"I've Scanned 250,000 Brains" - Here's How Men Really Think & Fall In Love! | Dr. Daniel Amen

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If you want to be a badass and feel invincible in any journey you choose to take, then LISTEN CLOSE to this episode of Women of Impact so you can stop comparing yourself to your male counterpart and start taking care of that wonderful female brain of yours!
Now, today’s guest has scanned over 250,000 brains (and counting) in his career and is considered a cutting-edge, world renowned brain expert - it’s Dr. Daniel Amen. And in this interview, Dr. Amen is answering ALLLLL your questions about the brain and the biggest differences between the sexes.
And while one isn’t better than the other, there are some BIG differences in the brains of men and women, and they actually explain a lottttt of the challenges and problems we face in our romantic relationships!!
But when we understand our strengths and our challenges, we have the power to DO something about it! Lets stop looking at each other like we are different species and lets start understanding each other!
In this episode, we go DEEP into:
- the differences between the male brain and the female brain and the strengths and challenges of each
- the differences in how we see love, romance and betrayal
- WHY men cheat more than women
- WHAT specifically about men’s brains that makes them more likely to cheat
- what YOU can do to actually override the weaknesses in his brain
- Dr. Amen’s secrets for improving your brain health
- what behaviors you should look for in a potential partner as signs of good brain health
- what changes in men’s brains when they’re in love
- how hormone changes throughout your life affect your brain
- why you shouldn’t trust your thoughts
This information about brain health is SOOOO important because if you don't take care of your brain then anything from your mood, to your energy, to your enjoyment in life, to your life span, will ALL be negatively impacted!
We all have the power to change our brains and live AMAZING lives, and this information will help you get there.
Chapter Markers:
🧠 [00:00] The Male Brain vs. Female Brain
🧬 [10:11] Hormonal Changes & Your Brain
🖤 [39:44] Intuition, Emotions, and Infidelity in Relationships
🥰 [56:35] Your Brain In Love & The Screening Process
💪 [1:23:05] The Power of Positive Thinking
👉 [1:33:05] Bonus Episode: Dr. Lisa Mosconi
***Bonus Episode: DAILY HACKS To Prevent Alzheimer’s with Dr. Lisa Mosconi***
Keep watching for a BONUS conversation with the amazing Dr. Lisa Mosconi, a neuroscientist and expert on the female brain. She dives DEEP into the intricacies of women’s cognitive health, how to prevent Alzheimer’s disease, and how to optimize for greater cognitive function and energy throughout our lives as women!
DR. AMEN’S TRUTH BOMBS:
"The female brain, especially in the emotional circuit of the brain, are very busy, much more active. Their frontal lobe...is significantly more active in the female brain."
"Unlike parents, whenever Freddy does anything like what I want him to do, I notice him. I give him a hug and I give him a fish."
"And so if you can search for the evidence rather than you think something's wrong, but you really don't have evidence, and it just could be the right side of your brain is working too hard."
"Watch your products that you put on your body, because parabens and phthalates are hormone disruptors, so that's a very bad thing."
“Don't believe everything you think. Whenever you feel sad or mad or nervous or out of control, write it down, and then just ask yourself whether or not it's true."
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[@LisaBilyeu]

WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!

[@Portia620]

I’m a guy too! After ok gotta go! Lol. I use way too much language! I over commit and it always causes issues!

[@Portia620]

Can this be an issue for women the testosterone and genetic?

[@Portia620]

Me too! I’d never cheat! No excuse and if men can’t see ahead then I’m done with men! So weak!!

[@Portia620]

After trauma prefrontal cortex is not working great but that doesn’t k mean a person cheats! Morals are in another area of the brain I’d say!!! Cheating is something entirely different!

[@Portia620]

Agreed with drugs! Drugs destroy the brain and body!

[@rwdswght4057]

I disagree. If a man really values you, he WILL remember what you like. You won't have to remind him 5,000 times like a surrogate mommy. If he takes you for granted, he'll care about his sports or video games more. I've seen the difference personally. Don't settle for men who don't have any softness to them, that's just not a good deal.

