LIVING WITH DEMENTIA EP. 23 | TEA TIME WITH JASON AND ANSWERING YOUR QUESTIONS PT. 2

[@bettypisiakowski2148]

I hope Jason knows how much he’s loved and appreciated for helping people he doesn’t even know.. ❤

[@marikotrue3488]

I appreciate that Leslie and Jason are using their lives to inform and to teach all of us. It is one of the most generous things that I could ever imagine.

[@corinneb9790]

I agree. Sometimes it must be hard for Jason because he knows he will forget a word or the name of a recipe, but he powers through to let us see what dementia can look like in case we are seeing the same symptoms. It’s hard on Leslie sometimes too. I’m so glad they have the mutual faith in God. He will carry them through the tough times so they can enjoy the moments Jason has clarity and his wonderful sense of humor.

[@rhondadavis1483]

@@corinneb9790amen ❤️

[@Mtnmamma5251]

@@corinneb9790. I feel like them talking about Jason’s sense of humor as what brought them together, having so much fun together throughout the years…..is the gift God gave to Jason, to help both he and Leslie flourish together through these hard times also. Obviously dementia is one of the most difficult diseases, especially for someone as highly intelligent as Jason ( which still shines through ), it is beyond frustrating. I know this because my mom suffered with this for over 8 years, but interestingly enough she gained a sense of humor in dementia while she was always a very serious person most of her life. So personality traits can change with this disease too. I truly enjoyed this video more than some others, Jason seemed more relaxed. For them both to want to share this part of their lives with the world on YT is a gift that cannot be measured. Such wonderful people! Thank you both. 💕🌼💕

[@BeccaBean2020]

Jason is adorable. It makes me so sad that he protected our country and paid the price. I have always worried about the vaccines and unnecessary things they are exposed to. My son included. Thank you for your service to our country Jason. We love you! 🇺🇲 💖

[@pattarrant8820]

What a wonderful personality Jason has. He makes me smile.

[@nickybaker1338]

Me too-smiling & giggling from start to finish 😂❤

[@Carole712]

Oh my, the more I see Jason the more I love him. When he talks about his memories from old, it seems so easy for him to talk about those memories. His wit and sense of humor are hilarious. And, yes he is handsome!!!! Lol

[@barbarawhite3217]

Jason was very aware to answer questions truthfully. He seems to be okay with the questions and answers. I was touched by his answer to always be told the truth. I noticed he wanted to stop the interview to see what the dogs were barking about. It was a good interview.

[@pamelariley8983]

Jason, you are so handsome... funny.... smart.... and loved by all of us !!! You too Leslie !!! my hubby has entered the 6th stage of Mixed dementia and life is getting harder.. but We are at peace , knowing that God has us in the palm of his hand !! thanks for taking the time to sit down and talk.... it means a lot for Dan and me !!!

[@timvandermey4792]

❤ and hugs to you. Danya

[@marygooge1565]

My husband David was dx'd with early onset Alzheimers. I retired to be his care givers. You both are very helpful. Thank you

[@jilliebean2709]

You both are so BRAVE and COURAGEOUS for showing vulnerabilities. You touch my heart! I pray for you both often!

[@LenaS-j5y]

Leslie you are a super hero!🦸‍♀️

[@janlabbate3277]

“But I still act like I’m 12”. 😂 So do I and I don’t have dementia (yet). You and Jason are the best! I love watching both channels. Thank you especially for this one!

[@deborakendrick1667]

What servant’s y’all are! Help others understand they are not alone. Y’all are just so kind to invite us in to your life.

[@barbaraanderson3532]

I just love him! His personality and sense of humor is pure gold! God bless you both. ❤️

[@suepete]

My favorite Jason interview, thus far! Great job editing and interviewing, Leslie!

[@jackieschulz2028]

This was a great interview. I loved how open Jason was. Jason seemed much less irritated this interview and i love how much he loves you!

[@sharonpence6919]

Jason does seem to be doing very very well, he does look very young. He was so lighthearted today and did not mind answering questions, seems meds are helping

[@sandraobrien1050]

I am just amazed at how much better Jason interacts than my husband. He can't finish very many sentences or even listen to me when I talk. You guys have so much fun together too, we no longer have any fun. It's so sad and scary and we are only on moderate so far. My children are also having a rough time seeing their Dad decline so rapidly. My daughter is trained with intellectual disabilities and understands but my son cannot accept it at all. My daughter just became certified to teach about dementia to her co-workers.We are having another assessment done next week and hopefully they can give us some more help with coping skills and medication adjustment. Praying for you all as always!

