本很像,大部分是男主外、女主內,女性多在家照顧孩子,我目前也遇到類似的狀況,教育的確是個頭痛的問題,韓國在學前教育也是做得很好,小學之後,孩子們也是開始補習,家長甚至從幼兒園開始就為孩子鋪路,上雙語學校等等,上一堆才藝班,因為上小學後又是一場新的戰爭開始.... 所以我目前想到的是,還好台灣跟韓國搭飛機距離不遠,我希望在我能付出的程度上,帶孩子感受兩地不一樣的學習氣氛,例如寒暑假的時候回台灣 之後我還是希望讓孩子多看點世界,我希望他未來遇到困難的時候,不要鑽牛角尖,知道世界還是很大,總有個地方可以容得下自己,不要絕望,所以我也希望他有很好的信仰。
@Prozzie
@Prozzie Ай бұрын
Good luck to you and your child!
@sherryland101
@sherryland101 Ай бұрын
韓國生活壓力比台灣大很多,還有可怕的階級觀念,彼此又喜歡比較,妳一定要讓孩子多回台灣,學好中文韓文,也讓孩子可以選擇未來不一定只能待在韓國
@moe6636
@moe6636 Ай бұрын
在台灣工作的歐美人其實對比台灣人還是比較輕鬆,雖然他們本人還是會覺得很辛苦,不過存的錢其實也不輸自己本來國家可以存到的錢, 只要會英文+待在那的國家需要用的到語言,就都會吃得很開
@毛阿愷
@毛阿愷 Ай бұрын
如果不讓孩子在體制內接受教育,可以選擇在家自學,ㄧˊ樣可以教出很棒的孩子,就像老外爸爸的七仙女一樣,每個都懂事乖巧,而且學習很多生活技能。
@Yoyo-rl4vw
@Yoyo-rl4vw Ай бұрын
怎麼辦~好想幫Prozzie打頭上的蚊子哦🤔🤔🤔 我覺得孩子的快樂與否,取決於父母的態度~至從我知道孩子是為了讓父母開心,才認真學習~就認真反省自己!現在的我,只要確認小孩懂不懂?幫他解決問題後,對於考試粗心的問題,就不再苛刻!休閒時間帶他多出去豐富生活、做他想做的活動! 陪伴才是最好的教育策略😊😊😊
@Prozzie
@Prozzie Ай бұрын
They really bothered me haha
@人生價值
@人生價值 Ай бұрын
頭上的蚊子讓人無法忽視🤣🤣🤣
@patriciahowellcassity767
@patriciahowellcassity767 Ай бұрын
It's very important for kids to learn how to Think not just facts and good evaluations for self worth
@lil----lil
@lil----lil Ай бұрын
I've lived in the USA for 30 years and this is MY LAST Year here. While capitalism has catapulted the USA to the #1 economy in the world where has all that money gone? The top 1% of course. We still have one of the most confusing and expensive medicare systems in the world, good schools are unaffordable but the ONE THING that drives me out is CRIME: Brazen DAYLIGHT robbery, shootings and rampant drug problems and the trend of "decriminalization" for "low violations" such as stealing, harassments, minor assaults (a random punch in the face is fine, no jail time will be served) and PAPER/FAKE plates abundant with not a care in the world. Just a few examples. Graffitis have magically appeared all over (cops DON'T DARE to stop kids anymore) and auto thefts have SKYROCKETED 500% nationwide. "Catch and release" is the norn here in the US. The place is becoming insufferable. Getting TF out of here. No country is perfect but you pick & choose your poison and CRIME has gotten worse in the US. Unbelievable.
@xcalibertrekker6693
@xcalibertrekker6693 Ай бұрын
Yea even if the GOP won this year the dems have done so much damage so quickly it will be very hard to repair it. There is no chance of repairing the divide between black and white people now, but that is what they wanted.
@Cheng-ChuanPeng
@Cheng-ChuanPeng Ай бұрын
Unless you move to some countryside, but it is very boring and still need to face insane inflation.
