4 Strange Ways to Turn a Guy On Emotionally

[@knowyourkismat]

Ladies, if a man is emotionally unavailable, there’s nothing you can do to “make” him available. Move along and find a man who is, if that’s what you want

[@aqua6613]

I thought about doing that. It's easier to just discard a person like that...but then again I love my husband and his emotional issues were put there by childhood trauma and his parents not being emotionally available to him and I understand that on a similar level. He shows me love in more subtle ways and in a way I guess he appreciates me more that I didn't just discard him like other women have just on the part of him being a broken man. I'm not saying people should seek out projects like that...by all means seek what fits your needs and your lifestyle. It's easy to recognize the disabilities of people on the outside, but to recognize a person's emotional disabilities is almost a spiritual experience. I can fulfill myself emotionally on my own and I don't need validation from a man per se because I've done my own trauma and abandonment work healing myself. Be part of the solution not the problem is kind of my motto. Enough narcissism going around in this world anyways.

[@veronicavalle2844]

I totally agree

[@234pinnni]

!!!!!!!

[@knowyourkismat]

@@aqua6613 wanting to be with a healthy partner who loves you the way you want to be loved is not narcissistic. If you’ve taught yourself to be happy with scraps from your man then by all means live and love that life for yourself if that’s what you want to choose to do. But that’s not something I would ever encourage anyone else to do, especially not if they want to feel loved and secure, and be in a loving and safe relationship.

[@hernandez7659]

I sure learned this the hard way .. I know better now.

[@bethbrown6328]

You absolutely cannot make a man emotionally connected when he is a fundamentally unavailable person. He may respond initially but he will go back into his shell before long.

[@TheAttractionTriggers]

*Fall in love with someone who makes you glad to be different.*

[@Portia620]

This! ❤.

[@-Solange-]

The tone of voice changes automatically if there's chemistry. I was shocked when my voice suddenly changed in their presence and became higher pitched, I didn't even expect that.

[@em77775]

Yes, same here. It feels so good when you have that.

[@meoonly4989]

Not just voice but everything

[@d.s.3741]

Same here and I was surprised!

[@Stephanie-yr8vg]

Oh my goodness! Yes!

[@nissmone9598]

I felt ridiculous last week when i saw my voice turned too much sweat without wanting. I m so long in my masculine side that when this happened i just felt bad about it

[@positivevibeskx1102]

If the guy doesn't like you ,doesn't matter what tactics we use it doesn't work,it could do only on a temporary basic

[@Therealdonaldtrumpusa]

It’s NOT a woman’s job to teach a man how to be “emotionally available”..

[@marah3298]

It is. Women are the ones who understand the timing of relationships. This is not a video about “teaching”, but about inspiring.

[@ApexTrading]

Clearly didn't watch the video lol

[@Therealdonaldtrumpusa]

@@ApexTrading I watched the video 😂 what I do know is you can’t “inspire” someone to be emotionally open if they don’t want to be! That’s called manipulation.

[@marah3298]

@@amandaforrester7636 unfortunately it does!

[@marah3298]

@@amandaforrester7636 I’m not encouraging women to chase any man. If a woman does that she is at fault.

[@lambogirlrusty87]

I don't think you can overestimate the power and importance of genuinely asking a man for his advice or opinion on something your buying/ building, etc. I do this very often. It keeps the guys 'engaged' in our relationships, and I learn a lot. I don't look weak or incapable, but humble and open to different ideas and views. It's really a win-win.

[@eyeamphree3337]

You tried it. My feminine energy flows where it feels safe to so if I'm not that woman then he's not that man. We're energetically incompatible & that's okay 🙃

[@hernandez7659]

That’s a great way to word it .. very spot on

[@kinjaaaaaa999]

Thank you for the information I was raised in a toxic masculine household and abused and believed being feminine is weak. I'm learning on gaining my power back

[@elisabethadyatmani1628]

You are so right 🙌🏼 I did and I do all of them, the first time I knew my husband, he was 10.000 miles away. He chased, hunt and convinced me that he is the right man for me, he does all the works. Being in my feminine energy makes me more relax and calm, and I love it.

