Kelly Rowland on Sex, Kink, Divorce and Repressed Desires

[@loversbyshan]

LOVERS AND FRIENDS! Help me choose the best part of the episode to share on social media. What was your fav part of the conversation? Timestamp?

[@mayabasquin]

8:01 “GOD I LOVE THIS WOMAN, KEEP TALKING!”

[@mayabasquin]

21:13 when she talks about her husband’s support

[@mayabasquin]

29:58 “why do people need to connect?” And Kelly’s response

[@loversbyshan]

@@mayabasquin SO SO HELPFUL

[@mayabasquin]

46:36 “bust it wide open”

[@MadisonPettway_]

This may be the first time I’ve ever seen something centered around Kelly as an individual. Love her speaking voice

[@TheGClass]

Right?!! She does have a beautiful voice

[@behindthecam5526]

Was thinking the same thing

[@KivaPhakisi]

We need more Kelly content like this❤🎉

[@ADyani6]

💯❤️

[@2013lovemy]

Almost afraid to watch because it angers me when interviewers mention Beyoncé while interviewing Kelly. Please tell me this interviewer didn’t do that 😅

[@SharmonJarmon]

I'm so glad Kelly is taking this press run seriously because the movie was good and she did an incredible job

[@stacyr4768]

Her acting was amazing

[@a.sydney5036]

😂😂😂. That movie was trash as was the HER acting.

[@learnexcelwithSharon]

She acted so well

[@stacyr4768]

@@a.sydney5036 The movie was so predictable and not relatable . I couldn’t even watch the whole thing however Kelly really did well in her acting and she always looks like a model .

[@rockyrae3455]

Art is really subjective because that movie was the worst I have watched in a very long while. The acting was subpar. The plot was inconsistent and incoherent. The dialogue was appalling. It was just awful.

[@kyki8512]

Why does Kelly look so dang gorgeous every time I see her? I love her personal style! Kelly is killing it in the looks department! She's not growing old....... she's just growing to be even more beautiful! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@d.d.p.parker3671]

You would be too with breast nose and wigs

[@mayabasquin]

SHAN our jaws are on the flooooooorrrrrr. It’s Kelly! Get it girl we are PROUD of you. ❤

[@Ouidahh]

What a mf comeback

[@loversbyshan]

RIGHT?! Hoping to have 5 or 6 great episodes out this year until I can get back here full time

[@YanaAnaleah]

Ikr 😂

[@thelovelykimmi7920]

I clicked so fast!

[@miaodii214]

OKAY! My jaw hit the floor while I hit the play button.

[@TivonSanders]

​@@thelovelykimmi7920Same. I was like, "Kelly Rowland and sex talk? I'm in!"

[@sandraatueyi81]

I’m happy that the interview didn’t asked Kelly about Beyoncé in this video. This is about Kelly. I love it!😻 😊

[@d.d.p.parker3671]

She better talk about Beyonce she has nothing else

[@ParisianBreakfast]

But you had to.

[@newleft2254]

@@ParisianBreakfast Exactly. OP doesn't realise what a backhanded comment that is.

[@MsMizz1]

Period!! A potentially raw interview or conversation with Kelly that just centers Kelly as a woman not heavily focused on music or family!! I’m here for it. Excited to watch. Welcome back Shan ❤ lovers & friends.

[@Millzladiva]

I love this interview. As a woman, as a wife, as a mother, I feel like Kelly really let her hair down and you allowed her to be herself and very comfortable. I appreciate every second of this video! Kelly is beautiful to look at, but what is even more beautiful is that she is relatable😊

[@julia-gx9eo]

A SMILE WAS ON MY FACE FOR 55 MINUTES STRAIGHT! you go Shan!

[@debrachosen]

Screamed when I saw the name “Kelly Rowland”. We are ALL rooting for you Shan. Such a win and a breath of fresh air to hear Kelly in this way.

[@IsabelleMN11]

The movie was subpar but Kelly did a great job with what she had. I hope this bring more and better roles for her. Shan you're such a spectacular interviewer. You make people feel at ease and know that their vulnerability can be safe with you. this was such a fun interview

[@MysTaria87]

Agreed. Her experience speaks for itself. The other actors were not believable enough for me with the exception of Trevante Rhodes.

