LOVING: A Photographic History - LOVING1000.org

[@ATLcentury334]

I remember when I was in grade school and I first became attracted to other males. I wasn’t sure if there was anything wrong with it. I knew it wasn’t something to discuss. When I was attending catechism classes, I was sent home with a question answer sheet for my mother and I to fill in. I can’t remember what the other questions were, but I recall the question that became a problem. “What kind of family do you want when you grow up?”. I answered the best way I could. I told my mother she’d be mad about my answer. She said there weren’t any wrong answers. So I answered, “I want the kind of family like on the t.v. show “The Courtship of Eddie’s Father”. “What do you mean?”. “I want to live in an apartment, with a son, and a housekeeper”. “Well, where is your wife?”. “She’s dead, just like on the show”. That went over really well. I don’t know what my mother wrote down. So, about 13 years later it shouldn’t have been to surprising when my parents forced me to come out and they got the answer they knew already. But they threw me out, 30 minutes. Pack what you want, leave your house and car keys on the table, and GO. I was in shock. I called my boyfriend. He was in shock. He wasn’t ready for a live in situation. So, I started my life. I went through ups and downs. I had to deal with the deaths of 2 boyfriends. I stopped going out for a while. Then one night I found myself at Tiffany’s. I felt a tap on my shoulder. I turned around and faced a taller, handsome, darker guy with a moustache. He held out his hand to introduce himself. He asked if I’d like to join him for a drink. It was nice. He called 4 days later asking me to dinner. We started dating. I introduced him to my folks. My dad liked him because he was a guy, my mom was happy I found someone I was comfortable with. And after 3 years, we moved in together. My folks took us on a cruise for our 10th anniversary. My mom and dad are gone now. I still never found out what she wrote on the questionnaire. We’ve been together 31 years next month. When I was in my 20’s struggling, I thought I’d never meet anyone. I’m grateful I did. I can’t imagine my life any other way. I never did get the housekeeper though.

[@janetslicer3637]

OMG! I cried as I read your comment! Geezzz, sometimes parents can be so tough. I am so sorry you had to go through that. When my son was about three he came home from preschool with fingernail polish on. My sister called me when she heard about it. She said to me, "well you'd better nip that in the bud because you know he could become gay." (How do people who grow up in the same house become so different?) I said to her "no that doesn't make someone gay. That is just the way they are born." She then asked, "well what if he was born gay?" All I could say was "I am going to love him, no matter what." He is 33 years old now and he is fine just the way he is. I am glad your parents worked through it for you. Some people never get that. And I am very happy everything worked out for you. Take care and stay safe.

[@paulocesarmello7875]

God bless you, John!

[@ATLcentury334]

@@janetslicer3637, thanks for your comments. Yes, it did take my parents a while to come around. I remember telling my mother at one point “I’ve had to deal with this my entire life, I’m not any different than I was before you knew. I’ve moved on and if you’re having a hard time, I’m sorry but I can’t help”. She sat there kind of stunned because I knew it was something she always suspected. Another point in this adjustment time came when a family event was approaching. I hadn’t replied if I was attending. My mom asked and I said I would attend if I could bring my boyfriend. I said all of my other unmarried relatives were always welcome to bring whoever they were dating, I should be able to as well. And if I couldn’t, I wouldn’t be attending family parties anymore. She told me after a few days I could bring who I was seeing. It just so happened I was dating a young executive at General Motors, he was 6’3”, and very handsome. When we arrived, everyone turned their heads at the same time. When everyone met him, they were all impressed. That began my life as a normal part of the family. I remember the first time my now husband wasn’t able to attend a family function, I spent the whole evening telling everyone why he wasn’t there. “Hey John, where is Matt?”. It was an interesting time. People thought I was trying to show off, but I was just trying to be myself.

[@overseastrujillo8479]

😍

[@rickberglund2134]

You skipped a significant segway, you left us wondering. You were thrown out of the house for being gay, then you fast forwarded.

[@TheDonna1959]

These photos are a beautiful tribute to these men! 🌹My precious loving brother died from AIDS in 1991. He was gay & scared to come out until his final weeks of life. He taught me that love is love! Be true to yourself! RIP Donald....🌹💐🙏💖🌻🌸

[@oceanlover3530]

Beautiful comment. And, I’m sorry for your loss. Sending a hug your way. ✌🏻✌🏻

[@TheDonna1959]

@ Ocean Lover Thank you...🌹

[@waynejones750]

Oh my God that really touch me , so sorry for your loss.

[@nmuphelps1]

"Love is love! Be true to yourself! - thank much more than I can ever say for sharing this!!!

[@Edward-oy7ed]

Grief is the price we pay for love and its still very much worth it.

[@Darjeelingla]

I am 75, female, straight, from Hawai’i. Throughout our Hawaiian culture, being gay was/is totally accepted. Because I had no phobias about gay people my life has been fuller, inclusive. Surprisingly, I worked (and was accepted by all) in a gay bar for years. Especially during the early days of AIDS, I volunteered for caring programs. Then volunteered to work for an adoption agency which specialized in establishing adoptions for many, many young Ethiopian children, who lost entire families.

[@leticiamv]

You are a beautiful example, congratulations...

[@taiwansivispacemparabellum9546]

Thank you for the great love.

[@getme2morenow565]

What a beautiful person you are.

[@keesschoone6672]

Obviously Hawaiian society is humane and very civilized. Great to read this in a country in Europe (Holland) with one million homophobic saracens (= muslims)..

[@arbsan8366]

You sound like a wonderful person!! Blessings to you😊

[@michaelhart7282]

As a single gay guy who hasn’t been on a date in an alarming number of years, I’m crying from my loneliness

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Keep the faith Michael! Check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s". Link to our website above.

[@peterdevita6308]

Michael, we ALL feel and are alone in one way or another - I have a loving partner yet I feel this "existential" emptiness when I have so much to be grateful for. You are not alone in your feelings. Life is hard for everyone no matter what he or she might say. Try your best to be positive about YOUR LIFE as best you can!...... I don't know you but wish I did to prove that you are loved and valued.

[@athanassioszotos1713]

Same here too..