[@lisamoag6548]

Persistence will win a wife. Waiting out the other men in her parlor is time honored. But I know that once you are married, he will like you to please him. Favorite meals and making him comfortable in your home together. Respect that he will cherish when the world is difficult. Thank you Grana

[@Portia620]

Where is this and when!? I’m sick of playing mommy and daddy to my abandoned kids! I want to be mommy and have a partner but it’s too late as my youngest has 2 more years then he’s on his own too.

[@Portia620]

@@lisamoag6548agreed!!!

[@Portia620]

@@lisamoag6548goes both ways. More so if stay at home mom which I do not condone as it will leave you in a very bad place when that guy bails! Nothing in life is gaurentee!

[@fvoconnor]

Love you Adam!! Your program helped me find my boyfriend who I've been with for 5 months now. He's everything I wanted in a man and more. After 2 years of being a divorcee, I signed up for your program and learned so much. My boss just recently met my boyfriend and asked how I could find such a good guy online. That was the best part of the program for me... Learning how to present yourself in a way to attract the right guy ☺️

[@LoveStrategies]

So happy to hear this - thank you for sharing

[@aylex1974]

There is somebody else who is going to be ready and available.

[@marleymarie9272]

"The words that come out of your mouth matter a lot less than the way that you say it" - Adam Brilliant advice from a brilliant man! Thanks Adam, I will remember this.

[@juliettethomas7990]

Met people in REAL LIFE , it’s meant to be ... if someone has feelings for you , you’ll know ...there is no games and it comes EASY when it’s hard it’s not meant to be however everyone is in your life for a reason and in time you’ll know why!! I never has socials because if that person is no longer in my life there was \ is a reason ... I was rarely single in my 20s until I got married at 32 and I met my husband on the world ... if you have tinder or whatever delete it , it will just cause pain and be a waste of time ❤

[@HerLoveJourneyy]

Great video! I love how you emphasized the importance of emotional connection and intimacy in relationships. It's not always about the physical aspects, but about the emotional bond and connection that truly makes a relationship strong and fulfilling. The four ways you mentioned - being vulnerable, being genuine, being supportive, and being loving - are all excellent ways to foster an emotional connection with a partner. Thank you for sharing these helpful tips and insights!

[@AtlGod]

Learn to speak softly and respect a man…. Uplift him…. And you’ll be surprised by the mountains he moves for you

[@qesther1241]

Idk, I’ve never heard a CEO, a firefighter, a law enforcement officer, a marine say that any woman is too masculine for them. Js

[@krystavi05]

I was told to stay away from firefighters. A friend worked at a coffee shop where a group of firemen would meet up often. She said they'd all sit around talking about all the women they've slept with (and yes, they were married men).

[@Portia620]

Agree with photos!!! Don’t do it!!! It always goes sideways!

[@jeccym8715]

For me,if there is no physical connection/compatibility, then there's no connection at all! That's just me I met a guy who was physically, sexual and emotionally very connected to me than I do in all those areas,it's horrible when both sides aren't on the same page!!

[@Secret-sw8ih]

I recently met a masculine man & he wants to take it slowly (honestly, no BS). He's not actually said it but he's told me he's looking for a serious relationship. I actually don't agree that what's said is less important than voice tone. What he & I talked about in the two months before we met ws very important & helped us to realise how well suited we are.

[@Secret-sw8ih]

He would have met sooner but geography made it not possible. I'm glad for it because we built a friendship/emotional connection first. It's been perfect for me. Yes, he does offer to help me, I agree a man wants to help a woman & feel useful if he likes her. My guy offers this though, I don't have to ask him for advice.

[@Secret-sw8ih]

Haha, how funny re: the move. I'm involved in advising him now on where to move! 🤔

[@Secret-sw8ih]

Re: a new experience, i took him to what I later found out was a bar he'd always wanted to go in & he loved the new experience! Haha.

[@Secret-sw8ih]

Omg, he's adventurous & he wants us to do stuff like skydiving together etc in the future!

