The 16 types in their own words - ft Hillary INFP

[@infxtv2646]

Aaahh! Thank y'all for letting me spill over into your corner and share some INFP life 💗 😊 I am so curious if any other types view their trickster functions as keys for massive growth ...share in the comments!! -Hill

[@PsychologyandChillwMichi]

INFx TV i view it the same wayyyy! Ti is my most cruel antagonist and the source of most of my insecurities- ive been actually working on it the last 6-10 months and i really think its for the better

[@Sarahenfj]

I'm trying to work on my Ne. It helps to surround yourself with people who are good at it. Also if I'm not sure of someone's intentions, I'll ask someone. Which helps my Ne and Te at the same time.

[@hannahmathilda7101]

INFx TV Hi Hillary, do you think the word “clarity” or “lucidity” is more of an accurate description for Fi than “accuracy”? My ENFP friend who isn’t into mbti often uses such words. I am also a type 9😉

[@hannahmathilda7101]

Nathan Glass And now, INTP! What do you think, Nathan about Fi being more about clarity and lucid rather than accuracy?

[@Sarahenfj]

@petaboil it's nice to hear from an ISTP

[@celicapevencie1942]

"It's like... uh... oh, i don't know... ya know?" -infp trying to explain anything

[@joshuapowell3526]

Yo man yeah man

[@kiminomotoe]

INFPs have such unique aura you can almost tell right away

[@georgexm2032]

Indeed!

[@georgexm2032]

Also their eyes sparkle all the time for some reason.

[@yourbootyholeisyourbeautyhole]

we're really easy to spot

[@hrkw4041]

The “ we use humor to defuse tension “ is soo true whenever my parents argue or something I always make a joke or laugh and they will always laugh even if they were really really angry and they will forget about there argument , i have just noticed it really

[@jessenceq3250]

Wow, what a cool super power!! Because it is you finding something genuinely funny - is that more Fi? Sometimes I wonder if trying to brighten someone's mood via joke could be perceived as Fe - trying to change the emotional temperament that is - thus be unwelcomed because it feels manipulated/influenced. I've noticed my close ENTJ friend does this too, although most people don't seem to appreciate his silly jokes (yet I definitely do). But I know he genuinely finds it funny or helpful and he will laugh to himself.

[@hrkw4041]

Jessence Q it’s.... I don’t know if they laugh because i am funny or just because i have to have a certain reaction but i gave them another one ....either way i am doing it to just stop the argument either by giggling even if ther isn’t something funny, just so they can look at me And focus on me instead of the argument or by a silly joke to just crack a smile on one of them so the other will stop and smile too + the entj’s, they do make jokes and try there best to make people laugh when there is an argument but because they are so obvious and i think people think, they don’t care that’s why they are making jokes like nothing is serious ,so they will be angry with them instead and forget about the argument , i have seen it happen all the time with my cousin 😂😂

[@Bonnie-sd7et]

I do this a lot if the energy in the room is heavy. Yet I feel that I'm an ENFP...is that usual? I'm just at the beginning of the video so will carry on...I tend to multi task in the comments at the same time 🧜🏼

[@nellautumngirl]

It's interesting to see another INFP, I'm just as soft-spoken and thoughtful but it's weird to see a 'mirror' of myself :)

[@tristanshelton8789]

Such a calm warm aura... Felt the vibes emanating through my phone screen haha!

[@infxtv2646]

This is so freaking SWEET ugh

[@boryman2999]

My advice to infps is to build skills and assets, a real portfolio of utility alongside your imaginative imaginations and value systems. You can do it, embrace and hone the ISTP within yourself.

[@infxtv2646]

this is such good advice!! it requires yet again, more Se...realizing you can drive your own car instead of waiting to see who jumps in and hits the gas for you. What I mean is, building skills and assets can seem so daunting if thought of in an active way...we prefer to do this passively, floating around naturally waiting to be hit with assets and skills as they land in our open arms. Building from choice and direction is a worthwhile challenge.

[@user-of4kk4in9f]

Do you mean take up knitting? Got that down😉

[@johnboi7496]

I’ve never seen someone with such a different perspective on life. That’s cool though, much respect. As someone who puts rationality over everything I am envious of your ability to be empathetic to a deeper level.

[@infxtv2646]

Thanks! I have a lot of respect for logical movement, as well. Are you wishing to deepen your empathetic abilities?

[@rinvarga6366]

Hillary, your voice made me feel like we INFPs really could be magic and just not know it yet, lol! And I completely agree with all your advice! I've been having the scariest but most fulfilling year that's shown me the most personal growth I've ever had just by doing the things I'm scared to say YES to and doing them anyway--I've met many new quality friends, I actually had FUN leading one of the craziest holiday shifts you could imagine in a bakery before Valentine's Day, I've learned the joy of hiking and kayaking and rock climbing, I quit my job that was making me miserable, I went on a solo roadtrip for the first time to a new city a week after quitting, I went camping for the first time, and just...so many more things I can't even include here. I'm shaping the person I want to be by taking the actions of what I think that version of me would do, and the difference has felt night and day. I feel like I'm a totally different person by taking risks, but also like I've never been more myself!

