Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage - Mufti Menk

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@m....3767
@m....3767 2 жыл бұрын
Who agrees best person in the world is Prophet Muhammad (Pbuh).❤️.
@iqbalquadri8117
@iqbalquadri8117 Жыл бұрын
Totally agree 💯👍
@yusuf4642
@yusuf4642 Жыл бұрын
Agreed
@ZainJahangir-tx8wq
@ZainJahangir-tx8wq Жыл бұрын
Yes he is and he great phophet of allah❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@mrnobody-r9h
@mrnobody-r9h Жыл бұрын
agreed
@ZainJahangir-tx8wq
@ZainJahangir-tx8wq Жыл бұрын
Mummad
@BeArfi12
@BeArfi12 Жыл бұрын
I think arranged marriages eventually becomes love marriage after like a few months since both parties never touched, make eye contact with their opposite sex ever. While love marriage just slowly dies out and the expectations are too high. For me Slow and steady always wins the race.
@missAurora779
@missAurora779 2 жыл бұрын
I want to get married but nobody's want me because I'm poor, I don't have a job. I quit my job because i want to take care my parents, now I'm 38. But I'm happy with myself, living in small village
@mrsmilyboy9223
@mrsmilyboy9223 2 жыл бұрын
May Allah bless you with goodness in everything in your life insha Allah
@alioramus1637
@alioramus1637 2 жыл бұрын
May Allah bless you with a righteous husband who will be the coolness of your eyes. Remember khadija (ra) was given prophet Muhammad (pbuh) at the age of 40. Make a lot of dua especially when you make the night prayer or tahajjud because duas made at tahajjud are never rejected by Allah.
@yousufff._.799
@yousufff._.799 2 жыл бұрын
@@alioramus1637 Subhan'Allah
@peacelover6631
@peacelover6631 2 жыл бұрын
May Allah bless you , i have money but i am not getting marry because girls look money , wallah i am happy alone then get loved out of my money
@mahints6655
@mahints6655 2 жыл бұрын
If you don't have the money to take care of a girl..don't go for it. In life money matter's . Please avoid stupid philosophy's like money not matters, money can't buy happiness
@irmaejaz93
@irmaejaz93 2 жыл бұрын
Masha Allah that's true. exactly what I needed at this time May Allah help our parents to take a right decision and blessed everyone of us Ameen 🤲😊 jazak Allah Khair 😊
@Muskaan.22
@Muskaan.22 Жыл бұрын
Ameen
@mohomarbaraki9000
@mohomarbaraki9000 2 жыл бұрын
You’re the best contemporary sheikh. Everyone, literally everyone should learn open mindedness - of things which are obviously not against Islam - from you. If you also talk about science & Government I will appreciate it.
@othmansalum4191
@othmansalum4191 2 жыл бұрын
That's different thing... haanh he should speak what he's sure
@saniatamanna7763
@saniatamanna7763 2 жыл бұрын
Yea
@shahryarshahzad7079
@shahryarshahzad7079 2 жыл бұрын
Donot follow sheikh follow Quran
@shahryarshahzad7079
@shahryarshahzad7079 2 жыл бұрын
When christian follow their priests they stop following bible now Muslim is following scholars and sheikh they stop following real teachings of Quran
@UnknownXxXxX
@UnknownXxXxX 2 жыл бұрын
@@shahryarshahzad7079 what is written in Quran?
@quran_translations_
@quran_translations_ 2 жыл бұрын
Probably the best hadith you’ll ever hear 💯 Aws bin Aws narrated: Allah's Messenger said to me: "Whoever performs Ghusl on Friday, and bathes completely, and goes early, arriving early, gets close and listens and is silent, there will be for him in every step he take the reward of a year of fasting and standing (in prayer). At-Tirmidhi (496) *Sahih hadith*
@humerabanu3939
@humerabanu3939 2 жыл бұрын
I am forced everyday for marriage, my physical and mental health is in a disaster, be grateful if you have good parents, I too will say alhamdulillah he ala qulli haal cause I know my Allah is gonna grant me alot and will change my parents mindset! Ameen. And till now my Allah is saving me alhamdulillah
@humerabanu3939
@humerabanu3939 2 жыл бұрын
@Mohd Uvais I learnt all the beautiful rights Allah azawjal has bestowed upon us but I don't understand what will I do if God forbid they force me! I am not a girl who will sit quiet but where will I go.. May Allah never get that day for me and anyone in life.. Ameen
@humerabanu3939
@humerabanu3939 2 жыл бұрын
@Mohd Uvais they say they will consume poison if I do that.. jazakallahu khayran for your concern brother, may Allah bless you Please just pray for me and all the sisters facing these difficult issues
@shutup-u5z6j
@shutup-u5z6j 26 күн бұрын
Maybe your parents are forcing you as this is right age for you to get married and after a few more years, it might be too late. Our parents love us and they don't do anything without a reason. So I think you should stop making ur parents look bad. May be they are right. If they are forcing you to marry a certain person who you don't like then it's wrong but if they are just telling you to get married with whoever you want then I think there are not wrong as they know better than you, and maybe they think its the right age/time for you to get married.