[@Wordsmyth8]

Amazing.

[@GeorgeStar]

Don't give up. Hope and love spring eternal.

[@charlesjackson4132]

Stunning, beautiful and artistic. I'm 66 and have been openly and radically gay all my life. I hope that everyone seeing these photos, especially young guys, realize that these kind of men paved the way for us in future generations to have it easier in being our gay selves. I want to thank the creator of this montage for sharing it with us all.

[@karlwhitwam3668]

Im almost brought to tears now seeing young guys able to openly show affection, so beautiful to see, I was born in the 1970's and felt my feelings were criminal, despite seeing gay stars on tv and was generally more accepted, it took decades for me to finally open up come out and live, I feel so much for these guys as its unlikely they had that chance.

[@michaelward5134]

So true and beautifully put Charles Jackson.

[@John-lf7vs]

If you can read The Glamour Boys by Chris Bryant. M.P.

[@chadthames8350]

Charles you are so right. I am 36 and never thought even in my wildest dreams growing up as a gay boy that I'd see two men (or women) be able to get married here in the USA.

[@ginon3878]

I’m 33, and I think of the LGBTQ who fought for justice for the rest of us often. It pains me that they had to fight, and weren’t born free and equal. Their struggle made me feel brave and full of hope when I had none, and made me feel like giving up wasn’t an option, and that my life was worth living. An immeasurable gift, with my immeasurable gratitude.

[@staciereynolds5094]

These couples took huge risks back then, to photograph their love for each. This was an amazing montage. Thank you!

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Thank you Stacie! Check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s". Link to our website above.

[@spellbindingcrashed]

It's likely a lot of these men were just friends and some even look like brothers and army mates. As homo stuff was illegal in the west and you could be imprisoned for it back in the day, l doubt many of these men were in penetrative, homo relationships as it was just too risky to do so. They wouldn't have had their love photographed like this for fear of being imprisoned.

[@Олег_Морозов]

Не факт, что это именно любовь, половина фотографий явно просто дружба

[@nancychandler3673]

Being gay is normal in most Countries, these photos may have been from other Countries than the USA . Such lovely photos

[@nancychandler3673]

@@Олег_Морозов Loving friendships. Love is Love. So beautiful.

[@Sandra-ww6oz]

I weep for the love innocence and beauty that shines from these images and can only imagine the obstacles ridicule pain and fear they must have suffered for their love of each other. Despite all of this I sincerely hope and pray they lived and loved long lives showered with happiness.

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Thank you Sandra. Love endures forever. Check our our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s" There is a link to website above.

[@UnPocoLoco1120]

As a gay man approaching 35 this hits hard, especially with all the death that you began to experience once your loved ones pass away. All your left with are pictures and memories. I can't help but remember my first boyfriend, and being a young boy in a small town holding hands not caring what people said. The memories I have of him and I reminds me of these photos. My first boyfriend died after a tragic car accident after he got caught riding his bike in a rainstorm and tried walking home on the side of the road after the chain broke. All i have now are pictures and memories of him. I still think of you Steven Lee, I hope you've found great company with perhaps even some of these fellows wherever you may be. Rest in peace.

[@madushagunarathne8922]

🥺🥀

[@vaniog29]

I'm really sorry 😞 hope you find all the happiness you deserve . I'm in my 30s too , and recently fell in love with someone from another city ... we went back and forth visiting eachother, and the last time ultimately we decided a long distance wouldn't work for both of us ... long working hours .... so we separated but stayed friends. And it's been such an agony because I can't breathe without him .... I don't think I've fallen in love so deeply with anyone else, and I wonder if I shouldn't just leave everything and move to his city... before it's too late.

[@BallroomSceneNerd]

​@Ivan hello Ivan. I'm currently in a long-distance relationship, and so far, we're in year two of traveling back n forth to see one another. Far too often I see many ppl chose proximity because it's easier but as I'm sure you know, sometimes the thing that is hardest to achieve, results in the best reward with hard work and dedication. I know you guys already made the decision to break up, but do u think he would be receptive if u guys came up with a "move together" timeline? Instead of 1 person dropping everything to go where the other person is, why not discuss moving to somewhere that is new for the both of you? Start fresh, new place, new leash on life and renewed sense of dedication. I hope the best for whatever you both ultimately choose. 😃. Real Love is worth it.

[@madushagunarathne8922]

@@vaniog29 Hey bro.. Just think twice.. If he really need you & worth you.. The long distance won't be that issue.. If he'd feel the same.. Their would be ways to still be together.. Just give a little break & try to see if it's the real issue.. or is there something else.. If it's something else & distance is some excuse.. Just let him go.. I know it's hard.. But if he want to go.. let him..

[@basvanderhoek9293]

@@vaniog29 Move to where he is. I am 75. That way Ivan, you don't have to say afterwards, I should have done. being in love is THE best thing that can happen to us. Enjoy the butterflies in your stomach, and dont give a shit about what other people (might) think. Come on Kid, do some living while you can. Big hug from an old Man in YVR, Bas.

[@borleyboo5613]

The closeness of two men, whether they are friends, brothers or lovers is one of the most enduring throughout history. It is beautiful.

[@njkauto2394]

Ain't that so very true.

[@sebastienh1100]

Yes, and pretending they are gay when they are friends is simply destroying the beauty of male friendship

[@reaceness]

@@sebastienh1100 You seem upset 😂

[@sebastienh1100]

@@reaceness - yes, I am homosexual myself but I hate lies and propaganda. Also, pretending every close relationship between males is gay does make men more rigid and cold with each other. Nothing more beautiful than friendship in my opinion. Sexual pulsion is something more common, less beautiful, more transitory than real friendship.

[@reaceness]

@@sebastienh1100 I hope you feel better

[@thesacredgurkha6529]

During those days such things were considered as a criminal offence and the society used to take it as a mental disease. But that chapter was very nostalgic, pure and far away from any kind of degeneration. How many of them had died hiding their love and affection from the society. This is a very touching tribute to them.

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Thank you Sacred Gurkha.

