How to win as an ENTJ

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[@nancydrew81]

10 additional tips from a happy successful ENTJ: 1. Choose a career you can easily redefine yourself without starting from scratch (entrepreneurship and science are great examples). 2. Work on at least 1-3 hobbies at a time to keep you busy when your career is not moving as fast as you want it to. 3. Listen to people with efficiency by asking deeper questions. 4. Find passionate, intelligent, and curious friends. INTPs and INFJs are my favorites. 5. Avoid negative people, they don’t want to solve their problems and will not like you anyways. 6. Help others achieve their goals and make time to volunteer. 7. Relax by listening to a book 2-3x times the speed. 8. Tell yourself being fit and healthy is a rare achievement and do it. 9. Meditate. Slowing down your non-stop mind for 10 min a day will be the most challenging but helpful thing you can learn how to do. 10. Learning all the rules is the first step in breaking them...but you already know this one!

[@rezasalamati9652]

True to the core

[@pot7979]

i do not understand number 10. these are principles, not rules. or did i understand it incorrectly?

[@ThatWhosAboveAll]

Bro how did you know how I feel about the rules! I didn't know it's an ENTJ thing 😂😂

[@kaorikanzaki5429]

I’m an entj and was affected by a couple of negative people in my life for the past year. They have estranged me from my goal and I lost sight of my goals for a while and now that they played their hand, I have been lost since I lost the precious time I could have used to achieve something greater. How do I make up for this? This affected one of the major points in my life...that is getting into a great college and am lost and desolate after this. How would other entjs handle this?

[@Sonia-rn1zz]

🙌🏽

[@usneb5917]

Them: You can’t ‘win’ life, it is not a competition. Me (ENTJ): just watch me *runs from my day job to night job while listening second language podcasts*

[@Angrycapitalist]

*Specifically runs to add a workout while saving gas

[@faizahanif9515]

You just explained me

[@efexzium]

So me 😂

[@jankyyard5610]

If you want to "win" in an infinite game called life, you just have to follow what you want and your values without wasting time. That's how Apple "win" especially when Steve Jobs (an ENTJ) was in the company...according to Simon Sinek.

[@robertsh.2506]

I hope you don't have a family

[@hariboi8840]

LoveWho: How to win as an ENTJ Me: You can lose..?

[@LIDYAEIL]

how to win even bigger maybe hahaha

[@archirose3800]

Ooooh good one

[@Rekke_yt]

You can't not win if losing was never an option

[@amiranajwa5721]

nah id win 🫸🏻🔴🔵🫷🏻🤌🏻🫴🏻⏤͟͟͞͞🟣

[@rishabhverma8794]

How to swim as a fish

[@lovewho]

Ok this is brilliant, well played ~ Nathan

[@dylanoro9473]

This comment is so underrated 🤭🤣

[@Callie02]

That is an efficient summary.

[@hooralain3203]

😂😂😂👌

[@lilianm-c3u]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@mia_ash]

2:32 A lot of people say ENTJs are very hard on other people and push others too hard, along with being overly critical. What most people don’t realize is as an ENTJ I am even harder on myself. It can be difficult because you feel like you aren’t pushing people that hard since you are so much worse on yourself, but to others they aren’t used to being pushed so far, and they don’t enjoy it either. That’s why we (or at least I ) can come off as so emotionless and harsh.

[@humanbeing5948]

This-- I totally agree, MOA.

[@mia_ash]

@@humanbeing5948 oh hi another MOA! I’m ready for the comeback :3

[@MoveInSilence23]

ENTJs are harder on themselves than they are on others... by a ton. It's just part of our innate leadership style.

[@sumitpatwardhan2002]

+++

[@EvergreenOliviaTV]

INFJ here working with a few ENTJs. I'd say we're similar in the parallel aspect but just different in our approaches. I find ENTJs fun to be around with because of that "pushy" energy. The only draw back with ENTJ is - it depends if you're in a healthy environment or not. Those who are in a healthy one - are better listeners and more aware and accepting. INFJs are also much harder on ourselves even before other's would know it.

[@abomination023]

Finally another ENTJ video

[@lovewho]

Apologies for the long intervals. Feel free to share this with people, whenever there is good feedback to a video it tends to mean there will be more of them on the channel ~ Nathan

[@naturalinstinct4950]

Same here

[@thundermyth]

I think it has to do more with ENTJ's love to listen about themselves haha

[@tonizanne_]

As entj you must put 3 videos per week or i will find another youtuber 😂

[@KevinSolem]

Good video Nathan. Please continue making more of those. Btw what type are you?

