LOVE vs. SELF RESPECT - QnA - RJ VASHISHTH

[@nehaaggarwal3271]

I tried my best to keep happy everyone and now I have got a super title of CHEAP THING. But now I will choose my self-love. Thank you, RJ

[@AAKASHKUMAR-db1dg]

Same here....💔

[@anshuljain2158]

Same here🙏

[@manmeetsingh4048]

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[@Believer_95]

Aksar beintaha mohabbat karne ka yahi sila hota hai !! 🙂😔Sad and harsh reality of these modern times. In the end, All we just lost ourselves nd our self respect, in just trying to keep them happy.

[@chandramathemedico]

Same sis...

[@fluffyscholar21]

Your voice is Enough to heal someone.. It's so much soothing

[@IrshadKhan-vk8rn]

आपके फ़र्स्ट लाइन पर कुछ इरशाद किया है... बोहोत हुआ थोड़ा मुस्कुरा लेते है, खुश हूँ मै तेरे बिना ये झूठ दुनिया को दिखा देते है..

[@bhartimasre1354]

Tute dil...Behad jhuti muskurate rakhte h aksar...

[@ankitshaw1290]

Yrr tm khush ho agr ye jhut h to tmhare self respect ka kya...??? Main khush hu isliye ki mere self respect k aage koi ni

[@neetubhardwaj4764]

@@bhartimasre1354 Right

[@userunavailable__]

Bhaii Padhai Pe Dhyan Do

[@PetalPaige]

अंदाज़ ऐसा रखो की दुनिया भी पीठ थपथपाऐ.... कभी खुद की नजर में इतना मत गिरना की अपनी परछाइ भी साथ छोड़ जाएँ.... ♥ #selfLove...

[@sreetamabhadra]

I chose love over self-respect for 10 long years.. young thi, aur yeh kabhi kisi ke saath kabhi discuss bhi nahi kiya.. galti tab samajh aayi jab ussne mujhe chhod diya.. tab pata chala andar se kitni toot chuki thi.. coz the disrespect that the other person shows will never be for 1 time if you do not protest or do not choose self-love, thinking that the love for the person means everything to you.. Choose yourself... Always

[@Mrsingh-gg6zu]

☺☺☺☺☺

[@farahmir9543]

Thanks sir aap ne bata diya ki self respect important hai love se ziyada ....dair se hi sahi kam se kam pata tu chala ...Maine galti ki jo maine love ko chuna aur aapna self respect khu diya aur ajj aapne hi nazroo mai bohat gir chuki hu....insaan galtiyun se hi seekhta hai mai ne b seekha ...aap hi ki tarah mai b sab ko yahi advice dungi ki self respect kabi mat khone dena warna aapne hi nazroo mai bohat gir javo ge aur zandigi mai kabi aagey nhi badh pavo ge .....aur eak aur baat aapne life ke secrets kabi kissi ke sath share mat karna ..aakhir mai haste raho ,muskurate raho

[@hima_boro]

I just love your "Thik hain? Thik hain." Generally I choose love above self respect. But I'm learning that self love is also very important. #relatable

[@JITENDRASINGH-jn3rt]

Absolutely right mam.. 👌👌👌

[@ignaciamarandi9080]

Thanks

[@Annn750]

Woww sir... Perfect topic at perfect time!!!! Thank you... #relatable

[@RaviGupta-xt5qj]

Sach kaha Anu tumne... 👍👍

[@moneypower9645]

Same here yr .

[@amanagarwal1921]

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[@chinnivaralakshmi2714]

Jii correct Time tha Merilye abhi abhi Mari bf se breakup hogaya bcoz of My self respect 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@Annn750]

@@chinnivaralakshmi2714 agar ye self respect hoti...to aap aise roti nhi....

