Love when He is Younger| Pregnancy out of Wedlock| Handling Shame| Financial hardship in Marriage

In the pursuit of love, Sonia and Cadilux faced a number of challenges. Sonia is older than Cadilux by 4 years, sexual purity was a struggle, pregnancy before marriage and financial challenges. They shared their lessons and what they could have done differently knowing what they know now. They are now 6 years in marriage and can attest to its goodness and the grace of God.
#agegapromance #datingstruggles #lovestory

[@Kshanice25]

This couple is very honest, i love that they openly discussed that they struggled with sexual purity , most Christian couples never talk of these struggles even for leaders. They want people to assume they do t have struggles in that area

[@LisaKusiima]

It’s a real struggle for so many. But God is able to

[@joshuakisakye201]

So honest.

[@kap849]

The challenge is this has gone from a struggle to a choice, which makes it harder to deal with because of the guilt. Also, we sometimes downplay temptation and do not make conscious efforts not to fall into this sin. That being said, I always appreciate it when couples are walked through the healing process instead of being shunned.

[@MbabaziPeace-iq8ru]

Wow this is so sweet

[@winniekislev8214]

Wow. God bless this couple for their honesty. Reminded me of Mathew West's song : Truth be told. There's a lot of masquerading in the body of Christ and we've ended up shooting our wounded soldiers , isolating each other and yet we too are struggling. God bless them. God bless the host too. This is ministry. Reaching out to those in kamooli.😊

[@ithankgod5733]

My husband and I have a similar age gap. 4 years and quite frankly it doesn’t matter to us. There is mutual trust and respect.

[@Nyakato-v3t]

Beautiful ❤️

[@juliandorothy35]

No lieeeessss i love these guys. I was in the front row of their journey and even while they were struggling, they also entered our struggle as well. Accepted to be our Metron and Bestman. Same year, we were also have katemba of our own. Were getting married with also a child out of wedlock and these guys stood by us. I remember that room they were talking about and as Sonia was talk i was just recalling it all. Thanks for hosting them dear Lisa.

[@Flourish_today]

When they said 4 year age gap i laughed😂😂😂😂. That is so small infact, its a full stop. I met a a lady who is 20 years older than her husband. Infact at first i thought her husband was her son. They have been married for a long time and seem to be in love every day. Infact one of the former NTV news anchors is 10 years older than her husband. 4 years is an easy piece of cake. That's the same age group.

[@kap849]

When she's 44, he'll be 40. When she's 84, he'll be 80. I see your point 😅😊.

[@joanjorryn2792]

My husband en me gal🤨 our gap is 24 years …. But. We literally forget that gap sometimes because we choose to chose ourselves every day

[@LisaKusiima]

I think you can’t down play someone’s story when you haven’t walked in their shoes

[@annsaptoe6106]

Societal Norms frown upon any age gap. Worse so in church.

[@annahnabalayi1090]

I rushed here from Instagram and I have been blown away by the maturity especially Spiritual maturity. I believe sometimes what looks like s short coming or shameful situation is a perfect recipe for God to redeem others. Like literally, you become the example many would despise but God is rubbing His hands shouting 'Eureka! I have a plan'

[@ann20B]

Woooow I love this

[@bathshebakyobuhooro423]

We need another month for such stories, every week I think this is the best then you bring another couple and my brain is blown. I love their honesty

[@ainedenis3041]

U're speaking my mind

[@LisaKusiima]

Eh pressure 😅😂

[@Flourish_today]

​@LisaKusiima pressure indeed. I find that Ugandans love love stories. You see it from the kind of music Ugandan musicians sing. it's always love love songs. I also notice lots of interviews people are asked about their love life.

[@murungiclaire5438]

Lisa I love this marriage/love/ relationship series it has me LOCKED!! Beautiful stories, very inspiring and above all God is faithful!

[@LisaKusiima]

Thank you so much 😊

[@ann20B]

That has really healed me so much from the guilt shame from family friends and lots of people and from me for not forgiving myself....may God never forsake us...