[@healedaries4644]

It’s so much better than a 3-some. That scene was very powerful. The “you know damn well you don’t want her” energy. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@jaz6789]

I have so much respect for Kelly she’s always been so beautiful inside and out

[@stacyr4768]

She was always my fave in the group

[@angeladavis9903]

What a woderful interveiw kelly's gorgeous.

[@roseb.5367]

Thank you for asking her to explain Sensualist... i have struggled for years to explain this. My husband can go the whole day busy doing his thing, then at night, he wants to jump on it😮 Sir, back off...!! Then he'll ask what's going on, bla bla bla... im like - i didn't hear you or feel you around, i don't know you now.... only when he's patient- will we chit chat for a few minutes, then i feel his presence and his voice vibrates in me then that's when i come alive.... 😢 thank God, im not crazy...

[@amaniahcort4636]

Yasss ❤❤❤

[@tiffanymorgan3987]

I FEEL YOU ON THIS TOO. I LOVE MUSIC, CANDLES ARE MY FAV, I LOVE FOR BOTH OF US TO SMELL GOOD, THE WAY A MAN TOUCH YOU IS VERY ENGAGING AS WELL. AS YOU GET OLDER YOU SHOULD WANT MORE INTIMACY...

[@roseb.5367]

@@tiffanymorgan3987 💞💞🙏🏽

[@nikanicole8654]

I felt this so much! I am currently in this space with my spouse and trying to course correct. Maybe explaining Kelly's Sensualist definition and the scenario you described will make my feelings clearer.

[@pauliepraise]

Thank you so much for this.

[@pizzaraia1040]

😲CONGRATULATIONS SHANNNNN!!! This is huge🤗🥺👏🏾

[@ellie4395]

I never knew “this” Kelly! She’s such a good girl and so “soft”. I love how she communicated with her husband post-scenes.

[@with4tt477]

Kelly Rowland to me is PERFECTION!! Effortlessly graceful. Well love a part two cause we must see more of that painting😂😂🤷🏾‍♀️

[@andreavfirst]

*I still see this classy, modest Kelly I can tell despite all the ways Shan tried to ask the question she stayed on the fact that it was uncomfortable for her to do and expose but she wanted to try something new. For some women it is sacred and for just your partner to discuss. Nice to see her try to open up, can't wait to see the movie*

[@TheRaineWay]

🤯 Thee Kelly Rowland X Shan Bodram sitting feet’s away from one another. The child of destiny?? 😮This is everything!!!

[@Kaibyrd1]

ARE YOU BACK?!?! What a fucking WIN! Go Shan!!

[@kareemfofana]

Returning with Kelly Rowland is so mother

[@olikah4667]

❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥❤

[@musicneurons]

I wish you could do this with Taraji. For alll the reasons, this is (imo) the best press stop for mea culpa.

[@bellastar1299]

Omg Taraji would be a GREAT conversation’ yesssss

[@simplyshatice]

I love that this came off more like friends talking than an interview. I love that you let her shine and lifted her up and y’all seemed to have fun. Great interview. Great episode. I will be watching the movie with my boo tonight ❤

[@chelseag5446]

Securing an interview with one of the children of destiny is SUCH AN HONOR. OMG SHAN BABY YOU MADDEEEEEE ITTTTTT!!!!!!

[@raq042189]

I'm legit screaming at my screen!!!!!!This is beyond exciting!!!! THIS IS SOOOOOO MAJOR!!!!!!You go Shan!!! We love you Kelly!!!!!!

[@joycemasusu9890]

4:46 “are you eating gum “? Oh she’s so comfortable and confident just beautiful ,adorable 😍😍😍🥰

[@shatings5605]

This is exactly the type of conversation that kelly needs to be doing for her career.

[@Cayonce]

Thank you for respecting and asking her questions about HER ❤

[@Jammilag]

Kelly simply smiling could brighter my day forreal. Like when Kelly is smiling and giggling and all her pearly whites are showing, 🤩🤩

[@kheriphillip878]

We love Kelly since 1997! So happy she’s being individualized and centered! So happy for the love she’s receiving! She’s deserving of all the success and support. We ❤ Kels!!