[@aarbee31]

उस दिल का क्या ही करूं मैं जो अब टूट चुका हैं जो अब टुकड़ो में बिखर चुका हैं जो अब धड़कना भूल चुका हैं क्या ही करूं उस दिल का जिसे तुमने सपनें दिखाए थे जिसे कभी न छोड़ोगी यह हमदर्दी जताए थे पलक झपकते ही बदल गयी तुम जैसे मौसम बदलते हैं अब... उस दिल का क्या ही करूं मैं।।। - Rana Bhowal

[@rimalashkari2358]

Thanku soo much.....I am also experiencing these things....I lost my self respect and yes at the end I felt shattered....now I got to know what is the main problem....I chose love above my self respect and it was devastating.....thanku so much rj vashishth 🙏

[@nishuamrita1904]

Aapke andar etna understanding kahan se...😳 Aap Kamal k insan ho.... Hr ek video hr din aapke or krib le aati hai.... Kash!... hr lrkon me aapka 50% v samjhdari unme ho. You are amezing🤩

[@khushiagarwal9079]

Trust me if the other one will turely love then he/she will never ever disrespect you..... they'll be more conscious then you about your respect❤️

[@Starxcaptain30]

It's not true😊

[@jasvindersingh7957]

फर्क नही पड़ता कि विषय क्या है। अल्फाज़ो के मोती की तो एक बात ही प्यारी है कि आपकी ज़ुबा से निकले वो शब्द अल्फ़ाज़ होने के बाद मेरी नज़रो में मोती लगते है। जब भी समय मिलता है आपका चैनल जरूर देखता हूं सर आपकी ज़ुबा से निलकने वो अल्फ़ाज़ जब किसी कहानी की जगह लेते है और बीच बीच मे आपका वो रुकना और फिर दुबारा ऊर्जा के सुरु करना हम तो उसके दीवाने है सर। आपका बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद सर।

[@reenamishra4709]

Your voice is magical sir perfect God gift 🙂☺️🙂☺️🙂

[@Rohitsingh-ds5hn]

Hii sir

[@manshamandirmeerut9294]

भैया आपकी बात बहुत दिल को छू गयी । आपने बिल्कुल सही कहा वो प्यार ही क्या प्यार जो सामने वाले का कैरेक्टर जज करे। बिना विश्वासके रिस्ते को बचा के भी कोई फायदा नही होता

[@regaljain8728]

1. In between Love and Self -Respect , always choose self love if you are alone but if you are in relationship then choose love if it is not hurting your Self-Respect otherwise always choose Self-Respect... 2. Dreams should be chosen but we have a plan for your passion or dreams that converts into money for secure future...Always remember choose those dreams which you follow passionately... 3. Best friend is more important than gf/bf bcz we r more comfortable with best friend but gf/bf gives love which no one can give...so decide who is more important and than understand to both of them their importance in your life...and give space and more time in your relationship bcz it is new and friends will be friends if they are real... 4. Aim should be basically work for your own soulfood , meeting from new people , sharing your own stories , making your own stories with them...☺

[@anubarakoti2374]

Thnkuuu

[@MusafirYash]

Regal ... I just wanna to ask why we should prefer love...

[@rohitaswal5946]

सब कुछ मिलने की बाद भी उससे दूर हूँ मैं, उसको खो के भी उसके करीब हूँ मैं, यही है ना सर् प्यार , उसका नहीं हुंआ पर फिर भी उसी का हूँ मैं।

[@pinkipaul3666]

If the question comes in ur mind that what should i choose self-respect or love always choose self-respect cause if there was love there would be respect , and most importantly when there will be love respect will always be there. 😌 Thank you .

[@amritamohanty497]

Thank you for making me learn so much about self-love.... Ek mushkil main they hum... Kahin goom ho gaye they hum... Apka hamesha aabhar rahega... Ab khud se mil gaye hain hum ... Ab khud ke pyare ho gaye hain hum...

[@shubhvijayaphalguna1125]

I was being ignored & looked down upon by my bf, I was in a delimma, if its my EGO or self-respect that I was putting over his feet!!? Today, I needed this very much. Got it surprisingly recommended by this media. Lucky me! I sent him a detailed goodbye message and blocked his number and deleted his account. Feeling relieved a bit. Might expect some jetlog like reactions.... Hope I'll recover... gradually....