[@redmi9834]

I worked as a nurse in the 1950's and the hospital was giving aversion therapy and ect to gay men in the psychiatric unit. The aversion therapy often included electric shocks when they were showed pictures of nude males or male genitals and responded with an increased pulse and heart rate. Some places went further and the electrode was secured the the penis. Any twitch down there and they got a low voltage shock.

[@godspraiseweli676]

This captures so many words that I can't even begin to say. I cried cause I realized that this existed even when they were being persecuted. Just wanna say thanks for this. As a Nigerian, I'm still living in a stifled society so this means a lot.

[@laramonroe3363]

Sending you hugs, my friend. I live in California and it is so painful to think how difficult life is elsewhere. Have courage. I wish you great joy.

[@PDD555]

Same here in another country. My blessings for you and hopefully things will change for the better

[@colorado80401]

I'm praying for you and the rest of our brothers and sisters who live in countries where their freedom and safety are in jeopardy for simply wanting to love. Heartbreaking! We have hope though. ❤

[@garytracy7370]

It is heartbreaking to see the smiles and love that many of these photos show realizing that it was short lived and their lives could never be as free and easy as it seems at that moment.

[@NWG1961]

I feel the same way. Many of the photographs made me just weep.

[@mikesam347]

I thought the same way, those carefree loving smiles, a moment in time when nothing else mattered for them.

[@aemiliadelroba4022]

It is better to love even for a short moment in our lives , it is worth. .❤️ To take all the chances that we can , to experience love 💕.

[@elinekoo]

exactly the reason why im crying

[@susanjon8119]

It's a beautiful moment that's short lived that lives in your mind forever

[@provatos]

One moment like the ones in these pictures, can make a whole life worth living

[@CobaltHaze]

Truly very beautiful!

[@blancaalbercafontecha2423]

@@CobaltHaze de

[@madamvaudelune3298]

How well you phrase it.🌷🌺🌸

[@aemiliadelroba4022]

Just one year of love is better than a Lifetime alone .! I know the feeling .

[@firelordOzai3]

Agreed

[@gabrieljosepratadossantos9180]

I just hope they all have had the happiest lives could. Much love for these man, who paved the way for us, and for the creator of this, for sharing this piece of art with us.

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Thanks Gabriel! Check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s". Link to our website above.

[@donaldbragg5018]

I am in my 70's and have been in the closet my entire life. I had a love life this once when in college for a year and then lost it. I loved these pictures. These are the ones who paved the way for young people today to live a happy and open life. Thank you for this post

[@lonchaifetz]

Donald, I'm 70 years old, and although our paths weren't the same, I know all too well what the atmosphere was like when we were younger. Your comment along with these pictures have been very meaningful today. Thank you.

[@heinmolenaar6750]

Why you never came out the closet babe?

[@DaveCeron]

I’m 31, I met the love of my life when I was 23 in 2016.. when I was with him during my first date, I felt that’s I was transported to the 50’s.. so in love, so romantic, I fell loyal to him, it seemed so real to be true… until he broke my heart.. now our paths have changed and there will always be an emptiness inside…

[@peterwy874]

I was born in 1966 and I "came out" in 1981, and even in those days it was still pretty difficult. These photos are just insanely beautiful and they made me cry. I am happy being gay today but it breaks my heart that most of these guys must have been subjected to prejudice and hatred. Their pride and their determination paved the way for our LGBTQ community of today. Whoever you are on these photos - Thank you! 🤗❤️🌈. And thanks to the producer of this video for sharing these photos with us! This is probably one of the most beautiful things I have ever seen.

[@rogerwhite95]

And thank *you* for your beautiful sensitivity and sense of appreciation!

[@peterwy874]

@@rogerwhite95 You are very welcome, Sir.

[@Burlone1]

Well said, sir! ❤️

[@peterwy874]

@@Burlone1 Thank you very much indeed, Sir!

[@tld7195]

They made me cry too

[@stevenbenbow639]

Makes me want to cry. All these guys managed to find happiness back then. Why do I find it so difficult now?

[@sjinzaar]

I am thinking of you now... i feel your ache. Dont worry too much. Happiness will come when least exlected.

[@stevenbenbow639]

@@sjinzaar thanks for your reply... It was illegal back then, but somehow love found a way. So far, love has been a mystery to me. I hope you're right, as I fear a lifetime of loneliness.

[@sjinzaar]

Yeah - still illegal in some countries - even death sentence in I think 8 countries in the world. But please don’t let the fear of loneliness make you fear to open your heart to possibilities. That was (and is) still some of my issues. Are you in a country where this is illegal? Why do you fear loneliness? I am always here to listen. Feel free to chat...@@stevenbenbow639

[@stevenbenbow639]

@@sjinzaar I live in the UK, so I shouldn't be complaining. Surely no one wants to be lonely. I hope you find happiness.

[@kiwiuncut]

Its because we all look in the wrong place and put to much importance on sex

[@SeekerKC]

No matter the specifics of these relationships, I'm all for men being openly affectionate with men.

[@vHumboldt77]

Ditto!

[@victoriapresser3569]

Agreed, things might be very different if men could express their affection fot their buddies physically, in the same way that women do. That might also make it easier to talk about their problems with their friends too; I believe that their would be a lot less loneliness and violence in the world as well.

[@SeekerKC]

@@victoriapresser3569 Yeah, I don't believe it could be anything other than a win/win situation for all.

[@beekeepermariadelgado6806]

Imagine the pressure of how many expected men to have kids and a wife, so many demands but it seems the men are equal, more free with sharing their hearts as one.

[@SeekerKC]

@@beekeepermariadelgado6806 My grandparents lost two friends via suicide back when they were younger (maybe sometime in the 1950s?). Both men were known to be "family men;" marriage, children, etc. It turned out both men were gay, but closeted; only feeling free enough to confess in their final letters to their families. My mind balks at trying to imagine the misery they must have felt. It should not be a thing. Not then & _certainly_ not now. In regards to your comment about the men seeming to be more equal & free... I _think_ I know what you're getting at; however, I'm afraid my not so great, past experiences with female friends might be coloring my thinking on this point. Possibly unfairly. In a way, I actually hope so. I'd rather be wrong than right in this regard.