@lil----lil
@lil----lil Ай бұрын
@@Cheng-ChuanPeng That is my intention :D. My car got broken into FIVE times within the past THREE years. It's so bad (NYC) in here now. :( Moving out of the US 100%. Even countryside is not really safe (racism if you ain't white).
@Cheng-ChuanPeng
@Cheng-ChuanPeng Ай бұрын
@@lil----lil That must be very very expensive and unsafe. agree what you said , no country is perfect
@mikek5298
@mikek5298 Ай бұрын
@@lil----lilBye!
@人生價值
@人生價值 Ай бұрын
台灣的教育與日本一樣,求學過程,都是為分數而唸書。 我曾遇過父母不在乎孩子的成績,只希望他們童年能快樂的渡過。
@林XX-p9i
@林XX-p9i Ай бұрын
😂失望到絕望時~退而求其次
@ImPiPi
@ImPiPi Ай бұрын
近年有出現一些體制外學校,像唐鳳就是一個成功案例 但我還是很懷疑⋯絕大多數的家庭和個人到底適不適合零壓力發展,即使是歐美也有一些功課壓力吧
@LongLIN-ol6es
@LongLIN-ol6es Ай бұрын
不在意小孩成績的台灣父母其實並不少
@scully812535
@scully812535 Ай бұрын
+1,我的家庭所有小朋友,都有快樂的童年,放飛自由,到國中就開始慢慢誘導,是要追求自己想學習什麼的生活工作養活自己,因進入高中學習方向開始不同,他們現在水電工程,汽車修護,美髮,有著一技之長獨立生活
@scully812535
@scully812535 Ай бұрын
我的家庭所有小朋友,都有快樂的童年,放飛自由,到國中就開始慢慢誘導,是要追求自己想學習什麼的生活工作養活自己,因進入高中學習方向開始不同,他們現在水電工程,汽車修護,美髮,有著一技之長獨立生活
@Chris-xc1tm
@Chris-xc1tm Ай бұрын
All countries are great if you are rich. Lifestyle can't be separated from pay. The best country to work is often not the best country to retire. Real estate prices compared to local incomes give the best answers. In my experience tracking real estate prices and value for money will tell almost the entire story.
@Cindy-s2k
@Cindy-s2k Ай бұрын
台灣有森林小學,其實還有不少在家自學的孩子
@omgitsbanana8724
@omgitsbanana8724 Ай бұрын
其實我覺得台灣大多的國小其實蠻不錯的,我覺得問題是出在國高中😔 而且讓孩子在群體中學習是一件蠻重要的事!但這件事蠻常被忽略的😢(森林小學是不錯啦,但他基本是要住校,這樣與父母的相處會減少醬也不太好😬)
@DiegoL105
@DiegoL105 Ай бұрын
I think Healthcare has to be considered. I don't know about NHS. Canada's Healthcare has collapsed. Waiting of 12 months to see a specialist and 18 months for a surgery. ER waiting time at least 6 hours and often another 10 hours to be seen by a doctor. People died in ER is a norm. When one does not have good health, education becomes a less concerned topic. During my recent trips to Taiwan, there were always between 30 - 40 people on wheelchairs waiting to board the EVA.
@王柏凱-z3y
@王柏凱-z3y Ай бұрын
待日本的問題,來台灣就解決啦,答案不就在眼前? 不喜歡死記硬背,現在很多體制外的實驗學校、森林小學(前提是當你看到別人在追逐高分當醫生時能不動心)。其中有些還是公立的,負擔困難?我還嫌太便宜了!你看看歐美那種高教收費,真敢真誇張! 台灣極度開放包容,想過自由的學習也沒人會指責可以。如果願意,乃至可以申請在家自學,你倆想去辦學伸張理念也行
@glgl7676
@glgl7676 Ай бұрын
As a foreigner I’ve said this over and over again, if I had a choice, two things I would never do in Asia: 1) work an 8am-8pm office job and 2) put my children through their education system. Nothing wrong with vacationing and retiring in Asia, but I could never give up my western earning potential nor reduce any opportunities for my child to get into higher education in a western country. Local Asians would sacrifice so much just for these two opportunities if they had a chance.