@khalidanoor8264
@khalidanoor8264 2 жыл бұрын
I prefer a marriage in which both the groom and the bride respect each other and respect each others' dignity, accepting and respecting each others' diversities.
@saniatamanna7763
@saniatamanna7763 2 жыл бұрын
Yea me too
@ZunairaKhan-cz2yk
@ZunairaKhan-cz2yk 2 жыл бұрын
What Muslims don't understand nowadays is that the first thing you should check in a spouse is Deen. People nowadays check financial position and have materialistic approach. What they don't understand is Allah has taken the responsibility to feed His beings and also that the girl brings her share with her. And she may increase your share from hers'. You can marry your daughter to a millionaire but if Allah has not written wealth for her shes not going to get it. No matter how hard you try. The only thing that'll remain is your faith and your Deen and the only thing accompanying you to grave. May Allah show us the right path. Ameen
@Mariam-yo5rl
@Mariam-yo5rl 2 жыл бұрын
I'm trying and praying to Allah to enlighten me about this line “If it's meant to be it will be” I truly want to understand and apply this line in everything in my life including “ marriage” Cuz sometimes I stress myself out of thinking about it It's scary and frightened me the most that if I got an opportunity or Allah sent me an opportunity and I didn't take it And waste it May Allah ease my mind and soul Cuz overturning is exhausting
@otahu26
@otahu26 2 жыл бұрын
I'm 46, Now retired. Single For 7 years. Wish I had kids and children to leave my wealth and belonging too. I've Never Married. I am 100% in agreement with Family Arranged Marriages vs Finding "love". Love alone will get you into trouble and heart broken in my experiences. But my suffering and Regrets are all in God/Allah's hands. I have a full life and busy life. Just no wife or children. So am Greatful in other ways. Not Everyone is supposed to have Children or a wife.
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 2 жыл бұрын
I hope for you sir a beauthiful life full of goodness and happiness
@tariqahmed7244
@tariqahmed7244 2 жыл бұрын
Well there is another side of the story . Keep your eyes open as a lot of Narcissists preying on people with money as it's their status symbol . They have no emotions all pretend . Masters in lying and manipulations . Dont believe them . Have no kids after all Keep money for your life till grave and one distribute it in bonds to be used on specific days of after death . Some for medical some for old age pension kind Rest start spending on really needy ones serch them fulfill their needs . Find at least one more like u work as team . Enjoy life .
@tariqahmed7244
@tariqahmed7244 2 жыл бұрын
It's a test as he says always
@othmansalum4191
@othmansalum4191 2 жыл бұрын
ok sir... there is a comment of (miss A ) who wants to get married but she got no spouse... and she is ur age mate 38 u may give her nusrah for the sake of Allah... read just 2/3 comments before urs.... God bless u..!
@islamicknowledge6940
@islamicknowledge6940 2 жыл бұрын
May Allah SWT grant us firdaws al alaa and guide all those who seek His guidance Ameen
@tabassumsiddiqua6087
@tabassumsiddiqua6087 2 жыл бұрын
How did you...i mean..those emojis...how did you do that?😳😦
@falconxxenzia5993
@falconxxenzia5993 2 жыл бұрын
@@tabassumsiddiqua6087 just join bro 👍
@tabassumsiddiqua6087
@tabassumsiddiqua6087 2 жыл бұрын
@@falconxxenzia5993 join where?
@mycompany9305
@mycompany9305 2 жыл бұрын
@@falconxxenzia5993 where?
@TheInfoPanda
@TheInfoPanda 2 жыл бұрын
@@tabassumsiddiqua6087 bro he is saying if you join you will be able to access these emojis....
@josalana836
@josalana836 2 жыл бұрын
When Me and my cousins are met,we are always talking about your lectures..that's amazing..May Allah give you and your family the highest place in jannah..ameen I really respect you mufti menk...
@shahryarshahzad7079
@shahryarshahzad7079 2 жыл бұрын
Following lectures blindly is dangerous ...follow Quran
@hafsahassan3003
@hafsahassan3003 2 жыл бұрын
Most positive person i have ever known...may allah bless u...
@copernicus6420
@copernicus6420 2 жыл бұрын
People are arguing about love marriage or arranged marriage. Me, the only thing I have is no marriage.
@fareehabutt1128
@fareehabutt1128 2 жыл бұрын
😑😒
@AlisaFantasia1722
@AlisaFantasia1722 2 жыл бұрын
May Allah bless you with marriage and good spouse ameen
@copernicus6420
@copernicus6420 2 жыл бұрын
@@AlisaFantasia1722 Amin my brother.
