I went to school with Garrad and he was/is an amazing person, everyone that knew him realized he was destined for greater things. I am elated that he has brought a strong fight against the opposing wrongs.
@gregthompson1704 Жыл бұрын
@@charlescoley6289 if u only knew how much his parents love him...
@forfuchsake22543 жыл бұрын
People like this ex-"therapist" make me so angry. He has spent decades with torturing innocent people for who they are, drove some of them to suicide, doesn't apologize to them and then suddenly comes out as gay and continues a happy life while other lgbt people don't have this opportunity anymore because they are dead
@emiliawilson43783 жыл бұрын
Exactly!! He seems so unapologetic and shameless! What an as$hole!!
@richrebel44493 жыл бұрын
That's not his problem.
@forfuchsake22543 жыл бұрын
@@richrebel4449 Not his problem but most certainly his fault.
@richrebel44493 жыл бұрын
@@forfuchsake2254 He can't be held accountable for the suicide even if he influenced them to do it. At the end of the day they voluntarily took their own lives.
@forfuchsake22543 жыл бұрын
@@richrebel4449 Unfortunately he can't be held accountable for that, at least not legally but ultimately it is his fault just like rapists, bullies, abusers are fault for the trauma and the depression they cause to tgeir victims.
@tonymacgrath77624 жыл бұрын
Garrard is an amazing person, he has an amazing confidence when faced by someone who systematically destroyed lives of young men and women. Great interview x
@tonymacgrath77624 жыл бұрын
@Dean D erm what are you going on about?.. Conversion therapy is Tantamount to physical and emotional abuse...
@tonymacgrath77624 жыл бұрын
@Qin4 DaWin so r u gay?, have you been through conversation therapy?, I'm confused. Also in saying this loud & proudly Gay.
@tonymacgrath77624 жыл бұрын
@Dean D watch the video it's so insightful on the whole subject. It's a great watch but yes live as you want to live, and love who you want to love.. if u want to do the conversation therapy do it, but most get forced to do it byparstors etc... I ak you too watch the interview fella
@tonymacgrath77624 жыл бұрын
@Dean D I am confused dean. No one should have to be put through that therapy, that all I was saying.. x
@tonymacgrath77624 жыл бұрын
@Dean D got my replies mixed up sorry fella
@bella-bond4 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry but that former conversion therapy guy is insufferable. His entire worldview is revolved around “me.” He never once apologizes for all the people he’s hurt or driven to suicide. The victim of conversion therapy is much nicer to him than many other people would be.
@1Faith1Fate4 жыл бұрын
Bella20 makes him the bigger man.
@floydiandreamscapes51453 жыл бұрын
And, that makes him a much more mature man than the mob who had no reason to attack him other than a self righteous indignation. After all , you don't invite someone to have a ' conversation ' than attack them if they agree to have it.
@ashleyjohn9603 жыл бұрын
He acknowledges guilt. That's all that is needed. He knows what he was doing was wrong.
@timothyward20823 жыл бұрын
No YOU are!
@onlyjust6664 жыл бұрын
“It was sometimes very traumatic... for ME”
@eriskalli4 жыл бұрын
Yeah I noticed that too. Some things are best processed by a therapist and not a persom traumatized by the kind of hate he perpetrated.
@dannyt35224 жыл бұрын
onlyjust666 oh that poor poor man 😂
@timothyward20824 жыл бұрын
Your User Name Tells Christians Everything they need to know about your Lost EVIL SELF!!! SHAMEFUL!!! You are on the WRONG SIDE!!!
@timothyward20824 жыл бұрын
GO AWAY SATAN!!! I REBUKE YOU IN THE NAME AND BLOOD OF JESUS!!!!!!!
@onlyjust6664 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha I made this username when I was like 12 dude I was an overdramatic kid calm down 😂
@djsmith19644 жыл бұрын
the former therapist is disgusting. he dismisses a lot. thank you and much healing to the guy who went through c therapy.
@timothyward20823 жыл бұрын
Actually YOU are Disgusting!!!
@nimbusthegreat4 жыл бұрын
Good for Garrard, I only wish he had held him accountable a little more. I'm so often floor by the response from former "therapists" that want to paint themselves as the victims. That's bullshit and they know it. Hopefully more and more people will start to realize the daunting task us survivors have piecing our lives back together. Don't let them get a free pass by saying "I was a victim, too."
