Love Dorsey: Single Mothers the HERO and the VILLAIN

Single mothers, are complex and multifaceted, capable of embodying both positive and challenging qualities. Today we will discuss the much needed perspective on how single mothers can be perceived as heroes and villains:
HERO:
Resilience and Determination: Single mothers often exhibit extraordinary resilience, facing and overcoming various challenges, including financial struggles, emotional stress, and societal stigma. Their determination to provide a stable and loving environment for their children can be seen as heroic.
Nurturing and Supportive: Many single mothers prioritize the well-being and development of their children, offering love, guidance, and emotional support. Their ability to create a nurturing environment reflects their heroism in the eyes of their children.
Role Modeling Independence: Single mothers who demonstrate independence, self-reliance, and a strong work ethic can serve as positive role models for their children, teaching them valuable life skills and the importance of perseverance.
VILLAIN (potential misconceptions):
Absentee Parenting: In some cases, single mothers might be perceived as villains if there are instances of absentee parenting, where they struggle to balance personal responsibilities with their children's needs. However, it's essential to consider external factors that may contribute to such challenges.
Financial Struggles and Stress: Financial difficulties may lead to stress, impacting a single mother's emotional well-being and potentially affecting the parent-child relationship. Society might unfairly cast blame on single mothers for financial struggles without considering broader systemic issues.
Stereotypes and Stigma: Single mothers may face societal stereotypes and stigma, which can be perceived as villainous when they are unfairly judged or discriminated against based on their family structure. This can affect their mental health and ability to provide for their children.
It's crucial to approach the topic with empathy and avoid making sweeping judgments. Single mothers, like anyone else, are individuals with their own unique circumstances, strengths, and weaknesses. Understanding and support from the community, as well as addressing systemic challenges, can contribute to fostering positive outcomes for single mothers and their families.

[@JiggOnline]

Man, this conversation is so important! Love Dorsey is a gem to the community. If women could open their hearts and let her words in, our world would look different.

[@darrelesha]

Men and women

[@deannsettles7720]

Exactly

[@Natethegreat200c]

It’s both genders but yes your right. I think men get it confused with love and Kevin samules… they are just as hard on y’all men as the women . Please remember that.

[@user-th2si8cp2b]

Nope they don’t wanna hear it bro even though they know it’s truth

[@timharris1675]

No respect because y'all are desperate to be with people who don't even like you. Sad

[@darnellecrane]

As a Black American wife who has been with same Black American man/husband for 25 years I want to make it clear that I’m down with being under my husband’s program because of who his is as a man and not because of the money that he could use to “buy” my femininity and cooperation. I submit to him and not “his” money. It’s his manhood, mindset, maturity, masculinity, discipline, and the fact that he says what he means and means what he says. That’s why I respect and revere him. None of those things have anything to do with his money. If a woman can’t respect you for who you are then she’ll never respect you for your money.

[@trycoachinglv]

This is where the mic 🎤 drops!... 1000% TRUE!!!!

[@darnellecrane]

Thank you!!! @@trycoachinglv

[@promondomgd5248]

I’m going to need some guidance from you please 🙏🏽 on a serious note 📝 I need to learn…need to let go to over come with my relationship I am one of those girls that definitely didn’t have her father in my life since 7 years old I gave love and respect til outsiders now we are just starting to relearn and to trust each other 🙏🏽 this the most spot on comment I’ve seen so far thank you 🥺🙏🏽

[@williamhopkins7065]

Women are often so concerned about fidelity. And THIS mindset and feeling of our woman being down for us like this, so in line with us for the success of US, is the #1 way to put blunders on your man to other women. Yes we focus on intamcy with us as being so important, it surely is, but with this mindset, the intimacy and bedroom fun flows in this environment. So that's taken care of.

[@arimichelle4566]

So refreshing to hear black men and women having difficult conversations and handling those conversations with intellect and dealing in fact! I love love Dorsey by the way !❤️

[@Dunbar_Dynamics]

I will listen to her until there isn’t breath in my body! No lies ever told ❤

[@isisscott2385]

Same ❤❤❤

[@BrittneySharde15]

💯💯💯

[@c0cochan3l29]

That lady is still doing community a great service…free game …. Take the message fellas don’t worry about the messenger.