[@lovewho]

Hope you enjoyed the video! ~ Nathan

[@infxtv2646]

This is BEAUTIFUL i felt energy well up inside of me reading it - makes me want to continue to live my life as fully as possible :) I'm so happy for you!

[@CandyApples4ever]

To 2: Yes please help us infp’s. We fall over constantly. 😂

[@mariamel-nazer9456]

Her presence is very very soothing! She has so much charisma ❤❤❤ I would love to listen to her talking all day ❤ The Se part, I definitely related to the feeling alien part 💚

[@infxtv2646]

[@aimee22094]

I’m an INFP type 2! I had the same experience finding my type!!! This was like finally seeing myself from the outside! I always wondered why ppl felt so comfortable just unpacking on me as soon as they met me.... now I know. I feel like I could tell her anything and it would be ok, like, I’m so important to her and this was based on just this one video. Wow! I didn’t realize I had this power. Like I knew but I couldn’t imagine what it looked like... now I know! Thank you so much!!! 🌸🌸🌸🌸

[@Sarahenfj]

Wow I didn't know Se can be magical. I like that.

[@PsychologyandChillwMichi]

Nate is at Lu’s 😱😱 who couldnt recognize that chair

[@ChairmanSteel]

"That's not me, that's not me..." -> Checking off the things I'm not is exactly the approach I've been taking. It's like I need to convince myself that I'm not one of the other types I have aspects of. Feels like trying to tune the radio knob to my exact frequency but sometimes there's a song I like on another station.

[@infxtv2646]

what a METAPHOR. love it. exactly. and the thing is...you get to like those other songs...we contain all things. Let that knob be curious, see what it wants to listen to. That will tell you something.

[@TheAngiepangie424]

I’m also an INFP Enneagram 9. I’m a Therapist for Marriage & Family. I’m proud of our weirdness, let the freak flag fly! 🥳 Setting & maintaining healthy boundaries is a struggle for me. I appreciate your words, this is exactly what I need. Live & let live, trying to make others happen makes me unhappy. We can absolutely do whatever we want, and we will ‘succeed.’

[@johnnymiller9622]

Love, Hillary! And I’m an ESTP... Her ESTP spoof video is hilarious.

[@infxtv2646]

LOVE TO U ALL!

[@loreta8249]

she's so sweet. and quite open for an infp! i can see her as a good therapist. it's weird that i am also and infp but i feel like i am nothing like her. (but i do understand her) .she's seems so grounded and connected. maybe that is because she has also high Fe... Also now that i learned that Se is my polar function a lot of things makes sense haha. i always misplace ALL my stuff, I drop my phone like 3 times a day on average and i never notice anything what is happening around me. like we would walk on the streets with friends and they would be like" OMG that was/ looked crazy did you see that ? " and I would be like " what no where?? what happened!" ALL the time xD .. also I never notice things people are wearing, and I never care really much for what im wearing. and i kind of like to be unvisible in a sense.. maybe i should develop my Se. idk. anyways this was a nice video.

[@infxtv2646]

It's amazing to see the variation within type! Thank you so much for the observations and compliments

[@loreta8249]

@@infxtv2646 ayyy!:) interesting to hear! actually i use to wear a lot of black but now i prefer more colorful. it also depends on my mood and the season, for example in summertime i really love to dress as colorful as possible(probably because i am also a lot happier lol). idk i feel like with clothes i don't really want to look 'good' or anything but just dress how i feel and something that represents me as a person. but somedays i don't care at all and am too lazy so i just put on the first thing from the closet haha

[@JuliaPedro]

She's likely An Enneagram 9 like myself (I'm 9w8)

[@uwumarii]

It's interesting how different we all are even though we have the same mbti type because I'm somewhat the opposite to everything that you listed. Im always mindful about my things (dropped my phone twice in 3 yrs) and I'm always aware of my surroundings and notice the little things like "Tina over there had a trim" or "Ben looks fidgety earlier I wonder what's up?" and just speculate in my head lol

[@bravespirit1428]

I LOVE the 16 types in their own words series... It helps me understand people so much better. I look forward to hear about all the types!

[@PsychologyandChillwMichi]

Its funny you’re advice to INFP is the opposite i would give enfp- you dont HAVE to say yes to everything 😂😅

[@infxtv2646]

Lol YES

[@helenadetroya9265]

Here's the thing, I usually say Yes to everything when a friend asks me to do something (of course, I know not all INFPs are like me), I've been fighting a lot with myself on not accepting toxic behavior. But when it comes to new experiences... I'm always afraid. Like, I don't mind going on a journey with family, but I'd rather not leave the house at my own town, it's also really hard for me to take a life-long decision like marriage for example.