[@krishnag798]

This doesn't feel okay... I don't think you should tone down.. because ultimately.. you're real nature has to be accepted by the other person for a long lasting relationship

[@peaceofmindofpeace1650]

A man I started to talk to said " your texts make me feel warm on the inside and I feel ao much energy" then he goes quiet the rest of the day. I find it weird. So I will protect myself and stay quiet bc I deserve someone who is one with his statements. No need to talk all day but it's contradicting signals.

[@EP-xu1yt]

I agree about a woman’s voice - talk too fast, high pitched, talk too much…. Men tend to be too loud and talking over others. Ty.

[@missxspencer1538]

I read the title as "strange ways to turn gay, IMMEDIATELY"

[@amanifestasticlife842]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Portia620]

😂😂😂😂 lmfao

[@mindymorgan8479]

Excellent advice. I know it killed the vibe because it was too early in the date. Mane love women. I am a woman who has a loud voice on a usual basis and it sounded commanding. Not in a hot way. Kind of condescending. So I learned to be softer and ask for things what turned him on instantly. Women sho are in charge (like a boss at a company) find that hard. So just even pretend. Suggest something you like but, are asking tentatively IF he likes that.

[@SachiLaSenya]

no one is making summary here ? for the 4 strange ways ?

[@rangogh]

I really enjoy watching your videos! Thank you❤

[@nadhiagurrola491]

Exactly this is for women whom find or run into single men. All I've found are married ones.

[@user-ms6gu4fv1m]

Love the last tip. Thanks for sharing!

[@stacycheramie2382]

I enjoyed your input to the fullest I wish I had started watching these types of clips way before I fell off the truck this here last time But God Anywho, I am being informed to the fullest going forward Thanks for your time and wisdom! Noted!!

[@leroyandjunior]

lol what I took from this…ladies basically you cannot be yourself. Fake it til you make it. 😅

[@elviavargas834]

I laughed more than I should at your comment 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I didn't fake it with my man, I was honest and we're fine together

[@nina13dm60]

true words really. Important information. And last advice is 🔥. Highly recommended

[@brittanycrawford6432]

Dangit I’m not feminine enough .. I’m so used to being alone I’m bossy and very masculine.. tips for fixing it?? How do I change my tone? 🫤🫣🤣🤦🏻‍♀️

[@yaziibella6535]

Love you Adam ❤️ your words are gold

[@karinlong3044]

I struggle with the same idea as the lady you went on dates with. I am afraid of creating emotional (on my part) attachment before seeing if there is sexual compatibility. f I want to buy a car I have to test drive it and I'm aware men aren't cars but I've been in a situation before where I became emotionally involved and once it got physical it died out.

[@SuperChambala]

So, you think that out of control can happen something exciting? To me it sounds incompatible. Probably we have to risk a lot before meeting somebody who is great for us and being a control freak wont help

[@karinlong3044]

@@SuperChambala I don't understand your comment or what you are asking

[@providenceartdesign]

Or it's just terrible. But I understand him. That's crazy she said that to him on a first date. 😳 there wasn't any long detailed conversations at any point. She was not the person for him.

[@Portia620]

You are part of the problem why it fizzled out.

[@arayzshaikh1741]

I follow ur instructions....love from Pakistan 😍

[@lianaellis2789]

Great recommendations!!

[@aeptacon]

actually when I was younger, my much older sister who doesn't like me told me that I was so masculine 🤣🤣. I don't think I've changed so much in that area

[@zitaorosz1975]

I ‘m sorry Adam , but changing the tone of voice is just ridiculous. Let’s say I change the tone of my voice and try to sound like someone who I’m not. How long is that sustainable?

