THIS IS WHY YOUR 4C HAIR ISN'T CURLING AND HOW TO FIX IT!

[@RalOnyes]

Hey babes! For everyone that requested a Makeup Tutorial on the look from this video, your wish is my command so here it is! I hope you enjoy it ! xo kzbin.info/www/bejne/hV7JeaSeoruSkKc PS: How I maintain the hair throughout the week is also coming right up next weekend so watch this space!

[@oneiceb5974]

Thank you so much love!

[@mumickydee6968]

Wat is 4c hair

[@oneiceb5974]

mumicky Dee really kinky curly hair

[@mumickydee6968]

@@oneiceb5974 thank u very much

[@nancypenlope8679]

Loveglam you are using too much speed how are we gonna be able for learn

[@_roqui_]

I'm I the only one getting dark chocolate Eva Marcelle? The voice, that beat face but that extra dose of melanin! Stunning woman, great video ❤

[@RalOnyes]

Roquell Millington omg you’re sweet !! She’s gorgeous !! So I’ll take it haha! xx Thanks so much !!

[@tirisbarney171]

@roquellmillington I was looking at her thinking the exact same thing, she resembles and sounds like Eva Marcelle wrapped in BEAUTIFUL chocolate! I ABSOLUTELY love and appreciate this tutorial! TFS! @loveglam Can you do a makeup tutorial, yours is Flawless! ❤

[@DeiHarper9361]

I couldn't remember who she reminded me of until seeing your comment..

[@jennibell9103]

I went back and yes she is the really brown version of Eva. Beautiful she is.

[@Kimarry223]

I totally agree.

[@omoshalewababy]

Everyone’s complaining about the time it took. Y’all sit for 3-5 hours for your lashes lol , this is beautiful ! Go gehl !!!

[@msjrene35]

Yes!!!!!!!

[@KushhRoll]

LMFAOOOO, the girls are silent 😂

[@cillapemberton5306]

😳😳😳 people do that?

[@emmat3531]

It's not long if you play a video, podcast, audiobook, etc. Most people spend more time than that doom scrolling.

[@katbrax8622]

I love it when we sisters come together and give each other props.

[@josephinegondwe8590]

yasss I love the " we cannot just do the wash and go as 4C girls" that is so true! patience is key!! thanks for this tutorial

[@bobleft-foot]

My hair is not this curly... actually wondering if I’m 5c

[@Tish-99]

Tonee Shelton moisture moisture moisture I do LCO method I wash it while its cornrowed style 1 braid at a time or just leave it alone and spray it like a chia pet when I wear my wig

[@nicoburton9226]

She finger coiled her hair thats not curls. Her hair seems to be straight no curl. Just a different texture. What I have learnt if you do not have naturally curly hair is not easy getting curls by using products. what the products do is to define the curls - meaning when you wash your hair it has a certain curly pattern when you apply the curling products it helps to keep those natural curls in tact and not have them getting loose and frizzy. I think by now people would have an understanding that the products do not make non curly hair into curly hair...

[@mianaomipost9885]

Keep moisturizing maybe get a steamer

[@RalOnyes]

Nico Burton I’m sure people are gaining an understanding of that now 😊 All great points though !!

[@RalOnyes]

dandilyonz cassandra very true ! All good points !! This is my second big chop so defs have a 4C texture when it’s grown out 😊

[@lorrainejohnson3595]

This is absolutely gorgeous! I am truly blessed that I found your video. I am 60 yrs old and had shoulder length relaxed 4c hair. Did the big chop in April 2018 then again a couple of months later. I said omg what have I done! It has been a struggle because I've been relaxing since I was 16 but young lady you have saved me! I love your hair which is just like mine. Now I can try this and I know it will turn out beautiful. Thank you again queen!

[@RalOnyes]

This makes me really really happy!! Bless your heart my love!! I hope you tried it and your curls came out ON AND POPPING!! :) xxo

[@arnerysgonzaescalzadilla1312]

Hola. Tengo 53 años y apenas inicio mi transicion. Con la duda a esta edad aun crece??? Saludos

[@kw0304]

Hair is cute Sis..... Finally a for real 4c. A lot of these Sistas are 3b,4b claiming their hair is 4c and the products they use don't work in 4c

[@winniewalker4402]

I think I might be 4c but how do you know, my hair looks a lot like yours and ive done this style less the part.

[@manniem2488]

@@winniewalker4402 dry hair gets confused for 4C all the time. When your hair is wet with water, that’s your natural pattern. When my hair is wet it has zero definition, I have 4C hair.

[@hakishyamallory5034]

I’m learning this as i take the natural journey you have to get products that’s for your hair texture

[@joycedabiel5174]

Or maybe they relaxed it little bit

[@ThePamelaJordan]

So... your curls are popping...BUT!!! Honey... your makeup is the Hollywood 🌟 of this video!

[@RalOnyes]

You're sooo sweet! You inspired the title of the makeup look btw! I just uploaded a tutorial now on the look. Check it out kzbin.info/www/bejne/hV7JeaSeoruSkKc

[@deborahsakyi-djan4197]

Is high time we blacks start slaying our Afro . We’re fearfully and wonderfully made

[@mabella4679]

I rock mine and lovin it!