@Ai-Jay
@Ai-Jay Ай бұрын
1. The western earning potential might be higher, but at the end of the day it’s your buying power that matters. Think of all the taxes, medical bills, living costs, services, insurance and etc.. A work and life balance job could be struggle to just make ends meet, a six figure job is not necessarily easier than those in Asia. 2. Living in the states, or North America, does not necessarily mean the Ivy League schools are affordable nor easy to get in without hustling. Without the Ivy League degrees, options and opportunities are just not the same, once get out of the school, expect to live in a share house or a basement and work for a few years to just pay back the expensive loans before thinking about building a family. I am not going to elaborate the pros and cons about the environment or languages, but it’s more about how much resources ones have than the places
@deana6869
@deana6869 Ай бұрын
Enjoy the life❤everything is good 😊
@chiang_paul
@chiang_paul Ай бұрын
謝謝你們的分享與介紹❤
@meiyuc22
@meiyuc22 Ай бұрын
your way of thinking will change as you age, you'll care less about travelling and you'll find out where your heart can settle down.
@anviju7835
@anviju7835 Ай бұрын
不管教育體系提供的是甚麼 最重要的是父母提供給小孩的價值觀及面對事情的處理態度
@MarcoGPUtuber
@MarcoGPUtuber Ай бұрын
If you leave, everyone would miss you!
@映純凌
@映純凌 Ай бұрын
Thanks for the video on excellent cultural comparison and personal thoughts.
@kaorus8956
@kaorus8956 26 күн бұрын
能夠生活在不同的地方,而且能選擇可以去融入或回到原生地是很幸運的事,台灣是一個友善的地方,如果打算永遠生活在台灣,或許也可以發揮自己的力量,來讓這個地方變的更好及更適合自己居住。 祝福大家都能擁有一個越來越美好的生活,快樂是一件值得驕傲和分享的事
@stevenobinator2229
@stevenobinator2229 Ай бұрын
PROZZIE, HOUSES IN CANADA ARE 50% MORE EXPENSIVE THAN THE UK, ME SITTING HERE IN OTTAWA, ABOUT TO GO BK TO MY BELOVED THAILAND
@Chris-xc1tm
@Chris-xc1tm Ай бұрын
Thailand is my current favorite too. Currency arbitrage and amazingly friendly people.
@hungpatrick677
@hungpatrick677 Ай бұрын
Sounds terrible in Ottawa !
@Prozzie
@Prozzie Ай бұрын
haha yea I left Ottawa 10 years ago and I can't see myself going back. It's a fine city but good god it's expensive
@許志豪-b3j
@許志豪-b3j Ай бұрын
Life is a journey and adventure. You are making new choices every day, and every day is a new day where you can decide what you want to do and how you want to live. Don't let your thoughts limit you, follow your heart, it doesn't matter if you make the wrong choice, don't be afraid to start over. I wish you all the best, peace, joy, health and happiness 人生就是一趟旅程跟冒險。每天都在重新做選擇,每天都是新的一天可以決定自己想要怎麼做怎麼生活。 不要讓想法限制自己,跟著心去走,選擇錯了沒關係,不要怕重新開始而已。 祝福你一切順心平安喜樂健康幸福
@Prozzie
@Prozzie Ай бұрын
good advice!