[@ashleykk9414]

How are u doing..

[@bhushannaik793]

But don't let difficult times reconnect you with him...

[@bhushannaik793]

Best of luck God bless you

[@mehjabinrizu9239]

Same yaar

[@bhishmadahal5405]

As she left me, I lost my self-respect for her but she treated me like a stupid fool. Now my perception is change, I have no feelings, I don't care about anything. However, I realized doing charity gives pleasure to my heart. Now my goal is to excel in career and work for humanity and charity

[@chandradangwal161]

💓💓💓💓thnk fr ur words i m suffering from this situation at last 6 month.. may i will be chnge nd choose self respect now..no more love who destroy my selfrespect 😊😊😊

[@niharikatyagi5861]

Today I got notification on my home page and I clicked on play button, after watching that video without your notification I subscribed your channel. I got addicted in one may I watached other videos also.. You have cleared so many thoughts which were fighting from last few days in my head.. I'm so much thankful to you.. stay safe.♥️

[@nidhikalwar4366]

Even I choosed self respect in between love and self respect Wo kahawat h na agar aapka pyar jana chahe to use jane do or agar wo wapas lout k aaye to wo aapka h. So,I didn't call him. But waiting for desperately ❤

[@Taxvishwa]

He come??

[@nidhikalwar4366]

@@Taxvishwa yes he came n I knew it after all 11 years ho gae itni takat to h mere pyar me

[@Taxvishwa]

@@nidhikalwar4366 im happy for you . GBU both

[@nidhikalwar4366]

@@Taxvishwa thank u so much

[@paulgodson798]

What do you mean by self respect? Respect is quality which you have for others, how can you have respect for yourself? Isn't respect for your image which you think you are that image and giving it respect is kind of narcissism. Love is an action which you do for other one because it generates sweetness within. These all are abstract words so we should be really extra careful with the words. 90 percent of the relationships to not work is essentially because of only you, you didn't work upon yourself enough to have a relationship. Having relationship with the other person is management not an easy task. I suggest dont take any advice from anybody because most of us haven't figured out ourselves so do what you want to do without getting influenced by anyone.

[@ManishaSharma-dt4yc]

I choose self respect in my life bcoz my specialone never understood my feeling .. It's fine or not ??

[@raimarai8456]

Me2.

[@pujaray2148]

Me 2

[@aartikumari7944]

Me2

[@PankajSingh-tt2fm]

@@aartikumari7944 sachi

[@alokraj7525]

Self-respect is always better than the fu*g Relationship.

[@neharajput5792]

Zikr uska ankho me chamak meri, Saath uska sukun mera, Muskurahat uski khushi meri, Lambi baate uski sath mera, Mushkile uski dard mera, Dard uska ansu mere, Dil uska dhadkan meri, Mohobbat uski gurur mera..... Lekin ab janab.... War uske jakhm mere☺

[@taabu_sk_tabbu_sk_1794]

And yes i choosed self respect. Respect is must in every relationship.

[@shalusmriti3941]

Sach kha "Zindgi mujhe inspire krti rhe hmesha nye experience ho or kya chahiye zindgi se"..best line... 👍🏻👍🏻

[@feelingfairy6584]

Your all explanation is practically so I also relat my life. 😊😊 And you are ocean of thoughts.

[@risthapahari5283]

I always love myself Because self respect is more important than love ❤

[@arvindkaur2684]

I realized the same thing

[@akhileshmeena8538]

Hii

[@priyatripathi3467]

Sahyad ye video mere pr suit krta hai.... Love or self respect

[@dikshasingh2126]

Hello RJ Vashishth...m not going to talk on this particular topic but i wanna say something to you Sir...jab kabhi kisi bhi topic ko lekar ya kisi bhi problem se pareshan hote hai hum apke baatein apka experience n most importantly apki advice zarur lete h. Aur hme ek sukoon mehsus hota h that someone is here to look after allllll of us....thankyou so much Sir.....This really means a lot which cannot be defined in words...😊

[@ourabi]

This one actually helped me a lot at my current situation. Thank you so much ❤️

[@natureherbalslife418]

Bohot lucky girl hogi jis ke life me tum hoge.....u r very understanding person.