[@cxdubose5]

I've been watching lots of videos and I regret not going natural the last time I had my hair cut SUPER SHORT but I'm about to cut it hunny!! My daughter been natural for 2 years and when I say her hair is long and LIFE!!

[@majesticallymade6177]

Amen!!!!

[@LGnLA]

🗣🗣🗣🗣💯 I was rocking mine, but it got too long (well big lol)... so back to Locs I went!

[@LGnLA]

@Bubble Buster "some"

[@tiarhanoghenejode]

You are a lifesaver! I have 4C hair and never really knew what to do with it. It literarilly took me 1h30mins to complete this look and it came out great! Thanks Loveglam

[@meganmclean3270]

Hello! Thank you for being honest about the REAL process in doing 4C hair. My hair would never turn out the way I wanted it to and I would be so fustrated. But I learned so much about how to care for my hair! I hope to see more hair videos soon! 💋

[@RalOnyes]

Aww this makes me happy to read! Sooo glad you found it helpful! You got this sis☺️

[@deloisballard9014]

This is the first time I have seen a 4c hair blogger define the curls like this. When I first went natural, I needed this information. It took me 8 months to figure out how define my 4c hair. When started using Kinky Kurly Curling Custard my curls were defined and moisturized. I totally agree with your tips because I do the same thing but with different products.

[@RalOnyes]

Delois Ballard girl you’re I love kinky murky too !! I used to use it here and there! I’m glad we have similar tips ☺️

[@rokeishiarodgers7205]

Random comment and not sure if you will see this, but I just cut my hair today (4/23/2020) - Yes I cut it during Quarentine- and I was excited and I still am! I have a short TWA like you do in this video. And I kept looking at myself in the mirror like "Do I look ugly" but I came across this video because I want to grow my natural hair out and looking at your face structure, it's kinda similar to mines haha and you look absolutely beautiful! And I promise I just got a boost of confidence just seeing how you rocking this style and your makeup! And I was like..okay yes I can make this work! lol Hope my hair grows better this time!

[@SagittariusChic888]

Lady, I just cut mine too!! This coronavirus gonna having everyone coming out with a different hair style🤣🤣

[@RalOnyes]

Babygirl I sure saw this comment and it warmed my heart! You are beautiful and I can't wait to see how you're rocking your beautiful new cut! DM me a pic on IG!! ❤️

[@RalOnyes]

@@SagittariusChic888 Facts lol!

[@michellecbonner7134]

I feel you! I did a big chop and went natural just before COVID-19. I felt ugly for so long and I still sometimes struggle with finding beauty in the mirror. However, I know I am still the same person and you are too. Hang in there girl! Give your brain time to catch up with your new look and you will see the beauty again!

[@ListensInMich]

Ma'am!!! I cut my hair about a month ago, because of quarantine and the "why the hell not"... And I'm struggling with the "am I cute?" This video help me so much. I will be cutting up some t-shirts and over wetting my hair when I style. I love the tips! I cannot wait to get up in the morning and utilize these suggestions.

[@lexdavis030]

Coming from a 4C male I appreciate this because this is my 4C I see a lot of people say they have 4C but their hair isn’t nearly this level of kinky. Far be it from me to tell them that they aren’t 4C but either way this is what I deal with so it’s nice to see a real video from someone with 4C hair like mine

[@elizabethwashington5298]

Love the before and after hair textures...I like that my hair can be transformed into what I want...curly, puffy, afro, semi-curly, kinky...versatility is a blessing, but patience is the key! Thanks for sharing...your make-up is flawless too!

[@staceyannsolomon2551]

Finally someone who shows the reality in getting your curls. Thanks for making mention that it takes a little time🥰

[@RalOnyes]

It's my pleasure love! I feel you and made sure to show it because a lot of ppl don't! xo!

[@honibear6478]

I’m guilty of the “hands on” addiction. I’ve played in my hair for as long as I can remember (66 yrs now). And I didn’t know that natural hair would take so much time/work. I should have known since our hair IS special and delicate.

[@RaissaHeidi]

Wow for me it's different. I used to lose a lot of time on my relaxed hair and now I only style my hair twice a week, I feel blessed hahah

[@maureengannaway8635]

Its 2020 and I went natural finally in 2016. It's so so so much work. I get my hair in a protective style and leave it for months until it Matt's up washing , twisting, buying products omg! I feel like I'm taking care of a baby or a pet.

[@Q.T-T]

I love fidgeting with and playing in my hair. Straight haired people really are missing out..