@thankyou888
@thankyou888 Ай бұрын
如果有辦法遠距工作,其實一半亞洲一半故鄉真的滿好的,就算是有孩子現在也有很多自學小孩非常優秀,等孩子慢慢長大也可開始在不同國家旅居,未來世界移動能力越來越普遍,看你選擇囉
@mp37vincent44
@mp37vincent44 Ай бұрын
有小孩 會比較複雜 我跟老婆沒有小孩 也拿到日本永住 就有可能永久住在日本 有 退休金制度 有健保 有存款 有房子 基本上可以非常安穩的過完 下半餘生 經濟 跟 政治 均比台灣穩定極多(台灣還可能有戰爭) 另外一個 同學的情況是 他是台灣人 老婆大陸人 生4胎 但最後選擇歸化 小孩子則是成年後 選擇 要成為永住者(台灣國籍) 或是日本人 不過看到他小孩 適應的情況是挺好的 但就是日本人小孩的感覺 完全無法區分 上學說日文 回家 會跟她說中文 但明顯中文沒那麼好... 從出生就住在這裡的小孩 價值觀 語言能力 會幾乎跟 日本同化 沒刻意培養的話 特別是亞洲人小孩 真的分不出來...而英國人 外表跟日本人不同 或許會吃虧一點 但如果是從小長大 那應該還好 最好是母語跟文化 也要學 不然就跟 土生土長日本人一樣了 沒有語言跟文化優勢... 等小孩 長大一點 其實會發現 會雙文化 雙語言 是挺大的優勢的.. 那時才學母語會困難不少
@Alice-nx6qg
@Alice-nx6qg 27 күн бұрын
很好的討論議題!!
@Zayne-c7s
@Zayne-c7s Ай бұрын
我想我沒得選擇 我這剩下來的餘生都得待在地球上度過了 😩
@meiyuc22
@meiyuc22 Ай бұрын
不一定啦説不定可以去火星
@Brush-0328
@Brush-0328 Ай бұрын
❤Prozzie to stay in Taiwan though it’s tough for children education to western parents
@li-chinchen6320
@li-chinchen6320 Ай бұрын
Everyone must admit that no place on earth is HEAVEN, a PARADISE.
@Arcus0827
@Arcus0827 Ай бұрын
兩位都提到亞洲的教育內捲,但我不覺得。做為父母,也是可以不需要分分計較的。反之,受西方教育之後是否真的有求職競爭力?還是因為雙重國籍的關係?
@davidt1831
@davidt1831 Ай бұрын
Something for James to consider is NHS. From what I've gathered through news, Japanese healthcare should be much better and faster than UK's NHS. Also, Brexit will continue to be a damper on UK economic performance and a cause of inflation.
@Ai-Jay
@Ai-Jay Ай бұрын
I do really think the true happiness lies in where your family and friends are, in other words, your loved ones. Every country has their own issues on their education, politics, economy, immigration policies, violence, drugs, taxes and so on. Your child might have more hard time to deal with discrimination in UK than in Japan, at least I feel more comfortable and easier to live in Japan, and no one is going to bother me if I want to live in my own bubble if that’s what I have to. Canada is difficult to live in too. Difficult job market, housing crisis, over rated medical system, high taxes and living costs, increasing crimes, drug problems and the long depressing cold winter plus months, even years, on the waiting list for a day care and a family doctor, it’s just difficult for parents to raise children there.
@aadd0978
@aadd0978 Ай бұрын
🤗🤗🤗
@CSL_Taiwan
@CSL_Taiwan Ай бұрын
Bottom line, if you have enough money, you can live anywhere if you're affordable.
@derweiwang8679
@derweiwang8679 Ай бұрын
Of all the people in the world, have always their own borthering. Since you can't give away, you got to face it, fit it and get used to it. It is the life of way, ~Se A Vida E~
@LISLAB-Design
@LISLAB-Design Ай бұрын
日本教育是有效率的,像是訓練一支品質平均的軍隊一樣,各有優缺點,這也使他們普遍的生活常識不會落差很大。和西方認為天才值得用力培養的觀念不太一樣。或許這也是他們服務和效率的一環。
@jolin1225
@jolin1225 Ай бұрын
I don’t think he has collected enough Information about education systems in Taiwan. Taiwan has experienced nearly 30 years of educational reform.
@kpaul4474
@kpaul4474 Ай бұрын
😊😊😊你们都是为一日三餐柴米油盐酱出茶奔波忙碌的普通老百姓,也挺可爱兮兮的
@AllenRReid
@AllenRReid Ай бұрын
I would love to retire in Taiwan someday. And sleep on an Emma mattress.