[@LisaKusiima]

God can set you free from shame

[@ritamirembe7061]

May God show you mercy dear ,we have God of a second chance. I and my husband,we too sinned before marriage,you cnt imagine,we cried to God everyday Nd repeated the same thing. Reached a time nd told to just give us a holy marriage for His sake. Nd He heard us, now almost one year in holy marriage 🙏

[@ritamirembe7061]

sin can seriously make you hate yourself but God still calls us ,lsaiah1:18-

[@namakulajoan6086]

Great lessons to learn

[@user-zz3mr4su3f]

Woohoo I have known Sonia since way back she is so so unique and her faith too moves mountains,i love her energy ❤️

[@ms.t6051]

What a mature and admirable young man! I wish them both a beautiful and long lasting marriage. God bless them and their children and unity ❤🙏

[@faithfun7970]

I loved this interview. This couple were very transparent, humble and in touch with reality. Your story was very much appreciated and comforting

[@twinamatsikocynthia-id2oh]

This was a beautiful story ❤ being committed, kind and being prayerful is also a good thing ❤

[@apionancylakareber4226]

Putting age aside, this is a very bright couple.

[@JoviaKusiima]

I have a friend of mine suffering with a difference of 2 months older than her yet the young guy loves her 😢

[@sheilawavamunno9372]

See God, the Redeemer!!! Thanks for sharing your story and encouraging others with it. God does redeem!!! And loves to show Himself off💃🤗

[@joynabatanzi590]

Mannnn!! The honesty was on a high level. Much much respect to you Sonia and Cadilux

[@LisaKusiima]

👏🏾👏🏾

[@kemkem9621]

How i love authentic, candid and honest conversations like this!!!!! Blessings to u

[@user-cy5rj4hg7q]

This is amazing!!! Sonia’s story has really reminded me of Gods faithfulness in all situations! I’m very proud of this couple, I wish them many years of love, happiness and fulfillment in their marriage ♥️.Lisa you are doing such a great Job! May God grow your Horizons ✨

[@LisaKusiima]

Amen amen thanks Liz❤️

[@cordeliaakahirwa6249]

Wow, Cadilux & Sonia, I love these guys. They are so real, Unique and True. I was so blessed by their story. Thank you Lisa for bringing them on the set. ❤.. Personally i am inspired to go build a strong marriage🙏🏾😇!

[@LisaKusiima]

Awww thanks So much

[@ayebarebrendah1395]

Lisa!! Ooh your content ❤ Glory to God and thank you for allowing Him to use you! God bless you 🙏🏻

[@LisaKusiima]

😊😊😊😊❤️😊

[@peaceolive1450]

It's the honest stories like this that paint a clear picture that no one is perfect, and that's fine. Otherwise, so many people are quietly dying in struggles that they can not share with anyone for fear of being harshly judged. Thank you Sonia & Caddilax for boldly sharing your perfect imperfections.

[@drcissyatwine]

Aaaaw loved their story..long live Cadilux and Sonia .🙂

[@hallejudy]

I wanted the uncomfortable questions but they did hint on the subject of age! Glad our society is opening up to this. Age is just a number

[@LisaKusiima]

I think the answer was in the story.. because here they are 6 years later so…

[@kihembodoreen7368]

I love how they share their story. Honest, unburdened and true to themselves

[@LisaKusiima]

So true

[@simonkine]

Wowwww at least now I know what am getting into with the woman of God, thank you guys biggggg time

[@Nankundadiana256]

Let me keep waiting while nursing my wounds😊this is so encouraging God is the Author ❤

[@winfredkobusinge3383]

Thank Lisa for hosting this amazing couple. Tr. Cardilux supervised my son in grade 3&4. He is an amazing person.

[@daphneampire9740]

Thank you for sharing this Lisa, age shouldn't hold you back, with God's grace my person and I got through those tough years of marriage inspite if the age difference, we now help other couples grow and progress, marriage is beautiful both matter the circumstances.

[@janenanono1319]

Wow, I didn't want you to stop, you are so real and God will use you mightly among the young people. Thank you for the inspiration.