[@ToddDouglasFox]

Nearly ALL of these men are deceased. What a great tribute to them. Thank you. We are truly blessed to see these couples in love. BLESSED.

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Hi Todd, Yes, a tribute of love. Thanks for commenting. If you haven't already check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s"❤

[@billhartford204]

I’m an 87 year old Gay man, and I was so lucky to have a Minister who taught me that it as OK for men to cry and also that it as OK for men to be affectionate and hug in those formidable growing up years ! Love this Collection, thank you for sharing !

[@dietercmichaels5458]

beautiful, and yet sad, knowing pretty much none of these men are still with us today. My mind reels at the thought of the stories behind these men's lives. But for at least the brief moment that the photos were taken, it is clear they had at least some support, because someone was there to take the photos of them.

[@mykeybalagtas]

Right

[@awesomelife3710]

An entire section is of photos showcased here were taken in photo booths, which also provided support, thanks to their anonymity 😊

[@stellaburnell7947]

Not necessarily. My father was taking "selfies" back in the 1920's , he used a camera which had a delayed timer on it. He'd simply set the camera up on a tripod or just on a table, press a button on the camera , and then walk over in front of it. After a certain time ( about 10 seconds) the camera would take the photo.

[@bobnjeffsilvers5811]

@@stellaburnell7947 what ever u get his point ok .

[@TheDonna1959]

Yes indeed... 💐🌸🌹

[@lotteweill]

Delightful and satisfying to know there was always, at least, a third person there, behind the camera, sharing the lovely event.

[@fishcarpa9596]

LATINOS AMONG FRIENDS, WE ARE MORE LOVING THAN COLD NORTH AMERICANS ... I CAN'T FIND ANYTHING BAD IN MOST PICTURES AND WHAT ?

[@grahambaker1736]

So many of us have been attracted to another man, but for one reason or another we have hid those feelings, never to reveal our thoughts for fear of society, prejudice, family etc. I am happy to see photographs of those that did share their feelings openly! I am sure they are treasured memories.

[@Chef-ud5ps]

That’s because it’s seen as wrong. And some have even said Same-sex relationships are the only unforgivable sin. So people live in fear, or people never lie, and for those who can’t pretend they remain alone and sometimes unhappy. One thing we learned is that life is not Always feel that happy endings and it saddens me to see that some of these guys may have been find out may have lost their lives because of their true love.

[@Chef-ud5ps]

Although this is 2021 sometimes the choice is either to live your sexual truth and be with your true love or be on your own for fear of persecution that is unfair but this is life. We know it shouldn’t be solved but this is how it is. You should not live in fear of who you love you should not be judgedIn any way shape or form .

[@daveletch6326]

Bravery beyond belief. Such is love. They gave us the path to tread....

[@joelarama]

What is going on!!?? Why on earth am I crying??? I think it’s seeing their happiness and love that they have…it’s just beautiful.

[@chanelgarcia9760]

Beautiful beings

[@simon2077]

For me I shed a tear in remembrance of my lover I miss very much & my gay friends that I will always treasure, many of them passed, but not forgotten.

[@sab5700]

I was crying too! so beautiful

[@hugofourie7966]

I cry too as it seems that this is love. Pure love. Love is not wrong. Love is endearing.

[@scotnick59]

I think it's a more common reaction for we viewers than you may think Joel. I am straight but bawled watching BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN simply because love is love and it was sad.

[@tlmccord]

I would love to know the stories that went with these pictures. How their lives played out...

[@hooverguy6072]

probably better than mine.

[@natestilley2812]

@@hooverguy6072 Don't lose hope.

[@natestilley2812]

I am thinking the same thing.

[@agoogleuser6902]

Not knowing adds to the magic.

[@hooverguy6072]

@@agoogleuser6902 Yes you can make up your own stories.

[@carolynholody9281]

It’s amazing that these men were so brave to have these pics taken, given the harsh treatment and prejudice towards gay men back in the day.

[@Androlaxy1776]

The music goes beautifully. Like a Disney Prince falling in love with his Prince. ❤️ And whether these photos are of platonic friends or lovers, it still represents healthy male relationships. Love being the equation.

[@mizginavale22]

I had a smile throughout the entire video. I was reminded of a flower that grows in the desert. In an inhospitable world where gay people were shunned for who they loved, you could still see blossoming love sprouting everywhere. For love can’t be stopped no matter the conditions outside of it. Love always finds a way.

[@cahhdmus]

These pictures are so heartwarming but so sad at the same time. The fact that the majority of these men had to love another men in secret in order to keep themselves safe from society is heartbreaking. But I’m happy to see that at least they shared some intimate and happy moments like this with each other, where true happiness and love prevailed. I’m 23, and I really hope that one day, I can have something like this. But I don’t know, sometimes I just feel so hopeless on finding a man that truly wants something like that.

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Thank you for commenting. It's sad that, still today, couple hide their love in fear of what others may think, say or do. One of the reasons that we created a book was to show that love between same genders has been around for ever. Check our our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s" There is a link to website above.

[@yotube1ful]

Never give up. With a billion guys out there there bound to be millions of men that want exactly what you want out of life.

[@Writer_Lilith_MorningStar]

Don’t give up. He is out there ❤

[@Sousza]

It reminded me of the movie Firebird. It's amazing how these photos take us to a past time, generating a kind of nostalgia, as if we were part of it, either because of the dull environment or identification with the people on it. Who were these boys? What did they do? How did they live? How was their growth? What things did they go through? What were their challenges and struggles? How far did they have to hide? How could they rebel? What did they have to do to be together? ...Some of them might be alive?... If so, how many bitter and beautiful memories do they carry with them, from a time marked by prejudice and hatred to another that is a little more flexible and open to diversity. I just love the feeling these kinds of memories give me; a feeling of hope.

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Hi Azusa, Thanks so much for taking the time to comment on our video. We have a lot of the same questions. :) If you haven't already, check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s" ❤

[@Writer_Lilith_MorningStar]

I love that movie too

[@bob110088]

I experienced love once like this in my youth with one beautiful young man, so grateful that I did. The most wonderful feeling in the world!