[@tavia_b]

You got THEE KELLY ROWLAND!! Can't wait to tune in

[@johnnywilliams6604]

Yes yes yes!! I was looking at my phone like 'I was being trolled. Shan said she was taking a break!' Thank you Kelly for reaching out to Shan and Thank you Shan for this interview!! I'm soo excited!!!

[@asia8910]

Omg! I clicked so fast. Love Kelly and love you girl. The best collab ever. 💞

[@TivonSanders]

This was a much needed listen for me. Kelly was always into sex and sensuality; her music reflects that. Her voice is so silky and smooth and easy to listen to as well and she comes off as a true enthusiast of sex. I loved it! This conversation was even a turn on for me LOL. One of the best aphrodisiacs for sex, is to just discuss it. I'm gonna make it a goal to watch Mea Culpa.

[@bereajohnson8906]

It was a delicious movie!!! 🎨

[@allamericanrevert7755]

Shan I would love to see you talk to sexual health experts who follow a certain religion. I’m Muslim, and there are two sexual health educators like yourself and would love to have their perspective of sex, intimacy and taboo things on a platform as amazing as yours. Thank you for this wonderful interview!

[@jacquereeves6046]

Kelly voice is so soothing. Her speaking voice and her singing voice I hope I'm the first to say she should do a podcast.

[@OmgitsCimira]

SHANNNNN!!! 🥳🥳🥳 yes yes yes! so glad to see you pop back into my notifications, i was literally just thinking about this show

[@rhondarosoboro7874]

YAAAAAAAAAAS! What a necessary, vulnerable convo with my fav MRS. Rowland

[@PhoenixGoddess]

That paint scene was pure Art. The picture at the end should be framed.. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 💜💜

[@NadiaPink]

I am in Czech tonight but I am gonna watch this all the way from Europe yup! Kelly Is Here yasssss!,,,Shan you are our voice, things I wish I could say out loud I get to hear from you! Things I never knew about I get to learn! We love you for this!

[@jen01743]

My mouth dropped! This is amazing Shan!! 😭😭😭 Huge. I’m excited for this.

[@fameekajenkins660]

I absolutely love Kelly Rowland and she doesn’t get near the credit she deserves for her multiple layers of talent. She has one of my favorite R & B voices. She’s always eloquently poised, humble, and absolutely real and down to earth. She remains radiant with age. I pray her future endeavors grant her the level of success and recognition she independently deserves. Shan, congratulations on a wonderful and classy interview. Best success to you as well!

[@Lifewithlove]

Kellly!!!!!!!! Thank you for this interview Shan. Kelly is the UNO❤

[@jasminereese787]

I’m so happy you got to interview her!! You’re such an amazing interviewer!! You know how to carry a conversation as well as create a fun, comfortable safe space to lead to great depths in a conversation! Congrats Shan!!! ❤

[@latishabrown2158]

The way I HOLLERED when she said she wants those who watched the movie for her but are more prudish to be bust wide open...ma'am 😂😂😂😂 I loved everything about this interview!❤ So proud of her for feeling the fear & doing it anyway! Shan, this is my first encounter with your page but your method of engaging with your guests is a breath of fresh air. That ChatGPT answer was spot on!! Thank you for coming back for our beloved Kelly Rowland!!!🎉❤

[@kwaghdooatsehe]

I watched Mea Culpa because of Kelly and for entertainment purposes. Loved it.

[@Luvanmusiq]

YESSS. This has to be my most favorite episode despite it being my first LOL. How can it ever get any better? I will def be watching and buying and doing whatever you say Shan.

[@NJW2628]

I’m so glad you’re back beautiful and you’re interviewing one of my favs Kelly Rowland, yayyy.👑

[@ufomechanic11]

Wow…totally unexpected interview. And absolutely brilliant, great great job interviewing and Kelly looking dashing as ever.

[@marshallmuze]

Clearly Kelly's super power is that she's a humble person at heart. Very rare to find someone that gorgeous that humble.Most people not even half as fine as she is but their pride's through the roof.

[@batabairerobbie844]

Kelly really did an incredible job in that movie. It was my first time watching her act. I credit her,no matter what the haters are writing.