[@LisaKusiima]

Amen amen

[@judithakite3164]

Am locked here. These series are such a learning and inspirational safe space❤

[@rebecca-the-light]

Thanks Lisa for bringing couples that share freely about life realities❤ i love it. For you and for us

[@LisaKusiima]

🥳🥳🥳

[@namakulajoan6086]

Had i learnt about this video like last year…! But ohh yes thank you Jesus I landed on this video.

[@ronniekavuma1638]

Our God is really Soo faithful

[@LisaKusiima]

He is

[@prudencemthembu4476]

Love you from South Africa. First time i see this show. I love this couple 😊🎉

[@LisaKusiima]

Welcome here❤️

[@clairelove9611]

This is beautiful to listen to. I'm glad to hear this story

[@LisaKusiima]

😍

[@muwongebrighthosea]

Thank you so much Mr & Mrs Nyekorach This is such a good sharing & straight forward no sugarcoating but honest. Will look u up more Cadilux

[@ronaldmusapiti5315]

I think this couple was God chosen, cause it wasn't shaken by obstacles!

[@charlottenatumanya4168]

Wow!! Such a beautiful testimony of God’s grace. God bless you

[@serafiamungandjera]

By the way, I love your sense of humor Lisa ☺☺🥰🥰😅😅. I enjoy watching your channel. May God bless you more.

[@LisaKusiima]

Awww thank you! You are so kind

[@kasiimwecreations619]

lisa this particular video was for me. God sent, thank you so so much. I send you cyber hugs Lisa

[@LisaKusiima]

Awwww

[@douglasmartinssemaganda]

Thanks to the Nyekorachs for sharing your story. The Body of Christ is like an army, and I think it's time her commanders have a conversation on strategic steps to take on how they ought to embrace their soldiers who have crossed lines of set combat standards, how they can be accepted, rehabilitated, and redeployed back to the frontline. Much thanks to the Lakors and other colleagues who came alongside them. Lisa K, thank you for hosting. These are stories we wish to have in 2024 going forward. Talking reality, inspiring hope!

[@LisaKusiima]

The army analogies hahah👏🏾👏🏾

[@majoriebasiima645]

Whenever i feel heart broken, i dont talk to anyone but load data and watch this story

[@LisaKusiima]

Ohh

[@RachelKing-rh4kh]

Best couple on the show,beautiful,beautiful couple,the maturity from both of them!!thanks Lisa

[@LisaKusiima]

Couldn't agree more!

[@christinenakazzi280]

I love that this is a safe place for married couples 😊😊.

[@LisaKusiima]

It really is🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@asiobernadette1394]

Right…. It’s beautiful to watch Lisa keep it up Keep bringing happy interesting couples.

[@barbratukamushaba3180]

Wow this is so touching 😢 it was really nice hearing from this powerful couple 😢

[@tiny_k738]

I love how open these two people have been. They are a blessing to the young generation. May God bless and sustain their union 🙏

[@LisaKusiima]

Amen

[@ayopamella]

But this love story; i can't help but comment again in the middle of the video. It has a lot of hope vibes❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

[@LisaKusiima]

Awwww thank you

[@anzoasarah7595]

Very blessed couple, great things await them. They are going to impact nations

[@MarthaKayUganda]

Feeding on the flock took me out 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 love these guys ❤️

[@LisaKusiima]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@favouredann3127]

Sonia is so beautiful. I really love the testimony. Powerful.

[@hildamiriam8028]

Thank you Lisa soo inspirational and lots to learn... ❤❤❤

[@somebodysdaughter7855]

Had to like before I even watched.

[@LisaKusiima]

The real mvp🥳

[@AgathaWandeka]

Wooow this has benefited me, Lisa for my seek am struggling with letting the man go . We have been ministering in some church with my fiancé but after the church leaders getting to know about our dating and plans of getting married, they stopped us from ministering holding on some reasons which I think were not the real reasons. Under our minister rules if a minister sees a woman to marry, he MUST first go before the church leaders before even the lady getting to know about it .Which my man didn't do despite I telling him over and over to go through the right process. So after, we were stopped from servicing and asked to remain in church as causal members, I feel bad and blame myself for choosing a man over my calling because even after my man refusing to go before leaders I would still refuse to date him which I did not. At one point I have loved this guy but now feel I don' t anymore to appoint that I have started acting weird before him. As many thoughts run in my mind am like what if the church refuses to wed us and keeping other factors constant, I would choose God and church over this man. THIS DILEMA IS BREAKING AND EATING ME UP.

