Lonely Witch?✨ Seeking Community? Didn't get your Hogwarts letter?

So you didn't get your Hogwarts letter? Are you a lonely witch? Are you longing for a coven? Your tribe? A mentor to inspire you and a class that will take you to the next level? I think we all find ourselves lonely in the craft at some point. I've got some strange advice for tackling the feeling of being all alone in the craft and a little surprise at the end...
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[@carriegrice]

Not being "judged" is a desire that I have. I can spend vast amounts of time not leaving the house but when I do, if I feel the eyes of judgment peering out from others, I never want to leave the house again. I don't get lonely in the life I lead today but KZbin is a huge part of my network of like-minded people to share with.

[@naturalwitchery]

I don't let it bother me. Judgment is about the person judging, not me!

[@MinouMinet]

Yeah, I get it. Being judged is a loss of privacy and usually not even true, ignoring it helps. But like you, I love my sanctuary of a home!

[@carriegrice]

@@MinouMinet I hate how it effects my family.

[@MinouMinet]

@@carriegrice I’m am sorry, hope it somehow works out for you and everyone finds a balance that works.

[@carriegrice]

@@MinouMinet no worries!! I love being here and sharing this space!!!

[@pamelasavage5157]

Yes!!!! I live in the United States in the Northeast Georgia Appalachian mountains and the Bible belt. So it very hard to find others like myself. Blessed Be. 😊😊

[@naturalwitchery]

💫🥰💫

[@SandWitch-y6m]

I watch those Bible belt people, I feel for you. Luckily magic is not bound by distance, time, location.

[@carriegrice]

@@pamelasavage5157 I live in Mississippi!!!

[@Tess-py4dx]

April!! This is so me. I never fit in anywhere, not in my family (I was the 'black sheep'), not with my friends, not at a work place. In my healing journey, I have learned that it is vital & necessary to have very few but quality people in one's life than to have many low value people in our lives -- low value meaning energy suckers, negative nellies, etc. But I do get lonely, even knowing that quality over quantity is more important. I LOVE your videos!!! This one was SO needed. THANK YOU 🦋🐝🌻🌱🌿💞💚🤎💛🧡❤💙 --Tess

[@naturalwitchery]

Welcome fellow black sheep 😂🤣😂

[@peterdowd3558]

I was once in that place Go back to the merry go round and don’t ask for help as you have all the answers within you is what the wisdom of the time was offered… Wishing you find your way soon

[@erobb3095]

I have always been a solitary practitioner, as was my mother and her mother. I discovered early on that the more "social" witches want to reenact scenes from The Craft or some other nonsense or they want to feed off of your magic. Now, as a crone, I found my power of invisibility kicked in because no one sees me; not family nor strangers. At times I am fine with that; most of the time, in fact. However it is very lonely at times and even a crushing loneliness. If I follow my heart and disappear into the dark forest to grow herbs for medicine and dance with the forest creatures by the fire no one, NO ONE would notice me gone until they needed something....I prefer Cryptids over humans any day.

[@naturalwitchery]

There is a freedom to disappearing as a woman....

[@Kalikikryst]

Ahhh this cancer new moon. Feeling real lonely too. I’d love a commune type of living to knock on a door at 2 am and get a hug.

[@Feribrat99]

that is truth too hear as well, was up at 3 am and brain would not shut off, would have been nice to have THAT friend to have or better to be that friend to another as well.

[@naturalwitchery]

This moon has me thinking about how to create more community...

[@emmamertens2634]

Oh the New Moon in Cancer! Wow. Was a hermit for a few days at home with by beautiful cat. It's so important to have community. ❤

[@emmamertens2634]

Whoops...MY beautiful cat 🐈 😻

[@StephTucker-hc8px]

Honest to goodness. I've been all over the place emotionally atm.