[@lynettej777]

Thank You, Thank You, Thank You!!! I'm a newbie for styling my natural hair, ~1.5 years. I'm was one of those people who use to pay for someone to style my hair. GOODNESS, who knew it would take SO LONG to do my hair? After watching your videos and taking your advice, I'm now more accepting and patient for the time it takes to perform, what I originally THOUGHT to be difficult. I've learned that the quantity (time to style) yields a much better quality (longer lasting style). I've gone from my style lasting 2-3 days to lasting 6-7 days! Thanks again. 😆

[@KylieJenner2]

This is the first time I've ever felt genuinely excited to try a new product and technique because nothing really works for me and now I see a reason why❤❤❤

[@donna-mariegyles9771]

Thank you so much, girl! I am by far not hair savvy. I have 4C hair and I am just growing my hair out of a really low big chop. I had no idea what to do with it. Today, I am rocking my curls that you taught me to do from this video. My next challenge for myself is to braid my hair, which I will use your tutorial to help me do. I feel so excited to see that I am actually capable of doing my own hair! Thank you again. Your video was like a 4C video for dummies. God bless you.

[@RalOnyes]

Aww this comment just warmed my heart !! So glad I was able to help my love ! You got this! Enjoy your curls and then your braids when you do end up doing them! xo

[@MsStacyYvonne]

I'm sloooowwwlly accepting the fact that I'm going to have to take the time and patience to do this if I want my FRIZZY high porosity hair to be defined like this. I used to take the time when I had a twa but then my hair got long and I got lazy smh.

[@RalOnyes]

MsStacyYvonne girlllll I know the feeling !! That was me too when my hair got longer ! Hence the second chop lol ! But this time around I’m promising myself to have the patience to do this ! You can too! You got this!!

[@5x7m]

I have high porosity hair too but for me damp and not dripping wet hair and curl custard with a little gel works well.

[@mamaedina1]

If you have that much frizz and high porosity your cuticles need to heal, that ia your hair. Protein oils, coconut, black castor, shea butter and NATURAL henna powder. You can heal the hair.

[@carfrz]

@@mamaedina1 we dddfiofpff

[@carfrz]

@@mamaedina1 44r up c b. Vj n v9

[@melissaj6322]

Natural hair KZbin videos aren't what they use to be. I am so glad you still have this video up. I've been growing out my tapered cut and my go to wash and go routine stop hitting. My curls are popping. Thank you for the tips, I love my hair 😍

[@veronicamays5687]

Your hair is beautiful. I just did my fifth big chop (it's been about four years since the last one.) This time I was getting rid of red dye because my grays kept insisting on reappearing. I needed this reminder of what to do with my short hair while it grows! Thank you.

[@RalOnyes]

You are so welcome love ! Welcome to the short hair club! 😊

[@marciacole8647]

I got my big chop 2 days ago and was slowly panicking as to how to define my 4c fine strand high porosity high density hair... This helped me so much!! And your hair is bomb 😍 subscribed! ✅

[@tifftreads]

You're so pretty. You also look like Ledisi. Love your look and much love to you. 🥰

[@simmywilliams6892]

Trust me ..u r the only person I have seen so far representing us natural hair gurl... thst dont mix ...some ppl b like I wake up n wash n rub some cteam.it curl n them.gone..nothing nuh guh suh...thank u lovelyglam

[@MsDavis-qp7cc]

Girl do tutorial on that make up

[@RalOnyes]

blaccat mom coming right up ☺️😊💕 Watch the space !!

[@JonNeice1]

Yes!!

[@sharonsewell3380]

Please do a video on the makeup!

[@RalOnyes]

You asked for it and you got it babes ! Here's the Tutorial on the makeup, hope you enjoy it xo : kzbin.info/www/bejne/hV7JeaSeoruSkKc

[@samuelettahumphrey396]

Totally! Her makeup is everything!

[@MsBlackdiamond65]

Thank you for the 4c hair tips .I agree you need to have patience to get the best results. That's just life.

[@trishb.468]

I came to watch your routine but was captivated by your smile... what a beautiful smile you have!

[@RalOnyes]

Trish B. Aww you’re sweet! Thank you love ♥️

[@dawnbowman4612]

THANK YOU!!! I have 4a-4b hair. I can always see my curls when I wash it but its a little straighter in the front. It's fine, thin, soft, and I don't have an abundance of strands on my head. Not a great combination. I'm 61 and Babeee when I say my curls are popping now because of you it's an understatement. 4a, b, c, d, whatever you want to call it this teaching works. I also got compliments. They thought I used rods. I did what you said, but I used what I had in my house available to me at the time instead (kinky curlly curling custard). I did use the cantu also. The struggle is so real for some of us. I'm so so happy 😊 and love ❤ my hair now. Looking for the next video on how to maintain it. This video may have been 5 or 6 years ago, but it is still so relevant for us women today. 🙏🏾 for you.

[@noirnrougenuit9743]

I want the curls but I don't care enough to go through another hour of separating and spraying. The 45 mins. in the shower, washing myself and my hair is enough time used. Good bless you women who put in the time to separate 1/2 inch sections and spray with water, etc. I now accept for me that a low afro is the way to go. I finally figured this out. Wow.