[@redleeks6253]

Men have a great memory capacity for things that matter and can even be super focused For exemple: They can remember all the players of the football league, the transactions, date and time of the games. If his partner is important he will remember and if he's unfocused, add or something he would use notes and alarms to remember

[@QueenKaeOfficial]

Yes true, but also that can happen sometimes, it's key to not treat the person like crap over it cause sometimes( i say sometimes cause i mean the people who fr care not people who don't care like you were saying) they really do care and just need a reminder, but I agree on most things should be remembered. Nobody is perfect everyone makes mistakes NOBODY has a perfect memory, and if you destroy a whole relationship just cause the other person forgot your favorite color or preference of something and just need a reminder? That's just toxic. But the rest of what you said is so so true!❤️ I really believe once someone is set in their ways and they are fine with themselves like that then they aren't gonna ever change so theres no point in putting all your effort into someone who isn't willing to put the same in for you❤️

[@QueenKaeOfficial]

Also! I would like to add that's probably more of a foggy area with things because of some people have more problems with memory than others, short term, long term, from birth, sudden onset, concussions, dementia, and also trauma and ptsd or cptsd. And if you don't know if you or your partner had those sort of problems people might blame the person instead of understanding the underlying problems and working through them together.

[@rwdswght4057]

@@QueenKaeOfficial oh, nobody is advocating for treating somebody like crap. I would say if your partner forgetting things which are important to you, you can pull back some of your energy, too. A healthy relationship is an equilibrium. He gives less, you give less. Instead you use that extra energy on yourself. It's important to nurture the relationship you have with yourself, too, so that's extra time and energy you take back. Nagging would just not be a good use of personal energy, as that would still be "putting energy in," and running the risk of not getting results.

[@QueenKaeOfficial]

@@rwdswght4057 I said IF they ACTUALLY care.

[@trerodriguez]

If he is forgetful why can't he put the reminder in his own calendar? My mom expects me to remind my brothers. But I have just as much or more to do than them. I refuse to be their secretary too.

[@caroljenny7701]

Because of this forgetfulness, and ADHD as in get bored quickly (which often leads to cheating), and the non-interface with one's internal states (emotions), men are SO MUCH WORK, like having another JOB, and so where is the JOY in that? Why would I sign up for this kind of overWORK?

[@josslynsinotte4341]

i don’t know if I agree with the always reminding him of everything, if he knows he’s forgetful why can’t he put your anniversary in his calendar? same day every year

[@tresjolieme81]

I take progesterone now and its like a calming effect women need this one. I'm over 40.

[@TheTeacherMuse]

I don’t know… I think it’s ok to know that men need reminders and more guidance when it comes to emotional maturity issues, but I’m not going to be “gentle” and “loving” when a man keeps forgetting an anniversary or continuing to cross a boundary that is objectively wrong. I also understand that men are not the primary care giver but a man who gets pissed if you ask for help with the kids, is a man who has no empathy or respect for his partner. I’m no doctor, but I say “when someone shows you who they are, believe them.” I’m not taking them for no damn cat scan. LOL

[@phillipswatson3452]

😂😂😂 CAT SCAN 😢😢😢

[@TheTeacherMuse]

@@phillipswatson3452 😅

[@Carolinekatongo]

​@@sherriflemming3218 Sharp u r . No need to understand men who mismanage their masculinity. This causes a woman to b a slave. Great insight here,thanks.

[@QueenKaeOfficial]

Lmfaooo I love this😆❤️

[@Magicisreal66]

It's the same old b s- This doctors making a loophole / Just another excuse for the human male To be a dead beat, And not have to take responsibility. For his own negligence. That's why running into a real divine masculine/.A real man- is like crossing paths with a white leopard. As women, we need to let them deal with their own s*** and you deal with yours. And when it gets too full then out the door you go, The better pastures!

[@melbaT2770]

Of course it’s usually hormonal but many doctors misdiagnose and mistreat us. Then when you go to another doctor who treats you, one feels cheated out of life. This happened to me. All I needed was progesterone for my heavy bleeding, but all my doctor prescribed was the birth control pill. Glad I found two doctors who know how to treat me.

[@IntuitiveCoachTheresa]

Most allopathic physicians are woefully uneducated and unwilling to be in dumb m functional medicine and those that are charge way too much making their care out of reach of the majority of the population that needs it. When dealing with allopathic professionals we have to do our homework first and research their treatments for contraindications in our cases because they aren't likely to. Majority of malpractice and iatrogenic death caused by ignorance and stubbornness on the part of allopathy to get educated.

[@h.neubert8770]

Feel you. Currently dealing with los ferritin that I have had for 10 years+. Totally avoidable. Had to junp through hoops to get Progesterone as well. I was already Estrogen-dominant when they wanted to give me an Estrogen-Pill „to manage PCOS“, except the next doctor could not find any evidence of it. The system is not well set up and having lived both in Germany and the US, its quite similar. The patient has to be semi knowledgeable and take matters into their own hands. Glad you did that for yourself!