[@Feribrat99]

Looked for a groups situation for over 40 years now and not a good fit anywhere, so I get it. I tried out various groups, but they were more about making me forget who I am and becoming who they wanted me to be For Them. There is more power over action out there than one would hope to find. many of the women were a bit on the bitter side of the scale of how they treated other humans, a bit mad at the world at times and mean spirited. I also am not a liberal but more practical and conservative in my take on the world so I was a bit of the outsider anyways. I am fine with critters and being solitary now days but I am lonely many times just for the connections that friends used to be for me. I think People have forgotten HOW to be a friend to someone, they have shifted more towards are you useful to me or not rather than to just be a friend who has your back like you have theirs. I have had many mentors and they were fine but never got "initiated'" into any tradition as none of them really fit either. Bits and pieces of many ways fit better than ever being able to say 'this is it'. My first mentor was a woman down the street from me and she was a rock hound and had a magical garden with Geodes as big as I was out in her garden. Mrs. Greth and I used to go over there a lot. she was a simple practical woman and she was the BEST human I have ever met to this day, she had no agenda and recognized a lonely kid and fed me lots of time just being in her presence. If you are lucky you have one or two in your life that showed you the way.

[@naturalwitchery]

I so agree with so much of what you said. It's becoming the lost art of friendship!

[@westcoastwitcheryshop]

People have forgotten "HOW" to be a friend. I totally agree.

[@MinouMinet]

Interestingly, I am a liberal and feel just as you do. I thought it was about getting older and was surprised at how disinterested people are to be friends, always thought older would promise an embracing. Not so, but I think it isn’t age, I think society has changed and guardedness took over what used to be an easier going society. Trust is earned and not given, like it used to be. Rightly so I believe. Society is morphing and we have to redefine ‘friends’, a new frontier. Sure didn’t expect this, but accept it. Finding new ways, lots of magical ways, done in love and peace, will define the fore coming new norm!

[@MandyMoon999]

“Gathering those Sparkles & putting them in our cup 😭😭”💖

[@naturalwitchery]

Hold those sparkles close!

[@cuddlykoala5992]

Always…. In Australia we are few and far between, I am a learner with noone to learn from unless its online…. The group sounds great except Im on the other side of the world sound asleep while you are all awake :)

[@heidijay5902]

Same as you! I’m in Australia, & new to the craft too. I have met a few other witches, but I don’t know of many where I am.

[@Feribrat99]

I am in Florida in the US and it is not any easier over here. Seems the only ones you can find are the Big Name Witches and they are not what you would hope they would be either, they are flawed humans as well no matter how famous they may be. The best with I ever met here was a sweet practical woman who was on NPR radio for many years and she was a blast. Got to meet her a few years before she died. Her Name was Margot Adler. She was the real deal as a human and a Witch.

[@naturalwitchery]

I've done some classes where I've timed it for 6am in Australia. I'll think about this.....

[@naturalwitchery]

We are all human. I am flawed, just like everyone 💫💫💫💫

[@AlahnaAnset]

Im in rural Western Australia......Ive always walked alone but it would be nice to know where all the Aussie witches are......

[@user-ux8nr2ej9e]

Growing up in isolation and abuse meant I spent most of my time in nature , books and an ever deepening inner world . This was the seed of my identity as a witch. This was also the seed of loneliness . I feel you ❤

[@naturalwitchery]

There is so much complexity in what you shared. Thank you for letting us in on such a deeply personal place. 💕

[@leesalovely2782]

I did not get my Hogwarts letter. 😞But there are such awesome, beautifully unique, friendly, fun, eclectic women and men out there who've become my "community" via KZbin ....I'm grateful. I'm a little less lonely....❤

[@naturalwitchery]

(smiling) 🌟🥰🌟

[@geeblenhoff1]

This is definitely a lonely path. My girlfriend is a Christian and she gets to go to church and pray with her family but I don’t do these things so I just sit by myself on Sundays. I go outside in my backyard and garden but that only takes 5-30 min. I wish pagans had a “church”

[@naturalwitchery]

Hug

[@katiobrien7854]

I do hear you. And value you for what you are doing for people of the Craft.

[@naturalwitchery]

Thanks

[@tehsmom]

Thank you for this.. I live on a small island in Thailand, and it is known for young people parties.. As an older lady, and a witch , I am invisible and there is no-one here to group with..

