What we wish we knew before getting MARRIED | Loumed

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@WandererinAqaba
@WandererinAqaba 2 жыл бұрын
Mashaa Allah Being a mom of 5. Just Wana say I'm sure your parents are very proud in your thinking. Realistic and modest in terms of marriage. Jazakum Allahu khairyn
@YusufTruth
@YusufTruth 2 жыл бұрын
This was amazing mashallah ❤️‍🔥
@projecthealthylifestyle5243
@projecthealthylifestyle5243 2 жыл бұрын
Why are u here 💀
@Whatever-jk3yv
@Whatever-jk3yv 2 жыл бұрын
@@projecthealthylifestyle5243 bruh, let him live😂😂
@norasilkhi4868
@norasilkhi4868 2 жыл бұрын
@@projecthealthylifestyle5243 sameee question for u and me? Why are we all here 😂😂
@hasnajalii
@hasnajalii 2 жыл бұрын
@@projecthealthylifestyle5243 LMFAOO
@arifa_fitness
@arifa_fitness 2 жыл бұрын
I love how she says tings, so adorable. MashaAllah a wonderful couple. May Allah bless you continuously.
@amnaakram2424
@amnaakram2424 2 жыл бұрын
I definitely think this is much needed advice especially for this generation. May Allah SWT continue to strengthen your marriage!
@rebeccajane5016
@rebeccajane5016 3 жыл бұрын
You can still use your dresses and get professional wedding memory pictures!! It’s never too late
@anacossa8437
@anacossa8437 2 жыл бұрын
I am not muslim, I am christian but seeing your calmness toward each other is amazing. Marriage where God lives is amazing.
@donquixote3292
@donquixote3292 2 жыл бұрын
You ought to watch Dr Zakir Naik’s “Similarities between Islam and Christianity Q&A” videos on youtube
@anacossa8437
@anacossa8437 2 жыл бұрын
@@donquixote3292 thanks
@riyana3752
@riyana3752 Жыл бұрын
Listen to zaker nike
@ettim9906
@ettim9906 3 жыл бұрын
Hello! Lovely video🤗💖 i just wanted to comment on 3:46 the topic of not having a wedding, I don't think it's too late, you can still organize a little party with your family and enjoy bc you're still young and u're free to have a wedding if you want to hold on the memory there is no time restriction it's just about the happy vibes.
@TheWiiZZLE
@TheWiiZZLE 2 жыл бұрын
And it's important for the community to have an event marking the union, so everybody knows they are for each other
@iraqinadousha25
@iraqinadousha25 3 жыл бұрын
After getting divorced to getting re married to the same person I agree on all the points made especially in this kind of culture although we are in the west sometimes there still can be a culture clash even if ur from the same background . I say every marriage has its ups and downs u just have to have sabr and keep pushing
@excuseme9458
@excuseme9458 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you guys are using microphones instead of expecting the camera to pick up what you're saying.
@Nxzuh
@Nxzuh 3 жыл бұрын
Loved the last point Ahmed made. This video on a whole was amazing and informative. Would love to see a pt.2❤️
@chirazsidimabrouk
@chirazsidimabrouk 3 жыл бұрын
I love you Louiza❤️❤️ may Allah keep you guys happy and make your relationship even stronger.
@elalamim4404
@elalamim4404 2 жыл бұрын
Salam aleykoum, I'm going to get married soon Insha'Allah and your video really helped, so thank you very much. I agree and don't really agree with the last point you made. I truly believe that when your good at something you should stick to doing it but I also think it is even more beneficial to learn from your spouse's skills to better yourself and vice versa.
@TheWiiZZLE
@TheWiiZZLE 2 жыл бұрын
I agree, it is too easy to say "I'm no good" at something as trivial as cooking. His opinion though
@Hell0nabs
@Hell0nabs 2 жыл бұрын
Lots of valuable gems in this one guys, barak Allah feekum!