[@h.neubert8770]

*meant to say low ferritin

[@deannatipton7260]

Nah, im not going to remind somebody 14 times to do something. Im going to do it myself of possible or pay someone to do it. Leave him and find a smarter man. Im obsessed with my man now. He's extremely intelligent, gentle, emotionally stable. I can't believe my luck finding such a man in my ealry 30s. I thought they were all gone

[@pares7]

What a love story Dr Amen became a Psychiatrist to support his wife☺️

[@Portia620]

This is why we need to be in Congress!!!! We need to lead because we can think ahead!!!

[@jenster29]

There are women in Congress 😂

[@NovaDoll]

@@jenster29The boomers are destroying the world because they won’t be here in 20 years.

[@elsavelaz]

We need more women in AI. And chatGPT doesn’t represent all of AI, but was glad to see they put women on the revised board after removing any diversity during their drama

[@tensevo]

if they are criticising or gaining trust, then they are trauma bonding you.

[@whatshername656]

I really like that Dr Amen looks for the best in people, optimistic, knows the science etc. But my opinion, he can come across as an apologist for dysfunctional harmful people. Most of what he talks about here puts the burden on women to accommodate men's difficulties, but not visa versa...

[@BlackPearlMona369]

We need the female version of hem to give the female perspective more indeed...

[@elegantrose888]

His key words "Train your mind to help me not hurt me" Hits 💛👍

[@pd4887]

Oh man, cellphone affects us like a cocaine, oh my god, that hit me. Also the sugar inflaming everything, so true. I’m so glad everyone from the guy from tictok Eddie to this guy who is a doctor in his field are talking our diets: sugar and carbs are so toxic not only to health, but the brain. More fat and protein - so glad this knowledge is becoming ubiquitous.

[@qosaghcalnan1045]

Processed carbs are bad whole frutis veggies and whole grains are very healthy many Africans their stable of their diet is millet these people are very healthy I follow a girl from Africa on here actually . They are like glowing they are so healthy

[@Wyoming_Life]

If these conclusions are based on scans done at an Amen clinic, wouldn't they be done on people who are there because they are already having trouble in their life that led them there? That would mean these observations are skewed and not a random crosssection of the population.

[@Portia620]

I think menopause depression comes because people finally see reality.

[@kattodoggo3868]

You need to have your brain scanned

[@Magicisreal66]

It has to be realized, and noted here is..... They have both been indoctrinated and infected by patriarchal regime- "and did not have the females best interest in mind"- What should be obvious to everybody by now. That has had control over people for over five thousand years now. And has absolutely nothing to do with biology, or how Our creator made us to be.

[@Magicisreal66]

also notice he's not considering how much more women have to deal with in this society.. Like Horrific internal and external body image, Her safety, How she has to do almost everything in the family unit..... ect

[@Magicisreal66]

​@kattodoggo3868 ur brainwashed.

[@zero1188]

@@Magicisreal66both men and women deal with alot

[@rachelgarcia1790]

Very early into the video, my first question becomes: Are these brain differences by nature, or are they designed by socialisation? Are we training our children to behave and function in these ways due to societal expectations and demands we place on them based on gender? Can we improve the outcomes of all genders by changing how we raise kids?

[@Halloweirdo2013]

I wonder that too

[@sherriflemming3218]

Children learn from modelling and genetics can play a role. Safe People by Dr Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller- (Attachment styles.) Getting The Love You Want by Harville Hendrix IMAGO Wired For Love by Dr Stan Tatkin Emotional Intimacy by Robert Masters The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman I Hear You by Marshall B Rosenberg PhD Non Violent Communication by Marshall B Rosenberg PhD The Hoffman Process by John and Julie Gottman The Untethered Soul by Micheal Sorenson What The Heck Is Self Love Anyways? by Jonathon Aslay Are You The One For Me? Barbara DeAngelis. 8 Dates by John and Julie Gottman If The Budda Dated by Charlotte Kasi The 7 Principles Of Making A Marriage Work by John and Julie Gottman The 10 Essentials Of A Secure Partnership-by Dr Stan Tatkin Breaking The Man Code - Jonathon Aslay podcast Seek Good Character A Reminder To Us All David Tian PhD podcast. Interrogate Your Partners Their Past Is Your Future -;Sam Vaknin podcast The Mask You Live In Documentary The Paradox Of Choice Ted Talk

[@sherriflemming3218]

Children learn from modelling and genetics can play a role. They are also effected by society and what and who they're exposed to. There are many parenting education courses available. Also books on parenting. ACE exams. Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller Getting The Love You Want by Harville Hendrix IMAGO Wired For Love by Dr Stan Tatkin Are You The One For Me? by Barbara DeAngelis Interrogate Your Partners Their Past Is Your Future - Sam Vaknin podcast Breaking The Man Code -; Jonathan Aslay podcast Seek Good Character A Reminder To Us All David Tian PhD podcast

[@user-vf9vx3hm4s]

Great question! There will be no answer.