[@naturalwitchery]

You must be in southern Thailand? Sending you a hug across the waters 💫

[@pagancrafting]

I think so many of us can relate to this. Ive been though it a few times in my path. lovely video !

[@naturalwitchery]

Thank Cara💕

[@dianehinson2170]

I have felt like this in the past but am grateful to have found my own path. I am lucky to live in a place where I can express this. We are having a Witches Revival weekend near the place where people were sentenced to death for being accused of witchcraft.( The Pendle Witches) There is a lot of healing and tolerance here .

[@naturalwitchery]

That is so beautiful

[@PacciaDiValle]

I love the idea of this initiative. Having a community for learning is important. Topics I would love to see covered: 1) Using playing cards / tarot for rituals 2) Warding, protection 3) Discerning light/dark beings 4) The importance of faith in craft

[@naturalwitchery]

Oooo Number 4 is the most intriguing of all. Thank you for the great ideas!

[@ThriftyWitch]

So for those of you that feel like you have lost your connection to every thing here or feel like you no longer belong there are 2 videos you must see. Christina Lopes, Dark night of the soul and Why your not here to belong...these 2 videos have made a huge inspect on me.

[@elaineparker6171]

never fitted in...get this totally

[@naturalwitchery]

You fit here!

[@suburbohemian]

Than you so much! I really needed this timely reminder to be grateful and start where I am with whatever I have and just trust things are happening as they should.

[@naturalwitchery]

Yay 🙌 Gratitude is such an amazing gift to ourselves

[@libbylong9059]

Yes, you hit that on the head. I want to learn. I'm reading, studying, doing, making, creating, gardening, receiving the spirits of the universe, but I want more knowledge and community.

[@naturalwitchery]

🥰💫🥰

[@MrsMMcG]

I’m in! Tired of hiding in a small Christian town here in California. The people I’ve me so far feel like wanna-be’s, egotistical or fake. I walked away from 3 groups. Tried to start my own only to deal with the above mentioned types of women. So, solitary it is ……😕

[@naturalwitchery]

I feel you. Real connection is tricky...💕

[@LavenderHazelwood]

It's funny you touched on this topic. I've been feeling a need to connect with other magickal people in real life. I don't really have anyone and I definitely feel many of those things that you mentioned: wanting to feel heard and seen and to connect with like-minded individuals. I actually just started writing a script that touches on this topic a bit. Thanks for the wonderful thoughts here, April! xo, Aurora

[@naturalwitchery]

Awe! We should have a video chat?

[@JustJane1972]

Great video. I can certainly relate as have never felt worthy or enough. It's lovely to think of inclusion but mental struggles prevent that. I wish you well for.your new venture.

[@MinouMinet]

Love this, subscribed! I relate to your wonderful messages completely, tho I do not feel witch or coven is in my desire to belong. Doesn’t matter, we relate on all the other things you mentioned, wonderful shares and thoughts. I am interested in your sign up, but will watch a couple more videos to get to know you and your subscribers. Thank you so much, excited for this refreshing and relatable channel of life inspirations.

[@naturalwitchery]

Welcome aboard! I look forward to hearing from you.

[@marissagrady987]

Thank you for this! It’s been a lifetime search for me.

[@naturalwitchery]

I feel you!

[@justbird2]

Great video! (Your editing is sweet) Getting in service is such a useful tool. It truly helps me get out of my head and realign with my greater purpose. It also teaches the gift of giving and many other things once I am plugged all the way in. Kindness and generosity really do go a long way. xo

[@naturalwitchery]

I so agree 💯

[@JK-jl1bf]

There are literally thousands of practitioners in the craft and yet so many practice alone. I do my own thing and keep to myself and don’t seek out the company of others as it seems there’s this competition of sorts at play and let’s compare each others tools or practice to either seem more “witchy” or “occult” and the dogma of right and wrong, accepted and unacceptable behaviors or this belief that might is right or they have generational validity. Why can’t people who practice just appreciate each other?