[@masonreeves4775]

As an ENTJ I literally stopped the video after "Step 1 be yourself" to add this comment. And now I'm done. Thanks. Bye.

[@lovewho]

Haha! Well glad you had an efficient experience ~ Nathan

[@44RisingSun44]

How to win as a ENTJ: Step 1: Make sure you are the only ENTJ playing. Done. Step 2: If step 1 isn't viable, align with an INTJ, together you shall conquer the known universe.

[@preetikabaghel9575]

Dave and Shanon

[@hooralain3203]

You nail it

[@krisp.7132]

Done: Dating an INTJ 😅

[@dkorwood]

I should have leaned into charm 🤣. Do a video on “ how to people as an ENTJ.”

[@lovewho]

That is actually a great title! ~ Nathan

[@jaimiehorton9669]

The ENTJ I know is has the craziest work ethic I've ever seen, and as a naturally sedentary INFJ I marvel at it. He doesn't listen when his body wants him to quit which worries me sometimes. He's actually inspired me to beef up my own work ethic a bit, it's embarrassing how lazy I am in comparison 😅

[@lovewho]

Agreed, their work ethic can be off the chart even when it negatively affects them! ~ Nathan

[@_baller]

I'm an entj, and yeah after college I became obsessed with doing "work", to the point my mental health was deteriorating, but my work results didn't necessarily get any better than someone working slow, now I've learned to plan breaks and relaxation, other ppl need to make themselves do things, I have to make myself not do things...

[@koukimonster6957]

This cracked me up 😂 “not to do things” so true

[@MsMrExe]

Wow, that was extremely insightful and, yes, *efficient.* I love your channel because of these very qualities that shine through all your videos, thank you so much for spending time on constantly providing such top notch content. I've already taught myself to lean into the charm, but will definitely take your advice on diversifying my work load. I'd also like to thank you for posting ENTJ videos because, for whatever reason, I seem to rarely find content on them (us?) in MBTI channels. Most are about introverts and/or feelings types. Thus, thank you a million times!

[@lovewho]

Love this comment and thank you for taking the time to write it out. I do love ENTJs as a type in general so that certainly influences my decision to have videos of them on here but also I want this channel to be one where every type gets a decent amount of videos on them ~ Nathan

[@laomedeia5957]

I'm an INFP and I always feel bad when I watch MBTI videos in youtube or search articles on google, there are only INXX, especially INFXs so I think that the rest of personalities are a little bit ignored and they can't know for sure which type they are or even being mistyped as an INXX because there isn't enough information of other types

[@MsMrExe]

@@laomedeia5957 *Thank* you, yes, it's good to see there are people who are so understanding and considerate. It makes the hope for a more inclusive community seem not that absurd. I truly appreciate it.

[@justanothersherlockian7058]

It's true, people always say "don't care about what others think of you" but as an ENTJ, I know that there are way more opportunities and allies you can have in order to make your life easier if people like you.

[@Starlightndust]

Codependent ENTJ here. This is absolutely 💯 👌 spot on! Self care, feelings are hard for me to take notice. Pushing myself to the limit ended up with me having cancer. I really need to learn to look after myself more, have fun and not be too intense workaholic. 😕. Everything to us is a warzone. Challenges, goals, responsibilities, fixing and caretaking most of my life! I come off as harsh, rigid. People don't realise we also have feelings. We are too hard on ourselves. 😕😔 . The Myers-Briggs test enabled me to understand myself more apart from going to a therapist. A combination of Codependency and ENTJ typology is a disaster for personal relationships. I haven't dated for years! It's work, work, work for me.

[@austin5690]

I thought ENTJs had an automatic win.

[@austin5690]

Well what I meant by that statement is that ENTJs already know how to win are probably winning already and don’t need to change anything about themselves in order to win. There also may have been sarcasm involved.

[@suzywilson]

Not at all. Success is an accumulation of consistent habits executed efficiently. It is a formula that is applicable to everybody and does not care for your type. I guess it's just that we see the pattern, do the calculation and get busy winning. It literally is a formula.

[@smallentales317]

We do

[@NaN-noCZ]

@@suzywilson *”There also may have been sarcasm involved.”*

[@suzywilson]

@@NaN-noCZ Thanks 😊 I calculated for this and decided to answer this way anyway.