[@ann20B]

I feel you but remember God has given us a free will and He does not choose for us a spouse we do....since what happened in the garden of Eden...we do choose ourselves

[@soniakuhumura653]

God is able to restore and He is also able to heal. Just trust and obey ❤

[@nyamwizaagatha5860]

Just pray about it he is answering God he will.

[@Acam-zc3wf]

Oh Agatha, you have a beautiful heart! Clearly you love God and want to honor your church leaders. I am concerned that your church leaders seem more consumed with their ‘processes’ and policies and procedures than the welfare of you as a couple. I hope that you and your fiancé will remember that God is ultimately the redeemer and giver of all good things. Be open to finding another church family. God is working all over the world and is not limited to your church only. Churches are supposed to be communities of fellowship not controlling their congregants all in the name of submitting to church leaders. Open your eyes and see what is happening dear. You can always find a place to minister but finding the right life partner is not a walk in the park, especially since yours also seems to love God as well. Good luck.🙏🏾

[@Acam-zc3wf]

@AgathaWandeka see post above

[@rhonaagaba4218]

Thank you Sonia & Cadilux for sharing your journey, it’s really inspirational 💕

[@LisaKusiima]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@fortheyoung1320]

I really like Sonia’s spirit. God bless this couple

[@winniewixakiror]

Lord bless these happy souls.. For you to share this you have no idea how many hearts you touching. My first time on this channel and now I have a reason to subscribe

[@oduochagodwin6391]

Similar case with Mine..But the grace of God is sufficient.we have a young toddler

[@lynndakay]

It’s been nice watching a couple I know ! Cadilux is an amazing Person ? Thank you for the show ! 😊

[@shamelesstumuhaise3364]

We all needed this episode. Thank you

[@Hellen802]

Lisa host these people again. What a honest story

[@LisaKusiima]

Thanks

[@simonkine]

Wowwwwwww, the secret marriage of our parents is soooooo relatable, I guess understanding and getting to know the woman's family too is oba expedient, am surely noting what to looooookkkk at intricately✍️✍️✍️

[@ellaeduke6418]

So happy believers are becoming more open with their struggle with sexual purity. Alir of married people in church makes it look like they don't struggle or didn't struggle in that area! Thank you for such vulnerability.

[@LisaKusiima]

So many are struggling

[@joshuakisakye201]

Woooo, I am inspired, Cadilux is my OB, and I am blessed hearing this true story.

[@LisaKusiima]

Wonderful!

[@orishabafranklineisabelah5144]

Honestly i fear dating a guy am older than😂😂😂. But am glad that i got this channel.

[@Flourish_today]

What is the reason for your fear? I am always curious to know why ladies are afraid to date a guy who is even 2 years younger

[@hadijahnakaweesi5460]

Me too but I respect their decision

[@namakulajoan6086]

Me to. And I was once in the dilemma and didn’t what to do because everyone around us where against it

[@banlabenadine6314]

Mine is even 8months😂 yet i fear though I would date my age mate

[@Kshanice25]

Lisa you are glowing ❤❤❤

[@LisaKusiima]

☺️☺️

[@imacayebazibwe6412]

Truly inspired. The lady is so cool

[@Victoria-qr4xr]

wow this was a beautiful conversation👏🏾👏🏾

[@WendyPaulaAtim-cf1gy]

Very beautiful indeed...thanks Lisa for hosting the Nyekorach's 🍾🍾to countless years of a blissful Christ-centred marriage for Cadilux&,Sonia❤❤

[@LisaKusiima]

Amen

[@mediusteriyeitu1653]

4 years gap is so small, such a beautiful couple!❤❤❤

[@barbraayesiga2036]

Wow Lisa God bless you for bringing in such conversations, this story is almost similar to mine, but i thank God we are making 4 years in our marriage.