[@naturalwitchery]

I concur. Competition comes from insecurity. Let us enjoy each other and grow 🪴

[@briana.gillette.makeup1]

I would absolutely enjoy a monthly witchy prompting ! I was just thinking about starting something like that with a friend of mine. (I acknowledge how lucky I am to know one person who also identifies as a magickal practitioner. ❤)

[@naturalwitchery]

Lucky indeed!

[@angelgentile9136]

I am so happy your channel found me today. 😊 thank you

[@naturalwitchery]

Welcome!! I am glad you are here

[@amelianac6498]

I am so There! ❤ It would be wonderful to find my Nevermore.

[@naturalwitchery]

🥰🥰🥰

[@Draven_Michael]

Its that wanting and longing for a community. It bugs me that the community I want is so scattered. A group of my friends and I want to live on a property with each other and create a community around us. A lot of us want that.

[@naturalwitchery]

💫💫💫💫

[@naturalwitchery]

I dream of this too Draven

[@terriec1650]

Thank you, so encouraging!

[@naturalwitchery]

You are so welcome!

[@erick7542]

I would like to said i just alone all my life never fit anywhere never feel happy at all😢😢😢

[@naturalwitchery]

Hug

[@catherineverrilli252]

I resonate with this. I'd like to sign up for your newsletter for notifications of classes.😊

[@naturalwitchery]

Great! I look forward to hearing from you💕

[@Caroline-Horvath-Rivera]

Thank you - I loved this video 🖤🌞📿

[@naturalwitchery]

Thanks Caroline.

[@StephTucker-hc8px]

Thank you for this

[@naturalwitchery]

You're so welcome!

[@gypsywolf2061]

I think your idea for monthly classes is a lovely idea. If I were part of it, I’d like prompts on shadow work.

[@naturalwitchery]

I've been thinking the same ❤️

[@gypsywolf2061]

@@naturalwitchery it’s one thing I struggle with even though I have been practicing over 20 years. I’m more than willing to do the work, I just don’t always know how to do it and u are probably well versed in such things.

[@axelgrz]

Thanks for this. If you are "new agey" at all, given the right wing Christian vibe in this country you can and often do feel very isolated. As to class themes: communicating and honoring other life forms i.e. plants and animals, medication and why it's essential, I Ching, dream travel experiences, Edgar Cayce and channeling. Etc.

[@naturalwitchery]

Thanks for all the great ideas!

[@florencecristelli4408]

I would absolutely love if you did an online group! I will sign up and thank you♥️ Blessed Be

[@naturalwitchery]

🥰🥰🥰

[@rosalandrum3917]

It is 9:15 P.M. here in San Antonio Texas and I’m watching your video. Yes I do understand and long for my Sisters and Brothers of the craft. It is lonely at times. Your video is received with So! Much respect and appreciation. A witchy brew to us all and I take a deep breath and exhale with gratitude. Goddess Bless! 🌛🌕🌜

[@naturalwitchery]

Goddess bless! Sharing breath with you and a smile 😊

[@sulemarubio8596]

I was thinking this today, and you came on, I needed to hear this, thank you ❤

[@naturalwitchery]

You are so welcome 🤗 The YOUniverse is always on time....

[@ClaireGreen-wd2gm]

I feel lost sometimes. Im 38. Nearly all my family has passed on. I have no female friends and the only men who take interest in me want to use me. Ive got my very autistic son who will likely never have kids and live a lonely life himself. I live in a small Tennessee town with a Christian college in it. Ive never fit in and couldn't make myself pretend to believe in Christianity. I was drawn to witchcraft because of my love of nature. Idk how to be a witch though. Seems like there are few unifrom beliefs among youtube witches.

[@naturalwitchery]

Maybe your witchery is natural and comes from the heart. Witch is just a label. Just be you. Change is constant. You never know what is around the corner.... Don't give up on living life fully ❤️

[@penni7155]

I needed to see this video. Oh classes sound like such great fun. I hope you do start them.

[@naturalwitchery]

I hope so too!