[@坚的牛奶咖啡]

I can fall asleep while walking and at the same time, pick up a work phone and get hyped up for the conversation instantly.

[@lovewho]

That is an impressive skill to have! ~ Nathan

[@havyaralp5388]

I think, as an entj, setting yourself rational goals is the most crucial thing to keep in mind. Because we can get lost in big picture plan but when it comes to the moment we can get frustrated or burned-out pretty easily because we try to do insane amounts of work all at once. Sometimes we put our ideals in front of everything but once you realize you have got no meaningful memories or valuable friendships, romantic partners it sucks. And we generally think that life is like a warzone, we always need to have good tactics all the time and it's really tiring to think this way. We can sometimes turn the little things into a huge chaos because we think we HAVE TO FIGHT but sometimes the best tactic is to cool it down and enjoy the moment. I understand entj stereotypical admiration on paper but on real life it's not that great.

[@evais2cool]

This, this, and this. It gets very, very lonely. - ENTJ.

[@jenkam333]

Excellent advice on making a change in lieu of a break. I am trying to relax on a Sunday and have a huge outdoor project that I honestly need to take a break from because of being physically beat up from doing it for many days - BUT I feel crazy guilty because, as an ENTJ, all I want to do is finish projects. It is like a compulsion: planning, implementing, finishing (repeat over and over through life). The way I can take a break (without driving myself nuts with guilt) is to not tell myself it is a break, but to tell myself I need to mix up my activity with a change. So I worked on the (very physical) outdoor project for 5 days or so this week, then am forcing myself to sit and read (which I love doing and can easily finish a book in a few days). Obvioulsy taking a break from reading to watch ths video! :) These videos and seeking understanding of different types can be life changing, thank you for taking the time to include the nuances of type (in all of your videos). My daughter has INFP as a preference and we have really interesting conversations because neither of us can imagine having each other's dominant type! INFPs=Fi dominant (Te inferior/shadow) and ENTJs=Te dominant (Fi inferior/shadow).

[@susankievman642]

I can so relate to that. I am an ENTJ, my daughter is an INFP. Her strong FI drives me crazy. My strong TE pisses her off! I want to find a solution to the problem and fix it NOW! She needs to get into the "right frame of mind" to tackle a problem. Aaargggg!

[@lissa.5156]

Nathan! You did it again! It is so true! Outstanding how you manage to figure us out! 😉 Love your videos!😊 Charm is a tool for every type! For ENTJs...requires: practice and patience! WARNING: some characters require a lifetime of patience! 😂 But once you get it right, you will see it pays off and then it will be your second nature as we see it as a win-win situation. If we don't see the win, we won't engage. As we grow older, we start understanding that over working in one direction not necessarily pays off and looking for things you really love will bring you loads of satisfaction. I believe, as an ENTJ, it is our nature to be DOERs and we can be discussing one thing today and the next day we have the whole vision/planning in place...we know what to do! As simple as that! (which can be too fast for other personalities). No matter if we need to spend 20-24 hours per day to achieve what we want to do.. we will do it. In terms of neglecting, it involves our physical needs, emotional needs and interpersonal dreams ( if we still remember them). We are extremely rational... no matter if it hurts ( and if it does, we won't admit to no one). I wonder if there is an ENTJ here who can admit that finishing a relationship with a boyfriend/ girlfriend did hurt and told that to that person and people around)????

[@susankievman642]

I can admit that and I have. And I do cry, but not that long. A good quick cry and then get on with it!! LOL! What is the point of wallowing???

[@lovewho]

Excellent comment! If you haven't already, feel free to check out our discord (the link is in the description), I've already seen quite a few ENTJs on there and it has been interesting talking to them. Feel free to message me if you're ever on there ~ Nathan

[@maggie_kamau]

The things discussed here are totally applicable to me as an INTJ! I like to think that we have things in common with ENTJs 😂😂

[@lovewho]

Yes those two types have a great deal of things in common! ~ Nathan

[@maggie_kamau]

@@lovewho very true. I love all your videos by the way! Watching them all since yesterday when I discovered your channel!

[@lovewho]

@@maggie_kamau Oh wow, that's great to hear!! ~ Nathan

[@rageofstate]

Same cognitive functions, just slightly swapped around. Rather than leading with extraverted thinking, INTJs use it to support their dominant introverted intuition.