[@laurafedora5385]

He was exaggerating for an example. He means using a different tone, ie softer/quieter than your normal speaking voice in moments, perhaps when you are in close proximity. I one time subconsciously started whispering over the phone with a customer as I was writing a part numbers down (we have close relationships with our customers, some I’ve known for over 20 years and see more than once per day), and boy did he ever start teasing me about liking hearing me whispering to him 😂

[@thesocialintrovertchronicles]

@Zita Orosz, changing the tone of a voice, is different from changing your voice. Trust it's much easier than you think. It's even easier once you practice self awareness ☺️

[@thejaneeyre]

Exactly my point. That's totally faking and being superficial

[@amberv4223]

Helpful, thanks!

[@WhiteSamsara]

Omgoddessa! Are you seriously giving advice 🙄 we have a long way to go to evolve!

[@elindunas]

Yes I have and the result was catastrophic each time 😅

[@lisazabielski4180]

I have a sexual connection and I have to weight for emotion connection with a guy I would love that

[@sharon268]

Nice my fiancé ex girlfriend who is married stopped by to ask about advice help about a car told him shut that down she’s got a husband for that you remember the the she cheated on you with that she married

[@mehrtanvir6335]

What about a mixed orientation marriage? I tried asking my husband for advice but he either took it as a sign of incompetence or became incredibly anxious and it didn't create any bond between us at all. I didn't know about his orientation at the time though. Perhaps the masculine feminine energy theory doesn't apply there? I felt more like a mom or a secretary or an admonished child most of the time, rather than a woman.

[@Applleheead]

Sounds like he maybe had some issues

[@journeyhomewithballori]

interesting that every time you say "emotional" you point to the head and not the heart.

[@lindagamroth256]

What about when a guy in just the early stages we haven’t met each other and he calls me, babe and he calls me. His woman.

[@Bellab414]

Good point about pictures 😮

[@TainaCurrymusic]

Oh my gosh!! I can’t believe a lady would do that!!😮Thats terrible!!!

[@mayc7555]

I think I'm one of those women who could fall down on the road and men will probably walk over me! I'm simply not very attractive, though physically speaking, I'm very feminine looking. So I believe you when you say I don't have feminine energy; men have told me that different men like different energies. I believe you about my voice; I think it's irritating. I'm not alpha but I wish I was an alpha female as I see those women constantly attract men but women like me are often overlooked. I think I need to find a way to not friendzone guys; my friends tell me that I'm simply too friendly! It's a big turnoff to guys I suppose...

[@princesssparkle5542]

Aww, don't be too hard on yourself. You'll find someone xx

[@Anita1984isuponus]

Babes, be yourself I used to think all guys are into big ass big lips etc but turns out that lot of them hate it. The right guy is going to love you

[@mayc7555]

@@Anita1984isuponus thanks. I've had a lot of rejections over the past few years. Everyone I meet is into tall, skinny and hot girls. Even bald 50 year olds. I thought being funny and intelligent was good but turns out I was wrong, so I had to re-evaluate a lot of things.

[@Anita1984isuponus]

@@mayc7555 Babes, don't devalue funny and intelligent, they're my best qualities. Have faith and work on being the best version of you, that way you will attract the piece of the puzzle that fits you and you'll be able tell who is even worth your time or not

[@tsreiki]

Dont assume that being very attractive to a lot of guys is a picnic either, Ive found that woman can get very jealous and cause lots of problems for you

[@Cosmosis9]

The fact that women are coming into the comments with hackles up is WILD.

[@trishawallingsford4146]

Thank you for the photo half by all the women born and unborn

[@itsaplantlife9850]

This is assuming the guy isn't so avoidant that he'll never show up when he made the plan to.

[@BriannaV-yv5fj]

Getting into his mind by expertly knocking down his psychological walls and making him tingle with feelings of pleasure, means you're doing it right. There are many so called "canned phrases" to make it happen, for example go’ogling something like Celestine Dessike's Words of Desire was the perfect formula for me

[@sibongileveronica1787]

We are being played here 😏

[@thesocialintrovertchronicles]

😂😂😂😂😂💦

[@GodHelpMe369]

my soul feels raped I am submerged in darkness please Jesus, heal me and turn my life around in beautiful miraculous ways

[@nataleasalem6558]

Tonality is so true actually I feel like I struggle with this as female and have such a strong tone. I’m talking to this 1 guy and I like him but I feel like his tone is too feminine

[@beckycantrell668]

Agree. I really can't get into a feminine voice from a man... And it's definitely different from a softer voice. One of the things I absolutely love about my man is his voice, it is soothing, it is sensual, And I don't mean a super deep voice, just gruff enough to be completely manly and sexy. Oh geez.. now I'm daydreaming 🤣

[@annettevandiver12]

It hard not when you first meet someone

[@Lucila3101]

That's Just too much work for something that should be natural.