[@NewYawkahBroad]

I am so sorry you're going through this. I pray the Lord sustain you in His strength and comfort your heart through the sadness.

[@sandraobrien1050]

@@NewYawkahBroad Thank-you so much! I pray for His guidance daily!

[@emilyduffy1410]

I’m so sorry you are struggling. We are here for you!

[@sandraobrien1050]

@@emilyduffy1410 Thank-you so much! It is a very lonely disease!

[@deborakendrick1667]

Praying

[@tammyrockhold6111]

Thank you, Leslie and Jason for sharing with us! I am keeping you both in my prayers daily!❤️🤗🙏

[@janetpogue4970]

I tknow most everyone does ♥

[@g5369888]

I'm always so amazed that those living with dementia are able to draw upon "old memories" so easily and with confidence. I love Jason's stories.

[@monapargee4678]

Absolutely one of your very best videos. Jason gave us a glimpse of himself pre-dementia in this video. What a gift for those of us who watch you two regularly. Blessed and thankful. Love to you both.

[@Taylor15SwiftFan]

“And her boobs” 😂♥️ love that he appreciates you inside and out! You two are the best!

[@dogdonthunt179]

😂

[@lindaparra6002]

“20 miles an hour from California” made me laugh OUTLOUD😂‼️ ILOVEYOUTWO!!!

[@Secular-Serenity]

Thank you for doing these Q& A sessions. It enlightens me but also makes me laugh and smile. I care for a 56 year old with LBD and I only go along with him when he sees people in his house that aren’t there. I can easily distract him so far.

[@dianewristen]

JASON SEEMED MORE ALERT DURING THIS INTERVIEW...THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING

[@janetwilson4290]

My husband passed away over a year ago from Lewey Body Dementia and Frontal Temporal Degeration and i see so much of what Jason says was the same for my husband. I feel for you all. I went thru a lot and my husband suffered so near the end. Prayers to youball.

[@paulastrong7571]

Jason has such a great personality. How he deals with his illness is amazing. I really enjoyed this Q&A❤️

[@tamimoncrief2264]

Jason, i like your attitude of acceptance of your disease. God's grace is evident in your peaceful demeanor. Wish we could all be like this.

[@kittycatmommy2364]

Thank you Leslie and Jason for your openness and honesty. I love Jason's humor and find myself laughing out loud so many times. He's still "got it" and his quick wit shines through. I'm sending lots of love and a great big hug and know that you are both in my prayers daily ❤🙏

[@lynettejensen7179]

Awesome job, Jason! I could have never pulled this off. Love your sense of humor! God bless you and Leslie.

[@NewYawkahBroad]

Our church ladies have a yearly tea and, boy, did I get some really good ideas!!❤Thank you to all the people that ask run-of-the-mill questions, not just focusing on the dementia. Cannolis are the answer to almost anything! (jk...Jesus is)

[@lavettamoff7883]

We do this at my church too,and the men serve the ladies.We do ours at Christmas. So fun,and inspiring.

[@TraditionsByTheSeasons]

I love how open and honest you both are. Tea ☕️ time was fun, yum! Love, hugs, and prayers, always. Xoxo ❤

[@ladyw605]

The positive way you are attempting to handle the horrible situation you are living with is a giant inspiration. It is really easy for those of us watching your channel to show empathy and feel compassion; but, do we really understand and know how difficult this is -absolutely we don’t. Sending lots of love and many prayers your way now and always!!!!!

[@soleillebolduc2448]

Are Jasons meds helping with his mood more? He seems to be happier and more lighthearted. I know we are just seeing a short video but just something ive noticed.

[@pam164]

His eyes look more alert to.

[@NewYawkahBroad]

Agreed. He seems calmer and more relaxed on longer videos.

[@tidbitsofmylife2367]

Great video! Jason and Leslie you are both loved so much. I couldn’t believe the cucumber sandwiches. I made one the other day as they had a tea room in Chattanooga that closed. I was in sales and took many customers for tea. What a wonderful thing that you and your family were blessed to have taken so many trips and y’all can look back on your memories. I would love Jason to give us coffee lovers a run down in his coffee area. What are some of the best coffees and his coffee apparatus. Sending you both continued strength, Love and blessings.