[@JoJo-el4st]

That movie made me see Kelly in a new light and truly see the talent outside of her as "just" being a singer. She is TALENTED!!!!! Loved the movie!!!! She did an amazing job!! ❤❤❤

[@lisapowell2333]

Kelly’s voice is so smooth & beautiful it has a way about it love it. Kelly you are beyond beautiful and your smile is so brilliant! ✨

[@jannieorange6110]

So excited Kelly brought you out of hiatus!!!

[@Reeses710]

Yesssss, Shan ALWAYS comes through with the raw, transparent conversation that keeps us on the edge of our seats!! Yes, that scene just escalated everything that followed, lol!! It's Trevante's voice that sets the tone for it all though.... as usual...this was top tier!!

[@TreneaSays]

Beautiful. Kelly is finally free to do what she wants and she is great in this movie

[@viathevessel]

Shan!! This interview is everything. Your ability to stay authentic w/ Kelly is noteworthy. Celebrating you both 🎉😍✨

[@sandra_phoma]

Peeking from hiatus for Kelly is so worth it. Thank you for accepting ❤️.

[@npguru]

Just discovered you. My algorithm sent your podcast my way. I love me some Kelly Rowland, accent and everything. But I came to say, the beauty of a mother with the little girl warmedcmy heart but, the gangster black hat and leather coat is so Fabulous!!!❤❤❤❤❤

[@wxx1547]

Oh Shan!!! The "rambling" session at the end was so beautiful and such a necessary moment more people need to have with themselves as we age and the lack thereof is probably why we so frequently find ourselves in a rut

[@levantining]

Almost cried reading these comments…we, the community, love Shan down. This is our star, our winner! Forever!

[@Jazzaddict25]

Comebacks don’t get any better than this! Way to go, Shan! Love me some Kelly Rowland!🔥🔥🔥

[@gabrielamuniz3298]

And THAT is how you come back for a quick check-in. Thank you for sharing! And we miss you too!!!!!!

[@PhoenixxRocks]

This is sooo dope and well deserved , always serving us ❤

[@asandamacwili8058]

Kelly is such breath of fresh air.

[@yvettegg1806]

That movie was so intense and soooo good! Congratulations on getting this interview🎉

[@latrue24]

Wowwww!!!! You got Kelly on the show!!!!!!! Congratulations Shan!!!!!!

[@destineetomar]

Kelly you knock me off my feet, out of my seat and had me wanting more. You did such an amazing job. I absolutely love the movie. omg you really did that... Amazing Kelly amazing performance........

[@srwsrw86]

I am getting MY LIFE from this interview! I normally listen to other podcasts in passing BUT I AM HANGING ONTO EVERY WORD SAID HERE!

[@jeanty12345]

You deserve this interview Shan! Loved this so much!

[@moniquejohnson2465]

I LOVED the transparency and vulnerability that Kelly shared. Great interview! Thanks for sharing. Kelly is my girl. I'm so proud of her.

[@LindaTinahTV]

This was so nice to watch especially after watching the movie. Kelly has sooooo much to give us. We want more of her.

[@sammiewoodard7100]

Reginald McDonald said God bless and keep up the great work out there coming from Jackson Ms and we love y'all out here too ❤️🙏🏼☝🏼☝🏼☝🏼☝🏼☝🏼

[@MiraMira0ntheWall]

I was blessed to meet her once and she is so warm & friendly. Thank you for sharing your thoughts Kelly. The movie was great. You did your thing. Congrats Shan for this moment.

[@jasonturner3234]

That paint scene and seeing her face on the ceiling was such a great scene that displayed and showed a mix of emotions that had build up from sexual fustration to personal stress, then intrigue, then finally to release. That is exactly what her and any other woman would've wanted and needed at that point. In real life I would say most if not all woman would've cheated. Her emotions was fuck up and hitting that wall was the icing. She would've of been hook!!! period.