[@infxtv2646]

@@helenadetroya9265 Hi Helena! Yes, I think INFPs can definitely get in the Yes mindset (I am personally like this, struggling with saying no and slowing down.) Big decisions are hard, especially for INFPs. I think we want the freedom to act in accordance with how we feel and what we want in a moment...and so many moments have yet to come, and so many feelings can change! Marriage seems like such a committment, that your feeling must match this committment for...well, ever. It's like you close a door to the possibility of feeling different and being able to explore those things. It can be constricting. What's important to realize is you can make those big decisions and then adjust as you go. Nothing needs to be forever. You can decide your own parameters. You have more control and freedom than you think.

[@helenadetroya9265]

@@infxtv2646 That's a nice way to put it, I think my problem is that I think I won't be able to keep my promise, I fear to disappoint people or make mistakes. I think that's the main reason more than feeling restrained by my decision

[@XavierGuillaume]

Also super agree about the importance of change as an INFP. It took me a long time to figure out the importance of change, but when I finally did I did learn to embrace change. One of the books that super helped me with that was the I Ching. If you are interested in learning about change in a symbolic poetic way, the I Ching is great. It is actually called the Book of Changes.

[@zain4019]

Xavier Guillaume I definitely will, thank-you for the suggestion:)

[@grumpyschnauzer]

Geez, I just typed 2 people in my class from watching this! This girl is spot on INFP. I do think you can type personalities on the basis of speech tone, pattern, and use of language... interesting.

[@ShawnDavid91]

Not a INFP, INFJ but the 2 pieces of advice you shared I love: 1.regarding SE, Go travel BUT IN VERY SPECIFIC WAY. Go talk and learn from your surroundings, and not so much be needy to know every single detail. Allow a little chaos. 2. Say yes. Say yes and knowing that decisions are made at mutiple steps along the way. Again allow a little chaos to bring in variances.

[@AlaskaPerry-h3t]

I feel she's an ENFJ more than INFJ

[@XavierGuillaume]

Absolutely with the utilizing Se bit and for magicial it is. Took a martial arts class which is a lot of Se and that was how I found confidence and my voice. 2nd. Also super cautious when it comes to the rock jumping thing. I was with friends rollerblading and suddenly they just climbed up all these rock steps on their rollerblades in like 10 seconds. It probably took me 5 minutes to climb up them. I was so scared and cautious.

[@infxtv2646]

Yes I agree...I'm sure you must be so much more aware of how your body exists in space because of the Martial Arts...what a great tool and practice. It's awesome that you feel a heightened confidence because of that.

[@joemullany7621]

ENTP finding INFP devastatingly charming confirmed. And the synergy...you use humor to defuse tension...we use humor to create tension - it;s Yin and Yang! I'm a bit envious of your ability to get people to naturally confide deeply with you. I never had that. But then, you know, emotions and stuff. They just get in the way and I don't really have time for that so, yeah, probably a good choice to go to you INFPs for this sort of thing. But I'm rooting for ya! Yeah, in summary, I think you INFPs are great so don't get hung up on the "weirdness" and let the world benefit from you. Don't hide your light under a bushel etc etc.

[@sammyj1183]

Hillary is so sweet! I like that she mentioned bringing humor to conflict situations. That helps calm people down more than we realize. Also, I was typed ESFP 😱👁

[@sammyj1183]

Nathan Glass ... by Dave. I mean, it’s hard to tell from a brief phone call, but... I can see myself having high Fi instead of Fe... I could see myself being either ISFP or ESFP... I didn’t realize it until I actually wrote everything down and had the conversation... What type are you again? Didn’t they type you ISTP but everyone thinks you’re INTP/ENTP?

[@sheandg]

Sammy J hey! I remember you posting on my video with Binyamin and how relatable I was, interesting because I was typed as Fi/Se and you Se/Fi. We are very similar. What animal stack did they think? I love ESFPs. We are speaking the same language!

[@sammyj1183]

Sheila w Hi, Sheila!! I’ve watched your videos and still relate to you a lot! My husband is ESTP, too, and I am from MN! He is from WI 😅. Yes - they said Se/Fi for me. I definitely speak your language 😂. Dave was thinking I may be an introverted ESFP. I could see it 🤔. How’s the weather back there? I live in MD now!

[@sammyj1183]

Sheila w Oh, also, I am “consume, sleep, play, blast”...

[@sheandg]

Sammy J too cool fellow Minnesotan! Do you crack up with my strong MN accent? When I listen back to myself I’m like “oh boy, I sound like the movie Fargo!” Yes, depending on your animals a CS/P(B) Se/Fi is going to come off much more introverted feeling. I’m CP so I’m right in the middle looking like an ambivert. I love playing with the tribe, but very much get drained and need my alone time after being out. The weather has been crap!!! Cold and rainy and I even had to break down and turn the heat on the other night to get the chill out of the house. They are predicting another very cold and snowy winter. ugh, these winters really are getting old but 3/4 of the year I love it here. You know the routine!!! Do you still have family here and come back and visit?