[@kubracelik94]

i'm an entj and i also find myself really relatable with intj! there are MANY similar things between these types

[@Collynezero7]

I very much would like to thank you for making content. It has created an awareness of things that I've either neglected, ignored or honestly didn't know existed and has allowed me to increase my own ceiling of potential and to possibly be open to other people.

[@theidealofascientist5291]

I really don't comment on too many videos, but this really helped today when I was being too harsh on myself and spiraling in some sense. Thank you

[@benjaminrosewood]

I know ENTP videos get irregular views but could you do another? You seem to understand ENTPs in a diffrent way than other people and i like your way of thinking!

[@lovewho]

Yes I'll be doing plenty of ENTPs over time, apologies for the long intervals in between ENTP videos ~ Nathan

[@benjaminrosewood]

@@lovewho No need for an apology, just do whatever makes you happy. Theres no rush

[@saralovesthemoon]

As an infp why am I even here? Thanks God I know no entj to scold me that I’m wasting my time !

[@NedAznir]

Hi INFP, you made an error and posted twice, therefore wasted everyone's time. Just playing with you :) my gf is INFP and you guys are so different and interesting :) Signed, ENTJ

[@saralovesthemoon]

Ned Aznir oh thanks mr entj I don’t think I know any entj in my life but I always get a positive vibe from you guys and I actually find entjs to be secretly cute😁 and for error, if wanna speak entj language ,actually errors are beneficial cuz they open other gates to things 🙂🙃

[@foggyspace5534]

*An ENTJ emerges from the shadows with a perfectly tailored calender*

[@saralovesthemoon]

@@foggyspace5534 🏃🏼‍♀️🏃🏼‍♀️🏃🏼‍♀️🏃🏼‍♀️ nooo!

[@christineherrmann205]

This was pretty illustrative of how I'm not a "T". I have no issue sitting down and listening to people talk about their feelings. And I don't have that sort of singular drive. Interesting.

[@theempirecuts6738]

been waiting 4 this forever!...FINALLY! FINALLY!

[@Plinko99]

😌

[@lovewho]

Hope it didn't disappoint ~ Nathan

[@lolalolita3537]

The charm vs charisma was my most problem. I always tried to keep to myself and just be independant but got into so much drama and was hated for no reason, finally I tried charming others and suddenly I am not a target. Having attention on you does give you presence but power or status comes from social play it seems

[@misss.o.j.]

My husband is getting this link! He's an "ENJ" (he took the test & didn't get an "F" or "T", he said that was because he was "perfectly balanced") but I think he's an ENTJ, this video describes him pretty accurately. Thk U!!💚

[@misss.o.j.]

I asked my husband what he thought of the video. His reply: "That seems about right."

[@lovewho]

@@misss.o.j. Very glad to hear it! Feel free to show him the other ENTJ videos on the channel and let me know what he says ~ Nathan

[@dubovsimp]

I get hospitalized every school year for being an entj and lost a lot of people in my life for the same reason :) Thanks for making this video, you made things so much clearer for me now. I just hope I don't think of self care as a task or something I have to do to get good grades wooh good luck to me i guess. Looking forward to more of your entj contents :)

[@johanvandenbussche4479]

Studying the cognitive functions is a nice thing to change the focus of the mind to something more lightweight, yet still self improving and possibly beneficial towards other people. Unless our logical and brutally honest approach gets us into trouble with people who somehow do not value this at all... In that case it is a difficult balancing act ... even with loads of "charm"...

[@leo_rsm]

I can’t describe how that short video helped me to clarify my Love and Hate Relationship with my personal work… Thank you so much!

[@mara3842]

I am an INTJ but I still found this very relatable lol.

[@brownin329]

Me too

[@maggie_kamau]

Yes sis, I just said that before I saw your comment! -INTJ female

[@lovewho]

That makes a lot of sense since these types are pretty similar ~ Nathan

[@dmytrobaranovskyi6005]

Waiting for the same format for INTP.😊 Need some cool insights from you, it’s very helpful.

[@lovewho]

That video already exists! Just look it up on the channel, there should be an INTP playlist that will just go through every episode for each type ~ Nathan

[@dmytrobaranovskyi6005]

Love Who After I wrote this message I found this video.🙃 But to be honest, I am not very satisfied of this exact video. Don’t think that I’m ungrateful, it’s good and I like your videos, but something is missed.