[@Magicisreal66]

I also notice he's not considering how much more women have to deal with in this society.. Like Horrific internal and external body image, Her safety, How she has to do almost everything in the family unit..... ect..

[@sherriflemming3218]

The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker is an informative book written for women.

[@Magicisreal66]

​@@sherriflemming3218 I shall definitely read it

[@sherriflemming3218]

@@Magicisreal66 Great to hear. It's an empowering book. De Becker has great podcasts as well. Every woman's bible. It should be implemented in the education system for adolescents. I encourage men to read it. I'll leave a list of personal development books. I hope you're well! Victor consciousness 🌞 This is a great podcast!

[@sherriflemming3218]

Safe People by Dr Henry Cloud Non Violent Communication by Marshall B Rosenberg I Hear You by Marshall B Rosenberg The Language Of Emotions by Dr Gabor Mate Boundaries by Dr Henry Cloud The Hoffman Process by John and Julie Gottman The Untethered Soul by Micheal Singer The Brain Mind And Body In The Healing Of Trauma---Bessell Van Der Volk Are You The One For Me? by Barbara DeAngelis 👍 What The Heck Is Self Love Anyways? by Jonathon Aslay ❤️ Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller Getting The Love You Want by Harville Hendrix IMAGO ( why you keep choosing the same people over again) Wired For Love by Dr Stan Tatkin The 7 Principles Of Making A Marriage Work by John and Julie Gottman Emotional Intimacy by Robert Masters 8 Dates by John and Julie Gottman If The Budda Dated by Charlotte Kasi Without Conscience by Robert D Hare Snakes In Suits by Robert D Hare The Paradox Of Choice - Ted Talk The Mask You Live In Documentary

[@Magicisreal66]

@sherriflemming3218 I sure do appreciate all these podcast and informational link's . definitely gonna be sharing them, with my daughter 2. Cause I know when we empower our daughters, the cycle can't repeat The horrific indoctrination they received from this patriarchal regime that was spawned out of a human septic tank. Thanks again.I hope you have Awesome life!

[@sally180]

Wow ….let’s continue medicalising the cyclical nature of women’s bodies. Understanding our cycles and cycle hacking is one thing. Honestly, if your partner is putting you on hormones to turn you into a more compliant version, I would be asking questions. Where was the pushback on this? How many men would have their hormones tampered with to make them into better husbands? Why do we as women spend so much time seeking to understand our partners so we can meet them where they are?

[@MyAkachi]

I'm just curious as to why this channel has gradually changed into one focusing on men and love and romance. When it started it was of women achieveing great things; breaking barriers; inventing things; launching and running successful businesses. Now it's super focused on romance, when women have much much much brighter and varied lives outside of their romantic dealings with men.

[@remimollycoddle]

Understanding your own physiology and how you show up in relationships can help a woman understand herself better and make better decisions for a happier, healthier life (romantic or not). Have you really not taken any useful nuggets from this conversation?

[@deb.m.7458]

Meeting people, love and romance are a part of life. Lisa is just showing us what not to accept or put up with it if it’s with the wrong person (someone who is leading you on). She is also trying to help us understand our differences so that we can make better choices. We are worth the self love and deserve better. Sometimes, we make lousy choices in love.

[@MyAkachi]

@@deb.m.7458 I never said those things weren't a part of life. My question is why has the channel changed focus from highlighting the exceptional achievements of women globally, into men men men, dating dating dating. It's an insidious change in direction. And I'm curious as to whether that was the original plan, or this is what we see when a channel starts pandering to what women have been conditioned to focus on in a patriarchal system. In the earlier days she features so many female CEOs and record breakers and I loved to see it because we as women are so starved of that content. But nowadays the videos on this channel are typically a variation of how to keep a man. It feels like a regression. My opinion anyways.

[@Magicisreal66]

So glad you come into that! Maybe She's sold us out! Hubby brainwashed her!

[@remimollycoddle]

Ever wondered if those exceptional women understand themselves, their bodies, the way they interact with other people including their significant others? Do you not think that that is a solid foundation based on which one can become an exceptional "woman of impact"? Can you maybe try to reframe the way you see this current episode or is it only "men men men"? I am currently single and I personally find this episode extremely useful (for my own growth).