@HarmoniusE
@HarmoniusE Жыл бұрын
Masha Allah brother, this is very good to see this type of content for all not married brothers out there, jazakallah khair
@haneefahshaw6805
@haneefahshaw6805 Жыл бұрын
AMAZING video, very much needed. JazakaAllah, barakallah fikum❤
@noorfajar8711
@noorfajar8711 3 жыл бұрын
This is such a beautiful video full of wisdom. Can't be grateful enough! JazakAllah khair ✨
@BQ900
@BQ900 Жыл бұрын
Yes many blessings to them for some EXCELLENT advice!!❤❤❤🇺🇸🇸🇦☪️
@saraalhamaiel7085
@saraalhamaiel7085 2 жыл бұрын
I loved this! Real couple goals Ma'Shaa'Allah, Allahuma bark feekum.
@justchilling5893
@justchilling5893 3 жыл бұрын
That last analogy was rlly good!
@daniahbelazi3004
@daniahbelazi3004 3 жыл бұрын
Mashallah I love this ❤️❤️ please do more of these videos and spread this information that needs to be heard
@Minty27o
@Minty27o 2 жыл бұрын
That advice about not being 50 50 but 80 30 sometimes etc in dif situations, actually very true. That's some real good advice. All of it actually. JazakAllah. May Allah keep you both blessed and wise ameen
@anikaabida6019
@anikaabida6019 2 жыл бұрын
Louisa sounds so cute when she says ‘I tink’ 😊
@aylaha.5216
@aylaha.5216 2 жыл бұрын
You guys are beautiful together masha’Allah It’s nice to see a video like this which contains genuine advice. There’s a lot of video’s out there like this, and all it really is, is narcissism. You’re going to help out a lot of people for sure.
@naawrrrrr
@naawrrrrr Жыл бұрын
I think Ahmed and Louisa could still have a small wedding now, if they wanna, and may Allah ease their plans if they choose to have one. Imagine the photobooks with Amannah in it.. howwww cute!
@madebyyuzz
@madebyyuzz 3 жыл бұрын
The way she said thing made me smile :) ♥️
@nouraibraahim7153
@nouraibraahim7153 3 жыл бұрын
lousa pls share more vedios we miss you much love from somali girl
@fatimaha3686
@fatimaha3686 3 жыл бұрын
The blue dress is so pretty Masha’Allah ✨
@user-kd2kd1jr9s
@user-kd2kd1jr9s 2 жыл бұрын
Awww I loved this! Very wise words guys, thank you ❤️
@vvayfarer_
@vvayfarer_ Жыл бұрын
Advices we all need. Very useful knowledge, thank you
@taqwal6243
@taqwal6243 2 жыл бұрын
Please make dua i marry the guy in my mind 🤲🏼❤️
@saniasaud2680
@saniasaud2680 2 жыл бұрын
Jazakallahu khairan for the honest advice 💓
@merimi37
@merimi37 3 жыл бұрын
mashaAllah your editing skills are becoming better alhamdulillah. Thanks for this video and the advices guys.
@تسمية
@تسمية 3 жыл бұрын
Barakallahu fekoum this was very beneficial. May Allah bless and protect your marriage always and may He grant you sincerity and use you to benefit each other and others. What are your thoughts on having time alone while being married? Sometimes I see people who are married and it's like they always have to be spending time together or are otherwise with friends, family etc. I think that time spent alone whether you're married or not is so important. Obviously if you're married it should be within honoring the rights of your spouse but I think that as Muslims contemplation (i.e. contemplating over the signs of Allah, the Qur'an etc.) is something underrated and being forgotten. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) would spend much time contemplating and it is something encouraged throughout the Qur'an as well. I think having this is something which would contribute to having a healthy marriage. Also ties in with the point of not depending on others for your happiness. And Allah knows best.
@fantadrame2481
@fantadrame2481 3 жыл бұрын
I was waiting for thissss ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@NK-iy6if
@NK-iy6if 2 жыл бұрын
Love the video, very informative. May Allah Bless you and your loved ones and grant all of us happiness in this life and the after
@jennakenna7252
@jennakenna7252 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes when ppl hv a big wedding it's cuz they know a lot of ppl as well. If u barely know anyone who will u invite and how will the wedding be big? Even a small wedding costs a lot!