@KamrulHassan-to8oe
@KamrulHassan-to8oe 2 жыл бұрын
May Allah never never bless me with marrige in this world
@saniatamanna7763
@saniatamanna7763 2 жыл бұрын
Single forever?
@Saikbm
@Saikbm 2 жыл бұрын
I love a girl sincerely, but we are not married. I told her relatives to marry her, but they do not agree because I am a salesman and they need a businessman. We always pray to Allah to help us live together in a halal way ... pray for us😪😪😪
@saniatamanna7763
@saniatamanna7763 2 жыл бұрын
May Allah make your situation easy.
@Adnanibnfarooq
@Adnanibnfarooq 2 жыл бұрын
May اللّه protect you Mufti❤
@Adnan_Malik.
@Adnan_Malik. 2 жыл бұрын
@fsmcourses4676
@fsmcourses4676 2 жыл бұрын
Aameen🧡
@LecturesByAdnanFarooq
@LecturesByAdnanFarooq 2 жыл бұрын
Ameen ❤❤❤
@KamrulHassan-to8oe
@KamrulHassan-to8oe 2 жыл бұрын
Why
@yabubakar3144
@yabubakar3144 2 жыл бұрын
Whoever reading this may Allah guide us in marriage
@nermasabdani
@nermasabdani 2 жыл бұрын
Subhanallah, May Allah grant us follow his guidance 💞🤲
@amoulaafrah6951
@amoulaafrah6951 2 жыл бұрын
Masha Allah may Allah bless you . You are our closest and best lovely friend because you always motivate us to know why we're in this world and the Remembrance of Allah.
@shcyb1584
@shcyb1584 2 жыл бұрын
How if we send Salutations to our beloved Prophet Muxamad Peace Be Up On Him (PBUH) every Friday and Friday nights? and read Surah Al Kahf every Friday? Let's make these our habits insha'Allah.
@sahla8826
@sahla8826 2 жыл бұрын
I truely love one person and he also but i doesnt know what will happen when i make know my parents about him please pray for me inshallah!🙂💔
@hasnadimpstamparanians7131
@hasnadimpstamparanians7131 2 жыл бұрын
Thats True.. i wish i could have my half of d Deen..More knowledge of our Deen and have respect with Woman...Thank U our Belove Mufti Menk for ur Dawaah..we love u for the sake of ALLAH swt.take care always!
@shcyb1584
@shcyb1584 2 жыл бұрын
It's Friday night tonight and Lets send Salutations to our beloved Prophet Muxamad PBUH tonight until tomorrow insha'Allah and let's read Surah Al Kahf insha'Allah.
@iamraine3933
@iamraine3933 7 ай бұрын
I met a Muslim guy and we both love each other, it's been 8 years and waiting for him to marry me, but the problem is culture and religion, his family didn't like me but he loves me so much that I can believe in his heart by his deeds and how faithful he is. I'm just waiting til he became stable in life coz having a family takes a responsibility. Then he was set for fixed marriage that he didn't know the lady, we both left broken and he just want to follow what his family wants. I felt bad about this coz he's not happy too about this plan. Just willing to do for his family sacrificing his feelings, I don't know how the relationship will work. Yet I'm his first love and 8yrs. He even gave a word that we will stay together, they will have their body to let him do what they want but not his heart. He Wanna come back and planning to marry me and have a family life outside his country. Just visiting them once in a year or even twice. I really felt bad coz I don't want to see him doing something wrong but I cannot leave him too. The love is not selfish so I agree to let him marry back home with respect with his family and if he will comeback then I would still care for him. The reason is that we couldn't cheat our heart. You can give the body but the heart always choose what they want. I couldn't leave him coz he was confused. I want him to have a direction in life
@pilifinay
@pilifinay 4 ай бұрын
😢😢😢
@pilifinay
@pilifinay 4 ай бұрын
So u accepted that offer from him??
@Элвинаскеров
@Элвинаскеров 2 жыл бұрын
Mufti menk is my best friend in this world machallah 😌😍
@auntieajara2564
@auntieajara2564 2 жыл бұрын
Masha Allah ❤️
@AlhamdulillahforEverything
@AlhamdulillahforEverything 2 жыл бұрын
Assalamualikum I invite everyone to listen the beautiful recitation of the Holy Quran
@miikiica490
@miikiica490 2 жыл бұрын
Subhan'Allah 😍🌸
@XOTheEmreOX
@XOTheEmreOX 2 жыл бұрын
dont get married without knowing each other good enough, fall in love, otherwise its just a forced marriage without a true meaning
@Hamza_zeb
@Hamza_zeb 2 жыл бұрын
I agree my parents did that to me
@rabiahmohammed1385
@rabiahmohammed1385 2 жыл бұрын
I didn't fall in love before we got married, I fall in love after our nikkah though I had an appreciable level of admiration for him. So it's varies really... May Allah just keep us guided.