[@user-ss5fl7fl2t]

I’m going to watch this again with my baby. I’m glad that my woman checked all the boxes.

[@brenyelldelk6932]

Peace and blessings, she talk about the things nobody wants to talk about, or hold self accountable, this woman has been nothing but a blessing, to my life, when she talk I can’t have no distractions even phone be on silent.

[@Bdoe19]

I like the way they feed off of one another without talking over or interrupting. These two having a real conversation

[@iSASSSY]

I like both of them. They articulate where people with low or high vocabulary to understand. He speak well for the gentlemen and low vibrational men and she does like wise. What set them apart from other podcast is that they are not debating but coming together with solutions to bring our community together.

[@whitleynicole]

She broke down a man’s attraction to qualities he saw in his mother spot on. There are men that like the idea of a truly feminine woman (behind her appearance) but don’t have the capacity for her, or she might be boring to him. There has not been one man I’ve dealt with yet that when he described the women in his past it didn’t involve them arguing all the time, she talking to him crazy, and some even putting hands on him and he stayed for a long period of time. You don’t go from that (without getting therapy) and immediately know how to be with a women who not with the chaos. It’s like they desire it mentally but don’t actually have the capacity to choose, pursue, and feel comfortable with a woman really in her feminine.

[@d-rocontop]

She’s currently helping me thru a breakup , and learning thru my own bad habits

[@aliciareese8667]

OK, this conversation is so needed, especially the topic of women needing to hold one another accountable selfish and hurt mindset has to be confronted

[@queendavion7057]

love never disappoints im so glad I found her at such a young age 👏❤️

[@milwaukeelegend6277]

Love Dorsey is EVERYTHING!!! Shoutout to the Queen!! 🗣️PREACH

[@7thkingdom473]

This is Soo real and Soo deep and as a mother of 6 kids 3 boys and 3 girls and my oldest is a boy and I've been trying to break these curses for the last year and a half I see every y'all saying through and through I pray I can change the course of things for the sake of these kids and the future of the world 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 I appreciate y'all for coming out and saying these things it's very encouraging and and knowledgeable ❤❤❤

[@AppMail84]

This was beautiful! This is just what our Black Community needs more of.

[@Elevated11Gaming]

Thank you for starting this podcast. I'm a 30 year old man with a child and I have been praying for this information and the confirmation of my beliefs in my life.

[@RelaxAndTakeNotesPodcast]

You are so welcome!

[@ItsOkayToBeHappy]

Wow, I'm blown away by how efficiently and clearly so many vital points were made in this dialog. Amazing!

[@therealtrinsetter]

I love me some Love Dorsey. I’m 22 and this woman has taught me so much. She’s like that one friend who you don’t want to tell nothin to but yk you need to so she can talk some sense into yo ass🤣🌹🌹

[@naetoopretty5620]

facts same me too !

[@hippyvan]

This is A1. I grew up with two divorced parents and my father worked a job that kept him away for long periods of time. I don't know how that effected me but. I've made irreversible mistakes horrible irreversible mistakes and self-discipline would've given me parameters that I would've at least thought of in heated moments. I drew from nothing because I was nothing. A man without discipline is nothing.

[@latoyaloving1412]

Omgggg this Conversation was so Powerful and uplifting as a Single Mom .My Son Father has a total of 14 years in prison and 6 more years to go and my Son really wish he was here. But I got him in boxing and football and around Men. Love Dorsey has taught me so much❤ and Thank you Sir for your amazing insight. I'm taking pointers. You Two are Soo Awesome I Learn Soo much. I'm ready for more💗🙏🏾🥰

[@focusedsmitty9325]

One of the best interviews I’ve seen so far this year 🥶

[@OpenYourMindset]

I’ve been rockin w love for years now, I’ve learned so much and grown even more just from her advice & her perspective of things! SHES THE TRUTH

[@AntonioDrakeTV]

i love her, honestly. she a real one, salute, and i'm just now getting in-tuned to you my g, subscribed, i did!

