LOVE LANGUAGES! Good Influences Episode 28

Love Languages! You known them, right? Quality time, physical touch, gift giving, words of affirmation, acts of service. Let us know what YOUR Love Language is in the comments! Remember to SUBSCRIBE!
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[@MANNNNWHAT]

Carly is the only one who actually understands this test 😂 it’s about a relationship not YOUR relationship with the perosn your with

[@aaaarly]

Yeah that was weird that it was so hard for them to get that

[@lalangbelalang]

Yesss! They keep choosing the other option (b) just because in their current relationship, they already have option (a). That's not how this test work lol.

[@pinkgalaxy5925]

Ryujin 😢t

[@Gentle__Mental]

Oooo I love the different colors for the squares in the thumbnail. Very appealing!😍 can’t wait to listen! Perfect timing

[@taysworld7959]

AGREED

[@katlin.christopher]

I just KNOW mike loved this feedback ❤

[@danichesney1876]

I LOVE Carlys assettive demeanor lately!!

[@Littlepeach94]

Right? She's finally not letting Erin walk all over her and be rude to her, it's so nice to see!

[@rororoisin]

@@Littlepeach94 I think she's just trying to help her out with her confidence!

[@kyleimiller5483]

No fr.

[@lucasbrunoz]

I need a compilation of every time Carly laughs, its my serotonin boost I'm not kidding

[@erin-clareboulet3211]

LOLing at Matt saying hes a “minimalist” over & over while owning an entire fake town that goes up one season out of the year 😂 no hate its just funny

[@ashleysaavedra8445]

I love your assertiveness in this episode Carly!

[@Meeeeeeeeee37]

I love everyone recognizing Carly as being assertive. We love our mental health queen Carly!

[@Michelle-mh1fz]

erin FULLY MISSING THE POINT LOL

[@ariesbaby2330]

It’s funny how they ALL overthink every question😂 90% overanalyzing and breaking down questions

[@connerconnerconner]

Matt always thinks he shouldn’t have said something or that he sounds a particular way and it’s heartbreaking because I know a part of that feeling comes from his treatment on Unfiltered. I love the support he gets here because I feel like Matt is so much like me, I appreciate and love everything he has to say or think. Not everything you say needs to matter, you can speak to speak. Love you Matt ❤️

[@ellenb577]

I can always relate so hard when Matt is overthinking anything, like I’ll start to go so in depth about it in my head that I change my mind or start thinking about how annoying I sound 😂 I could listen to him talk forever because SAME 😂 also love his self-awareness and apologetic nature is so endearing, even if it is unnecessary at times. Don’t worry Matt, we love ya 😂❤️ I know you wanna hear that too now after this episode 🤣

[@quadmft]

i second this

[@jamillel2536]

I love Matt he is a perfect podcast personality. I’ve been watching him for years and he is always so interesting and charming!

[@Sourpatchmel]

Agreed!!!

[@Mamabear21]

Matt has been unhinged lately 😂

[@ttaylor8830]

Lmao it’s the nicotine withdrawal, mans has been hostile asf

[@MeganBurr]

I totally understand where Mike is coming from on PDA, I’m not very touchy at all and I’m socially anxious so it’s just not for me either

[@AZ-vj9fw]

Same. I've been married 12 years and I just don't like being touched.

[@Ashley-bj3sl]

I get what Matt was saying about Harry Styles. He will always have that popstar label attached to him and a lot of people will always view him as less cool, more contrived, and less artistic than someone like Matty Healy. Same reason why Taylor Swift will unfortunately always be viewed as more of a product and less of a songwriter than someone like Phoebe Bridgers.

[@megan_1]

lmao Matt had me cracking up when he was having a meltdown about the gift giving 😂

[@montseveraud1504]

My love language has always been gifts and my boyfriend is like Matt saying to stop wasting money. I’m like “but how will I show you my love then????”

[@ashleyhouston2010]

honestly, for me my hatred of physical touch comes from being independent and single for so long. like I don’t mind some, but if it’s overdone I’m like 🙅🏼‍♀️ enough haha

[@o12.7am]

exactly this !!

[@user-ny4pn2wx9i]

I’m not sure it makes sense for those in couples to factor in what their partner already does for them. In the instance with erin saying tj already watches shows with her or whatever so she values the other thing more, consistently answering like that would skew the results to say your love language is just something you don’t get as much. I feel like that wouldn’t be the case, especially considering Erin and tj, who seems to have a great relationship and a great balance of feeling and expressing love to eachother!

[@babywcboo]

The fact that Matt is so opinionated about gifts makes me think that is his love language. That’s why he cares so much. I am exactly like that!

[@redderlondon]

i looove carly's laughs 😭😭

[@alischreiner08]

i get what Mike is saying about the touch thing! i’m the SAME WAY!!