[@joannegild8001]

Ask him for help, but not with your own emotions.

[@karmachannel9135]

5. Ask him for 💰...a lot

[@dianneciresi7208]

They can end up putting u in the "frienddone"..

[@ritapearl-im3wv]

Wait, what? Change my name. OK. Change my address. OK. Combine bank accounts. Getting spooky. Change my vocal tone? Think I'm disappearing. Hello. Am I still here? LOL.

[@Cosmosis9]

It IS a woman 's job to hold herself with the honor, respect, love she seeks. All this guy is saying, is dont give your treasure away to him immediately, lean into everything that makes you feel yum , including being flirty but holding him at bay. And create bonding experiences before seggsyy time. Its smart. And MOST women (including me) who've found the emotionally unavailable again and again....are not doing these things.

[@Honorableflickflack]

I feel like "ruin your life" was a slight exaggeration

[@user-pb5oy3wj3y]

Keep still

[@sarahsmith3016]

Men have feelings?? What

[@pixsiedoll2341]

Maybe she didn't want a relationship

[@stephengialanedlla8891]

I already am

[@Jess-wk5jo]

My questions for you over affairs. 1 is it turth that Not every affair involves sex. ARE still affair or do people need sex for affair or cheating to happen ur not. 2 are you really sure it affair without having no no sex. 3 is it turth that Cheating doesn't always have to involve sex or even talking about sex.

[@marah3298]

If your partner would be uncomfortable with what you’re doing, you are cheating.

[@Jess-wk5jo]

@@marah3298 is it sill affair without having no sex

[@Jess-wk5jo]

@@marah3298 he doesn't know

[@marah3298]

@@Jess-wk5jo yes

[@Jess-wk5jo]

@@marah3298 are you sure

[@FeliciaEkanem-pm1uz]

Please i really need help i do exhibit masculine voice and attitude sometimes due the situation i pass through...i actually do everything and provides everything all by myself no assistance from an opposite sex...so i developed this strong aura making things a bit hard to any guys coming around me. Am still struggling to opts into my feminine life but still not easy. I really needs help

[@mg5265]

Look into other female youtubers that talk about healing your divine feminine

[@juliejohnson7868]

Been talking to a man for almost 3 years. Because of the pandemic and him getting sick with lead poisioning we have not been together physically. It's only been emotional. He has never tried to scam me or ask for .money. I always tell him to get better. He has been out of work because of covid and his lead poisioning. Yet he has never asked for money. When he does have money he feels like he has to send me money. So anyway it's been all emotional.

[@laurafedora5385]

He sounds like he’s making excuses and unavailable

[@sheilawalker6563]

Watch out, doesn’t sound right. I hope I’m wrong, but please don’t make excuses. See things for what they are. Good blessings in this relationship.

[@Karen-jp1ns]

You're wasting your time.

[@peaceofmindofpeace1650]

I hate to say this but what if he js an emotional catfish. Bless you, you deserve to walk without a heavy burden of missing someone that long. I waited for years on a man who was just manipulating me by stringing me along but bc we had deep conversations it seemed sincere and bc I didn't do online dating I wasn't aware as much and of fishes in the sea principle / ' we have a choice in treatment' ( same goes for men ofcourse). I wasted my thirties. I wish I had tried online dating to wake me up in my youngest years. We get attached on a human level and maybe your man is sincere but it's strange that he talks about sending you money. Could it be reversed psychology?

[@user-mw1cl1mg1j]

Sooo, change who you arr and lie?? I see this working!