[@henrikelanschuetzer4261]

Having worked at a Psychiatrist Unit for Kids I fully agreed to that Theory of 1st Child Abuse, including the difference between alcoholic mothers VERSUS fathers as MAIN CARE GIVERS

[@s.o.t.s.o.t.]

Not every human and woman has the same character, which includes the empathy, iq, morals, spine. Knowing they own the physical strength is the only reason why men in general almost always don’t care or aren’t bothered about what others think of him.

[@priyankaarora300]

Just 10 minutes into this interaction, I am just loving it ❤

[@flynneart1111]

Cuz were better girl!😉🌸

[@emperorwendi]

Neuroplasticity begs to differ. It’s only natural that after thousands of years in which boys to men have been conditioned to prioritize themselves and their careers over their intimate relationships that the scans would produce such results.

[@Magicisreal66]

What the hell did u do to ur channel Lisa? He's doing almost nothing but gaslighting women , Telling them to fix their self for their man.

[@BaiMengLing]

Dr Amen is assuming that men are busy taking care of the family, wtf many modern men are just busy with their hobbies, their buddies and expecting the wife to earn her money on top of the chores!!! No wonder so many women are FED UP with men and kick them in the ass screaming a few years into the marriage.

[@daathdorothiel]

Lisa I love that part (1:16-) where you tell how you posed those questions to the doctor in the neurosurgery, where your mum got her brain surgery. I'm a student nurse besides learning natural medicine, and always get irritated by the same thing. Trying to teach our patients in secrecy to be aware of this and they are grateful for it.

[@meetandinspire]

"I want us to feel our feelings because when we block them they come out in pain in our body." "Males and females both have their own significant strengths but the strengths of the female brain is forethought, it's conscientiousness, it's collaboration."

[@newbetsy]

I love this interview so much!! Dr. Amen's research helped me immensely 20 years ago with the decision to medicate my 7 year old son for ADHD. I learned it's NOT a behavioral problem. Now, we've learned so much more about sugar and diet, but at the time my son needed to succeed socially and academicly. Now, as a menopausal 55 year old, looking after my parents in their 80's, this information is AGAIN so helpful to me. Thank you Lisa and Dr. Amen!!!

[@miateacher123]

So clearly explained, and so repectful to women. Seems like such a great doctor.

[@soothingstories]

Sooooo True! about hospital food! Like have they ready and current research anywhere?

[@TsuMacBabCud]

Thank you for this great episode. Im 44 and it is just what i needed!

[@angelaknox]

ADHD in women and girls is often misdiagnosed and misunderstood, with more focus on anxiety and depression. Most research about ADHD centers on externalizing symptoms seen more commonly in males instead of internalizing symptoms seen more in females. Aka, we really don't khow how many men vs women have ADHD.

[@cinthiarinebold3567]

Great segment, very informative 🎉🔥🩷

[@Jellybeans123]

Super interesting episode thanks Lisa!

[@susanna.elegian]

This was really interesting & informative❣️ Thanks Lisa & dr. Daniel

[@tanchycaa]

Thank you Lisa for this and all your amazing guests. It really helps me a lot!❤

[@n3m4ra]

Very good discussion ❤

[@Mkr7942]

I learned so much!

[@CelestialRealm-uq7vu]

Amazing interview 👏 Makes a ton of sense!!!

[@naturewithin9]

So Grateful Dr. Daniel and to You, Lisa with great questions and your Channel🙌🏼✌🏼💕

[@diana.diamond]

this was very informative and interesting to hear! thank you

[@FlowertheSpaceAlien]

This is on a watch list to watch again with my partner... So much valuable info.

[@Color-ww8vl]

this type of information is so difficult to find. Thank ❣️

[@HappyWeightAoife]

Love you Lisa ❤ thanks for all your great work 👏🏽

[@IntuitiveCoachTheresa]

This is really good. Addiction and childhood trauma is a huge problem. Would love to hear from experts on all this for solutions for the non-wealthy. I suspect diet, sleep, avoiding all alcohol, sugar, processed foods, forgiveness, Jesus. Really at the end of the day, most will never have the opportunity to do hyperbaric O2 treatments or expensive supplements or detox retreats, but there are things we can do. This would be a really great topic to explore for someone in this field! Also, yes, EMF's are huge, as well as vaccines. This seems to be a taboo subject among leading wellness influencers, but its a massive deal too. Blessings!