[@dmytrobaranovskyi6005]

Love Who I stopped being a typical INTP and started to develop myself and I think here can be a part 2.😁

[@pamelatify]

I’m sending this to my Boss. He’s a classic ENTJ.

[@adecakasio6482]

oh oh good luck! :D hope he is not uncomfortable with being found out ;)

[@camillea7697]

Brilliant Nathan. … so down to the profound issues for this type. … I know one well and as we talk I can almost stutter trying to avoid her judgment and obvious critique. Feels like her saying, get to the point and I know all that. And then picking a weak point she feels she must correct!!! So difficult since we are total opposites and yet I sometimes feel her competitive envy esp with regard to my sense of design and creativity. ISFP here. .. she’s not easy, but I can appreciate her thinking.

[@annipsy2185]

As if we lose... great advice here though😁

[@lovewho]

Seems like I've been inspired by talking to real life ENTJs... ~ Nathan

[@annipsy2185]

@@lovewho We have that effect on people😜

[@lovewho]

@@annipsy2185 Clearly!

[@brookeshields0619]

Hi! One of your long time subscribers here!! First off, I really appreciate this lovely video! I related to everything on this video and they are really sound advices!! I would really love it if you could please make more videos on ENTJs though... I really enjoy your insights and advice, your videos on mbti types are one of the best I've come across!! It's pretty rare to see channels with analysis and advices this well thought out and on point! But there are relatively very small amount of videos on ENTJs on your channel and that makes me very sad. Hopefully you can read this comment and I look forward to seeing more videos on us! ❤️👍 Keep up the good work 😊

[@lovewho]

I will definitely make more ENTJ videos as time goes on, apologies for the long intervals between ENTJ videos! Thank you very much for this comment ~ Nathan

[@obscurellepriscillatopin7506]

While the ENTJs are over there winning... or, continuing to win, I shall create for them a ballad loudly bemoaning the power of people's preferences

[@albin9880]

Been waiting so much for this video.. Thanks a lot!

[@lovewho]

Hope you enjoyed it ~ Nathan

[@koukimonster6957]

This is gold! Thank you for this!

[@hyejinyun9892]

Can you make some enfj videos? No problem if you can’t! But I am personally an ENFJ and I would love to see some of your videos on ENFJ’s! Love the video btw!

[@hackinglife9710]

So on point. An hour counseling session under 5 minutes and free! Sign me up

[@lovewho]

This is really great to hear! Feel free to check out the other ENTJ videos we have on here if you haven't already! ~ Nathan

[@nooksbishop8791]

I don't know what it is but I intuitively trust you and will put these tips to work especially the charm thing. Some things come naturally with time I think but no harm done in moving it along a bit

[@ThruJesusChrist]

Great advice!!! I really felt that

[@lovewho]

Good! Hopefully you got something worthwhile from it ~ Nathan

[@n0_n0]

Once again, bravo!

[@lovewho]

Why thank you... ~ Nathan

[@44RisingSun44]

"ENTJs are built to win" Ah an intellectual I see lol. Wonder what his type is.

[@galganbat355]

no matter what we ENTJs do or participate in, we already won in our head literally.

[@sunnymccalister234]

Thank you for making this

[@lovewho]

Hope you enjoyed it! ~ Nathan

[@sunnymccalister234]

@@lovewho Yes I did very much.

[@Callie02]

Good choice of a title. To win is an attractive keyword.

[@neontheory1109]

this one sparks joy

[@Mr10203040]

Wait, ain't ENTJ already winning?

[@seventhsheaven]

If I had to be any other type, it’d be ENTJ. - ENTP

[@freshprince69]

Me too.

[@Kyrovirasha]

This. I love this.

[@eml9147]

I never understood what you meant by ENTJs not being in touch with what is actually important to them on a deeper level (because they lack Fi). As and ENTJ, I feel I am the opposite. I looked back over my results and saw I am actually 49%Fi vs 51% thinking, so I'm quite high on Fi for an ENTJ really. Its amazing how accurate this stuff is!

[@gheorghitaalsunculitei9146]

My question before seeing the video: How to lose as an ENTJ?

[@johanvandenbussche4479]

There is a rule in nature that nobody likes to play if they can't win 30% of the time. An ENTJ who is perceived as "always winning", will end up left to his/her own devices. That's kind of a loss...

[@austin5690]

Or how to beat an ENTJ if such a thing is possible.