[@Heather1031]

April I really appreciate you so much ❤️ you are an absolute blessing! You nailed what I have been feeling. I am all in! I love your idea

[@naturalwitchery]

I'm so glad!

[@thehippydippywitchy1691]

I would love to learn more, but I would also love to mentor. We are all teachers and students at the same time. So happy that the Universe put this video in my path at just the right time. Count me in!

[@naturalwitchery]

You are so right. That's why I try to make my classes interactive. We truly are ALL teachers!

[@kirstencorby8465]

When my coven broke up I was so angry and bitter I stopped practicing altogether for a while. I feel like I poured everything into that group and was left with nothing. Not sure I want to try again.

[@naturalwitchery]

Life throws us so many curve balls. I hope your time alone has taught you much😀

[@tessuntangled3505]

April!! This video came at the perfect time for me. Having always felt 'out of place' even among people I know well, it is a very lonely place. And being new on my path, only four years in, I am still trying to find my true self, my magickal & powerful self. The only place I feel truly me and truly embraced is when I am out in Nature, surrounded by Mother Earth's beauty & abundance. Learning with others along the road, on this journey with them would be so wonderful. There aren't many groups here, and sadly, most you have to buy in to attend. I love the monthly gathering idea!! I'll have to think on it and get back on some ideas. THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO!!!! --Tess

[@naturalwitchery]

The joy is in the journey of finding yourself....

[@mirandasmith5237]

It's hard to find fellow witchy people in Decatur Indiana. It's a Lil religious town. And we can't keep a metaphysical shop longer than a year. Wish I had a least one person to connect with.

[@naturalwitchery]

Small towns can be rough that way....

[@SamWithWheels]

Wonderful insight.

[@naturalwitchery]

Thanks Sam

[@afterthestorm9355]

Grateful for you, April!

[@naturalwitchery]

Thanks Marcia!

[@BNN079]

The class sounds great. Most of the ones I find only focus on the beginning, who, what, and why . I already know that. This sounds like more involved in actually working your craft, is that right?

[@naturalwitchery]

Yes The principle will be to give you a sound card for implementing, refining and directing your practice through several different ideas every month. I'll announce more later...

[@kat_bm]

You look and sound timeless in the best way possible ✨😮🫶🏼

[@naturalwitchery]

Wow, that a great compliment. Thank you for your kind words 💕

[@kaisenji]

I agree with this. I am looking into starting Reiki as well as stepping seriously into Herbalism, with a nod to my ancestral African side. So, once my surgery is done, I will look seriously into Reiki healing for myself. Then, herbalism THEN, even going back to school to finish degrees and the like.

[@naturalwitchery]

This sounds amazing. You go! Make those dreams happen💫

[@elizabethhauff-wr5jn]

❤ very inspirational. Thank you

[@naturalwitchery]

So glad!💫💫💫

[@maggieweiler1739]

It's so hard yes I would love to be a part of a community I'm learning but want desperately to find a coven especially since I'm in Utah. 😢

[@naturalwitchery]

Hugs 🫂

[@steelfloor10]

I’ve been lonely in the crab since I came out of the broom closet, strangely, it was more social when I was in the broom closet. I miss being in the coven.

[@naturalwitchery]

Hugs 🤗

[@TheMuseSway]

Yep, somedays I accompany my sister to church, and I can sometimes sense and feel that sisterhood vibe they got going on. Though they're all about Christ, which is fine. I respect that, it's just not my thing, I want a similar vibe with other Pagans. Though when I actually do meet with other pagans, guess what. They all believe and practice different things. So it still feels... off. Have you even seen that movie the Wicker Man, remake. I always thought it was kind of cool how it was a community like that or even the movie the Village. I think to be honest, I think that's the only way to combat that kind of thing, is that people have to make the sacrifice, move and start something like that.

[@naturalwitchery]

I have never seen it and my husband always talks about that movie! Maybe I'll find that and watch it...

[@priscillagranade9572]

I would love to be a part of if this ❤

[@naturalwitchery]

Yay!

