LordofPatriarchy Wants To Change, Jake has a Challenge

[@MickGallJr]

If Dave fixes himself and his whole incelly garbage shtick then we should embrace him. I love to see men get better and get themselves together

[@phillemon7664]

Based. People can be reformed, that’s what makes us human.

[@reform-revolution]

if Dave is seriously trying to change i wish the best to him and hope he can find some peace with himself

[@DCNRS90YT]

Same here tbh

[@sameastman1293]

Fuck it let's do it..we gotta save Dave... To Dave if you see this video and you reading the comments..we rooting for ya man, we want ya to be happy and comfortable with yourself..my family suffers from alcoholism as well .we are here for ya Dave..one tip..don't be afraid of change.. embrace it, and take control of your life.. and yes shave your head and trim that beard!

[@Saint_Medusa]

His patreons are asking him to drink ...for fun ...his fans are literally killing him .... that's terrible

[@QosmicVoid]

Unironically - Nothing would make me happier than seeing Dave turn everything around. Maybe he'll still be kinda chuddy, but baby steps, everyone, one can hope.

[@ImmaOnDaInternetz]

I think it is because he seems hurt, it doesn't seem like he is a grifter or anything, he just seems really bitter about the world. We're all bitter about the world so he is a little relatable, he doesn't seem hate filled, just uneducated and lonely.

[@savannarbananar]

@@ImmaOnDaInternetz Yeah, I definitely get the vibe that he’s just insecure and lonely and probably more than a little depressed too. I would love to see him get some help to deal with his issues and hopefully become more confident and content with himself. And if he becomes less of a chud while he’s at it, then that’ll just be the cherry on top! I mean, he has like almost no viewers, so it’s not like he’s doing any real harm as he is. But if he can become a better person by feeling better about himself, then that would be great!

[@jacobjohnston3983]

I 100% support the idea of this “man-off.” I’ve started working out and dieting over the past year and honestly I’ve been feeling great because of it. I’m down 55 pounds (got up to 60 pounds total loss but I’ve started gaining muscle). Hell yeah self improvement! Make a routine! Take a walk every day! You won’t regret it.

[@JackgarPrime]

Can this be how we finally get the cook-off?

[@sptony2718]

Came here for the lolz, stayed for the feels. I can't but wish him all the best. Alcohol ruined the better part of my life, and I didn't even drink. Take your time to come clean, both physically and mentally, Dave. As a kid I was constantly surrounded by alcohol and its ill effects on people, basically every month or two one of the drinking buddies of my father died for it. I was watching people slowly wither away each sip and become husks of their former selves. It's shit and I don't like seeing people in this condition.

[@stefanlvkc7986]

Is he going to change his clocks to accurately show time zone differences? In all seriousness though, good on Dave for wanting to improve. His curbing alcohol doesn't necessarily mean his opinions or takes will improve, but who knows.

[@sluttyMapleSyrup]

It may make him less mad about stuff, which would probably measurably improve his takes on its own.

[@stefanlvkc7986]

@@sluttyMapleSyrup Let's hope so.

[@velohench]

As a bald guy with a beard, I've thought this same thing about Dave since you started featuring him. A shaved head and some shaping on the beard and a bit of product would do so much to improve his look and make him look years younger.

[@cutedarkarts]

Heck, he could get away with not shaving if he started taking care of his hair. It’s not bad, it’s just super flat and that can easily be fixed by just using a good shampoo and conditioner and resetting the follicles with heat and cold, which he could do in the shower.

[@velohench]

@@cutedarkarts That'd be an improvement for sure. His hair just looks so thin up top. I don't know if there's any fixing that without just removing the majority of the length at least.

[@TheN00bmonster]

Smoking ages you bad. And it's super bad for you. Quit it if you do.

[@Kropothead]

As shitty as Dave is, I sort of get him. If he wants the anime redemption arc, I want that shit for him. Maybe there’s a human being in there. Probably not, but there’s no harm in trying.

[@Kropothead]

Yeah, sorry. That came off harsher than intended. Look, Dave, if you’re reading this, I want to congratulate you on taking this step. I had a pretty big drinking problem before I quit, and it’s a hard thing to come back from but I think you can do it too.

[@AbledGladiator]

I'm glad this became a youtube video

[@katrezny]

I said the same thing!!!