@nimbusthegreat4 жыл бұрын
Dean D I do agree Garrard did a fantastic job. He’s an amazing person and great speaker.
@nimbusthegreat4 жыл бұрын
Dean D I did.
@nimbusthegreat4 жыл бұрын
Dean D I went through it for about 3-4 years back in the mid/late 90s when I was in my late/mid 20s. It was horrible and a few years after I finally had the courage to walk away, my therapist was convicted of molesting his clients.
@nimbusthegreat4 жыл бұрын
Qin4 DaWin dude. You are off your rocker. Nobody can change their sexuality. The APA says conversion therapy doesn’t work and is harmful. It’s an industry designed to sell a fake cure for a disease that doesn’t exist. Take it from someone who actually lived through conversion therapy. The shit doesn’t work.
@nimbusthegreat4 жыл бұрын
Qin4 DaWin www.psychiatry.org/File%20Library/About-APA/Organization-Documents-Policies/Policies/Position-Conversion-Therapy.pdf www.hrc.org/resources/policy-and-position-statements-on-conversion-therapy www.aacap.org/AACAP/Policy_Statements/2018/Conversion_Therapy.aspx www.theguardian.com/world/2016/jul/15/gay-conversion-therapy-republican-party-platform?CMP=Share_iOSApp_Other www.dallasnews.com/news/2019/05/02/we-don-t-need-fixing-texas-debates-ban-on-gay-conversion-therapy-for-kids/ Would you like me to do any other leg work for you? Is there a reason why your Googling finger isn’t functional?
@Starrgazed4 жыл бұрын
you can see the poison this man ingested and it's still having a hard time from all the toxic people he's been around he's like numb in front of this young man to realize the beauty of gay people and how much pain he was a part of causing
@Natalie-ih1be4 жыл бұрын
@@timothyward2082 Conversion camp fucking traumatizes children and dramatically increases the rates of suicide and depression among lgbt teenagers. You literally cannot change your sexual orientation, conversion therapy is absolute bullsh*t that only harms people.
@timothyward20823 жыл бұрын
@@Natalie-ih1be No actually Your LIES are what Harms People!!! SIN is NOT Beautiful in any way!!!
@Natalie-ih1be3 жыл бұрын
@@timothyward2082 I mean this in the rudest way possible, f*ck off
@peterwilkins5073 жыл бұрын
@@timothyward2082 You're such a hateful bigot stfu
@kevinbrown47042 жыл бұрын
Your story is so genuine. It parallels so much of my own history/experiences. Thank you so much for sharing.
@neandertalheroo4 жыл бұрын
Garrard's body language saddens me here :(
@maryannbroadbridge11193 жыл бұрын
Great interview on this timely, important subject. Within the limited time of the interview, I think the former therapist did express sorrow for what he has done. It shouldn't matter to viewers that he subjectively sees himself as a victim also, and that he has wasted 20+ years of his life. I believe that he suffers also, and, as Gerrard says that compassion is key, should it not extend to this man? Very courageous interview, Gerrard!
@tonytunbridge62754 жыл бұрын
Garrard Conley is very forgiving and has far more grace than all the hate-filled homophobic "Christians" who still endorse this sort of thing. As for McKrae, the so called therapist, he needs to be a bit more contrite and to fully take on board that many people have killed themselves directly because of him.
@timothyward20824 жыл бұрын
We are NOT Afraid! We just do not approve of Your Sinful Behavior!!!
@atp81083 жыл бұрын
@@timothyward2082 Fuck off Timmy
@gregorybowman30813 жыл бұрын
Go straight to Hell, Timmy!
@WrongholeReagan3 жыл бұрын
@@timothyward2082 in my experience, if you have to punctuate a written sentiment like that with exclamation marks, then you’re at least a little bit afraid.