[@Al-br3fh]

I feel the same way that mike does about the PDA

[@Blueberryl0v3r]

I love Carly and Matt in this episode!! :)

[@Meeeeeeeeee37]

Always

[@kskd33]

a topic about life lessons or growth so far would be cool

[@quadmft]

yes!!

[@kelseyrempel6919]

hahahahahahaha Carly "I have red hair"

[@KkaitlynN13]

Matt looks stoned 😂 love this convo

[@erinlee8618]

Mike was the last person on this podcast I ever thought I would relate with us actually the one I relate to the most and on a number of subjects y’all have talked about! PDA is for your benefit at home behind closed doors! I don’t need someone rubbing on me holding my hand every sec with in public to know I’m loved lol Sometimes I get freaked out when people are crying around me bc I get awkward thinking I should hug them🤣

[@LizLopezXO]

I wish Erin would be more open to listening to others POV. For example, when Carly was explaining how to actually pick an answer for this. She’s so dismissive.

[@Meeeeeeeeee37]

Don’t hold your breath!

[@sydneytrevino7961]

PREACH

[@oh_its.fatima7024]

yah and how she was about mike with the physical touch thing like its not that big of a deal people are different i felt for mike like he had to talk through that all 😢❤but yah ik thy are friends so no hate✨

[@rileighp213]

hearing matt say “we’ll be married one day” knowing he and patricia got married the other day warms my heart😭❤️

[@melissamunoz3283]

Carly I love you, you’re a queen

[@jasonhunter2819]

You guys are looooopy on this one lol

[@avabrenneman4011]

BEST DAY OF THE WEEK

[@GoodInfluences]

✨

[@Robin-ladybug]

My favorite podcast!!!

[@marcyanne8910]

The questions are too broad too. Like little gifts can mean someone thought about you while they were out and big gifts can mean they were planning it for a while. Giving someone something they need vs a want are different as well. Like a friend spending time and money on a big gift means the same to me as someone I don't see often picking something up that reminded them of me waiting for the next time we see eachother. My mom telling me she's proud of me means more than my partner who I would more often. Someone I know very well telling others how great I am means a lot more than someone I don't see often. The quiz needs to me more specific

[@quadmft]

one of my favorite podcasts!

[@xtinakeren5575]

Loved this episode!

[@slumbersome2477]

my fav podcast

[@summerhyden1879]

i agree with Matt. I have never trusted a dishwasher in my life. Theres no way that box can get our dishes clean, id rather hand wash them

[@emochoso]

I love the silly and funny from the beginning of this episode! Tbh kept going back bc how funny it is 🤣💕💕

[@terrynwilliamson5356]

I relate to Mike sooo much lol

[@Kase1313]

Wow I needed this

[@anushakaliprasad1181]

Love their dynamic 😂

[@sourflower3727]

I don't like the way the questions are either or because a lot of times I'm like.. BOTH.. lol I wish it was like a range.. like 1-5 for each individual one.

[@johnstrange6799]

Thanks

[@annalylia655]

i was distracted by mike’s the mars volta hoodie the whole time. sick af 🔥🔥🔥

[@mirandaleigh9260]

MATTT I am the same way with other people buying me gifts. I am quite a particular person and prefer to pick what I want and what someone will potentially be spending money on.

[@darlingdueck3676]

I am veryyyyy much an acts of service gal in the way I like to receive or be shown love. As for giving, I do tend to be big on gift giving which is something I rate very low in the way I like to receive love.

[@vaniaaaB]

R Kelly used to kiss his fans too, and look how that turned out... it's a power play, creepy af

[@sierraquave]

Random af but I would love to see you guys do a try not to eat 😂 maybe make it crazy food from favorite childhood shows

[@marygracecorrao3054]

matt overthinks so much it take the fun out of it 😂

[@annieceresia2148]

slay Matt with the Italian film reference

[@Ovalleale12]

Catch me being early every time 👏🏼

[@GoodInfluences]

🫡🫡🫡

[@jigglybits2092]

im never buying matt a gift or letting him in my home bc he will judge the gift/my interior deisgn (or lack thereof) lmfao

[@desthepsychonaut]

Lesssgooo🎉❤

[@mobojen]

i love this podcast, i recommend it to so many people! i will single handedly spread the word to over throw joe rogan

[@samrinasiddiqui1015]

Matt is soo cute and funny 😂

[@SabrinaAngelica]

love languages are different for what u want to receive and how u show love

[@---rx6em]

57:29 has me deceased lol

[@pixxie102]

Me going back and forth with the kissing Vs special project question.... While my husband listens to this podcast with me knowing full well he is not a consumer of KZbin content HOWEVER knows all you guys your past and present relationships and still pretends to care when watching the roast of Zane ....