@tomleong3713
@tomleong3713 Ай бұрын
I was born in Hong Kong, move to Vancouver BC as a 9 year old (Jan) 1973. Spent a total of 6 years working in H.K. (1959-88 & 1992-94). Now as I navigate being close to retirement. My wife who is from H.K. we have decided to move back to H.K. or Zhong Shan China. To honest, I am excited and a bit scared at the same time. My English is better than my Chinese. but I can speak cantonese. I am an Automotive Service Advisor since 1989. Maybe once settled, I may find work in my profession again or I may just relax and retire. I know I will miss my friends in Canada. I sure won't miss the problems in Canada. (Municipal, Provincial & Federal elections. It's like you're at the Thrift Store & you are trying to pick out the least damaged & F@#ked up item there!)
@mojidoza11
@mojidoza11 Ай бұрын
Well, living in China isn't ever a good choice, you remember that forever.
@胡說-d3e
@胡說-d3e Ай бұрын
先回來台中、我們去昌平路吃大麵羹
@洪瑞真瑞真
@洪瑞真瑞真 Ай бұрын
選擇生活在讓自己能放鬆沒有那麼多壓力的國家或地方吧!
@jeffchao3008
@jeffchao3008 Ай бұрын
🙂🙂
@我愛台灣不爽憋著-_-zzz
@我愛台灣不爽憋著-_-zzz Ай бұрын
尊重你的決定、你開心最重要。😊 台灣教育也有另一個體系、就是高職體系、這是給專業科系學生就讀的、同時也遠離死讀書的部分。😊 高職的體系有自己就讀的一套體系、這體系的孩子不需要死讀書、是以學習一技之長為主、也有自己升遷的大學體系。😊 我要說的是⋯在台灣不是每個孩子都選擇就讀高中、然後一直死讀書為了考最好的大學。😅 還多家庭的孩子會選擇就讀高職體系、那是真的在學習專業的科目、是為了孩子的興趣在就讀、而且這方面的學校真的很多、比一般高中學校多、而且高職孩子一畢業更容易找工、然後很多孩子在工作一段時間後、會在進修二專、然後二技(等同大學文憑)。😊 就台灣的就業市場、唸高職到二技的學生、比直接唸大學的更受到企業喜歡、只是這樣的就讀都偏向理工科系。😊 我要說的是、在台灣不是每個孩子都死讀書的、而且⋯台灣是中小企業多 、而帶動台灣經濟發展這些中小企業不可少、重點是⋯這些中小企業的老闆很多都是就讀高職體系的、需要時才去進修研究所。😊
@AntoineHuang-826
@AntoineHuang-826 Ай бұрын
台灣的高職體系一樣很高壓啊,不用考統測嗎?台灣的高職的教學方式也是很死板,他們說的高壓,就是指台灣的高中職教育都很死板,沒有什麼社團活動、豐富的選修課程、校園社交活動、體育球隊比賽、晚上課早下課的上課時間、老師更有彈性、更多元的教材跟教學方式等等,這些東西高職一樣也沒有啊,台灣只有像森林實驗學校才最接近他們心裡嚮往的教育方式
@LongLIN-ol6es
@LongLIN-ol6es Ай бұрын
@@AntoineHuang-826 或許台灣國中壓力仍重,但小學根本不用去森林小學,現在台灣公立小學已經非常人性化沒什麼壓力了,台灣學生到西方國家就讀,程度隨便就能打趴大半西方學生,西方人的教育方式,就是養出一天到晚搞罷工的勞工,社會時不時要停擺一遭,政府機構辦事效率低率,連歐洲龍頭德國都淪為歐豬了,美國加拿大也一大堆問題,那些所謂的先進國家們,現在全要跟台灣求晶片求設廠,不是國外的月亮真的有比較圓
@destinykimo
@destinykimo Ай бұрын
亞洲國家都是在國高中教育有很大問題 都希望小孩在這階段能夠學到跟社會接軌找到工作的知識 所以教育方式會偏向死背
@changtzuchieh5114
@changtzuchieh5114 Ай бұрын
大部份外國人都覺得台灣教育不好,覺得西方教育比較進步,Well,如果您們願意負擔高額學費台灣還是有國際化私人學校的。 亞洲教育體系跟歐美不ㄧ樣,如同飲食不同,外國人長大後才出國體驗生活跟小孩子從小落地長大念書是不一樣的。
@shiro_oka
@shiro_oka Ай бұрын
在日本的話,混血兒還是留一半在英國比較好
@哦嗨呦
@哦嗨呦 Ай бұрын
覺得小孩童年可以待在英國 不是分數取決一切 相對思想開放 畢竟童年過了就真的過了 等小孩長大再討論要待在英國或日本的問題 也還來得及
@xcalibertrekker6693
@xcalibertrekker6693 Ай бұрын
Doubt you can afford it. Prices will just keep going up.