[@RalOnyes]

Haha! That works too girl !! Rock your Afro ! I do that sometimes too!! 😊

[@nicolerichardson1080]

I'll be honest...I have NEVER seen a video basically explain how 4c gets curls...I have done texturizers, perms (aaaand then wash it that day lol), blowout, twist out (which doesn't look like these long haired ladies), aaaand nothing looked like your curls. It NEVER crossed my mind to even try actually curling it with my fingers! I was gonna try a texlax like today until this video so I may try this for a few weeks... thank you soooo much for your video! It means the WORLD to me!!

[@mianaomipost9885]

These are finger coils. That's a different technique than natural curl defining. Your hair is really pretty though. Moisture is the key to any curly hair.

[@RalOnyes]

MiaNaomi Post I agree ! Moisture is the key 🙌🏾 Glad you enjoyed the video love !! xx

[@Ask14922]

Glad I scrolled through comments. This are fingercoils I thought maybe they would be natural curl forming. Wanted to know for my DD. Great video though.

[@MissLolaElle]

Well, thats what a lot of “wash and go’s” are, except they call it “shingling” which is pretty much the same as finger curling. So basically the STYLE/LOOK is a wash and go but it’s achieved by a shingling/finger coil technique for most 4b and 4c hair....and even some 4a types do it too!

[@brwnsugarish]

@@RalOnyes yes also deep conditioning once per week will moisturize and cause better absorption of products

[@gailmullins434]

@@brwnsugarish and this is the part that I think many of us skip or half do, with the conditioners, I am seeing young girls with damaged broken hair but more than likely they aren't conditioning first, just like all foundations to grow, it must be nourished...

[@charlineking519]

I loved this video! The emphasis on patience and time is so brilliant and exactly what we 4c naturals have to understand. It takes patience and more patience. Thanks so much for this. Enjoyed it so much!

[@Nzingathegem]

My hair is 4c. I do not dry my hair at all after rinsing out the conditioner. Also, I rake my curling product through my hair and my curls pop.

[@RalOnyes]

Nzinga that’s awesome babe 🙌🏾! It’s called the shingling method. Glad it works for you. I do that as well when my hair is longer. But finger coiling I find works best for my hair whilst short.

[@missionrestopia]

Nzinga what curling products do you use please?

[@jladylove1]

@@RalOnyes What's the shingling method. My hair is long soft and not curls.

[@te2186]

Loveglam what product do you use when you do the shingling method?

[@amandas3715]

Same

[@TommieGirlsWorld]

Thank you so much for this video. I had been doing everything to get my curls poppin. Finally..... defined curls.. So many compliments as well. You are wonderful.

[@Cmisah]

Finding the right products to work in your hair is a task. Eco styling gel is cute, but my hair laughs at it in my face 🤣. I'm going to try the Aunt Jackie's gelee. Thanks for this video

[@laurenr.9409]

Cmisah right. Real cute and real glittery like dang...

[@elainelaws3698]

Try Miss Jessie's hair products

[@iateyursandwiches]

Have you tried layering products that work together? Curling cream/butter and eco styler/wetline?

[@Cmisah]

@@iateyursandwiches I started doing that and got better results. But some products work better than others for me

[@KushhRoll]

IT QUACKS 😂😂😂😂 laughing is cute

[@bridgettolbert2984]

Ok…just finding this video and I can’t tell you how grateful I am! First time being natural since I was 5 yrs old and had no idea of what products to use after the big chop”. Curls are poppin now! Thank you!

[@33ladyRAM]

I'm starting my transition and I think all you ladies are beautiful and wonderful for sharing your experiences and helping many of us learn how to have healthier hair :). Great video love

[@RalOnyes]

This means soo much! Thank you soo much love and I am soo glad to be able to help :) Happy transitioning babes! xo

[@DrVenusOpalReese]

This has been VERY helpful!! I just bought the jelly but didn’t know how to use it. And you are right, I wasn’t being patient. I saw other ladies just put product in their hair and the curls would pop. But I am a 4c-4d woman. I have to put the time in. And I have to use a tee shirt. And I have to keep my hands out of my hair. Thank you!!!

[@RalOnyes]

These realizations just made me sooo happy to read !! You’re well on your way to having those curls popping in no time sis !! You got this!😍

[@allnyte1010]

I’m a 4C low porosity girl. Try the Rhassoul clay to define and soften your curls. For really dry hair I used an avocado, one egg yolk, mayo and honey. I was quite impressed with the moisture and curls. Let me know if you try either one.