[@chemdog1632]

I've always been in the save Dave camp, I feel for the guy. I hope he has an awakening.

[@Kristen70364]

Dave! You can totally change for the better! Clean up the diet a little, watch your calories, and workout a couple times a week. Nothing drastic. Small changes make a big difference!

[@JackgarPrime]

Probably learn how to cook things other than goop. That might make a big difference.

[@Kristen70364]

@@JackgarPrime Or make it a side to a grilled meat and veggies or something

[@SA-mo3hq]

Based and true-pilled. Extreme diets and exercise regimes NEVER work long-term. Make small changes every week, but changes you can stick to. Health and well-being changes are a marathon, not a sprint.

[@Kristen70364]

@@SA-mo3hq Exactly. It took me about 2 years to lose 140 lbs, and it was worth the effort.

[@sweetsirenaine]

;-; heartwarming. I hope he really does change and he can be genuinely happy

[@rakelodakel]

I used to be a shitty chud myself, I was an unhealthy person in every way. If Dave is looking for a way out of the mental hellhole I KNOW he's in right now, I have NOTHING but support for the man. Reform and improvement is the greatest expression of human freedom. The fact that we can reflect on our behaviour and thoughts, and change them is amazing to me, and it is truly what makes humans special creatures.

[@ToxicAudri]

Nailed my feeling on how people who are shitty towards others often are denying something about themselves, they project their insecurities on others accuse them of being the very thing they are being in extremes such as dealing with a narcissist. Narcissism is a highly under diagnosed illness.

[@hedleybutler9706]

Narcissism or not, we are all defined by our contradictions.

[@ToxicAudri]

@Johan Liebert I got called toxic for dishing it right back at people, I don't put up with it, I've dealt with it for most of my life, I grew up with a narcissist parent.

[@ToxicAudri]

@@hedleybutler9706 we are, but we have the ability to learn and grow and be better people, narcissists do not think there is anything they need to change about themselves, they think they are perfectly fine. Grew up with one, it's like talking to a brick wall, no consideration for others its always about them.

[@fatmanplaysitall9230]

Yoooooo Dave redemption arc let’s gooooooo

[@saininj]

Ask and you shall receive. I literally requested Lord of Cringe not more than an hour ago. 😂

[@elfbreath]

Dave idk if you read these comments but if you do: I wish you all the best on your road to recovery. Even if we disagree on a lot of things you deserve to be healthy and happy and I would love for that to happen with you.

[@friday6448]

We all know that the true Jake/Dave ship name is Lord of Corn

[@PhantomLord]

I've been following the Dave saga. I hope he is finally turning a corner. I am at a life crossroads myself and seeing someone like Dave willing to face down the man in the mirror, gives me confidence in doing it myself

[@Rusty-Shackleford69]

It's rough to battle addiction, Dave. Best of luck. You can do this!

[@hedleybutler9706]

My current partner of 10 years was a proto incel. He started to take care of himself & I was instantly attracted to him. There's always hope

[@user-uh7hu5dx1g]

Didn't expect to be filled with hope on KZbin today

[@katrezny]

Come on Dave, we belive in you!

[@kropotkinnie]

I really hope he finds happiness and knows that despite our teasing of him this community is here for him if he accepts that.

[@smithblack5945]

It's good that Dave wants to change, but I feel like Jake is a little too reflexively mean to people. I'm glad even he acknowledges this in this video.

[@LordZeebee]

Would love for Jake to be the Deku to Dave's Bakugo. This is a good first step, now all we can do is hope Dave stays on this course.

[@Mikitanfox1]

If the man wants to improve, that's a great thing. Please don't be sarcastic or mean, don't want to knock the dude down when he is trying to get up on his feet again!

[@tokukeitaro]

Best of luck to Dave on making positive changes.

[@TheN00bmonster]

I think Jakes chat is rooting for Dave more than Jake is. Also Dave's hair is really nice. If it makes him feel good, keep it.

[@nunyabizness9787]

"You might get MORE Lord of Patriarchy..." Oh no, don't throw me off of wishing you well, Dave! I was rooting for you, and then you had to go and threaten me with a bad time.

[@Sophia-vk5bq]

“Get rid of the hair, get rid of the top.” My mind immediately imagining a bald, topless Dave running around a room.