[@sherriflemming3218]

Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller Wired For Love by Dr Stan Tatkin Getting The Love You Want by Harville Hendrix IMAGO The Hoffman Process by John and Julie Gottman The Untethered Soul by Micheal Singer What The Heck Is Self Love Anyways? by Jonathon Aslay Non Violent Communication by Marshall B Rosenberg The Four Agreements by Don Miguel 8 Dates by John and Julie Gottman If The Budda Dated by Charlotte Kasi Emotional Intimacy by Robert Masters Safe People by Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker The 10 Essentials Of A Secure Partnership-by Dr Stan Tatkin

[@BudFuddlacker]

I love your channel

[@creepypisces83]

Dr Amen is amazing ❤

[@irenegryziec8052]

Lisa - love your channel. Had read Dr Amen’s books over the past decade. Was stunned recently to read BBB info on his highly costly (and profitable) business model and sales of supplements as well as other reputable medical professionals who call his work BS. So confusing

[@natureasintended]

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Daniel_Amen#Reception_of_ideas

[@minacat2633]

I am curious as to how this information can be applied to someone who was born with a seizure disorder, has survived narcissistic abuse, and now has CPTSD?

[@sherriflemming3218]

The Hoffman Process by John and Julie Gottman - for healing traumas The Untethered Soul by Micheal Singer What The Heck Is Self Love Anyways by Jonathon Aslay The Brain Mind And Body In The Healing Of Trauma---Bessel Van Der Volk Somatic- EMDR therapy is effective for PTSD and CPTSD.

[@aurora9687]

Love Michael Singer!!! Great recommendations!

[@sherriflemming3218]

​​​​@@aurora9687Indeed. Thank you! I hope it helps Mina. I see you're also on JAs channel. We've messaged before. Have a happy Easter! 🐣

[@laurawalker6431]

The best understanding of female and male brains and relationships so far Lisa. Thanks

[@lizrod1799]

Amazing video!!!💐💐🙏🏽💐🙏🏽💐🙏🏽💕💕🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🫶🏽🫶🏽🥰🥰❤️

[@el_chick]

Loved this episode so much! Thanks, really helpful. So interesting how our brain works and how it impacts on our decisions and lives 😮 And about hormones... Great job ☺️👍🏼 Already want to buy one of Daniel's books.

[@sally180]

Also, this is the worst part, none of us exist in a bubble….. The quality of one’s mate choices impacts hormone levels! All of this means nothing until we study the hormone profiles of family units or couples to examine the effects we have on one another. You only need look at the research into the effects of cortisol on the endocrine system. Autoimmune disease, cancer, chronic illness. The impact of ACE scores on health etc. I would suggest that before advising women to go on hormones or any long term pharmaceutical treatments, to really understand the possible cause of the imbalance.

[@valeridawn]

O' wow! Someone, please clip the first 8 mins! Amazing and helpful statistics.

[@AlexiaHDIntuition]

Loving the entire interview with doctor Amen. What is the name of the app I couldn’t catch the name 🥴 thanks Lisa it’s very helpful 🙏

[@Carolinekatongo]

This is very gud to learn. Thanks @LisaBilyeu and dr Daniel.

[@jowhitmer7955]

😊

[@krystynaprzybylska5006]

I would love to know if Dr. Amen has studied the brains of women who use the pill and those who do not and if there is a difference. Very interesting, thanks.

[@mattymarlsdrou]

I have a big hippocampus. Lol explains alot!

[@tiaevans-songbirdalessaund4672]

I need a very specific scan for my levels . When I run on auto pilot and don't feel anything. But out of no where I get sick with iBS. When I think I'm feeling good. No cure My hormone imbalance of of dopamine and serotine other than relaxation. Not to mention I vent been able to conceive any pregnancy. I'm 38 went 100% off my Zoloft meds in January . I feel ok but mostly blank and ever busy

[@Cocktail.witch.newhaven]

I'd love to know how patriarchal trauma is playing a role of the development of women's brains.

[@elsavelaz]

I wish he could talk about men that “enjoy cheating.” I’m not someone who experienced it chronically but the 1 time, was it really me even if it’s not ever happened before? Or was he just wired that way and he was going to keep doing that to everyone anyway (wish I’d known about the fingers check! lol). So not so much they can’t think ahead, but is there such a thing that they plan ahead even more because they can’t wait to go cheat because the thrill is the cheating ?

[@sherriflemming3218]

Elisa, it can be cultural and for various reasons. Sam Vaknin has great podcasts on the topic. Also James Sexton divorce attorney has great podcasts.

[@elsavelaz]

@@sherriflemming3218 I get that , have seen them. I’m interested in their brain scans, not anecdotal. Does that make sense?