[@apoetic9727]

#lafzo_ke_moti सांसे भींच के लंबी , आहे भर लेता हूं सुनो .. जब तुम याद आते हो ना शायरी कर लेता हूं।

[@poonamjha2988]

Vishu bhaiya....Just speechless...😊 Ap hr chij ko ek esa najariya dikha dete ho jha tk hm soch hi nhi pate..Or vo itna satisfactory hota hai..Ki bss jese sb kuchh mil gya....

[@meghaporey9574]

I cried after watching this video , even i chose self respect , I tried hard to make him happy I tried to make the relationship last long , but then he dis respected me , he said nasty things about me and to my parents , but then also I gave him several chances but then also he repeated the same mistakes and I Came out :) I did the right thing na ??

[@eti_duniya]

no decision is perfect...just take a decision and work like hell to make it perfect.....u did the most right thing..!

[@JB-kc6ws]

App itni pyar se explanation de rehe patience kaise bhagenge.... patience bhi meri saath baith ke apki sun raha hai

[@ChitraK16]

Much relatable to my current situation ❤️# self respect and love

[@goutamighosh1648]

Love vs Self respect & meri bff seh meri bf ka jo problem I'm relatable with these things. Now my mind is clear. I know what to do with my life. It's selflove. No bf. No bff. Only self love. Self bff ❤ Thank You soooo much RJ Vashishth. 😊

[@bhumikavegda1195]

Notification from RJ vashishth = #sukoon😍😍😍😍😍😘😘😘😘

[@anonymous0807]

@aman karhade Subscribe kro or ghnti ka butto dbao 😁

[@archanabhardwaj6792]

Always choose self respect....takleef to hogi...bt choose the right path.....bilkul sahi kaha sir aapne

[@sumansaini9577]

self respect or love hmesha confusion create krta hai thank vasishth iska solution dia👍👍

[@sonamchauhan9494]

Always choose ur self respect....pyar agr sacha hoga to aapke sath rhega jana hoga jayega ..bss khud ki nazro me to nhi girenge...🙏

[@shashankdwivedi6337]

Self respect is better than love .....for me truly consious

[@jayatichauhan5421]

aapki baatein itni acchi hoti ha...Koi bina dekhe..skip ni kr skta...

[@khushipanjabi8813]

आग लगाना मेरी फितरत में नही है मेरी सादगी से लोग जलें तो मेरा क्या कसूर। दिखावे की मोहब्बत तो जमाने को है हमसे पर ये दिल तो वहाँ बिकेगा जहाँ ज़ज्बातो की कदर होगी । ख़ुशी की डायरी से

[@khushipanjabi8813]

@@BhargavDave-mu7yf Thx ji

[@r.jsandheliya8801]

Khushi Panjabi dil ko chu gya yrr apka undaj

[@SurajKumar-mx9po]

Ye hui na baat badchalan wali

[@bhumikaparekh8144]

Aur all mamber ko bolna chahti hu ke ye sir sach me hamari ek new life create karte hai to all members late mat Hona thoda fast ye sir ke all vedios dekhana taki aap ki life bane aur log b inspire ho.. Tabhi aap ki respect bhi hogi so pls ye vedio dekhna ache se. Tqsm sir..

[@lavkushmishra9130]

यादें तुम क्यों हो मिलों दूर , जब वादा तुमने रोज़ मिलने का किया था । यादें तुम सपना बनकर क्यों जगाते हो , तुम्हें सुकून देना क्या पसंद नही । तुम्हारे साथ जब हर पल याद बन रहा था , तब पता न था ये यादें आँखे यू नम कर जाएंगे । ~ Lavkush mishra

[@PriyankaSharma-ny4ee]

We should maintain our self respect in love? We should forget the real love I'd someone doesn't love me.... ... But true love never fades....