[@aprilapril2]

He’s got much better recall than me, I can’t imagine how amazing he must have been before he became unwell

[@judysoda2472]

Obviously Jason was having a good day (or hour). Cherish it, I know you do! 💖

[@daisyy99]

My husband with Parkinson' s had hallucinations. He said he saw God, Jesus, relatives who had passed away. Just b4 he passed the look of joy on his face, and said he saw a scene with colors he couldn't describe.

[@x.bev.x3006]

I have said before how fantastic Jason's long-term memory is and how you have both made such special, unforgettable memories. I hope and pray that you can look back on all the 'dementia series' that you have made to help other people and that those videos give you all not only happy memories but pride in what you have given back to help others. ❤

[@lanashewmaker3114]

Jason, thank you for being so authentic and sharing information that can help others with similar experiences, as well as providing caregivers valuable information that will be helpful to them.

[@marygooge1565]

So sad about Maui. Hope they are all able to stay on their land and rebuild. September was a very difficult time for us. Leslie, you inspire me. Thank you for taking such good care of Jason.

[@tammymuren6378]

Omgoodness, Jason’s sense of humor is hilarious especially the last few “ looks/age” questions 🤣🤣… what a wonderful outlook/ philosophy/ positivity he has about his life😌… Leslie, you are a wonderfully supportive spouse and an angel 😇

[@cecwintonyk8228]

Another wonderful video with lots of great insight into your daily life with Jason's dementia. Jason's willingness to do these videos is special and will be so helpful for those with loved ones who have dementia. And his cooking - BONUS!!

[@robinbraun8278]

Jason is the tea sandwich master!❤

[@deniesekline-thatcher8380]

Yes ~ that & more 👊🏻

[@Meme2angels]

That’s my favorite magazine also. I love watching the love between y’all. I lost my wonderful husband last year to MRSA and I miss his personality so much. Hugs and prayers from Texas ❤

[@tripletgirl2484]

Thanks so much Jason and Leslie! Really like these afternoon tea ideas!

[@margiebeeb2836]

Jason did very well, love his sense of humor. I’m sad for you Leslie though, it must be so hard on you!😢 I know my mom ( has passed) and sister now has Alzheimer’s, very sad, I miss my “big” sister😢she doesn’t recognize me now. Thinking of you both❤

[@daisyy99]

Jason, you are a cool guy! So intelligent, self described as a funny, humble, smart ass.

[@denisewebb5073]

“Not fast food. Good food, fast.” I'm stealing this, Jason.

[@suzanneburns2931]

He’s making you a tea party , how sweet . My husband developed psychosis which made him secretive , suspicious , sneaky .I never knew what he was up to on the phone, people called me to let me know what he was telling them, which was things I was unaware he was even thinking . I was never so happy as when he forgot how to use the phone .

[@kayeichhorn2870]

Thank you both for doing theses Q & A videos. I find them very interesting and helpful. I agree Jason is good looking and not a day over 35.

[@herewego1115]

Prayers for comfort of spirit for you both and for many, many happy days together. These videos help so many people. Jason, you are a wonderful mess and fun to watch on these videos. Thanks for the tea time recipes.

[@pattycarosi9618]

Leslie and Jason you are doing so much with letting others dealing with dementia see your videos. The food looked delicious. Jason you are so fun. I know you have kept Leslie smiling and laughing through your marriage. It's so loving how Jason complments you Leslie. And yes Jason you are very handsome. Thank you for bringing us into your home. Praying for you both. 🙏♥️

[@kathyparker316]

My mother had Lewy Body Dementia and she forgot how to eat, but she always knew me and loved to sing with me.

[@yvonnekneeshaw2784]

I fully appreciate you both sharing your experiences. It truly lessens the stigma around dementia. Every experience is unique and could never have taped my mothers experience as it was mostly volatile until now (10 years later) where she has lost all memory and is calm. I’m very thankful to see the calm part even if she does not recognize me. Her swallowing has recently been affected … one of the many later stages. May God give you all grace to cope.

[@mamalovesthebeach437]

This conversation is SO helpful to caregivers! Thank you both.💜💜

[@debgibson5570]

Love this!! I recently suffered 3 strokes in 2 weeks time ended up in the hospital. I remember being very scared and calling my kids daily, begging them to come and be with me. When they left I tried to be strong and smile and say goodbye. This has scared me to realize I have a fear of being alone in a different environment without them. I don't want to be a burden on them, but want to be around them all the time. This is something I went through with my mother after her strokes. I am working on this daily and try to be upbeat when they are with me. Jason's great attitude gives me hope that I will be able to accept my reality with a sense of humor and a smile! Thank you for bringing this video. I now have hope that when it's my time to go, I can do it with an attitude of gratefulness and positivity. I want their last memories of me to be happy ones. Thank you Jason, not only are you tall,handsome and humble, but you are making people in my position learn how to have hope and happiness!❤❤❤❤😊

[@jamesdavis9180]

I like the way you mix up light questions ( like what tv shows he is watching) with the difficult ones. I would think that would make a person not feel uncomfortable, or defensive in doing it that way. Good job - Joanne

[@browneyes-cj8eg]

thanks Jason for sitting and answering questions.