[@jbwtsfinest]

I'm all for this movement. Accountability is #1

[@preciousbright8108]

I just happened upon Love on FB and I’m so glad I did. She be eating my hindpart up!!!😂😂😂 BUT I can appreciate it because you can tell she actually cares and ain’t just talking to talk. She has singlehandedly shifted my perspective on many things and I’ve been praying for that. It may not always be packaged in a pretty bow but it’s NECESSARY.

[@ruthroberson1925]

I’m saving this because it’s so much information in this I have to listen to this at least seven times

[@MrYaDig]

Very much enjoyed the show, for the 2nd time, with Love Dorsey. Salute to the both of you. She's definitely an asset to the Community 💯

[@RelaxAndTakeNotesPodcast]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@bcarter5730]

We need a whole series of conversations from you two I love the dynamic between you guys

[@fannymoore9757]

I think it's good they have this, but if it was just them to, they will lose the momentum, and it will get messy and become more drama. I appreciate this tho but people get to comfortable and lose focus

[@Chaunisehill]

A must watch for parents with their teens/young adults. Bring the kids into the group chat!

[@dannigirl874]

Omg this conversation is so imperative for the survival and success of our people. Love Dorsey is so freaking wise and I pray she blows up as big as Oprah. Thank you love. I'm holding myself and the ladies I love accountable. Sharing now...

[@nigilducksworth6382]

We need more conversation like this 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉.

[@JWhitefitness]

I appreciate this channel so much. We need this real so bad right now. Thanks for putting this knowledge out there so that we can start elevating as a community, and giving our children a better quality of life. Our children are the future 💫 Also, I love the fact that Dorsey said as women we need to be more accountable for cheating and just being a real woman. I love you Dorsey! You’re changing my life for the better. Relax and take 📝

[@Andre-yf8he]

I love Dorsey and us men have to remain men even tho being a man means to suffer

[@daniellegabay-curry9467]

This conversation was better than the last! Glad she came back❤

[@WisdomWithWhitney]

Speaking facts for sure!

[@edwardsteven7]

A much needed conversation!

[@melranae9855]

I am going respect my sister. These families are suffering. You will never have to worry about me causing harm to another woman.

[@cherylvaughn2215]

You don't know me but, I love you for that comment, my sister!!

[@jenniferbutler7888]

These conversations are so helpful, I truly wish it can be sensor for sharing with the very young men and women. Make it more shareable via sensoring ⭐

[@Cali57]

❤yes thank you for saying the truth ❤ because as black men and women we need one another 🥰🥰😊😊

[@FasenCheckYoSelf]

This is CHURCH for real for real🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@richbabe7836]

HOLD TF UP IS THIS A SERIES??? Cause I be having a hard time catching her lives 🙄 THANKS FOR BRINGING HER BACK 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@niya1232]

These are the conversations that need to be held. It hit on a deeper level for both women and men… we have to be held Accountable

[@tajeatariyjahwooden110]

Love got me here

[@KNETWORK100]

Yall smoked this whole ep . 🔥 🔥

[@ultrakodeezieshannon196]

This is the most important conversation in the world to engage in or tune into. Thank you both for this. The both of you are golden humans. Respect 🫡

[@deannsettles7720]

Again another one always comes thru with the truth and facts I appreciate u

[@kimkimi6285]

I had to listen to this because no one ever understand the Force of Nature the single Mother..Thank you sis for giving us a voice

[@kapothagoodfella2785]

Facts!!! They love the structured routine and the consist stability..Only until they realize that they can't change it to revolve around them.. I run into this situation repeatedly smh 🤷🏿‍♂️....

[@kendallwhite4699]

Such a diamond in the rough her mentality is. I can relate to a lot of what this woman says as far as my upbringing. Defiantly need more women like her in the world.