[@RalOnyes]

I definitely will be trying this out ! Cuz the middle of my hair tends to get really dry !! Thank you !😊

[@florapoole6437]

I'm new at this I just did the big chop after being loc for 25yrs,and I found out I have 4c hair I was so glad to find you thru my stroll for help I found a true friend that seems to understand my hair thank you 💕💕

[@legs7148]

did the big CHOP, Bleached it and it broke all off (Lesson Learned!) natural now, learning to define my curls and look adult like with this new curly dooooo! watched you, have great ideas now. Thank you♥

[@christinejones7226]

Thanks for the t shirt advice for drying my hair instead of a towel. I will discontinue using the towel and love your video. One more question how can you tell what's the texture of your hair

[@symanthaparker1453]

You are the first person to break this down for me! I will be trying this on my next wash day. Wish me patience 🤞🏾

[@wellbodymindllc-lydiaa.7189]

I have to say I've watched many videos on how to really define my curls, with my 4C hair and your video is the only one that made it simple and clear and easy to understand what to do. I tried it last night and today my curls were WELL DEFINED and poppin!! And, they lasted all day. Finally no frizz!! Thank you thank you!! You are amazing and your tutorial saved me! Cause I was slowly giving up. 😁😁

[@Momo74153]

Okay so Im sitting and typing this message having done the curls and waiting to set. Im from South Africa where when we say 4c we actually mean 5B. My hair is course with massive schrinkage and is not thick at all. My hair has been through braids, relaxer, colouring and self hater-aid but I know my curls are going to see the promised land. So glad to see REAL 4c. I must admit Ive had to change my diet, drink lots of water and take vitamins to just get to the point where I actually see curls. Wish me luck and thank you so much for your amazing work. Stay gorgeous!!!! ps. gonna try this on my many nieces and nephews so their hair can be poppin cause no parent has time for hair and im single. Share some ideas for little ones with 4c and very soft hair.

[@ndukumusyoki9835]

I feel you. From Kenya here. Had 10 year locs till today when I did the big chop. Clueless where to start with short '5B' hair .... but now excited. Been trolling youtube for a while to get ideas. Good luck to you too.

[@Momo74153]

@@ndukumusyoki9835 I been looking around and it seems due to the intense shrinkage you must first blow dry the hair a bit just to lengthen. You must also use a super strong hair gel (or mouse if your hair lacks volume).

[@ndukumusyoki9835]

@@Momo74153 Thanks for advice. Going to shop for some products this week. Good luck too.

[@islandgirl5382]

Yes, your Beauty, Honesty, Delivery is perfect!!! Thank You for sharing; Yes do a video on the makeup!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@RalOnyes]

Island Girl legit the sweetest comment !! Thank you soo soo much hun and it makes me so happy that you received it as that ! And don’t worry makeup tutorial is coming right up ☺️😊

[@datchick365]

The coconut may be too heavy for your hair. Normally if a product just sits it’s not penetrating, I had to move to a lighter oil Argan and almond work best for me also not styling on soaking wet hair, I am low porosity 4c. The struggle is real. Yours looks great.

[@RalOnyes]

Veronica Smith yeah coconut tends to be too heavy for low porosity but this one works for me compared to others ! I also use lighter oils too here and there. And girl I feel you on the struggle 😩

[@msjrene35]

YOU LITERALLY JUST SAVE ME!! THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO!!!! MY CURLS ARE LOOKING BEAUTIFUL!!! THANK YOU!! I USE AFRICAN ROYAL BRAID SPRAY TO KEEP my hair moisturized. I've been using it for almost 20 years!!!

[@busyrand]

Outstanding video! I appreciate how frank you where about investing the hour it takes to complete this look. I've had close female friends across the rainbow of race/ethnicities as a photographer who deals with models. All of them spend at least 1-3hrs a week on their hair routine. It's just part of their feminine lifestyle. If you can't/don't then you have to question whether you are serious about wanting nice hair. If you don't think you're worth 1-3hrs a week, then you need to examine things. The time passes regardless.

[@yoursisesthermeya]

I have depression and sometimes struggle to even get out of bed but trying to look after my hair more x

[@taneishaevans25]

I just cut my hair and it feels good. It's been over 20 years I havent wore my natural hair out bcuz it's been hard. I'm learning from you...Thank you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@princexl2783]

Interesting. It's literally IMPOSSIBLE for 4C hair not to curl. If anything, it curls too damn much lol

[@redcardinal4]

It curls but after it dries it loses the curl, that's where water and product come in to hold the pattern.

[@jacquelinelowery5589]

Thank you!

[@princexl2783]

@@redcardinal4 if 4C hair ever lost its curl after it dried, it could never be 4C. Our hair is never NOT curly lol.

[@jacquelinelowery5589]

@@redcardinal4 it loses the definition, not the curl; the curl will always be there unless you relax it or straighten it.

[@iona5439]

Prince XL I have 4c when it goes dry it looks more frizzy than curly.

[@nj7068]

started growing my hair out recently. thank you for actually going into this. it seems simple now that i've watched it, but many other videos weren't as clear as you are. thank you.

[@mcormick41]

What color and brand lip stick are you wearing? Because you are wearing it!!😀

[@RalOnyes]

Julie b haha! Thanks girl !! It’s Kat Von D - Damned 😊

[@RealGRRRLz69]

@Loveglam Your lips gave me a flashback. There was a shade that looked like that Back in the Day by Ultra Sheen Cosmetics called Basin Street Brown. That is what I saw when I saw your lips! LOL!!