@sleng358
@sleng358 Ай бұрын
又來看Prozzie了,廢話不多說趕緊先按個讚
@蔡延雲
@蔡延雲 Ай бұрын
快回來臺灣吧!臺灣想念你🎉
@Max-ps6fn
@Max-ps6fn Ай бұрын
他早回來了
@自由的生活
@自由的生活 Ай бұрын
台灣有華德福 跟 KITS 等不同實驗教育體系 KIST 學費不貴跟一般公辦學校一樣
@Taiwan88_tw520
@Taiwan88_tw520 Ай бұрын
亞洲人一輩子住歐美的也很多啊!包括台灣人。
@frankyang4114
@frankyang4114 Ай бұрын
說得好,誰知道明天會怎樣呢?follow your mind
@JackWang-o7m
@JackWang-o7m Ай бұрын
搬到台灣東部可讀到國中,高中可回英國讀書再抉擇讀哪裡的大學目前看到在台大部份外國家庭選擇
@r.9512
@r.9512 Ай бұрын
不只是長年在台灣的外國人會這麼想,連我這個台灣本土出生長大的人也這麼想。 基於青少年時期的生活與交友的安全性、便利性、價值觀、人格培育養成、遠離高機率的性侵&種族歧視&槍枝泛濫的問題、日常生活的犯罪常態化、毒品、幫派、酗酒... 還有國家的社會醫療制度、稅負額度、物價水準。 我認為,台灣除了教育系統以外的環境,是很適合青少年長大和中老年人的穩定家庭生活。 孩子的價值觀和個性、懂得獨立自主分辨和拒絕而不盲從,是小孩一輩子的影響基礎。 家人與家族的連繫與陪伴,除了是為了小孩的國籍問題,否則真的只能靠父母帶孩子每年幾次的兩地往返、視訊、刻意拉近關係。 亞洲那一套社會教育與傳統台灣家庭的意識,我覺得NG。 若身為父母,有能力,我也寧願把孩子送進台灣的國際學校就讀,住宿念書而接軌國際。 長大後,孩子自己決定是否出國進修或旅居工作或結婚。 但如同您說的,台灣的國際學校的費用,非常昂貴,一般家庭根本負擔不起。 在國外出生長大的孩子,在青少年時期轉到台灣來就讀一般當地教育系統的學校,多數都難以適應和接受,環境對他們過於壓抑和控制,過度保護和排斥特定領域沒錢程的發展性,社會上&職業上&國家的環境上,也都同教育系統一樣偏頗於特定職業產業。 但亞洲國家的孩子去到歐美國家念書,除了飲食和犯罪安全議題以外,反而比較沒有適應性和接納性的問題。 台灣的一般學校,只會訓練出聽話的勞工、和不違背社會意識的聽話的乖巧的孩子、還有從小看臉色進行絕對服從的奴性、和非常懂得考試拿分數的機器人。 台灣青少年的性觀念雖沒歐美國家犯濫,但也很糟糕,在男性社會主義和家長性觀念的保守環境下,孩子沒有自我保護意識和拒絕的勇氣,女性永遠表現都是為了搏得異性的青睞。 孩子只會被父母與長輩嚴令嚇斥、威脅、阻止、隱瞞、發生了就往法院訴訟向男方求償、而成年的男性則永遠都是控告女性狐媚勾引,成年女性卻得隱忍男性出軌而包容保全孩子與婚姻和社會尊嚴。 簡單的說,台灣的教育,不會讓你餓死,不會讓你沒有大學學歷,還讓你刻苦耐勞。但你一輩子都別想要有什麼個人特色和領域的獨特或開創發展,除非父母另外砸錢栽培也夠思維開化,否則也別妄想。父母想的也只會是希望你能融入族群中的平凡、安全與穩定。 全世界最大最多的國際資源,都在歐美國家,而且是以外文來保存其知識與系統。 而歐美國家的教育,比較更能培養孩子的多面性朝自我優勢的發展。舉一反三、自主地積極主動,探索了解自己、懂得情緒與壓力的管理,從小培養社交性、音樂舞蹈、藝術和游泳。