@englishlessonswithtracy1488
@englishlessonswithtracy1488 2 жыл бұрын
@@Hamza_zeb I’m sorry you went through that. It’s ridiculous that parents would choose your life-long partner.
@saniatamanna7763
@saniatamanna7763 2 жыл бұрын
Yea
@shahryarshahzad7079
@shahryarshahzad7079 2 жыл бұрын
@@rabiahmohammed1385 actually they are going to be liberal that is why they are following sheikh not Quran
@mohamedswaray470
@mohamedswaray470 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my Sheikh you make me feel like crying 😭, if I was to rewind the time, I would to bring back that person I have lost. I was too negligent, not taking advantage on that opportunity. After I blew up chances, I saw her pregnant, I felt like I having a bad dream. I only hope to meet somebody like her.
@mirhamza5440
@mirhamza5440 2 жыл бұрын
Zina is much easier than marriage now a days. High demands from both partners make marriage difficult. A guy with a 10 figuresmonthly income, luxury cars and houses etc etc etc makes it difficult for guys while skin tone, profession etc etc etc makes it difficult for females...... That's why , Zina has become much much easier
@aa3danimation
@aa3danimation 2 жыл бұрын
جنت میں غم،آنسو،حسد،پریشانی اور خوف نام کی کوئی چیز نہیں ہوگی وہاں صرف خوشی،سکون اور اطمنان ہوگا اللّٰہ تعالٰی ہمیں جنت میں لےجانے والے اعمال کرنے کی توفیق عطاء فرمائے👳۔آمیں.......... ______________________________
@shajialamusmani3105
@shajialamusmani3105 2 жыл бұрын
بے شک آمین
@mujeebafridi8995
@mujeebafridi8995 2 жыл бұрын
I wish parents of today could understand such logic. May Allah guide us all. Amen
@firdhows1077
@firdhows1077 2 жыл бұрын
May Allah make it easier to all whoever planning for marriage May Allah bless you all with lots of happiness in the new journey of life. ... May Allah bless us all with success, health, happiness, patience and strength. May all your dreams come true and may you live the life that you have always dreamed of Guys🤍
@nadiaalinazanga6305
@nadiaalinazanga6305 2 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@neutrino2211_
@neutrino2211_ 2 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@Aliza-g2u
@Aliza-g2u 4 ай бұрын
Ameen🤲🏻❤️
@Lisa-oh8zh
@Lisa-oh8zh Жыл бұрын
Pls pray for me that my marital life to be peaceful and happiest moment in my life nd may allah bless ne with righteous, pious children who will be coolness to my nd my husband's eyes
@ranazaman6121
@ranazaman6121 2 жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah, Mashallah. A beautiful video by Mufti Menk, may Allah bless him. A very fair-minded, very diplomatic, very tactful discussion on arranged marriage and love marriage. I know the arranged marriage vs love marriage debate is an issue of much controversy. But in this video Mufti Menk explains it very diplomatically and tactfully.
@alfiafatima3940
@alfiafatima3940 2 жыл бұрын
Assalamu alaikum wrwb sir I get really delighted to watch all your videos ..masha allah..they are so profound and the tweets you share is like so deep and it seems like you are aware of what's going in one's heart!..subhan allah. I really want to become like you ..a preacher..spreading the knowledge of deen ..but not able to decide to start from where..kind of stuck! Would like to hear some thoughts on this from you ..if you could.. Masha allah..may allah swt bless you with enormous bounties and elevate you in this world and the hereafter..Allah humma aameen. May allah swt keep us steadfast upon his religion. Aameen Jazakallah khair
@aafrinahmed2274
@aafrinahmed2274 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. You're such a blessing from Allah. Sometimes I get a little confused by watching other Islamic videos but you always taught in the best way.
@manaashahin4700
@manaashahin4700 Жыл бұрын
Today the person I have been talking to almost a year now from distance has told me that his dad has selected a girl for him and that he can’t marry me, my heart is shattered that he isn’t even listening to his own son, without checking my family history he is being stubborn to his decisions and saying that he has given words to somebody. Wallahi all I wanted was a halal marriage and I don’t know should I still hope or not! But I’m in need of your duas that a may Allah show miracle and he’s heart becomes abit softer to understand and agree us to get married.