[@vishkhm3856]

Thank you for talking about self love and self respect... Now i kno that i am on the right track...

[@gitanjalisinha6030]

Apki video ko dekh ke lgta h ki ye meri life se hi releted h. Apni sari video bahut achhi h

[@nehapatel2618]

2 question 1. What is important parents or love? 2. What is important self respect or parents? Plz give ans if u could 😢😓😓

[@ananddubey1133]

if parents are there then automatically love is also there Secondly Self respect is more imp. than love Thank You

[@nehapatel2618]

But my question is self respect is important than parents or not?? 😰

[@ananddubey1133]

@@nehapatel2618 nothing is imp. than parents even if it is loosing self respect infront of them

[@nazuuchoudhary9172]

Muhabat qeemti hai, pr izzat anmol (priceless) hoti hai .... If agree 👍 hit like...

[@reshmashani1021]

I have my own mr. Vashisht ..my #sukoon.. whenever i miss him i used to listen u. U r amazing sir.

[@akashpatil7962]

Self love❤️.. Now I don't wanna go back... don't wana beg...

[@tikilovers2037]

Fake relationship n true relationship kaise samjhe ??🤔🤔

[@pritoshsarkar9433]

Ekbar love karkein to dekh

[@barnalikarmakar6135]

@Pritosh Sarkar😂😂😂

[@pritoshsarkar9433]

Am I right? What do you think Barnali.

[@barnalikarmakar6135]

@Pritosh Sarkar hmm u r right 😂😂

[@pritoshsarkar9433]

Where are you from Barnali?

[@rozidaparveen9761]

Beautiful and satisfactory answers with a soft and sweet voice ❤

[@priyankapriyadarsini653]

Sir 😊😊 owned my heart .... Thank you for this talk

[@yuvikagupta6543]

Sir 1 week ho gya mai daily aapki videos dekhti hu... Raat ko sone se pehle ....i like ur all videos....

[@Profelixz]

Sir iam too deeply depressed becauze i suddenly started to feel that i wanna be in relationship with my girl bestie but she not agreeing😔 and her every single word hurting me 😓😓😓😭

[@susmitasarkar8351]

You should see dear beestie part 1 and 2 of RJ Vashtit. I hope it will help.

[@susmitasarkar8351]

Sorry dear bestie I love you part 1 and 2

[@Vrinda_Dasi0]

What is more important between love and family?? If our family rejects our partner what should I do ?

[@jankipandey8939]

When we have two bestfriends?

[@ayantikachatterjee213]

This Qna session was very important on the basis of love because love is a strange feeling- it provides someone with completeness and leaves others with pain and misery. This is because love is of 2 types- Fake love and True love. Whereas true love refers to a selfless love, on the other hand fake love is all about fame, money, looks, status, sex, and much more. True love is strong and permanent while Fake love is weak and temporary.

[@atulanpara]

क्यों न में भी एक फूल बनूँ जीता है जो सबके लिए बिना किसी अपेक्षा के, उसको फ़र्क नहीं पड़ता मिले प्यार या उपेक्षा से, उसने बस उतना ही लिया है जितना ईश्वर ने सबको दिया है, लेके सूर्य की पहली किरण, देखो कैसे वो मुस्कुरा दिया है, चली हवा छूकर उसको ,तो संग कली के झूम लिया है, पड़ी ओस की कुछ बूदें जब तो चुपके से उनको चूम लिया है, सुन भँवरे की मीठी गुनगुन उसने ने भी थोड़ा गाया है, रहा बाँटता, प्यार वो हरदम कभी कभी ही उसने पाया है, जीवन को प्रभु की नेमत समझ हर पल ख़ुशबू को फैलाया है जीते जी अपने, करता काम सभी झड़ कर, धरा को महकाया है, बन रहा कहीं वो प्रेम प्रतीक कभी प्रभु चरणों का हो लिया है, हो ग़र शहीद के सम्मान के बेला संग सभी के,शायद वो भी रो लिया है ------- अनीता After being hurt for so long, after giving the so much, after spreading love everywhere... I came to the conclusion that.. we r worthy enough.. self love, selfcare..