[@user-nn4pw2jk6z]

My favorite musicians are INFPs. They are amazing!

[@PumpkinSoup1234]

Some how i did felt sincerity through very few moments, and then I felt she was more focused on trying to sound calm and convincing than in answering in a 100% sincere fashion as he does

[@lxf9914]

5:25 Yes! That right there is Se baby. I'm so impressed with that. You are helping me understand what Se IS. I think that is the beauty of INFPs insight. If an INTP can give logical numerical analysis an INFP gives that 'ah' moment that should be obvious but they have this way of communicating it in a 'beyond words' way. That was totally Se. If you look at an ESTP for example, boom that's it. Just on all the time. Secondly, for anyone to have that performance of their trickster is impressive. I 'd say you have a solid (no pun intended) developement of 7th function.

[@infxtv2646]

aaaaah this comment...THANK YOU. i've always felt the best way i can share knowledge and ideas is to somehow just BE it - i'm not great with elaborate explanation or other ways of explaining. What type are you? What's your 7th function?

[@user-iu2yb7dd3d]

When you mentioned bringing humor to lighten a tense mood or situation instead of yelling and criticism--that sounds wonderful.

[@JessBritvec]

He’s in the chair but he’s not wearing a robe!! I also learned about typology in college and shoutout to Personality Junkie, 😂, I thought that was a great online source of info back in the day. Hillary is super entertaining to watch! I feel like she should do commercials or be a motivational speaker or spokesperson for some hip marketing campaign.

[@infxtv2646]

😮 ...Jess! Thank you! Never thought of any of those paths for myself before...hmmmmm. I love that you shared those observations.

[@delendnum9777]

can't agree more with the Se part. Thanks for sharing!

[@elonmust8859]

I do most of my traveling on Google or in my head because if i got on a bus i would then have to meet people lol and be faced with other obsticles.

[@ryan-paxton]

It'd be good to juxtapose this with the more callous, masculine INFPs that exist in the world to give both ends of the spectrum.

[@sentricz_devkep7525]

I love this girl’s personality hahahah. It’s dope

[@infxtv2646]

loool ayyyyye thanks!

[@sentricz_devkep7525]

@@infxtv2646 You're very welcome

[@SecretHaven_]

I’m feeling her... lolz when i hear her talk, I “feel” like she’s abt to cry😂 so INFP LOL

[@Jess-yv7zc]

Thanks for sharing. I'm an INTP and I'm very curious about INFPs as we share Ne-Si in the middle. I can relate to having tunnel vision on off days...and to tripping down (and sometimes up lol) stairs. I very much like this advice re Se trickster to build confidence by having experiences in the physical world and to make a space in the world for yourself.

[@infxtv2646]

I felt like I was stuck in a dream yesterday at work...every single time I went up the stairs I tripped on the same step with the same foot. I could NOT break the cycle! Anyways...thanks for the nice words - I'm glad the advice resonated. In retrospect I wish I had verbally addressed INTPs as well because it could totally apply to anybody with Se PolR. c:

[@handreieiacasa]

Still, this videos are the best! Even if i m not an infp i was really interested in these topics. I think you re also really good at choosing the right people.

[@kevinl4687]

when people see you are weird they think your are weak so they feel comfortable being themselves around you because they dont fear the consequences.

[@Burtifly]

Another great video. I'm an infp male, like Hillary I believe I'm a type 9 possibly 9w8. I tend to feel I'm a little different to a lot of other infps though. Change has never really issue for me, apart from my Si nostalgia, and my Se is pretty good. Now my theory for the reason of this, there was a lot of death in my family when I was quite young. Incmuding My Father, which sort of thrust me into life, having to grow up fast. Taking on a more Fatherly role, being the New man of the house, and having two younger sisters. I changed schools a lot we moved around a bit. As for my Se, well I played a lot of sports I had a motorbike, we had horses. I grew up on a farm in small village in Australia. I using my Ne and always have done. I would give the same advice that Hillary gave, get on bus talk to the person at the bus stop. Lately I have been giving similar advice to my isfj's friends that I know is struggling with change, and trying New this. I'm doing it right now, winging my way through Mexico and Cuba for 2 months. I've been doing it for the last 23 years. Travelling is the best thing in infp can do, to help them grow. 🙂

[@infxtv2646]

Hey!! Thanks for sharing your early life experience...I would think you're a pretty adaptable and outgoing INFP from having to stretch those muscles at an early age - and clearly you continue to do so by traveling so extensively! Good for you. I also feel a bit like an unorthodox INFP since I'm more social and assertive than most. At the end of the day we all have our own flavor regardless of what cognitive processes we use - it's fascinating to see these differences within a shared type! Take care

[@JuliaPedro]

Yeah! I'm a 9w8 and don't fit into the most common mold of INFPs- 4w5. I'm pretty assertive, loud and 'unshy' for an INFP.