[@juzores1]

What happened after that? You were forced to get married to a woman? Or you are a bisexual ?

[@supme7558]

@@juzores1 why would being bi make you never fall in love with a reciprocating partner 😕

[@cloudlandsst6032]

I see many, many love, pure love. All of them are beautiful. And ...I cry.

[@victoriapresser3569]

What a beautiful tribute to those men, who were able to find a way to live their love when it was conssidered a crime and a great sin.

[@KINGFINEGAN]

still is

[@victoriapresser3569]

@@KINGFINEGAN 💜💜💜💜

[@HannieRie]

It's just sad to see this photos btw. Life is too short for this couples. Love is something that should be celebrated with your one true love.

[@Rainey973]

How excruciatingly lovely, especially the military photos. I smiled and half-cried through the entire video.

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Thank you Rainey, we appreciate the compliment. Check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love" link to website above.

[@reneeevans8285]

I often wonder how, back then, these men came together. Where they knew they could be affectionate and not be chastised. How they KNEW the other was like them. Love is love. Beautiful.

[@巴刹那]

Lmao gays can sus ppl out. Usually hyper awareness of their surroundings bc they are aware they are different is a big contributor.

[@keythwarren5075]

Gaydar existed back then too. However love always finds a way…

[@sewgatormomm]

A “safe” place was the nightclubs that were known to be gay. In my town, I grew up knowing that part of the beach was “the gay beach”. We didn’t think twice about it, we just didn’t go there. Some tourists were probably surprised, though.

[@Survivor2002]

I love how these photos represent a moment or two of happiness, for men who had to hide their true selves away for the most part. And the fact that they go far back into the past, confirms a reality that most of us already knew: We Have Always Been Here.

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Thank so much for taking the time to comment on our video. If you haven't already, check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s"❤

[@jorgealves8578]

In times of persecution, love was stronger than fear!

[@twobrokeguyz1214]

IS stronger. Persecution is still around.

[@jorgealves8578]

@@twobrokeguyz1214 Yes it is, everywhere in the world.

[@jamesgautreaux8738]

very well said my friend

[@marialucidemesquitaprestes4910]

Disseste tudo, Jorge!

[@KINGFINEGAN]

exactly

[@traceyacey]

Even though the smiles are short lived, they were captured forever 🥰😍🌈

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

One will never know how short lived their smiles were. Perhaps they had a loving life full of smiles. What everyone deserves in life. :)

[@aknudsen93]

My uncles were gay and came of age in the 1950's. To see men openly display affection and love in these photos, some many years before my uncles time makes me amazed. My uncles had to keep their love a secret in a time when being gay was not allowed and kept a secret. I often wonder what my uncles went through in their younger years.

[@Burlone1]

Thank you for this channel, I wish it was around when I was growing up. I’m 42, I served in the 101st airborne division during “don’t ask don’t tell” , and fellow soldiers murdered a dear friend (PFC Barry Winchell) because of who we are. Seeing these gentleman in uniform brings tears of joy to my sore eyes… thank you so much! ❤️

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Thanks NY-Chaz! Check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s". Link to our website above. BTW, book two comes out Fall2022......The Military edition. (this one, our first book, has approximately 40 military couples in it)

[@Burlone1]

@@loving.aphotograpichistory6240 amazing! Thank you so much for letting me know. You just made my day. I can’t wait to see them. You are really doing amazing things for all of us, especially for the younger generations… thank you ❤️

[@drivinglessons5813]

Makes me realize, men have been loving other men/boys since eternity. Amazing.

[@wobu5361]

boys?

[@drivinglessons5813]

@@wobu5361 meaning, males in general,

[@platoman214]

Truth demands that say, yes, to boys over men, as long as the boy is not molested but simply loved for what he is, thoroughly boy who cares not a fig for the "oughts" of men and wouldn't dream of a lie.

[@soxpeewee]

No nambla stuff

[@rogerwhite95]

@@wobu5361 When you are older, it's not unusual to think of a 30 year old as a boy.

[@johnrogers5399]

I had a terrible time growing up...and a very long story. But I met my partne in 1967 ,the only person who really took time and patience with me, that meeting has blossomed into a very deep love. It's wonderful to have the security of someone there who loves you. The Photos are absolutely lovely .....just remember, those who are older,we were young and beautiful in our youth.Thankyou for this montage.....brilliant,stunning and beautiful.

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Hi John, Thank you for taking the time to comment on our video. If you haven't already, check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s". (published in 5 languages) ❤

[@agustinrdelapuenteh5349]

LIFE IS A FLASH. BUT LOVE WILL LIVE AS LONG AS THE HUMAN BEING EXISTS... COURAGE AND STRENGTH IN THE MEN WHO PRECEDED US...

[@rjn1124]

What an incredibly moving piece. To see the love in these photos despite the challenges in those times is heartwarming. The music really adds so much. At 75 and being with my husband for 44 years, I didn’t suffer nearly as much as some of these men must have but I’ve lived through my share of some of it. Forty four years ago I never dreamed that we would marry. All of these men were pioneers who laid the foundation of where we are today. Finally, some of the stories in the comments section brought me to tears. Thank you all for sharing your thoughts and stories.

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Thanks for sharing and congratulations on 44 yrs. Cheers to many more years of loving memories created together. If you haven't already, check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s"

[@brumman100]

Love is love , you can feel the love in the photos ,beautiful, how lucky are we all in 2021

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Yes, Love is Love. Check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s". Link to our website above. Thanks!

[@jazzdancerman]

Watching all these beautiful young loving men all through these many decades was truly very emotional for me. Especially knowing how difficult life must have been for all of them and realizing that most or all of them have passed.

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Thank you for commenting on our video! Yes, they are gone but not forgotten. They have help to pave the way for future generations, in their own way. If you haven't already, check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s"❤

[@MisterMe1988]

I am such a hopeless romantic....this is BEAUTIFUL!

[@fishcarpa9596]

LATINOS AMONG FRIENDS, WE ARE MORE LOVING THAN COLD NORTH AMERICANS ... I CAN'T FIND ANYTHING BAD IN MOST PICTURES AND WHAT ?