[@RemingtonW-fy5wt]

Hey, maybe you've already read Celestine Dessike's Words of Desire? If not try go’ogling her... You can learn not only how to let him hear what he secretly wants, but also experience your deepest fantasies as well.

[@darlenegolden1057]

Definitely too much.

[@Jess-wk5jo]

Can people have infidelity without having no sex?

[@gizem6873]

Yes

[@Jess-wk5jo]

@@gizem6873 Hello i have question for you i have always what to get back at my ex boyfriend Morgan for harassment for this year what happen if i was married to Morgan i start to see my ex stephen a again and i tell Stephen i what to affair with him to get back at morgan for morgan two timing without having sex but only seeing Stephen and texting him then meeting up with Stephen and only holding hands and kissing and hugging him and watching high school musical dvds without having no no no sex with him what what of type of affair would had be. Just romantic affair no sex one eww sex 1 emotional affair 2 emotional and physical affair without having no sex P.S it will never happen it only thought over it Thank you for your time from jess

[@elizabethb9667]

Absolutely!!!!! Look up emotional affairs.

[@thestruggleisrealmama]

Yes! Absolutely!! Through online sex addiction or pursuing an individual knowing the one that you are with would be very hurt if they knew. Basically, if there is any scenario that you put yourself into where your significant other would become hurt, jealous or disapprove because it's toxic behavior or a form of infidelity...its cheating.

[@Jess-wk5jo]

@@thestruggleisrealmama Hello i have question for you what happen if i was married or dating Morgan i start to see my ex boyfriend stephen a again and i tell Stephen i what to have affair with him to get back at morgan for morgan harassment without having sex but only seeing Stephen and texting him then meeting up with Stephen and only holding hands and kissing and hugging him and watching high school musical dvds without having no no no sex with him what of type of affair would had be. Just romantic affair no sex one eww sex 1 emotional affair 2 emotional and physical affair without having no sex P.S it will never happen it only thought over it Thank you for your time from jess

[@ravenspadegirl]

But what if you screwed up and didn't wait to have sex..... And now he's pulling away and saying I wish you would have let me chase you because now i'm in love with you And i'm not sure anymore because I didn't get to chase 😢

[@juscileneamanda]

❤!

[@catdoghedgehog619]

All this done as above. But how to get him to stop mothering his teenage son! Diff countries/live in, I mean no richness turns him to be w me because he says his son needs 1-2 more years w him and son's mother is there too he s giving child support too! So why he wont move to my country!! 8 months into our relationship, Im here in his country for 2.5mo. He first told me his son once teenage age (now) could be on his own/ without his emotional support. So he lied. Weird for a full European guy to lie...

[@gigibtheempress302]

Well, if a man are emotionally unavailable , they got to force their arse to sit on meditation and do some inner work. Not expecting awoken female to babysit them 24/7 🤣🤣🤣🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️.its 2023

[@peaceofmindofpeace1650]

I'm starting to think men who are emotionally closed up or always 'collected' and nevee show any human signs are just the psychopaths among us 😊

[@angelaabdullah2431]

Something news.

[@ventibreeze6648]

Ask a guy for advice: Girl: Hi! Guy: Hi! Girl: I need some advice Guy: ok Girl: what’s the best way to dump my ex I think he’s a psycho😂😂😂😂

[@TerriZarr]

Save

[@boblangdon5253]

If i were a single woman, I'd subscribe to this guy's channel. Or, tell him how wrong he is, get a bowl of ice cream, and go pet your cat.

[@charmedfun]

God! This is awful

[@MyLifewithGuitar]

I don’t know but I think you are wrong because the way to be a high value woman is to have a high paying carrier

[@MyLifewithGuitar]

Otherwise he’s a burden

[@archangel9267]

Yeah. I run shit. Thats how I was taught by my daddy.

[@skdavidnba]

👍👍

[@user-ig6xi8tv6k]

He’s all hands so feminine

[@dragonflymusings]

Alpha male 💪🏋️🏋️‍♀️🏋️‍♂️💪

[@karmachannel9135]

🤣🤣🤣🤣.....BS