[@chantalvanderleek2983]

I like you Hillary! The travel alone advice is a really great one for INFPs. Won't be as terrifying as many think either as INFPs are generally great with people. And can hold a budget. Hillary seems to be confident and aware of SE to the extent I would suggest she might be an ENFP...with a bit stronger se and weaker ti than INFPs...She seems very Ne driven. Maybe an INFP ne subtype. She is advocating and inspiring me for sure. Enfp style...INFPs can do that too I am sure. Great video nonetheless.

[@infxtv2646]

Chantel! Thank you for such thoughtful and sweet words. Interesting argument for ENFP...I'll put this on extended spin cycle in the back of my mind for a bit, see if anything comes out dry 😋

[@chantalvanderleek2983]

@@infxtv2646 Hey Hillary! Thank you for your reply. My observations are just based on 15 min video of you being in the zone so I guess when INFPs talk about things they are emotionally invested in they can resemble ENFPs for short amounts of time. I must admit though i have watched your channel a bit in the past (love it!!!) and the same question came to my mind then, but I am no expert at all. And i apologise if i have created type confusion :) I guess what i tried to say was more that you seem to me like a high Ne using INFP almost looking like ENFP sometimes and that is nice to see, as many INFPs (including myself) keep that side of themselves a bit private or hide behind art etc and try to look more logical/rational towards the world. But i guess you making videos is kind of getting Ne out through art/creative self expression. Maybe I am just positively jealous of your Ne usage!!

[@chantalvanderleek2983]

@@lovewho Hey Lu! 2 thumbs up for you and Nathan!! Thanks for giving me such a good channel to enjoy.

[@infxtv2646]

@@chantalvanderleek2983 Aww Chantal, thank you girl. I appreciate you sharing your perspective of me, even if it has potential to create type confusion (it didn't c:) - your thoughts are interesting! You really laid out a good argument that I can't refute! Do you wish to strengthen your Ne? What kind of art do you make?

[@zeal2645]

It's so nice to see other FI doms who talk about being Fe and Fi equal. Am also an INFP 9w1 (sx sp) and when I took function tests it came up as me using Ne(65.4%), Se, Te, Fi, Fe, Si, Ni then Ti(42%). It makes it so confusing tofigure out! I couldn't agree more that once I used more Se, I was happier and felt more confident. Which was so hard as a INFP 9 who wants to keep peace for my inner and outer world. I hated having Fi, for those intense feelings, but now I know how to not just accept but use not control them. I can also relate to being the therapist freind to everyone, even to family. I used to get treated like a door mat and resented it; took it for granted when I was younger. Now, seeing it as you do, making space is such a better balance. You explain things in such a great way (+ examples!) and I love your energy. And to anyone reading I hope your day/night goes amazing!🌷

[@rur1279]

Lol I love her so much. I see a lot of myself in her

[@misscroft007]

I cried at some parts of the video...I am an INFP and it is so accurate. But you are a very wise INFP!!! You are such are great person

[@darrencapaldi6924]

I’m an INFP type 9, what Hillary talked about is so true 😢😊

[@Celebok]

I can relate to the part about being an Enneagram Type 9 having made it difficult to figure out my MBTI type back in the day, even though I wouldn't figure out my Enneagram type until much later than that. But basically it took me a while just to figure out what my natural tendencies were, because I'd always gone along with whatever I'd been taught by others were the best ways to do things.

[@sapokee2830]

Wow, I can see the Ne being filtered as she's talking. Coming from an ENFP, it's really interesting seeing someone who probably has the same thought process as me, but that chooses to sift through it a bit more than I do.

[@gustinulhen2524]

At first, i don't believe she's an INFP. But when she said a journey, thats right there is the first right word for INFP

[@nailachoudhury3795]

How did you figure out you were bad at Ti? I'm sure I'm infp but when I first read about cognitive functions Ti didnt seem like something I couldnt do so I get why you mistyped for intp And what you said about going to places alone so you dont rely on others is so true😂 when I started uni I realised I dont know the way to my lecture theatre despite going for several days. Because I always go with my friends and I'm not paying attention to where i was or where they're taking me so I never actually figured out the way until I had to go myself I see why you were confused about the Fe/Fi thing you immediately strike me as an INFJ/ENFJ but the enneagram 9 thing makes sense. I'm an infp enneagram 9 too😊

[@infxtv2646]

Hey Naila c: Ti often feels unnecessary to me. If I find myself using Ti it can seem like I'm stuck in this grey cloud of reasoning that couldn't easily make sense to another. I get worried that I will bog people down with too many details if I try to use Ti to explain something, and will end up confusing them. Instead, I'd rather lay out a big picture solution or thought and then work backwards through details if future questions arise or I notice a gap. Maybe I should make a video on this...I have quite a few thoughts :p thank you so much for asking this question!! Also...I've heard before that I have NFJ energy, interesting you point that out. Do you relate to that, being an INFP 9 yourself?