@lucaty
@lucaty 2 жыл бұрын
I just make dua for those who wants to get married, May Allah protect us all from Zina... Ameen ya Rahul Alameen.. 🤲🏻
@AnshuMI2021
@AnshuMI2021 9 ай бұрын
🤲🏻
@AlhamdulillahforEverything
@AlhamdulillahforEverything 2 жыл бұрын
I invite everyone to listen the beautiful recitation of the Holy Quran,
@believer1317
@believer1317 2 жыл бұрын
Dear Mufti please talk to my parents and convince them. It's a request 😊💓
@faaiqansari871
@faaiqansari871 2 жыл бұрын
Just want a like from Mufti menk u are exceptional Mufti Masha Allah...💗
@thachuakkuadhu6382
@thachuakkuadhu6382 2 жыл бұрын
(My english bad) My brothers&sister dua for me please..... My arrange marriage....i was not ready my marriage..my father not permission ask my marriage..its k... (Now I have son...Masha Allah) All are dua for me just moment.... But now my hasband very cruval attitude...he doesn't do swalah.. he always talk me bad words,he never mind &love me ..he doesn't love me...why I ...am very depressed 😔 everyday...now I think if he not love me..am not disterb my husband life.. sometime am thinking my divorce..other option I wand My husband change character
@eepyru
@eepyru 2 жыл бұрын
In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful. ٱلسَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ ٱللَّٰهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ. Sister, if your husband treats you that way, to the point where you get depressed, honestly, I suggest that a divorce is the best option. But before that, have you tried talking to your husband? Have you asked him, why does he behave like that with you? Did you tell him, that you're hurt because of his actions? Maybe he's going through a lot of stress or something, but still that doesn't give him the right to treat you in that manner. If, even after you both have discussed things, everything has failed, and he continues to treat you that way, then I suggest you should go ahead, and divorce, because really, you have to spend your entire life with this man, and he's already making it so hard for you. It's not worth it, staying with such a man then. Like I said, if everything fails, then divorce is the best option, and Allah تَبَارَكَ وَتَعَالَىٰ knows best. He will give you someone better, it's okay, this dunya is a test for us right? So be patient. But in the starting you said, that you weren't ready for your marriage right? That means it was most probably a forced marriage. That in the first place is haram. Anyway, I hope things, get better for you, Insha'Allah they will. Don't lose hope, Allah will reward you abundantly for staying patient in such a hardship. Pray to Allah, that either He تَبَارَكَ وَتَعَالَىٰ gives hidayat to your husband, or He عَزَّ وَجَلَّ makes things clearer or easier for you. Leave things up to Him, but yes make sure you do your part as well. Changing someone's character is usually hard, and not the best option honestly, you can't change someone that easily, except if Allah تَبَارَكَ وَتَعَالَىٰ wills. If you feel like you should divorce then go ahead, listen to your heart, that's how Allah سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ will make things easier for you. I pray that Allah سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ keeps you healthy and happy. 🧸
@mahee01
@mahee01 2 жыл бұрын
May Allah swt guide all of us to right path nd marry each 1 one of us to 1 with whom he is pleased nd we r in love ... Aameen ❤♥️
@rameesaliyousuf6219
@rameesaliyousuf6219 2 жыл бұрын
when i see that cute expression of mufti on thumbnail..i press...😁😁😂😂😂🤩
@s4mdy496
@s4mdy496 2 жыл бұрын
Lately I’m considering arranged marriage cuz I wanna escape my toxic household. I have a lot of things going on in my head & I’m lost what I should do .
@parragirl6033
@parragirl6033 2 жыл бұрын
May Allah SWT eradicate all your worries and hardships. Please ensure you are getting married to someone suitable and don’t get married just for the sake of escaping a toxic household. InshaAllah Allah SWT will grant you a righteous spouse, who will be the coolness of your eyes.
@muftimenkbayannah1417
@muftimenkbayannah1417 2 жыл бұрын
The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said Save yourself from hell-fire even by Giving Half a Date-fruit in Charity. Source:-[ Sahih al-Bukhari 1417].
@anna...4726
@anna...4726 2 жыл бұрын
I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate🥰🥰
@anna...4726
@anna...4726 2 жыл бұрын
He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay👇🥰
@anna...4726
@anna...4726 2 жыл бұрын
Whatsaap him"**
@jkphilosophy101
@jkphilosophy101 2 жыл бұрын
Just because people date before marriage that doesn't mean they fall in love. I've dated before and never have I fallen in love. Falling in love is just impossible in this era not unless you are like a 12 year old.
@rabiahmohammed1385
@rabiahmohammed1385 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you... That's my point. I actually didn't date and I fall in love after our marriage basically. Alhamdulillah
@saniatamanna7763
@saniatamanna7763 2 жыл бұрын
@@rabiahmohammed1385 but still I favour love marriage over arranged marriage.
@shcyb1584
@shcyb1584 2 жыл бұрын
Let's not forget to send Salutations to our beloved Prophet Muxamad PBUH tonight until tomorrow insha'Allah. Read Surah Al Kahf too insha'Allah.
@esmanurcebe7054
@esmanurcebe7054 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you sir. May Allah protect us all. Aameen.