[@harishkumargujudhur8200]

Well, it's simple. You will have to seek the answer in MBTI, for now, such as you notice the parallel between ENFJ and ESTP, as an example. Then, you compare INTJ and ENTJ, with swapped dominant loops. Then you see how rationale translates to reality, compared to having free will, having self-interest, but losing motivation over time, irrespective of workload unless you see the metric somewhere rising. Here are some across-the-board weaknesses/things one may lack, or which are not functioning in a manner which is mutually beneficial, as a baseline: 1. Family, 2. Intimate relationship 3. Machiavellianism (usually auxiliary function - but that's a personal conclusion), lie and deceits and lying for your 'positivity', and for power, 4. A sociopathic meta-narrative based on one or many such deceits, from which people derive their ideologies to judge who is going to have a dark side. 5. finance, 6. A job, 7. Doing what motivates you most. 8, moving up the dominance hierarchy, based on comparing status. 9. Making sure you have prepared to avoid being spontaneous and paying attention when someone talks, even if he is being deceitful. Actually, I repeat. Do a closer analysis of MBTI. For instance, you can use C.S. Joseph to compare ENTJ and ESFJ. It's interesting to try drawing new conclusions, and derive a deeper understanding, which can keep you more motivated - that's another weakness, btw. There's quite a lot, and people will learn to use them against each other. At the end of the day, what matters is how driven you are, how content you are, how free you are, yet you can be as content as a moron, and as desperate as a bastard, as much as low-key lacking motivation as any person who is conscientious, and potentially high in negative emotions. After all, the eudemonic experience comes henceforth, as much as passion is the romance of the intellect/free will/ego and contentment. That is my observation. And you can infer much more on your own.

[@austin5690]

@H.J. That’s a distinct possibility but I was just joking, I don’t really think that ENTJs are unbeatable or that there should be a video on how to beat them.

[@lovewho]

Genuinely considered titling this video with that ~ Nathan

[@FatherRina]

As an ENTJ I approve this message

[@user-nu7te9gz5o]

thnks bro, i really needed this

[@uyenmeow3839]

Omg 🥺 getting in touch with introvert feelings thooo. Def wanna improve this function

[@anamedina2262]

I wish I could have understood this 20 years ago.

[@Purpleeerrrs]

ENTJ here. That video actually told me the TRUTH so directly: TO ACTUALLY REST (or at least try to). Uggh, so though....

[@stevenc123]

2:25 When I was younger I would work for 3 days straight with no sleep at the extreme end, on multiple occasions. Stopped that after ending up the hospital and suffering from stress induced panic attacks for a year. I work a bit smarter these days.

[@neurophilosophers994]

ENTJ’s have INTP unconscious so they get the observation understanding of the values of other people automatically but conscious effort to do this may not go well. The key may be for them to have an optimal Ni goal that feels like it has high standards of values Fi. This will attract people who will charm the ENTJ and they will get a clear image of the values people have around them. Either to improve relationships or to ensure you’re not in a bad environment. The issue ofc with ENTJ’s is their perfectionism could make any issue seem like a bad social environment for them. ENTJ/ENFJ is perhaps the most stable of their 4 subtypes but sacrifices Si comfort and habitual sentiment. But who needs that anyway. If I could pick I’d certainly be a ENTJ/ENFJ given the choice

[@typosim]

BY TEORY yes, but in action no... it look so look a liked but, the brain neuro cell activities from take action and process is totally different

[@tanishqdaiya]

Overworking was a correct point. I overwork for a week and I regret 1 day of being a dumbass sitting at home. Loop.

[@mushroomfog2509]

Looove it Because it's true If you want to succeed as an ENTJ, the price is your lifetime and heart

[@Benjumanjo]

Implying an ENTJ needs to be told how to win.

[@amided3816]

@Vinni Al-Ambrosee its arrogance, a common source of downfall for us Entjs. It would cease though the more an individual grows out of it.

[@anthonyvalentine9685]

I like that your wearing a Darth Vader shirt for this ENTJ video.

[@yogs8280]

Me: bored on working, called my friend for meeting

[@ArianBostonian]

Have to admit, I love overworking! I used to work 60-72 hrs a week, felt so alive ... then my ex became my ex. Oops! Nathan, you may have a point.🤔

[@lovewho]

Being agreed with by ENTJs never gets old!! ~ Nathan

[@ArianBostonian]

There should be instructions on how to date ENTJs, like a boyfriend alert: warning, just because she works hard doesn't mean she's ignoring you; she's sincerely ambitious.