[@natestilley2812]

It's a wonderful collection and the music simply embraces the soul.

[@joedunphy2221]

Beautiful To See Two Human Souls Embrace Each Other In The Name Of Love…Friendship….Comradeship……….These Photographs Of Gay/Straight Men Loving And Caring For Each Other Makes My Heart Full Of Joy And Nostalgia…May God Bless All Those Gone Before Us……

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Thanks Joe! Check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s". Link to our website above.

[@Rian.march00]

Their smiles really represent happiness, and it makes me want to cry cause I want it too

[@RJBIEDS]

Haven’t been on a date in over 20 years…I have one this week and watching this encourages me to go!!

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Have a wonderful time on your date! It's never to late. ❤

[@Writer_Lilith_MorningStar]

Go on one ❤

[@robertaverill936]

The argument that I heard years ago was that some of these beautiful photographs were just of "buddies".. Well clearly some of them were much more than that.. And the others..they were of men who loved each other.. I am in tears.. Nothing more masculine than being unafraid to love another man...

[@robertaverill936]

Remarkable ♡♡♡

[@jamesrobiscoe1174]

The men's boldness to show their affection and want it captured in a photograph is impressive. And kudos to the photographers who didn't shy away. The takeaway is that love CAN conquer fear!

[@vHumboldt77]

I guess in some of the cases they are just twin brothers as many of them look so alike. Which doesn't invalidate the fact that a great deal of the photos may show actual loving guys, though I guess the fashion was to take friends' pictures that way as well. I'm homosexual so I'm not biased when concurring with those who say that buddies could be wrongly taken for lovers in some of these photos.

[@agcons]

Some are "just" buddies, especially the very old photos: from anything I've read it was the post-WWII era that killed the easy non-sexual affection we were previously allowed to show each other. Others look like they're clowning for the camera, but of course there could be more than that as well. However, as you say, some are definitely a lot more than buddies. I hope things ended well for them, even though I know the odds, especially back then, were very much against it.

[@jamesgautreaux8738]

Of course they were buddies they have to say as it is illegal in those days in some countries and others are done privately and some of this guys if you want to know are also married.

[@paulogrocha]

I could not be more touched on thinking about those men, their stories, their lives, their feelings. On every fold on those photos, I keep imagining someone who hides that picture in a man's wallet, hiding from his family. How much those man suffered for us to be here. If we in 2021 still suffer some oppression, imagine them. It's so touching.

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Thank you Paulo. Check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s". Link to our website above.

[@mykeybalagtas]

Wow amazing photos and very heart warming. Im 41 now and yet waiting to have a guy in my life to spend the rest of my life. Thats 1 of my greatest wish!

[@CH3CH2OCH2CH3net]

The musical selections which went with this montage were *sublime* . The music fit *exquisitely* . The music explained the relationships without words having to be used. BTW: I'm 68. My partner and I have been together for 33 years. I had an uncle who was gay. Being gay in the 1960s and 1970s was not easy. I cannot imagine what it must have been like in the 1930s, 1940s and 1950s.

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Hi Mark, Thanks so much for taking the time to comment on and compliment our video. And congrats on 33yrs together. (We are on 31yrs). If you haven't already, check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s" ❤

[@bronwenprice724]

there is a depth of sadness behind those loving smiles, so moving to see men in love

[@ignaciobonilla9694]

Es increíble como una foto inmortaliza en el tiempo el momento de esos chicos, seguro ya todos están muertos , pero estas impresiones vivirán por siempre.

[@appletun0363]

Que cruel decir que todos estan muertos, pero bueno es la verdad... (aunque talvez, alguno siga vivo)

[@josephamaya2619]

@@appletun0363 cada vez veo una foto de parejas gay de esa época, siempre me preguntó que fue de ellos? Y si siguen vivos?

[@HillCountryWine]

My great uncle is in one of these photos with his partner who were together until the day he died. I remember my grandmother sharing stories of the couple, her favorite uncle. Even though they lived together there entire life, they never spoke publicly about being a couple or even that they were gay. My grandmother had 8 children and two were also gay. I have a black/white photo of my uncle and his partner sitting on the stairs of their apartment in New York City in the 60s. My aunt enrolled in the military in 1968 and kept the fact she was gay hidden during her life in the service. She ended up serving as a photographer and served at Camp David. I still have her jacket she was issued to wear at Camp David and other military items. I am the 3rd generation of gay members in my family. I have other cousins that I have also come out. I am so grateful for the generations before me. I know how difficult it was for them and the price they paid. Because of them it was much easier finding acceptance within the family. I have been with my partner for 25 years and married since it was legalized in the United States. Raised two boys, had successful careers and been able to travel the world together.

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Hi Chris, thank so much for sharing your family story. Amazing and truly inspiring.

[@pameladavenport1647]

I just hope that they were all as happy in their lives as they were in these wonderful photos 😘

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Thank you Pamela. Check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love" link to website above.

[@Leroy030_H]

This is so beautiful. It tears me up. Love is the most amazing thing in life. Everyone deserves to experience love in their life. No matter who they are and who they love. It’s great to see that even back in the days men were able to find and experience love.

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Thank you LercyLicious! Check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s". Link to our website above.

[@rjcarter2904]

These beautiful photographs warmed my heart and brought a smile to my face. At the same time, I could not help but be a bit teary-eyed because of the tragedy of men so much in love having to live closeted, restricted, and most likely in fear. But I hope their love made it all worthwhile and tolerable.

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

RJ thanks for commenting! If you haven't already, check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s" ❤

[@rjcarter2904]

@@loving.aphotograpichistory6240 I have and it's awesome. :-) Thank you.

[@xwiirastusx]

Once, as my heart remembers All the stars were fallen embers Once, when night seemed forever I was with you Once, in the care of morning In the air was all belonging Once, when that day was dawning I was with you How far we are from morning? How far we are? And the stars shining through the darkness Falling in the air Once, as the night…

[@jamesrobiscoe1174]

Rainer, you've written a beautiful elegy. Thank you for speaking for us.