@fathimazawahir2184
@fathimazawahir2184 2 жыл бұрын
My parents don't want me to marry the one I want because of his living area is not much good. But he is good in education, religion and all. He almost memorized 25 juzus. His sister is an aalimah.. I have no more guts to fight with my parents. Please pray for me. If there's any ways except praying please let me know
@obasogieokundia2815
@obasogieokundia2815 2 жыл бұрын
MashAllah tabarak Allah, Ya Allah bless our marriage and make Our husbands to be the best husband and the coolest of our eyes Ameen ya rabbi.🤲🤲🤲🕋🕋🕋
@syedaleem9089
@syedaleem9089 2 жыл бұрын
Today the problem is marriage has become sooo expensive and show off. ..... so if two people get to know each other they take much time to get married. . Sometimes its 3 to 4 years. . By this time they get distracted and go in to Haram things. ..
@captianhydra1712
@captianhydra1712 2 жыл бұрын
i was thinking about this topic and then i see notification from mufti's youtube channel and it's the same topic 😍
@ummemaria911
@ummemaria911 2 жыл бұрын
MashaAllah may Allah bless him .best guide quran love from India 😍
@feminas8987
@feminas8987 2 жыл бұрын
May Allah gave all daughters good marriage life.Ameen.
@naziburrahman4666
@naziburrahman4666 2 жыл бұрын
May Allah gives us a long healthy life and barakha👍🏻💓😍
@দূরন্তনাবিক
@দূরন্তনাবিক 2 жыл бұрын
Take salam from those who are reading my comments.i am going to get married in the next months.please pray to our lord,Allah sothat i get the barakah of the marriage. Your prayer to Allah for me is important for our happy married life.May Allah grant happiness to everyone,amin
@palwashahkhattak309
@palwashahkhattak309 2 жыл бұрын
The thumbnails 😅. Thankyou for guiding us.
@eviljanesis3794
@eviljanesis3794 2 жыл бұрын
I fall in love for a non Muslim he was bad human but Allah SWT saved me from him, and show me right path ☺ mufti menk sir need your blessings I'm in peace know
@adha2870
@adha2870 2 жыл бұрын
Allah (SWT) plants a tree in paradise each time we say: Subhan Allah AlhumdilAllah Lailaha illlala Allahu Akbur. La illallah illallah Muhammadur Rasulullah📿 La illallah illallah Muhammadur Rasulullah📿 La illallah illallah Muhammadur Rasulullah📿 La illallah illallah Muhammadur Rasulullah📿 La illallah illallah Muhammadur Rasulullah📿 La illallah illallah Muhammadur Rasulullah📿 💦 La Hawla Wa La Quwwata illa BillAhil Aliyyil Azeem. 💦💚Salallahu Allah Muhammad Salallahu Alahi wasalem💚💦 💯 times. 📿🕋💦💚Salallahu Allah Muhammad Salallahu Alahi wasalem💚💦 💯 times. 📿🕋💦💚Salallahu Allah Muhammad Salallahu Alahi wasalem💚💦 La illallah illallah Muhammadur Rasulullah📿 La illallah illallah Muhammadur Rasulullah📿 La illallah illallah Muhammadur Rasulullah📿 La illallah illallah Muhammadur Rasulullah📿 La illallah illallah Muhammadur Rasulullah📿 La illallah illallah Muhammadur Rasulullah📿
@tahmidapurba6690
@tahmidapurba6690 8 ай бұрын
You are right.100% correct.
@syedshamshadellahi4123
@syedshamshadellahi4123 2 жыл бұрын
Please brother's and sisters pray for my male cat he didn't come home for 3 weeks
@mujahidalikhan4301
@mujahidalikhan4301 2 жыл бұрын
he will come back
@syedshamshadellahi4123
@syedshamshadellahi4123 2 жыл бұрын
@@mujahidalikhan4301 Ameen JazakhAllah ❤️
@serajkhan1173
@serajkhan1173 2 жыл бұрын
Oh, brothers your 🐈 is still missing, I have prayed already for your cat 🐈 .Are you attempting to find out or not?
@mujahidalikhan4301
@mujahidalikhan4301 2 жыл бұрын
@@syedshamshadellahi4123 i also gt my cat.
@mondrella627
@mondrella627 2 жыл бұрын
InshaAllah he will find his way home, and try to make posters with the picture of ur cat and ur phone number incase someone has or has seen your cat
@Sz7_yt
@Sz7_yt 9 ай бұрын
The plan is go uni, get my degree, then find a wife (If I didn't meet the person Allah wrote my name next to in uni).
@shutup-u5z6j
@shutup-u5z6j 26 күн бұрын
That's exactly my plan as well. but the thing is, I am struggling to get into a uni coz I am too dumb 😭😭😭
@reshiatta
@reshiatta 2 жыл бұрын
Mashallah May Allah bless u ✨
@umahjibrael1
@umahjibrael1 Жыл бұрын
This is informative. Inshallah Khair.
@tamimsultana
@tamimsultana 2 жыл бұрын
Mashallah ❤️ very nice love from India 🇮🇳❤️
@ibtehaljabeen01
@ibtehaljabeen01 8 ай бұрын
Both the love and arranged marriages are best, but the reality is love marriage with interfaith marriage (eg. if Muslim marry any non-Muslim) is completely worst !