[@michellecbonner7134]

Yes, Girl! It takes an hour more or less to finger curl your whole head. And yes, ain't nobody got time for that! But...how much time does it take to go the the hairdresser? Priorities ladies! Save that money and follow this sister's advice! She is so spot on. After all that work you think you deserve to enjoy your masterpiece by running your hands through it and feeling that curl definition, right?! No, no, no! Keep your hands out of your hair! With a little restraint and a satin bonnet for sleeping, you can literally look great for a whole week ladies. Listen to my girl Loveglam! So, so, glad I found you today!! Thank you for posting this!

[@RalOnyes]

Yesss girl ! This comment just made my day! Glad you enjoyed the video and took some gems from it🤎

[@may_may675]

Very helpful! I haven’t defined my curls yet but totally confident in trying after watching your video! Many thanks xx

[@J.S.S.curliergirlie]

Thank you so much for making this video! I've been freaking out trying to get my hair together and now I know exactly what I was doing wrong thank you so much ❤

[@BookNerdFree]

This is a great video for 4c girls! I big chopped a week ago and to say I’m struggling is and understatement. I definitely have to develop the patience to do a wash n go! Which other youtubers make it seem so easy.... thank you for your honesty!

[@RalOnyes]

This means a lot to me! Thanks so much for receiving the honesty! It’s the reality of things but the end product makes it all worth it 😍😍

[@rachellsmith9517]

Gm. oh my, I was sick of wearing crochet styles and wraps with the summer coming plus I’m menopausal and I wanted something light to wear for the summer so I KZbin search for styles of short natural hair styles and of all the ones I viewed yours the the best for me to a T. Every thing you said and showed me, all the tips what to do and yes the wrap coming off through the night (lol) you were describing me, thank you soooo much for helping me and my hair, many blessings

[@Lowkeyy222]

I just cut my hair ! And I’m glad I found your channel, my cut is almost exactly like yours

[@TeeDee215]

My hair is very curly, and I can’t wait to try this! Now I see that I’ve literally been doing everything wrong lol. This is the best video. Brought it all together perfectly! Thank you ☺️

[@seab634]

I stated using that chebe butter on my hair last week, and its growing already

[@ef1636]

Great video; and I’ve definitely learnt some tips from you . Thank you. The only thing I would suggest is not to dry the water off. I haven’t dried my 4c hair for about 9 months when doing a wash n go. I also wash it every 1-2 weeks so my hair is now well hydrated. My curls pop easily now because I’ve been doing this. Like you say the more wet your hair is the better. Thanks for sharing x

[@vandayshataylor777]

I’m literally taking notes in my hair journal for real for real❤️

[@phedoraj]

I am so nervous sometimes about wearing my natural hair since I don't know what I am doing. Your video gave me confidence. I am going out to buy the gelée that works wonderfully in your hair...so pretty! Thank you!

[@Vferrell83]

I really do love you talk all of us through this. I'm not a 4c but, I watched this because you're very motivating, and are actually teaching. Keep it up sis!

[@j.m-a4211]

This video is dope! I love the sidebar concept! I have 4C, low porosity, low density, thin width hair so this video is like the blue print. I've had some form of loc'd hair all my life and I did another big chop recently, but I'm not planning to regrow locs again. I am literally starting from scratch. I starting doing my hair in the shower, and sitting under a dryer everyday; and it's tedious but my hair has never looked so healthy. I had no idea how beautiful my 4C COILS are before now. I love them!

[@bylyn9846]

Long aid gel is moisture mix with eco for hold. Moistening gels mix with a little hold gel. Shingle it dripping wet bomb dot comb wash and gp.

[@RalOnyes]

Thank you!

[@jovanrund]

I'm 42 years old and this video literally turned on a light bulb for me about my own hair. Thank you!

[@NataBme]

I will sit my tail down to achieve this definition. This is a great video. My only queston is, how do you maintain this for a week?

[@delorasledge2492]

My hair is shoulder length and I've had mine in for 2 weeks. I put then up in loose balls at night, let them lose b4 I shower so they absorb steam, I oil, fluff and they're gorgeous. My son's hair is the length of hers, he does the same thing. ..minus the ponytails and they're just as nice, I retwist his monthly. He washes them weekly.

[@LGnLA]

Bonnet hair... and then let the shower steam (not full water wet, unless you're washing it) your hair, fluff & pat w/oil and go!!

[@bettyannmensah6416]

LOOOVE IT. I have 4C hair too and I’ve had it 1-3 inches short for about 5 years now but I finally decided to grow it out so I’ve been here looking for cute hairstyles and I’m glad I came across your video. Thank you so much.!!!!!

[@morgan52204]

You are very pretty! I have 4c hair and I am newly natural!

[@RalOnyes]

Renee Wade aww thank you love ♥️ And welcome to the club Sis, you got this !! I’m here if you have any questions (easily reached via Snapchat) 😊

[@dejahjudah]

Hey! I’m a new youtuber, would you be willing to support me?

[@Yogawithadorah]

Girlllllllllll girl girl girl never have I everrrrrrr had this type of definition I almost passed out I could hug you. I’ve gotta do a video for this. I can’t believe I’ve overlooked aunt Jackie’s. I literally was afraid a gel but now it’s on and poppin 💜.