@timothyward20823 жыл бұрын
@@WrongholeReagan Strongly Disagreeing by adding exclamation points does not indicate fear. That is illogical thinking by an illogical person! Anger maybe. My writing style is unique and what I identify with. Fact is this therapy applied correctly, WORKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@davidleija46133 жыл бұрын
I'm not excusing what he has done cause it was wrong, but he is a victim to. Hurt people hurt people. He must apologize, but we must grow to forgive. Not because it will make him feel better, but because resentment keeps us sick. I am speaking as a gay man that was brought up in an antigay church. left at 27 and have been broken and struggling since. I speak against resentment cause honestly it drove me to IV drug use. I am clean now, but its a battle and somedays I just want to not be alive. I hope for not only my healing but for everyone who was indoctrinated. I use to be funny, smart, and kind as a kid and I have just seen this whole experience completely transform me into something unrecognizable. I keep telling myself that I am over it, or should be over it, but no matter how many times I tell myself this doesn't change the truth. Sorry for my rant yall. I really do hope for healing for everyone, cause no matter what that McKrae guy says, I know he is not okay. Cause when you hurt person, really hurt another person, it never leaves you
@bobjary9382 Жыл бұрын
Garrad , that was quite fascinating
@DannyLTerry4 жыл бұрын
IT IS A START, MANY LIVE'S WERE TURNED UPSIDE DOWN, INSIDE OUT, AND SOME DESTROYED! BUT I HAVE HOPE THAT IT WILL GET BETTER. EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE ALRIGHT. MUCH LOVE*
@DannyLTerry4 жыл бұрын
@Qin4 DaWin YOU SAID CURE! YOU SAID SICKNESS! YOU SAID BLAME! I SAID HOPE!!!!
@zaneaustin224 жыл бұрын
@Qin Fujiwara I don’t understand this comment thread
@56499024 жыл бұрын
I dealt with ppl like him and still till today i cant give them chances cuz there just gnna do it again in other ways...
@Britain_and_Rome Жыл бұрын
So a gay man lied about being a 'therapist' who could convert gays? Er, and that failed. Who'd of think it? 😂
@mnemosynevermont552411 ай бұрын
He needs to react more, he appears to not be affected which is very off-putting.
@davidsievewright40254 жыл бұрын
Being a member of the lqbt community it makes me sick to my stomach
@lindabuck27774 жыл бұрын
Imagine in one breath you’re told GOD LOVES YOU, but he doesn’t Like You, so you must change! Point: it’s a human not qualified to judge you, a DIVINE CREATION SO LOVED BY GOD! So-which is it people??? Are you DIVINE or not? Who’s REALLY qualified to say? Sad not a single religion has created LOVING BEINGS. Myself included! I’ve found LOVE WITHIN. Do I display it consistently? Heavens no, I’m working it for all it’s worth, and when I’m weary I press on push till at the very least -I surrender- to god as I know it to be within me and find forgiveness, compassion, and understanding, and feeling safer with the unknown. At 65, slightly qualified to say, LOVE is ALL that matters, and it starts with self 🙏🏻❤️🌟 I’m NOT qualified to say one word about gay life, as I’m not gay. I CAN say my heart always feels sad anyone has to ‘survive’ and not THRIVE! I see god in all ❤️🙏🏻🌟
@dannyt35224 жыл бұрын
You’re a beautiful person, truly. But I will say that I’ve looked into Buddhism and Sikhism and they are both very loving and peaceful religions
@zaneaustin224 жыл бұрын
@@dannyt3522 my mother is Buddhist and all my life I’ve considered myself agnostic and a free thinker but I take a lot of Buddhist teachings to heart, maybe I’ll be one someday. It’s almost scientific, life is suffering and you have to embrace it (for example drug withdrawal must be embraced to make it out to the other side)
@adamrice10873 жыл бұрын
It's sad that Garrard still has not forgiven his conversion therapy abusers and puts that on other people who had nothing to do with his abuse. The fact that he has trouble hearing that McKrae is better grounded in his morals and beliefs is troubling. It's as if McKrae should grovel and never talk about his happiness in life from a destructive past.
@maryannbroadbridge11193 жыл бұрын
I don't think it's so much that Gerrard has not forgiven the "therapists" from his past. It was a great opportunity for dialog and forgiveness. But I agree with you that, according to the comments here, the ex-therapist would have to self-flagellate and bleed on the floor to gain understanding and forgiveness. He will always be a pariah, and that's a shame.
@nicholasbogosian5420 Жыл бұрын
Garrard is not unhappy that McKrae is happy, he's unhappy that McKrae wasn't self aware enough to know that you don't tell ex-gay survivors that you're loving your gay life now as a former ex-gay ambassador.
@sdays59 Жыл бұрын
All a shame. Just obey God's word and stop at least lusting and being promiscuous.