[@elsavelaz]

@@sherriflemming3218 thanks sherri! I'd still really like to see scans because I know not all men chase sex

[@sherriflemming3218]

@@elsavelaz These studies must be somewhere. There's plenty of studies done on the criminal brain. Yes, some men are capable of being loyal. There is hypersexuality or compulsive hypersexuality in certain mental health disorders. Dr Robert Weiss has podcasts on sex and porn addiction. It would be interesting to see actual scans. I think dating requires detective skills including a background check. Never doubt patterns. AKA The Track Record.

[@sherriflemming3218]

Interrogate Your Partners Their Past Is Your Future - Sam Vaknin podcast Love Addiction Craving Infatuation Limerance - Sam Vaknin podcast Cheating Triangulation In Sick Relationships ---Sam Vaknin podcast Never Forgive Infidelity- Sam Vaknin podcast Seek Good Character A Reminder To Us All - David Tian PhD podcast 13 Harsh Truths About Men and Commitment That Women Learn Too Late - Jonathon Aslay podcast Breaking The Man Code - Jonathon Aslay podcast 13 Ways Men Use Women - Jonathon Aslay podcast Safe People by Dr Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker

[@Portia620]

We are very different!

[@QuantumHealingLounge]

I'm a 9 on the ACE scale and I consider it a miracle that I made it this far. Not like you wear it on a shirt for everyone to know. There's so much recovery work involved in getting to normalish. But when the scale came out the difficulties of my life made a lot more sense.

[@flynneart1111]

This is the best doc

[@tammymcbride7252]

My son is very involved with his kids. He seems to be more emotional of the two

[@carlakeene8383]

Amino acid therapy is so helpful...for men and women... Thank you ..great information..

[@Harsha-D311]

I am good at spotting lies

[@HSBsoulsurfer]

Dr. Amen should scan bisexual men's brains! It would be very interesting. I seem to be drawn to these men. They seem largely more sensitive and responsive.

[@daniellegathings7651]

I don’t know the neurological aspect but it’s because bisexual men tend to be in touch with their feminine energy

[@MaamafricaEsther]

Bisexuality will also still be either man or woman. In nature there's no both or in between

[@ima.m.1658]

@@MaamafricaEsther that's literally biologically false. there are intersex people, and non-binary people exist as a gender identity

[@1ReikiFloW]

@1:24:01 when we tap on the karate chop point in real time when he have "aunts" we ground and process the glitches out rather than fortifying them~

[@chloewainwright]

Loving this!! Just on the women having 52% less serotonin than men, was that an average taken across the month, as serotonin levels fluctuate massively depending on time of the menstrual cycle. I'm guessing they controlled for that. Interesting stuff!!

[@jenimolloy6152]

They learned not to trust, love or feel. Ouch.

[@caroljenny7701]

Almost everybody has a damn cellphone, if it were important, they could write it in their calendar or notes, seriously! It's a matter or PRIORITIES and DISCIPLINE and managing one's life!

[@StressCoach]

Great interview!!! But my goodness, all the ad breaks! Do you really still need the money?

[@dmix2263]

I’d love to do this. Is there a location near me?

[@Olivia-pn8uw]

I am curious about the process of getting a brain scanned. Is it expensive?

[@irmelinjohansen2569]

What type of therapy, does he mention as boost the blood flow to the Brian around 47 minuts into the interview??

[@Portia620]

We loose purpose once kids leave nest. This is why women need to be very active in community and help others and find ways to find purpose. We need to do !!!

[@claudinesteenberge4920]

Funny you say that, as I've been preparing for this mentally before they're all off to college and adult lives

[@nesezalal1238]

Me too. So much is an ohhhhh now I understand.

[@anagarciadiaz8549]

Hi @LisaBilyeu I would like to know wether I understood right that it is benefitial for women to take progesteron to help with better hormonal cycles!? Also i would like to know which is this app you talk about in min 1:15 to scan products and check if they are healthy Thank you

[@elsavelaz]

So if we can’t get a scan (yet), what do we do to figure out how to regulate, and how does this translate to knowing “red flags” vs if they had a scan, and were open, it could work?

[@melisaco79]

On the testosterone levels, my ring finger is an entire 1/2”inch longer than my index finger! I’m a 45 year old woman. This may explain why I have increased muscularity first when I exercise vigorously. I’ve had to modify my workouts to primarily focus stretching and yoga as opposed to lifting heavy weights.