@areebifham403
@areebifham403 2 жыл бұрын
im getting married 2morrow
@pinkflower8370
@pinkflower8370 2 жыл бұрын
My marriage depends on Allah 's mercy,, trying so much,, now i understand the door is closed
@SheikhAdnanSadat
@SheikhAdnanSadat 2 жыл бұрын
AssalamuAlaikum Mufti Ismail Sir. Alhamdulliah I have a learned a lot from you sir. Zajakallah Khair.
@farhanaanis8382
@farhanaanis8382 2 жыл бұрын
Wa alaikum salaam wa rahumathullahi wa barakathuhu bro. MASHA ALLAH Amazing topic. Parents should take some more time to search for a good spouse with good characters n conducts n good believers to their children's welfare rather than a rich spouse . MAY ALLAH SWT guide every parent and every children as well. Aameen Aameen ya Rabbal Alameen. 🤲🤲🤲🙏🙏🙏🙏
@safwanahmed5592
@safwanahmed5592 2 жыл бұрын
I think it's a good idea to put the disclaimer on the description in the comments also as most people read comments and not description
@57sumaiyahossainsetu64
@57sumaiyahossainsetu64 2 жыл бұрын
What if that outstanding person is from another religion.... it has become truly hard for me now....at one side, someone is there ready to do everything but different religion, on the other side my community....every solution is seeming extremely tough... May Allah grant ease for me...
@57sumaiyahossainsetu64
@57sumaiyahossainsetu64 2 жыл бұрын
@Mohd Uvais I am trying brother... I have said no in reply... but it cost a lot.... I'm trembling... I'm trying... May Allah help me....
@Anaya301
@Anaya301 2 жыл бұрын
AOA, well I am lying in the third category who gets so many proposals and keep getting but believe in me there is no such proposal where I want to get married I do not prefer list and list of proposals for me one good proposal is enough to have where I am not left with ambiguity in saying ok for please, make a supplication for my wish to fulfill Aameen. Lots of love to you from Pakistan💞💞💞💞💞
@shcyb1584
@shcyb1584 2 жыл бұрын
A night like tonight is advisable to send Salutations to our beloved Prophet Muxamad PBUH tonight until tomorrow insha'Allah and let's read Surah Al Kahf insha'Allah.
@hammadkhattak2180
@hammadkhattak2180 2 жыл бұрын
I want to get married IN SHA ALLAH soon 🥰
@dawughantie9433
@dawughantie9433 2 жыл бұрын
Allahu Akbar very educative Jazakallahu khair sheikh
@julianbashir8277
@julianbashir8277 2 жыл бұрын
God said he created us in pairs. A soulmate can not be arranged. Its for the individual to find
@saniatamanna7763
@saniatamanna7763 2 жыл бұрын
Yea right that's why I favour love marriage over arranged marriage (my personal opinion) it gives the right to marry the person whom we love
@briank8697
@briank8697 2 жыл бұрын
I will choose freedom.
@alinoor8701
@alinoor8701 2 жыл бұрын
My wife attacked me physically after we got into an argument and i got angry and responded with three of my own slaps now she has left the house 8days now and her mother called me to ask me to divorce her I did not intend to harm her they dont want to resolve it what should I do please? They are also demanding blood money and it was only a couple of slaps i regret it and have apologised but they are having none of it
@parragirl6033
@parragirl6033 2 жыл бұрын
Physical violence is NEVER ok! A man should NEVER hit a woman and a woman should NEVER attack a man. May Allah SWT make this situation easy/better for everyone involved. Keep making dua and ask Allah SWT for help. My advice would be to give your wife/her family some time to calm down. They may still be angry/upset at the moment. Keep reaching out to them, and apologise again. When things are calmer, arrange a meeting with your wife. Talk in person, when you’re both calm. Express your regret and promise that you will never hit her again. InshaAllah when she sees/hears this, she will reconcile the marriage. May Allah SWT do what’s best for everyone involved.
@IqraKhan-vc7lo
@IqraKhan-vc7lo 2 жыл бұрын
How do I know if this is a good opportunity or not? My mother keeps asking these random aunties, & they never progress anywhere & they just want me for my American citizenship
@annenarvaja2268
@annenarvaja2268 7 ай бұрын
All your videos about marriage and relationships made my heart break into thousands of pieces 💔 😢 I don't know if it's me to blame coz I am out of his culture and religion. Do I deserve to be hurt like this. I don't know how to heal this heart of mine 😭😭
@hazerarahman-ryan
@hazerarahman-ryan 2 жыл бұрын
Alhumdulillah we've come through the other end on this topic. Your videos helped me and my family during some difficult times in my life. May Allah reward you for all your work.