[@hugsandkriss7959]

Thank you Leslie & Jason. Your dementia videos are so real, and informative (not to mention entertaining 😂) I appreciate you both, and I’m so happy that you have a strong faith, while going through this horrible disease. Love and blessings to you, and your family. ☮️💖🙏

[@MarilynDean-i5b]

Got to get my tea. Yum time! watching Jason, fix some sandwiches with our tea time. You guys are so much fun! ❤️😅😂😊

[@dixiecook9378]

He seems like he loves cooking and his travel stories. He seems spot on. He is happy and that's all that mattters.

[@jelkhorncamper6062]

Lemon bars reminded him of baking and baking reminded him of banana bread. I’m able to follow his reasoning! Great video

[@cynthiafisher9907]

It was so sweet of Jason to be willing to do this in front of the camera. Great job! That’s a lot of details.

[@tracyfield4238]

You two are the most honest people on KZbin. Love to you both ❤

[@Julie_Krantz]

Jason, you are a character. Distinct, entertaining, enigmatic, quick-witted, knowledgeable. If dementia has dimmed any of that, we can’t tell it from where we sit. Yes we see gaps in your memory as you talk and we’ve gotten a glimpse maybe of your mood changes, but you are still a character and a fascinating person. Thank you for sharing all this on KZbin. I think that’s very courageous of you.

[@beatcause]

You two are very uplifting when dealing with a difficult subject. You're both so likeable and I am happy to see your channel doing so well.

[@janetsmiley6778]

Jason, don't worry about messy sandwiches. My husband called that "Cro Magnon style"

[@janefreda7034]

What a beautiful looking tea! You are both amazing people.

[@KimberlyManuel-ee3ov]

Thank you so much for answering the questions so honestly. My best friend's grandma use to see children playing in the backyard in her tree. If we were visiting her she would tell us they were home from school and playing in the tree. I just smiled and agreed with her, it brought her such joy "seeing" the children. She was a wonderful lady. May God bless you both as you go through this journey. I love your love for each other.

[@barbarajohnson9050]

You two flippin’ ROCK! You both are so needed and appreciated! Jason you are an epicureans’ delight, chef ( BOOOJJJJJEEEE!

[@ashleybergstrom8934]

Thank you, Jason, for showing us how you do the tea lunch and for answering so many questions. I love going to tea and look forward to the others you show. A wonderful video in every way!

[@kimsanders8832]

To me a sign of a classy person is one who can be friends with all people and you both are very classy. Thank you for your videos--they teach me so much ! ❤❤

[@UnBoxLifeWithLori]

Hello Jason & Leslie - Happy Monday! Thank you both for sharing your story

[@lindacrews9340]

Good Q&A . I love Jason’s answer to his feelings about you Leslie. He’s very honest . Love and prayers to you both ❤❤🙏

[@Therealgirlinthedesert]

I must get this magazine hehe! This recipe looks so yummy! Thank you Jason. You’re a natural at this KZbin thing. 😉😊❤️

[@susietincknellsmith653]

I hope you know how many people you are helping by sharing your story so candidly. I also hope you know how many people are wrapping you in prayer. Bless you both!

[@sadielee1000]

Jason’s sense of humor was extra hilarious in this video?! He had me laughing out loud several times. Also, I get the impression that the excess sweating is extremely bothersome for Jason. I’m sorry Jason has to deal with such bad sweating as it sounds like a really difficult issue to have happening to him. Hugs to the both of you!

[@janwoodyer735]

Heartbreaking though your situation is, I want to thank you both for such a lovely video. Jason had me smiling so many times. He is such a treasure. All the best to you both 😘😘

[@LindaKayHolevas]

I can totally see why you laugh so much, Leslie. Jason is so lighthearted & fun! I love that he doesn’t take himself too seriously. (& I understand that he’s show timing for the sake of videos). I love hearing you laugh & hope you never feel the need to dull your soul’s light (like you previously posted). Sending you so much love & light & of course, prayers. ❤️✨🙏

[@valdamarielegault1907]

You are the most beautiful souls! My prayers for strength and perseverance! With much love!