[@coletrickle1775]

01:48 Fucking right. I can't handle that long mustache part either. I gotta trim that shit all the time. Fellow bald bearded big man.

[@Ringer5]

Jake, I don't know if Dave is up for the Man Off, but can I challenge you?

[@Impactsuspect]

WOW. He's younger than me?

[@lordhogwash8393]

Here’s what he can do- cut hair, shape beard, some dieting and lifting, and cut down on the booze. Bro could look jacked and feel better. Now, his emotional and mental health- seek a therapist.

[@NyxyPixie]

Caring about how you'll look and feel in 10 years is a very good step. Here's hoping Dave will be able to enjoy life in some healthier ways!

[@lowenergyvideos4658]

You want Dave to look like me more or less and I approve!

[@carybeweary7209]

You can do it Dave Jam that jam

[@JCstock]

Im all here for the save dave campaign

[@newsxcxfrce2585]

Y'all save Dave, I'm busy spankin' it

[@sligiseesi5393]

...*about* to be 40 !! yikes.. i'd have said he's a least 45. good luck to him though :)

[@theguest1541]

We should save Dave. He might be able to save. And I think the poor guy needs it.

[@coletrickle1775]

Dave, how do time zones work, Claw

[@Trash_Khloe_420]

Damn I hope this dude can get his mind right. Watching someone all fucked out of their gourd like this reminds me waaay too much of my family. If I can beat it you can buddy just take it one day at a time

[@kedamafoe2240]

do i see an egg shell....

[@mattakudesu]

Oh damn, LOP is mentioning people from my community.

[@dscorner232]

Yeah man. If Dave actually pulls through and makes this change this is gonna be the brett keane redemption arc that never happened

[@mattakudesu]

@@dscorner232 I agree. From what I've seen of Keane, getting banned from KZbin didn't teach him a single damn thing.

[@shis1988]

Let's see him to a better future. Maybe he won't improve as a person, but we will not know that if we don't try.

[@imthebadguy3225]

What's with the corn?

[@Sykoze]

What Jake said about the hair and beard is on point. Dave would actually be reasonably attractive if he went for the whole "Oscar Isaac in Ex Machina" kind of look.

[@whinebite]

Imma say it right here, if he changes and gets better ill sub to him

[@hillside21]

A couple hours back, the Almighty Algorithm recommended a Lord of Patriarchy live stream, never had that before. 16 viewers on it! Gotta say, Dave _sure done good_ when he paid up for losing the election bet with Kevin Logan and poured ice water over himself.

[@marktwain622]

Dave is only 40?!

[@Mortiis558]

I agree, shave the top, style the beard, work out a little and he’d be a nice hunk of meat!

[@Kropothead]

Yeah, Dave could do alright. It all seems to stem from insecurity. A little confidence, a little work on his emotional intelligence, and he’d start getting some attention from the ladies.

[@Mortiis558]

@Rach That’s why I say he needs to style his beard. He needs a makeover. But he could do small things to make major improvements

[@timvandeursen2687]

All laughs aside, I am a bit in awe at how genuine Dave is in his video and as someone who is in therapy right now I can relate hard to this want to change and combat the sadness. I honestly hope he can fight whatever demons are causing him to cope via excessive drinking, overeating, explosive defensiveness and other forms of self-neglect he is showing (or not showing for that matter) and find genuine happiness in his life 🙂

[@Ireallywouldrathernot]

alcoholism is a bitch to be fair. Thankfully when I drink I'm just more me, I don't get violent or aggressive, I just say things I would usually keep bottled up. Not nasty things either, just feelings. But it's not like... if you're an alcoholic and you can talk about how it's not good while drunk it doesn't mean you can just stop drinking on the spot, that isn't how that works. There's a lot of aspects to it. Because you know once you stop all that shit is going to catch up with you, even if you didn't do anything wrong, and there's the nightmares and whatever it was you were avoiding by drinking. It doesn't help that alcoholics are so... looked down upon, to say the least. People dismiss whatever feelings you expressed while drunk, even when they weren't negative ones. The way people treat you while drunk like you have no idea what you're saying even when you do. Like your feelings don't matter at all. I'm sure a lot of that was tied up in my own experience but it is what is is. People are different. I am certainly not speaking for Dave here.