@anna...4726
@anna...4726 2 жыл бұрын
I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate🥰🥰
@anna...4726
@anna...4726 2 жыл бұрын
Whatsaap him"**
@sahifamalik3535
@sahifamalik3535 2 жыл бұрын
Sir, it would be of grt help if u can make a video on what being the 'man of the house' means... Alot of young boys think that being the man of the house means providing financially and taking decision they are unaware of the depth and the couple are fighting for the title of 'man of the house'... Plz make a detailed video on this
@shahryarshahzad7079
@shahryarshahzad7079 2 жыл бұрын
Stop ego clash .....start intellectual development
@aliaboud350
@aliaboud350 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! God bless you 🙏
@ethiopianassociationingta1519
@ethiopianassociationingta1519 2 жыл бұрын
Big Love from Toronto😊😊😊
@barsebetube
@barsebetube 2 жыл бұрын
The tumbnail is so funny mashaAllah who took the picture!jezakAllah khyer
@Shaheer1007
@Shaheer1007 2 жыл бұрын
That’s true 🥲❣️ 🌸Ya 🤍Allah grant us with what you wanted to give the best for us 🤲🏻💐
@shahryarshahzad7079
@shahryarshahzad7079 2 жыл бұрын
Apni chahat Allah p chor k dekho
@fatimaahmedali1148
@fatimaahmedali1148 2 жыл бұрын
May Almighty Allah reward you abundantly
@KamrulHassan-to8oe
@KamrulHassan-to8oe 2 жыл бұрын
Why
@mubeenaali3325
@mubeenaali3325 2 жыл бұрын
I like someone a lot. But he is not that religious. And it doesn't seem like I can change him. What should I do? Should leave him. Or marry him and give rest to Allah? I like him so much. He is a perfect gentleman for me. Anyone who is wise enough to advise me please help.
@sanzidakazi759
@sanzidakazi759 2 жыл бұрын
The thing is, before marriage, shaytaan makes you overlook each others flaws. After marriage shaytaan tries to highlight each others flaws. In the end, a marriage, a love for the sake of Allah, by Allah is the only one that will last. Do not marry a man that is not ready to devote his all to Allah. I understand you love him a lot but get closer to Allah. You must love Allah more than yourself, him and anyone else. Anything you love more than Allah will destroy and if you love Allah, you will know to take the right step knowing Allah will heal you even though it might hurt initially.
@nehakauser2445
@nehakauser2445 2 жыл бұрын
With my dishearted heart I’m saying this i desire to marry a men and alhumdulilah allah listen to my prayers but my family my mom nd all relatives they keep on taunting on me even I had one child alhumdulilah so I feel sometimes I should not marry so my question is I’m not happy anymore what do I now??
@Aroraboyz
@Aroraboyz Жыл бұрын
I want to send this to my partner’s parents 😢 they might agree for our marriage then.
@shutup-u5z6j
@shutup-u5z6j 26 күн бұрын
Why am I watching this as a 18 year old??? 😭😭😭
@tebraizshahzad3364
@tebraizshahzad3364 2 жыл бұрын
It seems to me if we don't listen to our parents then we are doing wrong in Allah's eyes and if we are listening to our parents then we're missing an opportunity (I often felt I made mistakes in listening to my parents well meaning but often misguided and ignorant advice) from Allah Swt. No disrespect to Muft Menk, he comes across as affable and knowledgeable, however this is confusing and contradictory advice.
@sanzidakazi759
@sanzidakazi759 2 жыл бұрын
YOU are confused. This is not a confusing advice. Understand that not listening to your parents is NOT haram. Disobeying your parents is not haram unless they ask you to do something haram. Agreeing to marry someone without having interest in them is haram. Non-consensual/forced marriage is haram. SO if they ask you to do that, you can respectfully disobey. Ibrahim (A.S) disobeyed his father to the point where he almost got burnt alive, but he did it for a good cause and hence he was rewarded.
@manzokuz6203
@manzokuz6203 2 жыл бұрын
How can i know this oppurtunity is from allah???
@mrnobody-r9h
@mrnobody-r9h Жыл бұрын
I am a high school student. I was wondering is it okay to love someone at this age?
@alara0475
@alara0475 2 жыл бұрын
mashAllah!
@simone8799
@simone8799 2 күн бұрын
I need to speak to this man. I need education as a non Muslim. How can I contact him
@l.d769
@l.d769 2 жыл бұрын
Assalaamu Alaykoum wa Rahmatu Allah wa Barakkatuh indeed I agree let it happen you can get married and study at all times and when the parties Both support each other they can always finish their studies and develop themselves, I prefer love marriage because you want to live with your soulmate for many years longer and further in the afterlife in the heavens to continue and beyond that nobody wants to stay with somebody they don`t love and after a while have a miserable life and you can't force your children to Marry because of culture issues or self interests subhanna Allah
@saniatamanna7763
@saniatamanna7763 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely that's mine point of view. I too favour love marriage over arranged. As it gives full choice out of myself
@perfectaudiencetamil6022
@perfectaudiencetamil6022 2 жыл бұрын
Allah is the greatest ❤️
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