@fatemasaleh5528
@fatemasaleh5528 2 жыл бұрын
Mashallah this colour is wonderful on u louisa 💙💙💙💙
@Deemadeems
@Deemadeems 2 жыл бұрын
What would of happend if one of your parents for example his father didn’t agree would you of still got married ?
@zaynabmohammed6394
@zaynabmohammed6394 2 жыл бұрын
MashaAllah nice! i have learnt alot shukran
@hayat__x
@hayat__x 2 жыл бұрын
Allah continue to bless your marriage. Allahumma barik Lakuma wa barakah alaykuma
@SafarGroup-q5f
@SafarGroup-q5f Жыл бұрын
MANSHALLAH MY COUPLES ❣
@minaizastarr
@minaizastarr Жыл бұрын
mashallah, allahuma barik🫶🏽
@Peace.Islam_12
@Peace.Islam_12 2 жыл бұрын
Mashallah beautiful couple May Allah bless you with good health ameen you inspire me X lots of love bye
@yasmineboulahia7093
@yasmineboulahia7093 2 жыл бұрын
Mashalahhh , baraka allah fikouma 👏🏽❤️🥺.
@sm2293
@sm2293 2 жыл бұрын
Just stumbled across this video. Golden advice 💯
@tasnimelhalimi1929
@tasnimelhalimi1929 2 жыл бұрын
I think you guys should do a podcast instead! The advice is 💯
@abdifatahabdalla8428
@abdifatahabdalla8428 3 жыл бұрын
Love you guys 🥰🥰🥰
@kokosasa1198
@kokosasa1198 2 жыл бұрын
So much love for you 💕 may Allah bless both of you
@Snoozy113
@Snoozy113 3 жыл бұрын
Why did you move to Turkey and what was the process like?
@sranzrmejuly2688
@sranzrmejuly2688 2 жыл бұрын
Tabarik Allah may Allah swt continue to bless your marriage ameen
@StevenMiller
@StevenMiller 2 жыл бұрын
tings
@menaaboelnour
@menaaboelnour 3 жыл бұрын
Niiicee بارك الله فيكم💓💓
@faiqnivia4864
@faiqnivia4864 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@muzammilshareef1951
@muzammilshareef1951 3 жыл бұрын
Can we get a "how we met" please, allahumma barik.
@memesindz829
@memesindz829 2 жыл бұрын
omg its so good baraka allah lakuma guys
@byomicil121
@byomicil121 2 жыл бұрын
Love it. They said very good points .move videos like this please !!!!!
@shamz1611
@shamz1611 2 жыл бұрын
Love this 💕
@mobela4343
@mobela4343 3 жыл бұрын
Ma Sha Allah 💓💓💓
@nilz5371
@nilz5371 Жыл бұрын
Tings love this
@naimabelkaid9135
@naimabelkaid9135 3 жыл бұрын
Mashaalah loved this video, and it was a very good timing 💕
@pradelelien3267
@pradelelien3267 2 жыл бұрын
InshaAllah ❤️ ❤️
@aqsaimtiaz7510
@aqsaimtiaz7510 2 жыл бұрын
ABAYA 💙
@thisisarika
@thisisarika 2 жыл бұрын
Great advice!
@atfalikanzi109
@atfalikanzi109 3 жыл бұрын
ياريت لو تعملو الترجمة في ccبالعربي
@whaleskin7303
@whaleskin7303 2 жыл бұрын
Where from is the accent of the girl?
@cheimabl4945
@cheimabl4945 2 жыл бұрын
Mashallah ❤
@uloklor5789
@uloklor5789 2 жыл бұрын
Manshalaah ❤️❤️❤️
@JamilaSaeed
@JamilaSaeed 3 жыл бұрын
Love this video 🥰🥰
@مارية-ك8ن
@مارية-ك8ن 2 жыл бұрын
Salaam. But did you not do i3laan for your marriage as per the shra3?