[@kaidonblake2833]

Dave makes me feel smarter about myself

[@pestilenssi8979]

I wanna see Dave improve

[@jayceblanchard1061]

Go Dave be decent

[@SeverelyGlitchy]

I am skeptical.

[@coletrickle1775]

X for sus

[@cutedarkarts]

I mean, that’s fair. We can still encourage him to change for the better though. We’ll just need to keep an eye on his actions. If he backs up his words with his actions, that’s great.

[@SeverelyGlitchy]

@@cutedarkarts you're right. I tend to be a rather pessimistic person, so it seeps through always. I wish him the best. There could be a good dude under all that toxic masculinity nonsense.

[@coletrickle1775]

@@cutedarkarts Yup, 100% That is not counter to being skeptical or sus in any way.

[@cutedarkarts]

@@SeverelyGlitchy I get that, I’m very pessimistic too. But I’ve been trying to work through that as honestly it’s not the healthiest mindset to have. Even if you can’t see the positives all the time, trying to view something from a more neutral standpoint is much more healthy. Much less of “this is obviously x” in uncertain circumstances, and more of “x is a possibility, but I will wait to make judgment until I have more information”. That mindset has helped me through a lot of situations, and I hope that this could maybe help you too.

[@jacobjohnston3983]

Fuck edgy cynicism and sarcasm, we need to normalize sincere kindness and caring for each other.

[@producerdane3134]

man off!

[@TheSquareOnes]

Honestly I kinda think shitty people should be sad, then when you stop being shitty I'll want you to be happy. So with that being said it's hypothetically good that he's trying to improve his lifestyle but I'm disappointed that it didn't sound like an intention to work on being less of shitty person. Maybe that will come with it though, if his shittiness is an extension of his alcoholism then hopefully fixing the latter with also make it easier to fix the former. I just don't think "unhealthy person becomes healthy, but is still shitty and spreads harmful messages" is a headline worth celebrating.

[@cajunguy6502]

Post the link of the video disc! I think we should unironically send some love to the guys comment section. Seriously, this is a healthy choice, and it could lead to more healthy choices, like not being such a chud.

[@HeartFarts]

dude dave is a BIG dude, how in the fuck does he get drunk off 5% abv coors? like how?

[@Mike-zx6sl]

He drinks an entire 12 pack in a sitting, that's how.

[@rosem6604]

Dave definitely needs a shave and a hair cut/shave. Also, lay off the beer a little. A lot less politics will help with improving mental health. Maybe a non-internet hobby? woodworking sounds good. Rooting for you! c'mon, Dave! For realz, I mean it.

[@krattikat7185]

OMG I so fucking agree with Jake's assesment about Dave's looks. I think dave could like a smexy daddy instead of a slob. A big guy is absolutely a turn on for many chicks because they are more cuddleable. GO DAVE GO BALD Many cool guys are balt and have a dad bod, which is super hot.

[@walexander8378]

I had to shave my head yesterday. Too thin now. I miss hair but it looks better. His hair is way too thin for shaping. He should shave it off. Focus on that beard because it is lucious.

[@baky582]

You saved Hunter Avalone, let's now do the same with Dave.

[@baky582]

@@tonyseyffer8254 Yeah, pretty much. But my point was that chuds can be saved. Rooting for you with all of my highly cynical hearth Dave.

[@bradthegigachad7120]

Dave is shitty but I feel like he’s totally redeemable. I feel like he’s your vegeta, like the anime rival that will eventually turn to our side.

[@di3g0nat0r]

Progress

[@vandy3427]

Hi

[@cynicthehedgehog385]

Reformed right wingers should be allowed in leftist spaces, BUT if bipoc or LGBT people want them excluded from safe spaces, that should be honored.

[@saininj]

I've fully embraced Hunter Avallone.

[@reform-revolution]

politics arent a safe space ..... and it would be in the best interests of everyone if they were allowed to be around and ask questions you dont have to associate that is everyones right but talking like that isnt great when chuds that want to change show up

[@dawi4ever]

Plenty of LGBT people are ex bigots because they are scared of what they are. That's why black conservatives just accept having racists talk around them. People can change.

[@MrEboxez]

Checking in a year later. Did he change?