[@LisaKusiima]

Thank you for watching

[@macklinel.nbuhungiro5894]

what a humorous couple... Their Joy/vibe surely rubs on people around them. i love them. ❤❤❤❤

[@LisaKusiima]

They are so fun

[@cpkm5425]

Such a message of hope what Cardi said "you can be so broken and God can turn it around and you become a good man"

[@perrywambui8954]

Wow, what an inspiration... Thanks Lisa for this... I'm encouraged.

[@LisaKusiima]

So glad!

[@nabukenyadianamasengere391]

It doesn’t have to start beautiful always 😊😊❤

[@kabagyeniphionah448]

I love the guy's name 😊... So unique ... And ohhh their story is beautiful. Thanks Lisa for bringing them

[@LisaKusiima]

Thanks for watching

[@ckks0nyoutube]

Lisa Kusima, you are on fire, this love month, hmmmm! We are blessed Congs, to the Nyekorach’s, they went against the grain, and are winning!

[@LisaKusiima]

Thank you!!!

[@priscillakange237]

This is so insightful way to go Sonia and Cadilux

[@hildaninsiima2506]

This couple is so unique you can see it through their eyes . God bless them ❤

[@LisaKusiima]

😍😍😍

[@peaceolive1450]

Sonia is amazing..

[@nanderabarbra724]

We need one for an inter-religious couple

[@ndulaottance7297]

Nice piece of encouragement. I have and believe everything will be ok with me

[@melissahngosa1287]

Wow so so beautifully orchestrated.. It doesn't always start all rosy, but this was worthy it. God bless you guys i had a lot of lessons to learn and to unlearn some things ❤

[@LisaKusiima]

The lessons are beautiful

[@joelnabimanya]

I love to see Ugandan KZbinrs succeed. 30k here we come.

[@LisaKusiima]

Here we come whoop

[@JulzJewel]

Me too supporting our own gives me life

[@greatstar3866]

Wow❤ I've really learnt alot. Thank you Lisa for the guests. Very honest couple with an inspiring story. Thanks again.

[@LisaKusiima]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@nabukenyadianamasengere391]

Thank you so much Lisa May God bless you

[@jescaineza7811]

Lisa, thank you for hosting them bambii

[@cyrusdavid5492]

Wow, God, make me a vessel. This is such a couple 👭 May the Lord continue working in, with and for you 🤝

[@LisaKusiima]

👐

[@Kshanice25]

Am jus a few minutes in and this is legit... So. Many differences but love wins❤. Thanks Lisa for bringing this amazing couple 👫

[@LisaKusiima]

Thanks for watching

[@D-Artistry256]

Rushed here from tiktok

[@estherkisaakye1959]

Same😂

[@mourinieenatukunda]

Indeed marriage is redeemable...Thank you LISA .we re learning.

[@LisaKusiima]

I’m so glad

[@daphneoboth9846]

Thank you for sharing your story Our friends Cadi n Sonia. .

[@roseatukunda]

Well.done Lisa. Keep.moving

[@marionsenkomago8269]

Very inspiring story, i love the commitment,honesty and humour ' 100,000# yaka for year..yah..that's how small the house was'😂😂😂thankyou for a lovely episode Lisa!

[@LisaKusiima]

You are welcome 🤗

[@tukahirwabrendah8055]

We have learnt a lot Bambi . God bless

[@mercynamara5045]

What a beautiful story! Sonia is amazing

[@Convention-yw7nb]

Incredible. Thank you for an excellent episode, the Lord bless and keep you!

[@LisaKusiima]

Amen amen

[@mercyimusalaba6320]

I have loved 🥰 this episode so much !! Such a beautiful journey and inspiring 🙏 thank you Lisa , please invite them again

[@LisaKusiima]

So glad!

[@perrywambui8954]

I bumped onto your channel and lm glad l did... Great stuff here

[@LisaKusiima]

Welcome aboard!

[@patriciaayebare2919]

I have been blessed, thank you for this episode Lisa. Blessings to the Nyekos 🙏

[@serahtrillionaire832]

Wonderful story, so inspiring ❤