[@annrogers2489]

I love you Jason, you keep me laughing, keep up the recipes, it looks delicious

[@isabelmendi3973]

So nice, to see Jason, feeling well enough to answer, all these questions.he was very engaging. You guys had a beautiful life, love Jason’s personality. He shines talking about you. Your awesome Leslie. Your videos are helpful to many people.

[@Linda_j_W]

I loved this video. It’s so great to see Jason’s light shining through and that it hasn’t been dulled by dementia.❤

[@vickidriscoll1940]

Jason is just an awesome person…quick witted

[@aliciakillen1940]

The tea time foods look amazing!

[@jillianlea9690]

Thank you . I enjoyed listening to you both interact during the food prep part. The Q&A was thoughtful and honest as always . Beautiful . Sending so much love and prayer your way

[@samanthaowens65]

I love you guys! You are both beautiful people. Keep smiling and laughing no matter what anyone says. Great Q and A!

[@dabailey1000]

I would have tea time with you and Jason anytime. Looks like a great time. ❤

[@samrutster]

I just adore you guys and your tenacity and determination to keep things as normal as possible. You’re both adorable and we love you!

[@gwenvann7279]

I loved this. Jason making tea sandwiches was great. He’s such a wonderful guy ❤️

[@kathymiller9462]

I ADORE these videos. I don't feel so all alone as a caregiver. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

[@bridgeteastman2560]

Thank you for giving Jason a voice and allowing us to see things from his perspective. Even though I never knew him before his dementia diagnosis, I feel like I can see a glimmer of who he truly is. Also, him talking about rarely mentioning his hallucinations gave me food for thought. My mom has hallucinations too. It must be frustrating and isolating to experience it when the people around you are not. As always, my prayers and positive thoughts are being sent your way. Thank you both for taking this difficult diagnosis and turning it into something positive as you educate so many of us.

[@cribmum31]

I love your videos,, I had my first experience with dementia when I was 12 years old and a family friend had severe dementia in his 50s,, I helped his wife care for him,, and have had a soft Spot for dementia patients and caregivers every since,, I am an RN too Leslie and I admire your loving care for your significant other❤

[@joanant8800]

Simply put………What an amazing man!

[@janithmathews4195]

Thank you both for doing these videos. Almost every family has or have had someone with dementia. Your sharing info is very helpful.

[@lauraanderson7492]

You will be so thankful for these videos when Jason is so interactive. Especially what he says about you and your family.

[@sallysampson628]

Cooking with Cool-Jay! I’m British and the tea ‘n goodies looked great to me!! I’ll be round in 10!! Thanks Jason for doing this, very much appreciated and very well done!! Thank you for taking the extra time for the Q & A I know how exhausted my Dad used to become! Leslie you’re a great interviewer!! Interesting and funny. I do however have so much respect and understanding about Dementia and the huge impact it can have. Best wishes to you both and I do think (not being patronising!!) that it’s helpful for Jason to do this and I hope he realises he’s being so generous in spreading much needed awareness and understanding about this terrible insidious disease. As always I pray for more research/funding leading to better treatment and one day an end to brain diseases. Much love from the U.K. to you both!! 🧑🏼‍🍳🥪🥮🍩🧁☕️🫖🌻🥰🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️

[@sharongarrison8328]

I've told you before that my mother in law had dementia when we first discovered that she had a problem she forgot how to cook and we moved her in with us so that I could cook for her and then she got to where she didn't want to eat anything but Hamburgers. I miss her she passed away in 2022 on February 3rd

[@teresaoswell6981]

Hi Thank you both that was so interesting and made me laugh, that tea Jason looked delicious you two are brilliant 😊

[@katiedoll1]

I think as the dementia gets worse it’s better to go along with it. For example my father in laws mother had Alzheimer’s and she would ask where Dan (son) was (He passed away years ago from MD) Instead of the family saying, “oh he’s out and about” they would say, “mom don’t you remember he’s dead!” I just….no. Don’t do that. Lots of love to you and Jason. Love that he still has his humor 😊

[@kittycatmommy2364]

Yes, I agree. When my husband passed and I used to go visit my mom who was in memory care, she would always ask for him and I would always say he's working and that always satisfied her.

[@ellenwhidbey]

What a great couple. Thanks for being so candid.