[@kusumlimbu2081]

Can I copy ?

[@anjalirana6122]

bhot ache se smjh te h yr ap logo ko ,chizon ko or baton ko.....ap jse smjhdar bnde bhot km milte h......😊

[@prakrutimehtajoshi5]

Hey, Thank u Vashishth , I had this intense low day today, just went through 2 videos of urs, and it gave me a new surge of energy. 💛😎 Theek hai? Khub Theek Hai 😇✌️🌈 More Power and Love to you! ❤️

[@meetkk]

Very inspiring, thoughtful and relatively applicable in our daily life. And your solution to love vs self respect i.e self love, is the mool mantra. Until u love and respect yourself, u can't love and respect others. Just regret that I could have seen this video much before.

[@drashtisoni505]

Your voice is magic & your videos r love❤❤

[@theuntoldwords2416]

True yr 😃

[@monikawy231]

True

[@shashankjoshi8792]

.... ultimate aim ? ..... always keeping alive the child in me ... fit and happy and trusting and so much busy exploring the wonders of life that won't notice when end comes and passes by taking me along 🙂 !

[@raginidubey5055]

#Self love...😍😍 these two words really effective in every situation of live... thnqq Sir😄😄

[@deepinwati66]

Aaj unki aankho m sb kuch nazar aa rha tha mgr na tum ko bolne ki himmat hai orr na hi hame sunnane ki ...😶

[@mayachoudhary9662]

Shi time p shi topic p bole h sir .. thanks sir😂✌

[@rohinikumari6746]

Whenever i get depressed .i watch ur videos...

[@ashisrivastava1011]

Mood off ho and aapki koi notification ❤️❤️#Sukoon..😘 Sir u r just simply amazing ..❤️

[@rutujapilane7418]

True💯💯

[@kavitasaxena522]

Meri shadi ko abh 2.5 yr h hue h...or jb hmari shadi hui uske just baad h mai internship k wajh se husband se alag rh ha kbh kbh aate the wo mjhse milne isi beech hmari first anniversary pe hmara baby aa chuka tha hmari life me ...to mjhe kbh kbh aisa lgta h jaise mere or husband k beech abh bh koi understanding h hi nh...hm dono bilkul different h ....wo simple and sweet h or mai romantic , silly or funky type hu mjje life me changes pasand h ghumna firna maje krna pasand h wo hm logo ne kbh kiya h nh...or ab to aisa phase aa chuka h k mjhe sb kuch negative h lgta h ...kuch bh aacha nh lgta bewajah h husband se argue krne lg jati hu...apne h baby se jealous ho jati hu kbu kbh k husband baby ko jyada pyaar krte h attention dete h or mjhe bilkul bh nh....plz aap koi solution do mjhe...ye kha tk sahi h k pta mere husband 24 hr me mostly mere se koi bh baat nh krte phr romantic type baate krne ka to sawaal h nh uthta na koi hug na kiss...jbk mai ye sb expect krti hu unse to kya mai galat hu....mai kya karu...Pht paresan hu mai

[@nirajan2387]

Don't worry sis everything will be fine

[@DeepFinanc-2023]

जब प्यार के रिश्ते मे रह के बात शादी और परिवार तक आये, और फिर बीच में लड़का शादी से मना कर दे तो लड़की को क़ानून भी साथ देता है, की शादी का पलोभन दिया और अब मना कर रहा है, पर जब लड़की एक लड़के के साथ एसा करे तो लड़कों के लिये क्या कोई क़ानून नही या लड़कों की कोई feelings की इज़्ज़त नही।

[@harikeshchauhan7207]

ये कोई नियम तो नहीं है पर ऐसा भी नियम होना चाहिए

[@sarojarkvanshi8468]

deepchand sahu bilkul sahi kaha aisa kuch jarur hona chahiye

[@ruhis9809]

Zaruri nhi hum apni mahobbat se islie alg hote he kyuki mohobbat khatm ho gyi, kbhi kbhi hum apni mohobbat k lie hi mahobbat se alag ho jate he....