[@AZ-vj9fw]

I love the Simon Says background colors. Trying to figure out which boy picked it lol

[@ElizabethLeeA]

I got ZERO PERCENT physical touch lmaooo

[@jessicafoster5262]

Matt is the star of this episode

[@kimkogneeto]

What is the website 😩 I was trynna do it with the video

[@marcyanne8910]

There should should be a love language tests for different relationships. Like what people want from their friend is not the same as what they want from their partner. What you want from your friend may be consistent but what you want from your partner may change over time. The questions generalized "someone you love" but asks if your in a relationship. It's confusing

[@madeleineeichhorn7804]

This does exist! They have a romantic love one and a general love one

[@secret99826]

i just can’t agree w mike on the pda that’s so extreme 😭it’s just kinda of stupid to think it’s for the world when two people love each other lol

[@tarasteele278]

I thought Matt's shirt said Anne Hathaway Elementray at first.

[@lesliezuniga-diaz9541]

❤️

[@yikessduude]

Erin saying they recorded this august 3rd had me dying😂

[@ashleysaavedra8445]

Leave Matt alone lol

[@tonydouglas334]

Def need time stamps

[@coopd97]

I definitely identify with Matt when it comes to love languages.

[@TaranBKAUR]

i agree with MIKE!! OMG whats wrong with the rest

[@maybebb]

Is that Jerry Seinfeld and Larry David? If so where can I find it, I want it please!

[@adamlambert5737]

I feel like Mike kept getting the cold shoulder in this episode :/

[@eden2225]

Not necessarily. I feel like because they’re in long term relationships, they have a totally different mindset when it comes to love than mike so that’s why they all mostly agree and mike doesn’t agree with them

[@hihii3902]

I kind of see what you mean, sometimes he makes jokes and no one says anything in response that I feel like they’d acknowledge if he said it a different day. I wonder if he was kinda on edge that day? He said he was trying to stay calm at one point. (Tbh I thought this said Matt not Mike so actually I take it all back)

[@ajmajmajm11]

kinda disagree about the taylor not being the one liking tik toks, a lot of the time she leaves comments and theyre definitely her. she’s been known to engage with fans in a personal way - she used to do it on tumblr a lot

[@MANNNNWHAT]

The questions just are the exact same almost just worded different, nah ??

[@MANNNNWHAT]

LIKE LITERALLY JUST PHRASED DIFFERENT

[@icee2329]

Anybody have the link to the quiz?

[@kimkogneeto]

Seriously 😭 did you find it?

[@kaylavngo]

u guys should’ve spelled out LOVE with ur hands for the thumbnail!!!

[@tit2852]

I wish mike would confess his love for carly

[@Slimshadybbyy]

Matty Healy is so absolutely cringy

[@elliedelvecchio3067]

carly we have the same birthday and i feel like we should have a conversation about it…

[@nasyoutubechannel3245]

Hi

[@kendrashae3614]

I don’t think people are appreciated enough so I over say it to people lol maybe I’m projecting

[@kimkogneeto]

Same

[@hebasiddiqui2862]

Why does Erin so rude with Matt

[@briandaitzel]

Is this really from august cause I’m dead

[@alexaramirez3072]

Matt has no idea what he says… he just talks to talk

[@alexaramirez3072]

By the way, this comment was in context to Harry Styles being jealous of Matty.

[@montseveraud1504]

I get his point tho, but also I think Matty is jealous of Harry🤪

[@charliedawn27]

Nobody is following Kyle rittenhouse to “keep up” with what he says cmon what

[@shankeduu]

Rite and trump as a joke ?😭 what carly

[@ryanbickel3656]

Rittenhouse and trump are nowhere near the same

[@sarahli0609]

and that is why mike is single 😂

[@VenLouie]

so what if couples are affectionate in public? something is wrong with him he needs to mind his own business maybe

[@tammylee7377]

Damn No Wonder Mike is single 🫣 Being like that he's gonna be forever single!! Relax a little bro🥴

[@sol.p2206]

Love Kyle Rittenhouse ❤

[@caram227]

So you have very low standards?

[@jazminerodriguez9112]

what a loser lol

[@charliedawn27]

It’s one thing to think he is innocent but it’s another to “love” him. Seek help, you brick

[@sol.p2206]

@@charliedawn27 oh my gosh.. it’s an expression! I guess we all have to think and express ourselves in the same way or else we’re looked down upon. Not very inclusive of you lol

[@caram227]

@@sol.p2206 we don’t have to express ourselves in the same way… but if you express something stupid expect to be called out for it. Like they said, seek help.

[@Dsbeat7000]

THANK U

[@michelleparedes4629]

The first podcast I listen to on Tuesdays and the most excited to tap on 🫶🏼

[@allisonv4270]

I think Taylors team might help her with making certain content on her page but otherwise with interactions they use the @TaylorNation and Taylor really uses her account because of how much she actually stalks the fans for who she wants to invite to secret sessions and meet and greets you can tell from people’s experiences that she really was the one looking at their social media when she talks to them in person