[@JuliaPedro]

Gosh! I'm a Nigerian woman living in Nigeria which means I'm oceans, rivers and deserts away from this woman and I just saw myself in her just a minute into the video. Her "life is a journey" and then she went off and in a wistful manner said "isn't life a journey". Then she had that serious expression @1:10 I always put on when explaining something serious. And some people believe personality types mean nothing. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@markrafat5339]

Love you Hillary ❤️

[@infxtv2646]

Oh Mark :) I hope you're doing well! Thank you for stopping by 😊

[@HumansOfVR]

Hi Hillary!

[@infxtv2646]

Oh hey!! 😊

[@kavitasingh5604]

I am infj and i can relate too, you are sweet girl!

[@Bonnie-sd7et]

Which other types do people tell their problems to frequently? It's something I've noticed a lot for me, people come and unload their issues on me particularly in a pub! I'll generally talk to anyone.

[@karenwoolley4279]

This one slipped into the INFJ playlist

[@flowerchasethesunshine9063]

I can totally see Se is my blind spot. Interesting! And I relate to that body language. Short pauses catching up my thoughts and what I have just said. Looks like this: ... ... 👁👄👁 ... so yeah!

[@DesperationLasts]

Oh my god. I relate to you so much.

[@ajaywankhede1905]

Love you guys the first genuine infp her emotions just killing me flowing by her facial expressions..

[@infxtv2646]

Oh dang really?? It's lowkey startling when I hear someone actually think I'm an INFP 😆 thanks Ajay. I agree...my face is pretty reactive 😶 lol

[@gustavramirez2891]

My little brother's an INFP, this sounds accurate :)

[@optimisticexistentialism999]

Even if I feel like I am a INTJ and ISTP it turns out that I do really go out even if I am mistyped as theme than I still use the conductive function as a INFP and that it is only balancing our conducive function in a way

[@Uncle_Jester]

"I want one."

[@heatherhafer3333]

You remind me of my INFP aunt and INFP cousin-in-law. But, I am a different INFP, and I didn't relate to you as much. It's as though we are talking about the same functions stacked in the same order, but that is all. Your presentation and your mind is so different from mine...which is kind of interesting.

[@VictoriaForSale]

Question one I actually can completely relate. I wasn't sure if I am infj or infp or infp. So I had to do a lot research and learn about other types, took like 3 tests and learned more and besides that I think the questions r difficult to answer because some situations need different ways of deciding and approaching it. But in the end I will go for the most reasonable for myself if I can't decide.

[@SoulShineLiveMichele]

What a beautiful inhibited ENFP who thinks she's introvert. She's adorable like Drew Barrymore. I am an inhibited ENFP who thought I was introverted and understands the easy to see I'm Ne but feel that Fi and Fe are almost equal thing she spoke of. It's the inhibition that creates this Fe type things. One thing that says she's an ENFP is her openness. INFP and ENFP tend to think and speak similar but an E is more open and talkative about their experiences, understanding, and thoughts. The other thing is how expressive she is. She literally pulls faves like Drew. I envy my INFP daughter who can easily keep a straight face. My daughter-in-law is also INFP and both are so quiet in their thoughts and don't share what they think about things. They gather and hold inside. I gather and speak about it. Neither of us talk about our feelings. I only share about mine when they've been resolved and can benefit others.

[@SpicyUnicorn]

Yeah...I'm an INFP and I could tell immediately she was an ENFP.

[@MA-2020]

I can see myself in her, almost like a mirror, and I am very sure I'm an INFP. I got people (with good understanding of MBTI) mistyped me as an ENFP (seeing how open & assertive I am), but who knows a person better than their selves? Esp with MBTI and cognitive functions, all happen internally, so outsiders can only guess.

[@friendlyanomaly6109]

@@MA-2020 Not a fan of OPS it seems

[@waterbottle9603]

Uuuuhh the ti fe thing I can relate. I’ve never figured out my type... I know my feeling functions are strong because I’m empathetic and people usually like me ( I think hah), but at the same time, I love using my Ne with ti, I love playing puzzle games and I study programming in college... so idk, maybe I’m actually using Te and I don’t understand how functions work, but even if I was, Te is an inferior function...

[@infxtv2646]

I took one programming class in college and wanted to die LOL it was sooo painful. Perhaps it was the language I learned (I know there's quite a bit of variation), but I know I don't have a lot of patience for solving technical problems...especially if they are my own! It is somehow easier if I'm helping someone else.

[@waterbottle9603]

INFx TV oh I see, I have a lot of patience, I can sit for hours and hours just to solve a single bug hah, I wouldn’t say that I’m the best at what I do, or that I have the easiest time learning , but I do have a lot of patience to try and understand how a system works. And yes, there are many different languages out there , I’m currently taking Java and C# :)

[@ExtremeZ8]

shes sweet

[@Oilofmercy]

I'm a 9 on the eaneagram (sp) but not an infp. ( I don't think!) And I can relate to a lot of this. It's interesting how the other tests factor in.

[@shaishai3920]

Oh my God I'm dying of cuteness

[@chantzukit681]

im an ENFP and i adore INFPs.