[@brigantiablackbird]

In addition to what you discussed (which very much has it's place), might I suggest adding the encouragement to people to grow into emotional resiliency--and emotional maturity. The exaggerated need to be "seen" is a product of insecurity, doubts about one's self-worth, and lingering aspects of psychological adolescence. Learning to live without an over-need of external validation not only brings about peace--but it balances our relationships so that we are neither burdensome nor being burdened.

[@naturalwitchery]

I think you just did 💫💫💫💫

[@macylouwho1187]

I’ve never met a single person in real life who wasn’t glad to have at least a little attention or be noticed in a positive light. This is a very human thing, most are not exempt from it. You describe a very rare person indeed who can be THAT enlightened/mature. I don’t even know a single old person who fits that description, because even at that age people liked to be noticed, appreciated, talked to about the wisdom that they have obtained etc. They like attention. People like praise. It’s a very rare one that doesn’t.

[@MinouMinet]

@@macylouwho1187 Well, sincere praise has it’s place. For the giver and receiver!

[@cynthiahamblin-perry5880]

This popped up at just the right time for me. I have always been a solo practitioner - none of my friends on same or even similar path - would be nice to have like minded folks to chat with. Interested in your courses. Think I am signed up for newsletter but haven't gotten anything in a while? Will sign up again.

[@naturalwitchery]

It's been since Solstice that I sent a letter out. Maybe check your spam?

[@teslagoth9401]

Were you at Mountain Rose Herbs? Oooh I love their stuffs 🧙

[@naturalwitchery]

I was!

[@Soulself11]

Good morning April, I would love online Zoom class. Have you also considered a retreat , perhaps in Oregon? I'm Gen Z, and intuition tells me many of your subscribers are, too. Growing up in Oregon, my grandpa would come visit. He shared his stories. I gained so much wisdom from these stories. He even put them on tape to remember. He gave so much of himself. However, my Mother, has dementia and is in Eldercare. I visit her regularly. It makes me so sad, that our elders used to share knowledge and now it's the complete opposite. Have you seen this trend? I feel we don't have the same channels that our ancestors had to gain wisdom. 🪄🧙‍♂️🧝‍♀️

[@naturalwitchery]

Gen z? Was that a typo? I have been thinking of a retreat here!

[@MandyMoon999]

I’m here comment family. 🌹🧚🏻🍂I feel lonely very much so.

[@naturalwitchery]

We are never alone 🥰

[@frithbarbat]

I left a big city where I wished for but didn't find a coven. Now I live in outside the US in a country where I barely speak the language and my chances of finding or making one are even slimmer. I crave a circle of friends. My whole life is centered around my spiritual practices, studying and writing, and the only thing it lacks is community.

[@naturalwitchery]

Hugs 🤗

[@amywright6024]

This really hit home for me. I'm in small town Kansas, and I know there must be others. But trying to connect is so hard. Sometimes, it feels like I'm screaming into the void. This video came to me at perfect time. I've really been struggling with this a lot lately. I'm sorry we all have to experience this, but It's nice to know I'm not alone.

[@naturalwitchery]

You definitely are NOT alone!

[@ThriftyWitch]

I had lost my connection to witchy people in 2018. No matter what I did groups I joined pub moots I went to it seemed like I was invisible and not apart of this world. I kept trying to figure out what was wrong with me. I am clairvoyant intuitive deep empath with INFJ traits. I can channel direct messages on paper from the other side. I always wanted to be a bridge to spirit to help with loved one connect to there family . I been told buy energy workers and readers I am meant to be a light worker to help with frequency work. How can I do that when there is no one for me to help? I have just become so frustrated I just have shut down. finding the information about Christina lopes 3 days ago now I understand.

[@naturalwitchery]

We can do the work FOR the collective by doing the work on ourselves. We are not separated from one another. As you raise your vibration you help others. Just keep believing and loving, while rasing your vibe. People will come into your life at the right times to learn from and for you to give to!

[@robertmueller2023]

I don't know .... let me review the past 21 years in world history. Even without any effort by me whatsoever.

[@robertmueller2023]

How's Godbe? Who are the black sheep now?