[@michelled2993]

PMDD we have it more than other regular PMS women. Ours can ruin our lives when we never asked for this but we have to deal with this. It ruins our relationships, jobs, friendships

[@jenster29]

I had it for years. Am on progesterone now..I take it daily and it has helped. Wish I had it for the last 20 years and maybe wouldn't have had such bad PPD too But am good now... check it out

[@rosamoreno4794]

Top 5 supplements for anxiety, depression and some mental health problems and some substance abuse problems: Tryptophan, tyrosine, DLPA, GaBa, and Glutamine.

[@chrissylarsen8617]

What was the supplement very begin he mentionedd? Amino acid that helps with depression.

[@jopainting1668]

Why am I getting interrupted with commercials every 3 minutes

[@SoniaAnastasiaaa]

27:47 sounds like too much effort lol I just wouldn’t celebrate an anniversary and see where things go

[@MagaliTellez-ze8nd]

Fantastic information but how the “average” person and the “at risk” underserved people who are the most vulnerable and the most likely to be affected by all or most circumstances that would cause brain damage can have access to help and brain diagnostic tests and treatments that are not traditionally cover by insurance? I my self have to wait to be in a better financial position to bring myself and my children to his clinic because I can see the cascade of risk factors already affecting my love ones..

[@user-un9zz2cy9j]

Cool

[@sandrasuarez5870]

Love to see men sit in a pink space discussing the differences between men and women 😂😂😂😂

[@bikergirl420.]

Only 6 mins in 👍🏻 Lisa this is super fascinating! I wonder what a females brain with severe hyperactive adhd would look like having many injuries from sport inc the head 🙈 🙋🏻‍♀️😂

[@missarmiller78]

I would love to be treated by him!

[@millyday]

Collect Penguins! Notice what you like😊

[@dawn6232]

This advice does not hold up against personality disordered individuals or those with high numbers of traits. There needs to be a warning when people with good intentions put this information out there. Just like warnings on cigarettes. This is not appropriate. This can keep well meaning innocent individuals in abusive relationships. Passive aggressive behaviors can be hidden amongst this advice.

[@sherriflemming3218]

Good point Dawn.

[@angelaknox]

Women are more intelligent. Society hasn't/doesn't want us to know this. Of course we're more stressed, think about it parents worry more than their children do.

[@thewatsons2486]

What about porn addiction?

[@kristicarle273]

I would have liked a better description of PMDD. This affects hundreds of thousands of women and there is so little research on it. It’s essentially the brain being allergic to normal hormonal changes in the luteal phase of a woman’s cycle. I have never in my life heard it described as a “possible concussion that affects the frontal lobe.” That is just embarrassing that anyone would describe PMDD like that. More research from more qualified doctors is so needed and women should be demanding it. Are we seriously applauding this man for announcing that research has shown that men’s brains are different than women’s?

[@jenster29]

Why would it be embarrassing? It's usually caused by a deficiency in progesterone. I take it daily and it has improved my moods immensely. Some months I have no pms

[@ToolkaRoolka]

I found recently that microdosing on magic mushrooms help this condition

[@MsDeongi]

This is bull.... We are talking about depression and everything but STILL gently remind someone 1000 times to do simple things. Not even at all

[@caroljenny7701]

Operant conditioning with love and leadership is how I made champions out of a half sized new jr. high with trailer park kids. I NOTICED them, and I spoke it outloud and with my complete attention. Why don't they teach this in Relationship 101 class in high school or college????? Anything REALLY profoundly useful they don't teach in school. I noticed them, I spoike it publically, AND I tossed them a jolly rancher candy. 2 1/2 cents would get them to practice their music for an HOUR a week, not joking. Between them feeling good about themselves, incredibly productive, and making something recognizable and beautiful (music) and the treat, it was a winnning combination over and over and over again. My kids marched the Rose Parade (world class), won tri state sweepstakes over and over and over again and all Southern California four times, once all catagories. That's proof that recognizing the wonderful in kids and giving rewards based on merit WORKS.

[@soothingstories]

I think Dr. Amen is brilliant, except for the part where he thinks women file for divorce because they are more likely to see problems. No!!!! Divorce papers are a chore and no fun and "dirty work" and men are okay to keep a wife and do "what they want" like affairs or have her as a good roommate, until he is really ready, or can in some other way "get her to do the dirty work of the divorce papers". He NEEDS to know this perspective! He sort of loses credibility all of a sudden with not understanding this important distinction. 45 to 55 is when the youngest turns 18 and the women is free of a "stuck situation" where she would have had to endure a horrific custody battle if she had divorced a man. It is also where we reach a point where we just can't pretend anymore or "Not see, what we know we have been seeing for decades now".