[@marwaosman4134]

Am i the only one who feel that she's ENFJ & not an INFP . At the end of the day they're both dominant feelers & have intuitive in the second spot & can usually mistyped for each others because people see the honesty & deep talk & immediately assume one's type is INFP . But i see no Fi but Fe . Correct if I'm wrong but i feel this is Fe

[@mahaabdalla6641]

Very beautiful

[@jacob_massengale]

The part about extroverted sensing will actually be Ne for NP's, but otherwise I agree. Extroverted sensing is not just using the senses, but specifically a learning process through emersive focus on the external world in real time; it's not just sensation but a direction of interest. The only way an intuitive would use Se would be through meditation or physical tasks that have not yet been memorized. The urge to engage the imagination makes this activity exhausting amd usually unsustainable. Intuitives would only do it if they were strongly motivated by an idea or some nerotic fear. For this reason, intuitives are slow learners with physical tasks.

[@MA-2020]

Learning to use Se by meditation? Are you sure you weren't confusing yourself with Si?

[@trustyourself-ashleyching3646]

Wow, I can so more relate to INFP than ENFP.

[@Sarahenfj]

Hillary!

[@infxtv2646]

HI SARAH. ...hehe 💜

[@Sarahenfj]

@@infxtv2646 hi

[@infpforever.]

@4:32 sooo relatable

[@sarabovo2151]

I am an infj but I wish super hard I was an infp. They are the best

[@lukesimmons968]

i like her she is weird.. am i weird too, yees.! XD

[@WalliFrog]

Oooohh weird, I took the test and got infp, related to all the stereotypes and lold but then I looked into it more and realised I actually am, definately. But for me I learned through CS Joseph before he got weird for me but i feel like i learned so so much about how it works. Then I learned through Cognitive Personality Theory who although missing the Ne parts of the theory is spot on in the detail. I did want to say pretty sure the specificity of emotion shes talking about is the Si of Fi rather, as Sensing is specificity and detail, turned introverted Si, applied to Fi. For some reason introverted detail equals extroverted abstraction and vice versa. I also pearned that its an Ne thing to look vaguely around the room as you speak and its an Ni thing to stare you dead in the eyes, or at least hold a steady gaze lol. Or maybe an Se thing really.

[@DeathFarmerInc]

She expresses her polar Se on video by playing with her hair.

[@makingwaffles]

I can’t stand mess/clutter. Does this mean I am Not an infp? Lol

[@infxtv2646]

no!! I actually feel like I oscillate between being super organized and haphazardly exploding into a space. I think any type can be clean or messy...there's a lot of room for personal variation within your type for suuuure

[@makingwaffles]

​@@infxtv2646 That is what I feel as well. I mean, when I was a child I shared a room and I could step over piles of mess without a care. It was when i moved to a room of my own that i felt like i could not concentrate with my space being in a mess. I asked this because of the overwhelming trend of INFPs being total slobs. I like my space in harmony... I am trying to type myself and I really relate the functions of INFP. I am DEFINITELY an introvert. I crave alone time on a regular basis. My Ne is strong, I seek patterns everywhere, and there are other INFP functions i relate to as well but this is getting long lol Have you met different INFP types in your life?

[@makingwaffles]

@@infxtv2646 P.s. I watched your recommendation, 'The Fountain', it was brilliant, I loved it! Cried like a baby lol

[@infxtv2646]

@@makingwaffles Yes i most definitely have met different types of INFP. I know INFPs who are heavily Fi driven - you know their values and would describe them using those terms (vegan, environmentalist, etc). I have another INFP friend who owns her own business and is great at marketing - this is bold for an INFP to go into business alone! Any person can truly live any way...it's all about which muscles you stretch the most. ALSO I can't believe you watched The Fountain!!! that's so freaking awesome. I'm glad you loved it! Do you have any recommendations for me??

[@Celebok]

Oooo, yay, Hilary!! :-D

[@infxtv2646]

Hi omg I've missed you! How are you??

[@Celebok]

@@infxtv2646 Hey. :-) Life's been good. Marriage to my ISTJ wife has been good. Nice and peaceful the way a double-9 relationship should be. ;-) Haven't had nearly as much time to keep up with videos, much less make them (aside from my recent "ISTP Cat" video), but I'm still around.

[@infxtv2646]

@@Celebok It's been cute watching your relationship c: Really glad to hear you're both doing well! I'm sad to tell you that David and I got divorced...but I am content and life has continued in beautiful ways. Crazy how things happen. I hope to continue seeing you around! -Hill

[@Celebok]

@@infxtv2646 Oh, yeah, I was a bit sad when you mentioned that in your video, but I'm glad you're doing well, and that you're still posting videos. I had thought at one point that if my wife got interested enough in MBTI (which she hasn't really), we could start a channel called "ISTx TV". ;-)

[@infxtv2646]

@@Celebok Thank you! I have several vids filmed but my current tech is not up to snuff, which makes vid processing and editing a nightmare. Hopefully I can invest in some new hardware soon and get back on track! I fully support the ISTx TV name if that ever comes to fruition :}

[@Laynasmuse]

💗💗💗

[@phlegmaticpluviophile1871]

Her : It was a journey Me : (O_O)

[@infxtv2646]

LOL

[@AutoAlchemy]

😏 👍

[@infxtv2646]

YOOOOOOOO whatup Jeffrey 😋 hehe

[@hannahmathilda7101]

Wait!!!! You’re in Lu’s chair???