[@thatguy5720]

ENTP here- I thought being a ENTJ automatically makes u successful

[@april1881]

Thanks for making this 5 mins

[@margos666]

I can't believe this video was almost 5 mins long and not a single mention of ENTJs trying to feed other people as a way to forge that pesky Fe! Come on! That is the most reasonable and efficient way to make someone like you! 😆😅😂

[@Goldielcks]

Don't we have Fi...?

[@margos666]

@@Goldielcks we do! It usually comes out when we call other people mean and devote ourselves to ice cream and solitude 😉

[@twatwaffle6741]

😆 my boss always does that. I tryed to reject it at first. I don't like accepting food from someone i don't know know well enought. But she always got mad and upset when i do that. So i went with. Accepting it now 😩 Been throwing it away for a little while carefully when no one see. Now sometimes i even eat it

[@susankievman642]

We dont ususally know how to access FE very well since it is our polar and weakest function. It takes alot of practice. Things are important to others emotionally tend to escape me completely at times.

[@lovewho]

Oh wow... this explains a lot actually. Looking forward to whichever meal you're going to make for me when the time comes ~ Nathan

[@igbokwenu4934]

Really off topic … But has anyone told you you bear a striking resemblance to actor Gregory Peck? Maybe it’s just me… 🤦🏽‍♂️ Awesome video ! This Entj approves!

[@isramen4756]

He's finally speaking my language!

[@dubovsimp]

Is leaning to charm similar to deceiving people? Cause if so, I may have almost mastered the art of deception.

[@lailahamdoun6481]

Are you sure you're not an ENTJ? You understand this type more than an ENTJ does!

[@rosalysmartinez2153]

Great video!❤️

[@scilines]

Great advice

[@raulsanz7120]

Good advices my friend. ;-)

[@lovewho]

Thank you very much, glad you found it useful! ~ Nathan

[@amided3816]

We also love knowing more about ourselves even if we already do.

[@LIDYAEIL]

As an intp career also seems easier than relations

[@sophiezhang7258]

such an instructive video

[@kwitsaz9394]

Can you please give me a heart if you want to make win as an ESTP video?

[@ma_iii]

Exactly he has no estp content

[@lovewho]

@@ma_iii So far I think there are two ESTP videos on here... must do better ~ Nathan

[@lovewho]

I shall indeed make this video in the near future ~ Nathan

[@kwitsaz9394]

@@lovewho thank you Nathan

[@Whyareyoustalkingme123]

Guys I think I’ve developed empathy . Or maybe it’s super efficient sympathy.

[@getreadywithmemamma]

Finally, I’ve been trying to figure it his one out hahaha just kidding. But, an INTJ’s prospective is always interesting for your ENTJ twins sort of.

[@lovewho]

Exactly, those two types are definitely very similar! ~ Nathan

[@getreadywithmemamma]

Love Who like upside down and backwards

[@J.M2005D]

Thank you wizard

[@TalaAtTanagra]

Y'all think ENTJs have such an easy time? Maybe male ENTJs, but not most female ENTJs I know.

[@jimini5046]

You almost dont have any vidoes aboue enfjs :(

[@lovewho]

You are indeed correct, I will try to rectify this soon! ~ Nathan

[@mannysmandatories]

It’s surprising that there is not enough material about entjs as much as there are for other types. Someone should fix this

[@lovewho]

Agreed! ~ Nathan

[@Benjumanjo]

ENTJs are already the best, don’t need advice.

[@tanishasjournal]

'How to win as an ENFJ' next pleasee

[@lovewho]

I need to make more ENFJ videos in general... must do better ~ Nathan

[@ViperCannabis]

Play to win, and dont play to not lose

[@Fatbambinoo]

Hey there, I just wanted to say thank you for posting this video. I am an ENTJ myself and ironically I find it very hard for me to be able to function as efficient as I believe I can, these tips are very very helpful, and I hope you can give more tips on how to properly win as an ENTJ, thank youu

[@Whyareyoustalkingme123]

I pray ,go for walks through the day and drink water .

[@jerramaebansil9717]

I am looking for a filipino ENTJ.