能足夠獨立思考,隨時懂得自我負責自己的人生的休學或再回學校進修。 不像台灣是恐龍家長、媽寶的孩子、孩子犯錯或遇事情只會躲在家長身後,天塌下來都有父母擋在前面作最壞示範!像混黑社會的家長、自卑且自信不足但又因少子化而被父母寵溺的孩子,養出社會未來二十年至四十年的〈巨嬰〉社會負擔問題。 在人生遇到冏境時的思維與出路,歐美教育系統也絕對比一生在亞洲教育系統同化和排擠下,更對孩子未來是一大助益。是亞洲的環境和傳統的亞洲家庭教育,一輩子都無法提供與取代的。 但,歐美教育系統與方式是好的,但它們的物價水準與生活環境、社會價值觀與意識、犯罪與生活安全、雖然國際化但種族排擠意識高、整體越來越向下坡走。
@jolin1225
@jolin1225 Ай бұрын
現在臺灣的教育已經不同以往了,目標是培養能邏輯辨證思考與團隊合作的公民。你所認知的臺灣教育是以前的。
@Cheng-ChuanPeng
@Cheng-ChuanPeng Ай бұрын
只要還是學測統測指考那種愚蠢的入學方式,那就難以改變 。 高中英文課隨便教,出國後吃到鱉。敝人正在努力糾正我的英文發音。不過另外一種入學方式,也導致很多小孩從小就補各種才藝,畫畫音樂體育樣樣來,灣區異象。 其實最主要還是看父母怎麼培養,以及眾人如何尊重不同行業。(不是萬般皆下品,只有讀書高)
@AntoineHuang-826
@AntoineHuang-826 Ай бұрын
​@@jolin1225只要會考跟學測還繼續存在,台灣的教育就跟聯考時期一樣,差別不大,都是在背多分而已,只要考試會考的老師才願意教,考試不會考上課時間直接都被借去考試,整個教育就是在為了考試而學習,考試、考試、考試、考試、考試,多到不行的考試,學生根本不是在學習知識,而是在學習如何考試,然後拖到大學才在自我探索,只會考試,考試考到連自己真正的興趣是什麼都不知道,有夠可悲,然後現在大學還要被當成職業訓練所一樣,好像知識與學術研究完全不重要一樣,整個教育扭曲到不行,真的沒有改變很大欸,就是考試教育啊😅
@jolin1225
@jolin1225 Ай бұрын
@@AntoineHuang-826 就算是美國也有他們全國統一的大專院校入學考 SAT 考試,和我們臺灣的學測和申請入學差不多,而他們高中生為了擠進前幾名的大學,也是要參與各種社團活動、研究……,以便面試時得到各學校評審的青睞。臺灣的多元入學,讓每個小孩只要想念書都有學校可以去,而天賦不是走學術路線的人,學校會鼓勵走技職教育體系,每個社區學校都有其特色。我們家長需要跟上這個AI時代,學習已經是自己的事,不會考試的小孩還有很多路可以走,國中、高中都有在輔導孩子找到自己天賦適合走的方向。現在我們臺灣的教育和你想像的完全不同。
@kevinjames3580
@kevinjames3580 Ай бұрын
不知道日本的農田是不是離工廠和工業區很遠?請問日本的空氣聞起來有比較好、比較清新嗎? 台灣滿多地方農田旁就是工廠,或是違章農地工廠,有一些黑心業者化學廢水直接排到水溝或地下…空氣中有股化學異味…😥
@張三-q8q
@張三-q8q Ай бұрын
TW's kids work hard, so they won't teach Chinese to oversea while group up, see different ?