[@danishap3323]

I ❤️, Love she too real!! Keep, keeping it 💯

[@pskila]

This is survival scrolls literature...#lessonslearned

[@Artsence55]

Love Dorsey she keeps it real I’m not even amazing yet but we know we need the truth

[@ayannawilson6302]

Dopest podcast ever I enjoyed watching this interview you both hit on key points of discussion basics of life foundation growth for boys and girls accountability, mindset knowing one’s worth for women men and children 👏🏾👏🏾🔥🔥

[@RelaxAndTakeNotesPodcast]

Thanks for listening

[@De90000]

Every time I see or listen to Dorsey it warms my heart, my soul!! I love her so much ❤

[@donnadavidson5027]

This is a great interview!!!! I love the teaching!!!❤

[@IAmEricaNakita]

Love looks absolutely beautiful ❤️❤️

[@Bereal-yd5gh]

I haven't watched this yet. I'm not a single mother. My father is my best friend. Im definitely a daddies girl. I actually would rather never give a man a child. Never ever love a man than to have the possibility of being a single mother. Men have no real responsibility but they are praised for doing the bare minimum. Just because alot of people cheat doesn't make it normal or natural either but society tries to normalize it. Men try to normalize things that harm women. I feel so sorry for women who yearn for motherhood by any means neccessary it must be a horrible sick life to live. Especially once you finally get that child you yearned for and wish you never did it. Now you just have to deal with what you done but even in doing that you are told you raise horrible people it's like we'll why have kids at all? Why love men at all? You can find a man good on paper but he can still leave you high and dry and treat you horribly.

[@T-H-E-WORLD]

No way your father is your best friend and you just wrote this. You really just disrespected him.

[@Bereal-yd5gh]

@T-H-E-WORLD I live in reality. I know all men are not the same but I also know risking my life for men hoping they are good is not worth whatever the reward may be. I don't have to allow men all in my life like that to enjoy them for the things I actually want from them. My father is the one who taught me to be better than weak women and make the right choices. He also knows who holds the real responsibility when it comes to raising children. That's why he is an active and present father. If a man reads that and does not understand what was said. You are living in a delusional place and have no empathy for what men are really doing to women and getting away with while women are made villians. If yall keep it up women will stop having your children and stop loving you all together.

[@Bereal-yd5gh]

My father taught me to not be weak like other women. He understands what men put women through at alarming rates. He is not in denial and he understands the more you shame women and make them villians for having children. They will opt out of men all together. I know that all men are not the same but the risk is never worth the reward for women since women are villians either way. If you don't understand what was said here you are living in a state of delusion. The more you try to shame women and place blame, the more women will just opt out. That's why birth rates are low now. Children have always been optional and 100% avoidable

[@Missbehavin_NekaB]

Words are powerful. If you believe this then you are speaking it over your life. You will try to prove yourself to be right (subconsciously). Gotta learn how to spot the 🚩/ discernment

[@Bereal-yd5gh]

@@Missbehavin_NekaB the truth is the truth.I don't live in delusion. I didn't ask for advice. Thanks.

[@ItsJohannaLynn]

This is so amazing!!

[@r1mzipcode]

This was so good to hear

[@keniasharpe1610]

Gone love I’m glad she by herself too 💯

[@Prwttyleo]

Love me some Dorsey ❤️

[@just_ms.jackson]

Whew, this needs a part two ❤️

[@StudentOfLife365]

This is the part 2 lol

[@bobbym1799]

Did you see part 1?

[@christorafields6658]

Love, love,love! This❤❤

[@shamarabullock0308]

Love the conversation, great for couple conversation. Much of what you say is biblically sound. I wonder why it is not foundational to the conversation it even mentioned

[@miskyabdillah7451]

Teach Dorsey ❤❤❤

[@codename96]

Damn...thank you

[@lateese5952]

I will say I'm healthy in my mindset. I definitely want to better everyday but I align with this message. Thank you for stimulating conversation.