[@xwiirastusx]

@@jamesrobiscoe1174 Thank you, but I really can't take credit for the poetry. In fact I quoted a song by Enya: kzbin.info/www/bejne/m5a9cpVnosmajqs&ab_channel=Calescent

[@jamesrobiscoe1174]

@@xwiirastusx So thanks to Enya for the composition and thanks to you for using it so appropriately!

[@xwiirastusx]

@@jamesrobiscoe1174 Now that is the thanksgiving I can live with!

[@jamesrobiscoe1174]

@@xwiirastusx All peace and good will to you.

[@joalexsg9741]

This is a treasure and an ode to happiness, when most other LGBTs couldn't be as lucky, they made it to find each other at a time when repression was even fiercer still. It´s most comforting but, at the same time, we should keep in mind they were rather utterly lucky exceptions, the majority led lonely, unfulfilled lives, many times even being torn apart when they finally met a promising partner for family-arranged straight marriages or any other social constraints. Thank you so much for uploading it here.

[@tomwolfe9358]

We are so fortunate living in an age where being gay doesn’t face the terrible punishments of past generations. I just wish I wasn’t so lonely.

[@joelarama]

Oh Tom…your comment breaks my heart. If it’s any consolation I often feel quite lonely sometimes even though I have a partner. Surround yourself with friends and hold on tight to the hope. My best wishes to you. J.

[@burntcrumpets5616]

I second that emotion 🏳️‍🌈🇬🇧🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿❤️

[@xavierbeurre8064]

Well, depends where you live. Certain countries still have the death penalty/life imprisonment if even suspected of being gay.

[@harvey1965]

Tom ... from afar I send you warmth and thoughts. You are not alone.

[@platoman214]

Don't think the "acceptance" of today doesn't mask the quite possible coming persecution by the neo-right. Just look at Hungary and Poland, and Texas and most of the South.

[@sylviajohnson5863]

So young, handsome, happy and in love. I hope they had good lives ~

[@singlecatt]

You can really see the love shared in some of these pics

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Yes siglecatt you can! Check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s". Link to our website above.

[@nicoletaminculescu3283]

Beautiful. I would love to show these men that the road they paved led to same sex marriage today. To show them a happy family with children and 2 dads or 2 mothers (something that we often take for granted) .To let them know that they were brave and they made history step by step.

[@walkwithmeASMR]

All these people who lived a life. A life that exsisted before us. They grew up, had mates, lovers, careers and families. They had their turn in this world and now it is ours. Make the most of it. Be kind. Be free. Don't give up. Because one day it will be us in those photos. Just memories. A piece of paper with proof that we existed.

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Thanks so much for your comment. So true. If you haven't already, check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s". Cheers to love.

[@donm7823]

TY as I prepare for my 87th birthday what a warm and happy feelings looking back at where my own photos could be within the history. Men loving men -- not fighting -- not competitive -- how wonderfully free that experience is. TY again

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Happy 87th Birthday Don!!!

[@robertl7239]

I came out at the age of 28, during the early '90s. It would be a couple of years before I would openly discuss this with my parents and, to my surprise, they were warm and accepting. My fear was that I would disappoint them. That fear was unfounded. Coming out wasn't political, social media didn't exist, there was no celebration, and life went on. I was fortunate. I got to know my parents and they got to know me. That was truly one of the best gifts in life.

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Hi Robert, Thanks so much for taking the time to share your story. If you haven't already, check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s" ❤

[@janetslicer3637]

I love this more than the first time I saw it! It is absolutely one of the finest compilations of love I have ever seen. I was so heartbroken a year ago yesterday when my husband of 38 years committed suicide in front of my son and I. He had been diagnosed with inoperable pancreatic cancer and never told us. The devastation was enormous and never getting to say goodbye just broke us to pieces. It is why I shut down and could no longer communicate with anyone. I am so sorry guys. I have and will continue to support you because you have shown the world what love really is. XO XO ♥️

[@hughnini2167]

Janet, we are truly sorry for your loss, and such a tragic one at that. We are glad, though, that you have found some comfort and inspiration from this presentation. We wish you all the best❤

[@JeDindk]

What a terrible story. I am truly sorry for both you and your son. All my best wishes to the both of you.

[@cesarspain10]

Most of the people we see here are no longer alive, but I love to think that they're flying forever with the man they love ❤ I was born in 1996, and I feel that there's something magical when you see images from previous eras. You can visit that time for an instant.

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Thanks for commenting! If you haven't already check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s"❤

[@gordon2402]

War,hope,family,faith,peace,life...... I hope everybody has someone to love !!!!!

[@DanielFernandez-jv7jx]

Thank you! So touching. But sad too that they have all passed on into history, as must we all. All love and beauty seems tragic in the face of time. Bless you for these creations.

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Hi Daniel, thanks for commenting! If you haven't already, check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s" ❤

[@matthewwest5519]

I only wish they could have experienced the freedoms of love we have now and the acceptance of who they are. It saddens me to imagine the heartache and struggles they must have endured, internally and externally. But, it brings me joy to see the shared love captured on film. I'm humbled at their perseverance. Love on my friends, love on.

[@michaelstuart1392]

Wow! Talk about a picture being worth a thousand words. I was struck by how happy and peaceful those men looked being together. I kept wondering how their lives unfolded after the photo was taken? Such beautiful records of captured moments in time.

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Hi Michael, Thanks for your comment.😃 If you haven't already, check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s".

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Comments were inadvertently blocked for this video about our book, LOVING: A Photographic History of Men in Love, 1850s - 1950s. We welcome your feedback:)

[@jacarta2007]

Adorable photos!!! Where can you buy the book?

[@razvancosmin5250]

Thank you! It's wonderful!!!!

[@miguelfaican420]

Nice work, How many time It took?

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

@@jacarta2007 not sure if you found the book or not as of yet. you can get a signed retail edition at loving1000.org the book is available in many independent bookstores and larger chains.

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

@@jacarta2007 signed books at LOVING1000.ORG or many independent book stores and larger chains.

[@kaamkmca]

These photos were taken in US, They show real life experience. Let life live!!!! The photographers were brilliant!!!

[@dyonis15]

Love is the most beautiful thing on Earth !