[@odettelawrence6473]

Precise, to the point, all questions answered, looks fabulous, follow. Thank you love, new fan and follower.

[@RalOnyes]

Aww thank you so much love 💕

[@mitzibrown7775]

I just start going natural about 2 months ago, using some products now a shampoo and conditioner that has been working for my hair. But just found out my hair is a 4c type like yours. So these tips you just showed I will be using, just wanted to see what product you use to start your curls with, my hair Is just like yours now. Thanks for the tips and yes do a makeup video, I like your makeup.

[@sh.27960]

It took you 50 mins? I have 4B hair it takes me about 3.. 4 hours give or take 😭.. yea patience is key ! I only finger coil my hair once a month and I ensure it lasts awhile that’s the best thing about defining my curls !

[@Navajosun]

Thank you for pointing out the need for keeping your hair wet!! I’m about to do the big chop, have my products and thought all I had to do was apply the product.

[@TTSBaby-xs1hq]

So helpful. I have "Hands in Hair Syndrome" bad! Thank you for the awareness.

[@RalOnyes]

Tia McWilliams thank you love !♥️ And girl trust me I have it badddd too! I legit have to talk myself out of it sometimes. And I’m glad you now know so we can fight it together haha😩♥️

[@adjbey]

Same

[@originalmisstee]

I don’t know how I found this video but the fact I was wondering what style I should do in my hair today (my length is similar to yours, did a chop a few months ago). Let me get up and mimic this style. Love it!! Just gorgeous all around. Just a tip for anyone, if your 4c hair isn’t curling with water or conditioner, use the pearly braid out from mane choice. It’s my go to if I want extra defining without any frizz. I don’t always like gel so I only use it sometimes.

[@12sisters1bride7]

LOL!patience.if you straighten,especially at the salon,that's patience.so i figuare if you can take the time to straighten in any way or spend hours at the salon it's a trade off.we are so busy looking at the wrong curls wanting anything than what we have,like black vs white hair.brain washed out of true beauty.great demo 4C!curls poppin!

[@RalOnyes]

12Sisters 1bride well said Sis ! Well said !! Glad you enjoyed the video 😊

[@tammi67able]

It’s because of beautiful natural wearing hair wearing women like you that make me now love my 4c hair, I actually know what to do with it now! Thank you!!!

[@msqtpie2471]

*PLEASE TELL ME WHAT YOU USE ON YOUR HEAD TO PROTECT IT WHEN YOU SLEEP. I'D REALLY, REALLY APPRECIATE IT* Btw.. Your hair came out Beautiful! 😃

[@yvonnelaurenty6427]

Yes please explain more. You say to "wrap" hair at night? With what; and with what technique, material? All I know about wrapping is what they do to processed hair to flatten it around your head so as to get a straight, contoured look in the a.m. This cannot possibly be what you mean. Hair bonnets are too hot for me. Been thinking of trying a fine mesh hairnet????

[@FavDogBisquit]

Hair wraps. A slim hair scarf to wrap. I think that's what she meant

[@VernellAnthony]

Don’t know much about hair types or any of that but somehow I’m here and your accent has me mesmerized.

[@Vargas73B]

Your so beautiful you remind me A bit of Angie Stone💕

[@anjelvs8339]

Your finger curls is nice . But have you tried using the sponge with holes? That technique would have been even less time instead of using your hands.

[@RalOnyes]

Defs gonna give that method a try! Thanks girl ! xo

[@chikondibanda6479]

Great idea... I think I’ll try that too

[@yvonnelaurenty6427]

@LadyE100 I agree. Ladies, she's right. You just have to plan out the time when you wash your hair to add about one hour for the define curls part. I myself have a mixture of 4B and 4C hair. I find that finger twisting after sectioning off my hair into 5 sections, clipping each one down, and then working with one section at a time works best for me. The tip about drying with a tee shirt and using the gel she suggests (not the pudding) is what I have been looking for. I cannot see how the sponge would work for the look I want. IMPORTANT! Still don't get how to "wrap" my hair at night. Please explain further details.

[@lynnemock4497]

Very nice! I used to twist my hair but I like your process much better. The important of water is something underestimated.

[@gb917]

I thought 4c hair is a zigzag pattern and not a curl. My hair must be 4f because NO gel makes it curly. I don't how these other 4c girls manage to do this.

[@stephaniemartin9001]

Yasssss! love it

[@noirfit9721]

Try raw aloe gel from the leaf. It’s the only gel that works for me. Not even eco styler works on my hair. But aloe gel from the real leaf is amazing.