[@1876babyface]

I'm loving the interview! ☺️ I especially loved the discussion on "not wanting to be perfect" in a relationship. It's so much pressure. As always, Shan dropped some nuggets. As someone who is a highly charged sexual being, finding different ways to express myself to my husband can be an overwhelming topic of discussion. But these types of conversations give me the boldness that I need to take charge of what I want and to explain it in a way that doesn't offend him. Loved, loved, loved the movie. 🎉Great job Kelly, glad you took the roll. ☺️

[@nattie081]

Congratulations girl! This is huge! Please don’t end the podcast indefinitely. We need you 😩❤️

[@NicoleJWells]

Yass! Loved the reference to Eric Jerome Dickey… I miss his novels

[@elleepiphany1]

This was such a delightful surprise! I’m so glad that Kelly wanted to do this with you and Lovers & Friends because you ARE the right person and Lovers & Friends is the right place for this conversation. 💛

[@cierraonley1833]

Loved every minute of this! Love me some Kelly! Now you gotta get Trevante on! Would love to hear his take.

[@EayuProuxm]

I'm glad Kelly talked about having to switch therapists but gaining a lesson from them. So even if you move on, it can still have been good.

[@Godstrumpet2010]

Kelly looks beautiful. The movie, Mea Culpa, was engaging and entertaining. Great interview as well.

[@LayDeLibra5]

This interview was fulfilling and I enjoyed it. Kelly was very transparent and I love her even more. All the best to you both ❤

[@chynawhite9233]

YOU KILLLLLED IT KELLY.. ❤❤ And so did you LOVERS AND FRIENDS.. 🥳 You have a new fan 💯🙌🏽

[@jenz_world]

Great episode!! I really enjoyed seeing this side of Kelly. She can do no wrong ❤️.

[@QueenMufasa552]

Kelly is such a breath of fresh air❤❤❤❤❤ She's so down to earth..so proud of her. Wishing her more life and so much more success❤

[@abkgg7]

Now this is how you interview Kelly!!!! She’s a Queen, icon, living legend, and much more! I soooo loved this and how comfortable you made her feel to open up!

[@clatoshia5753]

Hello Everyone! YES..... First-time viewer!!!!! I did watch the whole show/episode. LOVE IT, ALL OF IT!!! I didn't know about you or your space/platform, but I'm glad it came across my feed. Of course, it is because of Ms. Kelly Rowland, the movie, and the things I like to click. However, I'm here and as a NEW SUBSCRIBER. Thank you for this platform. I'm all about it. I can't wait to add something new to my husband's ear of almost 16 years. AMAZING movie and role for Ms. Rowland and I can not wait to see more from her. Also, thank you, Mr. Tyler Perry for another great movie. Please let Ms. Rowland know that I'm ll about "365"...ALL OF THEM. She is not alone, and I know all about what she is saying. I was also into Zhane in school (when I should not have been, or at least that is how I felt). I also know what she means about "Basic Instinct," Micheal Douglas, and all of "those" movies). Why do you think the age difference doesn't matter with Michael Douglas and Katerhine Zeta-Jones, LOL? I'm kidding....BUT YOU NEVER KNOW, LOL. Thank you again.

[@feliciac2412]

Congratulations on getting this interview. Great conversation, I’ve watched the movie twice, no one in my circle has seen therefore I’ve had no one to discuss it with. Your podcast was the perfect place to do so.

[@krissim172]

This is a great conversation. Kelly explaining sensualist just made a light bulb go off in my head.

[@divalarue]

This is an amazing interview. So, many things discussed I can relate too! Such a human connecting conversation.

[@4noory]

Shan you're sooo awesome at your job! you have such a way with words and navigating conversation. YES

[@monetpetals86]

Congrats Shan! Ever since I watched “Bad Hair” I knew we’d get more acting from Kelly 😊

[@rondotrucking9866]

The rambling is human and something we can relate to. Glad you kept it in the video.

[@amandajames536]

Good for you Shan !! Glad you booked this interview

[@blackyogini]

Way to go! Really shows your social life, expertise and passion all in one. I loved this movie and definitely watching it again now seeing this !

[@nmkone2207]

I was thoroughly captivated by this film, and I must commend Kelly for her exceptional performance. The plot was expertly crafted, keeping me guessing until the halfway point. I found the resolution of the story to be both satisfying and well-considered, which only added to the overall appeal of this phenomenal thriller. I wholeheartedly recommend this movie for anyone seeking a suspenseful and engaging cinematic experience.

[@Xyzeezeezee]

The best Kelly Rowland interview ever done tbh.

[@GvannD]

Really enjoyed this interview, and I loved the movie! Congrats on the opportunity!