[@TinM_nyc]

I Love Who understands entj well :D

[@grazynawolska8160]

How to win as an entj.... stop being a pushy jerk!!! We all got brains and hearts and we can make our own damn decisions! God! Ugh. - signed, intj 😆

[@BlairWaldorf2013]

I had an ENTJ boyfriend and I think INTJs freak ENTJs out because even though we’re not vocal like they are and we don’t need recognition the way they do somehow (at least to them) we still seem to be able to be as effective and successful as they are in life without all of the manic behavior 😏

[@grazynawolska8160]

@@BlairWaldorf2013 yeah I'd agree. They are def a lot of vocal drama before action.... while we just watch, Ni builds a path, and we execute. I find they get annoyed with us waiting for Ni to build a path and so they constantly try to push us in what they think is the best because they always believe they are the best so their way is therefore the best. But I find their Ni is weaker and their way is full of holes and errors..... Id rather take the time to build/design then constantly fix problems and errors after. They dont get that. They are all actin action action.... shove shove shove.... fix fix fix... in fact one way to annoy them when they try to shove you forward is to calmly point out all the holes and errors and future problems in their idea. Really annoys the hell put of them 😆

[@johanvandenbussche4479]

Let's never learn from each other ever again. Shouldn't be too hard, since we all got a brain ...

[@somaxxythegreat4880]

@@grazynawolska8160 thats actually extremely wrong, since mature ENTJs love INTJs, simply because the fast paced Te-Ni is complemented by the slower but more refined Ni-Te combo, finding mistakes and fixing them together. As an ENTJ i don't see INTJ as rivals. Instead i see them as reliable friends who give good advice to my plans. And even if our combined idea doesnt quite work still, ENTJ are sure to improvise and they do it better than INTJ because chaos and random stuff that happens midway scares the hell out of Ni, so our Se helper is needed. ENTJ+INTJ are the best work duo, from personal experience.

[@susankievman642]

@@somaxxythegreat4880 I agree wholeheartedly. Sometimes people experience with ENTJ are younger or immature ones, or insecure ones. We like to hear others ideas as well as they are thought out or make sense. Then we will adapt our thinking to incorporate yours.

[@NeraizeI]

ESTJ first comment 😛

[@lovewho]

Well played ~ Nathan

[@ItsaWhinyWorldmyyoutubechannel]

ENTJ here - It's weird because I know that I have to give myself time to rest and when I finally do, I feel like I'm failing or being lazy. I tell myself off for relaxing and then get straight back to the work. At least I tried right?

[@amided3816]

This is agreeable. I do this most of the time and all i can say is: as long as you could say you have rested, then you definitely did rest.

[@vx7526]

The bumbling entj is easy to overreach. -intj with a smirk

[@networthy]

@Matt Poe That would be true for an INTP. INTJs execute just as well as ENTJs. So, as an INTJ, I will gladly keep my smirk as I continue to silently execute my company's vision with way more strategy than you ENTJs.

[@vx7526]

@Matt Poe Are you sure the plan typically you entjs bring out is to prevail in the long race? The best possible deal punched under a certain circumstance isn't tantamount in significance to that which is filtered through a process of seeking implications. During making the "extraneous" efforts devoted to carrying out something, intjs may revisit the principles and values and how those add up to the purpose of the act. The above process is essential because an intj may not hope the outcome of the efforts in spite of its successful results isn't somewhat a throwback in the general progress of other realms (if that should be the case, then what can be done to authentically compensate)...

[@networthy]

​@Matt Poe An ENTJ's execution usually leaves countless gaps and mistakes along the way. Mistakes that will, eventually, need fixing and thus require more time. An INTJ's ability to see a bigger vision and concoct with "urgent patience" an execution plan that reduces this margin for silly mistakes compensates for the ENTJ's advantage in being action-oriented and faster in execution. In essence, it is as you said, we both get shit done, and effectively too, just with different approaches. As for the charisma, that would be true for most INTJs. However, on a personal note, I'm an INTJ that could EASILY pass as an ENTJ. I'm effective in communication, public speaking, and building business relationships. Most people call me a liar when I tell them I'm actually an introvert. In short, I know an INTJ's weaknesses but, as an already mature INTJ, I've taken action to fix them, as I love doing with pretty much everything in life. PS: I'm the CEO and solo-founder of a growing tech company and I truly respect ENTJs. Would love to have them running some aspects of my business some time down the road.

[@sirapakm.381]

How to win ENTJ. ENTJ : nah you can’t

[@jacktaipen2077]

if ENTJs win, y tf do i lose all the time

[@jameskerr2812]

Ugh, as an ENTJ I'd rather deal with the transactional vs transformational. Although I much rather appreciate the latter as a life-long learner.