[@k.n8198]

Thank you so much Sir... Specially for making clearity bet love and self-respect... 😀😍

[@rushikeshpatil5492]

Thnx Bro...... love aur self respect ki definition clear kardi......khama kha soch raha tha itne din se ...

[@vrushtimodi4636]

perfect topic....nd ur voice😍😍😍sir your voice drove me at another world 🤗

[@shankhadeepadasgupta8309]

Why always people change when they get commited?? Old frnds...best frnds r not valuable that time....bt jab brkup hota hai to sabkoi dost ki hi dhundte hai...

[@shrutyprasad7777]

Idk is it the way I should feel when I am in love🙂 compromising is ok but everytime..y?? Still consufed about love or self respect 🙂

[@shrutyprasad7777]

It's been 2yrs..and I still don't have the answer

[@rupalisakarkar4098]

Seriously i always use to ignore myself and used to love everyone but from now I'm going to give first priority to myself thank u RJ Vasishth for this

[@aadishjain2896]

Your words are a little different from others and means alot truly inspired frm u

[@mdparbejalam8534]

Bff se related solution muse kaafi achhi lagi.. Aur..aapke batane ka tarika wakae me gajab ki hai

[@ThatJodhpuriGirl]

I needed this video... Thanks 😊😘😘

[@extratech7039]

सर मेरे साथ ये समस्या थीं , मेरा एक रिश्ता चल रहा था 5 साल से पिछले 2 साल में हमने तय किया कि हमे रिश्ता आगे रखना है , तो कुछ बनना पड़ेगा दोनो ने तय किया कि अपनी ,लाइफ में कुछ करते हौ मैंने जॉब छोर के पढ़ाई की तैयारी में लग गया वो एक अच्छा कॉलेज देख के दाखिल हो गई , वहां का माहौल , सारे एकदम नए लड़के और लड़कियां , सब मस्ती मौज करके पढ़ने वाले , ये होते ही उसकी दोस्ती सबसे हो गई , ये मुझे टाइम देने लगी , मैंने कोशिस की समझाने की की कॉलेज लाइफ और हमारी पर्सनल लाइफ मिक्स न करो , पर ऐसा हुआ नही , और वो उन सब को हमारे वक़्त पर भी वोही सब बात और किसी भी टाइम कॉल , मेरी लाइफ में लड़ाईया सुरु हो गई , उन लोगो की वजह से मैं उससे लड़ने लगा , काफी कहा सुनी होती , सुबह इसकी सहेलिया समझा देती की तुमने कोई गलती नही की इसमे गलत क्या है , अब वो फिर मुझसे लड़ने लगी उसके दोस्तों के लिए , डेढ़ साल गुजर गया , लड़ते और प्यार करते एकदूसरे को , फिर इसका जन्मदिन आया इसने सबको बुला के घूम फिर आई ।। मुझे लगा किसी लड़के के बारे में इसने नही बताया कुछ , अब छुपा के ये सब होने लगा ये सब चुपचाप करने लगी । मैं समझता रहा सब सही है , उस शाम को इसने शुक्रिया अदा किया तो बहुत से लड़को के नाम थे , मैने कहा कि तुम्हारे अंदर ये फीलिंग कब आई तो फिर लड़ने लगे मैं थक गया था, ये सब से ।। तो दोनो ने ब्लॉक कर दिया एक दूसरे को।। मैने भी खुद को समझाया कि जब तक कॉल नही आएगी मैं कुछ करुगा है नही , ये रिश्ता उसे भी रखना है तो कॉल करेगी ।। इंतजार करते करते 15 दिन हो गए , मुझे समझ नही आया तो कॉल किआ मैं पर उसने पिक नही किआ, फिर मैने इसके पिता जी को भी कॉल किआ उन्होंने भी नही पिक किआ , मैं शांत रहा ।। 20वे दिन मैने अनब्लॉक किआ और नार्मल बात की , ये बिजी थी बोली बाद में बताती हु, और फिर हमारे रिश्ते के बारे में पूछा तो जवाब आया , उसके अंदर कोई फीलिंग नही है अब , जितना उसे पास बुला रहा था वो दूर भागनेलगी , उसने कहा मर जाएगी पर वापस नही आएगी , प्यार करती है पर अपनी खुशियो का का गला घोंट कर नही , मैं सन्न रह गया , पहली कौन सी खुशिया , दूसरी ये सब कैसे हुआ , शायद इसकी सहेलियों ने मेरी गलतियों को बड़ा कर के । मुझे बुरा बना दिया , और साथ देने के नाम पर वो सब अच्छे हो गए ।। इसने ये सबक्यो किआ , उसके दोस्तों को कहना चाहिए था कि काल कर लो और भरोसा रखो ।। पर सब उल्टा हुआ , अब क्या करूँ , अब वो अबुसिव बात करने लगी है , एक उसके पसंदीदा अप्प पर जा के देखा तो वह ये रो गिडगिडा के वापसनार्मल हो गई ईगो इतना कि कॉल नही किआ और वहां रोती रही जिसका मुझे अंदाज़ा भी नही था , अब क्या करना चाहिए , उसे मैं प्यार करता हु शायद वो भी करती है , पर दूरिया कड़वाहट में भर गई ।। सुझाब दे ।।