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

ABSOLUTELY Martin! Check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s". Link to our website above.

[@vicb5098]

they paved the road for so many. thank you!

[@leeleefluffy06]

Beautiful collection of photographs and music... Whether they be brothers, friends, partners or lovers, the bond they seem to share is beautiful... ❤🙏🙂

[@lisaherrling6880]

If these photos could talk, oh, the stories they'd tell!

[@andrewwilliams2353]

I'm in my 70s by now and have been "in love" a couple of times. Only with other men, never except for 1 occasion in my teens, with a woman. I've never found anyone who loved me back. So your story touches me deeply. I thank God for the eventual happiness you've found. It doesn't happen to us all - gay or straight

[@andrewwilliams2353]

Thanks for the little heart. That's one for my record at least !

[@JeDindk]

I will try to send you something that I hope will bring you a bit of luck ... ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@ernieragogini3994]

I hope their happiness extended well beyond the beautiful moment of the photograph. I wonder about their lives outside the frame. Beautiful music…….!!

[@stavenads2500]

What amaze me is not the pure love or the indiscutable romantism in those pictures but the fact that, even with all the pressures and the persecutions back then, those men still had the guts to put their love in photographie. I live on a country where i still heard hatefull things about homosexuality, even i'm not closely concerned, i always need to calms down so i don't start a fight. I even heard a boy at my college saying that if one of those "things" approach him one day, he'll beat him up and that he thinks they don't deserve to have the right to frequent places where normals peoples go. Like a place where we receive education...

[@jakemoeller7850]

This was beautiful! Thank you! As a kid, I wondered if there were other guys like me. These images lightened my heart.

[@CobaltHaze]

Same here 🤗

[@davidappleton2208]

Same here. Thought I was the only one. It amazes me how most gays are good looking

[@leeboriack8054]

As a man that grew up in S. Texas in the 60's n 70's, today's opportunities for gays defies my imagination. God bless our brothers and sisters of generations past, brave enough to love despite severe consequences.

[@travelGranCanaria]

Wow, so many stories are here. Make me sad. But watching all these smiles, Im sure they were happy in some way and in some moments. Please, dont forget that TODAY WE HAVE RIGHTS THANKS TO THESE PEOPLE. Take care and be happy. A big kiss

[@spiraljoe1273]

This is beautiful. I am amazed there are SO MANY photographs of gay couples through all of those years when it was so unspoken and taboo. It's amazing how many of them are in their military uniforms too! The fact that these photos have been preserved through the years - I assume by family and friends; which means there was no shame. That is how love should be. These photos touch my heart and my longing.

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Check out our book 'LOVING' it contains 315 images from our 3200+ collection of loving male couples. :)

[@lonchaifetz]

Talk about bittersweet. The deep love shines through in these gorgeous pictures of beautiful men. But, when I think about what the unjust laws and public perception of such love was through the decades my heart breaks. I'm old enough to have experienced both the deep love and brutality of being born homosexual. It's better now and yet still so awful. But, looking at the love and caring in these pictures moves me in ways I cannot completely express without sobbing. Thank you.

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Hi Lou, Thanks so much for taking the time to comment on our video, and share you thoughts. If you haven't already, check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s" ❤

[@2ezee2011]

This is so wonderful. Can only imagine what some had to endure. Brave folks!!!!

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

thanks for your comment / compliment. If you haven't already, check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s". ❤

[@PaulV513]

LOVE. It's the most joyous, wondrous, exhilarating feel all humans can experience. Trying to deny or condemn that feeling, between ANY humans, for any reason, is the worst trait that humans exhibit. It's like saying: you are not worthy of breathing oxygen.

[@chrisdeville6793]

"feeling"

[@davidsavident7518]

All this love had to be hidden. It's tragic. The video is bringing tears to my eyes

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Hi David, thank for the comment. Yes but the still found love, or we hope. They might have had it better off than us in some ways. We wish we could hear their stories. If you haven't already, check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s". ❤

[@freddy4672]

Such beautiful faces, long gone, they found each other, hope they had wonderful lives.

[@miloandalfie5509]

Loving all the affection shown between the men in these photographs. Arms around one another, hands touching and legs crossed over the other's leg. Rarely have I seen this in as many hetero - coupled images. A joy to see, thank you.

[@hmmnothanks5038]

I find it so sad, I’m so nostalgic and I was not even with them at the time, I cannot imagine how they would feel. Thinking that they belonged to a time when people were prohibited to love who they truly wanted. Thinking most of them must have done their lives with women instead breaks my heart. Life is so unfair. Not even mentioning the fact they lived in a period of crisis, and war. Life is so freaking unfair. Now, 21th century we’re all searching for love, sometimes it’s not even love, we’re just faking it, we’re making everything so difficult, we love the excitement to live in danger, we’re sheeps that never stop complaining about everything. At their time that was real, real love, real danger. And they were good with that, appreciating life as there were no tomorrow. Now look at us, we’re so pathetic and I feel so sorry for them and for us

[@jimgale2079]

If your humanity blinds you to the joy of the companionship, love and contentment that these couples share, I can but shed a tear for the appreciation of the love embraced, secretly, quietly, boldly that goes unseen, unheard and under-valued as one of God’s greatest gifts to humankind. One only needs to look to experience it, embrace it and demonstrate it to your fellow travellers.

[@MrBUHLEBUYEZA]

So mesmerisingly beautiful yet followed by a wave of melancholy and finish of with an intense sense of love. Something about their faces, it’s like they wore their hearts up on they faces. Through their faces, you can see that they were immersed in their worlds Uknown and to others beside them.

[@loving.aphotograpichistory6240]

Thats beautiful Patrick! Check out our book "LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s - 1950s". Link to our website above.

[@MicaRayan]

Those are pretty portraits and old school poses. I love it to a tee! So innocence and beautiful 😗 You've done great job compiling it

[@harvey1965]

We've always been here, quietly, discreetly ... forever! How magnificent to ourselves reflected in photos spanning decades past and times gone by - a rich history, normally hidden and unacknowledged, in glorious black and white, full of beautiful men in love! Thank you for this wonderful video: it's brilliant.