[@gailhopkins5767]

No matter what i do the top of my hair DOES NOT CURL!!!. IT IS THICK , FULL & NAPPY STRAIGHT. VERY FRUSTRATING FOR ME. IT HAS BEEN THIS WAY ALL MY LIFE. THE SIDES , BACK IS VERY TIGHT CURLS. I DONT EVEN HAVE TO OREM TOP .SO STRAIGHT!. THE BACK & SIDE I DO. BEEN WEARING IT NATURAL NOW FOR SOME YEARS AFTER CUTTING OUT THE OERM. I SHOULD NOT HAVE TO DO ALL THIS WORK TO GET THE TOP TO CURL!. IF IT IS 4 C IT SHOULD BE AS REST. GRACE TO ALL. gh

[@Cmisah]

Sigh, I'm with you here. Mine needs some anointing oil to keep a curl

[@sarabernard1979]

We 4c girls need to stop watching videos of 4a/4b women claiming to be 4c. Gives us unrealistic expectations and bad advice.

[@sherrimorgan1116]

Thanks girl that jelli worked wonders on my hair it did last all week and I got alot of compliments on my hair😍

[@sassybrown12868]

Loved this video. Especially because I just cut my locs.. Btw, your make up is gorgeous!

[@RalOnyes]

Maryam Hakam omg locs?!! That must have been hard to let go!! How long did you have your locks for ? And welcome to the club Sis !! Also thank you and glad you enjoyed the video 💕

[@sassybrown12868]

@@RalOnyes Ooh girl i had locs for almost 18yrs...I turned 50yrs old and decided it was time for a new beginning. New energy and new hair. Lol. Thanks for responding back😊😊

[@gktdasme]

@@sassybrown12868 15 years for me . Cut them last year. Have a shirt Doo. Slow growing.. So I'm here to get tips and ideas, and now to find out the color of that 💄. I think the pulling off the loccs damaged some areas of my hair/scalp. But I'm so glad I cut them.

[@gktdasme]

Short*

[@donna-mariegyles9771]

Man. I had locs for 7 years, cut it for a new look when I turned 30 last year and then started growing it back on the anniversary of my cut.

[@thicktoyajenkins9785]

I did this to my hair, this week. It was worth it. But I use the sponge since I did not have a lot of time. I loved it. Thanks

[@RalOnyes]

YASS This makes me sooo happy to hear !! I'm soo glad it worked for you babes :)

[@FITH5795]

Lord knows this is a GREAT IDEA but Ain't nobody got time for that ! 😂😂🤣😂🤣😃

[@ericka-denise]

Tonija D : Exactly!!

[@aynatnsitanla07]

Girl I said the same thing. Goodness.....There should be product that will define your curls.

[@mswtaz94]

Way too much. It’s not curls it’s coils. If you have curls you don’t have to do that much manipulation, it curls up on its own.

[@mswtaz94]

Tanya Walker There are if you have curls. If not, you get texture and shape or can style it.

[@ladyjay5157]

Tonija D 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@rmneilson]

Picture me doing the happy dance! Chopped my locs a year ago, and now what? Where I live it's hard to find specific products. Thank goodness for Amazon. Until my order arrives, I'll play around with some natural products I've made and practice practice practice. Subscribed!

[@lauraw7197]

Your skin is milk chocolate smoothness. ☺Please consider doing a skin care tutorial. Blessings🌸

[@RalOnyes]

Lala Williams omg really? The way my skin have been breakout lately ! I’ll definitely film a skin care routine once I get my skin under control okay? Lol 😊

[@belindadeas1974]

Oh my goodness thank you so much, because I didn't know I had to keep my hair hydrated when I was doing my curls. I'm gonna do it thank you so much for teaching me that. 🌹💯💗👏🏾

[@micheletowers1175]

With the Coronavirus, I can't get my weave! Although I have a wig, I need to try something to hopefully help tame my 4c hair...thank you for the tips!

[@RalOnyes]

GIRL I honestly feeeel you!! You got this!!!

[@tebogomononyane8594]

Oh my gosh! Finally a detailed video on how to define my curls and do finger coils for 4c hair. Thank you sooo much!

[@sophiavan-orgle102]

Just had my big chop & now searching on how to Make my 4C pop👍🏾

[@softness1]

Sophia Van-Orgle Same with me. I did my big chop last night

[@ecksdee4087]

bars

[@RalOnyes]

Ann Barrett ouuu welcome to the club Sis !! You’ll love it !!

[@RalOnyes]

Sophia Van-Orgle you’re at the right place then Sis !! Make it pop 🙌🏾😉🥰

[@ceeceebizzell4110]

Did my chop 4 days ago, love it

[@pip6602]

You are GORGEOUS! Some say you look like Eva. I think more Taraji (Cookie Lyons if she snatch them wigs off and went natural)😍 You are SO right. Sometimes the "old way" is the "best way". Patience!! I've been putting water on my head and slapping Eco Styler gel in and running out the door in the morning & by the end of the work day, it is a dry mess. And if I go the gym after work, FORGET ABOUT IT!🙄 Thank you for reminding me to take my time. Back to Sunday afternoons, after church, in front of the mirror. Thank you for sharing sis!

[@shaylasmith072319]

How did you let it air dry? Like let’s say you went to sleep after defining the curls did you wrap the hair or just let it stay while you sleep

[@RalOnyes]

I usually do it first thing in the morning and then go on with my day so it dries by night time and I wrap it. I have a video on how I maintain the curls on my channel as well. xo!