@buda3d2007
@buda3d2007 Ай бұрын
Same reason I dont want my kid to grow up in Taiwan, the schooling system sucks, the American school is $$$ but so are good private schools in Australia, but I have the opportunity to shop around, same reason public schools have some rough settings, but post schooling he can go to Taiwan. After school care is also 50/50, parents who work late and need a baby sitter. I think living in Taiwan/Japan is that there is less of the new trend of western nations self depricating and trying to shun their origins, I hate this attitude becuase its a grift most of the time, so to be away from this garbage is always a good thing.
@dfdfdfd2501
@dfdfdfd2501 Ай бұрын
返家是一定的,現在享受你的專屬旅程
@ggvvhh4959
@ggvvhh4959 Ай бұрын
Be Taiwanese 4ever
@tinacheng9301
@tinacheng9301 Ай бұрын
台灣生活是比較便宜一點,但生活品質不一定適合每個人
@koonanna8164
@koonanna8164 Ай бұрын
順着時勢,目前只能留在英國
@JoshortizXLB
@JoshortizXLB Ай бұрын
Dont you dare.
@chiouharrison1862
@chiouharrison1862 24 күн бұрын
台灣成家,自然會定居在此
@alexchen8380
@alexchen8380 21 күн бұрын
如果你回加拿大🇨🇦,天氣冷了就回台灣、台灣太熱🥵了或是無聊了就回加拿大….
@koonanna8164
@koonanna8164 Ай бұрын
我也想一半時間住台灣一半時間住英國❤
@jwuhome
@jwuhome Ай бұрын
1:50 痾,你臉上有隻蚊子。
@zhuo500
@zhuo500 Ай бұрын
過得快樂就好.是在哪一國家根本無所謂.家家都有本難念的經.適應它融入它就是最佳解答
@formosan9576
@formosan9576 Ай бұрын
良禽擇木而居 重要的是 住在什麼地方會感到幸福快樂 而不是哪個國家
@adurasarangheyo9597
@adurasarangheyo9597 12 күн бұрын
too many membersof the religion of peace in uk or europe. (western) too many unaliving events by them. unlike in countries like poland or japan, where unaliving events by members of the r3l1g10n of pieces HAVE NOT OCCURRED possibily it corresponds with very low numbers of the cult1sts. who woulda thought there,d be that connection......MY VOTE WITH KIDS WOULD BE JAPAN....
@brucewong7891
@brucewong7891 Ай бұрын
White worship and privilege. How come when Asians go to white country there is no yellow worship?
@irene2796
@irene2796 Ай бұрын
I hope Taiwanese appreciate how lucky they are to live in Taiwan.
@本岡-p5s
@本岡-p5s Ай бұрын
住哪都好,只要安全開心🎉
@林國庭-p6p
@林國庭-p6p Ай бұрын
原來死讀書是為了記念貝多芬(背多分)這下我知道了😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@TheMupshot
@TheMupshot Ай бұрын
It may seem like different lives are always better. Taiwan, Japan are beautiful and more peaceful countries than the rest of the world. You say education is difficult. It must definitely be difficult. People should be educated by force if necessary. because the future of societies depends on education levels. Some things must be difficult.
@支语警察人民的法槌
@支语警察人民的法槌 Ай бұрын
1:32 1:50 左眼下的蚊子太囂張
@umbertocalvini7429
@umbertocalvini7429 Ай бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/e6amf6F8jbWIqKMsi=d9b_EOh2AdH4xV1X Bob is living his dream life: 6 summer months in Canada, 6 winter months in Taiwan!
@koonanna8164
@koonanna8164 Ай бұрын
順着時勢,目前只能留在英國
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