[@gwutv4371]

Straight Gems Man ❤

[@user-gk2cb5wv2w]

most important conversation of 2024

[@TruckingandLife]

Hey R.A.T.N i really enjoy the talks you're having with " Love" but one ill ask if you can let the guest talk a little bit more, but overall i really appreciate the opportunity you are giving us to explore People otherwise we wouldn't have had the chance to see.. thanks

[@J.O.561]

Yes Love Dorsey !! Talk that shit 🔥❤️

[@Amw410]

She real! Love it!

[@chazaraejames]

Great show

[@geniquestyles74]

Love Dorsey is on it. I had my basics since 19 years old as a man. Because I'm strong on nature. I believe a man should have the necessary tools and territory to be able to take care of a family. 10 years you're a veteran over 20 years you're a legend. Brothers handle your business as men. My son is 17 as well I told him focus on his business 1st. Been working for a year, a car and a bank account. I again said handle your business always. Women are a priority but not your first.

[@jeromebryant210]

Great

[@tr.completefaith6722]

Mother or father if you are single it is your job to work on yourself. Unfortunately we have spent so much time focusing on fathers we don't realize Moms mental, physical, emotional, and psychological is important to rearing emotionally healthy children.

[@XshadoXFilms]

Awesome interview

[@keepingupwithtristan]

Oohhh This Love is looking really beautiful in pink. Enjoying the show. New subscriber here

[@7thkingdom473]

I'm not gone lie tho I'm not either one of those girls I listen for this kind of guidance since I am a single mother and Im not trying to just jump into a relationship and they're father isn't capable of doing what he needs because he wants a relationship he can't handle over being a father so I chose to teach my sons exactly what he said even down to the smoke detectors because I have to be aware of these things being alone and he's the oldest of 6 kids so I want him to understand leadership first and for most...

[@Mr.Jones41]

Yesss I love both there prospectives….

[@Seen_not_heard]

New viewer here. You have my full attention.

[@michaelspencer3398]

Deep...🤔 Choices choices choices. Free will

[@terancebooker7794]

Lord yes!!

[@disziaq2828]

I argue modern women don’t even have the attention span to sit next to watch and Hear these gems 😅😅 😢

[@ItsJohannaLynn]

52:23 I say THIS all the time!!!

[@Realogn]

Even when you get yourself together they still will not respect this right here is one of those things we have a idea about but need to hear to fully understand it

[@j-dubdmg1]

Meant to watch earlier

[@Seen_not_heard]

The lady 29:58 who did that cheesecake factory skit (YES! It was a SKIT!) I follow her on Facebook. She did that to make fun of women who think and talk like that but it was poorly done and misunderstood. 😅 Btw, most of them are skits these days. Especially the dating/relationship related ones.

[@MRSZ5440]

Food shelter and clothing the three basics.

[@certifiedmusiic]

Why dont she have a platform ?

[@jermainemclemorejr3555]

2out of 4 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@victormuhammad1393]

After hearing this , most of the other podcasts are just really about pandering and hustling people out of their money .

[@Seen_not_heard]

Big facts. They pandering on both sides for profit.

[@zetnodevol8457]

REVOLUTIONARIES

[@alaina9417]

Valid points were made along with some nonsense. Pray for discernment. It is very easy to blame single mothers for the behavior of the son and have NO comment for the father that is not there. I absolutely agree that children need BOTH mother and father to be well balanced emotionally healthy kids. But if a child is growing up with a single mother, you can't only have criticism for her, you have to address the father as well

[@Missbehavin_NekaB]

You didn’t hear her address the men? 🤔

[@T.Grant2121]

Like👍🏾 button HIT already … I know Love bringing the 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥

[@melantheoszimurri9981]

There is hope fellas

[@CarlLewis-xb4ce]

Love is fucking lit

[@user-de1re2dm4p]

Real twin 💯

[@Beeur_selfie]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@victormuhammad1393]

If your son doesn’t have a working phone how are you teaching him responsibilities when in an emergency like if you were hurt or have a heart attack he can’t call out? That is not being helpful. Why did he bring that up? That’s an embarrassment to the father and breach of family safety and security.