[@hannahmathilda7101]

Nathan Glass You’re those kinds of people who are terrible at lying

[@kanna312]

Hannah Mathilda 😂

[@TheBittenBullet]

At about the 1:00 mark she says "she felt like she used Fi and Fe equally", and that led her to believe that she was an INTP. Did she mean "Fi and Ti"? If that's the case then that's EXACTLY what my experience was for a long time. I was always analyzing everything to death. For a while I assumed I was just caught in the middle between the T and F spectrum, until I found out that it doesn't work like that and you have to look at the functions. Eventually I learned that Fi was actually a form of thinking. Then it all started to make sense.

[@infxtv2646]

Hi there! I meant to say Fi and Fe! INTPs favor Fe, so in my mind it fit as a supporting point for the possibility of me being an INTP. I *also* thought I had Ti...but that was until I realized that Fi is also a system of consistency and logic in it's own way about intent, meaning, and feeling.

[@ravindranirmale2257]

Well... All that's fine. But why's this video in your INFJ Playlist?

[@SpicyUnicorn]

Okay, so she is clearly an ENFP. Sad you did not find an actual INFP! Why are we so hard to locate and get on screen?!?!

[@MA-2020]

Why do you think she is clearly an ENFP?

[@SpicyUnicorn]

@@MA-2020 it's pretty obvious she's an extrovert

[@MA-2020]

@@SpicyUnicorn but it's not that way in MBTI. She's very INFP to me, I'm one myself. There are many faces of INFPs. It's not a box.

[@SpicyUnicorn]

@@MA-2020 That's exactly what it is: a box. The big five factor OCEAN personality model uses spectrums. Maybe that might suit your conceptual preferences better.

[@DeathFarmerInc]

Girl, you are so not weird. You are just a normie calling herself weird because it's cute and currently marketable. You wouldn't know weird if it wore a purple cape and spoke Latin backwards. But go ahead and call yourself weird. It might get you $$$, boyz, and the cost to you will be nothing.

[@CT--jv2ur]

Why are you pronouncing your S’s so softly and sharply, I don’t hate you, it’s just really obnoxious and distracting.

[@dandl1999treasure]

Yeah, totally not infp, nor any introvert.

[@MA-2020]

If you think that way, you don't understand INFP nor MBTI yet. Cognitive functions happen internally, so outsiders can only guess.

[@dandl1999treasure]

@@MA-2020 I had to laugh at that. This social media concept of INFP is in a word, silly. Speaking of functions, have a look at Jung's description of the Introverted Feeling type: Still waters run deep' is very true of such women. They are mostly silent, inaccessible, and hard to understand; often they hide behind a childish or banal mask, and their temperament is inclined to melancholy. They neither shine nor reveal themselves. As they are mainly guided by their subjective feelings, their true motives generally remain hidden. Their outward demeanor is harmonious and inconspicuous, giving an impression of pleasing repose, or of sympathetic response, with no desire to affect others, to impress, influence, or change them in any way.

[@yucheung5853]

​@@dandl1999treasure then what is her type? And what would fi look like on men? I think tho the inaccessible+melancholy part could have manifested in a different way now given the fact that how women are given more voice and being less judged/having more agency nowadays

[@yucheung5853]

And jung did not come up with mbti neither.

[@AlaskaPerry-h3t]

​@@yucheung5853 what you see isn't Fi this is Ti through Fe , this woman is apparently an ENFJ even in her demeanor & way of speech this is Fe speech pattern & not coming from place of introverted feelings at all . If you want a perfect example of Fi watch the ISFP interview on this channel ( That's the vibe & way of how Fi Doms speak ) & compare her to this lady you must be able to spot the difference. At the end of the day ISFP & INFP inspite of the intuition & sensing different you can't mistake the Fi dominance in them

[@nobleneckbeard7356]

This isnt asmr...speak up!

[@infxtv2646]

yes thank you! I had just moved into a house with roommates and was filming at night, so I didn't want to wake anyone. Apparently nobody could hear a thing, so I will recalibrate if I ever do night filming again :p

[@kiminomotoe]

@@infxtv2646 i find your voice soothing, you can talk in whatever way you find comfortable 😛

[@infxtv2646]

@@kiminomotoe that's really sweet Erin, thank you c:

[@zain4019]

INFx TV I love your voice! It’s super calming.

[@infxtv2646]

@@zain4019 thank you ! 😇