[@aayushtak7850]

Sir I want to ask a question What to do when girlfriend compare male bestie from boyfriend 🙄

[@tulikadey3808]

if she truly loves you she should understand why she loves you and not his male bestiee... if she is comparing then she is confused...

[@aayushtak7850]

@@tulikadey3808 so what to do now 😞

[@vipulsingh6123]

Or ek qustion or hai, relation us hadh tak jata kyu hai jo respect hi khtam ho jye, kuch dino ke pyar me respect na ho toh koi baat nhi, agar relation lyf tym sath rehne wala ho toh waha respect hogi, ager kahi koi kami ayegi relation me toh tab jab koi ek us relation ko litely leker chalega, self-respect bhi tabhi desrve ki ja skti hai jab apne partner ki respect ho uski baato ki uski feeling ki,

[@tanukumawat5820]

Sir I m commenting my problem here I m working to reach my dream still I want you should make a video on this to motivate girls 😉 if you could see this is a major issue of our country we cannot change mentality of ppl in one day but we can fight,we can try but there are lots of girls who quit their dreams just bcoz family's not supporting. I request you sir whole heartedly Apke wo break ups k upr wale videos and all I have seen I love your voice please do make video on this

[@lovedesirable943]

Perfect topic at perfect time. #relatable

[@DreamsofKarishma]

Hey vash sir ji you just got me right Thanks for this video

[@karishma_1411]

I am commenting here to clear my bestie that the above comment is not written by me. See pinki.... 💜

[@drnamratasharma1044]

मेरे husband तो मेरी sister (bff) से ही jealous हैं..... अब mein क्या करूँ..... Both are important for me

[@angelratnabarman4666]

Wow beautiful video and your voice sir 😙😍

[@binoysarkar9007]

I am new to your channel...Menein pehle aesa QnA video dekha jaha itne relatable baatein... Simply wow..love this😍

[@mradulyverma3664]

I m in love with ur voice.....u r just amazing 😍😍😍

[@SolankiYoutuber]

Amazing

[@rakhiahlawat6904]

इंतेहा हो गयी मेरे सब्र की ये मैंने आज जाना हम तब तक रुके जब तक आपने अलविदा ना कहाँ।

[@rakhiahlawat6904]

अलविदा तो एक दिन हर किसी को कहना ही होता हैं, मगर यूँ कहोगे , ये मालूम न था।