@LOUMED
@LOUMED 2 жыл бұрын
Of course, just the fact that you know we are married is a form of i3lan the meaning of i3lan is informing others of your marriage as the marriage is not kept a secret 😊
@siashmael7787
@siashmael7787 2 жыл бұрын
I jst love the way she can't say 'Th' it's kinda cute 😂
@LOUMED
@LOUMED 2 жыл бұрын
I can 😂 it’s just an Irish accent lol 😆
@astrofever7660
@astrofever7660 3 жыл бұрын
Yess less go❤️❤️❤️
@LeYetmisFour
@LeYetmisFour 2 жыл бұрын
I dont agree with the sister. You have to be selfish for a healthy relationship. You have to be selfish and independent on the decision to marry your spouse. If you're selfless there, it wont end well. Mainly the reason for you to marry to keep the relationship alive should be selfish. But in general you talk about some really fundamental realizations. Respect.
@LOUMED
@LOUMED 2 жыл бұрын
I was talking about being selfless in the marriage with your spouse if your selfish towards your spouse it makes no sense ? ☺️
@LeYetmisFour
@LeYetmisFour 2 жыл бұрын
@@LOUMED maybe both selfless and selfish in sometimes in some sense. No offense 😅
@ShritaSira
@ShritaSira 2 жыл бұрын
when are your bdays xxx
@aslm5373
@aslm5373 2 жыл бұрын
wa aleikum salaam.
@cookie-in6ls
@cookie-in6ls 2 жыл бұрын
How old are you guys?
@BQ900
@BQ900 Жыл бұрын
Is he British and she is German? So they met at university? He is talking of financial security? Yes, it’s important. Yes, we went to the courthouse and the mosque for wedding. She can have a wedding if they wish someday with extra money saved in the jar.❤
@SativaSeanLasVegas
@SativaSeanLasVegas 2 жыл бұрын
Save as much money as possible for your "marriage". The Wedding is just one day.
@BeyonDemm
@BeyonDemm 2 жыл бұрын
Loved that number one hahahahahahha
@jazeelkhourchid1734
@jazeelkhourchid1734 2 жыл бұрын
لا إله إلا الله محمد عبده ورسوله
@wolverinescratch
@wolverinescratch 2 жыл бұрын
The way she said thing's reminded me I had a Irish half sister let me just phone her...
@deinmutter2542
@deinmutter2542 2 жыл бұрын
how is she doing?
@wolverinescratch
@wolverinescratch 2 жыл бұрын
@@deinmutter2542 st Patricks this week so there all in party mood
@deinmutter2542
@deinmutter2542 2 жыл бұрын
@@wolverinescratch nice
@Anonymous-hm6bk
@Anonymous-hm6bk Жыл бұрын
Let your man talk, you interupt him/talk over him all the time
@aishahabubakar4431
@aishahabubakar4431 2 жыл бұрын
Involving everyone is not a bad idea. Marriage is not between two people but between two families.
@ghafranhaque7161
@ghafranhaque7161 2 жыл бұрын
Sister...do not boycott your own marriage. You obey your husband and protect his honour and give him priority.
@AhmedBuisir
@AhmedBuisir 3 жыл бұрын
Second
@tasnimsultana5584
@tasnimsultana5584 3 жыл бұрын
😩8th
@alisherovnagt
@alisherovnagt Жыл бұрын
Im sorry but ur pronunciation is sooo soo confusing and makes me reluctant to listen(
@ozlembekmez7862
@ozlembekmez7862 3 жыл бұрын
1st
@wade5761
@wade5761 2 жыл бұрын
Hahaha still children yet they feel like they can give advise. You still have 20 year to go before you can give advise about marriage
@kevinwalsh5222
@kevinwalsh5222 2 жыл бұрын
Very low of you brother advertising your wife for more Subscribers.
@deinmutter2542
@deinmutter2542 2 жыл бұрын
???
@favehafssa3833
@favehafssa3833 2 жыл бұрын
I admire you guys and want to watch your videos but I find it hard to understand your English. It’s twisting 🥹
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